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КОМЕНТАРІ: 16 000
@vee11-11
@vee11-11 4 роки тому
The girl who left a voice mail honestly broke my heart. 😭
@cherfancherfan6682
@cherfancherfan6682 4 роки тому
Same I'm now crying😢😭
@Bob_Psycho100
@Bob_Psycho100 4 роки тому
Yep... :/
@ashleymorgan2199
@ashleymorgan2199 4 роки тому
Abby Ik I’m actually about to cry
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 4 роки тому
Heart cancer does that too.
@bryan_l_a
@bryan_l_a 4 роки тому
Hearing that hurt me😭😞😞😞😞
@hanee08
@hanee08 4 роки тому
"I asked God to protect me from my enemies.... And then I started losing friends.."
@Silvia.Araujo
@Silvia.Araujo 4 роки тому
Where is that quote from
@hanee08
@hanee08 4 роки тому
@@Silvia.Araujo I just saw it on pinterest 💀
@alexiaanddan
@alexiaanddan 4 роки тому
JESUS loves you. JESUS is your king. GOD made you wonderful and beautiful in his image. JESUS CHRIST died for your sins..
@Tom-nj5ie
@Tom-nj5ie 4 роки тому
They wouldn’t be your friends then, better off without them, always other people to meet
@hanee08
@hanee08 4 роки тому
@@Tom-nj5ie that's the point lmao
@eli3568
@eli3568 Рік тому
Our society prioritizes romantic relationships so heavily above friendships, I think it's actually tragic.
@angelredvivar
@angelredvivar Рік тому
@@Tania-rg7jp agreed
@redefinedliving5974
@redefinedliving5974 Рік тому
true i prefer friendships
@damianburris4537
@damianburris4537 Рік тому
But if she wants to be only friends I'm going to go for a romantic relationship instead it's going to get more of my attention
@alwaysshit
@alwaysshit Рік тому
YES THIS
@nevermindmyname813
@nevermindmyname813 Рік тому
I have been saying this. The same way we are encouraged to have open and honest communication with our partners and to put effort into those relationships, we should be encouraged to do the same with friendships
@joliejiang626
@joliejiang626 2 роки тому
I think the girl that was crying valued her friendship so much and that’s kinda rare. I hope the best for her whether that’s reconnecting with her friend or not.
@Eira436
@Eira436 2 роки тому
I can feel her pain and it’s people like us that get hurt most
@klyzer5725
@klyzer5725 2 роки тому
it's not healthy
@paimilkeu319
@paimilkeu319 2 роки тому
@@klyzer5725 well it can't be help since she really sincere love her best friend so much (probably similiar with my situation back then) Sorry for my bad english i hope you get what i'm trying to say :"
@jordanjohnson9866
@jordanjohnson9866 Рік тому
Nah. Not kinda rare. /
@kanika2155
@kanika2155 Рік тому
I could feel her pain bcz my bestfriend started ignoring me for our another common friend..she starting prioritising her more....and that's how we ended up being strangers...that hurts alot.....and when I tried to talk to her she said that we both are equally important to her but how can two people hold some positions at one place???? And now the girl that used to be our common friend is my kinda enemy now...she is always badmouthing me and spreading rumours...bcz she wanted my bff to be hers.....ughhhh....it's just sooo hurtful
@Pillsburyjoytoy
@Pillsburyjoytoy 4 роки тому
I expected “long lost friends” to be like YEARS
@gracec6468
@gracec6468 4 роки тому
It feels like years when you go from being best friends with someone, and being the person that knows them best and vise versa, and the they just drop out of your life. Every day without them feels like a week. 😔
@Pillsburyjoytoy
@Pillsburyjoytoy 4 роки тому
Grace Colker Totally! I’m not disagreeing, but I still think it’s not long enough to be referred to as “long lost friends”, though I can’t think of an alternative that isn’t super lengthy
@p.a.t.t.y
@p.a.t.t.y 4 роки тому
months without talking to your best friend does feel like years though
@kuyajayy
@kuyajayy 4 роки тому
Nicolaus Volentius i know right
@tendouii.
@tendouii. 4 роки тому
Same,I Have Talked toMy Best friend for 2-3 years And for another one it has been 4-5 years,All three of us Would fool around togeather until the Second one moved away and then a few years later!I Moved away :c
@lesliecabanas207
@lesliecabanas207 4 роки тому
Lack of communication is the downfall of every relationship
@smileyx9407
@smileyx9407 4 роки тому
leslie cabanas couldn’t agree more
@emmabrown429
@emmabrown429 4 роки тому
you are going to make me cry
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 4 роки тому
Or neglecting (your parents) for your friends or your "true love" (even though they'll cheat on you by liking an Instagram post).
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 4 роки тому
@@smileyx9407 I really couldn't
@derekrivas1394
@derekrivas1394 4 роки тому
In my case, I tried to talk to her and tried to communicate but she just ends the conversation. Like she doesn’t want to talk anymore and its sad. I feel like i can’t do anything else
@moumitaganguly3982
@moumitaganguly3982 2 роки тому
The worst part comes when you realize that the other person feel distracted or bored while talking to you even though it's the same person whom you used to talk to randomly. It hurts to witness them as past tense... little little fun moments, affection, care, limitless phone calls, bickerings, hanging out & the list go on.
@kwamesarpong2452
@kwamesarpong2452 2 роки тому
Is there anything to do to change this?
@maciejdziewit6822
@maciejdziewit6822 2 роки тому
@@kwamesarpong2452 accepting the fact we will all unify into ONE, and we'll remain FOREVER
@shnakalaka3647
@shnakalaka3647 Рік тому
Yea I miss my friend and when I try to talk to them they seem bored blan and distracted miss them.
@delisha3043
@delisha3043 Рік тому
This!!! exactly:')
@Thatoneswiftiewhoisthevaultttt
@Thatoneswiftiewhoisthevaultttt Рік тому
When I talk to my friend who I live two hours away from she never talks to me at all. If I could show you my texts to her you would see.
@o.k.3287
@o.k.3287 2 роки тому
“Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system.” My heart broke for both Alyssa and I. The amount of times I’ve heard that ringtone when trying to call my best friend is insane. It’s so bad I hear it in my head whenever I simply read the words of it. I am so sorry Alyssa, and you are so brave for leaving the voicemail. I wouldn’t. I know I just wouldn’t have the voice cords for it. I am not the crying type, but simply thinking about how our friendship has gone bad, and how if I try to reach out to her right now nothing will change makes me want to throw up. I started crying the moment you started talking about her because I recognize every voice crack, every sentence, every emotion you have felt. I feel it every time I remember her. I just wish things didn’t turn out the way they did.
@nareshjamwal5690
@nareshjamwal5690 2 роки тому
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@Say2Cups
@Say2Cups 2 роки тому
Relatable tbh
@Karnam0
@Karnam0 2 роки тому
hope everything is going well. praying for you
@Eli-nj6mf
@Eli-nj6mf Рік тому
I had the exact same experience as you and when I heard Alyssa I was also tearing up
@Eniolorunfe.
@Eniolorunfe. Рік тому
❤️❤️
@priserves
@priserves 3 роки тому
"Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system." Idk but i genuinely feel that Alyssa's friend did not pick up the call intentionally. That hurt.
@Medicint20
@Medicint20 3 роки тому
Would have been amazing if she picked up the phone at the last second and apologized for the pain she caused to Alyssa.
@anaklusmos6179
@anaklusmos6179 3 роки тому
Idk but ied
@alyssca743
@alyssca743 3 роки тому
Whenever I’m in a UKposts video where someone has the same name as me, I feel really weird lol
@cindymarson9053
@cindymarson9053 3 роки тому
If I did one of these and my best friend answered I would start crying ..my friend meant a lot to me 💗
@faezahsamyum8227
@faezahsamyum8227 3 роки тому
@@cindymarson9053 you should call her!
@roysreceptive
@roysreceptive 4 роки тому
The guy in the blue shirt tried talking to a best friend that seemed so detached. She didn’t even sound happy or excited to hear from him.
@ABirdOnTheMoon
@ABirdOnTheMoon 4 роки тому
L.Pasteur I felt very sad for him. She hardly showed anything and no emotions :(
@jamalchowdhury5953
@jamalchowdhury5953 4 роки тому
Omgg, I know right. She whatsoever portrayed no kind of emotion.
@yassinrider8982
@yassinrider8982 4 роки тому
This is exactly my situation since 1 year
@isabelle6622
@isabelle6622 3 роки тому
it was probably really awkward lmao💀😳
@sumaiyahj
@sumaiyahj 3 роки тому
It’s really painful when someone cuts you off even if it’s for whatever situation they’re going through. She has every right to feel the way she did. I’d be detached too.
@dingdong_googie
@dingdong_googie Рік тому
As a person that lost her best friend I'd like to say, "I wish our friendship was like those ones in movies".
@RockerBoy77
@RockerBoy77 11 місяців тому
well put.
@kennysfdg471
@kennysfdg471 9 місяців тому
"I wish you came to me, instead of listen to gossip... like in the movies" would be mine.
@Memoona-zq7yo
@Memoona-zq7yo 5 місяців тому
Same
@siddhibajpai9595
@siddhibajpai9595 2 роки тому
" *Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest* " " *It's about who came and never left you alone when you needed someone the most* " 💓
@vuedanto8576
@vuedanto8576 Рік тому
That means I never had real friends, even if don't have friends.
@siddhibajpai9595
@siddhibajpai9595 Рік тому
@@vuedanto8576 mee too but its ok uk karma is a b*tch
@cfjlkfsjf
@cfjlkfsjf Рік тому
Friend dumped after 18 years and I was always there supporting her LMAO!!! Got back with her ex and let all her male friends go to build trust, which is another way of saying he's a jealous mofo. The worst part is I even supported her relationship and hoped they are together a long time and was there when she was dumped hard....LMFAO!!!!! she blocked now breh, wished her well and said I always hope you're happy but you blocked now and to never contact me again.
@Katiafairyspice
@Katiafairyspice 10 місяців тому
@@siddhibajpai9595I don’t karma is a b****
@macrocosm4442
@macrocosm4442 6 місяців тому
Indeedr❤mr❤r
@beccatraxler192
@beccatraxler192 4 роки тому
The second your best friend becomes a person who you don’t even recognize it’s literally the worst feeling in the world.
@Yadi.F
@Yadi.F 4 роки тому
Becca’s life yes it really is😞
@something3476
@something3476 4 роки тому
Becca’s life I moved on,..
@carissaevangelista
@carissaevangelista 4 роки тому
it is..
@lilyy9016
@lilyy9016 4 роки тому
yes, it is.
@trishazhao8147
@trishazhao8147 4 роки тому
Tf it is
@saraelfassielfehri4956
@saraelfassielfehri4956 3 роки тому
The worst feeling is having to apologize for something that wasn't your fault to people who didn't even care
@muslimbrother7248
@muslimbrother7248 3 роки тому
That's what I'm feeling rn sis 🙇🏽‍♂️💕☹
@stutim3987
@stutim3987 3 роки тому
True
@veronikatramisak633
@veronikatramisak633 3 роки тому
That is exactly what I am going through right now, but slowly I start to move on with my life 😅🙃
@user-lj8ul8op7w
@user-lj8ul8op7w 3 роки тому
Then don't apologize, what's the problem.
@theresnothinghereatall
@theresnothinghereatall 3 роки тому
@@user-lj8ul8op7w Lmfao
@analauramorelrocha2383
@analauramorelrocha2383 Рік тому
As someone who lost childhood friends due depression, I totally get it. Its _hurts_
@MakinMisery
@MakinMisery 10 місяців тому
I lost mine the same way. I wish I could be normal
@monolinny1817
@monolinny1817 10 місяців тому
We'll go through this together, comrades.
@OscarCabrera494
@OscarCabrera494 4 місяці тому
Me too the same problems
@__rm307
@__rm307 27 днів тому
Same 😔
@MagicTaco27
@MagicTaco27 2 роки тому
Imagine having a friend for 10 years only to find out that so called friend just used you and ended the relationship over an ego problem because I respected myself and stood my ground.
@springgal265
@springgal265 2 роки тому
Friens r not as gd as u think.
@kenfern2259
@kenfern2259 2 роки тому
who needs enemies when u have friends
@Darragh1
@Darragh1 Рік тому
Oh I don't need to imagine that because I'd well believe it!! 😄😄 As tragic as it is.... And we vent about our friendships, but unfortunately that's never going to get them back.
@aliciaw8147
@aliciaw8147 Рік тому
exactly the same happened to me after 11 years of friendship and so called “being a family” - wrote her a letter after an argument and never ever heard something again. that was three years ago now.
@Darragh1
@Darragh1 Рік тому
@@aliciaw8147 omg... My best friend dumped me back in April... I messaged him a few times but he says there's "no point" in talking. I'm finding it extremely difficult to deal with not talking, not messaging, not hanging out with him after being friends for 10 years... I'm also in my 30s now so I don't see myself making new best friends at this stage, and anyway it's just not the same.
@manikamayumi
@manikamayumi 3 роки тому
The worst part is when you go separate ways but you still can’t let go.
@Cynthia-il8ju
@Cynthia-il8ju 3 роки тому
A friend moved 2 years ago and I remembered crying so much the same day she left. And I did move on, but I still can't let go
@chipchrome1769
@chipchrome1769 3 роки тому
I don't know how to move on i realy want to it hurts :(
@manikamayumi
@manikamayumi 3 роки тому
@Cynthia Same, my friend also moved about 2 years ago 🥺 and I had a dream about her last week 😭
@daisyjagong9198
@daisyjagong9198 3 роки тому
its worse if you dont have them in your contact list and you dont know where they went
@manikamayumi
@manikamayumi 3 роки тому
True 😭🥺 i’ve searched for them everywhere :(
@jeanelee1305
@jeanelee1305 3 роки тому
hearing someone's voice cracking and about to cry on a phone call is the worst feeling ever.
@lindseyblack9234
@lindseyblack9234 3 роки тому
Especially when it's a voicemail
@melaniew3490
@melaniew3490 3 роки тому
Yeah
@heyRexsuperStar
@heyRexsuperStar 3 роки тому
T
@eleanorgriffiths5240
@eleanorgriffiths5240 3 роки тому
It's even worse when the other person doesn't care
@aurbxille3702
@aurbxille3702 3 роки тому
Mhm
@adannayoutube4243
@adannayoutube4243 2 роки тому
this just proves how important it is to communicate with the people we love, it’s how we keep our relationships going (family, platonic, friendships, romantic)
@aidanyun880
@aidanyun880 2 роки тому
has to be a two way street though, it happens a lot in relationships. There is someone who cares and someone who neglects. You shouldn't be the one caring if they neglect you.
@GamingPIPI
@GamingPIPI Рік тому
But i I feel like the people that were on the phone weren’t truly interested. There were more like “yeah alright I guess” and they moved on
@mixer5405
@mixer5405 2 роки тому
losing your partner is bad enough, but most people don't know how bad it is to lose your best friend who has been there since the beginning.
@jordanjay8314
@jordanjay8314 4 роки тому
it honestly really hurts to hear the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry
@widderx
@widderx 4 роки тому
I think its probably the only reason I actually cried
@misou4107
@misou4107 4 роки тому
Ikr 🥺🥺
@vkimtaehyungsimp8881
@vkimtaehyungsimp8881 4 роки тому
alyssa :(
@kimberlycontreras7407
@kimberlycontreras7407 4 роки тому
I hate when people see or hear me cry and I just completely stop talking because I sound like a fourteen year old going through puberty cus of how much my voice cracks
@misou4107
@misou4107 4 роки тому
@Keksmo that's really sweet of you, I'm okay though!! I hope you manage to help some people who need it!! 💌💓
@bethanyr5741
@bethanyr5741 4 роки тому
Alyssa is so emotional. You can tell how hurt she is.
@adisturbedoneandi
@adisturbedoneandi 4 роки тому
I relate to her, thinking about my best friend who I have not seen in one year, and last spoke to 10 months ago over the text... I get really damn emotional because I really, really miss her.
@jimmyperkins97
@jimmyperkins97 4 роки тому
i wanna give her a hug
@snickerswo1f519
@snickerswo1f519 4 роки тому
I miss my "best friend" i moved schools like 4 years ago and i got her insta last year (she only texted me a lil bit..) but she stopped texting me, she didn't even say she missed me while i did. She would always post about all her friends having fun together. It hurts. But i guess that's just life, I'll try my best to forget about her.
@cherryloverxd
@cherryloverxd 4 роки тому
Can We get to 1,000 subscribers without videos ? I lost my bff moving and entering 6th grade I thought we would be friends again but we stopped talking and I miss her a lot
@froggyguts9623
@froggyguts9623 4 роки тому
Yeah, I connected with her so much and it just made me want to cry every time I heard her voice in this video. You could hear the pain in her voice.
@sidneyboo9704
@sidneyboo9704 Рік тому
PLEASE do not ditch your friendship when you are in a relationship. Even if its having lunch with them every 4 months. Amazing friendships is harder to find than romantic relationship.
@joshuabuchanan1141
@joshuabuchanan1141 3 місяці тому
Exactly
@vzmelis
@vzmelis 2 роки тому
"They're not friends, they're not enemies, they're strangers with memories." - Pringles Cat
@lindaraka5748
@lindaraka5748 5 років тому
The girl who left the voicemail. I hope she’s okay. I can relate to her so much. I’m crying.
@finch9782
@finch9782 4 роки тому
Me too, this video hurt so much to watch. I recently had to cut off my ex best friend because she got abusive and then ghosted me because of a boy. In the time she wasn’t talking to me I thought back on our friendship and I realized she really was treating me in toxic ways. I’d spend nights crying because of her. Yes I’m glad she’s out of my life but after I left her life she sent me a text saying I was awful for leaving. Thinking about her and how our friendship went down is really hard for me to think about and in this video I’d mention her and calling her would be the hardest thing to do.
@mrs.piggywho6114
@mrs.piggywho6114 4 роки тому
I have a best friend and she lost her best friend so I always feel so useless because I can’t really help her get over him. 😔
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 4 роки тому
Eye infections can also cause teary eyes.
@_thelastdarling_
@_thelastdarling_ 4 роки тому
@@finch9782 I can relate because my friend was toxic too I cut her off and felt bad about it and I'm still upset about it..
@jenniferd6606
@jenniferd6606 4 роки тому
ME TOO
@olivia-qq6ys
@olivia-qq6ys 3 роки тому
it’s absolutely the worst feeling when ur bestfriend suddenly ignores u. like u never existed.
@Casper_and_Max
@Casper_and_Max 3 роки тому
It happened to me :(
@dj03
@dj03 3 роки тому
this is what's happening to me, my online best friend after 2 years of friendship, after we met in real life (i made 400km to meet her) just started ignoring me.... she blocked me on every social media and she's ignoring my messages, it's been 2,5 months now and i'm starting to accept the situation, even tho it hurts A LOT.
@TheDominicKellmanPodcast
@TheDominicKellmanPodcast 3 роки тому
Happening to me as we speak :(
@hxnterxzv1727
@hxnterxzv1727 3 роки тому
@@Casper_and_Max yeah same I didn’t have anyone else and he didn’t even care about me like no one cared
@randomannas
@randomannas 3 роки тому
my bestfriend got a boyfriend. ya nice for her. i dont like him. but ya, as long as she's happy. im fine.
@lorib1819
@lorib1819 Рік тому
I can relate to that crying girl. I never saw friendships as fleeting circumstances. I've learned the hard way that people will drop you for the smallest reasons. I wish I had a friend like that girl. She's rare.
@khrntryn
@khrntryn Рік тому
I watched this years ago when i have no idea losing a friendship would be that hurt, now I'm back and i understand the pain
@jolina942
@jolina942 Рік тому
I wrote a song about toxic friendships and the feelings you go through when you get let down by a close friend. it’s called friend and my name is Jolina if you want to hear it on Spotify (or wherever you listen to music). maybe the song can help you heal the way it helped me. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
@pen2cool4u
@pen2cool4u 3 роки тому
The worst part is when your best friend becomes a stranger to you
@user-rx9vm6rk5j
@user-rx9vm6rk5j 3 роки тому
Iam a stranger to my BF now, I tried my best to talk to her but she is always ignoring me and now I have no friends
@blackprofile6074
@blackprofile6074 3 роки тому
@@pen2cool4u it happens to me all the time that is why I don't upload on my account anymore (this account) because all of my friends feel like a stranger to me
@sophievandercook6826
@sophievandercook6826 3 роки тому
Yeah, it does but you are enough- and you are loved and you will find a friend that cares deeply for you
@sophievandercook6826
@sophievandercook6826 3 роки тому
If you guys ever need a friend I’m here for you-
@poleprincess222
@poleprincess222 3 роки тому
Ong yes
@jadeynrogers6518
@jadeynrogers6518 3 роки тому
"you can always call, ill be there" also them "your call has been forwarded to an automatic voicemail system"
@wuyuaiend1659
@wuyuaiend1659 3 роки тому
Zachary Paradagomez i think i het her comment its mean like a person used to promise that they will always be there for u but at the end they re the one who leave first
@gracerobbins8505
@gracerobbins8505 3 роки тому
Sadly my boyfriend..
@farhanatasnim8948
@farhanatasnim8948 3 роки тому
What does 'forwarded to an automatic voicemail system ' mean??
@gracerobbins8505
@gracerobbins8505 3 роки тому
@@farhanatasnim8948 They dont answer the call or declined immediately
@thegamingkids_234
@thegamingkids_234 3 роки тому
whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much
@dylanworthington1350
@dylanworthington1350 Рік тому
I’ve reached out and reconnected with a few long lost friends, but it never works out in the long run. Its undeniable that reaching out to basic strangers that you used to know in hope of friendship is a sad thing to do and they will definitely look down on you for it. My advice is to keep marching on there in you’re past for a reason and I refuse to be rejected by the same person multiple times it’s soul destroying and we must protect our hearts at all cost.
@sonicxhunters8344
@sonicxhunters8344 Рік тому
I cannot agree with you enough. I’ve had to reach out to one friend multiple times, never them. The worst is when you have heart to heart talks with them and you can pick up on that they value someone else more than you and that for that person they do reach out, but never you.
@raihan200
@raihan200 Рік тому
Advice to you is keep on moving forward and don’t look back. These nothing there anymore! Love yourself because you’re a great person and a loyal friend. It’s okay to make mistakes but never let them bring you down. Be happy with a smile and start a new chapter in your life. Not everyone deserves to be in your life!
@christinebaker7311
@christinebaker7311 11 місяців тому
Exactly! It is OK to move on from each other. That is a part of growth.
@clarityshine4623
@clarityshine4623 Рік тому
Losing friends deeply hurt than anything else.
@Jydeboi
@Jydeboi 4 роки тому
I feel like Alissa was the only one who truly loved her friend. That kind of loss hurts so much more.
@eddyrivera6875
@eddyrivera6875 4 роки тому
Fallen Eternal honestly
@rachelbrady7474
@rachelbrady7474 4 роки тому
I feel like thats not exactly true i mean most of them cared to call them that's enough just to think about somebody and they were all emotional showing they truly loved these people.
@mickeysofine6386
@mickeysofine6386 4 роки тому
Tell me about it. My friend traded me for someone who bullied me, they would threaten me for no reason. But, I got the help I needed and I feel much more confident in myself. I am moving so I am glad I won’t have to go to high school with them. People that that do not deserve your friendship. Don’t let them take advantage of you. There is ALOT more to this story so please don’t judge. What I have learned from this experience is that YOU NEED TO stick up for yourself!!! It is WORTH it! YOU are worth it!!! I hope someone who needs this information sees it. Don’t give up!!!
@rachelbrady7474
@rachelbrady7474 4 роки тому
@@mickeysofine6386 thank you tbh i have very few friends but I'd rather keep it that way cause those few you can really get close to , build a bond and trust ,there aren't many people that you can trust :)
@kiana5548
@kiana5548 4 роки тому
@@mickeysofine6386 aww sorry. Same thing kinda happened to me in the past and I'm still kinda friends with her. It sucks 😞
@basicallykaylee2205
@basicallykaylee2205 3 роки тому
the worst feeling is when you introduce your two friends to each other and they both ditch you and become best friends.
@kaylee0000
@kaylee0000 3 роки тому
OMG FELT THAT
@medico1572
@medico1572 3 роки тому
That's really...the saddest feeling ever
@aria6709
@aria6709 3 роки тому
The worst worst worst
@sirsnailson7703
@sirsnailson7703 3 роки тому
asdfghjk i have no words to describe this
@hobis_sprite117
@hobis_sprite117 3 роки тому
Happened to me I had this gang of friends I introduced all of them to each other....and now I am the loneliest kid who well lost all her friends it sucks.a lot.
@deenanthekemoni5567
@deenanthekemoni5567 2 роки тому
I had the craziest best friend you'd ever meet. He was off his rocker and so full of life he was almost childlike but in a charming way, he was the Bravest dude I ever personally knew. And will likely ever know. Rest in Peace Alex ❤️
@vuedanto8576
@vuedanto8576 Рік тому
I've lost all my friends.
@Darragh1
@Darragh1 Рік тому
@@vuedanto8576 sometimes I feel that way in a strange way...
@divathakore5957
@divathakore5957 Рік тому
@@vuedanto8576 same tbh
@justarandomakwardperson.8525
@justarandomakwardperson.8525 Рік тому
Im so sorry. My brothers friend died last month also. I had grown up with him,so i get it . again, im so sorry.
@michelles2644
@michelles2644 10 місяців тому
I hope this brings you some sort of happiness and peace but your best friend is definitely looking after you and always with you! I’m sorry for your loss.
@KpopAddicted-cv3cf
@KpopAddicted-cv3cf 5 місяців тому
“And what hurts the most is that ppl can go from people you know to people you don’t”
@josiegraceblack1268
@josiegraceblack1268 4 роки тому
"Could you call them? Everyone: "yes I can" that one guy: "probably not."
@ciandro5005
@ciandro5005 4 роки тому
The only guy I can relate to
@testtester8492
@testtester8492 4 роки тому
Absolute madlad
@Xristina_Gretsista
@Xristina_Gretsista 4 роки тому
When I read this comment this scene was played on the video
@998576999
@998576999 3 роки тому
I wouldn't either, people don't deserve to beg them to be friends again
@juliapayne4511
@juliapayne4511 3 роки тому
@@998576999 it's not exactly begging its just a chance to clear the air and find out why what happened did happen it's a great chance to fix the relationship even if they arent best friends again
@Sam-du7cm
@Sam-du7cm 4 роки тому
The worst part is when you know it’s too late and it will never be the same
@roseturkey
@roseturkey 3 роки тому
Samantha tbh my old friend moved schools and we stopped talking and I text her a year later and we just say hi and bye.
@bittersweet3925
@bittersweet3925 3 роки тому
Sometimes it shouldn’t be the same, people aren’t always meant to stay in your life.
@bittersweet3925
@bittersweet3925 3 роки тому
Ezekiel Turrecha sometimes the truth is, people don’t deserve you or your time. Especially when they hurt you and don’t truly care. You are worth more.
@natalypaolacalvomejia9920
@natalypaolacalvomejia9920 3 роки тому
MAE...
@thischannelhasnofuture3325
@thischannelhasnofuture3325 3 роки тому
yep... it is
@AmarD87
@AmarD87 Рік тому
As someone who has moved around a lot, backpacked across over 50 countries, and met more people than I can remember, I am a self proclaimed expert in surface-level friendships. You can meet amazing people, you can meet people who "get you" and everything just clicks. However, no friendship will ever be better than the best friend you lost in high school or just after college. It just won't because as we age our experiences harden us and they take away our innocence, our capability to feel as intense. That is something that dawned upon me just like 6 months ago. It sucks but if I am to be honest with myself I don't think I am capable of having a best friend any longer.
@user-fp8ks1fd9m
@user-fp8ks1fd9m Рік тому
I move around a lot too and I truly agree with u.
@exod.oswife
@exod.oswife Рік тому
I agree with you. I too feel i cannot connect with anyone without purpose nowadays, its more networking less friendship.
@kiana9941
@kiana9941 Рік тому
I feel like I am incapable of having any friends. Usually, the people I connect with the most only are around for a couple weeks or months and move away or I move away. As I have gotten older I now keep to myself to avoid the pain.
@AmarD87
@AmarD87 Рік тому
@@kiana9941 I know the feeling and it sucks because relationships with other people make my day brighter and what makes life worth living. But I see myself growing more and more detached from people, unable to connect beyond any surface-level interaction. As another comment said, it's more networking than friendship. I don't know if it's social media, the internet, or a fact of growing up but the reality is that most of the time I feel alone and I just fill my life with sporadic social interactions that don't really amount to anything. And it's not just other people's fault. It's my fault as well.
@sidneyboo9704
@sidneyboo9704 Рік тому
I kind of agree. My highschool friends were the best and beside one, I lost connection with everyone else. Now its so superficial.
@mimvsa3521
@mimvsa3521 Рік тому
My friend had mental problems and ghosted me. I've sent her a voicemail a few days ago and she responded, saying "I'm just not someone who can be a friend." I don't know what to feel. When I talked to her, my life felt like it was healing in super speed; her humour, remarks, strange and resilient mind was so addicting I don't know how to accept her abandoning me. I still love her a lot. Thought we were together for the ride. To make matters worse she was my only friend. I can't search for anyone else.. without thinking it's her replacement.
@KalilIllinois
@KalilIllinois Рік тому
My former best friend did the same thing. Hurts less with time
@imeneezzeddine6449
@imeneezzeddine6449 Рік тому
I can relate to that so much. It just came out of nowhere. And to make things even worse, she became friends with almost everyone in our common circle of friends (my only circle by the way).Two years and it still hurts. The worst part? I never got an explanation besides that her "conveniences and life style have changed" + I had an additional reason to leave those friends behind.
@WeeWee4204
@WeeWee4204 Рік тому
Welp I had quite the similar friend Her relationship first distanced us bit by it then she did it herself and never told me why. Whenever I asked her she said she is going through stuff mentally and can't do this even tho she talked to other people hehe..
@Ticklishloaf
@Ticklishloaf Рік тому
I’m so terribly sad and terrified to go to highschool without my friend we will be splitting up and she is the only one who gets me, and I love her so much
@sarayolo_y3al
@sarayolo_y3al 25 днів тому
just happened to me yesterday
@mdleeenixxv4342
@mdleeenixxv4342 4 роки тому
"A true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes the smile on your face."
@upper9170
@upper9170 4 роки тому
i got no true friends
@therespectfullykid
@therespectfullykid 4 роки тому
@@upper9170 i can be your true friend
@avery7679
@avery7679 4 роки тому
MDLeeEnIxx v a true friend sees the plan in your eyes when everyone thinks your incident 😂❤️😊
@kavya914
@kavya914 4 роки тому
Omg yes
@awesomefox4113
@awesomefox4113 4 роки тому
Yeah... that’s no one, well it used to but not anymore 💔🥺😖
@mandeukie750
@mandeukie750 5 років тому
The girl who left the voicemail for her friend. I truly hope her friend called her back
@maevewilliams2398
@maevewilliams2398 5 років тому
I want to know as well like a part 2
@robertohernandez-os3hm
@robertohernandez-os3hm 5 років тому
I know her, the sapposably best friend never called. She was heart broken
@-midnight_wolf-4616
@-midnight_wolf-4616 5 років тому
@@robertohernandez-os3hm really?
@benjaminxx9850
@benjaminxx9850 5 років тому
@@robertohernandez-os3hm oh noo
@CarlosRodriguez-fx6go
@CarlosRodriguez-fx6go 5 років тому
It's really upsetting but if she doesn't even have the time to call back or make sure she is okay after 8 months, than they are probably aren't the best person to be with especially for support. But that doesn't mean they are not fun to hang out with. But I pay my respects for another friend lost. F.
@codequeen1889
@codequeen1889 2 роки тому
This made me emotional because I was finally able to talk to one of my dearest friends over the phone this week who I had not heard from for 8 months. We talked for over 2 hours and it was the most healing beautiful thing. Don’t give up on those important, special people in your life. Try to reach out, you may be surprised what can happen.
@pb4ugo19
@pb4ugo19 2 роки тому
When she reached out, what did you want to hear her say? I'm asking because I pushed my dear friend away and haven't spoken to her in 6 months. I went into a deep depression and just lost interest in everything, including the people I loved. I'm in a better place right now and I want to reach out, but I have no idea what to say. I don't know how to even initiate the text to call her. & I'm so nervous she is going to reject me (though I wouldn't blame her). How did your friend reach out to you and what words did you want to hear from her?
@MrTrollo2
@MrTrollo2 Рік тому
@@pb4ugo19 just tell her what was going on, if she's a friend she won't be mad
@dontletdonghaedrive
@dontletdonghaedrive Рік тому
@@MrTrollo2 I did that and she doesn't want to respond to my messages asking what's happening and asking her to catch up and her ignoring it. I don't know what I did at all and I don't understand it. It hurts so much.
@byzdgn
@byzdgn 10 місяців тому
@@dontletdonghaedrive let it go. just let it go
@rubydefelice3034
@rubydefelice3034 6 місяців тому
It’s seems like 8 months is the tipping point for a lot of these people 🤔
@nazkh3291
@nazkh3291 Рік тому
i can tell the friendship meant a GREAT DEAL to alyssa. i’m also like that with my friends. recently my friend and i stopped talking and it’s been so hard mourning someone who’s very much alive. hopefully alyssa is doing alright wherever she is
@angela-kc3wc
@angela-kc3wc 5 років тому
Seeing your best friends slowly turn in to strangers hurts the most.
@nairelychevere7051
@nairelychevere7051 5 років тому
depends on your opinion
@bruhmoment1196
@bruhmoment1196 5 років тому
No seeing your best friend become your torturer hurts more.
@noellew____
@noellew____ 5 років тому
@hyeboi that's subjective
@sabrinaaini7781
@sabrinaaini7781 5 років тому
True
@maevewilliams2398
@maevewilliams2398 5 років тому
Aka middle school and high school😬
@doreenwu5990
@doreenwu5990 4 роки тому
alissa is too pure for the world. no one deserves her
@bawn5813
@bawn5813 4 роки тому
døreen x wu what???!
@No-nk3ro
@No-nk3ro 4 роки тому
She must be protected at all cost :
@SJ-pi5mm
@SJ-pi5mm 4 роки тому
No one deserves her but she deserves everything
@kazuha1748
@kazuha1748 4 роки тому
;-; likes are on 888 I can't do it
@yeahigotyouigotthisoncamer1838
@yeahigotyouigotthisoncamer1838 4 роки тому
Bob Ross:
@plumchamoy
@plumchamoy 6 місяців тому
"why can't you just be happy for me," i always hear that from people who do not want to acknowledge how they have hurt the ones they expect praise from
@tralynlee9071
@tralynlee9071 7 місяців тому
Imagine losing two best friends at the same time bc your going through depression and see one of them already replacing you with a new friend who they have even more in common with bc they have the same talent 😭💔
@ilovetosingx3
@ilovetosingx3 7 місяців тому
😢💔💯
@sunderius
@sunderius 4 роки тому
One of the worst feelings in the world is when it feels like you annoy the person you love the most.
@Ahmad-um2zr
@Ahmad-um2zr 4 роки тому
Brooklyn Hanninton and one of the best feelings is when your best friend says that you never annoy them no matter what.
@AbdulHadi-ke5qc
@AbdulHadi-ke5qc 4 роки тому
It just feels very sad. Their gestures and body language tells that they're annoyed. 😭 It feels horrible then.
@may-bl3jb
@may-bl3jb 4 роки тому
@@AbdulHadi-ke5qc tru
@underthestarsoverthemoon4259
@underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 роки тому
Or your bf or gf or family.
@tekokitty9019
@tekokitty9019 4 роки тому
This actually happened to me. I was in a really bad headspace that time and was a little bit annoying and never really took into consideration about how my best friend felt. A few days later she told me that i was annoying and ghosted me. She found new friends but i couldnt move on after all i was in a really bad headspace and she was the one i found most comfort to be with. Then i found a text from her saying if we wanted to hang out later because her new friends were being a-holes and only used her for her artistic talent. I said yes and we then made up. Still hurts me to this day to find out that my bestfriend was getting tired+annoyed of me but luckily that situation never happened again and we are still really close.
@addiction2422
@addiction2422 4 роки тому
You know what really hurts... When you call someone your best friend but they call you a friend
@kananim6752
@kananim6752 4 роки тому
You know what hurts more they only call you bro or broski
@soumikd794
@soumikd794 4 роки тому
@@kananim6752 isn't that good tho? What are the better terms?
@kananim6752
@kananim6752 4 роки тому
@@soumikd794 well she calls everyone that...... but, other people I never met in person she calls bestie.
@soumikd794
@soumikd794 4 роки тому
Yea Ik and I'm asking cos I tend to use that word a lot even to my close friends. So I wanna know what better terms there are
@kananim6752
@kananim6752 4 роки тому
@@soumikd794 idk I'm socially awkward so I don't have a lot of friends.......
@serbear0691
@serbear0691 Рік тому
I’ve never really had any friends at all. So seeing people with such deep connections to people they’ve lost is a first. I never thought people could have this deep a connection with a friend 🙂
@E3boss2003
@E3boss2003 Рік тому
@Memer didnt u go skl? u must have made some
@jaystone5036
@jaystone5036 Рік тому
Yeah. I've made friends but this ones are actually people you can be vulnerable around for them..😂😂I thought friends were to talk about future and then disappear to make it😂
@NishantCosmos
@NishantCosmos Рік тому
samee I'm having these experiences i decided to communicate with new ppl made new friends i wish i did this earlier
@frhypeforfreedom5135
@frhypeforfreedom5135 Рік тому
@@E3boss2003 We are still talking about about a SCHOOL here, (but I understand your point there :-)
@NalaBalenciaga
@NalaBalenciaga 7 місяців тому
Same
@blackbarbaron5818
@blackbarbaron5818 Рік тому
It’s so crazy we spend so much time getting to know someone to only become strangers again.
@kay-ub1ob
@kay-ub1ob 4 роки тому
you think losing a boyfriend is bad, try losing your best friend.
@roselana497
@roselana497 4 роки тому
bellyache that’s so deep but that’s life
@yeehaw972
@yeehaw972 4 роки тому
they can be equally devastating
@cee2607
@cee2607 4 роки тому
Madu Mahawaduge Was just about to comment the same thing. When your significant other is your best friend, and you lose them, that pain is .. a lot to deal with
@tanukichan5219
@tanukichan5219 4 роки тому
My boyfriend is my bestfriend. So if we break up I'll probably die lol
@cee2607
@cee2607 4 роки тому
Madu Mahawaduge Yeah, it honestly is impossible to get through. And most people just dont get how miserable it is so that doesnt help
@claragifrapuig9231
@claragifrapuig9231 4 роки тому
The girl who was sent to voice message, her voice and everything just really broke my heart
@thea-ld3sp
@thea-ld3sp 4 роки тому
Same, I really wish we got updates
@anaa8297
@anaa8297 4 роки тому
Yeah it was really sad
@yayayvette298
@yayayvette298 2 роки тому
I feel so bad for Alyssa and my heart breaks for her because I know what that feels like keep strong and hopefully her friend will call her back
@Okay_Koda
@Okay_Koda Рік тому
Friendships are the most important to me, I’m autistic and tend to get attached to people easy. I’ve had bad friends but I love them so much still, even though I’ve managed to distance myself from them I miss them so much, but I know they will hurt me if I go back again.
@sono._.
@sono._. Рік тому
i am in the same situation too :(
@Okay_Koda
@Okay_Koda Рік тому
@@sono._. stay strong and don’t forget the bad things they’ve done to you
@GamingPIPI
@GamingPIPI Рік тому
I am autistic too!! I had such a nice friend for the past six years. She really understood me and communicating with her was easier than with anyone else. I felt safest with her and I could unmask easiest when I was with her. Last year, our friendship really reached a new heights. I thought this it, we are sisters. I am not alone anymore. But now we haven’t really hung out since my birthday in October. I tried so much to get in touch with her, I did my very best to not stress out. To keep my cool and do not force my friendship upon her, but I think it’s really over. She has new friends. She has a new boyfriend. She has a very nice job. I’m very happy for her but I am so sad that I cannot be part of it anymore. I don’t understand why, I truly don’t understand. I wish I could just understand. It’s like there’s a hole in my heart.
@NDGumballOc
@NDGumballOc 3 місяці тому
I am autistic and I have lost a friend because mostly I am bad at social rules, emotions understanding and regulations….and also due to lack of communication
@mirandamork8191
@mirandamork8191 3 роки тому
The girl whos friend didn't answer her words hit too close to home..
@philipanderegg5973
@philipanderegg5973 3 роки тому
Definitely. Currently living that situation now. I have reached out to make amends and find out what went wrong but all I get is a deafening silence. It hurts to have a former best friend not want to be a part of your life anymore 😢
@cutthecameras7095
@cutthecameras7095 3 роки тому
Ikr
@cilla3389
@cilla3389 3 роки тому
I literally cried the first 2seconds of the video
@kpoplover-wb4nr
@kpoplover-wb4nr 3 роки тому
Same
@adeleseeboth3137
@adeleseeboth3137 3 роки тому
Alyssa is precious. Protect her. Never let her get hurt again.
@blaze2x569
@blaze2x569 3 роки тому
Sadly she will probably get hurt again hopefully she can overcome all her obstacles
@blaze2x569
@blaze2x569 3 роки тому
Sadly the nicest people end up getting hurt the most
@asteroyd4753
@asteroyd4753 3 роки тому
@@blaze2x569 hello fellow demon slayer fan who watches these
@nieee5727
@nieee5727 3 роки тому
your always gonna get hurt in life you cant really prevent that from happening @Adelly bean
@iscifion7122
@iscifion7122 3 роки тому
@@blaze2x569 This happens...
@angelredvivar
@angelredvivar 7 місяців тому
I met my female friend at my first job in a grocery store She was amazing and still is. We did almost everything together. She also was the first person who I generally shared a drink What changed the most was when she got into a relationship and from there, we just stopped talking to each other. That last time I spent time with her was when she asked me to help her with laundry That was Jan or April of 2022 The last message I sent her was to not overwork herself to much (She tends to do that) and to take care of herself. That was in June 2022 I miss you Heidi
@lesliewilliams9923
@lesliewilliams9923 Рік тому
"I wanna apologize for being selfish, I thought I needed to push people away to take care of my self " I felt that because it's what I do.
@talayshiabobo5451
@talayshiabobo5451 3 роки тому
The worst feeling is when your best friend just stops talking to you with no explanation. Nothing happened between the two of you. You just stop communicating until theirs nothing left but feelings of sadness and guilt as though you did something wrong.
@talayshiabobo5451
@talayshiabobo5451 3 роки тому
@Sandra 'Sandy' I would say try talking to her before you lose all communication.
@ving7515
@ving7515 3 роки тому
Same thing, and it really hurts when you two study at same school and every time when you see that they are having fun with others, treating you like a stranger, you just can't understand why, and you just start blame yourself and also you cannot make other friends because you are afraid that they also leave you or start thinking that no one wants to be friends with you
@-oreo3786
@-oreo3786 3 роки тому
@@ving7515 Oh wow....I feel terrible rn. Are you okay? Because you WILL find somebody, everybody does.
@nayeonbunni
@nayeonbunni 3 роки тому
funny that’s exactly what happened to me i met her in 6th grade and we were inseparable throughout middle school you would always see us together and since I’ve never had a best friend like that i thought i finally found the right person until we reached high school she stopped talking to me, we lost communication and has treated me like a stranger she still does and i always had this guilty feeling that it was my fault
@charlinecharlostin3188
@charlinecharlostin3188 3 роки тому
I experienced this. She keeps in contact with her other friends, but not me.
@shrimp9996
@shrimp9996 4 роки тому
There's a reason why people from your past didn't make it to your future.
@f.mxrxxn1919
@f.mxrxxn1919 4 роки тому
Yo, you just gave me goosebumps. I'm gonna steal your qoute😂✌
@halesvitkona9841
@halesvitkona9841 4 роки тому
Yeah sometimes your actions are the reason.
@ZionsTreasure
@ZionsTreasure 4 роки тому
100%
@mbt9700
@mbt9700 4 роки тому
@Reee find people who are low maintenance.
@axxne6068
@axxne6068 4 роки тому
@@halesvitkona9841 Or, get this. Its most likely the other person. Ikr mind blowing.
@plutonium4sale
@plutonium4sale 2 роки тому
this made me realize that my best friend that I’ve known since I was four has slowly been drifting away for someone they have known for only like 2 years. they keep flipping me off randomly and throwing things like paper n stuff at me. it hurts to know that last year we were all a happy group.
@deenanthekemoni5567
@deenanthekemoni5567 2 роки тому
Bros before Hoes. Remember that.
@jess3452
@jess3452 2 роки тому
Im so sorry:(
@ahmeddjabeur4219
@ahmeddjabeur4219 Рік тому
Seeing my best friend as strangers is one of the worst things i ever felt ,it’s just so sad how close u get to someone and the everything changes
@GamingPIPI
@GamingPIPI Рік тому
Yup i want to see my bestie so bad but simultaneously i dont because it hurts
@devindevin6126
@devindevin6126 4 роки тому
I personally volunteer myself to be Alissa’s best friend
@lisaryplanski4921
@lisaryplanski4921 4 роки тому
Devin Devin me too. I feel bad for her too.
@koalart14
@koalart14 4 роки тому
Me too;(
@ajv1630
@ajv1630 4 роки тому
Because she’s hot, smh.
@devanbarrett2902
@devanbarrett2902 4 роки тому
My name is Devan, just you know spelled differently.
@demigodsunite4012
@demigodsunite4012 4 роки тому
cla173t Thornton hey me too!
@jasmineestrada4615
@jasmineestrada4615 2 роки тому
I feel exactly how the girl who cried , you miss that one friend but you know you tried and if you get nothing back from them it’s just time to leave it alone .
@nicoleslaughter7983
@nicoleslaughter7983 2 роки тому
I tried this to ask forgiveness because I didn’t know what I did wrong. Never heard back. Sometimes some people are worth giving up.
@johndeo107
@johndeo107 2 роки тому
Yeah they’re really worth giving up but it’s still hard knowing that they had an important part in your life
@ur.fav.version
@ur.fav.version Рік тому
I know
@huabubble669
@huabubble669 3 роки тому
we need to protect alyssa at all costs
@Santy-qs6mm
@Santy-qs6mm 3 роки тому
yes.
@rsq_2100
@rsq_2100 3 роки тому
Yeah, and I really wanna hug her, because she just seemed so broken..
@quahmeilrobinson7953
@quahmeilrobinson7953 3 роки тому
Yes
@MotoTrist
@MotoTrist 3 роки тому
@@rsq_2100 literally my thoughts
@speedymonkey123
@speedymonkey123 3 роки тому
thanks 😏
@nancy8328
@nancy8328 4 роки тому
i should be studying for finals instead of crying over a stranger's friendships
@fahima2409
@fahima2409 4 роки тому
sarah good luck with ur tests I’m assuming ur college student
@nancy8328
@nancy8328 4 роки тому
Fahima thanks!! yeah
@daradler6641
@daradler6641 4 роки тому
Omg same
@kaylaredrum8727
@kaylaredrum8727 4 роки тому
sarah sammmmme😂
@crazycoolpencilman6916
@crazycoolpencilman6916 4 роки тому
sarah relatable
@passivepanda3656
@passivepanda3656 Рік тому
Do you know what hurts the most ? Being replaced.
@lynagamer2918
@lynagamer2918 Рік тому
yup and seeing them with person who they replaced u with
@FateOfTheElephant
@FateOfTheElephant 9 місяців тому
friendships are like romantic relationships, they take a lot of work, but if it's not working for you, then it's ok to end things.
@amberho2541
@amberho2541 4 роки тому
UKposts recommendations seems to be pulling my deepest and darkest feelings out of their caves
@user-lb9xh8me1x
@user-lb9xh8me1x 4 роки тому
4MBER omg same
@colorfulcori9757
@colorfulcori9757 4 роки тому
this is the most relatable thing I've seen this year
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 4 роки тому
Some people grow up in caves.
@Wooahaeeeee
@Wooahaeeeee 4 роки тому
damn..same.. 😫
@oliviapickard3299
@oliviapickard3299 4 роки тому
Yep I think they are reading my mind
@rowenasantillan2477
@rowenasantillan2477 4 роки тому
why do i feel like the comment section is even more emotional than the actual video
@teds9013
@teds9013 3 роки тому
i thought i was the only one-
@Kimberly-xy8gf
@Kimberly-xy8gf 3 роки тому
same
@maddiejason9514
@maddiejason9514 3 роки тому
Yess😭😭😭😭
@asmaahana5938
@asmaahana5938 3 роки тому
I feel it too tho~ i better read the comment and their words really deeper than what i have thought!
@graciekerr3137
@graciekerr3137 3 роки тому
😭😂😂😌
@aexitis
@aexitis 2 роки тому
I had a childhood best friend. We’d known each other since we were 4. We would hold hands when we crossed the street and walk to the bus together. When we started growing up, he went to all my soccer games and I went to all his basketball games. We used to spend hours lying in the hammock in his back yard, just talking because being with each other was all we needed. I loved him, and he loved me too. We talked about everything, then one day he became a stranger. I never figured out what happened, or why he stopped talking to me but life goes on. Even now years later I’ll stumble along a photograph, or a board game we used to play and remember him. I wonder how he’s doing, and if he’s happier now then he was before. I hope he has found people to love him like I have.
@lindabalinda7887
@lindabalinda7887 Рік тому
it could be that he had/has mental health issues. My childhood best friend stopped reciprocating in our friendship for seemingly no reason in my mind. Turned out she had a rough home life and an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. I had no idea. She had depression and anxiety, and that was why she stopped talking to me. Anyways, if you want to, you should try reaching out if you have a way...I decided to reach out one day because I had nothing to lose, and it was so worth it. My childhood friend and I are close again, and we both missed each other.
@12345673581
@12345673581 Місяць тому
You should seriously reach out to him
@tigo627
@tigo627 5 місяців тому
I regret so much not calling my best friend when i had the chance, i wish we didn't fall apart so much before he passed away. I really wish i could call him and tell him everything that we could have done together
@matilda938
@matilda938 5 місяців тому
i really hope your doing well, and i'm so sorry for your loss.❤🕊️
@tay-8757
@tay-8757 4 роки тому
kennedy’s friend was my least favourite part of this. “no i never said that.” “you’ll call me when YOU have time” no sis the phone works both ways...
@behappy1523
@behappy1523 4 роки тому
tay - YESS BIH TOTALLY AGREE I WAS LIKE WHAT AN ASS 😑😑😑
@Nanancay
@Nanancay 4 роки тому
I thought he was nice LOL, cos he's respecting that she won't be free/want to pick up the calls if he just calls, so he's giving her the control.
@tay-8757
@tay-8757 4 роки тому
Nancy Wang but for 8 months he let her believe that she was his second choice. not once in that span of time did he call or reach out to reassure that she could always call or rely on him... that’s all im sayin
@bikerssuckass8158
@bikerssuckass8158 4 роки тому
@@tay-8757 No, for 8 months she THOUGHT she couldn't talk to him. SHE made the assumption and stopped talking to him. Did you even pay attention?
@tay-8757
@tay-8757 4 роки тому
Bikers Suckass don’t get so riled up, i was just stating how i viewed the situation as a third party
@michaelv8721
@michaelv8721 4 роки тому
I’m not gonna lie. I wished someone missed me like that
@JunguianPhantom
@JunguianPhantom 4 роки тому
I´m with ya bro. Feels sad to not have someone to miss you this way
@omg1243able
@omg1243able 4 роки тому
It’s ok. The fact that your like “I’m not gonna lie” at least we know your not saying this for attention and I respect that
@ItzGorillax
@ItzGorillax 4 роки тому
Im with you
@omg1243able
@omg1243able 4 роки тому
red x17 I’m sure at least one person misses you
@inkyrilakkuma1040
@inkyrilakkuma1040 4 роки тому
Michael V no u don’t want to have that. I have already been through it many times, it hurts, bad it’s like losing apart of your life. You should be grateful this hasn’t happened to you before, because you’ll regret the day you said you want it.
@psycherevivedby
@psycherevivedby Місяць тому
"Ghosting" is such a painful thing to experience. I think for us as humans, who desire community and connection, it leaves us so wounded and abandoned. I wish it wasn't a thing.
@Ilrosh
@Ilrosh Місяць тому
))':
@nataliehylton
@nataliehylton 5 місяців тому
as somebody who has not been in contact with their best friend in about 4 years, this made me cry.
@haunted.mirrorball
@haunted.mirrorball 3 роки тому
I felt so bad for the girl who’s friend didn’t pick up 🥺🥺
@jovialminer8583
@jovialminer8583 3 роки тому
It actually sounded like she declined.
@carlostobar4654
@carlostobar4654 3 роки тому
That's not a friend
@haunted.mirrorball
@haunted.mirrorball 3 роки тому
@@carlostobar4654 true true
@haunted.mirrorball
@haunted.mirrorball 3 роки тому
@@jovialminer8583 ohhhh okay well that makes me feel even qorse 🤣
@dandhakljhdlsakfhd4972
@dandhakljhdlsakfhd4972 3 роки тому
@@carlostobar4654 you have no idea what happened between them
@the7deadlysins417
@the7deadlysins417 4 роки тому
The saddest thing in the world is the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry.
@donnacorbett4364
@donnacorbett4364 3 роки тому
tHe 7 dEaDLY sInS yep
@gabileja2351
@gabileja2351 3 роки тому
Leaves from the vine
@mahitabelgabry1450
@mahitabelgabry1450 3 роки тому
@@donnacorbett4364 "sIr mAlIoDiS"
@cLaudSy
@cLaudSy 3 роки тому
Fr tho! That hit hard
@italasanta
@italasanta 3 роки тому
sur mal lío das,w-w-What are u doing
@openlybookish
@openlybookish Рік тому
It's so hard being separated from a BFF. If any of you need a friend I understand 100%.
@tomatof
@tomatof 10 місяців тому
lost my 15-year best friend, being cut-off without explanation, it hurts a lot.
@officialtoiletpaper
@officialtoiletpaper 4 роки тому
You ever look at your ex best friend and just think “you’ve changed”😔
@monie4308
@monie4308 4 роки тому
Toilet Paper all the time
@AprilA15
@AprilA15 4 роки тому
Yeah
@pinkfluffynarwhals2424
@pinkfluffynarwhals2424 4 роки тому
Almost everyday...
@disismriamxox8613
@disismriamxox8613 4 роки тому
Same
@namratabrar6530
@namratabrar6530 4 роки тому
Toilet Paper not necessarily the worst thing because people change. It’s inevitable. But honestly you see the worth and if they continue to value you throughout. Lessons or blessings😔
@remigotchauchi7376
@remigotchauchi7376 4 роки тому
Alyssa's long lost friend : _Doesn't answer_ *_[EVERBODY DISLIKED THAT]_*
@aiko4294
@aiko4294 4 роки тому
I'm sorry to be that one person, but.... EverYbody
@remi1744
@remi1744 4 роки тому
Well yeah because it sucks to lose a friend. Maybe she did have something going on where she couldnt answer or she didnt recognize the number. Who knows? It's the worst feeling in the world seeing the person who was soposed to be there gone. So I can see why people hate that and feel bad.
@yado7550
@yado7550 4 роки тому
i cant be the only one who thought Alyssa was annoying as fuck
@Silvia.Araujo
@Silvia.Araujo 4 роки тому
@@yado7550 bruh...
@yado7550
@yado7550 4 роки тому
@@Silvia.Araujo bruh
@Lampey22
@Lampey22 Рік тому
It’s been a week since my best friend for almost 7 years stopped talking to me for a new friend that hates me
@jaan08011
@jaan08011 2 роки тому
after having nearly lost all my close friends, one of them which I was super close to (way over 10 years now is a complete stranger) I've realized that becoming too attached to them ends up hurting us way more than it should. I love them all, but now I've seen that being more independent is better in the long run. i don't wish to stay lonesome forever but neither do I need nor desire to feel the same pain twice.
@chaku9906
@chaku9906 2 роки тому
Same here. I am sensitive and I can no longer endure this breakup pain. It takes longer for me to get better.
@jaan08011
@jaan08011 2 роки тому
@@chaku9906 i completely understand. but hang in there, pain or loneliness won't last forever. There's always meaning behind the struggle we face so it'll be worth it in the end✊🏼
@linhlooper637
@linhlooper637 2 роки тому
I can relate that👋
@springgal265
@springgal265 2 роки тому
Yah cant believe too much in other people.🙂
@kayleen8037
@kayleen8037 Рік тому
I agree
@angee7763
@angee7763 4 роки тому
The worst feeling for me is knowing you’re drifting from your best friend and you can’t do anything about it ;(
@nuttkraker2127
@nuttkraker2127 4 роки тому
Tell me about it my homie is moving 113 miles away.
@iikittydr8503
@iikittydr8503 4 роки тому
EXACTLY what’s happening to me
@raya2273
@raya2273 4 роки тому
Angelina Johnson it sucks because you always wanna text them or call them but can’t cuz you haven’t talked in ages and you miss your best memories. It just sucks
@yuncakes
@yuncakes 4 роки тому
Zakk ITS NOT THE Same, even if they’re far away, it won’t be the same anymore and it can drift you apart anyways.
@genesis1989
@genesis1989 4 роки тому
That's how me and my best friend are right now and seeing this video just hurt A LOT so I hope we put the pieces together again one day 😔
@bebodebo8183
@bebodebo8183 4 роки тому
the dude wasn’t selfish at all self-care is the best care and his mental state was more important than a relationship trust
@hadassah6563
@hadassah6563 4 роки тому
Yeah, but unless the friendship was a problem, it's better to let someone help u, than to push everyone away. If the friend was toxic or somthing I would totally get it, but otherwise, it's punishing yourself
@xnisha_2581
@xnisha_2581 4 роки тому
im in a similar situation right now and i dont know how i should tell the guy why i ghosted him so suddenly. i feel like it was really selfish of me to not let him know why i ghosted him. it started from me needing space and then got too anxious to message again because ive convinced myself that it was for our own good ; so that we wont get hurt anymore, but that backfired into me missing him, getting anxious when he messages me bc idk what to do, then i just ignore it. its hard to handle social anxiety, depression, people, and school all at the same time.
@xnisha_2581
@xnisha_2581 4 роки тому
Aesthetic Flowers yes i also feel the same about wanting to sleep the days away. -i hope everything went/goes well for u. good thing u plucked up the courage to contact her :D
@ironmanmason4247
@ironmanmason4247 4 роки тому
bebo debo well thats the problem men especially, because of the way society works, men often are afraid to share their thoughts/emotions because some will see them as weak. I feel like with my generation its getting better, but its still tough. Also mental health in general is so important in todays society, but nobody seems to talk about it, when there are so many people struggling.
@AnimeLover-hq3nf
@AnimeLover-hq3nf 4 роки тому
@@xnisha_2581 im in the same situation as you, i had to stop talking to him cause i had to focus on my mental health first and the whole friendship was just unhealthy. Yeah i miss him, but i dont regret my choice. I hope that you are doing good rn
@Julia-kv2po
@Julia-kv2po 2 роки тому
this gave me great insight on how human beings minds work and made me feel more comfortable with being vulnerable
@alexandrosglegles544
@alexandrosglegles544 Рік тому
I cried watching this video. Losing a friend is the worst thing ever. It's also torture when you fear that your current friends will leave you eventually. At the end of the day, no matter what happens, you just have to be the best version of you and also the best friend you can be.
@joshuabuchanan1141
@joshuabuchanan1141 3 місяці тому
Not so easy at all for people that suffer from mental and emotional health issues
@aubreywitt
@aubreywitt 4 роки тому
losing a best friend is the worst kind of heart break.
@aidanbarsano5684
@aidanbarsano5684 4 роки тому
It's not tho
@cloudnine3721
@cloudnine3721 4 роки тому
Agreed 😔
@auffq
@auffq 4 роки тому
No what about when you make your mom sad and find out a couple hours later
@shoguns849
@shoguns849 4 роки тому
NOTTHRDUDRFRU - N0cl0u7 if u ever felt someone that was always by your side, then u screw up and your whole friendship with that person just fades away, then i’d think u understand
@Taco_Burrito39
@Taco_Burrito39 4 роки тому
@@aidanbarsano5684 depends on the person
@katie228_
@katie228_ 4 роки тому
One of the worst feelings: Seeing your "Best Friend" having the time of their life with someone new Edit: Thank you for all the likes ❤
@jubbydubby8275
@jubbydubby8275 4 роки тому
Something like that is rather complicated for me. While I definitely admit I envy whoever is able to bring them such happiness, I also can't dismiss the fact that I'm truly happy that they at least are able to be so happy with someone.
@kyaramoerike3457
@kyaramoerike3457 4 роки тому
JubbyDubby I completely get what your saying my best friend has a new best friend and it hurts she’s gone but I’m happy she looks so happy.
@mich497
@mich497 4 роки тому
my best friend is doing that in-front of me during school, it hurts so much. she doesn’t even look at me anymore.. 😭
@jimindontworryigotyojams2853
@jimindontworryigotyojams2853 4 роки тому
It hurts me now that me and my best had been best friends for like 7-8 years the fact that im always the one ignored when she's with her new best friend her new best if is my "best friend" too Idk why but her new best friend totally hates me for doing nothing to her at all tho I was the one who begged everyone to let her in our friend group since she was new and all lonely I always feel like crying on why I did that I seriously felt betrayed and ignored the and like the new one also framed me tho I wasn't even related to a lot of situations and on the my best friend didn't ever ask me "Hey are you okay?? Hope your feeling good" or something like that when I wasn't well and was going through harsh times and on that we had vacations that time which was totally free tho I don't blame her for that but like when she wasn't doing okay I actually missed one of my very important match just to check on her Im like literally crying rn like why, when I was with her for 7-8 years now can't believe it sorry if I said too much
@rogelynjocelramillosa4231
@rogelynjocelramillosa4231 4 роки тому
@@mich497 yeah...I feel it too
@martygarcia
@martygarcia 2 роки тому
OMG. I wanted to hug that girl that was crying. I hope she's doing well. Kudos to everyone brave enough to do that. Going through it myself and wouldn't have the courage.
@michellesteinman1642
@michellesteinman1642 Рік тому
Closure is trying and knowing the end result. And now you can move on ! Build yourself up! Love in other ways
@Sophia-to6rh
@Sophia-to6rh 5 років тому
Message: don’t cut of your friends because of a boyfriend/girlfriend
@Marie-tm9uq
@Marie-tm9uq 5 років тому
I’d have to disagree
@lara9863
@lara9863 5 років тому
Marie Tupou why?
@yemioloyede2775
@yemioloyede2775 5 років тому
It really depends on the circumstance
@alaaye5237
@alaaye5237 5 років тому
Marie Tupou It depends
@Maria-ck7wv
@Maria-ck7wv 5 років тому
You're probably not in a relationship:)
@stijnvos796
@stijnvos796 2 роки тому
the worst thing is when the person u made memories with becomes a memory
@msm592
@msm592 2 роки тому
Sweet and true comment, but that pfp is cursed
@kenfern2259
@kenfern2259 2 роки тому
the end in friendship
@ratemate458
@ratemate458 2 роки тому
It's sad when you lose friendship with someone you see regularly.. like me...when live school was still a thing. It's like so awkward when you come across them.. you don't really want to talk to them anymore even though just a year before they were one of the few people you could talk to. We aren't enemies we're just.... painfully indifferent to eachother. But I'm glad he got his new friends and so did I.
@goodstanevil4755
@goodstanevil4755 2 роки тому
Yes Dorita.
@christian2603
@christian2603 2 роки тому
@@ratemate458 same thing happened to me except with every friend I had and I didnt make any friends after
@weeb_empire
@weeb_empire 7 місяців тому
it hurts because they dont know your pain until they hear your voice not friends, not enemies just strangers with memories
@annievenus6684
@annievenus6684 Рік тому
This takes so much strength to do. So proud of these beautiful people.
@MilaSmith
@MilaSmith 4 роки тому
“And suddenly, they were strangers again....”
@saimalishahid1406
@saimalishahid1406 4 роки тому
Man that's tragic
@cottoncandy4192
@cottoncandy4192 4 роки тому
Yo XD rude
@fleurdanon
@fleurdanon 4 роки тому
Mohan Sandal But I think that sometimes, there are some people who will have your interests in heart no matter what.
@fleurdanon
@fleurdanon 4 роки тому
Mohan Sandal That’s not what I meant. Do most people not have families that genuinely care about them? When I was writing my first reply, I wasn’t necessarily solely referring to romantic partners or just simply distant friends.
@fleurdanon
@fleurdanon 4 роки тому
Mohan Sandal Actually, most moms would continue to care for you even if you end up doping in the streets. That’s what I mean by having your interests at heart. She wants you to be happy, and all that other stuff? Aren’t those all signs that she has your interests at heart? But, it also seems like I didn’t explain it to you well enough, so I apologize for my mistake. I meant that it will always be in some people’s interests for a certain someone to have their interests protected. It may just be about interest as you’ve said, but I have no problem with that because it isn’t always selfish.
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