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Wow….I am rarely speechless…that is so beautiful

Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing

I hope you're doing well

Take care!

I'm excited for you. I was broken and a slop-show when I was drinking. YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO CONTROL what has been controlling you! I suggest a video called Pleasure Unwoven... it helped me understand the physiological and biological aspects of addiction. I'm eight years sober and I thank our creator, YHWH (YAHUA) and his son, Yahusha for removing my sickness from me.

You got this! Introspection is powerful as long as you learn from your past

I can relate to what you’re saying about connections being stressful. The whole dealing. I’m glad you got help and is better understanding yourself

Oh my gosh ! That is a brilliant tradition and should be adopted by every culture on earth. It’s not natural to give birth one day and then resume normal life the next.

You're missing the point if you think it's about the east vs. west paradigms of thought.

I'm glad to know such humanity does exist on planet Earth... Sheesh, I am doomed to remain on the content of North America indefinitely devolving in such ignorance.. I am happy that such peoples exist...

@@ScarletSky03 Humans make heaven and hell here on earth (not afterlife) by being weaned on maternal/communal love or not...ie. attachment theory. You're doomed if you can't learn from the profound beauty of this & offer knee jerk arbitrary/vague critiques.

@@ScarletSky03 all she said is that this is what was happening in the African country where she was raised... This is a very nice cultural practice that should be applied to every part of the world be it western or not..

Absolutely! He'll say things that make you think, why didn't I think of that?

It's okay to be exhausted. Take time off, be in nature as it stimulates alpha brain waves and causes you to relax. Our brains are plastic. You'll be fine. We're rooting for you.

@@theexotic2983 thank you.

You are ceaselessly heroic in your divine humanity. Always, always and always. Big hugs from a friend in California

@@SparingPolymath Thank you from California

It seems that I am reading about my family.... You are not alone. Gabor Mate, were the first man who explained in very basic, simple words, what a hell is going on, and I will be by His side as biggest fan forever. He showed to me a Light button. And now I can press it anytime, myself.

His name is dr arjal in templeton CA

wonderful! Things are changing and its refreshing to see doctors like this.

Amazing 🙏🏽

Wow

How wonderfull!!

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You have articulated it so well!

So true, I feel the same.

I do everyday when getting ready and cooking. Has changed my outlook on my parenting and has made me a more compassionate woman overall

That is really astonishing to listen to your soul , wow

Same

Thank you for sharing your story!

We love your comment and would like to offer you a free book! Please email us at ethanw [at] wholehearted.org and we'll talk next steps!

What a great testimony! What had helped you most with RA? I’m 39 and have all the symptoms and will do anything to get well!

Did it fix your arthritis? Probably not

​@@91010186you are right. The medical field did not fix it. Oh well. I'm sure they will keep making money... I mean... Trying to fix it.

Yeah

What’s your story?

@@hildaamethyst528 Look up Joe Dispenza.

Ken I am a retired RT after 47 years in the profession. Neonate to geriatric. Navy corpsman and civilian. This man is so spot on. Western medicine in its own way is barbarous .

Same and same.

Definitely. Gabor covers so many different topics, but his insight on parenting is among the most popular because just about every parent needs to hear it, and almost no one is.

@@WholeheartedPublishing I am one of them! My purpose work is about putting the parent back into the middle of society in order to make sure the children are nurtured by the whole community. Parenting is a beautiful and spiritual practice and I hope to inspire parents to allow this journey to unfold in a connective and loving way. I have a coined topic I've come up with called a Social Climate Change. And it takes village frameworks to structure ourselves where our human needs are met, creating happy communities and nations. Thank you, Dr. Gabor Mate for a wonderful teaching!

Victimship garbage....Jordan Peterson is the way to go

You might feel inspired to read "The Continuum Concept'" by Jean Liedloff. She explained much of this (and more) very eloquently 50 years ago. It's an astonishing read.

Isn’t it just mind blowing how little information we’re exposed to, even those of us who have graduated with a bachelors or masters or even a PhD I have two masters & I had to seek out for myself the information that interested me (connected to a topic I was studying) bc for as “liberal” as universities are, there is most certainly a “knowledge filter” that exists & far too few professors who are willing to share it with their students

It sounds like you are doing what you can to help your daughter to thrive. Supporting yourself is important too. Don't forgot that you are important too, and that your health also affects your child, yet also enables you to better handle relationship challenges. Asian and Western cultures have different ways of communicating and showing love, yet ultimately, we still care. Many people are not taught how to effectively communicate across cultures, let alone have healthy relationships. So, it can be very hard. I'm sure it will work out for you all. Take care.

Louise Hay .. healing trauma ..

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Imagine the world if everyone took some time to read this thing.

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Yes! You nailed it! ❤

This is a BIG one. It's useful for parents and also for adults who seek to reparent themselves. Dr. Amanda Sheffield Morris is one of the leading researchers on the practice of reparenting if you are interested!

Most of the more severe illnesses happen to people by an upsetting event happening in their lives that takes them by surprise, unexpectedly, impacting first in the brain, then in the corresponding organ which that part of the brain controls. The end of WWI had absolutely everything to do with the Flu and lung TB outbreak that occurred killing millions. In nature, the biological conflict linked with a territorial fear (just what it means-a fear in your territory, your home, your community, etc.) is a widening of the bronchia (tissue loss). Your body attempts to widen your bronchia in order to allow more air into your lungs to give you more strength and energy to fight to keep your territory safe. Stay with me.......The biological conflict linked with a death fright impacts the lungs. The lungs attempt to grow larger in order to allow more air in because breath equals life, as we all know. No breath equals death. Why are so many people across the world suddenly having their appendix removed? The appendix is associated with “being in fear for one’s life”. The HEALING phase is the rupture/inflammation. While you are in the fear or death fright conflict, you notice no symptoms of “disease”, except you have cold hands, cold feet, you can’t sleep, you awaken at 3 AM every night, you have little appetite. During the war, millions of people were in fear of the bombing of their homes and cities where the war was most active. Fearing for their lives, their loved ones in the war, their ability to survive. The food in the stores was sparse due to shortages. This lasted for 4 long years! The longer the conflict, the worse the healing phase. Within 2 weeks of the German Chancellor announcing the end of WWI, these millions of people ALL went into the healing phase all at the same time. It is during the healing phase that you experience symptoms of illness! What is the healing phase of the bronchia widening? Severe bronchitis, pneumonia. The body attempts to refill this lost tissue and you experience inflammation, fever, coughing, body aches, fatigue, etc. What is the healing phase of the extra lung tissue that grew? Decomposing of the tissue by TB bacteria and fungi. The symptoms of this healing phase are: severe coughing up of blood and tissue, fever, inflammation, severe mucous, body aches, fatigue. During this decomposing of the extra tissue (tumor), the body expels a lot of protein, and without replenishment, severe protein loss can result in death. Antibiotics did not exist yet. If TB bacteria does not exist in a person or they have been vaccinated against TB (big mistake), then the tumor will simply encapsulate and become dormant and not harm you. Who died during the Spanish Flu? Mainly the poor who could not afford to buy meat and proper nourishment, and the people who were directly impacted by the bombings and destruction of their homes. Millions of people suffered fear and death frights during the fighting of WWI, and millions of people all went into healing at the end of it. Not everyone was affected because not everyone suffered the same way. It’s not a “flu”, it’s not something you “catch”. It’s biological, meaningful, and unavoidable. One hundred years later, a Fear Campaign begins, using the media to spread it......

I can believe it, it’s pretty crazy how powerful your mind is, and how many people are completely unaware of how things actually work, I think we all have conscious or subconscious ability to know what we need to do, but don’t follow it and the same bs information keeps getting passed down to the masses,when in reailty I think the elite benefit off of our inability to flourish as a whole and they teach us the wrong things on purpose, imagine if they taught ppl/ kids real world information and direct info that will apply to your life instead of the useless sht u learn in school we would be so much better off, we would be far more advanced in all areas then we are right now, and almost all of it circles back to the Mind/ consciousness

Problem is we're adults with infant minds

Yes it is not too late!

Absolutely! We can work together to bring about a positive change!

If hurt people hurt people, whole people heal people. Thank you for doing the work. May your path be blessed.

@@WholeheartedPublishing tyy -from her daughter

@@rochellebroglen4155 :))

Oh yessss mama ❤️👏🥰

Me too!! I realized my personal learning is on point due to his profession!

I say it all the time. Now that I'm still here at 30 (I caught his work YOUNG!) I am still ate up my inflammatory diseases. I hope one day to figure out what I need.

Most of the more severe illnesses happen to people by an upsetting event happening in their lives that takes them by surprise, unexpectedly, impacting first in the brain, then in the corresponding organ which that part of the brain controls. The end of WWI had absolutely everything to do with the Flu and lung TB outbreak that occurred killing millions. In nature, the biological conflict linked with a territorial fear (just what it means-a fear in your territory, your home, your community, etc.) is a widening of the bronchia (tissue loss). Your body attempts to widen your bronchia in order to allow more air into your lungs to give you more strength and energy to fight to keep your territory safe. Stay with me.......The biological conflict linked with a death fright impacts the lungs. The lungs attempt to grow larger in order to allow more air in because breath equals life, as we all know. No breath equals death. Why are so many people across the world suddenly having their appendix removed? The appendix is associated with “being in fear for one’s life”. The HEALING phase is the rupture/inflammation. While you are in the fear or death fright conflict, you notice no symptoms of “disease”, except you have cold hands, cold feet, you can’t sleep, you awaken at 3 AM every night, you have little appetite. During the war, millions of people were in fear of the bombing of their homes and cities where the war was most active. Fearing for their lives, their loved ones in the war, their ability to survive. The food in the stores was sparse due to shortages. This lasted for 4 long years! The longer the conflict, the worse the healing phase. Within 2 weeks of the German Chancellor announcing the end of WWI, these millions of people ALL went into the healing phase all at the same time. It is during the healing phase that you experience symptoms of illness! What is the healing phase of the bronchia widening? Severe bronchitis, pneumonia. The body attempts to refill this lost tissue and you experience inflammation, fever, coughing, body aches, fatigue, etc. What is the healing phase of the extra lung tissue that grew? Decomposing of the tissue by TB bacteria and fungi. The symptoms of this healing phase are: severe coughing up of blood and tissue, fever, inflammation, severe mucous, body aches, fatigue. During this decomposing of the extra tissue (tumor), the body expels a lot of protein, and without replenishment, severe protein loss can result in death. Antibiotics did not exist yet. If TB bacteria does not exist in a person or they have been vaccinated against TB (big mistake), then the tumor will simply encapsulate and become dormant and not harm you. Who died during the Spanish Flu? Mainly the poor who could not afford to buy meat and proper nourishment, and the people who were directly impacted by the bombings and destruction of their homes. Millions of people suffered fear and death frights during the fighting of WWI, and millions of people all went into healing at the end of it. Not everyone was affected because not everyone suffered the same way. It’s not a “flu”, it’s not something you “catch”. It’s biological, meaningful, and unavoidable. One hundred years later, a Fear Campaign begins, using the media to spread it......

No, you saved your life……he just shined a light in your crack(s) 🐛🦋

He's contributing on widening my perspectives based on Global issues.

Spoken in the bible? Wasn’t it God himself that allowed all these craziness?

God is LOVE, He doesn't allow these things, He allows free will without interfering unless you ask Him to ( prayer).

can't unsee what he sais now whenever I see a pram!

me too. This guy is my Hero

“many deny and suppress it… and create pain for others. Such a intuitive and profound idea. unconsciously passing on trauma by brutalizing others

Beautiful expression!! I am glad I read your comment.

Hi @nathananderson8720, thank you for sharing about your journey, it puts a big smile on face. I hope you continue to grow and share! ~AJ

@@WholeheartedPublishing Thank you! What I really focus on is the value of the content and what I’m truly passionate about while helping others! I'm glad that I'm foolish enough to believe that I can actually start making money through my passions. I've never thought that I'd be able to gain 1K subs faster. I can't imagine how many opportunities could have been wasted if I didn't have courage to go after them. That includes having this channel, being in a management role, having the people who actually care about me for who I am, freelance gigs, being an ambassador in a creative community and now I'm also planning on honing my public speaking skills through joining a toastmaster club and these all happened in 2023. It started with writing them all down on a piece of paper. A paper that serves as a reminder for me to go after what I want even through hard times. I'm not bragging about my accomplishments but simply hoping that this message can also inspire others to believe in themselves.

Love it, I agree that this is one of his most important points. If our needs are met, we will behave in certain predictable ways, and if they are not met, we will behave in other predictable ways.

I concur. This is a most quotable quote, easy to remember, illuminating.

Abandonment, infant coping not open again. Adult coping? Still trying to figure out. For me it takes 5-7 days of non opening 😞 . Still beter than 15 years ago, when I walked away totally. When our needs are met, we behave differently. This might help me indeed. Also when raising my son. Fulfilling his needs will bring the right behaviour. Whoohhh… great!

Can you explain this point in detail?

It is up to US to define and meet our needs, to adjust expectations, and not to expect anyone else to carry that water for us.

N'importe quoi

Pregnant women are more likely to be abused and cheated on as well.

I've only been to Wisconsin North D. S D. Minnesota Indiana. Illinois. Iowa. It's bad. I have been an addict for over half my life and I am 30 years old . I learned of the Holocaust from my 6th grade teacher who had is read " Daniels Story" insijce have researched searched connected and have been outraged livid with how over that many million beautiful humans were treated with such disgust . someone better be asking why. How is the Holocaust and D-Day and war is supposed to be a last resort and we have people from my country fucking going to die for a fight that is over WHAT. When your little boy is ripped from your arms from the VERY people you are supposed to reach to for help and enforcement of our birth rights and the discriminated is disgusting. Our country is literally a in the flesh( but behind the screen) twist of walle dark apocalypse. And yes zombies are everywhere . Just didn't know they would be our neighbors and teachers and officers and counselors and role models. technology is a gift and a platform and opportunity. not something to take the easy way out. Right. Ugh thank you so much Gabar . Bless your soul and angels wherever you and yours go 🌹 thousands maybe more but many refugees seeking asylum in our country their children literally torn from their arms and they throw into cages like fucking animals. This shit is happening every day and WE aareo o s dadaterpeeprreepfor the mi the fallen the departed the tormented the opressed the seperated the abandoned the trapped the innocent the repressed the lost the abducted the tortured the murdered the abused the violated the stigmatizes the bias just fed by the innocent child's cry and not aß ingl àfà aàaaaaaaaaaaaaaà single tear is allowed to fall from her she so she bleeds herself dry and she had to die because the planet has more than enough for " everyman's NEEDS NOT every ma n snre laeenguage communication access equality. Thd ou.

Absolutely! He has so much to say and has such a way of making complicated ideas simple.

I love what he is saying also. I am in Houston, Texas. Where are you?

Agreed!

@@joeldwest I believe that they are in California. Gabor Mate lives in Canada.

Thank you for sharing how Gabor's work has impacted you! We're so happy his ideas are becoming more and more mainstream so more people can have his positive influence in their lives.

Pray more men can become more aware and live life with more love and blessings.

Wow, that’s a lot of people.

What a fantastic vision for the world! We're all doing our part by helping support people like Gabor, who have worked so hard to promote love and understanding between people.

Very well said!

I never get sick and was abused as a kid. So I think there is another angle , in addition to the one presented here where childhood trauma causes physical sickness when older _ it does but not for everybody. ( I think it does when your more nuerotypical and had some good enough parenting,) I had psychopaths for parents. What I figure is that I ran out of cortisol because my mast cells (20000 cells above normal when stressed) mopped up the excess cortisol because it was killing my prefrontal cortex when I was an abandoned baby _ mom went crazy from giving birth and abusive family and abusive neighbours. ( Rosemary baby situation,). When I'm stressed I break out in a rash and I need cortisol cream cause I'm all out of cortisol. The baby abuse shut down my cortisol so my brain wouldnt die - my brain knew it needed to stay alive for me to survive.Everybodies body is different when it comes to stress_ our healings from childhood woundings is a individual journey.

Thank you. This program took a lot of work, resources, and time. Our team worked hard to create this and we donated our resources so that it could be distributed for free.

That is a major takeaway for sure. Hopefully Gabor's increasing visibility will prompt more specialists to incorporate the whole mind, body, and experience of their patients into their treatment approaches.

Most of the more severe illnesses happen to people by an upsetting event happening in their lives that takes them by surprise, unexpectedly, impacting first in the brain, then in the corresponding organ which that part of the brain controls. The end of WWI had absolutely everything to do with the Flu and lung TB outbreak that occurred killing millions. In nature, the biological conflict linked with a territorial fear (just what it means-a fear in your territory, your home, your community, etc.) is a widening of the bronchia (tissue loss). Your body attempts to widen your bronchia in order to allow more air into your lungs to give you more strength and energy to fight to keep your territory safe. Stay with me.......The biological conflict linked with a death fright impacts the lungs. The lungs attempt to grow larger in order to allow more air in because breath equals life, as we all know. No breath equals death. Why are so many people across the world suddenly having their appendix removed? The appendix is associated with “being in fear for one’s life”. The HEALING phase is the rupture/inflammation. While you are in the fear or death fright conflict, you notice no symptoms of “disease”, except you have cold hands, cold feet, you can’t sleep, you awaken at 3 AM every night, you have little appetite. During the war, millions of people were in fear of the bombing of their homes and cities where the war was most active. Fearing for their lives, their loved ones in the war, their ability to survive. The food in the stores was sparse due to shortages. This lasted for 4 long years! The longer the conflict, the worse the healing phase. Within 2 weeks of the German Chancellor announcing the end of WWI, these millions of people ALL went into the healing phase all at the same time. It is during the healing phase that you experience symptoms of illness! What is the healing phase of the bronchia widening? Severe bronchitis, pneumonia. The body attempts to refill this lost tissue and you experience inflammation, fever, coughing, body aches, fatigue, etc. What is the healing phase of the extra lung tissue that grew? Decomposing of the tissue by TB bacteria and fungi. The symptoms of this healing phase are: severe coughing up of blood and tissue, fever, inflammation, severe mucous, body aches, fatigue. During this decomposing of the extra tissue (tumor), the body expels a lot of protein, and without replenishment, severe protein loss can result in death. Antibiotics did not exist yet. If TB bacteria does not exist in a person or they have been vaccinated against TB (big mistake), then the tumor will simply encapsulate and become dormant and not harm you. Who died during the Spanish Flu? Mainly the poor who could not afford to buy meat and proper nourishment, and the people who were directly impacted by the bombings and destruction of their homes. Millions of people suffered fear and death frights during the fighting of WWI, and millions of people all went into healing at the end of it. Not everyone was affected because not everyone suffered the same way. It’s not a “flu”, it’s not something you “catch”. It’s biological, meaningful, and unavoidable. One hundred years later, a Fear Campaign begins, using the media to spread it......

Dr Mate was my first introduction to facing my childhood trauma and addiction many years ago. I cannot thank him enough for guiding me to that path so I could get a better understanding and begin to heal. The Big takeaway is that there is very little help while on this journey . The medical field prescribes and a decent therapist or rehab centers aren’t practical for someone struggling financially. I am so grateful for Doctor Mate, his books and videos for changing my life . Thank you #wholehearted 🤍🙏

​@@questioneverything7582 you are very deluded. Get help

Agreed, some people have a profound ability to see truth. Gabor is certainly one of them.

Sending you love 💕 You are not alone!

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Possibly, it’s a chicken & egg situation. Which came first?

And increase in profits for pharma

I think that perspective might be missing the larger point; at least according to Gabor. His point is that too many people are being diagnosed with conditions in order for us to have a functioning society. These conditions are a result of a society that does not meet many people's basic needs, all while society still produces incredible benefits. There are many conflicting qualities within ourselves and society. He starts out the special explaining how he has internal contradictions within himself, and that those dynamics exist in relationships, families, communities, and society as a whole. We use the term Wholehearted, as shorthand for integration or coming together of those conflicting parts. :)

The message I believe is stress is what is making these mental disorders become prevalent, he quotes a Harvard Pediatric Study of Infant’s urine of pregnant mothers during 9/11 were studied and the findings of higher stress hormones such as cortisol are prevalent in these infants and these higher dosages of stress hormones are making people sick.

Thank you for sharing your takeaway. I agree that the leaf analogy helps reframe our thinking and promote more understanding between people.

A big part of the separation of humanity today is due to a need to be part of a faction that acclaims to have the “True” creation myth instead of coming together in our shared humanity.

I doubt you've read the bible. The biblical 'god' is a monster.

I live in Ireland too and I sent a copy of Gabor’s book to Simon Harris, Minister for Higher Education, asking him to read it. I also asked if all teachers could receive trauma informed training so that anxious children would be recognized in class and given the help and support they need. Sadly no response yet, but I’ll give him time to read it, there’s a lot to take in! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Every human being need to know about this, not just certain people.

Glad you liked it!

❤ sending love. Thank you for sharing. Very proud of you.

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I disagree, love does NOT conquer all.