when a man says "I'm not ready for a relationship/commitment" ladies believe him the first time

Ever since I heard Steve Harvey say, “don’t let a man have to tell u twice he don’t want you” I felt that and I been going on ever since

Chris did this girl wrong he cheated on her, left her came back and still had a child behind her back and yet folks are coming at her. She was obviously in love and was betrayed

Too many women fall into the trap of thinking their love will change a man. But if he tells you what he is, believe him.

I don't get how people call her stupid and make fun or her and call her weak.. She was in love with this man and she made excuses for his mistakes to keep the relationship that she wanted to last.. People act like they never been in love and never been in situations like hers, where you make foolish decisions because you love someone.. it happens to the best of us

I really do feel sad for her. She's not the first woman that lost herself in a man. I hope she can find the strength to love herself before she loves a man

Iyanla is trying to stop her from blaming herself she's guiding her to talk about how SHE feels and not make excuses for chris. She's not being rude.

And Chris said girls ain't loyal.

How could you lose her smh, she's gorgeous

When she teared up, it made me tear up because it truly hurts to give all your love to someone and have them deny that true love, even if you're willing to wait.

I remember when Rihanna was sitting on a couch crying over the same man 🤦🏽‍♀️

She's a sweet girl. His loss.

she's a psychologist, its her job be honest with her and get her to face the facts and get a deeper understanding.

It's so upsetting to see a woman who doesn't know her self worth. If a man hasn't done his inner work it doesn't matter if you're the nicest, prettiest, most understanding woman in the world he's going to end up disrespecting you in some way.

I always come back to this interview after my breakups...in some way it gives me strength as she moved on 😭

SHE sound sooooooo heartbroken...we've allll been there. I'm glad she sticking to her work and away from Chris. He did a number on her

she's like a sweet lil girl, becareful who you give your heart too

It just proves that no matter how beautiful you are, if a man doesn't want you or want what you want from the relationship HE WILL CHEAT. It sucks because there are so many men out there who would love to give her what she wants/deserves but she didn't love and respect herself enough to see that there are better men out there.

poor karreuche :(

K went ahead and healed. She loved herself and Vic came through ready to love her. She's happy now. Fulfilled. May she never lose herself again, in love and life. I'm happy for her

Karrueche is settling for Chris Brown, he isn't the type of person she wants to marry, but because she loves him she's settling for less than what she deserves. Nice girls who want to settle down like Karrueche, need to stay away from guys like Chris Brown who just want to have fun, and don't take commitment seriously. I feel so bad for Karrueche.

I love how honest she was. She is so sweet. When she said "I can wait for him to mature" I felt a lot of women can share that experience.

This lady interviewing her is going wayyy to hard for no reason

"Just speak what you feel, just speak what you feel." Then shut up and let her, stop putting words in her mouth and using influential questions! Counselling 101. 😓

A lot if people are complaining about the "interviewer". Baby that's IYANLA! That's her job Lol.....she always gets you to pull the truth out of yourself and face reality. Sad part is, this generation hates the truth smh

She was not weak, she was naive. She thought she could change him, even when he said he didn't want to change😕

She's a young, beautiful, strong girl. She needs to focus on HERSELF.

The power is not in the heart, it is in the mind. Our hearts are weak. We women need to build up stronger minds and stop being led by our hearts.

Ive got mad respect for this girl after seeing this. She is so sweet and easily pushed around. Men like Chris are awful. Karrueche girl we've all been there. you are so brave to do this show

this makes me so sad :(

Omg I can feel her pain. Even before she started crying. We’ve all been there. Love is blind and when a man tells us he’s not ready we think we can change him cause we have alllll this love to give and it’s so amazing. Unfortunately we waste it on them and end up getting hurt. Stay strong ladies 🦋🙏🏼

One of the most beautiful women I've seen in my life!!!

she needs to be single so she can find herself

Shes so beautiful. I hope she's finally going to move on

Oprah interviewed Rhianna Iyanla interviewed Karrueche ABOUT THE SAME MAN!

I'm glad ilayana was blunt + straight up with her, because karreuche was clearly in denial about the whole thing..

Man the interviewer ate her alive lol you can tell karrueche tried to talk her way out of a lot of subjects but that just didnt happen

I love Chris brown's music but damn when him and Karruche broke up because of the cheating and baby scandal I was really disappointed. First Rihanna and him break up because of the assault and now karruche and him break up because of him cheating on her and having a baby mama! I feel so bad for Karruche because people are making out it was her fault. Karruche seems like a classy and loyal girl I think Chris screwed up. I think Karruche and Chris were meant to be. I think she invested more time into Chris and his problems than any other woman.

Not going to lie when she started crying tears rolled down my face, because I've been there and I know every girl in this comment section has.

I gave my everything to a man that I thought was going to be my partner for life. I stood by him and gave him confidence to start his own business and we moved away from everything and everyone we knew and I was there helping him through every obstacle. Bad weather, cold very cold conditions that we were not use to, even drove in black ice by myself to pick up his supplies, long hours in the negative numbers to do whatever I could to help pull my part. We have been all over the states and I was willing to go outside my comfort zone to do whatever it took to help. For him to come back to our home state and betray me while I had my surgery and couldn’t drive or be there for his very demand! I lost myself in this man, I pursued his dreams and let mine fall by the wayside. Now his with the one he cheated on me with and I’m left with the thoughts in my head where did I fail? What could I have done differently? Where am I ? Who am I ? How do I get me back? Where do I go from here? Why wasn’t my love and commitment enough? Why did the see me? It plays over and over likes broken record! A lot of prayer and telling myself something positive everyday about myself is pulling me up of the bottom of the floor! It’s not easy! It’s a process! I tell myself I’m striving to make it to that light at the end of the tunnel because I know it’s there! God is my strength and he’s never left me, even in my darkest moments, and believe me you go through some dark moments that feel like a cloud hover over your head that’s about to swoop you up! I called on payer warriors and I thank God everyday for them. I do have another chapter, and I’m stronger in this next chapter, I see me for who I am in this chapter, and I love myself again moving forward in this chapter.

I think it's kind of wrong and insulting to call her weak. A weak individual wouldn't have the guts to sit there & talk about the situation. Yes, its unbelievable that after all the things Chris did, she continued to stay with him but at the end of the day, none of us know what their relationship is like. From what I've seen in life, Sometimes when people really love someone, they do the craziest things & hold on to the hope that it'll work. I believe in loving something that has flaws, and that being said, I think it's obvious how much she loves him. However, it's probably about time she starts putting herself, and her well being first.

Hopefully she can move forward. Sometimes you just gotta have your deepest love be dead to you in your mind to move on. In order to do that you gotta cut all ties. She's blind in love, and deserves so much better

Such a beautiful woman and spirit ....... smiled while she cried .......

Watching this and seeing where she’s at in life now gives me hope. She was so young here, soft, genuine, such a dreamer. I’m glad she’s being taken care of now, she deserves it. ❤️

all she did was love the man, just because you are strong enough to walk away from someone who did you wrong, do not think that others can do the same. Whether you decide to stay or leave you still love them. She is a woman who loves a man that is bad for her, nothing to get mad about or turn into little demons about. Stop being mean it's disgusting and childish. Pain is pain!!!

The matter of the fact is that from what i'm seeing here, Chris Brown loves himself a weak woman because he is not man enough to be with a strong woman who will not let him act the way he does. It didn't work out with Rihanna who was not going to let that last for too long, but it's working with Karrueche who obviously has not enough experience to see through his behavior. If ever Karrueche moves forward, Chris will go on and the cycle to seek women who are weak and easy to control will continue. Unless he decides to change, because no woman can and will ever change him -- he will be doing this. Karrueche in general baffles me because she pursued into a man that she knew had way too much baggage, and continued to love him anyways. In the beginning she had a choice over whether she really wanted to be with a man like that. She KNOWS it's because he's Chris Brown because i bet if he were a normal guy and she did her research and knew about his baggage, it would have been no right off the bat. Karrueche had a choice. All of the signs of what was to come in that relationship was crystal clear and for that reason i do not feel bad for her.

I can understand how people may feel as though Iyanla was trying to manipulate the interview; however, Karrueche wasn't going deep enough. I felt like Karrueche was skating over the real issues. If you want true counseling, you have to be transparent and completely open up about your feelings and why you feel that way. If you don't expose your true feelings, counseling won't be as effective. I agreed with how Iyanla was coaching her. Don't just say your truth, explain how and why it hurt you and what you could have done to avoid it. Most of time, we are the cause of our own pain in relationships because we avoid those powerful red flags as warning signs that something just isn't right. With that being said, I feel bad for Karrueche and I hope in time she's able to heal.

This woman is beautiful, she has personality, she knows how to cook, and she's caught up in a woman beater? I hope she can realize she's worth so much more than that. I know she will in time.

This lady is making me feel really uncomfortable she needs to back off and let the girl breath.. she's basically breathing on her face and very demanding "CLOSE YOUR EYES, NO.. STOP TALKING, TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL.. YES YES" ew.

You'll know you've found a real one when he ain't afraid of commitment of any kind.

This is so powerful the way she worded it out in the end - I was genuinely tearing up !

I feel so bad.... She's hurt 😥

I really do like Karrueche despite all her haters. I hear that she wants a traditional relationship and wants kids. I just don't understand why she thought she could have that with Chris. He is far from traditional. Everybody can see that, even his fans, There are so many good guys out there, and she decides to be with Chris...

WHOOOOO HIRED THIS INTERVIEWER!? She even made ME feel uncomfortable!

She is adorable and he found her at a time that she didn't know better. I remember being that naive at her age

Karrueche PAIN was so deep from that relationship.

She deserves better

You'll be okay Karrueche, unfortunately we've all been there! You're beautiful inside and and out. Chris Brown is the last person to deserve your tears.

You can tell that she's hurting even when she's smiling and laughing. I do that too, I can't help but smile when I'm breaking down sometimes. She's trying to hold back the tears by smiling

she's so beautiful

I'll hate to sit down with Iyanla. She'll make all your feelings come out. Even feelings you never thought you had.

So proud of her for sharing. Your bravery helps others. Thank you

she's such a beautiful strong woman, it's so sad seeing her go through pain like this. I hope she gets the true man she deserves

Iyanla is very great at her job. I'm not the type to open up or break down my walls. Everytime I watch her on certain episodes I really cry because she helps me through the television and I'm not even in her presence ! I commend her. Yeah sometimes her approach is a little intense but she's GREAT

karreuche so cute i can't, her face is small and youthful and the way she talks😍 lol i wanna hug her

"I need to keep you in your heart." ❤️ Iyanla is the Mama we all need.

This lady is too controlling omg 😑

LOL "Wait Wait HOLD ON stop the interveiw what are you feeling stop and close your eyes and let your tears fall tell me now". Dang woman.

She seems like such a nice person. I hope she finds the strength to move forward with her life and find someone who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated.

she is seriously so gorgeous

She’s so young it’s so easy for young women to be deceived and played. Every woman has experienced this.

We've ALL been dumb for someone before! Even if it was just once!

God bless you K. May you one day find the happiness you truly deserve. And say "thank you Lord for removing this darkness from my life" 🙏

I can totally empathize with this woman, it brought tears to my eyes while watching this. When i first met my fiance he was the same way, didn't want to get married, we were both coming off longer term relationships so I was right there with him. Cut to 9 yrs later and he still does not want to get married, "its just a piece of paper" is his go to reason for not wanting it. Tells people to ask me why we are not married since I have not planned the wedding yet. You can't plan a wedding when both parties are not 100% wanting the same thing. It's what most women do, as Karrueche stated, you hope to grow together and expect your partner to mature and change their mind so they want to marry you. It rarely ever happens this way. ps. Iyanla is not an interviewer

You can tell all through this comment section who isn't ready for change. yall too worried about how the interviewer got to the answer instead of her getting to the answer in general.

"I feel hurt because the man I loved never loved me as much as I loved him!" Just assisting you Karrueche.

In 2022 kaeruche has grown I claim that GROWTH

I know what hurt & betrayal feels like it SUCKS there are no words to describe that kind of pain💯

I’m sure she’s learned her lesson now. Sometimes you have to go through hard times to realize what you deserve. When a man tells you and shows you he’s not ready for commitment believe him. You cant change a person. They have to want to change.

Karrueche, you are a beautiful spirit. Your light is bright girlfriend. You are too good for Chris Brown. Don't throw your pearls to swine darling. This is a bible verse. Check it out. I'm sorry he hurt u. I know words won't change that, but I see your shining spirit and you will come out for the better in the end.

Where the whole video at doe 😓

I feel that was therapeutic for me as well. I was in denial for soo long and didn’t want to believe it. I need to do and be better. When he first tell you how he feels or his goals. Believe him the first time.

I appreciate this interview ...Thanks guys :)

I've been there and know that hurt too well. You live and learn not to allow yourself to be back there ever again.

Lol, some of yall dont even know Iyanla, which is apparent because some of yall think her occupation is being an "interviewer". Read her IMDB biography and come back and tell me what this woman has not gone through.

She is gorgeous and she don't need him. I'm sure she can get somebody to truly love and appreciate her. She deserves to be loved by a REAL MAN.

The ending was so beautiful. Yaaaassss. You gotta DO for YOU what makes YOU happy And if he cant see your worth and is offering YOU less. DONT SETTLE RUN and LOVE YOU!!! Because yes the other women may have gained children from him but THATS ALL they will ever gain which isnt really a gain when he leaves u with a child and no commitment . But that's NOT what YOU WANT . YOU want more for yourself .DONT let's YOURSELF down By settling for less RUN AND GO find what YOU DESERVE LOVE . !! That was such a powerful message !!!!!

She's so amazingly sweet and gentle...

Karreuche is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. She reminds me of Jessica Alba. I hope she will outgrow this stage with Chris. Every beautiful woman have had their share of being heart broken. The only difference is that there is publicity on her case.

I'm glad she got out that relationship nobody deserves to be dogged like that it's crazy the things we allow for love

I am happy you are in a better relationship now ! You and victor are beautiful couples!

i’ve never heard of this video .. but it really moved me, because Love is .. something very special but people tend too always play around.

WAIT omg...is that oprah?!?! Sorry I haven't watched her in a long time!

My man got another women pregnant and I didn’t find out until a few months after the baby was born.. that’s their own issues and my heart feels for her. It’s a kind of betrayal that you truly have to work yourself up from. Always stay true to yourself.

She so pretty and I hope that her heart heals because looks is not only about being beautiful, it's whats in the heart!

She's beautiful inside and out beautiful soul it's his loss he missed out on something amazing

She is so beautiful and seems like a great woman I can't believe he hurt her like that smh

A woman's power is in her heart! So much truth and awesomeness and such a power for goodness, I can't handle it!! :P

She is so beautiful she should never settle for less. I don't think she understands her worth. When a woman finds her worth she is the more powerful than ever!

This girl is a keeper. She so beautiful I don't know how could he not see it