Masturbation Myths | Teesha Morgan | TEDxStanleyPark

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This talk will walk you through the emotionally-charged myths and misconceptions surrounding masturbation.
Dr. Teesha Morgan is a Sex Therapist and Couples Counsellor, author, sexual educator and co-founder of The Westland Academy of Clinical Sex Therapy.
Email: connect@teeshamorgan.com
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@cloroxlavenderscent4307
@cloroxlavenderscent4307 5 років тому
I feel like there's like a ted talk for everything
@TheCoachRC
@TheCoachRC 4 роки тому
It sure seems that way. This channels videos have been going on for years. Plus, everybody wants to take the stage to conduct a lecture.
@mladendelic7284
@mladendelic7284 4 роки тому
... and everyone.
@saxier1838
@saxier1838 4 роки тому
I love your profile pic
@dtm934
@dtm934 4 роки тому
It’s 2019 and you’re still rockin’ bleach smh
@JonBandMiley
@JonBandMiley 4 роки тому
There is
@paris466
@paris466 4 роки тому
"... improves immune functioning" I ought to be goddamned immortal by now.
@Hegstuffing
@Hegstuffing 4 роки тому
LOL
@superbreastman
@superbreastman 4 роки тому
Ahahaha....that's where Highlanders came out from! LOL
@GeorgeMihaiRadulescu
@GeorgeMihaiRadulescu 4 роки тому
😂😂😂😂💪🏻💪🏻
@williamjohnson7963
@williamjohnson7963 4 роки тому
TMI! LOL!
@faisal-ce6hk
@faisal-ce6hk 4 роки тому
You just made cry of laughter
@pratyushjha5961
@pratyushjha5961 3 роки тому
RIP to the one who just watched the first 30 seconds, lost his hope and left the video thinking that now he is DONE !
@edwinamuthoni7077
@edwinamuthoni7077 3 роки тому
Lmao
@m_rightshenas1412
@m_rightshenas1412 2 роки тому
:(
@Nf_king1
@Nf_king1 3 місяці тому
😂😂😂😂
@caleboop1814
@caleboop1814 4 роки тому
Damn the infertile myth at the start made me say to myself “okay maybe not today”
@dirtydan9856
@dirtydan9856 4 роки тому
caleb just do it on ur own pace.dont be addicted
@jitendra-ke5lb
@jitendra-ke5lb 4 роки тому
Hey loona
@Nephibis
@Nephibis 4 роки тому
Idk...I thought maybe being infertile could have its benefits...
@arbaazjamadar3720
@arbaazjamadar3720 4 роки тому
It made me say to my self "never again".
@shivamchoudhary9522
@shivamchoudhary9522 4 роки тому
@@arbaazjamadar3720 same bro 😂🤣
@graxthewanderer6043
@graxthewanderer6043 8 років тому
Clitoral hood sounds like a some place in downtown, where women rule the situation
@chrismeadows1187
@chrismeadows1187 8 років тому
+Jason Hunter Sup....my femey! LOL
@lesliedavidson1003
@lesliedavidson1003 8 років тому
Funny, Jason. Humor is good! ;)
@Tsujanryo
@Tsujanryo 8 років тому
+Jason Hunter Sounds more like a secret, occultish, feminzai criminal organization determined to rule the Earth. Kind of a cross between Cobra and Vagina Monologues and Hydra. "I am the CLIT Commander!" - Jay hehehehe
@visho8979
@visho8979 8 років тому
+Jason Hunter HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Dude, that's the best line I've read since I learnt what is a clitoris
@TheKenjoje
@TheKenjoje 8 років тому
+Jason Hunter feministic dream place :)
@sunpreetsinghchahal7656
@sunpreetsinghchahal7656 5 років тому
Heart attack in beginning 😂
@MsMridusmita
@MsMridusmita 4 роки тому
True
@123kidsart
@123kidsart 4 роки тому
😂
@bushidoblack8904
@bushidoblack8904 4 роки тому
🙌🏽🙌🏽😂😂😂😂
@satisfied5846
@satisfied5846 4 роки тому
😂😌😌
@AMITAVASAHA007
@AMITAVASAHA007 4 роки тому
True, i went pale 😑
@amanbhatia4262
@amanbhatia4262 4 роки тому
*_THEY HAD US IN THE FIRST HALF NOT GONNA LIE_*
@ivin119
@ivin119 4 роки тому
😂😂😂
@nadirbouchelaghem6430
@nadirbouchelaghem6430 4 роки тому
Haha
@MrJimaz
@MrJimaz 4 роки тому
Yo I was so scared 🤣🤣
@not_your_kareshiiii
@not_your_kareshiiii 4 роки тому
Wonder how many parents brought their children along to hear her talk.
@dubbingsync
@dubbingsync 4 роки тому
At a Ted talk? I don’t think kids would be there... think being the key word as I don’t know the rules behind guests or audience members.
@richmondmawuli9265
@richmondmawuli9265 4 роки тому
Yh
@babysenpai3883
@babysenpai3883 4 роки тому
@@dubbingsync yes I think so too
@markchip1
@markchip1 4 роки тому
Actually , I suspect it would be every bit as likely the other way round - "See Mum... It's not just me!".
@thelegoonurfloor5347
@thelegoonurfloor5347 4 роки тому
probably none
@arjunprs
@arjunprs 5 років тому
Indians have the most spicy foods and they also have one of the highest populations in the world... Myth broken in a sentence... 😂😂😂😂🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
@mashuto
@mashuto 5 років тому
😂👌
@SnipFred
@SnipFred 5 років тому
The Chinese as well lmao 😂
@thewormholetv7228
@thewormholetv7228 5 років тому
@@SnipFred yes!!! They have noodles.
@ravishankarpandey9498
@ravishankarpandey9498 5 років тому
Yes you're right.. Spicy food specially more use of onion and garlic
@shan_singh
@shan_singh 5 років тому
*China!!
@extremeorigami
@extremeorigami 8 років тому
I think that the problem here is that she separates the act of masturbation from pornography. For men, rarely does one come without the other. The damaging effects of pornography and the addictive nature of it can have an impact on psychological health and intimacy in relationships.
@brontiq
@brontiq Рік тому
She literally talked about it AND explained it...
@uubee4443
@uubee4443 Рік тому
Particularly damaging to the magazine if you not a straight shooter
@psijicassassin7166
@psijicassassin7166 11 місяців тому
I blame my Jesus Christ church for spreading the myths about pleasuring myself. This Jesus guy and his priests have lied to humanity.
@himansusekhardas9749
@himansusekhardas9749 10 місяців тому
I can say nothing
@anbarasujerald1565
@anbarasujerald1565 8 місяців тому
Well said
@Aydee2020
@Aydee2020 3 роки тому
"Too much self-loving can cause you to grow hair on the palms of your hands" *checks palms*
@benightedstxrmz7386
@benightedstxrmz7386 3 роки тому
damn you caught me.
@AtomicDiesel4100
@AtomicDiesel4100 3 роки тому
Been washing my hands with Nair all these years for nothing!
@nasreenakhuda
@nasreenakhuda 3 роки тому
@@benightedstxrmz7386 hey by ma****bating did u have speech problems?
@Akrazzyy
@Akrazzyy 2 роки тому
Spiderman
@Thenakedfinisher
@Thenakedfinisher 2 роки тому
Really? Is that what she said and did? Thanks for letting me know, I was on toilet,🙄
@josevictormiranda5854
@josevictormiranda5854 2 роки тому
Thanks for being so open, I highly appreciated.
@quantum_OP
@quantum_OP 8 років тому
damn she got me for a second there
@HomicidalDavid
@HomicidalDavid 8 років тому
+Quantum op Same here.
@mayurkulkarni1990
@mayurkulkarni1990 8 років тому
+Quantum op me too
@TheIcanntspel
@TheIcanntspel 8 років тому
It was enough for me to rethink my whole life, lol.
@freakonaleash8848
@freakonaleash8848 8 років тому
+TheIcanntspel me to
@k00patr00pa1
@k00patr00pa1 8 років тому
+Quantum op I was so scared haha
@Tanjman_
@Tanjman_ 8 років тому
When someone asks what I did last night I usually say "I netflix and chilled with myself"
@alarj8341
@alarj8341 6 років тому
That's what a girl on Tinder replied to me. Now it makes sense.
@pulakdeyashi
@pulakdeyashi 5 років тому
Amazing facts
@markanderson9123
@markanderson9123 5 років тому
Pronhub and chill.
@astromuonkuki5684
@astromuonkuki5684 4 роки тому
This is the way to do presentation. She was quite good in interacting with the audiences.
@kallagodglobals.e5813
@kallagodglobals.e5813 3 роки тому
I think this video and it’s author is very inspirational 💯🔐
@nishchalpriyadarshi1520
@nishchalpriyadarshi1520 5 років тому
I was about to become depressed in starting ... I got a feeling of relief when she said all are lies
@bradjones849
@bradjones849 5 років тому
He'll yea lol
@checonava233
@checonava233 4 роки тому
Mi too lol
@afaaqhussain3798
@afaaqhussain3798 4 роки тому
What if it's true :s
@JeanEtchepare
@JeanEtchepare 4 роки тому
Hahaha!
@alfreshluque3297
@alfreshluque3297 4 роки тому
Give us
@4684peter
@4684peter 8 років тому
I really like how relaxed and comfortable people in these fields are with topics like sex, and I mean this is how everybody should be. It doesn't make sense to feel bad about it or guilty, everybody does it, people in the past did, it people in the future will continue to do it so? If it wasn't meant to be done you wouldn't have discovered it alone!
@jaredlapierre1304
@jaredlapierre1304 6 років тому
Yeah, but I don't like what other people do with their bodies that doesn't effect me at all whatsoever! It makes me uncomfortable hurr durr.
@kiradot8071
@kiradot8071 6 років тому
Say it louder for the people in the back
@raworthyel3786
@raworthyel3786 6 років тому
Peter Tzonis that's a trained lecturer she's doing. All Memory!
@carlostejada1479
@carlostejada1479 6 років тому
Peter Tzonis but she's missing a looot of points, and she's wrong in many things...
@wx..
@wx.. 5 років тому
NoFap belief?
@orawal
@orawal 4 роки тому
The most eloquent and mellifluous speaker I've ever heard. I just want her to keep talking 😄 and such immense intellect and wit ! Wow! But surprised that Ted has spelling mistakes :P
@donaldswift
@donaldswift 4 роки тому
Single most impactful video for me. I started a new category on UKposts cause of her fabulous video. You go girl!
@alyssacleland
@alyssacleland 6 років тому
Who else checked the palm of their hands for hair
@mathewprincejohn
@mathewprincejohn 5 років тому
✋😜
@indigo3977
@indigo3977 5 років тому
IM NOT ALONE
@michealnewton3846
@michealnewton3846 5 років тому
Alyssa M. How are you?I wish to be your friend
@TheGamer-cs5sm
@TheGamer-cs5sm 5 років тому
✋😄😄
@prakharanand1060
@prakharanand1060 5 років тому
🤣🤣🤣
@varolussalsanclar1163
@varolussalsanclar1163 5 років тому
Dont watch this on day 20 of nofap.
@catzel1ps452
@catzel1ps452 5 років тому
Tacitus Kilgore y
@abhishekchary6585
@abhishekchary6585 5 років тому
More than Correct
@tanaypandey1771
@tanaypandey1771 5 років тому
Its too late bruh XD
@serdarjoshua5840
@serdarjoshua5840 5 років тому
damn i was exactly on day 20 you saved me lol
@greatmind8918
@greatmind8918 4 роки тому
@@tanaypandey1771 lol
@tovopro
@tovopro 4 роки тому
Clicked on this TED Talk as a simple man. Left feeling intrigued by her intellect.
@indianedupsychic9477
@indianedupsychic9477 2 роки тому
Love you so much not for your speech but your clerity of mind . And also your purity of heart❤️
@fuadahmed6060
@fuadahmed6060 4 роки тому
I was shaken for the first 30 seconds. I was like I am done boy 😂🤣🤣🤣
@zaitunihamisi2312
@zaitunihamisi2312 4 роки тому
🤣🤣🤣
@kamalsah355
@kamalsah355 4 роки тому
I was scared to death..😅😅😅😂😂
@swapnilkadam5373
@swapnilkadam5373 4 роки тому
Ahahahahahahah......
@nyambeglen3395
@nyambeglen3395 4 роки тому
Yea man...
@BigJoJoJoJo
@BigJoJoJoJo 4 роки тому
I thought my unborn children were only a figment of my imagination for a minute
@rosty2
@rosty2 5 років тому
I'm still thinking about those 5% of men who have never masturbated.
@ifexki
@ifexki 5 років тому
Me too. Wish I never had. 😁😁
@knowledgeismyrock
@knowledgeismyrock 5 років тому
do their balls eventually just explode?
@andisandean5340
@andisandean5340 5 років тому
@@knowledgeismyrock hahaha
@Majestic469
@Majestic469 5 років тому
@@knowledgeismyrock nope. Its like drugs. If you dont do it, youre not addicted, and you feel normal. But once you start, you feel like you cant stop, which is probably you.
@lincolndunstan3057
@lincolndunstan3057 5 років тому
they are liars!!
@selfdiscipline296
@selfdiscipline296 4 роки тому
As soon as she said it will grow hair on your palm ... I was relieved
@vishnusawant2562
@vishnusawant2562 2 роки тому
Very calmly and in simple words she explained everything... 👌 awesome
@itsxerxes6754
@itsxerxes6754 8 років тому
You already know what people did after watching this video ;)
@duckpotato1050
@duckpotato1050 8 років тому
+Bladesmen420 ate a yam, happens everytime, to everyone
@vikramgehlot2258
@vikramgehlot2258 6 років тому
Hahaha
@kimerlanpoage8208
@kimerlanpoage8208 6 років тому
😂
@ahmedissam9090
@ahmedissam9090 6 років тому
Lolll
@vikingsvikings1087
@vikingsvikings1087 6 років тому
✊👉💦💦
@likaself
@likaself 8 років тому
"Romance the hell out of yourself", great line Teesha, you too.
@likaself
@likaself 8 років тому
+sri ram According to who?
@tapask09
@tapask09 8 років тому
I love that line too... :)
@tcfmarch17
@tcfmarch17 2 роки тому
The best TED talk I've ever heard. Good for you and all women.
@fromchopin
@fromchopin 2 роки тому
What about men??
@palistrofruly
@palistrofruly 9 місяців тому
​@@fromchopinnot good at all
@amitrawat1440
@amitrawat1440 4 роки тому
I don't know if anyone noticed but she is amazingly attractive 😉
@faisalsangar5072
@faisalsangar5072 4 роки тому
I did!
@markrossi5721
@markrossi5721 4 роки тому
Yes I noticed that quite readily!
@spectrum9092
@spectrum9092 4 роки тому
I noticed her bobs
@reb3liouss0ul61
@reb3liouss0ul61 4 роки тому
I liked her more and more as she kept talking
@thiagowutzkeod2453
@thiagowutzkeod2453 4 роки тому
Nah
@valken666
@valken666 8 років тому
If masturbation makes you avoid marriage, then go for it!
@neilmcintosh5150
@neilmcintosh5150 8 років тому
+Valken That would explain why Iv'e never married, Iv'e been a wanker all my life!
@option-sh9yd
@option-sh9yd 8 років тому
he's like " I recommend it sir" jajaja
@Kami-Sama197
@Kami-Sama197 8 років тому
LMFAO wanking me to go for marriage even more. I would never ever want a feminist wife but rather an Egalitarian one even if they are hard to find XD
@valken666
@valken666 8 років тому
Kami Sama Careful, I had many who pretend to be egalitarian, until they realize they can use the law to steal your house and income. For money they stop being egalitarian pretty quick...
@Kami-Sama197
@Kami-Sama197 8 років тому
Valken yeah bro i know but i'll marry contractual
@C861986
@C861986 7 років тому
it improves your immune functioning. now I know why I never get sick.
@kristinburton4953
@kristinburton4953 6 років тому
Especially if you come in your own mouth. Your own creamy nectary vitamin shot would shoot straight down your throat for easy administering.
@pankajverma5195
@pankajverma5195 5 років тому
yehh same here
@barnaclescum7011
@barnaclescum7011 5 років тому
@@kristinburton4953 humanity could've just died so long ago, but this, this is the source
@Majestic469
@Majestic469 5 років тому
@@kristinburton4953 wtf lol
@mashuto
@mashuto 5 років тому
Damn 😂
@mmw5649
@mmw5649 Рік тому
Teesha, Thank you. You speak freely and openly about topics that tongue tie most of us. Your presentation was very refreshing and enjoyable.
@mbs0710
@mbs0710 3 роки тому
she won my hearts by debunking all myths
@traitor2850
@traitor2850 2 роки тому
+
@kenheines
@kenheines 8 років тому
Masturbation is good and even healthy but chronic porn use as a means to masturbate can be hugely detrimental to overall mental health and lead to erectile dysfunction. I think she hurt her presentation not to underline or even address that point especially since, for most men, porn and masturbation goes hand in hand... no pun intended.
@lovefunkrockmusic
@lovefunkrockmusic 6 років тому
it is not healthy at all.
@aliceryan6015
@aliceryan6015 6 років тому
Romel Nailes Jr. , his name is Shane Idleman.
@euguinn9524
@euguinn9524 6 років тому
Actually masturbation is very healthy, and can decrease sickness. Just be sure to wash your hands before and after 😉
@TheYoungprince01
@TheYoungprince01 6 років тому
hand and hand. lol
@miyuden4118
@miyuden4118 6 років тому
She wants to keep her Job, maybe she didn't address it because of that.
@lagaman11
@lagaman11 6 років тому
Of all of the masturbation videos on the internet, this is the only one I have found that is actually helpful, and doesn't feel a person full of some false sense of shame. Thank you for sharing!
@Un-scripted
@Un-scripted 4 роки тому
Incredible personality with incredible thoughts and ideas love you i wish there were some more like u in this for world for us
@bapibala5349
@bapibala5349 Рік тому
You are awesome speaker ,make everyone laugh . And your fare SMILEY talking makes easy to good conclusion.
@iblokeversion1
@iblokeversion1 5 років тому
You are amazing Teesha! Thank you So much for talking about this in such a cool, entertainingly relaxed, casual, and non smutty way. VERY much appreciated.
@elkyhonig4143
@elkyhonig4143 Рік тому
L
@dr.jodyschmidt250
@dr.jodyschmidt250 8 років тому
Great lecture Teesha! You make me proud. Keep up the great work.
@ammo8713
@ammo8713 4 роки тому
WHEN MY MOM CAUGHT DOING THE DASTARDLY DEED SHE TOLD ME IT WOULD CAUSE ME TO GO BLIND! I THEN ASKED HER IF I COULD JUST DO IT UNTIL I NEEDED GLASSES!!! GO FIGURE !
@ximertracks-subtome9907
@ximertracks-subtome9907 4 роки тому
im mad at her!
@melissacooper4482
@melissacooper4482 4 роки тому
I can imagine a kid believing that as truth. The day the kid sees a blind person they would probably ask them, " You've masturbated didn't you?"
@ShizzieShizz73
@ShizzieShizz73 4 роки тому
LMFAOOOOOOOO
@twingle-ftwingle-f4924
@twingle-ftwingle-f4924 3 роки тому
Chary me up from serious relationship Voice call +234 904 260 2671
@jerseyhudson27
@jerseyhudson27 3 роки тому
It'll cause her to be blind ..what she doesnt know doesnt hurt her .. so why is she bothering your pleasure
@MasseuseMassageChairs
@MasseuseMassageChairs 2 роки тому
What a great talk! Thank you!
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 8 років тому
Masturbation neutralizes the desire to interact with women sexually and can lead one to living with one's hand rather than with a woman (if masturbation is used frequently enough).
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 8 років тому
+Nerian For whom?
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 8 років тому
+Nerian How have you arrived at that thought?
@AmadonFaul
@AmadonFaul 8 років тому
+humanyoda Just a guess because I'm not who you are questioning, but I'd say a decrease in libido would be hugely beneficial for men because we do some really stupid things and make some really terrible decisions based on attraction. We settle for the wrong woman, we quit great careers to move to be with someone who isn't right for us. The list is pretty extensive. There's a reason for the saying "you used the wrong head" in decision making.
@humanyoda
@humanyoda 8 років тому
+Amadon Faul Makes sense, but I view this method as a double-edge sword. It is possible to settle on living with one's hand rather than with a woman. That's what I meant.
@Carcolo679
@Carcolo679 8 років тому
Watch the whole video or another Ted talk about porn. It is pornography that has this effect not masturbation. Why do you think such a large majority of men watch porn? Because... Simple masturbation isn't enough we want a woman. Porn becomes the substitution not jacking off. You're essentially knocking something because most people do it wrong.
@shashijaiswal17
@shashijaiswal17 6 років тому
VERY factual and real explanation of what we are in disguise. Indeed the term makes much difference Masturbation and changing this would really be something we ought to do earlier.
@davidburns6284
@davidburns6284 Рік тому
Very well done. Articulate and informative. We need more women like Teesha breaking down barriers to our happiness.
@frederickloucks4865
@frederickloucks4865 Рік тому
You aren't going to find many women like her in this country.
@becreative7072
@becreative7072 4 роки тому
don't know but she is amazing talker i mean speaker on stage and she has the guts to touch such topic wow
@benvanrensburg4261
@benvanrensburg4261 2 роки тому
Now it's your turn to do some touching.
@jenniespaghetti
@jenniespaghetti 8 років тому
You are a wonderful speaker Teesha! Keep spreading the word
@dunnnuu6502
@dunnnuu6502 Рік тому
I mean
@paginate
@paginate 8 років тому
Way to go Teesha, great talk- good advice- lets hope we change perspective
@jeremyseligson2220
@jeremyseligson2220 4 роки тому
She needs to distinguish between men and women. Women gain strength but men get exhausted.
@smitty_jaeger
@smitty_jaeger 4 роки тому
*men gain shame lmao
@prasannapodugu7936
@prasannapodugu7936 4 роки тому
😅🤣🤣
@ShizzieShizz73
@ShizzieShizz73 4 роки тому
I beg to differ....
@bungangamsha3526
@bungangamsha3526 3 роки тому
@@ShizzieShizz73 you must be a woman then.
@phantomwolf2141
@phantomwolf2141 3 роки тому
@@bungangamsha3526 😂😂😂
@CobaltLancer
@CobaltLancer 2 роки тому
Sure was an interesting watch. Well said Teesha! Thanks for the informative TED Talk! I surely learned a thing or two
@nickkanakis3469
@nickkanakis3469 5 років тому
Masterbation is fine, just don't let it get out of hand.....
@onmysoul1958
@onmysoul1958 5 років тому
Whiskers Briarwood is that a pun😂
@riteshrawat4703
@riteshrawat4703 5 років тому
Bruh
@obruddajustdafactsman2076
@obruddajustdafactsman2076 5 років тому
snicker ...snicker
@ericdew2021
@ericdew2021 5 років тому
Just don't let it go to your head?
@takudzwamazwienduna
@takudzwamazwienduna 5 років тому
😂😂😂😂😂
@Muuip
@Muuip 8 років тому
Very well spoken.Finally and open, intellectual and factual approach to sexuality/masturbation.
@charlescarpio8403
@charlescarpio8403 4 роки тому
I kept staring at the butterfly tattoo on her ankle.
@dcxdanny
@dcxdanny 3 роки тому
Oh, so that was what the tattoo is.
@edwintalbot1653
@edwintalbot1653 3 роки тому
I liked it too, great legs!
@dcxdanny
@dcxdanny 3 роки тому
@@edwintalbot1653 True..... And that makes me wonder if up north there is some more curly hair :-)
@utpaldatta1967
@utpaldatta1967 Рік тому
Very well explained with simple examples
@MnMEminem
@MnMEminem 8 років тому
I guess the porn sites have send their agents... there are other pseudo-psychologists who say that masturbation to porn doesnt do nothing to the brain. And lets just accept the fact that a woman is trying to convince us if its good or bad to masturbate. I think I would make a Ted talk about pregnancy ! I've stoped porn for almost 2 months and I feel better, more mindfull and cleansed, also more energy and self-control+ a bit more confidence !
@TheCloudeGraves
@TheCloudeGraves 8 років тому
I tried not masturbating for 3 months. Hated every minute. Totally pointless. I can agree with the porn, though. I haven't watched porn in a long time and am better off for it. But not masturbating has only lead to negative effects for me. It's almost as though masturbation can benefit some and harm others.
@therealest8574
@therealest8574 8 років тому
ur the man same here bro people are decieved lol i feel sorry for people who agree with the shit she says she is talking logically but thats not what masterbation really does it causes all negative side effects but porn has to go on so yeah lol thats why they promote it just sry for english
@dart200
@dart200 8 років тому
+Pafel Pafelov I think it's porn that's really detrimental. I'm not sure if plain masterbation is actually bad.
@MnMEminem
@MnMEminem 8 років тому
Lazarus Aether dart200 Omar Abouraya I agree with you all. Guess I haven't been affected cus I have a gf and do regular sex. It's not bad to masturbate if you feel like it after all we need to produce new and healthy sperm. I guess porn is the only thing we should avoid so it doesn't fuck with our brains, moral and values.
@mikhailadam6809
@mikhailadam6809 8 років тому
+Lazarus Aether I agree, for some reasons people suddenly believe everything a dude on TED talk says. And forget the history of research on masturbation. Porn addicts with library of video are obvious a different story. But getting yourself off has been known to have physiological and physical body benefits. doesn't HAVE to tie up with pornography film.
@ming0917
@ming0917 7 років тому
This is such a wonderful speech on a very serious topic within current society with intelligent humors, and it contains a lot of facts as well. I am a big believer in communication and trust are key to successfully relationships (particularly sexuality part of the relationship) , and masturbation can really help in those two areas, because if you don't know your own body, your own sexual pleasure, then how would you expect anyone else to know better than yourself. Only when you know yourself well enough, you can guide your partners and communicate clearly with your partner to allow him/her to give you pleasure, and trust in him/her to allow you to receive great pleasure.
@evinkleinman6052
@evinkleinman6052 Рік тому
Give me your phone number gobble , gobble
@VijayaRangaLR
@VijayaRangaLR 2 роки тому
Fantastic talk Thank you so much 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@TheMsjohn99
@TheMsjohn99 4 роки тому
"If you don't use it, you loose it" words to live by
@ShizzieShizz73
@ShizzieShizz73 4 роки тому
I say this often....
@traitor2850
@traitor2850 2 роки тому
+
@prathmeshchaudhari7613
@prathmeshchaudhari7613 Рік тому
- Johny sins
@JackyAYenga
@JackyAYenga 8 років тому
Well done Teesha! Your presentation was both entertaining and informative, and I learned a thing or two... What a great way to talk about this topic! I wish you great success on your journey to support people with better sex education, you are definitely needed.
@davidknapp-fisher6955
@davidknapp-fisher6955 8 років тому
Congratulations Teesha! Your talk was edgy, funny, informative - but above all, a great way to tackle a topic that many folks have questions about, but didn't know who to ask... now they do! Great job, and I'm looking forward to hearing more great stories from you in the future!
@psijicassassin7166
@psijicassassin7166 11 місяців тому
I blame my Jesus Christ church for spreading the myths about pleasuring myself. This Jesus guy and his priests have lied to humanity.
@jerrykester7155
@jerrykester7155 3 роки тому
Well if we're all being adults and we're all being honest with ourselves more than with other people she made a lot of very good points enough where even I would love a chance to sit down and speak with this woman
@practical3341
@practical3341 3 роки тому
Actually first 30 seconds were true. Don't get confused by this video. Society doesn't want you to succeed. there are infinite side effects of masturbation. For true guidance watch Chastity108 youtube channel. Good luck.
@muzmuzaffamuz8421
@muzmuzaffamuz8421 4 роки тому
Wow TEDX, very informative and good knowledge, salute your knowledge and your presentation excellent awesome, thank you appreciate love you
@janetmorrison1378
@janetmorrison1378 7 років тому
Thank you for this absolutely fantastic talk about self- pleasuring! The world NEEDs this message:)
@krishalienz9696
@krishalienz9696 5 років тому
She was saying stop watching me and just do it.😁...
@fahadalismaily9370
@fahadalismaily9370 4 роки тому
Do whatt😁😁
@saurabhwalzade9954
@saurabhwalzade9954 4 роки тому
Right😂😂😂😂
@edwardmclaughlin7935
@edwardmclaughlin7935 4 роки тому
Supposed to make you go blind but, somehow I can't see that.
@bobjacobson858
@bobjacobson858 4 роки тому
An old man in nursing home was caught "pleasuring himself". A very conservative nurse tells him "Stop that; you'll go blind." The man asks "Can't I do it until I just get cataracts?"
@xppp3021
@xppp3021 8 років тому
he brings down blood pressure. Reduces stress. there's nobody you have to deal with afterwards except yourself. and it will keep your ass out of prison.
@lovefunkrockmusic
@lovefunkrockmusic 6 років тому
Ever heard of Jack the Ripper
@JonnieQuestsStars
@JonnieQuestsStars 5 років тому
x ppP are you talking about masterbation or Jesus???? Really? Out of jail?
@yannijanmondejar7951
@yannijanmondejar7951 5 років тому
Well said. She amazed me of how she delivered her message effectively. The way talk was calm and smooth. Her visual presentation was a good way to present her ideas coherently. The way she moves and the way she uses her hands were also a good way to convey every points of her message. Overall, her communication skills were pretty impressive and if I would to rate her speech then it would be 9/10.
@rideadventure3777
@rideadventure3777 4 роки тому
@Venom Hype hi how are you? is there female?
@Eddie-kj1zb
@Eddie-kj1zb 2 роки тому
I was so depressed at the beginning untill she said it's a lie
@steveburns199
@steveburns199 Рік тому
​@@rideadventure3777 time to get it done before I get to the other thing that is not worth the time to talk about it
@ayoubayoubb1562
@ayoubayoubb1562 3 роки тому
I loved the talk at last 💯💯🙏🙏
@aditya4566
@aditya4566 2 роки тому
So much useful information... Thank you soo much teesha...
@SanjayKumar-of9ze
@SanjayKumar-of9ze 4 роки тому
Thanks for explaining one of the most confusing question.
@GauravSingh-js3vm
@GauravSingh-js3vm 4 роки тому
but why our baba's are against thhis bhai...
@beliver468
@beliver468 4 роки тому
This poor lady has NO idea what she talking about. Masturbation is the worst thing for mind body and soul.
@harlenneroxanne3811
@harlenneroxanne3811 4 роки тому
@we see the ligh it’s being proven that masturbation clears the mind
@user-hi2fp1he5g
@user-hi2fp1he5g 3 роки тому
@@beliver468 you've got "soul" in your sentence, so we know it's gotta be true!
@wonderfulcharacter883
@wonderfulcharacter883 6 років тому
Thank you so so so much for this valuable information....once again thank you!!!!
@hamzamahmood9565
@hamzamahmood9565 5 років тому
Aaaand you've got 69 likes on ya comment
@Majestic469
@Majestic469 5 років тому
I dont like where this is going..
@Akajeyjey
@Akajeyjey 4 роки тому
She is right about some things but I believe it DOES teach me instant gratification which makes my life feel harder than it is.. I get more distracted because I tend to search for a stimulus that gives me similar feeling more often.. I did experience worse performance at a gym after doing it (I'm talking day or two before).. I'm not sure about immunity improvement, I only notice brief improvement when I'm sick and then I feel even more tired and overall worse.. I don't tell anyone what to do but for me it seems helpful. I don't have religious reasons, I'm not ashamed of it and I don't care about going against mainstream.. Maybe it helps only certain types of people, who knows, I'm probably one of them.. For anyone who looks down on this, I encourage you to stay open minded.. give it try for several days.. If then you decide It's utter nonsense, it's ok..
@infernoisreal
@infernoisreal Рік тому
You might wanna ask yourself why you are constantly looking for stimulus, for me it was because of my ADHD but it could be different for many people.
@hellomumbo
@hellomumbo 11 місяців тому
I completely agree to this. The speaker does not seem to have real experience about it.masturbation is wrong. It weakens you physically as well as mentally.
@vijitdaroch4879
@vijitdaroch4879 4 роки тому
Good stuff... much to learn from
@Kojogh
@Kojogh 5 років тому
She scared me the first few minutes 😂
@user-nr1gc1xn8b
@user-nr1gc1xn8b 4 роки тому
我也是,吓死了
@Jblah
@Jblah 4 роки тому
@@user-nr1gc1xn8b tf?
@user-nr1gc1xn8b
@user-nr1gc1xn8b 4 роки тому
@@Jblah 什么意思?what?
@JamesTenis
@JamesTenis 4 роки тому
and then I felt so thankful for telling me lies!!
@jo-anneweiler4756
@jo-anneweiler4756 8 років тому
What a delight it is to hear this important topic covered in such a playful and inviting way. Love your presentation style, humour and your joy is infectious! I can't wait to refer my clients to your UKposts!
@anthonymuco154
@anthonymuco154 8 років тому
+Jo-Anne Weiler Just for her presentation?
@tapask09
@tapask09 8 років тому
I love the way she delivered the entire presentation on such a sensitive topic. kudos!
@jo-anneweiler4756
@jo-anneweiler4756 8 років тому
Yes she's terrific. You can tune into her on the Shine In 2016 webinar. Sign up app.webinarjam.net/register/23623/b8a4305988
@avisgabbidon351
@avisgabbidon351 6 років тому
Tapas K. Chowdhury m
@vinaysinha8991
@vinaysinha8991 2 роки тому
Very informative and worth watching!!! Fine tuned the knowledge and exposed the taboos associated!!! Hope many more programs on this issue!!!
@stoic007
@stoic007 Рік тому
maarte reh fir mutthi
@rumana3211
@rumana3211 8 років тому
Congratulations Teesha!
@xTheBigWoodyx
@xTheBigWoodyx 8 років тому
Read the title and thought it said "Masturbation Methods" and I was like oh shit but now I'm here and kind of disappointed
@shawntardy7287
@shawntardy7287 5 років тому
Aiden Woods 😂😂
@mackmanelaflare2520
@mackmanelaflare2520 5 років тому
Aiden Woods 😂😂😂
@KineticGamingYT
@KineticGamingYT Рік тому
i just love the way, how she started with a smile! 😊
@joerogaine3093
@joerogaine3093 4 роки тому
Humans have a way of talking themselves into negative behavior. In all honesty we should practice self control.
@agent-eg8mb
@agent-eg8mb 4 роки тому
Nofap proves her wrong
@enisnizzy2396
@enisnizzy2396 4 роки тому
She did a comparison between sports and masturbation... ugh women.
@icydeath1993
@icydeath1993 4 роки тому
@@agent-eg8mb yup nofap is really good.improves confidence and conserves energy.
@vukcevu5854
@vukcevu5854 3 роки тому
facts.
@YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year
@YouTube_gets_dumber_each_year 3 роки тому
@@agent-eg8mb I saw your comment and out of morbid curiosity I decided to randomly google "nofap suicides". Much to my surprise I came across a plethora of results. I'm not trying to suggest there's an inherent correlation between the practice of nofap and intrusive thoughts but I just wanted to get your perspective on that particular subject. Do you think there's any demographic that might be more susceptible to suffering adverse effects while on nofap?
@oliviabarbosa4086
@oliviabarbosa4086 7 років тому
Wonderful, Dr. Teesha! I love your sense of humor. :)
@7Chino7
@7Chino7 7 років тому
Olívia Barbosa da Silva What do you think about the video's topic? Still a shameful taboo topic for women, right?
@rtx_____
@rtx_____ 6 років тому
Oh wow me too what a beatiful very nice presentation so much nice and presentful very
@rairepia5695
@rairepia5695 6 років тому
Olívia Barbosa da Silva
@amirhosseintb1521
@amirhosseintb1521 5 років тому
Come on shes anythinf but FUNNY 😐
@agaurav1
@agaurav1 5 років тому
Hello
@kilroy8989
@kilroy8989 8 років тому
I will not be able to look at cornflakes the same again
@alexandergilles8583
@alexandergilles8583 5 років тому
As long as your cornflakes have milk, they’re great ;)
@aaravp2248
@aaravp2248 4 роки тому
I was about to cry in the beginning
@tanakritdd8223
@tanakritdd8223 4 роки тому
9:05 ladies and gentlemen, we finally found the cure for the coronavirus
@kishanpandit348
@kishanpandit348 4 роки тому
Thats true.. according to scientist..
@mikeposner5696
@mikeposner5696 3 роки тому
Lol
@redonthebeatboi
@redonthebeatboi 3 роки тому
Damn boi
@musamabinamir5106
@musamabinamir5106 3 роки тому
Genius baby
@uhinger
@uhinger 3 роки тому
vaccination reverse way (men's view only) 😂
@TXP9
@TXP9 4 роки тому
I love things like this that support my existing beliefs.
@cecilarthur3579
@cecilarthur3579 3 місяці тому
🤔
@gorgorgorgorgor1
@gorgorgorgorgor1 8 років тому
Masturbation destroys my self-esteem, which in turn causes many of the problems she's trying to dismiss.
@kathymain578
@kathymain578 6 років тому
It makes me feel much better about myself actually, more energy and a better mood.
@non-applicable.
@non-applicable. 6 років тому
That's the point she's making! It destroys your self-esteem because of the unhealthy societal attitude towards it. If it was accepted as a norm, there wouldn't be a stigma around it and people wouldn't feel ashamed of themselves for engaging in this activity.
@Jojo-oi5vi
@Jojo-oi5vi 5 років тому
This is soo true, it destroy my life, i wsnt to live a normal life and judt be me and meet someone
@Saieras
@Saieras 5 років тому
You're likely using it as a coping mechanism for stress or trauma. Consider therapy.
@pointonelectronics
@pointonelectronics 5 років тому
maybe doing it to often. try less often.
@blookz7877
@blookz7877 4 роки тому
I love this woman
@KarnodAldhorn
@KarnodAldhorn 4 роки тому
Me too
@achedangmei4375
@achedangmei4375 4 роки тому
Love your presentation miss, Morgan.
@granand
@granand 4 роки тому
I am over doing it..I need to see you immediately
@superbreastman
@superbreastman 4 роки тому
Me too 😂🤣🤣🤣
@kiraf.9135
@kiraf.9135 7 років тому
This was so on point. I'm showing this to all my girl friends. Every woman needs to see this.
@udembamichael4098
@udembamichael4098 Рік тому
This is awesome. Thanks, Teesha for such a fantastic lecture with a positive way of viewing masturbation in society.
@prakashmajumdar4517
@prakashmajumdar4517 4 роки тому
outstanding presentation....
@Africa893
@Africa893 5 років тому
I love the sheer amount of comments here that boil down to "YOU'RE WRONG! YOU'RE TWISTED!" that offer _no actual evidence or counterpoint,_ just disagreement.
@faustus5481
@faustus5481 7 років тому
If masturbation _did_ make you go blind, would you.... a: stop b: slow down c: take your chances
@joesixpack8166
@joesixpack8166 7 років тому
Lol. Definitely take my chances.
@justinebeaver1419
@justinebeaver1419 7 років тому
Hmm.....decisions, decisions.
@jaykerouac2
@jaykerouac2 7 років тому
If you went blind, the good news is that you'd still be able to beat your meat😅
@dannygjk
@dannygjk 7 років тому
I may be wrong but I'll guess you are a woman?
@jackoroni4609
@jackoroni4609 5 років тому
C
@ash93938
@ash93938 Рік тому
Superb talk, worthy of sharing with the uneducated
@emman107
@emman107 4 роки тому
The Ending 🔥
@toyocarter4651
@toyocarter4651 7 років тому
i was scared at the beginning but then i realized she was empasizing a point and the statements were myths.
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