Praise the Lord. God bless you and your family. And God bless that godly funeral Director that had the compassion to put your feelings before himself.

Sorry for your loss

condolences and prayers

may the Lord bless this mand generous heart 1000 fold

@@HandsomeBoyGarion your lost???????

Will you bury me next Tuesday

I wish that I could. I am in Houston, Texas and we have The National Museum of Funeral that is attached to a mortuary school. I remembered in high school the mortuary school was at our district wide college night. No one would go talk to them. I did because I have always been interested but at an empath it is hard.

@@3hearts1lifeyo-yo42 this comment is seamlessly suited to both the comments above but meant for only one. “I wish I COULD bury you next Tuesday…… I’m booked; how bout Monday?

Those who work in mortuary services are a rare breed. I'm amazed that you can stomach it.

@@DIVISIONINCISION the same could be said for proctologist's, sanitation workers or septic service people. But the greatest and most profound act you can perform for someone is it do for them what they cannot do themselves. The dead cannot bathe and dress themselves nor walk or drive themselves to the cemetery. They rely on the living to accomplish it on their behalf. This is a calling, it's not a job. And believe me, you do not want someone who views it as a "job" taking care of your loved one when the need arises. You want someone who is dedicated and caring.

Hospice nurse here. I always invite the family to help me do post mortem care, or the cleaning of the body prior to the funeral home coming. Back in the day, people died at home. They didn't die in hospitals, with their bodies whisked away and family having no contact with their corpse until they saw them made up at the funeral home. I think that takes away a huge part of the grieving process. Those last rites of caring for their body help us to come to terms with the reality of their loss. It's a process, and an important one. I know it feels kinda weird, but cleaning her up was probably really helpful for you in the long run. Blessings to you..a stranger is thinking of you tonight and hoping you're doing okay.

🙏🏼🤍

@@DenaInWyoBoth my parents were cared for by hospice nurses, my mom at home and my dad in a hospice home; you are all angels who walk upon this earth. Bless you for what you do not only for the people you are caring for, but for their families as well. We will never forget the nurses who were there for my parents and my siblings and me. Thank you.

God bless you

She knows.🙏

I lost my 17 year old son...I totally agree with your feelings..14 years later I'm still stuck 💔💔

So Sorry for your loss. As a father myself..my heart aches for your suffering. They are with Jesus, safe and fully loved even more than any parent could love their own children. My prayer for you and your Husband is that he will bring healing to your hearts and give you peace. I pray that you both continue to live for Jesus Christ while you are still in this earth and that you eagerly await your reunion with your twins when you see them both again when your time comes. God Bless!

Condolences❤ death and grief change you. It’s inevitable. Love to your rainbow baby!

They are twin Cherubs at the right hand of the lord God. They watch over you and their memory will always be with you. ✝

I lost a 2 month old to sids . You are so right about never being the same. My son passed 40 years ago. Never is life the same. We just do things differently and more loving .

Oh, you are very considerate and thoughtful. (I should have known you and your mother are cat people ! 🐈💕)

That's beautiful, bless you , may she rest in heaven

Inshallah you will see her again and im sorry for your loss i couldnt imagine the pain u went thru

That's sweet--how lucky you are to have had a nice mom.

More power to you, because I couldn’t do it. There’s no way I would want to see my mother naked alive, let alone dead. I would probably go blind

Tim I am so sorry for your loss. A parent should Never have to bury there child. It just goes against the way things are supposed to be. I lost my kid brother in a drowned accident he was 21. The pain of losing a brother and watching my parents suffer is just in bearable. Next year it will be 40 years ago, but the hurt never goes away! All my family has since passed and I am the last surviving person. Maybe its why I checked this video out? All I can say is trust in a higher power, God, time will fly by and our time will come weather we are ready or not. God willing we will all be united again. It hurts to think of all they missed out on here on earth, but God has his reasons! God Bless my friend🙏

@@jackargese895 Thank you for the kind words, Jack. My sincere condolences to you on losing your brother.

Damn bro, that's the hardest thing to have to endure. My sincerest condolences to you. May your daughter spend eternity in heavenly glory. May the Ruach (Holy Spirit) grant you the peace that you need. Shalom brotha

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My heart has been touched by your tragic loss. May the Lord bring you peace. You’ve experienced the worst of losses. Those 3 moments you described took me there with you and words are just not available for moments such as those. That’s when the Holy Spirit has to speak for us. I stand with you in the utmost respect and compassion for what you endured.❤️🙏💪🥲

i want to be cremated,but if i were buried i would at least want to really have a shirt and jacket on and not just looking like i am wearing them.

​@@arnoldzyphill3167Yeah, I agree

This is my favorite part about this job, the tenderness of the people who work in it ❤so many beautiful souls

Just beautiful ! 😢

Not really. Although kind of him, religious mythology ruins everything. 😶

@@alphaomega1351 you do realize, you contradicted yourself. You are a real special kind of person.

@@TURTLEORIGINAL Whatever sweet cheeks. All you need to understand is that no matter how much y'all pretend, the god deity will remain no more real than the Tooth Fairy 🧚‍♂️. Yep, time to grow up my little feeble minded friend. You are too old to still be playing make-believe. 😶

@@alphaomega1351 Religion is for the birds and I am not a bird.

@@TURTLEORIGINAL Alpha Omega is commenting on many of the other people in here who dare to reference anything other than what HE deems is the correct way of thinking. Pay no attention to this attention seeking Dingus Muppet.

Another great thing about the whole Lynch family is their voices are all soothing, measured and calming: traits you certainly appreciate in people dealing with such a delicate matter.

Agreed. Yes, so kind and respectful.

Yes, but maybe cause there only being filmed, there are tons that are shady and nasty. Do yr research on places and if need be watch. Just like nursing homes i don't care if they are rated 8 stars abuse happens! Put hidden cameras in a room is suspected.

Absolutely ❤

@@blackmonday738, There are some things that cannot be faked. Caring and genuine compassion are among them. When addressing people who have suffered great loss, it is often necessary to give information a bit at a time, and repeat as needed. I learned this when I spoke with my son's doctor and knew he needed surgery. I had to call the doctor's office and ask that they repeat everything. Because he was in 2nd Grade at the time, it was twice as upsetting. Children need things of a serious nature explained carefully and without the parent acting scared or upset. I reviewed some texts I studied years before in Child Development classes, which helped a lot. Adults can have similar fear reactions depending upon how information is conveyed. It requires time and patience -- and the funeral director must "read" a client to determine how to best communicate effectively and compassionately. There's no way those traits can be faked. Clients must also "read" the person they are interviewing, ideally during a meeting to settle "pre-need" so the rest of the family is not traumatized and exploited when death happens.

Jesus gave her disernment .

@@hollyivins8843 your comment gave me confirmation on something 🙏🏿

@@sweetcapricorn I love you sister in christ. We just have to pray always with every thing and wait patiently for our Lord Jesus to let us know. God Bless you my dear.

Actually, she did not speak profound truth when she said, "Certainly none of us knows for sure what happens you know after we pass." (46:09) Jesus Christ said, *"I am telling you the truth, whoever believes in me has eternal life."* (John 6:47) So obviously we CAN know what happens after death. God didn't just create us and leave us here with no knowledge of our existence. We have His Word, The Bible, which is our Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth.

@@salvation4all313 no

May God bless you and your mother's soul

Amen! ❤

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Thank you for the update! 🙏❤

Oh thank-you so much! I scanned the comments to see if someone knew how that young couple is doing. I pray they are experiencing profound joy with their living children. I am sure they honor the memory of their son who died. What a strong couple!

i have read the comments for 20 minutes, and finally a big smile on my face...thank you!

the thing is you can't go to their location that they do the cremations. Where I live, there is only one location that does the cremations for several funeral homes, and then returned.

That's really rude of them. Sorry that happened.

Really ? When my sister died the creamatory asked if we wanted to be there.

Strange request, no question. The funeral home doesnt do the cremation. The cannot grant u permission to go where it takes place

I’m sorry for your loss and sorry you had that experience. I was glad he talked in the documentary about going, because I never knew it was possible.

So sorry to hear about your mom. Hope you are doing well.

@SnyderTools thank you. My mom passed quietly April 22nd 2023. I think about her everyday.

HE HIT ME AS WELL. 😢😢😢😢

Broke my heart as well when that precious little one died. I cannot stop crying. God bless them. He is in Heaven.

@@kassandra8100 Im sure you can stop crying stop being so dramatic.

@@JoryBarrettlmfao 😂

Amen to that.

I so agree.

Yeah, his writings moved me to tears. Definitely going to get a couple of his publications….

yep, we're all gonna kick the bucket

When I was a Baby just six months old. We took a family portrait of me my Mom, Dad, and my Sister that was a year older than I. Right before the Mortician put her body in the ground I wasn't happy until I put this picture in her Casket. I also had many more so I made sure that all of my siblings had this picture. I feel that my Mother is still here with me for I have her picture on my dresser and I can look at it every night.

I didn't know this could happen...but so much can happen to anyone.

@@heaven7360 You didn’t know what could happen?

I was thinking the same thoughts. I hope they are.

I know how those parents feel, I had to go though the same thing, it isn`t a pleasant feeling.

Those are my feelings exactly. He is lucky to have her as a partner in trying to make sense of their loss. This is one of the best documentaries that I have ever seen.

They are fine. They had two more children.

I understand what you mean but they'll never be fine. Thanks for the update.@@kenzierocks1240

Rip💐💐💐💐to all shown my condolences to the families 💛💛💛💛

Thank you for what you do. I hope you know you are greatly appreciated

God bless you for your service to others

Thank you for what you do ❤

I feel the sudden deaths are worse than if someone is sick.. thanks for what you do! 🙏🏼🤍

I was a grave digger for about 6 months right after high school. The hardest thing I ever did was dig a hole for a little baby that was killed by the babysitter. I thought I was going to dig for a marker until Paul handed me a shovel and told me 36 inches deep and walked away. My wife then was 7 months pregnant with my first child. I cried like a baby digging that hole. When I came back to work in the morning Bill said your back most people don’t come back after that. I told him that was something I expected but didn’t want to do. But it’s part of the job. They let me go for another guy who quit the first time he smelled a decomposed body and they called me asking if I wanted my job back. I probably should’ve by now I would have a nice pension from the county but oh well.

I’m so sorry. May you find peace.

Im so sorry!!!!!!

Huuugs❤

May the Lord give you peace,comfort and hope that you will see him again.

I'm so sorry. I'm sure Matt would want you to find peace. You'll see each other again. 💙🙏

Amen your words are so true. 🙏

Without a doubt the silence is the worst. Or at least for me it was when my dad died.

@@staceylynn4700 my brother was my best friend

I was able to find the parents on FB and I saw a nice picture of them taken 7 years ago with 2 small children.

I saw his precious little smile. He knew he was loved ❤️

I noticed it also and I noticed that he smiled in the last interview they did before he passed away.

@@SMcCaskill I still think of him till today. God bless

You see the impermanence of things. Perhaps this makes everything more precious, maybe even sacred. None of us really knows for sure when we're going to leave this life. Those in this business probably have frequent reminders of this fact.

@@davidpeppers551 one very crucial thing to consider is determining where you will go when you leave your body. Having attended many funerals, I’m very aware of how we can, and should, find comfort when the deceased expressed a strong religious faith. This is especially true in my culture here in the south (Atlanta). I guess it has to do with how much importance people placed on the things of God while they were here. Life is a vapor, we will all spend eternity somewhere. There are those who believe that’s simply in the dirt. I believe otherwise and so I pray my loved ones will find comfort in that when I leave this world.

Or .... Some of the creepiest. I knew a funeral director in my home town. He always shook hands with everyone he met..... Children included.. his hands were always so cold..

@@eunicestone838 The staff I met at funeral homes were essentially the same kind of people who work for churches. Here in Georgia, we have a very strong faith community. The funeral directors where I live seem more like pastors who don’t preach but rather guide families through that time of transition.

@@ATLbench I lived in Cartersville for 20 years. Started out in Symrna, Marietta then Cville. Now live in KY

for tha rest of us, who are " those parents "

There are no such things as gods. 😶

@@hoss-lk4bg if u watched u would know.

I totally agree! My heart just broke for them. Also, what she said abt being ok with having to accept the unknown when its her time but to send her child first...😭

Yes, it makes me cry, too. That little boy is so loved!!! His parents are so strong!!! Breaks my heart. ❤️

How do you feel about the industry becoming just a corporate, profit-driven monster that continues to swallow up the private, smaller town businesses? Many of us know the predation that occurs to the families in the worst times of their lives.

​@@jdaniel30681aaq+qq++a saw was s DC

As a funeral professional, nothing is as silent as they make it sound. Normalize death.

Do funeral directors ever let people intern? I’m 23 yr old woman and have grown more and more fascinated with the process of it all and the art of restoring what is. I haven’t gone to mortuary school but what if i offered to sweep for them or pass out obituaries. Would that be crazy?

​@@cleo9297 I knew a woman who had no mortuary experience but was hired in as I think some kind of clerical/client-facing position (helping families with decisions and such), but she did have the opportunity to also help with the care and preparation of the bodies - nothing intensive or requiring any sort of skill that required schooling. She found her work very fulfilling. So yes, those kinds of opportunities are out there. Obviously how much you are allowed to do will vary from company to company.

O Wendy.. I'm so sorry for your lose first of all and for whatever reason I'm compelled ask questions.. if I may..how in God's Holly name do you face the sunlight on your next given day from day to day.. I'm so afraid of loosing my parents and time is ticking.. what would you say if asked.. how should I prepare my son and grandson for their lose and how do I make peace with our differences ... You are now where I know I will be soon... Also . God bless you and keep you.. are you of faith? Wow I have so many questions... I'm sorry

That’s tough, be strong and think of the good times.

@@jenniferwilson7762 - I have to assume that I have a different (perhaps unusual) relationship with death. The first thing I did was make a very conscious effort over the past several years to make sure I left nothing unsaid to my parents and I tried to make sure they knew what they meant to me and that I absolutely know how blessed I was to have their unconditional love. They adopted me when I was 8wks old and it took me into my adulthood to realize that how amazingly fortunate I was to have the childhood, family , and extended family I had. I was not an easy child/ teenager/ young adult to raise 😔. I am introverted (or select social) and though I think I’m an empath, I do not communicate well, so it was an effort for me to take ever opportunity I got to vocalize my gratitude, love and appreciation to my parents, instead of just thinking it every single day of my life. I needed them to hear it. But I did it and I know , had I not, I would have lived with regret the rest of my life. I made extra trips “home” to see them after my mom got sick (lung issues) she was 75. It’s an 8 hour drive. I prayed for God to allow me to get there in time to say goodbye after I received the call. He answered. She survived two more days, and was coherent for about 30 mins after I arrived. I was with her when she passed. My dad was a 16 year kidney transplant survivor but was in good health, and good docs. After my mom passed (they were married 51 years) I made an extra effort to answer every phone call, do little things, visit more often and dedicated most of my trips there to him. My three daughters, 3 grandkids, brother and extended family live within miles of him and all played a part in his care. He was devastated. After his 2 💉, he started having heart issues and had to have surgery. After his third 💉 he caught Covid, was hospitalized but recovered quick. A few weeks later he was sitting in the car and my brother ran back in the house to grab a water. When he returned my dads heart had stopped. My aunt ran across the street and started CPR (retired nurse). The ambulance took him to the hospital and vented him before they realized he had a DNR. My brother asked me if I wanted them to wait to take the vent out until I got there and I just told him “do what you need to do” I’ll be there in 9 hrs. I did not know what I was walking into but dad was alert when I arrived and survived three more days. I was with him at hospice care when he passed. He was 83. He also had the onset of Parkinson’s. The way I got through it was being a realist , I guess. Dad was 83 and his Kidney had lasted longer than expected. He lived a long good life and I long ago prepared best I could to the fact that no one can live forever , so I decided instead of focusing on the negatives I would FOREVER count my many blessing. My mom suffered and had no quality of life left. She was tired and made it know she was ready to go. I didn’t want to watch her suffer anymore. She lived a long , good life minus the 3 years she was sick. They both hated that they couldn’t hold their rambunctious grandchildren or travel etc. They hated relying on all of us to do for them and take them places or pick up stuff, though none of us minded at all. They were both very outgoing and independent people, always helping everyone else. The hardest part for me when my mom died was honestly watching my dad suffer. It was heart wrenching. The hardest part after my dad died was not having him to care for, always thinking of ways to help him , make his life easier, what I could send him, do the next time I was home, missing the phone calls, and realizing that I had no parents, like I no longer belonged to anyone. Yes I have my children & gbabies, but this was different. I may sound cold or heartless but I was at peace, knowing they lived long, mostly healthy lives, that I had left nothing unsaid, or undone. That myself and my family (more so them because I am in a different state) had provided the absolute best of care possible and that I (we) had been blessed beyond measure. I didn’t want to see them suffer and I’m not sure how they would have faired in this turbulent world we are now living in. I was constantly thinking about the “what if’s” when dad was alive. Like if SHTF can I get his meds, is he safe, what if the power goes out etc etc etc. The one thing I myself disagree with in the video is I chose to not see either parent after they initially passed. I was there to support my family but I chose to remember them as they were. I did not want my last image to be of their deceased body as I knew their soul was no longer their. I did not know if I would regret that after my mom passed and I didnt at all. I knew that was the absolute correct choice for me so I did the same with my dad. I miss them terribly. I have two sets of wind chimes that was given to me with each of their passing. Everyday when I hear them, I just smile and say, I hear ya. Tomorrow we go to the hospital to say goodbye to my husbands father. I will miss his daily visits as well. He’s 84 and been mostly healthy until this event that he will not recover from. My husband view on the death process is right in line with mine. We have so much to be thankful for and though we will miss all of them tremendously we also know they only wanted their kids and families to be taken care of and be happy. They did that for us. My only advice would be , stay supportive as a family, be there for one another, pray for one another and Gods comfort when the time arrives. Do what comforts you through the grieving process, no matter what. I thought my family would be upset with me for not getting all “involved” in the funeral, clothes, casket, etc process but they understood and supported me , as I did them. But even had they not, my gut told me what was right for me. Grieve but also focus on your blessings and know that as much as we are gonna miss them , they are in a much better place with no pain or sorrow ❤️. Do the best you can, and let God do the rest. Thank you for your kind words.

@@WendyRandall ...wow, Wendy, for someone introverted, you can open up well. I read the whole thing, and bottom line, I wish you were my daughter, you seem to demonstrate the care that I long for from my kids, but don't. I'm 68 years old. God bless your heart!

@@singmysong1167 Ohhh if you were mine (assuming you survived my formative years 🤦‍♀️) I would surely take care of you and love you! It saddens me that some folks don’t appreciate what they have and tend to focus on the negatives. Life is truly too short for that!!! I wish I could spread love, and cheer, and care, oh and goodies to every single soul that needs/wants it! That would make me so happy. Hang in there, stay positive and I truly hope you get the love and care you deserve 🙏.

May God be with him and comfort him for this greatest loss, the loss of a child, the kind of loss that he had hoped to be spared.

Of course, she is, what else would she be doing?

@@joaquimrodriguez8961 Commagain?

@@joaquimrodriguez8961 youre about as funny as all the Seinfeld seasons combined.

@@trendmassacre8423 It's not supposed to be funny it's true😎.

Watched this with my 13 y/o nephew and he was riveted, I told him his Grandfather was in the funeral home business, he said he wanted to talk to him about it...really special time for the two of us.

My rule is to be nice to people when they are alive.

The funeral industry is a scam.

I disagree with your premise. It's the thing in your life when you have already left, but hopefully able to see... I chose doves for my Mom and butterflies for my Dad. They were set free after the service.

My ❤️ Hear Is Absolutely 💔 Broken For These's Parents That Have Had To Be Separated From There Loving ❤️ Children Or Any ❤️ Loveones !! That Pain That 💔 😢 Of Knowing What Dealth Done Do Causes Us Humans 😪 To Grieve In Our ❤️ Heart's In Our Life's For Nothing Is Ever The Same As Before !! We Can't Undo Dealth It's Never Easy Being Without Them !! When Where Face With Knowing Yes We Can't Make Those Arrments How Ever For Some Lack Of Money Know Insurance !! It's Hard Not Knowing How You Going To Made These Kind Of Arag

edzo sorry for your loss son

My mother also prepaid her funeral but when she died she was not taken to that home. A scandal with the new non family manager.

My dad also died in 2007. Feb. 11th but he had already prepaid for everything and everything was set to his wishes. It definitely made things better that he had done this. Even though I knew he was dying, I was still a wreck.

It shouldn't. Death is very much natural. Religious mythology and horror movies 🎬 make it scary. The more we embrace reality the better. 😶

@@marylhere How sad 😞

My adult son lost his father May 10...My former husband many years ago....My son still cannot pick up the urn...while Ive had many family mbr pass and been on medical side far to many years, nothing prepared me ever for this...nothing...

I cried along with them …

I am just now seeing this documentary, these stories. And I came here to also post my gratitude for these parents, sharing their journey with us. Yes, I hope time has softened the rough edges a bit, allowing the loving times to be remembered more often. Their little boy looked like a sweet soul with them.

they are in michigan for tha rest of us what is " tha industry "

It was HEARTBREAKING!

There are no such things as gods. Time to embrace reality. 😶

Those traits are not confined to religion.

Just remember, man did NOT make a sky. To believe in something you need , but cannot see,…think about air. 😎

@@olgaharris1103but we can objectively measure air. That’s a stupid argument

@Josh Major God bless you

That must have been a very long time ago. Only ones I've ever seen are the tiny backhoes...

I visited my parents’ grave not too far from their deaths. The workers were digging a grave. They were so gentle with the earth, working slowly and quietly. It brought me some peace, knowing that they dug my own parents’ graves.

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Hi how do I find this story

My God I just got to this part and it’s crushing. So sad.

@@williamgallucci9913 I believe she posted something on social media and shared a photo of herself and her husband and their two children. Boy and girl and the boy looks identical to her. I was happy to see their marriage survived because there is nothing more taxing then losing a child. I'll try to find where I saw that and get you a link.

Oh my, that broke my heart. Bless that family.

God gave them the strength!! and they did a wonderful job!!

He knew he was loved.

Very Well Said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🕊🕊🕊🕊

@Laurence O'Connor I meant no disrespect. At all. It’s an expression.

Beautifully written.❤❤

@@meeranaam thank you.

I lost my Husband, my best friend, my partner in all things, 3 years ago in 3 weeks from now. He was a rare man. A funny, compassionate, hard-working, big bear of a man. He was also the gentlest man I've ever known to the Father of our girls. He was a great Papa to our Grandchildren, and always put his family before any work, friends, or other things. Fuerborn Funeral Home Handled his Father's, Mother's and eventually his funeral services. I cared for them for 23 years before he passed away. His Father 1st, and years later He died, with his Mother passing just 4 months later. My parents died within 5 months of each other 12 years earlier. I have lost, and been responsible for so many friends. Some, because they had no family to tend to them, or they just didn't care, some because they had no one. I've lost a baby, many years ago. I have to say you never know these Osseo will affect you until they happen. There are many ways people grieve, and none of them are wrong. Understanding that is sometimes hard to do. Our Funeral home is so much like the one in this video. These people truly care. I've seen others who are strictly " Business ". I am so very thankful that wasn't the case with Fuerborne Funeral Home here in SE Kansas. They were all so very helpful, and did not question our needs as a family in laying our elders, and my Husband to rest. I cannot stress enough how important Pre-planning is. Knowing that those arrangements are planned ahead of time makes things go so much easier at a time when you least want to worry about the major decisions. May the Parents of that baby Boy be at Peace in their hearts, knowing they cared for him and did things in the way they wanted them done. I pray those empty arms have been filled with more children, never to replace a baby, only to be lived as MUCH, as that little baby was.

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@@reneet5858 strong words from a strong woman. God bless and hope you are well.

@@reneet5858 My heart goes out to you. You say what a special man your husband was, well I believe he had a very special wife, too. I wish you peace.

I'd get a will, but don't but anything upfront. You'll get nailed on that later. Maybe sure everyone has seen Ask a Mortician so you're not getting any surprises. See The American Way of Death Revisited. Library has it. It's Caitlyn's inspiration to be a mortician. Jessica Mitford. She's dead now, but lots of interesting things. You DON'T have to embalm. It's polluting. Most of the time. You can have green or forest burial. You don't need an expensive casket. The Jewish people use a plain box. You can get one. Any box will likely fall apart in a few months, anyway. None are entirely weather/waterproof and to imply they are is lying. Mausoleums are no guarantee, either. At some point, they'll be abandoned and its no fun when they explode from not being vented properly or start leaking. Then, you have an array of legal mess to get your "body" back in that situation...

Same here that was hard to see..

You are beautiful by the way you would be a great mother or you probably are..

So so sad 😞 I couldn't imagine going through something so painful God bless that innocent baby

That little boy's parents showed a lot of strength in allowing the filmmakers in their home, and discussing the gradual decline of their son. They were not afraid to let their feelings show, all the way to carrying their little son to his grave and lowering his casket. Seeing that left an odd pull at my heart, even though I've never had children of my own. That little boy looked like a perfect little gentleman, with his dress outfit and tie, during the wake. It made me wish I could have put a teddy bear in his casket, to keep him company. 💔

I’m sorry for your loss.🌻

@@Mrs_T76 Thank you very much. 🙂

I'm so sorry for your loss. The Lynch family seem like really genuinely caring and good people.

May her soul Rest In Peace sorry for your lost

They seem so professional; needed at this moment of time. My great uncle sold their funeral home and unfortunately over the years customer service became so cold and functional. My mother deserved better. Sorry for your loss

I share your feelings and thoughts as well. I’ve been in the military for 28 years in the army 27 years in special forces soon to retire in two years. Anthony looks so much like my child right now and really hits home. I see many people die during my service as a combat special forces medic. No matter how highly trained you are never get over the fact that you lost somebody in your care I go through this every day in my life I never stop learning. My plans are after the army is to get into med school. I have the basics done I have a biology degree and then go in life to get back before I die to make amends of what I’ve done in my past

I myself am a paramedic, and your words certainly ring true.

You can't see charging for a child's funeral??? Yes, it's very sad, but that's how they make their money. A place can't stay in business if they don't charge

Yes. 🙏🏻

True ey.

My condolences. Pole sana.

💔❤️

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure he left this realm feeling very much loved.

That’s beautiful

Amen

You’re so sweet. Beautiful comment. ❤

Thank you for allowing us to learn from your loss. It is so hard❤️💔❤️

Robert kelly died in 2014...7 years after this documentry...

It Made Me Cry

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What I found touching was how sweet and lovingly she held him. He was safe in his mother's arms, now he's safe in the arms of Jesus Christ.

If you follow eastern religions, our souls come many times until we have learned every lesson life has to offer. Ultimately, we are ready to lose our individual consciousness and become unaware. Who knows what little Anthony was here to learn, or perhaps here to teach.

You are beautiful

agreed, it’s absolutely heartbreaking.

@@stevo6891 thank you sir for the kind words.

@@EmmaDee You’re welcome, yes I couldn’t take it seeing that young baby suffer it isn’t fair.. If I could trade places with him I would.. I use to run in the fire department as a EMT/Paramedic and some of the calls still bother me today.. I had to do some counseling for some.. I just couldn’t do it anymore..

they did they have a son and daughter, I checked facebook.

@@nastybigJim praise God for that!

It was genetic so maybe there was a way to find out if they would have to have further babies suffer the same fate. I didn't know genetic testing was that good back in 2007.

@@nastybigJim So glad to hear this. I wondered about that as well. Thank you.

I worked in a funeral home helping cremate and i was not family and was pretty much treated like a nothing and nobody. Funeral directors, undertakers, which ever they are, are a bunch of weird fucks that shelter themselves from everything else and cant work real jobs.

Really hard to break into? Where do you live? Where I live most places are looking for people. No one wants to work because a lot of it is on call overnight a few nights a week so they quit. Also have to be on call on holidays so they quit.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL

GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS

@@BrenB125 They don't understand the commitment. I was a FD/ Embalmer for 40 plus years and retired. Saw lots of people come and go in the business, especially student just out of school couldn't handle the erratic schedule.

They went on to have two healthy children. You should be able to Google Anthony’s name and see their picture.

Like wise Dean. Working there changed my whole perspective on life.

I hope it does exist

Thank you. Blessings as well.

When my brother Mike died suddenly at the age of 40, his estranged wide took over. She wanted to put on a show so that she would get all the acknowledgement and sympathy this group of people who knew him from high school on. She sat in the first row (it was not in a church) of this building. It appeared to be a sort of Community Center. I honestly don't know. People came from all over. Hawaii, back east, mid west. Mostly from California where he lived his entire life. He spent the last 20 years in South Lake Tahoe and finally Zephyr Cove. We, his immediate family of three sat 3/4 of the way back. Even her daughter sat back where we were. Outside, there were a bunch of people st standing in the snow

Bless you Sir.

The dead 💀 are dead 💀. There's no such thing as respect or disrespect to them. That's the mindset of the living. 😶

@@alphaomega1351 Alrighty then

@@Kill-Dozer Yep..... facts are facts 😶

Me too !

The Bible says this fallen world is temporary. We will meet our loved ones in Heaven where all are refreshed, replenished and pain free. Please read the New Testament and keep the faith ❤

I'm not a parent and I did have to stop watching there.

OMG I am at the exact same part and alomst stopped the video.

@@aandino1239 I guess I’d define myself as an agnostic, but I recently received a beautiful, embroidered Bible and plan to read it soon and come to my own conclusion. I’ve always thought that Heaven would be like the final scene in ‘The Tree of Life’. Would you describe it that way? Thank you for any replies. Love & Light from Miami Shores🦚 Stay safe mate🌎✌🏼 Peace & Prayers for the people of Ukraine🇺🇦