When will you break down Keanu Reeve already????

uh btw the title for this video is the same title for the joe rogan video so you may want to change it.

Is it intentional that you uploaded this video with the exact same title as the one that was about Joe Rogan? (Instead of calling it "How to Deal with Disrespect Without Being a Jerk", or "How to Command Respect Without Being A Jerk, Vol II") You openly stated that you're being experimental with your thumbnail and video title, so I feel like this might be an intentional experiment.

Could you do a break down of Niall Horan. He is charming and effortlessly seems to make friends with everyone he meets.

A great fresh topic to cover could be the art of charisma through language barriers. I'm about to embark on my own journey for 2 years abroad, and can't imagine what it's like to authentically connect with people who you can't fully understand or communicate with. I've heard you touch on the subject of enthusiasm as it relates to this, but I think it would be valuable to hear you do a deep dive, given your experience living abroad.

That's brilliant, I love that!

your friend' s mother , has class. One can not buy , class .

Wow. That response was brilliant in every way. I hope I remember that & use it if I wind up in a similar situation.

I like her lol

Xlnt recount. As a friend was becoming increasingly more abrasive with me, I suddenly stopped listening respectfully, looked her directly in both eyes, and said coldly " You can never talk this way to me again." It stunned her mid-sentence, she was silent, almost frozen for 8 to 10 seconds as I held eye contact, and she re-animated and said "You're right. I'm sorry, you didn't deserve that." Things have been on a more even keel since then, but we'll see. I don't need an apology nor any capitulation or "a win"...I simply want certain parameters of engagement to be followed when talking with friends. If I wanted a fight, I'd go to a bar, where it's acceptable for conversations to escalate quickly to shouting and insults. But not ever with friends or family. Proximity and emotional investment do not necessarily open the gates to intentional injury or agenda-based attacks. If we are in a relationship where we would normally be open and caring, it is not okay to use that proximity and closeness as a weapon or entree to deeper nerves and more painful attacks, which is exactly what happens in most self- consuming love/hate relationships. Taking advantage of that intimacy to hurt someone is against the rules, and simply, openly shows how immature that person's real feelings are toward the relationship. It is a hard lesson to learn and many relationships don't survive that growth process. Adults still have a need for internal growth, and need to learn the lessons of forgiveness, patience, and perspective with their families, friends, lovers, and even strangers. Simply not accepting bad behavior is a step toward a better relationship. But it can also be a step toward no relationship, too. Some people we just grow away from, or grow out of. Others we grow toward and often, we grow with each other. The garden analogy fits especially well when dealing with weeds and chronically destructive behavior. Encourage fruitful, healthy behavior and relationships, expect little or no returns from weeds and corrosive others. If we give respect, love, compassion, patience and positivity, and get none in return, it may be time for a "lesson"...but likely it's time to "lessen" our own burden and "listen" to our gut...move on. There are far better things to do than to try to change others' behavior and habitual negativity. Fix or forget...like an old car or classic stereo. It doesn't really matter how much you love it, it may be beyond fixing, and you may simply be in love with an image or an idea, rather than the reality. Keep the dream, toss the reality? I love old friends and old cars and hifis. Guess which ones are easier to maintain. Aye, there's the wicket! Cheers!

I've noticed a lot of comedians are good at controlling a room. Most likely from their stand up performances and dealing with hecklers.

I've allowed my difference of opinion to color my views of him in the past. I also used to feel he was overly verbose, putting on airs so to speak, but thanks largely to this channels analysis have come to respect the man's skills.

@@oliviahafner561 too wordy? Eh, we often like least the things in others that we dislike most in ourselves.

@ I'm not sure that was an insult.

@@HigherPlanes I didn't think it was. I was overlaying my own views of him on myself. I saw it as humor. Joys of written communication.

Handled it like a boss

Savage!! Love that, great tip!

Maybe learn to take a harmless joke...

@@MeadeJ67 Not harmless and she was working. It's inappropriate.

@Boyer Ranch ooof... Sure do follow a lot of pretty women for someone who doesn't like them. Is that why your wife never shows up in any of your videos?

You’d be a good interrogator

That's pretty cool. I need to put that in my toolbox. I think I've tried it before but it won't work on those who don't already respect you.

You have a horrifically high opinion of yourself.

​@@pnpgutterfoldit's easier with being comfortable with silence. Not every second of the day has to be filled with talk between people

It's crazy how obvious it is when people lie and they literally will do it to your face like you dont know. XD

King Isaac Blah, blah, blah, blah..

King Isaac you arnt loud enough

Coming from someone who named themselves king

I know right! Whenever I’m talking they-

@Salt Serpent yes?

I utilize that technique all the time, it's easier though when you don't care for conversing with most people in the first place, and being an introvert also helps a lot.

I'd have more respect for you than someone who forces us to listen to them finish a sentence.

What when those people finish their sentence with "am i right?" trying to push your response

@@projectfear22 tell them your honest opinion

so passive aggressive silent treatment then. divorced yet?

Thank you for sharing. Great tips 👌 👍 👏

Great! You're doing awesomely! And you will only get stronger and better! Cheers!

"Don't let people build imaginary power over you." ✨️ 💪 💯 What you said there is my ultimate, all-time favorite new quote.

I do this as well. If it's above my pay grade, then I send it to the higher-ups. But damn dealing with people is too much. I'm not at a job where I don't interact as much. I have to take a break for about 10 years, I think😁

Respect!

Same all the way around

Good luck man! I also have narcicistic parents, only that I don't have this issue because they enjoyed the fights. Hope all goes well

I understand that to well 🫠

That happened to my husband, but my narcissistic mother had the opposite effect on me: I cut into and interrupt others so fluidly it just feels like natural conversation. I really thought that's just how I talked to people until I moved out and then visited my mom and sister and realized we don't converse normally at all. It's been a huge point of contention in our relationship.

@@nothere3982surely u must know brands narcissistic behaviour. Omg I can’t believe u ppl can’t see this is his payback

He obviously has been around people a lot.

@@ganymeade5151 As has everyone else but his level of thinking separates him from the majority.

@You are correct But That statement would have the same affect if it was left unsaid.

@@neavo8421 ...and yours would be the same with affect or effect.

Russell Brand is the definition of a slouch... lol

You don't, you are not, you do and then hours later it doesn't matter. Just be yourself and not the labels you have attached to yourself

@@mickharrison7262 thank you for your words :)

@@nadeshkaholmes9511 You are welcome. I haven't told you anything you didn't already know

I think the most important thing to do is to take yourself out of the equation, if that makes sense. Focus on the words, but don't associate them with yourself? You have to put distance between what someone says about you and how you perceive it.

Like they’ve said in the narrative several times, remove yourself from your ego...don’t take things personally. Observe what is being said as if they were talking about someone else.

Well, they're always liberals. Intellectually humiliating them in easy.

Russell nudes to learn how to relaxe his throat muscles because he choked last time we met.

Yes, he is a master manipulator.

​@@derekpierkowski7641Painfully unfunny

​@derekpierkowski7641 ...you need to spell before you comment ...😂

He's a nonce

Too bad Russell Brand couldn't be more controlled about "signals" to women OFF camera.

@@gaiagoddess8009 So should this video be taken down, then? Are all the lesson irrelevant?

You've never seen the media interview a conservative? This is typical.

@@user-bo8en7rl6yexpecting the truth isn’t disrespectful

@@UKpostsChannel-dk5xv watch his UKposts channel. Specifically interviews on his podcast

How he's calling them out without being negative is truly impressive.

@@neilkerray1 Listen to his podcast with Sam Harris to see how grossly inadequate and overrated Brand's intellect is..

@@UKpostsChannel-dk5xv you're entitled to think he isn't that intelligent, but his emotional awareness is undeniable.

@Sim I think you nailed it. Brand is brilliant in the way of social intelligence. The dude can read a room. I think what makes him brilliant is he takes the stance of a student. He wants to learn and asks far more questions than he does state an opinion. I'm not a massive fan of his comedy, but I love watching interview clips of him because of his social navigation skills.

Guy is a charisma king. Don't know any better.

@@Sam-ng3of conan and ramsay

Conor Mcgregor is up there

Daniel Iles - Small Business totally agree

It's easy when you are a sociopath and have been programmed with MK Ultra for your role in the public ;)

Living a role can lead to bitterness and frustration.

Lol i was thinking that for a second all this guy does is highlight the things that happen in a clip but i guess it's good advice.

i thought the exact same thing hahahahah

Thank you Captain obvious

@@fisherg.6204 U sir, r a troll

@@jamesroberts325 thank you for the compliment

Having control of your ego. You already know we all have one.

Opinions of who? This logic is beyond comprehension

@@Litt13F00t Really? It's pretty simple. Other's impressions and expressed thoughts about YOU. Their opinions. Surely you understand, you're a smart person.

@@2degucitas I was attempting a joke going with the idea that without an ego there's not really a "you" in the common sense of the word. Usually "you" or "I" refers to one's ego, so to say you don't have an ego seems like it would imply there is no "you" to be bound by other's opinions, nor is there a you to be freed from them. Its obviously an extreme (I'd say impossible) to say someone doesn't have an ego at all (even if its near entirely removed from the perspective they have of the world) and I think that's what makes this strangely complicated and almost impossible to talk about logically. It's possible there's just been some confusion/misinterpretation though

@@Litt13F00t Ok thanks. Comments get misunderstood every day.

I am not sure what point you are trying to make here. There are many reasons for a name not being a person's favourite word and some of them are quite unsettling as the use of the name brings in some terrible memories. Perhaps, they are not being defensive or aggressive. This is worth remembering and not making a judgement.

I'm one of those people. It makes me feel like the person is trying to manipulate and dominate the conversation. If it's naturally said then I'm fine with it but if it's deliberate I get very annoyed by it.

Yeah I actually hate my name and cringe when people say it. I rarely use other people’s names for the same reason

@@lynziekirby8882 I was making the point that while it IS normal for most people to respond positively to being addressed by their name, some people will actually get upset about it (like me). The whole video is about controlling hostile conversations.

Yes. I come from the Southern Appalachian mountains, and people from here typically will become much more guarded if a person they don’t know well deliberately uses their first name.

Just wondering. Why are you repeating the talking points in the video?

@@palomarjack4395 Simply I write it down for fun ;)

@@palomarjack4395 also, why do you ask me that question? I’m curious 😊😊

@@sophiedavidson1579 thank you for the quick synopsis. It's good to see it all written down and sometimes I'm not in a position where I can watch. I'm sure there are others who appreciate this text

@@MattCannady exactly, I'm glad op has written this out

The signals are called that because they are intended to trigger less or more of the behavior the other person is exhibiting. The amount of a behavior isn't countable, so less is correct in this context.

Only real OGs will get that reference...

Chris F A signal is a discrete thing. What you are describing is "signaling," in which case "less" would be correct.

OKAY. I WAS WATCHING THE VERY SAME STANNIS QUOTE SECONDS BEFORE I CLICKED THIS VIDEO.

It's not the amount of behaviour, it's the amount of signals. Signals ARE countable. A signal; one signal. The word 'signal' doesn't describe a descrete thing. Behaviour is more abstract. So I'm pretty sure 'fewer' is the most correct word in the context of 'signals'.

I actually can't remember a single case where I have avoided to say what I wanted to say as a result of someones reaction. Or when I think of it, my mom being mad at me as a child and not letting me speak, almost threatening me did that. But mostly, that seems like a very strange concept to me

Everything serves a purpose, even as a bad example. They served that purpose perfectly!! 😜

May all you wishes come true. God bless 💫🙏🙏

The Clips are so short I'm having a hard time figuring out what is really going on in that dialogue

​@@doumkatekzit's available to watch in its entirety on UKposts if you search for it. I had already seen it before happening on this video

At one point Russell points out how Mika is holding a bottle of water while she was confronting him. I have to say it was kind of sexy and she was blushing.

It is actually a Narcissist tactic too.

We're taught to do it as teachers. We call it "the longest turn". When a kid says something smart arsed while your back is turned writing on the board, stop, and do a 10 second turn and stare.

@@narcissus79 oh, I remember some teachers doing it in elementary. It shuts up annoying kids quickly.

As an ex teacher the death stare + silence is v effective 😁

Doesnt work with everyone and its not for everyone

Yes, Do this, and everyone will say that YOU are the scintillating conversationalist, when you actually said next to nothing at all. You just listened and made a person feel worthy for a moment. Because so few people actually listen to other people, the fact that you listened is a special treat.

Agreed… Regardless what people say about him… love him

Ditto!!

He just straight up doesnt really care and says what he thinks

Mika and her group are immature and not funny… they think they are intelligent and cool but they are not!

I watched this program at that time. They made me feel very tense and I barely could believe how rude they were with Russel. I thought Russel would be walking off, but I got amazed with his power and flexibility - he showed mastery in emotional maturity, intelligence and communication skills. Bravo!

He is smarter than all 3 collectively

They were so rude and cringe to him. I was have told them off and left during the interview 🙄- children

Someone said years ago about the political scene in Wash. D.C., "That place is toxic. They destroy people for sport." This sick state of affairs has expanded to our entire media industry.

Nanoo, Nanoo

@Jhon Krasnovskiy pretty sure I was born on Earth but ok bud.

So Zuckerberg doesn't feel alone

I agree...clicks back arrow.

Haha

Barf. He's a blowhole.

Wow. I didn’t realize that.

And both are key to his sense of humor. I really miss seeing him in movies but watch his channel a lot. Very intelligent, articulate guy.

Agreed ❤️

Simply on another level... most people don't have the minerals to handle a 3 to 1 barrage live on TV. Kudos to Russell. Top man, very underated.

i love the part where russell looks at him like "oh look at you, you poor little sauasage, asking which i prefer: films standup or TV... asking your little journalist school day one question, arent you adorable thinking you have value and input" fricking hilarious.

I disagree

Typical of snobbish New Yorkers. One of the worst in the country.

It’s because while a lot of people respect Russel he has a very unpopular image that hosts pick up on whether to attract viewers or make the show more enjoyable. I like the guy

Americans being americans

Why not a rb fan? Just curious

@@natedog69420 Fair question. At the beginning I didn't find him entertaining, funny or likeable. There was a lot of hype around him and I tend to dislike that too. I didn't actively dislike HIM, however, until the puerile "humour" with Andrew Sachs. I am warming to the guy now though. It seems a few years and experiences has knocked lots of rough edges off him. He seems a considered, thoughtful man.

@@rooramblingon895 interesting. I felt the same way about him i think back when i was a teenager and he first popped up. Been listening to him past year or 2 here and there though, more lately. I think hes friggin smart

@@natedog69420 I agree. Also pretty balanced and a lot more humble than he used to be.

He did well under the circumstances - but talk about a low quality interview/exchange.

EXACTLY

I always do 1 when rude ppl cut me off, but in an Asian country, especially to the elders or in an hierarchical culture/ environment, it's seen as rude. But I'm an Asian and I don't care 😆

Thank you for outlining the bullet points of this video. As a person with brain injury, I don't absorb things as easily as I used to. Having multiple ways to sponge in knowledge is something that I appreciate. Great job!

Did anyone notice how far apart that woman's legs were when she was sitting on the interview couch?

@@slagparty yes! and right after that I wondered why men can sit comfortably and women have to be composed, or what would others think

It really is though; when dealing with ad hominem, just pretending it didn't happen is one of the most disarming stances you can take against the person attacking you. And in the end, they didn't say anything that mattered for the conversation so why *wouldn't* you ignore it?

It was more complex than that. By jokingly raising his voice at those people in the back he also sent a powerful warning shot signaling that he is prepared to create a very uncomfortable situation if necessary. And it was a brilliant move.

@@KolyaNickD I realize it's more complex than that, it's just funny the way he says it

"If a Bully punches you in the face, just pretend it didn't hurt you" lmao, all i saw is Russel being made fun of, that doesn't happen if people respect you

+Agora1 L

@WORK PLAYLISTS haha, shut up.

@WORK PLAYLISTS Internet is the bible on steroids. You sir are totally wrong. We are better humans then ever before.

How to be likable human

@@BlaDeKke not quite like a Bible, but definitely a great tool to better ourselves.

@WORK PLAYLISTS I see what you did there. The internet is a *net* negative. Good joke.

Reality is stranger than fiction

StupidityKiller - well you’re not wrong 😂

XD so true.

@@Hgulix62nice quote.

That second title is very vague, this is much more specific and subtle, and actually practical. I obviously know this is a joke but this is just for those who are gullible or dont think twice about what they read.

it seems surreal doesnt it? Who in their right mind thinks: "i know a great method for interviwing this person: i'll gang-up on him with 2 other ppl and insult him straight to his face" like wtf

Little Miss Dysthymia yes ma'am, exactly. New subscriber!!

I sincerely hope they got fired for that debacle.

@@vashsunglassesPure Toxic.

@@vashsunglassesWell said

Especially when we are talking Mika she wants got upset and said quiet part out loud... said it was "Their Job to Tell You What to Think" basically aaying we control the narrative, you will not challenge it! And also they will have control of the overton window. Study on who Mika's father was. I think they they had him on as a way to semi destroy him as you look at what he speaks of now, Truth

It goes to show that this type of media is a dying breed. They never translate well to the internet when they display this kind of behaviour. An old format that has not realised yet that the world has moved (or is moving) on.

It seemed to me that these abilities came naturally to Russell Brand. Maybe he's gotten better with time, but in a general sense, it doesn't seem like he needed to learn these skills. Wondering what you think?

Don’t comedians deal with hecklers regularly? They probably need to handle them effectively to get the audience on their side and have a good show.

Media consultant?? That’s 3 sentences in one & not even a coma !!

Kat got him mixed up with Willy Brandt, the Chancellor of West Germany in the 60s and 70s. It sounds like the MSNBC people are older than you, and being in the news business, they're likely more familiar with Willy than Russell.

Thanks, I was so confused about that part 😶🤣

@@lisagd22 I'm old enough to remember the 60s and 70s but mistaking Russell Brand for Willy Brand is ridiculous.

@@Brendawallingbear I agree; they should know better.

It is so UNPROFESSIONAL on their part I can hardly believe it was done spontaneously.

I’ve been wanting to read one of his books for a long time now. I’m curious if you have, and if you recommend it?

His you tube is filled with fantastic interviews. Good stuff ✝️❤️🇺🇸

@@cindymancini6153 I just finished Me tors and Recovery and I highly recommend both!!

@@cindymancini6153 I am currently reading Recovery, it is a wonderful resource if you are struggling with sobriety, makes me feel like I'm one of the cool kids.

Beautiful...beautiful man.

Yeah, I know. I open my mouth way too much!

@@sunriseboy4837 The trick isn't to keep your mouth shut all of the time. The trick is, to know when you should open it. 😜

I too am an advocate of walk silently and use a very big stick! or however that saying is supposed to go. Nothing malicious. I swear... Teehee.

@@SixthScaleAtYale Like you, I am silently content with the size of my stick. 😜

And calls up old men with Johnathan Ross and humiliated him, which ended with him eventually dying. With them scum bringing him down for their own entertainment 😡

I agree whole heartedly. He is brilliant and WELL-MANNERED.🎉

Isn't it grand! I understand completely. Good call.

Ikr autistic girl (or at least that`s how others perceive me) who loves this channel for eons

Dude, they don't get it easily. Sometimes they don't get it at all. People in general don't understand or contemplate why they avert their gaze at certain points in a conversation. This is rather high level stuff ^^

i think the most people have a struggle with this :)You are not alone .

90% of people don't get this. It's too much for anyone to grasp completely. He's selling you something. Remember that.

Definitely noticed that, and got a chuckle from it. Good eye. 👌🏻👌🏻

Secretly wishing she could make out with him.

Appealing to her...vanity.

@@ShalomEntirety1 that's the only way.

@@ShalomEntirety1 That was his way of bamboozling her. So flustered she couldn't think properly. He's brilliant!

Thank you!

I took a photo of this as a reminder on the go.

1,2, and 11 are enough for a good start

Thank youu!

Thanks for the summary, Detaching ego; one of the most important things you can learn to do in your whole life. Reading the [Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle] and [Waking Up - Sam Harris] will go a long way to help you with this.

HOW IN THE WORLD AREN"T YOU A FAN HE"S THE MOST AMUSING HUMAN BEING ON EARTH

Aaron Hydes That’s interesting because to me he just seems like either a pompous narcissist or a raging coke head. He does not appear masterful at anything in any way whatsoever - but that’s just me.

vondahe He kind of seems like a jerk, but he gets what he wants in that conversations

@@vondahe you don't know what a narcissist is if you think he is one. He is strong and won't let anyone take his power. You don't like him because you don't get him. He was very much different till he had a spiritual awakening. He hasn't taken drugs in over a decade. I'm a hippy and know if someone is in on drugs or not

@@eeeehuu2130 was a jerk. He is much different now. Go watch his UKposts stuff where he talks with people like Brian Cox and Derren brown. He is not the junkie jerk he appeared to be many years ago when married that pop singer

I've done almost the same thing. I changed the word "you" to "your secretary", then presented the question directly to my doctor.

Personally, I don't think calling someone "hun" is very respectful.

@@dianeyoung8068 I really hate the word hun - so condescending.

@@dianeyoung8068 Agree. But here it represented a big shift in this woman's behavior.

Tell them " its nice to be important but more important to be nice" usually clamps them up.

My Mum, who was very English (i was born in Australia) was very adament that this is very rude, callng somone He or She when they were present. She would say "SHE is the cat's mother" meaning you can use the word she or he when referring to an animal but not a human being when they are present

so are you , virtual friend

Yep classic call centre angry customer control , let them run out of screams and anger and then leave it quiet until they apologise then fix the issue

Switchboard operator? The real question is how you're accessing UKposts from the 1940's?!?

You sound like a weirdo

What of in group convos? do you ignore that one person?

Liberals.

@@D_Marrenalv Russell is a liberal

amazing how you can call someone out by not even saying anything and just staring at them in silence l_el_

It was MSNBC ….say no more

@@McSnezzly those show hose probably the political correctness type of liberal and i don't think Russell is like that

Johan Abrams pijjjii

Never underestimate the power of ignoring your nemesi

I try to continue my sentence but sometimes it gets confusing to hear two sentences at once. I almost have to plug my ears to avoid losing track of what I'm saying. I'm obviously not going to do that, and I have a comparatively small voice so it doesn't usually help me to get louder. So I just switch my focus from external to internal and basically talk to myself until I finish. I guess it really is the best response to being interrupted, even if it doesn't mean keeping the talking stick.

The tip with switching to a deeper chest voice instead of just "speaking louder" is so great, thank you!

Lol

Yeah too bad he cheated on his wife

😂

He's the type of person that has the hardest time living in a clown's world. Logical, intelligent, compassionate and kind people have an invisible target on their back that most of their lives will not even realize it's there.

It was so compassionate of him to call his girlfriends grandfather (Andrew Sachs), an old man, telling him how he had slept with his grandaughter (Georgina Baillie)

@@freezedriedzombi8242 Which only proves that he’s a fallible human, just like everyone else.

They're trying to "outcool" him, which can't be done.

...I believe it is because Russell Brand does not fit certain agenda's...

The guy didnt align to their politics, they treated him not just like the enemy , but like enemy that is garbage. One would think TV stations and press should be impartial and only present the facts not the optics or politically correct narrative .

That is how they treat anyone with whom they disagree. Nothing new.

@@3Angela Aye

Michael Rivera I like how you made him bilingual.

He's pretty gifted. Very few have mastered both the English language and the English language.

Sharper? Mate he literally swallowed the dictionary.....he is incredibly intelligent, witty and sarcastic without being rude. No one could challenge him and when anyone tries they fail miserably

Sharper than all of them- robots and marionettes...

Quite the opposite, Russell is far dimmer than most of the public realises.

Ikr! 😆👏 I watched that part a few times, that subtle smile was great! I know how it is when you do this and people still just don't get it 😒😂🙄 I'm over here taking mad notes 😃🤣🤣

Yes, absolutely!

John Wick, eh?

11:35

I mean, he is Neo.

He literally says in the video that one is coming

That's what should be done. I do the same, and I ignore the loud ones who try to exclude others. The problem is the loud ones will soon Complain and be loud and really cause a scene .. about what sweetie 😂 about being treated the way you treat others???

Youre an empath.. 🙌

​@ray h. So you are saying they are the John Wick of hurting peoples feelings?

@@TheJeremyKentBGross *hurting

Queen bee syndrome.. women can be utterly vicious in the workplace

I work as a cashier, i feel you!

Totally true, it takes energy to engage somebody with eye contact and acknowledge their presence that way. If you don’t feel like engaging for those 2 seconds, it’s obvious that your energy is depleted in that moment. It’s the fast paced work environment. It’s unnatural to the psyche

I’m so sorry you have to deal with that. I used to barista as well and some people treat you like you’re worthless. You’re not - they are.

I stopped going to a small coffee shop because one of the cashiers there was extremely rude to me. I’m never rude, and very soft spoken and shy, and when I got to the counter, she very coldly said “what do you want?” With a disgusted look. This doesn’t typically happen to me, so I was taken aback and blanked out on what I wanted to order. After a few seconds of silence, I just turned around and walked out. I felt bad and thought I had done something wrong for some reason. I haven’t gone back.

@@ascendednightingale2456 actually I think you handled it quite well. Without a word you let the other person know that her behavior was unacceptable.