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The average person wouldn’t think that they can learn something from decoding the body language of a murderer. Little do they know, there is more than a little to learn through this unusual approach to protecting your
friends, family and finances. In this out-of-the-box TEDx talk, retired ATF Investigator and Human Lie Detector, Janine Driver cracks the detecting deception through the nonverbal hot spots of murderers. Janine Driver is the founder, president, and lead instructor for BLUEStreak Training, an elite certification program that offers award-winning advanced communications training. BLUEStreak helps executives, sales people, and other professionals build executive presence; explode their selling skills; and create and deliver business presentations that win new business.
Janine and her team of the world’s most sought after subject matter experts have helped clients become the total leader, which ultimately led them to win billions of dollars in new business contracts. Her elite A-list clients come from a wide variety of industries. Janine has made appearances on NBC’s Today, The Rachael Ray Show, and HLN.
Janine’s background includes being a federal law enforcement officer within the United States Department of Justice for 16-years, where she trained over 60,000 lawyers, judges, and law enforcement officers how to read body language and detect deception. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber
@RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber 3 роки тому
"Anger is a secondary emotion to things like fear and sadness and anxiety." Possibly one of those most valuable lessons in this entire talk.
@dylanmcwhirter9844
@dylanmcwhirter9844 3 роки тому
Pain aswell physical pain
@christyeddy3199
@christyeddy3199 3 роки тому
I was in a behavioral rehab for 2 weeks when i was 13 and was taught that. Its really the only thing i remember. It has been very helpful in understanding people. That and a phrase i heard about 10 years ago... "Hurt people -hurt people"
@roshanibabu
@roshanibabu 3 роки тому
That is all I took from this talk...
@ArtofReliance
@ArtofReliance 3 роки тому
"Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering." ~ Green Thing
@rpshd7275
@rpshd7275 3 роки тому
My mom must be really anxious
@vanessawood2837
@vanessawood2837 4 роки тому
Really interesting stuff. Some caution: Eye blocking is very common with people on the Autistic Spectrum and to some degree with people who have anxiety. This should absolutely be taken into account when assessing eye blocking.
@daughterofyah6209
@daughterofyah6209 4 роки тому
Vanessa Wood but if you speak to them you understand that there could be something different. Her points still valid-notice the scenes and probe. With her son and her mother she asked deeper questions that was related to their ESL. The more questions you asked the more you may notice the difference in autism and someone who is hiding. My older cousin is autistic and before I actually understand what that is and the spectrum I could see that there was a disability or learning difference between us.
@benjaminmarler457
@benjaminmarler457 4 роки тому
Totally agree this is all interesting but I'm not sure about the eye blocking I personally just have trouble looking people In the eye some days more than others feeling intimidated seems to do the same for most
@idaliihernandesss924
@idaliihernandesss924 4 роки тому
I was just thinking of this!
@jessicarenae5107
@jessicarenae5107 4 роки тому
I just commented about this. I have social anxiety so i tend to never look ppl in the eye. However, if I'm blamed and innocent, you'll get my attention ... changes your focus and becomes serious. Of course that can depend on the situation too! And your def right about Autism...ty for stating that to everyone!!! My cousin is autistic, and that's very true.... most autism causes them to be distant with all their gestures and emotions!
@lungulst
@lungulst 4 роки тому
It is not important because there will be not so many. And no one could by mistake, take an autistic as a person without that condition.
@SiaLaterZ
@SiaLaterZ 2 роки тому
I appreciate her emotion when talking about things that are clearly important to her. Thank you so so much!
@KarenC-yi9xl
@KarenC-yi9xl Рік тому
😂 this is the first video I watch the beginning to the end thanks 😊
@hobypop
@hobypop 4 місяці тому
Comming from a Middle Eastern background, we were taught from a young age that looking someone in the eye is a sign of daring and disrespect, especially when done during a conversation with an older person or one with a higher level of authority. That caused me some real problems with one of my bosses at work in Australia. He believed he's a 'people reader'. He often thought I was lying when I spoke to him 🙄
@Dolphinboi
@Dolphinboi 3 місяці тому
So what do u think of this woman?
@kennywonderley5883
@kennywonderley5883 2 місяці тому
I'm always thinking and my eyes tend to go up. I'm been misread many times.
@nopetheworld977
@nopetheworld977 2 місяці тому
I can totally relate. Cultural differences really do make communication a bit more complicated and can misread someone’s intentions.
@walterpaton8698
@walterpaton8698 3 роки тому
I have learned more about life from Tedtalks than my 61 years of life.
@saraf.3444
@saraf.3444 3 роки тому
I love your comment. ♥️
@janetpierce6487
@janetpierce6487 3 роки тому
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@RM-lk1so
@RM-lk1so 3 роки тому
RIGHT ON. I share more Ted's talks than ANY other UKposts series
@annamariedetter4319
@annamariedetter4319 3 роки тому
Same, but I'm a millennial. Which is why I go easier on my Mom these days. The internet is truly a privilege to use.
@Fifiguggles
@Fifiguggles 3 роки тому
I get it from all sorts of sources
@herbross7629
@herbross7629 4 роки тому
This woman is spot on. She captured me immediately and distracted me from imprtant work.
@angelagivens545
@angelagivens545 3 роки тому
Wow. This was awesome
@aleenanoad9
@aleenanoad9 3 роки тому
Me too. Haha
@alvinzady764
@alvinzady764 3 роки тому
very good,her words are great...
@styxmot
@styxmot 3 роки тому
Same here :D
@JacquelynnFaye
@JacquelynnFaye 3 роки тому
I believe it was you who pushed play first sir lol
@joannep3437
@joannep3437 6 місяців тому
My 19 y.o. son is a junior w/ a psychology major. I met you today on Mel Robbins’ podcast and immediately sent this Ted Talk to my son. I plan on following up with him to be sure he gets well acquainted with you!! You’re going to be an additional professor of his… We need you in our lives!! Thank you!!❤
@actuallyjustVaibhavSharma
@actuallyjustVaibhavSharma 6 місяців тому
How did it go ?
@joannep3437
@joannep3437 6 місяців тому
@@actuallyjustVaibhavSharma Well, I have yet to find the opportunity… he’s so busy that we’ve been like two ships passing in the night.
@azharmuhammedu5989
@azharmuhammedu5989 Рік тому
Wow this is one of the best ted talks ever. The fact that Janine gets emotional gets back to her full strength throughout this talk makes her so strong. Her mom is so lucky to have her ❤️
@n.d8001
@n.d8001 3 роки тому
She wants everybody to fight their battles using whatever tools they have in order to never give up. She is a friend to all of us
@kaitlinlounsbury4444
@kaitlinlounsbury4444 Рік тому
I absolutely agree 💯
@isabellerobbe-dren752
@isabellerobbe-dren752 4 роки тому
Me to pup (pointing at carpet stain): “Did you do this?” Pup: eye blocks for 9 seconds. Fast forward - pup watches video. Me to pup (pointing to shredded dog bed): “Did you do this?” Pup: Looks me square in the eye, assertively shakes head no, and points to invisible cat. Thanks UKposts.
@kierraspearman4759
@kierraspearman4759 4 роки тому
Isabelle Robbe-Dren lololololololol
@KimishaJames
@KimishaJames 4 роки тому
🤣🤣🤣
@lindseynovak8058
@lindseynovak8058 4 роки тому
Everyone needs this information. Spectacular talk.
@abdul-q-khan
@abdul-q-khan 4 роки тому
@@lindseynovak8058 If she is gifted it doesn't mean that everyone can and should start relying on their ESL. I remember once upon a time in Pakistan, We were going in a Jeep and we noticed there was another jeep overtook us and there wasn't number plates on it. And a after while there were to police with 125 cc bike standing at road shoulder and waved to us to stop and we saw the other jeep of different make passed them, they asked us for registration of the jeep and we showed it. Then they told ok you can go. You only can feel it when it happens to you. We asked why they checked our jeep registration while the other jeep even passed in front of them didn't have number plates. They replied we doubted you. 😡🤬
@jeannieravenscraft4938
@jeannieravenscraft4938 3 роки тому
Ha!
@RubeeRoja
@RubeeRoja 3 роки тому
When you're a person with high empathy (an "empath") It seems like most of this is just innate. We pick up body language, energy, and other people's emotions quickly...even when you would prefer not to. It's all highly intuitive even before you know what to do with the information that you're feeling.
@cynthiadennewith49
@cynthiadennewith49 2 роки тому
Accept, her information is concrete. Everyone can benefit from the knowledge she is teaching. Even Empaths. We may be able to intuit the emotional energy of a person, and 'know' what that person is feeling, and that they are not being honest. Or that they are hiding something. But 'feeling' something from someone isn't actionable when it comes to using that information to show how you 'know' when a person is lieing. Having both; abilities as an Empath and skilled knowledge like she is teaching, can only make you better all around.
@ompabaletserametse8643
@ompabaletserametse8643 2 роки тому
Yes. You're totally right. I saw a friend after probably a year and I could feel that they were not doing so good. I didn't know what to do. I just prayed that whatever it is, they got through. I'm hoping to learn how to "get it out" of people and maybe that will help.
@traceyschneider3296
@traceyschneider3296 2 роки тому
You are totally right! I’ve been told I am an empath but haven’t really gotten into researching it but even if I’m not, I’ve noticed things that would be considered signs like these I was told I was crazy and those signs that I’d see in a person weren’t really credible. This verifies and validates so much for me!
@lowbudgetadvice95
@lowbudgetadvice95 2 роки тому
True that.
@violentnewworld
@violentnewworld 2 роки тому
I can spot these things.. Just unnatural reactions.
@warnerrecordsvault5869
@warnerrecordsvault5869 3 роки тому
thank you Janine Driver for motivating my daughter when thing went really had for her. It was really so bad that she attempted committing murder until you invited Mrs Lyra Holt Dean for your TED show program. Am really so grateful for her finical assistance in my daughters life thank you so much once again.
@bennyhinnministries3027
@bennyhinnministries3027 3 роки тому
I see please do you mind if i know how this woman helped you cause i have been hearing people testifying i really want to know who this Mrs Lyra Holt Dean is. I even searched her name on goggle she was all over but i want to confirm if she can help me too.
@warnerrecordsvault5869
@warnerrecordsvault5869 3 роки тому
@@bennyhinnministries3027 Honestly is not something we can talk about on the comment section i can give you her direct so you can contact@lyraholtdean; KOM that her direct mail feel free talking to her and thank me later SMILES.
@KimberleyB
@KimberleyB 2 роки тому
@@bennyhinnministries3027 this is scammy. You'll notice this account posted identical comments on different videos. Please be careful.
@hadesisbaby
@hadesisbaby 2 роки тому
@@KimberleyB the account replying to the comment is part of the scam lol they responded to all of the other accounts comments
@lucienoon7262
@lucienoon7262 8 місяців тому
ah!
@zahriahkaharah2034
@zahriahkaharah2034 3 роки тому
She is absolutely captivating. I loved this ted talk. Easily made my top faves.
@danfelmusic447
@danfelmusic447 3 роки тому
Same
@aidanpowell9143
@aidanpowell9143 3 роки тому
I would also have loved to be in the audience. She captivated the audience's attention very well.
@jocelynford4209
@jocelynford4209 2 роки тому
Right! This may be one of the best talks I have heard. Powerful and enlightening.
@drivebyquipper
@drivebyquipper 7 місяців тому
What's up with the Spanx?
@AmyNCole-luv4God
@AmyNCole-luv4God 4 роки тому
Weak clapping, audience.., she deserved so much more enthusiasm, in my belief, during this presentation. I appreciate the gift of knowing, the signs to look for, thanks to this informative video.
@deannaseguin4342
@deannaseguin4342 2 роки тому
We always read each other's body language...we just haven't honed the decoding skills to the level this lady has.....she was very compelling and amazing....strong woman....loved it!!!!
@teeoffgolfclub1219
@teeoffgolfclub1219 Рік тому
Probably the best presenter I have seen deliver a talk. Amazing.
@huiy.8767
@huiy.8767 4 роки тому
What a wonderful public speech! The speaker uses effective speaking techniques such as story telling, repetition, audience engagement, body language and vocal variety, to make her speech memorable and persuasive. I am going to follow her call and use this ESL in my day-to- day life.
@peterbarker3574
@peterbarker3574 4 роки тому
You sound like you must be a Toastmaster. AmI correct?
@robhatesyoutube
@robhatesyoutube 4 роки тому
Is she holding you hostage and making u comment?
@mayasanchez4014
@mayasanchez4014 3 роки тому
I found the story telling and repetitions a bit tiring by the end I have to say, maybe not for everyone
@blessingsbest6838
@blessingsbest6838 3 роки тому
She is good!
@geewiz8253
@geewiz8253 3 роки тому
Maya Sanchez I don’t know how you don’t understand that all she was doing was showing several examples to compare... and contrast. Not rocket science or a reason to see her speech as a negative but 🤷‍♀️
@thezebrahippyhall8528
@thezebrahippyhall8528 4 роки тому
As a single mother to an angry, frustrated little boy who’s full of love, Thank You. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@atlas3732
@atlas3732 4 роки тому
You're welcome
@neoanderson4840
@neoanderson4840 4 роки тому
Yeah agree to the kids anger and the response from his mother is what makes better parenting 🤗
@estrid8616
@estrid8616 4 роки тому
man i was like your son when growing up. wish my mom had seen this video. great of you to utilize it and not dismiss your son. amazing mother
@Yeniphur
@Yeniphur 2 роки тому
I've been there and I wish I knew then what you know now. I wish you the very best with your spirited little boy. Please remember to take care of yourself as well. Being a single mother is VERY draining. ❤️❤️❤️
@kerrysmith4838
@kerrysmith4838 3 роки тому
This was the most informative talk I’ve heard in awhile. I’d love to see this speaker again.
@RhettaPeoples
@RhettaPeoples 2 роки тому
Mama has me in tears! I love her! She looks like a warrior.
@mirameli1756
@mirameli1756 4 роки тому
She is so dynamic, I really admire her and her speach was amazing and useful😮
@TheLeopard0
@TheLeopard0 4 роки тому
yeah she could be a real rabble rouser
@Darkphoenix3450
@Darkphoenix3450 4 роки тому
She tell you whatever you want to hear as long as you will pay her. (That is just the facts about her.)
@toshir0m1
@toshir0m1 4 роки тому
so "dynamic"? Ffs people, don't make her job even easier, try to exercise at least SOME rationality.
@ChristopherYTDontchangemyname
@ChristopherYTDontchangemyname 4 роки тому
@@toshir0m1 what do you mean ?
@joseph-mariopelerin7028
@joseph-mariopelerin7028 4 роки тому
with a grain of salt...
@paulineboucher7074
@paulineboucher7074 3 роки тому
I find her amazing, PTSD affects us all. I can hear it in your voice when you talk about the murder of the mom and daughters. In a odd way we can be exposed to so much and not have much of a reaction. Then a case comes along that blindsides you. A particular gruesome murder of 1 child still haunts me to this date. I am medically retired Thank goodness . Thank you Janine, you are fascinating and I love your passion !! Glad your mom got a second chance !!!
@julietv3863
@julietv3863 3 роки тому
Thanks for your service ❤️💕✝️
@stixx3342
@stixx3342 Рік тому
I completely agree with everything you say. But the end it states, I miss you mom, meaning unfortunately her mother is dead.
@drivebyquipper
@drivebyquipper 7 місяців тому
She is overconfident and overbearing.
@TecnamTwin
@TecnamTwin 6 місяців тому
​​@@drivebyquipperOverconfident? Maybe you're just not used to a confident woman who has strong reasons to be confident. She's an industry expert and knows what she's talking about. Why do you feel threatened by her strength? You should get that checked out.
@gabrielaloyola2043
@gabrielaloyola2043 Місяць тому
I loved the talk, now I'll see anger differently. Also, I don't know if I'm right because she put "I miss you mom" in the last slide, but I am really sorry for her loss, it is a beautiful thing to honor her with this talk and sharing ESL to teach people another way to help others
@ishurayes4583
@ishurayes4583 6 місяців тому
The wisdom i gained by this lady for this 30min is just amazing ❤❤❤❤
@cisrot
@cisrot 3 роки тому
The moment she mentioned Chris Watts my heart dropped
@AnxietyRat
@AnxietyRat 3 роки тому
Same. He was also very bad at lying. Most people could tell SOMETHING was wrong with his behaviour. But as she said they didn't have the skills to KNOW why his behaviour was wrong and sending red flags.
@eunicestone838
@eunicestone838 2 роки тому
The very moment I saw Chris Watts speak for the first I had a horrible sinking feeling.
@carolmartin8781
@carolmartin8781 4 роки тому
Good stuff; but I have to point out that there are people who have difficulty with making eye contact for other reasons like mental illness, aspergers, fear, nervousness, etc.
@traceyschneider3296
@traceyschneider3296 2 роки тому
I’m seeing this for the first time and I can’t leave this UKposts until I say that I’m praying for your Mom and hope she is well though the video says it was posted 2 years ago! I cried! She made an impact on me though I loved your tremendously informative video as well! This is my favorite TEDtalk of all time! You and yours are in my prayers! ❤️
@JohnWickPotter
@JohnWickPotter 4 місяці тому
She really … she’s an excellent speaker. She showed her emotions & sometimes it can enhance the message. She hit nail on head.
@crishall9522
@crishall9522 4 роки тому
Oh man, people are gonna come after me for not making eye contact now lmao. Im guilty of a lot of this, i promise im not hiding anything. Im just autistic, ive almost been arrested a few times. Now i know why haha
@melclarke64
@melclarke64 4 роки тому
alot of people use autism as an excuse for bad behavior.
@lishangisbae9170
@lishangisbae9170 4 роки тому
Melvin Clarke Maybe, but some people genuinely have situations such as this because they have autism. I’m not dismissing your comment, I’m just stating that some people are genuine with their reasons for seeming suspicious but are actually innocent in reality.
@jpmorgain912
@jpmorgain912 4 роки тому
Absolutely fuckang understand! Can't wait until Jesus comes back and allows skyscraper sized loctus monsters smack everybody's mom👍
@jpmorgain912
@jpmorgain912 4 роки тому
@@melclarke64 ---- your mom uses jungle fever to excuse her bad behavior👍
@jpmorgain912
@jpmorgain912 4 роки тому
@@lishangisbae9170 ---- I'm dismissing His comment because His mom uses jungle fever to excuse Her bad behavior👍
@TamiePryor
@TamiePryor 4 роки тому
With typical people, eye contact probably a good clue, and I have used this many times to judge someone's truthfulness. However, people on the autism spectrum do not make eye contact and if they are low on the spectrum, they will seem like everyone else, but will avoid looking you straight in the eye. Teaching law enforcement that certain behaviors means someone is guilty or up to something can be dangerous. Unseen handicaps can make people seem to be something that they are not. This reminds me of a case in Aurora, IL several years back where someone was shot and killed by police. He had a BB gun, someone called the cops thinking it was a real gun, he did not drop the gun when the cops approached. They killed him, of course. He was deaf.
@toshir0m1
@toshir0m1 4 роки тому
What exactly are "typical people" supposed to be? No two situations will be the same, and the "general" principles Janince Driver uses here are useless. I mean, useless to everyone but her, since it helps her scam a lot of people.
@ernawiget868
@ernawiget868 4 роки тому
Tamie Pryor TOY. GUNS NEED TO. B. OUT- LAWED. SUE THE TOY COMPANIES 👀
@Traumatised311
@Traumatised311 4 роки тому
I am autistic and what you said is true , people often don't expect things I do or I have done , they can nevr tell what I am up to
@tiffanybruner6002
@tiffanybruner6002 4 роки тому
@@Traumatised311 do you feel that is a gift or a curse, if you don't mind me asking??
@Traumatised311
@Traumatised311 4 роки тому
@@tiffanybruner6002 , both curse and a blessing but more of a curse , cause i am more often misinterprated and misunderstood
@tatsianakuzmiankova2414
@tatsianakuzmiankova2414 2 роки тому
This is the best Ted talk I have ever watched, and I watched a loooot. Thank you so much for this eye opening talk. Thank you for sharing this with the world and raising the awareness around body language.
@kiptomkin8549
@kiptomkin8549 2 роки тому
Miss Beautiful Janine, Your talk "rocked" my world! I thank you from the deepest depths of my heart & soul. I'm not much more than a counselor, but i'm the founder of a nonprofit that works with the homeless, has a safe house for women & children, is a Community Outreach Center, runs an animal rescue, has a small thrift store & lots more. I'm an advocate for Veterans as well as for delicate situations for those recently freed from years in prison & EVERYTHING you brought up up in your talk filled my heart with gladness & hope. Thank you for all you do. Blessing & mst respectfully yours.
@tanakaren1822
@tanakaren1822 3 місяці тому
Yes you are much more - an embodied angel, doing needed & challenging work!! Thank you for your open careing heart & persistent efforts, dear one!
@MeetByTheRiver
@MeetByTheRiver 4 роки тому
First of all, everything she said is true, however, people with anxiety, depression, all do these same things. I live with really bad Anxiety and horrible depression. I am always asked why do I never look at people in the eye when I talk to them. I always answer, because I feel claustrophobic, and I do, it makes me have a panic attack every time I look at someone in the face when I am having a conversation with someone new, or when they are next to me. My nerves skyrocket when I have to look at someone in the face when I talk to them. However, I can look someone in the face, in the eyes when I listen.
@rachell2099
@rachell2099 3 роки тому
I feel exactly the same as you… every way. And claustrophobic is the true feeling. But yes, looking while listening is nice.. are you an artist? I am in love with human faces their range of differences, measuring and drawing them even if only in my mind. Good day!
@MeetByTheRiver
@MeetByTheRiver 3 роки тому
Rachel L I’m not a professional artist if that’s what you mean? I don’t draw or paint as much as I honestly should, though I like to write more. My real art skills is in writing, I love to create a work of art through a story, though I never do it professionally, lol I also hardly ever post them online anyway, because I never finish them. The few I do post are just fanfictions. But, I can appreciate the art of profile expressions. I never got into wanting to draw profiles a lot even though I practiced a lot to try and draw different types of faces I never could do it as well as I thought it in my head lmao. It always turned into some animated version of myself for some reason, I put it up to me just being horrible at drawing and left it at that, but I’m gonna sound like a creep here, but I love to watch people’s expressions when I’m in like a public place, its not that I’m obsessed I just curious and also nosey, lol you can tell a lot about a conversation through someone’s expressions sometimes. It’s also a little frustrating because I can’t look at someone’s face when I talk unless there’s like more than a arms distance so I’m always guessing peoples reactions as a way. Man, living with social anxiety sucks, especially because people always assume the worst because you don’t look them in the eye or is just a little standoffish
@BeeLove369
@BeeLove369 3 роки тому
You just proved her point love. ❤😊😉
@slhayhoe
@slhayhoe 3 роки тому
Agreed 100%. ME TOO
@slhayhoe
@slhayhoe 3 роки тому
@Rickie j 100%
@jeannewagner8133
@jeannewagner8133 4 роки тому
This is the 3rd of her TED talks I've listened to and she is just amazing. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, Janine.
@alvinzady764
@alvinzady764 3 роки тому
her words are too amazing..how are you,hope you are good?
@jasonandrews2330
@jasonandrews2330 10 місяців тому
This talk is riddled with debunked myths. As a therapist I can assure you that this is not always true. People eye block for many reasons not just one. Anger is not always a secondary emotion as recent research indicates, closed off body language does not always mean defensiveness. Crossed legs do not always mean comfortability. Closed eyes is not uncomfortable to many. When eyes are closed many people are seeking visualization in that area of the brain. So is what she said true? Absolutely in some cases and absolutely not in others.
@eleanorrouxel122
@eleanorrouxel122 Рік тому
This TED talk was the best I have ever seen, Janine!!!!! Thank you
@bevoss7573
@bevoss7573 3 роки тому
She's fascinating! I almost didn't click, but I'm so glad I did. Definitely worth watching!
@Posh718
@Posh718 4 роки тому
I really enjoy learning from this woman. She's so genuine and down to earth, and Real. it's hard not to love her!
@terahwieland8482
@terahwieland8482 2 роки тому
Look up Paul Ekman. At one point there were some free things on his website and he has been at the research for a very long time.
@jorgegonzalezsossa7661
@jorgegonzalezsossa7661 Рік тому
This is the best talk I've ever seen, I can't believe all the information this woman is delivered, fantastic job ! 👍
@natashanarushev3450
@natashanarushev3450 2 роки тому
I just stumbled upon this accident yesterday at work. Im relistening to the whole talk again. Thank you.
@TyphanyGarcia
@TyphanyGarcia 3 роки тому
Hola 👋🏽, Ted talk brief notes 📝 de nada ESL = everyone’s second language Fear & sadness- 2 missing emotions of a killer 👁👁 glasses 👓 E- eye closing ( eye blocking) S- shoulder shrug - uncertainty L- lip locking ( lip going in) ( when we don’t like what we see or hear our lips disappear) Eye blocking- ( timing) screen saver password- take away visuals Second and a half- hiccup -***9 seconds eyes closed exercise Anger - 2cd emotion to fear , anxiety and sadness
@junior.69420
@junior.69420 3 роки тому
These are the things I took as note but please watch the whole video it's really great :). Remember that context matters because some people who have autism may do eye blocking so be careful *_Eye Blocking_* : To protect sensitive information 9:25 *_Shoulder Shrugging_* : May indicate uncertainty 18:00 *_Lip Locking_* : "When we dont like what we see or here, our lips disappear" 20:55 Bonus *_Anger_* : In the video she states that anger most of the time might be a secondary emotion to fear, sadness, anxiety 23:38
@TheRealJanineDriver
@TheRealJanineDriver 3 роки тому
Thank you Junior! Yes, context does matter. People on the Spectrum often give less eye contact. xo, Janine
@may_0reo816
@may_0reo816 Рік тому
fr
@gallorumrex
@gallorumrex 10 місяців тому
Not just Autism, but those with ADHD also.
@s4ndmanthorsminion637
@s4ndmanthorsminion637 3 роки тому
You had me in tear about your mom, but so happy she is fighting it , all love and prayer for her.
@redisveryawesome23
@redisveryawesome23 2 роки тому
Wow this was an amazing ted talk and i love that she wore her emotions proudly. Lots of respect and appreciation for her.
@motv-independentthinkingfo3817
@motv-independentthinkingfo3817 3 роки тому
Janine Driver stole my attention and kept me interested and excited, ESL EVERYBODY'S SECOND LANGUAGE!
@76Pou
@76Pou 4 роки тому
Best talk I have ever heard! I really needed this because I tend to miss social clues. I was dating and then married to more than one abuser, and being bullied and/or being taken advantage of so often! Finally, my therapist ordered me a dose of abstinence and living on my own until I learn and heal, or else, she was sure I would end up with the man that woul kill me. Thank you so much! I will be learning more about this, and continue Aikido classes for sure.
@sarahlilledal5
@sarahlilledal5 3 роки тому
I love and enjoy watching and learning from great and inspiring speakers here on TED Talk. Thank you so much for sharing your talents and knowledge that enriches and blesses your viewers lives.👏 Warm Greetings from Norway!🇳🇴
@suzannehall
@suzannehall 2 роки тому
I have to say THANK YOU. She breaks it down so easily. She has been an inspiration for me. God bless her
@cmessett11
@cmessett11 4 роки тому
Am i the only one annoyed at how the camera is cutting off the top of her screen or nah?
@ogmma7364
@ogmma7364 4 роки тому
More annoyed about her repetitive sell on ESL, like we get it already, we ain't autistic..
@SuperPurusothaman
@SuperPurusothaman 4 роки тому
First Ted talk I watched more than 15 min. Amazing information and the way she educated the listener was awesome
@judichristopher4604
@judichristopher4604 4 роки тому
RIGHT!!!! She took a (can be boring) subject and made it AMAZING... She is not only smart she teaches you something along the way.
@sherrysunshine6986
@sherrysunshine6986 3 роки тому
I would love to say thank you! Thank you Janine for helping us by giving you all. You shared hard and personal things to get the point across and it shows you really care ... . Thank you so much Janine from one loving soul to another! namaste
@ladyjei
@ladyjei 2 роки тому
Oh I love this! Your Mom swearing is so awesome...and accurate observations! Thank you! "Sometimes we have to fight for people that can't fight foe themselves!" LOVE!!!
@betty179
@betty179 3 роки тому
I cried when the mom came on. I’m beyond happy for them that she’s survived. And thaaannnk you so much for all this information 🙏🏾 I’ll definitely spread this info
@oliverkhoo
@oliverkhoo 3 роки тому
Imagine having a friend like her. Let’s go for a coffee.
@LadyNolaJ
@LadyNolaJ 3 роки тому
Yes imagine if you accidentally give her a negative body signal that had nothing to do with your thoughts or intentions. Self-righteous "expertise" is dangerous.
@angelineginnings3178
@angelineginnings3178 3 роки тому
For reals and for sure
@jasonowens4368
@jasonowens4368 3 роки тому
Just don't let her drive.
@shsltrash6685
@shsltrash6685 2 роки тому
@@LadyNolaJ but if she truly is a professional, she’d be able to collect enough data and judge you based on more than one signal to make sure that its not accidental and you truly are lying
@Alphacentauri819
@Alphacentauri819 2 роки тому
@@LadyNolaJ would it be self righteous expertise...if a physician was up there telling you signs of sepsis, heart attack, stroke, or any other myriad of ailments? No. They happen to be an expert. She happens to be an expert at reading body language due to her job. She didn’t just read a book, people watch at an airport and then become an “expert”. She worked with hostage negotiations, illegal arms deals and much more.
@sacerrone
@sacerrone 2 роки тому
Wow. I’m speechless. This is absolutely incredible. You are an amazing story teller- and had be captivated from the very first minute to the very end. Thank you!!!
@chrissasmithvlogs4000
@chrissasmithvlogs4000 2 роки тому
Brought me to tears thank you for telling your story and giving knowledge
@gzwerpjgbf
@gzwerpjgbf 4 роки тому
The emotion in her voice when she was talking about Chris Watts...
@GLPification
@GLPification 4 роки тому
which suddenly disappeared, then came back during the mom scene, then suddenly disappeared in a second.. come on ppl, wake up. (emotion fiber, cancer, kids... => rational/critical thinking = OFF)
@imlate3238
@imlate3238 4 роки тому
@@GLPification its almost like emotional things make people emotional. Strange.
@GLPification
@GLPification 4 роки тому
​@@imlate3238this is what make people (and a lot of other species) social. that woman like facebook & marketers know it well and they are always looking on how to manipulate/exploit it for an outcome.
@lanajeanvecchione9659
@lanajeanvecchione9659 3 роки тому
@@GLPification Its true she is using emotion to captivate and manipulate people in a sense. She knows her stuff. She also knows how to dress very well to maximize her body. Great talk.
@lanajeanvecchione9659
@lanajeanvecchione9659 3 роки тому
@@imlate3238 This is true, that's why they always sell the lifestyle and not just a product.
@thesmallandthesexy
@thesmallandthesexy 4 роки тому
That was AMAZING! Thank you for this video!!!
@corinnemcleod1804
@corinnemcleod1804 3 роки тому
There is more sadness in her voice taking about him than he ever showed
@nghhn9687
@nghhn9687 2 роки тому
Who?
@janetbrennan3882
@janetbrennan3882 Місяць тому
Would like to share my body language things that I learned from around the world brains of people who respected my psychic ability I was born with as some things are not in books and would love to share with you as I am sr retired now and would like to give to you a nd would love to talk to you and help your mother too Janet Brennan Bklyn ny. I am real
@notfromhere6839
@notfromhere6839 3 роки тому
One of the best and most useful Ted talks I’ve ever heard!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@sheryllallawa3692
@sheryllallawa3692 4 роки тому
I am crying while watching this. I have so many to thank for.
@rwatson2609
@rwatson2609 4 роки тому
Exceptional Ted talk, this amazing lady put a lot of herself into this.
@toshir0m1
@toshir0m1 4 роки тому
No, she's a charlatan. You might want to strengthen your epistemology, brother.
@djangoalvarado6703
@djangoalvarado6703 4 роки тому
Yeah this lady I'm not sure I can put into words how amazing this woman is because she knows a thing or two about a thing or two and she makes you feel assured that what she saying it's some real talk the truth no doubt
@lungulst
@lungulst 4 роки тому
I don't know this woman but her voice is hard to hear for me. I simply cannot listen. I like peacefully, worm voices. Too bad. Hope next time it will talk with more affection.
@rwatson2609
@rwatson2609 4 роки тому
@@lungulst It's these types of talks where the full heart is invested that make an impact on me.
@rwatson2609
@rwatson2609 4 роки тому
@@toshir0m1 Perhaps.
@jeremyyong3975
@jeremyyong3975 3 роки тому
My utmost respect to you Janine for such an amazing talk 🙏❤️
@jaredanderson7203
@jaredanderson7203 Рік тому
I came across this video trying to deal with devastating betrayal. This took my mind off the negative thoughts, perked my mood, and captivated my imagination. The topic was dark and I never would have thought it would give me hope and lighten my mood
@Thankful_.
@Thankful_. 4 роки тому
Precious moms testimony brought tears to my eyes. Great talk!
@toshir0m1
@toshir0m1 4 роки тому
Yes, it brought tears to your eyes. She's expecting that exact reaction because she needs the emotional appeal to convince you without the slightest shred of scientific credibility.
@yvonnerich1514
@yvonnerich1514 4 роки тому
Absolutely amazing! Such great advice for parents, friends, and coworkers. I have listened to 3 other ones from Janine and each one is valuable. She is a "must share TED Talker "for sure.
@seethroughwalls
@seethroughwalls 3 роки тому
Damn powerful. Thank you, Janine.
@aultunwhite4988
@aultunwhite4988 3 роки тому
this is in the top 5 most informative presentations on youtube....absolutely uncompromisingly honest!!
@chynnhowe
@chynnhowe 4 роки тому
I did not expect to cry. Excellent Ted talk. One of the best I’ve watched in years.
@matinaverdusco2690
@matinaverdusco2690 4 роки тому
Janine Driver, you are an amazing speaker !!! Thank you for all this life saving information. Please let us know how your mom is doing. I was so happy you talked to the doctor and the truth surfaced. Your mom was so relieved. Keeping her in my prayers !!!!🌷
@tamikamaloney9814
@tamikamaloney9814 2 роки тому
I am so grateful for this contribution, to the people and we are blessed to have people like this who are willing to share the knowledge that they have and for sharing the private part of their lives too as an example. There is a alot of fear, and the only way to deal with the fears is to confront the fears and with truth. I am saddened by the, tragic loss of lives in regards to the murders .
@thebandvia
@thebandvia 2 місяці тому
Janine! Thank you for who you are + for all you do.
@fanikokkinopliti4919
@fanikokkinopliti4919 4 роки тому
Great talk!!! I love the passion , dynamism and sensitivity at the same time, this lady sends out!
@lizzievega7455
@lizzievega7455 4 роки тому
One of the best things I've ever seen in my life. Thank you for sharing! Best learning experience in a long time.
@thebiscuitrose
@thebiscuitrose 3 роки тому
20:26 wow
@lauriemccrackenalsted9778
@lauriemccrackenalsted9778 3 роки тому
Thank you for your message. I needed to hear this tonight! 💕💕💕
@indraroy3894
@indraroy3894 7 місяців тому
I am grateful to Janine Driver for sharing this beautiful wisdom😊
@prepperjonpnw6482
@prepperjonpnw6482 4 роки тому
I love this woman’s presentations soooo much! Every TEDx talk she does is better than the previous one. Cheers
@ruwnglalalfina9008
@ruwnglalalfina9008 3 роки тому
This is one of the best Ted talk! It took all the flick of an eye. The message coveys depths of knowledge!
@TheBlueskyson
@TheBlueskyson 2 дні тому
Janine's one of the best and long been my go to on this subject. I've found how to identify a murderer via body language one of the most undervalued and helpful life skills. I use it all the time, at dinner parties, at work, and shopping. ty 4 gr8 vid
@shelbylangston329
@shelbylangston329 6 місяців тому
Janine, thank you. I watched your interview with mel. I'm listening to your audiobook "you can't.lie to me" now and I feel I need the hardcover.. again, thank you for sharing with us, for your vulnerability with us and for guiding us along in our self discovery.
@jeannettearmendariz9824
@jeannettearmendariz9824 4 роки тому
Janine , Thank you for sharing your expertise and your vulnerablity with us when talking about your momma.💗 You're mom is truly a hero ❤️
@Maryjane13400
@Maryjane13400 3 роки тому
What a phenomenal talk... Thank you so much for sharing... love Janine's mom, such a warrior. 💜 from TX
@RawnPorter
@RawnPorter 3 роки тому
Very informative, well presented, valuable info, thanks so much Janine.
@mkowdley
@mkowdley 2 роки тому
WOW! Thank you for the super insightful talk 🙌🏼
@surrected4526
@surrected4526 4 роки тому
Well done, indeed. Thank you. Your mother's message was heartwarming. Bless you both. Sending love and love and love 💕💞💕
@rdayal73
@rdayal73 4 роки тому
Wow.... Just wow... Now i know how many moments i have missed with my family specially my daughters... I am going to promise them, I am not going to miss anymore ... THANK YOU JANINE, God Bless You.
@Colette.ww.LAM.soprano
@Colette.ww.LAM.soprano 3 роки тому
This is sooo powerful! Thank you so much! You are such a loving person.
@ichrakkeraghel2991
@ichrakkeraghel2991 3 роки тому
Hi Janine, your talk was amazing and so moving, I shed some tears on the sequence with your mom... I would love to learn more about body language, are there any serious courses (preferably online) you would recommand? PS : I live in France, Paris more specifically. Thank you 🙏🏻
@jennysok8320
@jennysok8320 4 роки тому
Great talk. Thanks Janine!
@gloryolomi7
@gloryolomi7 4 роки тому
Wow wow wow. You be blessed. This talk is really helpful. And the way she presented it, oh my goodness just really amazing.
@siddharthnagani
@siddharthnagani 2 роки тому
Janine, I like to pay my sincere repects to you and how you have helped the ones who suffered, and contributing so much for the people. Because, you know that sharing without expecting a return, is difficult but true way of life. Thank you Ms. Driver
@TheFastchook
@TheFastchook 2 роки тому
I needed a moment to take that all in. That was science from the heart. Thank you.
@angeladefranco5459
@angeladefranco5459 3 роки тому
I enjoyed this talk so much ...one of my favorite to date. Thank you Janine.
@LG-jb9zs
@LG-jb9zs 3 роки тому
she literally just describes someone who's anxious. Like, I have anxiety. I'm not meeting your eyes because I'm anxious. I'm shrugging and fidgeting because I have anxiety.
@debe7880
@debe7880 3 роки тому
God bless you, your mom and family! Thank you for your work.
@gambit9701
@gambit9701 2 роки тому
This is the Best Ted Talk I have ever watch!...im literally crying, oh how I wish Im more matured when i was 14 when my mother had to fight a cancer how I wish to comfort her, I realized how it really affect me know that im 19 how i deeply regret being there physically but not emotionally.Thank you for your inspiring story
@TheRealJanineDriver
@TheRealJanineDriver 2 роки тому
Oganse! I'm so sorry to hear that when you were just 14-years old, your mother had to fight a cancer! I'm sure your mother knew you loved her with all your mighty. I remember when my mom was dying, I apologized for all the years I would ignore her phone calls when I was in college. She said, "Janine, that's what teenagers and young adults do, they are trying to find themselves. I let that go years ago." xo, Janine
@qmydee1481
@qmydee1481 4 роки тому
Thank you. Going to look up more of your work. You are a blessing. Thank you
@ttrraaccyy
@ttrraaccyy 3 роки тому
This was awesome. I can't wait to use it at a family get-together.
@michelleg7360
@michelleg7360 3 роки тому
You’re one of the best speakers I’ve heard!!
@toypoodle50
@toypoodle50 3 роки тому
Favourite talk Ever. She is extraordinary! ESL. Wow.
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