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That shicked😍

Aww I love that!

Thats by far my favorite quote thank you for sharing this

Carl could express the repressed..

Thanks

I totally agree!! Every TED I listeng to I find incredibly penson behind them.

I do the same 🤣😅 or in traffic .

It puts you in a good mood because you are experiencing BETA MIND your mind is constantly looking for this you have to feed this beta and you will live the life you couldn't even imagine. Thank me later

@Seth Martin & everyone... So many good Ted Talks... and my friends! Consider taking your time with these Ted Talks. Too many in 1 week, and most of it gets forgotten as there isn't enough time to reflect and consider where to apply any advise to your life. Reflection is as important as the Ted talk hitting your ear drums in the first place. Be well and Happy.

Guess that's why girls know their place

This is also one of the most misunderstood. This DOESN'T mean to take the power away from others to solve their own problems. It means to have the ability to stay calm and grounded when others are in chaos. The "move, I'll handle that" could be read as taking control - and while that's certainly necessary sometimes, especially in an emergency - it's most often a bad idea, for both the self-reliant person and for others. Not only does it contribute to burnout, feeling a lack of appreciation and overwhelm on the part of the self-reliant person, it can cause others to feel a lack of self ability and self worth, lack of resilience and co-dependency for those whom the self-reliant person is "saving." So all of the people in the situation come away feeling hurt, misunderstood and unhappy. Helping others build resiliency through your calm example and support on the other hand is a very healthy and good thing for all involved. As a recovering "fix-it" person, this is a very powerful and important distinction. Without it, that calm center is neither genuine nor long-lasting, and can be blown away with a single adverse event. Repeatedly. Sometimes, fatally.

A state of equanimity

@@IrisCrain yeah i learned that from being a co-founder for an ecommerce brand... things went sideways and i went into my "gotta save the business mode" and i ended up making my partner feel like he is not contributing and ended up burning myself out... but it was hard because every task he under took... it was always subpar... i am wondering if his confidence was blown

Batman Mode

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How dare you talk to me like that!

@@megasbaladoros ha ha me too! Felt like taking a bullet when I realised it.

Procrastinaters are perfectionists anyway because they always wait for perfect time to do things in a perfect way, which unfortunately never comes.

I've been noticing that about myself a long time now. Still working on changing that 😩

@@zeehuss7275 you know, I've noticed that in me and I'm trying to change it :) and I've progressed a lot

I felt that too

And in a way, hurtful when you don't have a good opinion of yourself and you believed that you just needed to see that you're better than you thought

Can someone explain this? :)

@@TheCureIsMe Without knowing it, we can have poor opinions of our own worth. We silently (sometimes not silently) question our value to the world and that gets us behaving in ways to try to prove to the world (or mostly ourselves) that we are worthy. Those behaviors of constantly striving for approval and acceptance, prove counter-productive to rising in our lives. If I think poorly of myself, I will frequently self-sabotage my life. When my worth is no longer questioned, I can meet my potential and become a greater version of my self. I've seen this said this way too "We live up to our identity, not our potential."

@@LarryTartisel Thank you for taking your time explaining this, it makes perfect sense now!

I struggled with the concept of loving myself for years until I realized I can and should love the LIFE I’ve been granted, that is inside of me.

Thanks much...... seeing this makes it stick way better 👏👏👏🙌🙌🙏🙏

If you ever notice, sometimes we become friends with a very vulgar person. They say the worst of the worst words but you never curse in front of them. Eventually you will see they will think twice before doing so. Seen it many times and they do it automatically

Nicee

Thank you ! For putting it in words

Thank you :Pray:

Damn

That's a great sound but the whole talk did nothing for me.

@@stratosphere2323 This is the reason we must recognize and respect how finite we are... yet, remain in the present. As long as suffering exists in the present, our choices, actions and how we spend our lives matters.

This is the best Ted Talk ever

@@souleater0815 of course it did nothing. You need to something, not the Ted Talk

jonesarikpo85... It's funny to see that each of us "captured " different points. My take was: 1. Stop putting/viewing the wrong things into our minds/body meaning program ourselves to listen better , by not being a passive listener 2. Peer group.... Change it. Love your family, but don't allow them to control you and with that cultivate good friends that understand you .(not manipulate you) 3. Re-magnatize your compass (your inner-knower) 4. Know that your decisions are Your own choice. 5. Get things done (stop waiting for the world to change... 6. BE THE CHANGE.

Live Life to the fullest. ❤

Impossible with toxic family

Wow🙌🤜🏻👏💪🏼👌🏼

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Anyone who drives a vehicle deserve to be in debt coz they are hurting Earth.. Many mad man like David Attenborough have no rights to express how he feeling about da world when he is part of the problem

If you really need your account fixed then I recommend Chris_hacker11 on !G he just recover my disabled account successful.

Thank you my friend, same to you

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@@PriyankaGupta-ew1li pleasure priyanka

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How so? What happened?

i love that book so much

What book is it

@@asmitaacharya5731 the perks of being a wallflower

I'm not sure I fully understand what this means. Could you explain a bit further please?

@@JiihaaS It's a bit difficult actually. But I guess it's rooted in your self esteem. If you don't value yourself, other people read your body language and don't respect you either. And you're OK with that because that's what you feel you deserve. Someone mentioned, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, an underrated but very deeply thoughtful movie. That's where the phrase comes from. Watch it.

False, Jesus loves us more than we love ourselves

Wrong jesus DOES

Jesus is I am. and I am Jesus

@@sadimoney only If you have the holy spirit loving in you then you are able to do great works as jesus did. But it's a slippery slope claiming the I Am bc only Jesus is the true I am. When u allow him to work through you not taking any credit for yourself but giving him all the glory then ur statement could be somewhat true. But it's still a slippery slope. Hey I'm just saying it bc I've been there with the I am and dabbled with the occult and new age. But once the love of God speaks to ur heart, u realize u were nothing without him and u are made in HIS IMAGE to rule the earth and have dominion over it. But he wanted to work hand in hand w u, never for u to do it alone. So its depending on how ur using that statement...."I am" at least in my eyes speaking from experience. But I'm not trying to argue or have a debate. Or say that you are wrong. Only that Jesus Loves you more than anything and he knows you, and you were never created to do this life alone. ♡ much love to u

Not true, sometimes others can love us more than we love ourselves

Thank you !

Thank you Derek for your authenticity and vulnerability. I'm very humbled that you allow me to hold up a small mirror to remind you of your own greatness. Peter Sage

guy was wrong - low opinion of ones worth drives greatness.. high opinion of ones worth - they will never rise

@@ezrc9294 Not true. Having little inspires action, but only in those who feel they're worth it. Schwarzenegger is a perfect example. If you don't feel you are worth it, you simply take your lumps. What you are talking about is that "I'll prove you wrong attitude", or when others don't believe in you...but it is only capitalized on when you believe in your SELF.

@@tourproven 100%. That is the statement that changed everything for me. Why could someone who has my talents and abilities actiks I do? A deep lack of self worth.

IM THINKING THE SAME. This is one of the most important Ted talks.

@@capri2673 I actually wrote this comment after watching it for the second time, that is two weeks ago. I had originally watched it almost two months ago, practiced what he suggested, and the results were magical in the first week itself. Now its just something I do without an active thought. Just try it 🙂

@@sathyadeep156 what did you practice specifically? I might try it too

@@exchangeofwisdom8475 Basically his first two points. 1. Stop putting the wrong things in - I've uninstalled all news apps and stopped following the news in general. And yet, the news that is truly essential, always came to me. I've also uninstalled all kinds of social media - Instagram, Facebook, quora. The first week was hard, but the benefit of a calm, peaceful and a positive mind? I'll take that any day. Now I don't even think about these apps. 2. Start putting the right things in - I watch a lot of Ted talks similar this talk. That's all I mostly use UKposts for. Anything negative, people or channels, gets unfollowed or deleted. I also have been reading self improvement books. Two books I highly recommend are - The power of the subconscious mind - by Dr. Joseph Murphy and - Attitude is everything - by Keith Harrell. 3. Ripping those hardwired programmings out - I don't really have a mentor, I use self affirmations heavily and meditation to change these negative thought processes and habits. Another channel you should definitely look into is Adam Roa. Hope I was of help :)

@ChinHwa Dave please Who is your mentor???

@Vicki Sams That's impressive I will look her up ASAP

Proctor Gallagher Institute 24/7 Live Stream on You Tube same stuff

@Darcy hahahahahaa

I do think this is one of the greatest ted talks. It's not as fun as Simon Sinek's, but it's more important. (Atleast I think)

I'm in love with him after listening this talk.

Absolutely, this is gold. So glad I ran into this today 🙂

Happy 400 likes

being well aware of it is a start

Be aware of people feeding you negativity. If you can, separate yourself from that person. Love yourself, be patient and don’t be critical to yourself. Pray to God to give you the strength, to help you deal with negative people, to help you with self healing, to release your self limiting beliefs and be grateful for being you. Be patient, practice talking positive about yourself and being grateful for what you have, you’ll regain self esteem/ confidence. God bless.

Me too bud, me too. Hang in there

You are enough!!!!

One of the most important thing left out. The environment influence over you, and the influence of the others on you....

6.change your environment

@@lucasdias9557 well spotted Lucas

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How much time did you save by using ur instead of your?

Yes, I love it!! Our real Work here is to listen to people and to ask about their unborn dreams.

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Yes

Which part of the video did he say that? Why did he say that?

@@exchangeofwisdom8475 10:53 he says this because you need to surround yourself with the right people (positive people) that help you ‘deliver’ your dreams

I just turned 23 and I completely agree, really shifted my mind

Me at 25

knew this but right know i learned a lot after seeing this video in 24.

I see the people that you follow and the videos you post, you are capable of growing and becoming what you want to be . Whether you’re doing it for fun , money or fame . I think you’re capable just keep pushing and uploading your vids . Even when you feel like it’s not going anywhere don’t give up and try to find a way to reinvent yourself . I highly you recommend you pick up this book called “How to Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill . I’m about halfway through rn and it’s been changing the way I view myself .

Turned 23 five days before

Just make sure to get off UKposts now... :) (I have to say this to myself, I know haha)

@@bastian6173 haha, yes, watch with intent

You got this 🙏👍

Good luck ! 🤘

Everything will turn out great! Trust! 👊🏻

Be encouraged. Without knowing you or your situation, I can still assure you, with confidence, that there is a new life awaiting you. You posted a day ago, from somewhere in the world...and I found you this morning from where I am. We didn't meet by accident. Life is like that, my friend. Many people have traveled this similar road before you...and there will be many that will find it long after you've healed from your challenges. Learn as much as you can from these experiences. We are all students and teachers...simultaneously....and you will have great stories and lessons to share with those who follow behind you. If you've ever been in a dark room, then you know from experience that it takes time for your eyes to adjust to that darkness. But once your vision adapts to that environment, you begin developing the ability to see the room again. Yes, it's still dark, but your senses will work together and you'll find that you're able to move freely in a place that once confined you. Give yourself plenty of time to "adjust" to your current dark place, pal. You'll start to see again soon, I promise. I wish you every great blessing for you and your future. Be well.

@@stefanlane4517 Love this reply, thanks for posting 💯☺️🙌🏾🌇

yeah😁

My dinner mate is frequently talking about all the awful events she watches on the news, and discusses it with others at our table.l pretend to listen, but am enjoying listening to happy music on my earbuds, trying to tune out the negative things that she's reporting from the traffic news she's heard and watched on T.V. l often eat out instead to avoid this negative conversation, to help keep my mind in a more positive frame of thought. Trouble is, l really like this person, but what she often talks about disturbs me so l often try to avoid the situation. Any thoughts, advice from anyone reading my report, please ?

@@suziquestionable2845 i mentioned this in another comment but isn’t having a conversation about these issues what brings knowledge to the general public sparking change through voting, activism and more.

@@suziquestionable2845 Maybe try taking an interest in these topics.🤷🏽‍♀️ Being positive is not about zoning out important things and living in your bubble of ignorance. (not trying to be rude). You dont have to be interested in every topic out there...but just make a habit of reading the news paper and then try to understand the problem and think critically. but dont let those events ruin your state of mind. and thats where positive thinking comes in...in order to think positive your mind has to be challenged.

@@suziquestionable2845 Seems like it's an incessant need of your friend to grab attention and full-fill their own needs of awareness, so that's why she already has this habit and need to constantly talk about the negative stuff happening around just to have a topic and something to discuss on. I would nicely ask her to not pour / share unnecessary negative news with you since it brings you down and it's something you didn't ask for it, it's just dumping negative energy on you, if she's really your friend, she should be more aware of your needs. Also, people say you have to watch all the news to know what's going on in the world bla bla, yes for sure, but one thing is to know generally what's going on and another is being glued all day reading all the catastrophic details, wasting time and putting in bad mindset, especially if you can't do anything about it, personally. If there's a specific topic that is truly close to your heart (any activist issue), then by all means go for it. But just blabbing about issues and wasting time in negative things without any real solution, is just none sense.

That holds so much truth

Really I like this too 👍

Powerful Statement ❤️

Could u explain the "if it's important enough it'll find me" part? I get it, but I wanna be sure I grasp in proper context. Thanks!

​@@A....S.... If you don't learn your lesson The First Time Life tries to teach it to you, don't worry because there will be more opportunities! (Lessons are repeated until they are learned)

You’re supposed to learn from their story and take things away

@@lilid5016 I know

After they get their hands on some of your hard earned money of course

I'm so sorry you have terrible experience with life coaches! I believe in energy exchange for the transformation that you want to see!. When I coach it's never about me it's always about the other person. I'm not in it for the money I'm in it for the transformation and raising the Vibes of the entire planet! Depending on what problem is you want to solve and how much money might be wasted on this problem it could be a good time to think about investing in solving the problem. This is energy Exchange. It's not for everybody. But on the other hand everybody has a coach! Whether we're paying for it or not somebody is guiding us in our life. We are learning. We are earning. I think it's about the energy we put on money. And of course the come from. Where is the intention coming from? Living 40 years with the conditions.... I have invested in myself to unlock higher purpose. And it is an energy Exchange. School children have coaches. The elite have coaches. I believe life coaching is just now becoming available. Hopefully on a sliding scale as I believe everything should be. Depending on what the needs of the community are. As I coach earn money to help transform the lives of others.... to better myself. To better my community. The shift and raise the consciousness especially for people who've never experienced the elitist life. I work through subconscious to that place of worthiness . Investing in ourselves could be the smartest investment we make. People will spend over $20,000 on a car and think $1,500 to improve themselves for 3 months it's too much money! I'm sure if you add it up how much your problem is costing you it's more than $1,500 for 3 months. Have you ever read books about the energy of money? Sending much love and just sharing my opinion. Hopefully my work will never make anyone feel yucky or like I am taking from them. It s about the come from. And the problem u want to solve

You can also or maybe should love your family from a distance!!! If they are not supportive of your goals!

I agree with you. He is brilliant. You must be brilliant too.

Ohhh I resonate sooo much with the latter, “choose your friends” they can be your downfall if you are not careful. Blessings to you🦋

@@drmikep23 Olli ox& lo88

It's cause He has SelfMastery. Hes badass!😂

Agree!

Thank you for amazing qoutes

These are all beautiful words to live by. Thank you for sharing

Update?

Any updates

This is exactly what I'm thinking about! Only catchy bold titles seem to make these people click.

Totally agree. Hope this video gain more attention because I learn a lot from this talk alone :D

I agree, it's an important video. (Advanced too)

UKposts don’t want to many people watching this.

@@jayking4636 The algorithm is terrified of this man's overwhelming, sultry powers

It happens a lot unfortunately. I have heard similar stories. Once we lose belief in ourselves it is hard to get back there.

Would be great if someone could help him get on his feet.

@@jjbarker7450great thought

This is so heartbreaking to read. I don’t know who this man is, but I’m sending him my prayers and so much ❤️

People are always surprise when I tell them about some homeless guys in my town that were doctors.

yes me too.

@@idimarus3278 lol meet you for tea with the madhatter

@@jeffgoldygold haha

Same here

So how are you guys doing today?

He said that on the Video? I dont understand the quote😶

default characters are just the main characters in a story, extras are just randoms

Be the star in the movie of your own life, or play an extra in someone else's movie.

Thank you !

This sounds like a good tip

we are not our thoughts. we are the ones observing them.

Our lives are the results of our thoughts feelings and actions. We ARE not any of them.

You only have control on your thoughts and actions , when you will realize this is gonna be ok

The man is kicking wisdom

The Bible says watch your thoughts because it runs your life

This is brilliant👌🤗

i feel you brother me since a little child bern abused by my own siblings and people around me everyday and there’s no single day in my life that i didn’t hear any mockery or belittle words from them

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Same to you. Thank you!

Hang in there and do your best!

Yeah got that right...

yes I see that too

I really understood that too.

I don't think always, sorry, there are those that face whats around and defy the commonality of the environment. Dont agree.

@@daphnefish small % Daphne very small

This is the best of the best Ted Talks on UKposts ❤️

You too grown get over it

It is called Conditioning my friend...it takes a very long time to get out of your mind's conditioning....

@@MentalCraxk I wish you couldve have said a more considerate one. It's true we are too old for that but it's difficult to overcome it completely. There are times it comes back but twice stronger than the previous one. We relapse to our old unhealthy ways. however, i can translate your words into encouraging one. " Get over it... Because you've got one life to live the best of it. Your struggles are always temporary. Keep bracing yourself. Lastly, what you feel is valid.

Work harder. Work really hard because the harder you work the more resistance from your conditioned mind. But I guarantee that you will win if you don't quit.

Life is not suppose to be all about hard work tho. Why live in resistence 24/7? Rather try creating your own ideal environment (home) ; ground yourself in nature and around animals. Balance ur physical, mental, spiritual and emotional life most important

Hahaha

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Agreed. Very captivating and solid.