She is brilliant. And once again Trevor' interview is one of the very best.

Trevor introduces us to conversations we need to have.

Two of my most favorite people to listen to, talking about a topic that needs intelligent discussion. It´s a win.

I have a friend who will not commit himself to a relationship because he knows that he will be unfaithful. I admire him for his honesty. I feel that if more men and women were like this, there wouldn't be so much heartbreak!

Esther is such an incredible person! I absolutely love her, I find myself hanging on every single word she speaks. She’s *brilliant* captivating, & thought provoking.

Esther never misses - I could listen to her brilliance all day. She brings such acute clarity to complex issues if you're truly listening to what she says. I see a lot of comments adding assertions and opinions that she didn't articulate... this is a 10 minute segment, take what she said and digest it. One of the BEST, hour-long interviews that I've heard from her was with Lewis Howes and it opened my mind to the ways that we operate in relationship and friendship. Definitely worth a listen: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/i2VoZ2pqq4Z8qZs.html. I also love her podcast "Where Should We Begin". I've gotten so much from her without even reading her book, but that's next on my list! :-)

This is the most important interview I've seen in months and months.

I'm so happy Esther is getting attention and media time. I strongly believe this is what we as people need to hear. She's so much spot on

Fantastic discussion! Trevor gives the utmost respect to every guest, and actually listens and understands, and in many times positively influenced.

Love this! Ive been reading her for years glad to see whole human beings coming into conversation whether it be for media purposes of profit or not, knowledge is power

I appreciate Trevor and his team for being up to date, not like the news!

Wow, I'm delighted to see two of my favorite people discussing!

So great to see them interact together. Esther is amazing, very hope giving.

Esther is such a gem. We don't deserve her. 🖤

Esther is simply brilliant ❤

I love this lady ..... when she speaks I am drawn

Esther, thank you so much for addressing these complex themes, loaded with so much compassion!!

LOVE HER. Alain de Bottom is also amazing.

Powerfully presented . . . terrific interview by both parties involved.

I love this Esther's work. Her books are a must read

Men sure don't need women to protect them from infidelity. People are strong enough to not cheat if they have made this decision.

This is an excellent subject, and truly needs to be talked about further. 👍

I'm reading this book currently & Esther is phenomenally brilliant. I am reading the book to expand what I know about infidelity and humans. I'll recommend the book for anyone who is looking for something deeper than the mainstream ideas.

i love her relationship counceling podcast

Desire versus compliance. Perfect.

Where has she been all my life?? THIS conversation!!!

Currently re-reading this book, which has been very helpful in understanding my former partner's actions and the end of our marriage. Esther's other book and podcast are excellent, too. Having read the book and listened to a lot of her sessions through the podcast 'Where Should We Begin,' I think Esther's points about power are really important. Assault (from Trevor's examples) is not the same as infidelity (what this book is about), and she's not defending either. Esther has helped a lot of people to see their situations with clearer eyes and move forward with their lives.

Amazing interview! She is brilliant. I will be listening to her podcasts.

Ms. Perel is a genius she captures this topic in the most eloquent true manner!

Big fan of her command of knowledge and eloquence to deliver, glad to see a clip of her on here that I missed!

Seriously wish this internet was at least an hour long ❤️ 2 of my favorite humans.

Finally! Esther on Daily Show!

Esther is brilliant.

Two of my favorite people!! ❤❤

She is amazing!

Apart from this serious topic. Two of most favourite people!!!!

She’s so smart! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 love Esther

i loved, and still love this interview, one of the best and very educational conversation i have ever been exposed to. thank you daily show, thank you @Trevor

I gotta read this book sounds like a thrilling read

A nuanced conversation!!! More more more!

Wow I am blown away this is such a great interview with really interesting information.

I read it as she is saying most cheating stories are complex due to theres more layers to it than "they cheated on their loved one." Like the they could feel lonely even though they are in the company of their loved one and so seek it elsewhere. Doesn't make the cheating ok, but it shows some more depth than a simple lie to each other. If someone can work through that betrayal and they can have a happy relationship, all power to them. I am personally not that person but that's just me and my own personal standard. Have had friends that have worked through that personal betrayal before and still in happy relationship with that person, as a friend I don't understand it, but I make sure my friends know I'm here if something happens again and hope for the best for them

I agree that we need to deal with people with compassion, however cheating is extremely traumatising. Cheating is a violation of the body, the heart, and the mind. When you cheat you are ripping the other person’s consent away from them. You are endangering their life to disease when they have not consented. You are endangering them to the possibility of a child outside their relationship when they have not consented. You are endangering their ability to make informed choices for their future. It is one thing to be polyamorous, it is one thing to be in an open relationship. To have consent and knowledge. It is another to take away someone’s ability to consent to what is happen to their life and their body.

This woman is so brilliant

Excellent discussion.

This lady is very intelligent

My fave line.. "We used to call it 'sin' now we frame it as an 'illness' ... patholigising 💩shifty behaviour."

Both absolutely brilliant

Her jewellery is so bomb!

I love this woman. she is so direct and honest...🧡🧡🧡

Brilliant woman 👏

Yaaaay Esther!!!!!!!!!!! Bringing in the conscious light !!!!!

I LOVE DR PEREL

Two of my favorite speakers together. Trevor, why didn't you bring up your chapter on Fluffy?

Cheating i.e. lying is still a wrong done to someone, if you can't continue with monogamy it is only fair to address it with the other person. Sure some relationships can still survive which I am assuming is Ester Perel's take; but not without consequences and pain in most cases. If it's as wide spread then it only makes sense instead for open relationships to be the alternative. It's not my preference but at least its the most honest.

Wow! ( speechless ) must get this book

The show The Affair tackles this subject beautifully…watch it..😊

She makes some valid points y'all.

I love her

Love this.

dope I love her!

"We use to be sinful, today we have illness, and it is the new frame so we can pathologize our sh**ty behaviors." *waves church fan*

Never understand the argument about covering up to modify behavior. If that was the case wouldn’t there be bedlam at the beach every day. Such an odd concept. Very impressive interview. Imagine being that articulate in a second language. Jeepers most of us can’t do it in our first 🙄

Great question!

👍a nice topic

I love this brilliant woman. I’ve watched her a lot on her UKposts videos.

Who else is here doing their research on her after the resurfacing of the Will and Jada video leaked on Reddit 💀

Everyone cheats physically or mentally most people just take the secret to the grave

Brilliant woman !

A short interview for a complex topic. I’m glad to live in a place where equality is strived for, even though I wished it would happen faster. For her last example the situation might have more layers, but, to me, the outcome is pretty much the same, lying for personal gain to someone who is allegedly loved.

The first thing when I saw this video was that Trevor had cut his beautiful hair. Until I heard the audience laughter

Incredible interview!

Her intelligence is stunning.

It's about time

We are learning.

,💕❤️ thanks

I don't know if this is because of the Will and Jada issue but... This lady scares me for some reason. She seems nice and knowledgeable but she got my spidey senses going crazy.

PREACH!

AMAZING WOMAN....expert

Cool

Great way to start the new year with a rerun Couples therapist Esther Perel discusses power and infidelity in her book "The State of Affairs." ... The Daily ... Comedy Central · Nov 27, 2017

By far this is my best at Trevor noah’s.. amazing

I want to live in the world this woman lives in

Regarding what she said about the woman choosing to stick with someone who was toxic to them or cheated on them that would apply to to say Khloe Kardashian

Interesting

Maybe I should write a book I’ve been saying almost exactly this for years

Is it just me, or did the daily show get de monitized? Or something like youtube stopped reccomdending the daily show to me even though Im subbed... Cmon youtube.

This is one heck of a throwback. This was from 2017 if I'm not mistaken. Where is Trevor these days? Why do I feel like his colleagues are filling in for him more and more?

This interview was to short. The lady claimed we should look at affairs in a more nuanced way but wasn’t able to present her take on them. Every answer was worth a follow up question. Guess I’m going to have to read the book.

Yo are they back in the old studio ?

From Germany, in the late 60s: "Wer zweimal mit derselben pennt, gehört schon zum Establischment" - > Whoever sleeps with a woman twice, already belongs to the establishment. I am a 72-year old woman, who hates certain social norms, e.g. marriage, but have been in a partnership - not marriage - for more than 40 years. Neither of us two (to my knowledge 😃 ) ever was "infidel". Tempted maybe, but love, solidarity, trust, friendship were stronger. However, you have to work on that continuously, not just bow to social perspectives. The topic is really complex - shall look into the book. "Infidelity" was important in feudal times, when succession and inheritance were important, hence the origin of offspring. Call me "romantic", but in our times it is only a question of psychology, not sociology any more.

Why is the sound quality so low on this channel only

I think like many things, like drug use or infidelity, when terrible people do them it worsens the opinion of it. Not everyone who cheats is a heartless chauvinist, but that's the only stories we here of cheating.

The only reason I was faithful to my husband of 20 years was due to my religious beliefs. Otherwise I deem monogamy totally unnatural which is why it wasn’t practiced by most cultures for the most part of human history. You know the contradictory dilemmas facing us religious folks, yeah it was one of those.

She got great results for Will Smith! According to Jada Pinket, Esther Perel has been instrumental in redefining their relationship.

Cheating is just cheating because it's easy to lie to somebody that trust you.

WHEN YOU SEE TWO OF YOUR FAVORITE PEOPLE IN ONE VIDEO

Opssss very cool😋😋😋

Interesting 😅

I agree 💯