hear me out...From a Biblical point of understanding, which I live by, Is forgiveness is not to do with you and the abuser/betrayer/ etc. etc. It is to do w/ you and the LORD God, Jesus Christ....We are called to forgive so that we let go and hand over the person/s to the LORD and allow Him to bring Judgement b/c He Will!! ( literally vision you handing that person to the LORD GOD and letting them go and all the baggage they carry) AND we are called to forgive so we are forgiven as well!! Forgiveness has nothing and should have nothing to do with a relationship/reconciling/trust or ANYTHING else...ITS CLEARLY REMOVING THE PEOPLE FROM YOU CARRYING THEM AROUND W/ YOU EVERY DAY OF YOUR LIFE AND ALLOWING THEM TO BERATE AND BELITTLE YOU AND DESTROY YOUR LIFE NO MATTER THE MILES BETWEEN YOU!! Forgiving the act of the sin that was done to you is key but that DOES NOT call for relationship, period!!

Tyson in his prime vs canelo in his prime ???? Who wins and how ??

Canelo saying he could beat them both at the same time like it’s a badge of honor. Let Canelo the middleweight fight Tyson in his prime and see what would happen.

Not forgiving means holding on! Forgiving allows the victim to move on and heal! Forgiveness does not equate to being a victim instead it gives power to step outside the situation and become whole. Resentment is energy wasted!!!! She does not understand healing of she would not live in her anger! Godbless.

I cant forgive a certain person because they are never wrong.They blame you and dont take responsibility for their actions.They blame you.

My wife and i quit smoking 10 years ago. This year she started vaping... and pretty regularly too... and it makes me nervous... And it makes her breath pretty awful... so theres definitely SOMETHING not good about it... But it was CENTURIES before we understood tobacco was a problem....

dang.. hittin a vape while watching this lol.. i’m trying to quit tho

if the jealousy comes from them getting attention or more so SEEKING the attention of others, other than you… BUT only when you are giving them far more of that same attention they are seeking..To have someone want their attention (but she doesnt give it…or not soliciting it..)That creates healthy jealousy, when they are just being themselves and not doing/saying/dressing/etc. things that are inviting attention from others for the sake of attention. Now if you are not appreciating what it is others are seeing in them and she/he gets to the point of looking elsewhere for that validation or approval then I think the jealousy you feel is unhealthy..Because you’re wanting someone you yourself don’t value as you should..But just don’t want someone else to “have”them.

By never forgiving the narcissist in your own mind, you empower the introject that your mind has created. It will eat you alive...

We are what we are becoming, Go with the flow. Darkness gave light a place to shine, everything is connected in motion, tune in expand.

Don’t have expectations in other people

I didn’t even realise how much I needed to hear this. Thank you!

Funny - women don't want to hear about expectations but expect man to play around giving them different things every day, even showing them risking their relationship, while doing stressful work every day and not being able to go home and relax, due to women wanting them to put on new shows every day. Great stuff!!!

I practice forgiveness myself daily and believe me it works. Yes there are still resentments but it actually helps me to move from a victim mindset. I am totally free for the rest of the day. Forgiveness is a very slow process. It is acknowledge ment of letting go of hurt by narcs and deep down slowly it healed me overtime. By forgiveness you just slowly start to let go of resentments not fully but partially you do. Its a vicious cycle to break, you think you are a victim and if there is resentment with acknowledgement, you turn out to be abuser at some point in your life and than you think I am no good than my abuser. It is a very sad feeling which I think Dr ramani is not understanding currently. FORGIVENESS HERE IS REALLY MISUNDERSTOOD CONCEPT, ITS NOT TO SHOW OTHER PEOPLE OR PRACTICALLY THINK YOUR ABUSER IS RIGHT. BE AWARE AND ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH ABUSE AND BE AWARE THAT THERE IS A ABUSER AND DAILY FORGIVE YOURSELF IN YOUR OWN MIND THAT YOU WENT THROUGH SOMETHING AWFUL AND FORGIVE THE OTHER SOUL WITHOUT LETTING THEM KNOW THAT THEY DID AWFUL, ITS A SPIRITUAL PRACTICE, THEN OVER TIME YOUR NERVES WILL START GETTING RELIVED AND YOU WILL BE CALM AND THEIR ACTIONS WOULD STOP HURTING YOU. BUT IT IS A LENGHTY PROCESS.

Important highlights: Relationships are 100/100. Watch carefully the way in which a person treats you and others in social settings. Use alternative ways to be connected in the silence. I once believed romantic relationships were like fairy tales. The man is the prince and the woman is his long-awaited princess. They are by each other's side 24/7/365. Eveything was a 50/50 partnership at all times. I was wrong and naive. I now believe relationships require full commitment at all times; there's no 50/50. Neither partner needs to ever doubt that the other one isn't giving their all for their union. It's 100% in spirit at all times. Should a couple smother each other? No. Should a couple look out for each other? Yes.. Can a couple stay connected while apart? Yes. Wil things be perfect? No. But a romantic relationship of 100/100 even through difficult times is close to perfection. No more fairy tale. Just a beautiful reality. That's enough for me. ❤️

You forgive YOURSELF for being duped by them. That’s the true forgiveness. ❤

YES! I am kind, accountable, smart, honest etc. However, I’m no longer the confident, well adjusted person I once was. I cannot, will not and choose not to forgive the covert narcissist that gave me life or fathered my children or is my sibling. And I feel fine about that! The covert narcissist neither deserves nor (really) seeks forgiveness.

I love her

IM NOT SURE IM READY TO FORGIVE SOMEONE THAT MURDERED MY SOUL!!!

I grew up with this Band. I saw them at Madison Square Garden. My parents went to Samboras Wedding. And I don't believe a word Jon Says. He's Private and always will be. A stranger will never get the truth.

He dated women before he married, why get married if you can 't be faithful. Stsy single and who cares who you sleep with.

That was so good 🙏🏽💞

After he fools around on her for years, now she great because she stayed. She gets major brownie points from me.

We don't need to forgive them, we need their culture to disappear.

My father loved me, and he was a good provider. But the dear man was only good at discouragement. Instead of encouraging higher education (it was be a waitress or secretary). He died a multimillionaire at age 95, but ended up causing major conflict in the family when two of his manipulative daughters got 3x what everyone else got. Because of my DNA, I was born w/ an awesome work ethnic and am thankful for that. As far as him being a good teacher suppose he taught morals, honesty and integrity - by example. Otherwise he never taught his daughters anything. For example I was allowed to get married at age 16; when instead the young adult male should have gone to county jail for statutory rape. To my rural father, his daughters were merely girls w/ no potential. He should have had four sons, instead of four daughters. Say really.

What a refreshing take on forgiveness. I think letting go of the hurt and pain is healthy. But forgiving someone only to let them back in your life isn’t healthy.