30s and the societal pressure to get married and have kids | Men, Explain (Ft. Ze Tong)

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Ever heard about the “Singaporean dream”? Common connotations of success in Singapore always seem to echo around these key aspects: Education, stable career, settle down before 30, buy a BTO. While women are very much recognised for their ambitions and careers in modern day and age, marriage and motherhood seem to still be a vital part of the equation for women to seem “complete”. Do men get the same pressure to settle down?
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00:00 Introduction
01:09 Ze Tong's journey from tech start up to rising star
03:18 Ze Tong's Star Awards Nomination
05:00 Have you gotten pressure to settle down?
06:15 The Singaporean blueprint
07:40 Is Sonia worried about her ticking biological clock?
10:26 What is your definition of success?
13:05 Whats the biggest difference between early 20s and turning 30?
14:24 Ze tong sharing insecurities when he was younger
16:55 Is it more socially acceptable for men to settle down later?
17:40 Sonia in her 30s
19:20 Is it ok to not have a goal in life?
20:25 Infamous dialogue between Lee Kuan Yew and PHD student Ms Joan Sim
21:56 Is Ze Tong attached?
22:20 Are you afraid of being single past a certain age?
26:50 Are people getting married so that they can have kids?
29:30 Is Sonia going to have kids?
30:35 Define your own timelines!
31:30 Conclusion
Host:
Sonia Chew - / ​
Featuring:
Zhang Ze Tong - / zetongteoh
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КОМЕНТАРІ: 34
@XxPianoGalxX123
@XxPianoGalxX123 2 роки тому
Ze Tong is so well spoken, really like the depth of his ideas
@Travyz
@Travyz 2 роки тому
Ze Tong is such a great guest! Other than just sharing his perspectives, he's also genuinely interested in Sonia's perspectives. Very well spoken and thoughtful.
@jovenaloon4035
@jovenaloon4035 2 роки тому
Loved the tempo of this episode, it felt like we have two interviewers 😂 thanks for touching on this very relatable topic, think so many of us reaching / reached 30 went through the same thought process. Whoever's still in the rut, don't worry too much u will be fine ❤️
@Whiteroca
@Whiteroca 2 роки тому
11:15 Ze Tong (age near 30) - 2 parts to definition to success - 1) Financially ok, ability to make plans without too much strain on finance 2) Inter-personal relationships with family, loved ones, partner, friends. Success should include a group of people to share your happiness with.
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому
You do make an important point! @BlackrocaYT Although the limitation of circumstances and environment can also be a huge burden! An obstacle to reach~ For example, the job may pay well, but short longevity! or vice versa
@dextercjr
@dextercjr 2 роки тому
Thanks for doing this podcast with ze tong
@lovetrustandpixiedust
@lovetrustandpixiedust Рік тому
Very pertinent topic and good conversational chemistry between Sonia and Ze Tong, who both presented very eloquent insights!
@NathanNoon
@NathanNoon 2 роки тому
Might be better to get the perspective of those already in their 30s or mid 30s than those bordering 30s probably because the pressures are much more real and there is the lived experience too
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому
To be really truthful and honest with you thank you for the comment! :D You make a good point that @Nathan Noon
@igenator
@igenator 2 роки тому
Really enjoyed the episode! I stumbled upon this as a skippable 5 second ad, but Im glad I listened on and ended up here. As much as this is an interview, it felt like just two friends trading thoughts and sharing experiences. It is so relatable as a millennial and the challenges/concerns we face. Almost cathartic to hear this issue being addressed and discussed in this platform. Thank you again for the video!
@itsclarityco
@itsclarityco 2 роки тому
Thanks for sharing and so glad you've stumbled across the ad! 🥰 More episodes to come!
@Trinx09
@Trinx09 2 роки тому
Ze Tong should have his own podcast or vlog something.
@jiayinglean7777
@jiayinglean7777 2 роки тому
He is doing his own podcast with his friend called The T Podcast
@EIJIHS
@EIJIHS 2 роки тому
don't think LKY meant that as a political agenda nor shelf life of women, but rather his personal views that life would probably be more complete with marriage and children as part of it.
@davidvc4560
@davidvc4560 2 роки тому
Nice interview... keep it up
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому
Bro! I feel you man!
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому
Like for example, for me! this year Valentine's Day 😣 *_Super Awkward!_* 😖 Please forgive me for not having a partner to celebrate it with!!!
@autumnrain2988
@autumnrain2988 Рік тому
Love Sonia’s talkshow 👍🏆
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому
*To be honest with you... ... Things likes* - Income Stability - Find a Partner & Start A Family - Career Longevity etc.
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому
My deepest apologies but I cannot say much cos... ... 😖 Not doing that well of a job myself too 😓 Sorry! *Sigh... ...* Room For Improvements bah!
@heyasoniachew
@heyasoniachew 2 роки тому
Thank you for the love you guys 💖💖
@Kirinimusic
@Kirinimusic 2 роки тому
This was such a meaningful and encouraging conversation! Thank you both
@Pandoragmys
@Pandoragmys 2 роки тому
Just wanting to love and to receive love from my family/partner regardless of age, to move into a piano career and not in corporate as my personality cmi, to keep fit emotionally/mentally/physically/spiritually :)
@itsclarityco
@itsclarityco 2 роки тому
Here's wishing that ALL of that will happen for you! Keep going! ✨
@dextercjr
@dextercjr 2 роки тому
Please have him back again!!! Haha
@Whiteroca
@Whiteroca 2 роки тому
moments: 13:08 30s is just the beginning
@Kai-pq6nm
@Kai-pq6nm 2 роки тому
great hairstyle, sonia
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому
Good point~ @Kai
@Whiteroca
@Whiteroca 2 роки тому
21:00 where's this Dialouge between LKY and PHD Joan Sim? will be nice to watch 😂 Update found it: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/sZ2ggWZ_gaV5yJ8.html
@peisiwong1837
@peisiwong1837 2 роки тому
Handsome Guy Zhang Zetong
@ezzatisaid
@ezzatisaid 2 роки тому
"Just brainfarting" 😂
@thetinkerer5322
@thetinkerer5322 2 роки тому
Who's the girl? She's cute!
@damien8398
@damien8398 2 роки тому
Her name is Clarity Co.
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