But how many times do you forgive them if hurt happens repeatedly?

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@@RASHME20That is a situation I am currently in as well. Having trouble forgiving because it keeps happening by the same family member. And unfortunately I do not have the resources to pull myself away yet, and it is a family member so not someone you can easily let go of. What I am learning is the best thing I think to do is firstly accept that things are the way they are. You cannot cannot control them anymore than they can control you. We can Try to create as much distance as we can from those people and when we do have to confront them, to do our best to create boundaries and stick to your true values, and work on empowering ourselves and living in unconditional love. Try to have some empathy. It is extremely hard and will require a lot of effort on our part but there’s not much else we can do when stuck in that situation. There are people like this in the world and we can’t always avoid them but we can learn to deal with them and exercise self control.

@@RASHME20 I think in that case it’s your responsibility to do your best to protect yourself from their continued abuse. I believe you have a right to not be abused. Jesus talked about letting the person strike you on the other cheek as well, but I don’t think he meant that you should be beaten in the face constantly for the rest of your life

we aim forgiveness at ourselves in our culture but it’s a grieving process… and you have to first accept the past which is also a grieving process nobody is ever gonna change how they feel for you you can still self affirm and grieve out how shitty how they feel makes you feel as you get it out of you how they feel bothers you less and less once the resentment you harbour towards yourself for finding yourself in that situation to begin with is gone so is that person from your mind it’s nice when they no longer control you emotionally #2Spirit #indigenous #spirituality #philosophy

Yes it really is hard.

I am finding myself feeling so much more charitable since going NC. Even wishing people their own healing from WAY over there. I understand that for some people it’s more difficult to go NC than for others. But it was impossible to forgive and also impossible for me to heal while being continually (& purposely) hurt.

So TRUE,,, It's really Hard ,,,,💔💔

Forgive and leave it in God’s Hands: “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, o“if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” _ Romans 12:19-21 “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly. Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their. trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. _ Matthew 6:14-15

@@neelk18only if you say it’s s hard. Once you say it, you create it.

Totally. I'll think I'm healed and have moved on but it creeps back up and flares up again. My therapist told me sometimes it's cycles and each time it releases till it's gone. Hope so

Seek and ye shall find

I feel the same way… so how do you truly forgive that person.? do you just tell them you forgive them but also tell them you are choosing to no longer associate yourself with them ? Or what

How to forgive people who bully you

@@manu8098 Bullies are weak. They have low self-esteem. They expect a reaction so they can satisfy themselves. The last thing you want to do is, making them happy. Therefore the best revenge you can take is, move on with your life and forgive yourself. In the end YOU are the WINNER.

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💜 very true, once one releases the hot coal, true healing begins.

If they can drop it that is (many can't due to pride, conviction...ego.& external "support")

@@joebutta7539 You are Right! I am familar with all those reasons. I have found the best way for me..is to just Ask God to Bless EveryOne and kind of lump them and try to overlook the specifics. I married a man who treated me with disrespect and some of the children too. We are old now and his second wife died..I did pretty good when he was married to someone else..but my son built a house and has put us back together and now all the old feelings flood back as he continues to treat me with disrespect and expects me to honor him. This is tough! I am really praying for Gods Help. I don’t want bad for him but I don’t want to be treated like that either. I feel bad for my son. He meant well..but I don’t think he realizes the damage that was done to me. I Need to be Saved!

People who knowingly and willingly harm others for their own personal gain believe that forgiveness is a weakness. They are wrong. If you forgive, you get the last laugh, because when you forgive them, and even praise them in spite of their evil deceits and manipulations, your act of compassion heaps Karma upon them. They really hate it when they screw you, and you thank them for it. That is not the reaction they were hoping for! People who cause harm want to provoke their victims to anger and revenge so they may profit by it, but instead, "pour hot coals over their heads" with a benign response, as Jesus taught. Jesus said, "love your enemies, forgive your enemies." When they exhibit no remorse or repentance and continue their malevolent behaviors, the Karmic backlash catches up with them. It boomerangs on them when we respond with compassion instead of anger. Never seek justice in anger because that is the true weakness, and bad people know it. Buddhist teachings are the best kept secrets! And as the Hindus say, forgive, and let Karma do its work.

Hello how do you make such monthly ? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God...

Isaiah 45:3 speaks of a transfer of riches from the heathen to the righteous... I will give you the treasures of darkness and the riches hidden in secret... I received this for my household in Jesus' name. Amen!.

What a testimony!!! 🙏🙏🙏 I'm genuinely curious to know how you earn that much monthly?

I started pretty low though, $500 thereabouts. The returns came massive. Liam is in school doing well, telling me of new friends he's meeting in school. Thank you Claire Morin, you're a miracle

Can I also do it?? My life is facing lots of challenges lately.

This is called astang marg ( octagonal path)🙂

@@mitalpatel3088 It is also called Eightfold Path. Namo Buddhay 🙏

Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🐅🐅🐅

Forgiveness is not so easy. We are all creatures of habit, things , methods, thinking methods of living , Growing up again environment around us we do not really understand what is driving or motivation others to behave differently, Ignorance is extremely difficult to eradicate. Same peoples same response appears so auto mathematically. Any easy remedy to begin with……..

May Tripal Gem Bless you 🙏.

Too late... You should have liked this comment when I posted it!

Meh maybe

Would any women forgive a Rapist

The answer is no

Nope. All pain is NOT self created.

@@darkfeather6857 ALL EXPERIENCES ARE SELF CREATED. THE WORD "SELF" IS NOT REFERING TO THE HUMAN IDENTITY, IT IS REFERING TO THE HIGHER SELF, ONE'S TRUE ESSENCE.

Do you forgive and still associate with that person u do you tell them you have to let them go

Hi mam can you

Study Buddhism ☸ 💖.

We lost own country ,thousand of monks n nuns were killed.sprituial leaders were forces to kill each other.our hightest spiritual leaders force to leave own nation.n refugee in others land...we still forgive them because we have faith in buddhas teaching...but sad is Non of buddhist nation or buddhist try to raise voice against devil's china...infect sharing what they looted from us...and helped them to change the history..

Jesus was buddhist monk.we have an archaeological evidence for that

Yes. Hurt people, hurt people

Be it known: Through the Holy Spirit, God has put it on me to preach to those lost in the devil's deceit! I tell ye, truly, Jesus of Nazareth is the propitiation for the whole world's sins. He is the anointed one, for he is, Jesus Christ. God the Father has raised him from the dead; who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God! Angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life: no one comes to the Father, but by him. They who believe and are baptized with the Holy Spirit shall be saved; but they who believe not shall be damned. For they who believe not on him, shall die in their sins! I tell ye now to repent of your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you'll receive the gift of the Holy Spirit upon asking the Father! There are *NO* sub-divisions of Christianity. You're either a disciple of Christ or not. A Christian is someone who follows God's word, not a religion. Who obey the Father and follow his will; not man's nor their own heart's. Unless you keep Jesus' commandments, think not the Holy Spirit will dwell within you! They who heed this message and did what was stated with an open heart to God... Read the Holy Bible (KJV) daily and every time before you read, pray to the Father and ask: "Lord I ask that you give me understanding of your word, that I interpret it the way you want me to, and none of my own. I ask you in Jesus' name, amen." 1 John 2:2 KJV 2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world. Acts 13:26-33 KJV 26 Men and brethren, children of the stock of Abraham, *and whosoever among you feareth God, to you is the word of this salvation sent.* 27 *For they that dwell at Jerusalem, and their rulers, because they knew him not, nor yet the voices of the prophets which are read every sabbath day, they have fulfilled them in condemning him.* 28 And though they found no cause of death in him, yet desired they Pilate that he should be slain. 29 *And when they had fulfilled all that was written of him, they took him down from the tree, and laid him in a sepulchre.* 30 *But God raised him from the dead:* 31 And he was seen many days of them which came up with him from Galilee to Jerusalem, who are his witnesses unto the people. 32 *And we declare unto you glad tidings, how that the promise which was made unto the fathers,* 33 God hath fulfilled the same unto us their children, in that he hath raised up Jesus again; as it is also written in the second psalm, Thou art my Son, this day have I begotten thee. 1 Peter 3:22 KJV 22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him. John 14:6 KJV 6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. Mark 16:16 KJV 16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned. John 8:24 KJV 24 I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins. Acts 2:38 KJV 38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Luke 11:13 KJV 13 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him? John 14:21-24 KJV 21 *He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.* 22 Judas saith unto him, not Iscariot, Lord, how is it that thou wilt manifest thyself unto us, and not unto the world? 23 Jesus answered and said unto him, *If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.* 24 He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and *the word which ye hear is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.*

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So happy to hear and so true. :) May it continue to help you!! Namo Buddhaya!

@@mahe4102 NAMO BUDDHAY🙏

If I can recommend you something, that is 'Mahamevnawa Toronot Buddhist Monastery' which is the same organisation this monk is from. I suggest you see some videos there too, as it has helped me so much. Hope it helps you too! Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏼

@@mahe4102 IT IS THERE IN SOME OTHER LANGUAGE WHICH IS NOT UNDERSTANDABLE , and THERE IS NO ANY MONK TO EXPLAIN SUCH BEAUTIFUL WORDS LIKE THIS MONK DO ...🥲

Write a letter to whoever has hurt you. Call them all the names under the sun. BUT the last line is I AM WILLING TO FORGIVE YOU. Sign it. Then tear in to small pieces and throw away.

​@@Daisy-oi2jywhat a good meaningful exercise Thank you u know Thank u so much 💞💞

You are so welcome. By writing a letter it brings bad feelings into physical reality. By destroying letter it clears things. It has the same effect as shouting at someone, you feel better briefly but then you may feel bad/guilty . By writing the letter has the same effect but the other person doesn't know. It works for me every time. 💖

Yess it's true

Forgive and leave it in God’s Hands: “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, o“if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” _ Romans 12:19-21 “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly. Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their. trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. _ Matthew 6:14-15

Forgive and leave it in God’s Hands: “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, o“if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” _ Romans 12:19-21 “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly. Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their. trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. _ Matthew 6:14-15

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Buddha is one of prophets who are sent by God..

🙋‍♀️ I do🙏 !

@@abdulmajithg 😊 we all are made by God

​@@animewings2787 who told you that? How did you realise that? The concept of God is created by people! It's all about belief. Buddhism is not about belief. It's all about reality!

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Yes, it's like not forgiving them is signing up for perpetual victimhood.

Hi mam can we talk 🦜

Hi mam can we talk 🦜

❤️Happy Easter Blessings Dear Kelly!🐇🕯️🌹🙏😇✨💛✨

The person who is hurting you is the hurt person: hurt people hurt people. It is the other person's weakness and not yours. When you realise that the other person is in pain then it becomes easier for you to become less hurt by them. You begin to have compassion for the other person, and in turn, true forgiveness comes easier. This takes practice, I know this only too well!

@@lovelightshining4444 happy Easter my dear friend ❤️🙏

@@rainbowgirljules Thank-you Julia! I really appreciate that!

Just walked away from this negative person no more connections with these people Be happy and enjoy your day ya