Who are you, really? The puzzle of personality | Brian Little | TED

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What makes you, you? Psychologists like to talk about our traits, or defined characteristics that make us who we are. But Brian Little is more interested in moments when we transcend those traits - sometimes because our culture demands it of us, and sometimes because we demand it of ourselves. Join Little as he dissects the surprising differences between introverts and extroverts and explains why your personality may be more malleable than you think.
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@IOxyrinchus
@IOxyrinchus 4 роки тому
“As an introvert I might gently allude to certain assholic qualities” Both the most introverted and extroverted thing I’ve ever heard
@ryanrulesbro
@ryanrulesbro 4 роки тому
That was so relatable, ive been in that situation so many times and its very funny to hear someone else speak of it
@PavelRipper
@PavelRipper 4 роки тому
Called 'bathos', it is
@vwd3781
@vwd3781 4 роки тому
I'm still laughing and I agree with you.
@myrealnameisawareness
@myrealnameisawareness 4 роки тому
Ambiverted *
@mikelisteral7863
@mikelisteral7863 Рік тому
introverts often avoid confrontation because they are at a disadvantage and its overstimulating
@dank6617
@dank6617 4 роки тому
He is so serious about pooping alone that he prepared a whole TED speech for it.
@Elic205
@Elic205 4 роки тому
None dares to step foot on same level in my house when I battle count dookoo.
@samuelfinlay416
@samuelfinlay416 4 роки тому
😂This was so unexpected... ...In the best of ways 👊😎🔥
@borgoat1220
@borgoat1220 4 роки тому
As a fellow solo pooper, he would hit it off real well with Rick Sanchez from "Rick and Morty."
@ryugo7713
@ryugo7713 3 роки тому
I TURDED HAHA 💩
@justafriend_agreste6549
@justafriend_agreste6549 3 роки тому
😂😂
@TnTPoll
@TnTPoll 2 роки тому
I was one of those fortunate enough to have him as a professor at Carleton University in the 90s. Best. Class. Ever. He had a profound impact on me and I still remember an astonishing number of details from his lessons. I still find myself quoting him in my daily life. I have never been so thoroughly entertained and enlightened at the same time. I gave him a Thank You card when I graduated, expressing my gratitude for what he gave me. Being his student was truly a gift. Not only was he exceptionally brilliant, but his ability to teach through stories is unparalleled and his ability to humanize experience remarkable. I'm so glad he's still sharing himself with the world though TED. If you're reading this Dr. Little, may I once again say Thank you. The world is a better place because you're in it.
@spliknot1979
@spliknot1979 Рік тому
thanks you so much for this story :-)
@josephacevedo7421
@josephacevedo7421 Рік тому
What was one of his best quotes that you really appreciated?
@mrnice7570
@mrnice7570 Рік тому
This was good to read and uplifting to once again recall , how humans used to appreciate one another and the gifts interpersonal relationships bestow and bequeth
@cockeyedoptimista
@cockeyedoptimista Рік тому
This was a really nice comment to read, as someone below said. I guess Professor Little Really goes beyond his introvert nature to have made such an impression on you and undoubtedly others. Lucky you to have been his student, and lucky him to have had a student so expressive of their gratitude.
@444cupcaki
@444cupcaki 10 місяців тому
​@@mrnice757012:09 😮
@ithinkyourehotheaded8495
@ithinkyourehotheaded8495 3 роки тому
My procrastinating starter pack : open UKposts,watch TED talk, telling myself I'm learning English so it's okay to procrastinate more when I have a lot of assignments not done yet
@anikapatel810
@anikapatel810 3 роки тому
Who dat in ur pfp . Also SaME!
@ithinkyourehotheaded8495
@ithinkyourehotheaded8495 3 роки тому
@@anikapatel810 it's INFINITE Nam Woohyun 🥰
@anikapatel810
@anikapatel810 3 роки тому
@@ithinkyourehotheaded8495 did you watch his drama highschool love on? 🥺
@ithinkyourehotheaded8495
@ithinkyourehotheaded8495 3 роки тому
@@anikapatel810 yess ofc that's drama make me become a kpop fans 💛
@leemorralley7172
@leemorralley7172 2 роки тому
You tube the home of procrastination. Lived the TED talk about it was insightful and made me feel not alone
@melaniechiriacescu7876
@melaniechiriacescu7876 5 років тому
Imagine having him as a teacher! I would be in class everyday captivated
@nieceypiecey100
@nieceypiecey100 4 роки тому
He seems like a tough grader.
@mansi3262
@mansi3262 4 роки тому
yes exactly
@melaniechiriacescu7876
@melaniechiriacescu7876 4 роки тому
nieceypiecey100 honestly these teachers make me want to learn even more to get good grades
@melaniechiriacescu7876
@melaniechiriacescu7876 4 роки тому
Joseph Karani ahahha so true but he’s just so fascinating
@adriancastillo2799
@adriancastillo2799 3 роки тому
Idk I kinda find this guy boring, if he was my professor I'd ditch class so much he wouldn't even know who I am 😂
@anywallsocket
@anywallsocket 7 років тому
“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.”
@protonjones54
@protonjones54 7 років тому
Who said that?
@anywallsocket
@anywallsocket 7 років тому
Kurt Vonnegut
@federal_europe
@federal_europe 7 років тому
DFTBA
@tiantu9830
@tiantu9830 7 років тому
I want to be the Christian God. Guess I better start slaughtering billions, and enslaving the masses while preaching about kindness.
@protonjones54
@protonjones54 7 років тому
Faye S If you want to be *Catholic.
@KelvinRodrigues
@KelvinRodrigues Рік тому
He talked for 15 minutes without slide show and still kept attention retention from all audience and also us online, this is a true professor! Thanks for sharing this Brian Little!
@zebman74
@zebman74 3 роки тому
It started out so playful and interesting. But when he got real: "you've been to the hospital 3 times and they still don't know what's wrong," I shed a tear in response to how genuine his demeanor had become. Then seconds later he had me laughing. Thank you sir, for laying your real self out there for the world to see.
@mariahconklin4150
@mariahconklin4150 2 роки тому
Funny how I’ve been to the hospital three times just to get away from the world. Lol! I just sat there the last time and read a couple books. Lol!
@derinwithaq5811
@derinwithaq5811 Рік тому
@@mariahconklin4150 you good?
@taherbanglorewala458
@taherbanglorewala458 11 місяців тому
​@@mariahconklin4150 shorts err ky t shirt vvy y t shirt for men are you ee3xxxxxxee
@mocking1000
@mocking1000 9 місяців тому
😅
@mio7464
@mio7464 4 роки тому
He got emotional at his hospital analogy and it made part of my heart crack
@tanleelee268
@tanleelee268 4 роки тому
Yea. I felt it. Because I relate to it.
@carolmaciel2908
@carolmaciel2908 3 роки тому
Yeaa
@vivienne3811
@vivienne3811 3 роки тому
ikr
@kayeaubreypotolin6407
@kayeaubreypotolin6407 3 роки тому
i thought it was just my imagination...
@Hasvaliant
@Hasvaliant 3 роки тому
I caught that too
@RegumRai
@RegumRai 4 роки тому
Watching this made me realise i need to improve my vocabulary
@hermionegranger2132
@hermionegranger2132 3 роки тому
💯
@emmanueltoledo4293
@emmanueltoledo4293 3 роки тому
Same .. I’m 23 I “always” talk under my breath .. been doing this for years now . Idk what it is .
@muhammadhugo9721
@muhammadhugo9721 2 роки тому
truee😩
@vishalharne7674
@vishalharne7674 2 роки тому
Me too,
@lizpang8898
@lizpang8898 2 роки тому
You must be an extrovert learning the ways of an introvert :)
@JonatasAdoM
@JonatasAdoM 3 роки тому
Why can't we have teachers like him? It's like a walking audiobook.
@smitbhatt577
@smitbhatt577 Рік тому
It's because he knows he is not Teaching..!! He knows That he need He is just playing his game hard .!!
@user-cd4nb6wz3d
@user-cd4nb6wz3d Рік тому
hi, I am from India and you
@indridcold8433
@indridcold8433 Рік тому
There was a time when all teachers were like him. Now they are all part of the bandwagon bunch and try to spread the status quo indoctrination, not education.
@polinapvnk
@polinapvnk 2 місяці тому
I’m glad to have a teacher like him in my school! It’s so fabulous to communicate and listen this type of people who always can tell you right information ( moreover, it will be explain with bright emotions) and if you have some problems she’ll 100% supports you and tell different examples from her own life in the same situations. It’s so so wonderful and amazing!
@susanbland6790
@susanbland6790 3 роки тому
Brian Little is my uncle and although he and my aunt divorced many years ago and I have not seen him for decades I have fond memories of conversations with him. He was always so engaging, brilliant and funny. He remains a wonderful speaker and I really enjoyed listening to him once again.
@futbolchamps
@futbolchamps Рік тому
Hello
@WeasleyTwiins
@WeasleyTwiins 7 років тому
I'm a social introvert. I find it hardest to be in groups where I don't know the people (well). With my friends, I may seem to be extroverted, but the interaction still drains me and I need to be alone quite a lot.
@sheep3370
@sheep3370 5 років тому
Nothing pisses me off more than when somebody wants to hang out when I just saw them a day ago
@ItsMeTheSteph
@ItsMeTheSteph 5 років тому
I’m the same way.
@darkhorse2226
@darkhorse2226 5 років тому
i can't agree with you more. i never be the one who break the ice first. being alone makes me more comfortable. whenever i don't spend time for myself, it's really exhausted
@tamymks1831
@tamymks1831 5 років тому
same here, is it bad to b introvert ? cz i get problems everytime im involved in society
@palmirajeremias4074
@palmirajeremias4074 5 років тому
OMG...this the the definition of being me.
@TinRapper
@TinRapper 4 роки тому
I have not enjoyed a TED Talk this much in a long time. He's perfect, his humor, professionalism, speech.
@stvkkkk11
@stvkkkk11 4 роки тому
+1!
@alexispapageorgiou72
@alexispapageorgiou72 4 роки тому
And this is done by someone who doesn't enjoy doing it, especially out of character like he said. And boy that was out of character. Must've been so liberating, that he may even become an extrovert now lol
@briannaquepasa5174
@briannaquepasa5174 4 роки тому
ur an introvert aren't you
@ExploringAlpha
@ExploringAlpha 4 роки тому
That is his "personal project" as he would call for it.
@ExploringAlpha
@ExploringAlpha 4 роки тому
he dedicates his time and energy in order to come out with this amazingly polarizing and informative video.
@christinacatalano
@christinacatalano 2 роки тому
“Your personality is not who you are.” This quote has sat with me for a long time, and has helped me focus on inner dialogue versus outward expression. **As a side note, the quote derives from the lectures of Dr. Gabor mate; he provides more context into those dynamics of personality that can cause a misidentify, etc.
@nternetrat
@nternetrat 2 роки тому
have you read the untethered soul!!
@christinacatalano
@christinacatalano 2 роки тому
@@nternetrat ohhh I have not! I will look into it!
@craigmalcom6294
@craigmalcom6294 2 роки тому
well it is. that’s literally the definiton of the who you are
@keithhickson6675
@keithhickson6675 2 роки тому
"The Untethered Soul" was great. Very good wisdom on changing one's perspective on how we limit ourselves and how to adopt new attitudes towards our potential for navigating emotions. I just finished Oliver Burkeman's "Four Thousand Weeks." It's a fascinating read about limited time in this life and has great suggestions on how to think in different ways in order to free yourself from the anxiety of missing out on life. A very "Live in the Moment" type book.
@boichaliyakat6679
@boichaliyakat6679 2 роки тому
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@deborahthomsondvm9731
@deborahthomsondvm9731 3 роки тому
So lucky to have had him as a teacher. He changed my life.
@iqbalnuaim457
@iqbalnuaim457 2 роки тому
May I know where did you have him as your teacher?
@smitbhatt577
@smitbhatt577 Рік тому
Techer changed his life so he can Comment on His revision classes...!!
@mahtajr5157
@mahtajr5157 4 роки тому
Me before watching the video: It's too long it may be boring Me after watching the video: No come back explain more
@whit2642
@whit2642 4 роки тому
Mahta Jr I am sending it to everyone I know.
@WhiteAngelLovesEarth
@WhiteAngelLovesEarth 4 роки тому
come join Twitch, there's a great Life Coach there www.twitch.tv/yourfavoritelifecoach/videos
@ishikasingh2155
@ishikasingh2155 4 роки тому
M not able to understand can u explain me this lil what actually is said in this vedio
@DarkShadows713
@DarkShadows713 4 роки тому
This is me with every TEDtalk I watch
@AgglomeratiProduzioni
@AgglomeratiProduzioni 4 роки тому
I know but he's on the John, let's just not talk to him for a while.
@grimble4564
@grimble4564 4 роки тому
As an introvert who really likes words, the way he speaks is like crack
@micanikko
@micanikko 4 роки тому
I hope this guy has youtube videos about his classes.
@grimble4564
@grimble4564 4 роки тому
@Ben Kahrmann bit late ain't it?
@grimble4564
@grimble4564 4 роки тому
@Ben Kahrmann neither have I but a guy can dream mkay
@saiyaramahjabin5686
@saiyaramahjabin5686 4 роки тому
true
@iknowthatyouknowthatiknowt2930
@iknowthatyouknowthatiknowt2930 3 роки тому
💀
@skang7353
@skang7353 Рік тому
I really love the way how this professor sees people and their life. ❤
@taofeekat2619
@taofeekat2619 Рік тому
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@taofeekat2619
@taofeekat2619 Рік тому
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@006puneet
@006puneet 5 років тому
I am not what I think I am, I am not what you think I am. I am, what I think you think I am. ( A perception of a perception )
@hithere5133
@hithere5133 5 років тому
Thomas Cooley
@chanchalsaraswat7762
@chanchalsaraswat7762 5 років тому
Exactly!
@grannyslayer1178
@grannyslayer1178 5 років тому
Can't be more accurate
@the__void__spaghetti__girl
@the__void__spaghetti__girl 5 років тому
nice
@thebatman330
@thebatman330 4 роки тому
thats facts, I hate the feeling that I am acting out a character that I see in the eyes of the people around me. Like a shiver, I try to shrug it off and forget it
@zoeyvernon83
@zoeyvernon83 3 роки тому
HOLD UP, I want to take this professors class. Professors like him are the reason I love learning!!!
@wheeinsoojinmakemeweakfromawe
@wheeinsoojinmakemeweakfromawe 2 роки тому
I really like learning. It gives me goosebumps ,every time I hear or see something meaningful, interesting and strong based theory. I sometimes really want to know what was the reason or drive that people had to come to that solutions and how it becomes possible. It is so fun learning something new or interesting. I want to be in that professor's class.
@sunkissedangel
@sunkissedangel 2 роки тому
Right!!! I would love my class so much if he was my teacher
@saladinnomani
@saladinnomani 2 роки тому
And you fall in love quite probably, right :)
@Azulamei
@Azulamei 2 роки тому
You can really see the happiness in him when the crowd laughs at his jokes. :') made my day so much better
@woahokay1290
@woahokay1290 3 роки тому
I really love how he speaks and how he delivered his speech, He always has my attention even when he's just standing still on stage.
@smitbhatt577
@smitbhatt577 Рік тому
You my friend..!! True true lover.!
@kamenidriss
@kamenidriss 7 років тому
how lucky are those students to be taught by this man!
@vaibhavchaudhary27
@vaibhavchaudhary27 7 років тому
I wholeheartedly agree!
@googol5393
@googol5393 7 років тому
how sad is the fact we have to celebrate a few of the smart people left alive
@burnz5150
@burnz5150 7 років тому
+Googol yeah, we should celebrate ALL of the smart people left alive, which would be everyone alive, everyone brings something to the table, and leaves somethings at home
@googol5393
@googol5393 7 років тому
Bryan Goodyear what makes you sure you are not being emotionally offended by my comment and just spewing an unreasonable argument?
@karark
@karark 7 років тому
I got a better teacher *_*
@covertfarts1947
@covertfarts1947 6 років тому
Someone once said that a person has 3 faces. 1 you show the world 2 you show to your family and your friends 3 is one you dont show to anybody.
@kustom13rods
@kustom13rods 5 років тому
Covert Farts there should only be one!! Otherwise sheeple are living a lie!!
@nadim78nadim
@nadim78nadim 5 років тому
Me right now, and its killing me
@dragoncannon
@dragoncannon 5 років тому
@@kustom13rods In order to be functional in a society, all people constantly lie and pretend. That is an observed fact.
@MisokoFukumoto
@MisokoFukumoto 5 років тому
Oh man, I have three face for the outside world, two for my mom, and one for me.
@nanny7397
@nanny7397 5 років тому
Covert Farts, I agree but that's not why I'm replying. You have the best name I've seen on UKposts.
@Marmer
@Marmer 3 роки тому
"when we act protractedly out of character, we may find that we don't take care of ourselves" amen to that
@kagura9252
@kagura9252 2 роки тому
i myself, am an introvert, but i had to act extrovert in front of some people, especially my family so when he talked about it, i was so relieved that I'm not alone in it. thank you sir for taking your time and sharing your speech with us!
@novelistusonthewater
@novelistusonthewater 3 роки тому
there's days when, as an introvert, you feel odd, misplaced, not fitting in, alone with how you feel. And then you watch this and you feel like it really is perfectly OK just the way you are. Thank you so much Brian for this talk. And of course making it blatantly clear how limited my vocabulary is to yours.
@Anx23
@Anx23 3 роки тому
Novelistus on the water and then you go back to feeling misplaced again.
@MLD.Ltd.
@MLD.Ltd. 3 роки тому
Novelistus on the water or Sir Derek Jacobi
@myriamfersing7935
@myriamfersing7935 2 роки тому
So learn vocabulary in life it gets you far...but always turn your tongue twice...before talking
@novelistusonthewater
@novelistusonthewater 2 роки тому
@@myriamfersing7935 I am working on that, every day.
@davidolatunji5110
@davidolatunji5110 2 роки тому
Not really. I still feel alone and out of place
@ethancain4922
@ethancain4922 4 роки тому
This mans vocabulary is bigger than texas
@TammyJFox
@TammyJFox 4 роки тому
😂agreed, but love it.
@yiz1612
@yiz1612 4 роки тому
ethan cain cannot agree more.
@amazon1606
@amazon1606 4 роки тому
Yes ♥
@chrisfaulkner9355
@chrisfaulkner9355 4 роки тому
It’s an average college level vocabulary. It’s actually not that impressive.
@AJisdabombsauce
@AJisdabombsauce 4 роки тому
The Real Slim Brady source?
@kodedude
@kodedude 2 роки тому
Just amazing. Made me cry when he spoke of the reasons he would exemplify specific traits. It's your child, or mother. Just as hard as it can hit.
@xenodoll
@xenodoll 3 роки тому
He didn’t explain the difference between an introverted and an extroverted person, he described the difference between a direct and passive person. They aren’t synonymous, I’m as introverted as it gets, yet very direct.
@saltedsnail9887
@saltedsnail9887 7 років тому
Ted talks always make you think hard about your life
@Mygo666
@Mygo666 7 років тому
not always, not being sexist(said every sexist ever) there have been some bad & disliked feminist ted talks
@xxGLhrMxx
@xxGLhrMxx 7 років тому
Ted talks is the best in-flight entertainment content
@googol5393
@googol5393 7 років тому
to be honest - you should think hard about your life on your own regardless of what TEDs say
@Deus.Grande
@Deus.Grande 7 років тому
Feminists show?Give me link!
@googol5393
@googol5393 7 років тому
Deus Grande just select "most popular" on the TED videos page
@mikew8880
@mikew8880 7 років тому
The REAL issue with personality traits is they're never constant. Everyone's identity is in perpetual flux, too slowly to notice in real time, but we all feel the disconnect when we look at old photos of ourselves, showing evidence of a personality we no longer identify with... We all know our bodies completely regenerate on a cellular level around every decade or so, no doubt some process of change takes place in the brain's architecture and encoded data as well, perhaps responsible for the slight variations in our personal identities as we grow and live.
@morganthem
@morganthem 7 років тому
Michael Weinberger thoughtful approach sir
@thenyancatcakesisters1107
@thenyancatcakesisters1107 7 років тому
hi
@sianash2
@sianash2 7 років тому
Michael Weinberger our personalities don't change our habits do
@mikew8880
@mikew8880 7 років тому
...the only thing constant is that absolutely everything that exists is in a constant state of super slow, nearly non perceivable change. One particle replaced at a time, over years or centuries. Everything vibrates, changes state, moves from one thing or place or molecular makeup to the the next.
@mikew8880
@mikew8880 7 років тому
...Our personalities and our habits are synonymous. You could even say they equally influence each other. Our habits are just a file in our personality folder, a single brick in a much larger wall, and our personality dictates the habits we form, like a kind of psychological-physiological feedback loop. For example, chronic nervousness is a personality trait, whereas nail biting is a habit, but in this case the nervous personality drives the individual to bite their nails, and in turn that nail biting becomes a part of their personality. So when the slow changes in our personality occur, the same are equally taking place within our habitual exercises throughout life.
@kales7067
@kales7067 2 роки тому
I’ve been having a lot of trouble with identifying my own personality and my own individuality. This made me feel a little bit better. What a sweet professor. I hope he is well.
@phanterleo
@phanterleo 3 роки тому
When I go out to social events I usually quite enjoy myself but I need a day or two after to get back on track - I get annoyed, extremely tired and grumpy. I never actually thought that was a thing that happened to other people. But when he was talking about how he needs time to recuperate from interactions with other people I felt so reminded of myself. Feel a lot better now
@namps4993
@namps4993 4 роки тому
I’m an introvert when you first meet me but I like to act as an extrovert and make conversations just to avoid awkward situations. Once I get to know you, I’m an extrovert but I keep my emotions to myself basically appearing emotionless... anyone?
@JorgeRodriguez-if1kx
@JorgeRodriguez-if1kx 4 роки тому
That's what I used to do for the longest time, be extroverted to prevent 'awkward' situations. But it was so mentally and physically draining for me. The reason I used quotes was because it was never awkward for me, I was just worried about the other person feeling awkward. Now if I want to be quiet, I'll be quiet, if people feel awkward around me they can leave or get used to it
@poonamchopra4223
@poonamchopra4223 4 роки тому
@@JorgeRodriguez-if1kx same
@darthclone7
@darthclone7 4 роки тому
Me
@lydiahannah
@lydiahannah 4 роки тому
Same
@DarkExpressions5132X
@DarkExpressions5132X 4 роки тому
Quite the opposite for me
@teclinsoro4523
@teclinsoro4523 4 роки тому
Hold on lemme just get my dictionary
@rachelkuhn1545
@rachelkuhn1545 4 роки тому
Teclinsoro 😹😹😹 felt the same way
@Tiffany-ov2jf
@Tiffany-ov2jf 4 роки тому
Same I had to Google 5 words lmao
@MP-cv6if
@MP-cv6if 4 роки тому
Really?
@serafinasmith209
@serafinasmith209 4 роки тому
@@MP-cv6if they might not be a native english speaker 😀
@MP-cv6if
@MP-cv6if 4 роки тому
@@serafinasmith209 it's more likely that they are native. Any non native who is commenting on this video has obviously learnt English very carefully, while natives usually don't feel that they need to specifically enlarge their vocabulary in their native tongue, because they are _naturals_ It's the same when it comes to me and my native language
@rbg7408
@rbg7408 2 роки тому
Thank you professor! Not just for validating my feeling uncomfortable being around people who are hyper compared to the silence I find comfort in but the persona or pseudo-extroversion that we exhibit to make things easier to understand to people who otherwise cannot comprehend the mental gymnastics that we naturally prefer. Thank you again
@vanessavallarino6475
@vanessavallarino6475 2 роки тому
You can really tell he knows exactly how to handle the crowd. It was an extraordinary speech. Well done!
@TheArtOfBrooke
@TheArtOfBrooke 3 роки тому
i think because introverts are so attentive and have such an ability to observe and take in, we could act as extroverts and seem like a true extrovert, but an extrovert couldn't play as an introvert so well.
@adriannaa545
@adriannaa545 3 роки тому
I mean.... It's really not hard to be an introvert lmfao. All you have to do is learn how to entertain and gain energy from doing things alone.
@zeynand4039
@zeynand4039 3 роки тому
everyone learns and adapts. extroverts can come across as introverts aswell, they just read the room and show introvert traits when needed.
@TheArtOfBrooke
@TheArtOfBrooke 3 роки тому
@@zeynand4039 true true, i forgot i commented this haha, i probably wouldn't have now, oh well
@raphaelacevallos-jimenez2759
@raphaelacevallos-jimenez2759 3 роки тому
@@TheArtOfBrooke I mean it kind of makes sense what you said lol
@williamfabiano6036
@williamfabiano6036 3 роки тому
The extreme Introvert learned to be an extrovert and plays the extrovert better than most extroverts.
@spinzy5990
@spinzy5990 3 роки тому
I want to be like him someday. The fact that he gave a speech and it just makes you rethink how you look at life.
@realcorrupt.1
@realcorrupt.1 Рік тому
how are you doing?
@charnjitsingh3365
@charnjitsingh3365 Рік тому
​@@realcorrupt.1 how're you doing
@benjamina7712
@benjamina7712 Рік тому
I've watched Brian's talk many times, it is one of my fondest moments of learning, laughing and relatability. I am an introvert, but feel nowadays after the loss of someone very close, the urge to socialise, be part of a group, and especially spend time and deepen my relationships with close ones. This is in a sense quite representative of the fact that introverts are not necessarily antisocial. I don't feel antisocial, but the opposite. I need to build close and deep relationships. Maybe the only differences in socialising is what we want to create in terms of relationship, and how long it takes to create it. Thank you so much Pr. Little for the inspiration, and the laugh.
@chubby_artist
@chubby_artist 3 роки тому
Fantastic! And he is true to what he said, he is a true introvert in every sense of the word... He didn’t even turn to see the standing ovation he got at the end. This guy is amazingly outstanding!
@Nembrothor
@Nembrothor 7 років тому
As a non nativ english speaker... yes he is using language that sometimes far surpasses my limited understanding, but HOLY MOLY just listenting to such a charismatic person with this amount of profound knowledge is more than enaugh.
@mikelanso4129
@mikelanso4129 5 років тому
enough*
@mikelanso4129
@mikelanso4129 5 років тому
native*
@miner6ty9er
@miner6ty9er 5 років тому
As a native speaker his vocab is nutty bro!
@johannek8380
@johannek8380 5 років тому
I agree with you. as a non native English speaker, I stopped many times this TED talk to search in my dictionnary. after 4 round trips, I began to doubt of my English capacities 😂.
@Louise-js3bq
@Louise-js3bq 4 роки тому
@@johannek8380 same here, but at least I'm grateful that I could learn some new words. :D
@SlightysBack
@SlightysBack 4 роки тому
... but Professor Slughorn, did you tell the same thing to Tom RIddle when he had questions?
@sshk1653
@sshk1653 4 роки тому
there you go buddy you speak my mind.. 😂😂 i was thinking he resembles someone but i wasn't able to find out who
@JarvisPen
@JarvisPen 4 роки тому
"Tom was a lovely boy but a little scary. I had to act extroverted so that he wouldn't realize how creeped out I was."
@birkegaardnielsen
@birkegaardnielsen 4 роки тому
OMG thats who he looks like :O
@eskarrasco
@eskarrasco 4 роки тому
SlightysBack I'm curious... are you guys intro or extroverts ?
@gio_e_sc
@gio_e_sc 4 роки тому
@@JarvisPen Oh my gosh! I laugh so hard at your comment! How can you be so like that? I do feel like admiring you now
@alyahuwaida2935
@alyahuwaida2935 Рік тому
Thank you, Dr. Little for answering questions about "who am I, really". Actually, I've done tests that say I'm an extrovert but I also feel introverted tendencies because I often analyze things in depth, enjoy alone time well, and don't have as many friends as other extroverts. Until I thought "this test is not accurate" even though the results showed extroverts up to 3 times. Because of this video, I know who or what type of personality you are is not a barrier for you to do things you like or enjoy. We're more than introvert / extrovert kind of person. What makes difference and sense are these free traits and the way we enact and create a script in order to advance our core project in our life.
@realanthonycameron
@realanthonycameron Рік тому
I haven’t tried college yet, mainly because school sounds like a drag and I never liked it much. But if I had this man as my professor I would absolutely LOVE going to his lectures everyday and learning something new. Great content
@aaronkline5454
@aaronkline5454 4 роки тому
I can in fact lick the outside of my own elbow. Just saying. It’s not that hard. All you have to do is completely destroy your shoulder.
@thinkingfast6648
@thinkingfast6648 3 роки тому
Oh man 🤣🤣
@lizbrewster7674
@lizbrewster7674 3 роки тому
I can as well, but it's because I have a long neck and hyper-mobility syndrome
@harjeck9518
@harjeck9518 3 роки тому
It's easy.. especially when You have a long toungue.. :D
@justafriend_agreste6549
@justafriend_agreste6549 3 роки тому
Aaron Kline lol
@justafriend_agreste6549
@justafriend_agreste6549 3 роки тому
Love this humor😂
@nayeli4777
@nayeli4777 7 років тому
I act like an introvert but I'm actually an extrovert. I like communicating with peoole but i have social anxiety, and when I beat my anxiety i always feel happier & better after talking with people.
@nayeli4777
@nayeli4777 7 років тому
I feel lonely and lost when I don't talk to anyone and I hate it
@shnglbot
@shnglbot 7 років тому
If you're lonely, check out meetup.com I have social anxiety too and this has helped me.
@nayeli4777
@nayeli4777 7 років тому
shnglbot Thankyou :)
@reezy69
@reezy69 7 років тому
Nayeli Orozco Sounds like you also have high neuroticism then.
@mykiea5156
@mykiea5156 7 років тому
Nayeli Orozco because of me being bipolar I tend to push people away and I also have anxiety and yeah it keeps you away but when I work I am extrovert around people so I don't get it lol
@yumaover
@yumaover 3 роки тому
This video and the comment section has made me realize how much of an introvert I was, I literally don't see the point in people liking to interact with others and liking loud places with a lot of people it also made realize how much I love extroverts not only because they carry the conversation but they also give me energy and I'm happy around them
@victoriaignatova7718
@victoriaignatova7718 Рік тому
I absolutely loved every detail he gave, you can really learn a lot from this man. I have not enjoyed a TED talk such as this one in a long time!
@micheletotton9342
@micheletotton9342 7 років тому
What a delightful man
@dvl973
@dvl973 5 років тому
Michele Totton You're an introvert
@bluntbangs
@bluntbangs 7 років тому
This whole speech was a setup to make nobody follow him to the bathroom. Nice.
@KarishmaChanglani
@KarishmaChanglani 6 років тому
Matt Hubbell And to exhibit certain aasholic qualities
@himtendua4943
@himtendua4943 6 років тому
Matt Hubbell sn
@BedStuyBro
@BedStuyBro 6 років тому
Brilliant!!!
@stephenpowstinger733
@stephenpowstinger733 6 років тому
Not comfortable with his sexual and bathroom remarks. I must be an introvert.
@DowntownSound1
@DowntownSound1 5 років тому
SooDoneWithYou ----🤣🤣🤣EXACTLY. HE SPENT ALL THIS TIME UP ON STAGE PREPARING EVERYBODY TO TELL THEM NOT TO FOLLOW HIM. LOL!!!👍👍👍👍👍🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lacaritabeira
@lacaritabeira 2 роки тому
Thank you, Dr. Little! I am analyzing your conversation for a class (Personality- Psychology II) and it is amazing the way you explain personalities and traits! A remarkable point, introverted can be a GREAT speaker and Professor!
@howtomakemoneywithcryptocurren
@howtomakemoneywithcryptocurren Рік тому
1. Quick to start but slow to finish can make you more creative 2. You can motivate yourself by doubting your ideas 3. Embrace the fear of failing to try 4. You need a lot of bad ideas in order to get a few good ones
@chrisstroesser6563
@chrisstroesser6563 Рік тому
Ok I did the first four steps what is step five?
@lesleyboulant4053
@lesleyboulant4053 4 роки тому
Here's the thing, there are hybrids. There are those of us who easily float between both worlds
@saskiadenboer3239
@saskiadenboer3239 4 роки тому
Ambiverts :) me
@shazarahramesar6395
@shazarahramesar6395 4 роки тому
Yes us
@picklepirate
@picklepirate 4 роки тому
Thats human. Introvert vs extrovert is the dumbest, most stratifying conversation
@satanichippo
@satanichippo 4 роки тому
More like a spectrum? You can't be an introvert-extrovert hybrid without contradicting yourself. Most people don't stand in the extremes, but close to the middle, still leaning towards the other side. This is how the concept of ambiverts came to be, wich I think isn't necessary since we can't be both introverted and extroverted.
@darbzz
@darbzz 4 роки тому
Us thats me
@Himani_inamiH
@Himani_inamiH 7 років тому
He reminds of Professor Slughorn or my version of him when read the books
@ma1xx5
@ma1xx5 7 років тому
potwhovian yeeees !! he reminds me of him so much too
@thstroyur
@thstroyur 5 років тому
In mine, he was a baldie and had a 'stache
@InvadableHarmony
@InvadableHarmony 5 років тому
Oh my God yeeeess!!!
@shreyabanerjee219
@shreyabanerjee219 Рік тому
People often feel you’re not an introvert because you’re not acting like an antisocial. You are engaging in conversations. However, being an introvert has different shades. I was insulted once because I said I am an introvert by someone close to me. It took a big hit on my mind and gaslighted me to question my perception about myself. I didn’t say an word to him (because I am an introvert). Today I came across this video and it was really comforting.
@cegiuliosampaolo8382
@cegiuliosampaolo8382 Рік тому
This has been both inspiring and informative in a very confusing way. Love the cadence, the voice, the accent, the humour. I feel grateful for this.
@bunekolover
@bunekolover 4 роки тому
the recharge for an introvert is true. whenever we have family reunion, I would feel so much headache that I need to sneak out and take a rest then come back lol
@anujgupta5186
@anujgupta5186 3 роки тому
i think if we are conscious and let the things happen next time, it will be comfortable in big gathering as well.
@thrpins8430
@thrpins8430 3 роки тому
Omg this is a big yes for me the dirtiest work in the English language is.....visit!
@amirarsalanganji8304
@amirarsalanganji8304 3 роки тому
Im exactly the same.
@RHYTHM_OF_LIFE_MALLU
@RHYTHM_OF_LIFE_MALLU 3 роки тому
Same pinch💯
@aryanemarques2089
@aryanemarques2089 2 роки тому
Me too
@zelamorre1126
@zelamorre1126 7 років тому
Asking somebody what their "Personal Project" is might be a much better way to get to know them than "What do you do for a living?" or "What are you studying in school?" Ask about what they're truly after, not just what they do or want to do to pay their bills.
@the__void__spaghetti__girl
@the__void__spaghetti__girl 5 років тому
this tore thru my skin and laid bare my loneliness. damn
@ahmedzaki4438
@ahmedzaki4438 5 років тому
Though I don't imagine that would be a good question to ask right off the bat..
@Wahsoep
@Wahsoep 5 років тому
This comment is so underrated🔥
@naomirayo3870
@naomirayo3870 5 років тому
That's what I would like to do. Although, people often dislike it when questions are phrased in such a manner.
@nureenmahmoud7893
@nureenmahmoud7893 4 роки тому
Zela Morre 👏🏼👏🏼👌🏼
@nargiz7016
@nargiz7016 2 роки тому
This is by far THE BEST Ted talk I've ever come across. His speech is extremely funny as well as educating and I would only be very glad to attend his class at 8 in the morning
@lora97006
@lora97006 Рік тому
His students are very fortunate to have him as their professor. Awesome Talk 💜
@rudimarchand8613
@rudimarchand8613 4 роки тому
What a great professor he must be! What a remarkable presentation!
@WhiteAngelLovesEarth
@WhiteAngelLovesEarth 4 роки тому
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@tangerinegoa
@tangerinegoa 3 роки тому
This guy is an awesome orator. I would love to be in one of his classes.
@shim0381
@shim0381 3 роки тому
Google and dictionary’s would be my best friend is I was in them at class
@nour11-7
@nour11-7 Рік тому
Watching this made me realize and understand how we human beings really work, our mechanism. This is impressive, and honestly I'm in awe of his wisdom, and the ability to explain things in a funny, lovely and wise way♥️♥️♥️ now got the best answer to my question that why we keep just analyzing each other like this way( what kind of person you're!? Or what is your favorite whatever??!) i guess we're a composition of many traits, that leads to this person you're dealing with.. We're more than introvert /extrovert kind of person... What makes difference and sense are these free traits and the way we enact and create a script in order to advance our core project in our life. Thankful for professor little for this amazingly helpful guide
@anongirl3122
@anongirl3122 3 роки тому
I almost cried at the end. Beautiful.
@debbiemoore2747
@debbiemoore2747 4 роки тому
Watching this relaxing on Christmas Day. I'm an introvert. I prefer conversations that have meaning instead of the surface talk. I do it more for others comfort to compromise
@maxiswordofficial5486
@maxiswordofficial5486 4 роки тому
Me to Debbie nice to know that I am not the only one love meaningful conversations as I am very very extremely introvert and I wish for you from my bottom of my heart a happy life God bless you.
@shadybeashooketh1911
@shadybeashooketh1911 3 роки тому
@@maxiswordofficial5486 lol there are tonnes of people who prefer meaningful conversation over small talk, in fact most probably...
@Phos67
@Phos67 2 роки тому
r/iamverysmart
@alant4170
@alant4170 2 роки тому
Same day... Just 2 years apart🤣🤣🤣🤣
@comforth3898
@comforth3898 2 роки тому
I love those kinds of conversations too but my experience is it usually leads to alienation and awkwardness
@SaffronGrey
@SaffronGrey 7 років тому
Introvert here, but I spend most of my day pretending I'm extroverted so that I come off as "normal." I'm really good at it, but I hate it. I'd rather not talk to anyone most days, but school and work demand it, so....
@grannyslayer1178
@grannyslayer1178 5 років тому
Agree. I feel like most people that are in my area are Extroverts, and that fact overshadows the fact that Introverts exist and so it becomes the population of everyone.
@saratrejo6658
@saratrejo6658 5 років тому
That's sounds more like being antisocial, not introverted. Introverts who are not antisocial still enjoy the company of others and talking to people, they just generally can't do it for extended periods of time and they need their alone time to recharge.
@Daniel-yy3ty
@Daniel-yy3ty 5 років тому
@@saratrejo6658 Leaving aside the fact that antisocial is different from asocial, if the alone time is seen as unhealthy or something you have to avoid it if you want to appear "normal". No alone time => no recharge => hate for the draining activity because you are empty
@the__void__spaghetti__girl
@the__void__spaghetti__girl 5 років тому
it's so fucked up.
@theTruthSeekerishere
@theTruthSeekerishere 4 роки тому
I'm an introvert and I used to feel like I had to pretend to be someone else for everyone else. Today, even at work if my coworkers invite me somewhere I politely decline because I'd rather be home than with people engaging in meaningless conversations. Extroverts don't get it, but I could care less.
@krizhiel6376
@krizhiel6376 2 роки тому
Im studying cognitive functions rn and u guys dont know how happy i am watching this. everything he said was so accurate it made me want to learn human behaviors more
@bloxshortsdaily971
@bloxshortsdaily971 3 роки тому
What an amazing vocabulary, this man has a lifetimes worth of education and it shows.
@Rhaifha
@Rhaifha 7 років тому
Very nice talk! I tend to be 'mistaken' for an extravert because of the way I interact with people (yes, I can be loud). However, I identify as an introvert because I don't /need/ social interaction (I can go without for weeks and be fine) and I need time to recover after social events.
@jaydencparker4968
@jaydencparker4968 7 років тому
I relate to that. When I'm out with friends I'm very engaged and "act" pretty extraverted. But it comes in bursts. Currently spending a week to myself aside from work of course, just to recover from a good week of using up my bursts. Then people get confused because I seemed so down to hang out and then suddenly "fall off the face of the earth" for a bit.
@moggycat99
@moggycat99 7 років тому
+Jay Cuneo Im so glad somebody said this, I tend to be the most bubbly or eccentric in a social group but i tire easily and need at least a week away to recover. Its almost as if people are magnets and somehow pull my energies down.
@jaydencparker4968
@jaydencparker4968 7 років тому
moggycat99 Yep! Totally get you. The hardest part is when friends don't quite understand it or are inclined to take it personally. Some understand or even relate, but to others its like speaking a different language lol. I'm curious, do you also get people "drawn" to you? I also find strangers or acquaintances in person opening up to me... seemingly random too. I get told "I've never told anyone that" or "Wow I don't know why but I felt like I could share with you". I've had friends find it strange if they are around when it happens and I'm all "Oh that? Thats normal for me". Maybe thats part of why its mentally exhausting
@malin943
@malin943 7 років тому
+Jay Cuneo have you taken the mbti test? you sound like an infp or infj. I myself am an infp and I always find that people tell me their secrets without even meaning to do so. since I am an introvert, in my adult life I have come to terms with that, and I seam to only befriend introverts. and introverts always (almost always) understand that I need time to myself :)
@jaydencparker4968
@jaydencparker4968 7 років тому
Malin Wahlberg I have! INFJ I am :) I wonder if its the higher lean on INF part combined that makes our "vibes" so approachable for more emotionally intimate conversations. We are the can opener to someone's beans type deal. I always got scores between 80-90% for I over E. I sometimes just say I have BHC condition. Borderline Hermit Crab. Or SRC, Semi Reclusive Compulsion. Sometimes its quite nice to feel that a purpose was served to someone else though. They got something off their chest, or felt a safe haven in our conversation. Judgment free zone. Interesting to hear others stories too. Snippets of the human condition from another set of eyes. But then, I must seclude away for a while to clear the mind of all that
@syedjafferimam5789
@syedjafferimam5789 3 роки тому
Tip: Born an introvert, be like that for first 20-25 years of life. Introverts observe things much better so you'll learn a lot. Then slightly shift to be a little extrovert get used to switching from one to another. Choose where to be extrovert where to remain silent and observant. Congratulations, now you can rule the life.
@minnolidalal6271
@minnolidalal6271 3 роки тому
how did you slightly shift to be a little extroverted? Also, what do you mean by slightly extroverted, could u give examples
@BB-ty6iy
@BB-ty6iy 3 роки тому
Minnoli Dalal You become extroverted by practicing. You can go out and plan to speak to so many people. Ask where something is in the grocery store. Say something about the fruit. Give a compliment, that’s super easy. Practice speaking to people without a real need, and as it becomes easier you can then begin to start speaking to people for longer. Keep the conversation going, just smile, nods at what they say, give eye contact, if you can’t think of anything to say- ask a question using the last few words they said, laugh a forgetfulness or lack of words etc. Being introverted doesn’t have to mean being a social hermit. It just means you like your me-time. When in doubt pretend to be someone extroverted you know personally and ask yourself what would they do. Good luck!
@kimarna
@kimarna 3 роки тому
Wooo ambiverts
@BigFanOfCocks
@BigFanOfCocks 3 роки тому
Nevaeh Serena i can’t believe no one called you out yet on how you copy and pasted a comment Also, to the first comment, it’s not that easy, pal. I’ve always considered myself an extrovert but very recently i realized i never enjoyed being one when it was quarantine; it was like an epiphany to who i was. But yeah that’s a good solution I do suppose.
@timsickler5125
@timsickler5125 3 роки тому
Not at all how that works 😂
@den8584
@den8584 2 роки тому
this is so comforting and accurate. i love listening to ted talks, and this is one of those i loved most. he understands people all so well. it's an amazing speech, and I'd listen to it several times.
@SentbyYHWH69
@SentbyYHWH69 Рік тому
Just brilliant! As a human being who is known to be agreeable, conscientious, open, extraverted, and on an occasion, particularly due to a very stressful situation, a bit neurotic, I found Dr Little to be especially captivating. Thank you
@jaslynnethompson8953
@jaslynnethompson8953 5 років тому
The study of personality is more than extraversion vs. Introversion. I liked his Tedtalk but I wish he would have explored other factors.
@basicbot7349
@basicbot7349 3 роки тому
Jaslynne Thompson I think he just wanted it to be accessible, relatable and fun. I have seen many big wig psychologists trying to explore broad concepts in short talks and I assure you it’s neither fun and neither is it informative......at times it can even be misleading.
@himi6536
@himi6536 3 роки тому
There's this thing called a time limit...
@IDislikeTheNewYoutube
@IDislikeTheNewYoutube 7 років тому
Now imagine being an extreme extrovert yet disliking the majority of society, interactions and people.
@croisaor2308
@croisaor2308 7 років тому
So you like talking to people but hate talking to people? Are you sure you aren't just a social Introvert, you don't have to be anti-social to be an introvert.
@OvO-plays
@OvO-plays 7 років тому
how can you be a social introvert .. im sure thats a major paradox
@rafaelfernandes4432
@rafaelfernandes4432 7 років тому
+Croí Saor I think he may be referring to society standards
@croisaor2308
@croisaor2308 7 років тому
***** Introverts just feel drained after being around people for long periods of time and need to recharge alone, you can still be social in that you can talk to people and get along with them but you need alone time too.
@IDislikeTheNewYoutube
@IDislikeTheNewYoutube 7 років тому
I meant what i said. Imagine that, then realize its a thing.
@emanal-maktari2700
@emanal-maktari2700 3 роки тому
Wow! this just describes my how being a fake extrovert for a long time has drained me ❤
@smitbhatt577
@smitbhatt577 Рік тому
You are doing the same here in the comments..!!🤷🏻‍♂️
@kinsmed
@kinsmed 7 років тому
Thank god for the extroverted female. And this TED Talk.
@MageKirby
@MageKirby 7 років тому
the real mvps
@jarfuloflove7320
@jarfuloflove7320 7 років тому
Thank god for females in general.
@kinsmed
@kinsmed 7 років тому
Intro men; 3 Extro men; 5.5 Intro women 3 Extro women; 7.5 As I recall.
@jarfuloflove7320
@jarfuloflove7320 7 років тому
Dunning Kruger I haven't seen that TED talk, is it a good one?
@protonjones54
@protonjones54 7 років тому
+Zach Albers Other women. DUH.
@echo.echo08
@echo.echo08 4 роки тому
I am an extreme introvert and everything he said is on point. I tried and pretended to be an extrovert in college because I thought it would be easier to go through college if I was popular and had more friends. Though I did make a few great friends, I also attracted tons of toxic ones and it's stressful and draining so I just decided to just be true to myself, and I have been happier and more at peace ever since. Most people misunderstand introverts and tend to be put off by our personality. It seems introverts are often perceived to be unfriendly, boring, shy, or snobbish but those who are more informed and try to connect would find that introverts are just calculating, equally daring but reserved, and definitely not shy. Shyness is NOT introversion.
@mariahconklin4150
@mariahconklin4150 2 роки тому
Exactly! It gets to a point where extroverts are just draining.
@abiya_latha
@abiya_latha 2 роки тому
Thankss for this @Echo Echo
@s_t_nic
@s_t_nic 2 роки тому
Haha, So true i almost always dont initiate conversation with people, hence they think he's so shy But once i made good friends with them, they get to know me true colours 🌚
@pengqian947
@pengqian947 Рік тому
Hmmm I kinda blame the society.. it’s just like more easy for extrovert to live in
@thephoenixhunter84
@thephoenixhunter84 Рік тому
@@mariahconklin4150 I grew up as an extrovert during my primary/elementary school years, and I saw nothing wrong with extroverts. I thought that their energy was amazing, and I thought that I would always stay an extrovert. However, once I got to middle school and high school, I realized that extroverts were just psychos. Is waking up at 7 in the morning and going to school at 8am for 5 days in a row not enough for you to realize that we're stuck with this routine for about 7 years of our lives, and that it can get exhausting? I learned this the hard way when I got to my freshman year of high school. Every single extrovert I came across was the exact same: they were doing too much too early, never knew when to shut up, always got in trouble because they didn't know how to behave themselves while doing quiet work, I can go on and on but I'm gonna stop here. It's just so repetitive and annoying.
@Minecraft-ki1cd
@Minecraft-ki1cd 2 роки тому
This is a power move towards the audience, given this is personal to them, to every single person
@vishalchandila
@vishalchandila 2 роки тому
I have seen this talk like dozens times in last 5 years but still I am quite intrigued to watch it again
@yungphoenix2735
@yungphoenix2735 6 років тому
"Im going to bathroom, dont follow me" *drops mic* . also, word of the decade is "assholic"
@jopeDE
@jopeDE 4 роки тому
In the german language we have this word since the 1910s. Arschlöchig.
@lobaetoile8157
@lobaetoile8157 4 роки тому
I love this dude. :( What an eloquent, lovable, hilarious, intellectual person.
@shreyanair7007
@shreyanair7007 Рік тому
Woah this means that my personality did not change from an introvert to an extrovert in two years' time as I has previously mistaken. I'm an introvert seriously acting out of character as a pseudo-extrovert for adapting to the deluging social situations I consistently find myself in. Mind - blowing.
@swanky7673
@swanky7673 2 роки тому
Currently pursuing my MBA at LSUS. My prof gave this as part of an assignment for our Organizational Behavior Class. I must say I thoroughly enjoyed this video!
@thetrajkovic2327
@thetrajkovic2327 7 років тому
I kept thinking how lucky are the people that got to meet this man.
@Vertutame
@Vertutame 4 роки тому
really? I think he said clearly, STOP FOLLOWING ME.
@chesterite741
@chesterite741 3 роки тому
Absolutely love it! The vocabulary, the extreme detail of every little thing, this man’s ability to be both funny and serious... I seriously want more from him because I feel that he could change a person’s way of thinking with few words.. let alone a big speech. I also love the shared personal experiences to reinforce his statements. The ending experience was absolutely hilarious and it left me with the biggest smile ever!
@JamesDeberg
@JamesDeberg Рік тому
I could listen to this man talk for hours, extremely captivating and well spoken. Loved this. thank you Brian
@ruqaiyyakanpurwala853
@ruqaiyyakanpurwala853 Рік тому
It's one of the most amazing speeches I have come across in a long while. It made me more clear as to who i am as an introvert and most importantly as a person. Thank you❤️
@Zanyotaku
@Zanyotaku 5 років тому
"assholic qualities" bless this man, what a wonderful phrase
@wesnohathas1993
@wesnohathas1993 4 роки тому
As an introvert, I get along better with chamomile tea than coffee.
@almeding4000
@almeding4000 4 роки тому
same
@Artleycoul
@Artleycoul 3 роки тому
Coffee wrecks me. Three sips and I feel like I'm having a falling dream. Nope. Nuh-uh.
@gabriellaoconnell7084
@gabriellaoconnell7084 3 роки тому
Coffee helps me go to sleep cuz I’ve adhd.
@ishakdecaprio
@ishakdecaprio 3 роки тому
I m intro and coffee prevents me from overthinking
@missylks1239
@missylks1239 3 роки тому
Last month, I had 8oz of coffee at 7pm and it kept me awake until 4am. Thank God it was a Saturday.
@goringborromeo1278
@goringborromeo1278 2 роки тому
Wow! How brilliant he is! It must be an honor & privilege to watch him talk in class.
@studysmartnothard1404
@studysmartnothard1404 10 місяців тому
O - open to experience C conscientiousness E extraversion A agreeable individuals N neurotic individuals
@CovetedLOVE18
@CovetedLOVE18 7 років тому
he is adorable I wish he was my professor
@deniz546
@deniz546 3 роки тому
i wish my teachers were more like him.
@leont4944
@leont4944 2 роки тому
What an absolutely brilliant man. So intelligent, well spoken, genuine and funny :)
@hayeonie1831
@hayeonie1831 3 роки тому
The amount of quotes than you can collect from this man’s ted talk!!!
@Imperium83
@Imperium83 7 років тому
Look up Alan Watts sometime. You can never know who "you" really are. Because there isn't a real you. You cannot describe yourself in the now without relating yourself to what you have done in the past, or what your interests are -which are things you would rather be doing and goes around the question of describing who you are in the now. We all share that in common. Fun stuff to think about.
@jaydencparker4968
@jaydencparker4968 7 років тому
Love Alan Watts! Carl Jung is another great thinker
@Imperium83
@Imperium83 7 років тому
Agreed! :)
@primovid
@primovid 7 років тому
Thanks! This guy is amazing! I am listening to him now :) UKposts: u4Qp_q-PqAc
@Imperium83
@Imperium83 7 років тому
primovid I haven't seen that one, watching it now. Thanks :)
@avedic
@avedic 7 років тому
Alan Watts, Terrence McKenna, Adyashanti, and Mooji are all thinkers on this subject who I think really captured something fascinating in their talks.
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