I'm 27 and I just have sex with hot young escorts. No difference than having sex with most women these days. Most women these days have very high body counts but you will never ever find out they do. I have inside information as to that fact by the way from an attractive friend of mine. Also most women my age are fat and have lost their looks already, I'm mostly only attractied to 18-22 year old women. I don't even want a relationship, I just want sex, a lot of sex. The fact of the matter is I'm not attractive enough to get all the sex that I want. I've only had one relationship in college and she is the only girl that I had sex with in my life that was genuine (as in she was attracted to me) to be honest. I'm lucky I have a lot of money so when I'm in the mood I call an escort and book a hotel. I've tried a lot of dating but all the women just want me to so they can have a house. They don't really care about me nor would pick me over other guys if I didn't have a lot of money. It feels awful in the pure romantic aspect of my life I guess but I've just given up and blocked those feelings out. I want to have a son one day. I will most likely have to pay for a surrogate and parent on my own. Will have the woman breast feed as long as possible of course. I want to be the best dad ever.

I dated the good guy and he was a con man, their, and cheater! He was poor like me in teens! 🤦‍♀️😂

If you ever want to collab let me know 🫱🏼‍🫲🏻

Agreed. Sure, we should all aspire to be better, but the average man isn't looking for the top 1% of women. However, I think due to social media, the average young woman now has far more access to romantic attention from more guys then ever before, making an average guy less desirable in comparison. When in reality, we should be less focused on finding the best we can get, and focus more on finding someone who compliments us well

what would that look like, a woman you attracted to ? (weight, age etc)

@@ines3770 Anywhere between 21 and 27yrs old. between 5'4 and 5'9 100-135lbs. Pretty face, with an active lifestyle and wholesome personality

@@lilhuge1 well your standards are actually high. The age alone will make it hard as this is the most sought after age group. Only 34% of women are between 20-30 years old and you looking at en even narrower age group. On top of that, the average weight in that age group is 167.6 pounds. So you looking at an even smaller demographic.Among those women you weed out for those who are wholesome with an active personality and you are basically left wirh a small subset of women who can have any man they want.

@@ines3770 I am 25yrs old. Women typically date men older than themselves. It is very reasonable to look for a woman close to my age. Besides, 34% is a large portion of the population in terms of dating. 167.6 pounds for MOST women is very overweight and unhealthy in the long term. You're correct that I am limiting myself by looking for someone wholesome and active, but that is where standards come in to play. There are plenty of women age 21-27yrs weight 100-135 who are no where near the top 1% of women. top 20% maybe

Most men are willing to sleep with anything, AND at the same time, they aren't often I the same hurry hurry make a life commitment. the life commitment is what we women want, NOT someone to sleep with.

This guy gets it.

Your answer seems to be lifted off the internet rather than reality. You clearly have no experience in dating.

I think the reason Matthew's advice might not sit well with you Maximus, is due to a difference in beliefs. - In your comment, you say the vast majority of women compete for the same small number at the top of the hierarchy of looks, socio-economic status, etc. - Matthew, I think, doesn't believe this is the case, which is why his advice might not sit well with you. I'm curious: Where did you get this belief from?

​​@@lnaph yes that's correct, within limits. Briefly that's why women used to demand commitment before having sex, it provided the critical information the woman needed, is this guy willing to commit to me. Men just don't have the same problem because if a woman is willing she will probably commit as well. The sexual revolution recommended to women to trade information (will he commit) for access to more physically desirable men (don't slut shame). Men just have a different issue. As for men changing, first it won't happen, neither men or women will change. Second be careful what you wish for, if men were the picky ones you might not like it as much as you think!

and God forbid that men have standards

Women don’t need men anymore. That’s all it is. The data is clear. Women have the world at their fingertips for the first time in human history.

​@@usuallysalty4018 terrible message. Men's dating coaches tell men to better themselves. Women are very immature these days too. It's always said guys mature slower than girls but that's not true. Girls are also taking forever to mature but it's just less noticeable. Most girls under 24 are too immature for marriage and many don't mature past that.

Facts

He literally says that those issues are shared in both sides, but you hear what you want to hear

I normally find these guests who lack self awareness quite humorous…. Only time Chris responds on the comments with the cliched “this is not the podcast for you” responses….

I've called-out Hussey on the full-length and have avoided Chris' response.

@@alejandromolinacwhere did Chris respond?

He’s saying what the women tell him. Probably also his sample is isolated to more desperate women as well.

Why would "income doesn't matter for attracting girls" mean 'don't try to earn as much money as you can'?

Exactly. A man who is "indecisive" is a man who is into some easy sex, and that is all. And there is nothing bad in that - the vast majority of "indecisive" men have not promised anything other than sex. It is up to the women to sort out what they want. And unsurprisingly, most of them at young ages, just want the sex and partial companionship as well as a "the experiences" (which included a fair share of ressources extraction), before "getting serious" and settling down.

Bro actually missed the one point he he was trying to convey in the video

Women partly created this monster themselves. By opening their legs and acting with the sexual morals of men they pretty much gave men zero incentive to commit. Sex is pretty much free, don’t even need to buy a girl a meal anymore. Forget chivalry and traditional values. It’s an absolute topsy turvy modern world.

Incel moment

@@desiree2086 >I am mad that someone posted something I don't like LOL

@@DoubleOhSilver I can work with things like that, but actually stealing away my retirement is a deal breaker.

Genuinely sorry about the hat happened to you! But please know, it was a sick individual, a person who did that to you, definitely not all women are like that

@@MaiaDreams I know not all women are that way... just the ones I seem to like. 😆

@@tempsoda Very few people have the power to look inside themselves and see the problems. But... Some things are pretty blatantly obvious. In the example I provided, I tried for years to show her another way and she simply didn't have it in her. I made enough money to float us both if things had gone that way, but not with an actual anchor around my neck that I wasn't even being told about. Instead, she chose to do things in a way that would sabotage our future together and she knew it. She knew it every time she did it and did it over and over again. It was a pattern of behavior going back to her youth once I learned the big picture. I have other examples of other behaviors from my past relationships that I could go on about, but it's pretty much always the same story. I get with someone for awhile, things go well for awhile, some ridiculous character flaw comes out that just can't be corrected (or tolerated), and I'm once again on my way on down the road. I've been trying to get married for 20 years. 😂 Anyhow... I'll also add that I'm not the first perfect human to walk the Earth either. I have plenty of my own faults, but I don't usually spend years covering them up and hoping the other party never finds out. It's things more like I'm a fairly gruff person at times, spend more time waiting to speak than I do listening at times, etc. Pretty standard "I can be a better person if I try a little harder" type of stuff... and some days I'm more successful with that than others... just like every other normal person.

@@tempsoda You really don't know how right you are with the self-honesty comment. That well goes way deeper, but, whatever. 😆 The time really is the killer... I spent nearly 13 years with the last one and have taken a 4 year break since then while I have debated whether or not to even get back in the pool. I likely will, but almost exclusively because it was pretty much a death bed request from my mother. I'll gear up to give it another go, but if it spins down again I'm not going to bother anymore. I'll get a dog and take up some esoteric hobby like artisan pipe crafting or something in a little shack in the woods. 🤣

The whinning, kinda like the one in most of this comment section :')

Women don't want redpill traditional conservative Christian men, especially those fundamentalists. No 'god fearing men' 🤮

@@afarwiththedawning4495 in the words of the late Justing Timberlake, "Cry me a river" 😘

​@@belaad Excellent

Abuse

Agreed, if a 9 gets with a 6 & below ...that 4,5,6 etc. is going to do whatever he/she can to keep the 9. A 9 is not going to commit to the lower ranks. Why? Because there is absolutely no reason to under any circumstance so long as the next rank is available. The life as a 9 is a powerful one that is reaffirmed every day, ever hour. 9’s walk through life with the privilege of choice & variety. Variety will always be desired over commonality. It’s why humans desire different foods every day. It’s why most of us desire to have different shoes/clothes, desire to play different games, moives etc. Same goes for mates, good looking people enjoy the power that comes with variety. I watched a very attractive women at the gym yesterday get approached by 4 men. She handled it with class as she seems like a very nice women. She is a 9, I rank from 5 to 6. She received more attention that day that I have received in about 9 years. The world does not care about my life as a 6, neither does she. The world only cares about the here and now, don’t take it personal.

@@shatterdreamz2325 you know I actually don't think it's that skewed. I think when the difference is that big people on some level know. It's really the 5/6 split that burns you.

It is painful to see people compared as numbers and ranks, and is even more painful to realise I understand what you mean… The world has become so superficial… :(((

@@MaiaDreams Have we, is there any culture or was there a time on Earth where your ugly isn't an insult? Was there ever a time when, you can't find a mate, wasn't an insult to men and women alike? Apparently even the ancient Romans used it. We're shallow, I guess, but I think we've always been that way.

⁠​⁠@@MaiaDreams Sad world we live in but I wouldn’t worry about numbers and rankings, focus on what makes your life happy and hang out with people who you can make wonderful memories with. That’s all that matters. No human being is perfect, looks fade away and we only get so much (if little) time on this earth.

So women want a combination of: - Superman for his looks, height, jawline and muscles - Iron Man for his enormous amount of money and rizz - Professor X for mind reading - Doctor Strange for entertainment with magic every minute of the day else she gets bored

Stop!!! So many women out there are beautiful and skilled and have so many qualities they could bring to a relationship only to be surrounded by men who have no interest in developing a meaningful relationship with someone. Like some men, no matter how awesome a women is, just doesn’t want to settle down with 1 women. Women meet these men and think there is something wrong with them, when there is a man around the corner that actually wants commitment !

But it is never the mans fault for being a player though. When we do pick better our standards are too high 😕

​@@sarcodonblue2876when he is already a player then what u gonna do with this question if its his fault or not He aint gonna commit move on.

But what you guys don’t realize is that last 5 men told me the same thing either through their actions or directly through their words.

@@mana-uv7cz ... that they weren't looking for marriage?

@@mana-uv7cz People always make the current person pay for the sins of the past rather than learning the lessons and applying them to their own lives.

That’s a great observation. I do think it’s possible to make your intentions clear without going all the way to sex though.

Lets look at age range 20/30 something women, will lean towards wanting kids. 40/50/60 want companionship. 60/plus can take it or leave it when I am just seeing my observation with Women.

If someone is going sex ASAP on me I'm immediately BLOCKING that idiot. Not every woman is a wh0re

It is VERY possible to make your intentions clear. If you ask a girl to go for dinner to get to know each other better, that is CLEAR! And she should be showing you reciprocation. If she’s not, then she just sees you as a friend and it’s your job to accept that and not try to change it! Only one guy has ever asked me out like that, and he was 22! So no excuses 30 years olds

After all, that is how women roll trough life and gas eachother up. They've been told from a young age they don't have to do anything for a man. Men will come to them, so they don't need to improve themselves ... they are just perfect princesses/queens the way they are. Men should accept them as they are. Men can't have any standards or boundaries. The world should bow to women. And daddy even tells them this nonsense, so they end up living their lives in La La Land.

Yep.. it’s called playing to their emotions

Always the same types of women too. Pretty much all 30 plus and focussed on their careers. xD Never a 25yo working a simple job.

Imagine how pathetic you are if you are the gender who doesn't even need to do anything, since the burden to pursue a relationship is on men. All you have to do basically is not turning into total garbage and becoming unfeminine ..... yet they still are capable of doing just that! MY GOD xD So they have to resort to a MAN giving them advice how to be a woman. And imagine if he'd been the opposite of good looking, none of these broads would've even batted an eye on his content.

He's the mgtow of women because he panders to women mainstream supporters him

💯

Reminds me of Steve Harvey

He has to express himself diplomatically, otherwise he would alienate his clients. But that doesn't invalidate everything he says.

Right? I don’t resonate with so many of his ideologies. And I know other people who think the same.

This feels so sincere

@augustgates thanks man, it is just the way I see things after having my own experiences.

Okay. He hears woman's struggles all the time. I'm not saying he is always right, but completely dismissing out struggles or experiences is also a shame... we women want people who can empathize with us and care about our experience, too... and many of the issues he talksa but even if I ha e my own view how to approach them are absolutely common ans valid issues for women in dating.

​@@lnaph literally everyone out there trying to help women. Men are getting ignored Women have problems too just try to live like normal men. Its really different struggles women are looking for the one person while guys looking anyone who can be there with em. And this is slowly coming into Femcels. Like incels but difference is Femcels still have options while incles nothing

@@GEO_________________________24 that's the farthest thing from the truth. The whole PUA community is there to help men try to get women as manipulative and toxic as it is... and there are tons of self improvement guys there to teach men how to get girls...and tons of content I have seen on youtube.

​@@lnaph agreed, but PUA is also trash content but for different reasons

@@DoubleOhSilver I agree. It's the culture that unfortunately was the breeding ground for all sorts of harmful mgtow ideas... the false narrative only breeds disdain for women...and a false understanding of who we are... very 2d as though we all think alike... and when someone comes with that energy as well as entitlement to basically own someone, it can't end in love...

Off topic, but I keep seeing the expression 'could care less' from americans. I believe the expression is 'could *not* care less' - ie you care as little as it's possible to care. Could care less implies that you actually care more than you might.

WHERE THEY ARE IN THEIR MONTHLY CYCLE HELPP 💀💀💀

Wrong. As a woman, I have always wanted the same type of guy, regardless of my cycle. I also always wanted their company, and not the company of platonic friends. This is regardless of the age I was, from 12 onward.

Why do you think women don't know what they want? Do you mean all women, or are you talking about your own experiences? Don't get me wrong, your own experiences are still real and important, but there's a big difference between the two

@@afarwiththedawning4495 Why do you think they would do that?

As the only woman in this little conversation, allow me to interfere: we know what we want! And is simpler than what you think: love, care, protection and comfort, give us that and we’ll be yours

@@MaiaDreams Men are much simpler. Have sex and don't be a prick. A Happy man. Women have such an easy route, and they still manage to fuck it up.

To add to Victoria’s comment above … absolutely! And the reason why it seems to you (to a lot of men) that women don’t know what they want is bc these women don’t sense masculinity in men. I know this for a fact from the first 2 guys I dated to the 3rd I dated and eventually married. A woman wouldn’t know and she would be a little confused if a man isn’t tapped into his masculinity. A man’s masculinity grounds a woman and if she came from a family where she felt safe and protected by dad if dad was present in her life and a strong role model, it will feel like home for her when she’s around you. Im sure there’s a lot of women who have mental health issues that can ruin her view of men.. But in this particular instance where you think women don’t know what they want, look to yourself or men have to look to themselves if they are standing in their masculinity, and the woman will naturally take her place beside you. I don’t say this as trying to be that woman telling men what to do or how to be a man, this is just my experience of what I felt I knew vs what I didn’t until I met my husband. Dr Jordan Peterson talks about confidence and competence, thats what I truly believed what women are looking for, the result of that combination is safety long term.

lol, I must be a woman then. But yeah, most men (including myself) are not so good at making an emotional connection. First you need to listening and validate emotions. Then you can offer problem solving, if the other side wants it at all. But be careful not to run over their feeling of autonomy. That's what I learned shortly, but have not yet full implemented.

@@hanswoast7 There have been plenty of times when I actually did something wrong and felt bad about it, and by the time I finished doing the whole emotional validation thing, she's not even interested in an apology or solving an underlying problem at all. It's like a cheat code for my wife's brain. I just have to keep cool enough to remember to use it. My dumb monkey brain always wants to grouch back when she's mad at me.

This is not a women or men problem, this is a type of human quality. This type of people are called selfish and self-centered. There are both women and men that have this kind of behavior. Can we not blame labels on each genders?

@@wrenillusions I don't think it's a problem at all; different people focus on different things. Women overwhelmingly tend to want their emotions validated. Dudes overwhelmingly like to solve problems. Women tend to be more interested in people; men tend to be more interested in things. Both paradigms have value.

​@@willerwin3201 Well, I do understand how you've come to this conclusion. My mother is a good example of someone who acts on how they feel and always wants her feelings validated first in a conflict. However, I am also a female, and given that I have received better education, I personally do not perceive behaviors like wanting to get emotions validated before looking at things from a logical pov as a reasonable behavior. I think that is very selfish and irrational. So what I'm trying to say is that time has changed and education quality has changed. It's a person's education and environment that determines their traits, not their gender. Gender may seem to play a role because boys and girls receive different education (different role models, gender stereotypes), but the internet has allowed that education gap to start closing. So maybe right now there are more women that acts emotionally and more men that act rationally, but you can't say that all women does that because it's in their genes and gender; it's not their natural behavior, it's just their education.

I'm new to this, how do I watch the whole-full length video?

What do we even make of this world nowadays? AI bots online generating content, deepfakes, dating apps, politicians who don’t give a shit, paycheck to paycheck living, laundry list of requirements from dating partners, plastic in the food the water, social media plaguing our attention spans. What does it mean to be human at this point?

Every Week change out your pictures and change how you dress. Change out your profile asked a witty question on something women love to talk about.

Get off that crap and approach in person trust me those dating sites are just a big scam.

1) online dating is a scam 2) Tinder is a gross platform that normalizes gross things and has bad actor owners

"Why buy the dog when you can make your own money with no thread attached"

It's tricky when men and women have different dating strategies, and they go against each other. Men want s3x asap because without going for it, the girl will friendzone u or not take u seriously as a potential romantic partner. For most women, they want commitment, and if they give it up too quickly, then they can't screen out the guys who will use them and leave.

@@CommandoMaster yep, it's not a magic wand that solves every problem it's just a strategy that makes things a little easier. Romantic problems aren't exactly something new. I like to put it like this, more information won't fix every problem, but a lack of information makes every problem much harder. So the cultural expectations and norms were really safety rails, not oppressive rules. Maybe some people could do fine without the safety rails, but plenty more benefited from them.

Yup. Women stopped saying, "No", and that is how their value in the dating market is determined. If they refuse a high-value man that puts out the message that they have more choices and makes the man work harder IF he is actually smitten. If they say yes, the man sees her as easy and not worth settling down with. They will certainly keep sleeping with them as long as they allow it, but the moment they force commitment the man will disengage. "I sleep around with lots of guys and put out, but none of them ever want to commit to me" -Women.

@@CommandoMaster No, the type of man who pushes for it is a bad sort of man. You're contributing to making the world a worse place, even if it's not as bad as when a woman sleeps around (which it is not because men and women are not the same). It is still not good; it is thoroughly irresponsible and gross.

I think both males and females in this current state of society don’t feel any need or drive to wanna be more committed more proactive and values such as loyalty and compassion have taken the major backseat

Their advice is directly tied to their income. They have to offer hope, so they can then "coach" you and make $.

​@@ivanpaganCHAMP wrong both of em wants happy long relationship but our mainstream media and narrative is fed to make it sound like women don't need men they can do whatever they want And guys are struggling. Its so clear

The kind of ppl who dating coaches coach are different to those in the real world. When u go out in the real world, and talk to the majority of attractive women, most of them are in committed relationships already, and they didn't have to get a dating coach to solve their problems.

Dating coaches are the worst. They tell women to keep looking for guys they won't find attractive and they tell men to never commit. A recipe for failure.

Easy. He's a womxn Panderer, a Male feminist cancer. women love his LIES. Getting a ton of female followers because he doesn't hold them Accountable. Easy Success without Challenges.

Thank you 💜

Im the guy who wont commit nor settle down, i have SEX with five different women a week and i divide my time and attention between them, i do bare minium an never devote all my time and attention to just one woman.

Women talk about commitment but do everything they can to test and outright sabotage every relationship they ever have. Women themselves do not commit, and if anything, are less commital than men.

His audience is mainly female. Thats why he speaks nonsense. He'll lose revenue if he appears "red pilled".

Probably why the video said #1 women's dating coach or something similar.

​@@YeodoongiiieWell, yeah that's how he makes his money. Kind of like how the PUA guys make their money by also selling BS.

it's that "dating up" mentality that in the past may not have been a huge problem, but in modern dating apps, all women are being shared by the top 5-10% of men. That is where women say "men dont want commitment", enter these dating coaches telling the 90% of guys to "MAN UP!"

10 years ago men weren't even aware of what you wrote. Think were not making progress.

*Height!*

@@M0viLover 🤣True. But you can find women that are (even if by a small margin) shorter than you, so you still have a chance by that metric. And the woman will probably be receptive to someone that's not much higher than she is. It's a lot harder to acquire resources and influence, though. In fact, it never happens for the vast majority of men.

No money no honey

Wealthy Chad

There are two rules to dating 1) Be hot 2) Don't be ugly

What you need to understand is that you are competing with other guys. So the only time looks matter is when you literally don't have anything else going for you. You think if a woman has a choice between dating a handsome barista and an ugly CEO, she won't go for the CEO? Come on. It's about finding something you're good at and getting better at it.

He's pandering to women. Waffling on and on and on...

True👿

How'd you come to believe men only want a 10 if they themselves are a 10?

All men want a 10 even if they're not a 10 themselves. That's what incels are. They are low value wanting and expecting 10's

I've had pretty intense s3x with ropey looking lasses that I haven't been able to get out of my head afterward. A wild 5 beats a shit 7. I'm being realistic😮 here! I'm not going to be getting any 10s even if I was single.

Stop! So many men online have called Margot Robbie “mid”. If guys think she is “mid”, then everyday pretty girls that would have been a catch for any man in the 80s and 90s are now boring plain janes because they don’t look like pornstars and Instagram girls who are hypersexualized. Many men see normal women as boring because of what they see all day online.

Some people just want to smash and have fun at the lowest expense. Anyway, sounds like you "matured", congratulations to you.

@@maewest68 I’m 52 lol. That’s why I know!!

@@maewest68 that’s unfortunate. They will also be smashed and end up on the lowest state possible unfortunately

@@kathleenkaleookalanismith8724 how will they be smashed?

@@maewest68 whatever we do to others comes back to us three fold

Lol. If you want to survive in a battle, the information going back to high command that 90% of the troops are already dead and the enemy is on the march... means nothing, less than nothing. Yes, the macro level statistics mean something. If 75% of women had chlamydia, it would be more of a risk with any individual woman than knowing only 0.0001% of women have chlamydia, but yes, you could always be the lucky or unlucky one...

Have you ever seen advice that tells women to stop bitching?

Thats quite disheartening... why even have relationships at that point

Being nice just means being agreeable and doesn't necessarily mean you are kind and compassionate and have emotional intelligence. Many "nice" guys just do things for women to get laid but really don't actually care for who the women really is.

What does any of that even mean

@@Magic-gt4pl 1) Did you watch the video? 2) Do you have a wife?

@@AlphaFoxAdam Thanks for absolutely nothing.

@@Magic-gt4pl lol. Yeah, I'm guessing the answer is "no" to both. Want to try again, incel?

@@AlphaFoxAdam That was a trap, and you fell into it. You unironically say incel. You don't have your own opinions. You defer to popular consensus. On your way.

This is what I don't understand. Why do men even need to commit? let's remove "want" from the equation. What would a man possibly need a woman's commitment for? I guess if they're going to entwine finances, have a house together, have kids together... even sleeping together it's just to avoid diseases, some people have open relationships. So, if a man doesn't want your finances mixed with his, doesn't want to live with you and has no intention of having kids really what does he need commitment for? I think it would be interesting to ask women that: "you want a man's commitment. Why would he want yours?" then maybe some women would realise why they are always the bridesmaid never the bride/sidechick/mistress etc etc.

Man here posing as a woman.

@@paulwary me?

@@advancedapathy1531 I don't know. Is that true? What's the answer. I think another interesting question is why do women always include themselves in photos of anything, a man takes a photo of his motorcycle, a woman takes a photo of her on her motorcycle. A man takes a photo of his meal, a woman takes a photo of herself eating her meal. It's an odd one.

And how did that go?

I was on Tinder for one month. I spent a long time creating a profile. Most of the women I saw just had photos. No bio. Clearly, looks was all. What a shitshow.

@@geeianna7708 that seems the be the most common stories I hear but I'm curious about how Eddie the head's experience went maybe they got a different result.

My brother jumped on Christian Mingle. His profile said something along the lines of "I'm looking for a woman that loves Jesus...and cock." It was quickly terminated.

Many men on dating dates dates sketchy or poor photos. You would be amazed thr photos I have seen on dating sites with terrible lighting and angles... or what I only assume is an attempt to look like an alpha and just makes them look like they would unalive their partner or a sleezy look.