love this so much

What was it? What is your purpose?

I think in every habit "compound pounding" effect is the best solution... People probably know this effect but forgot about it because of being too distracted by media or thoughts etc. in sport, in business, in relationships. 1. If you use compound pounding in sport, (exercissing for an hour) you will see no results in 5 days,but you will see big results in 100 days. 2. If you will say a good morning to people, you will see no effect in 5 days, but you will see a great difference in 100 days. 3. If you will practice the compassion for your partner and make some good deed, you will see no or small difference in 5 days, but you will see a great difference in 50 or 100 days, you will see how much you mean to them. People see this compound pounding effect in the nature, the garden looks the same after few days, but after a 100 days it looks different. Therefore you can not tell if your values are working after one week, because you see the effect after 100 or 140 days. Maybe each couple should practice this technique, If I will make something small to make my partner happy, for a little moment, they will remember these little moments, and good calm or happy mood increases the immunity of the body by 50 percent in 4 days. So their kids will learn the same technique. They will learn that if they will read a book 10 minutes a day, it has a great impact on brain. Next time it may be 20 minutes a day. But if you stop doing the healthy habit now... after a week it makes no difference after 140 days the results change for worse, you loose muscles or you lose some skill or motivation etc. Good deed may be also making a pizza or small things. People actually enjoy small things much more than big gestures, because it´s about living in the moment...... Big gestures (expensive car) mean that you actually burned out too much energy to make a small effect, rather than small gestures that after time create a great effect of connection, and people like you for your authentic personality.

Hi @deltawave, I just read your message and I wanted to take a moment and just acknowledge your courage. I've been in trauma work for several years now and can relate to what you're sharing. I'm intrigued, what lead you to becoming a horticulturist?

do u mind sharing ?

Yea man you gotta share that gpt response with us! It’s easy to copy and paste it 😊

dont give up, elder.

63 here, feel same way. Being female felt always ‘in service’ first to obeying parents n teachers, then meeting needs of friends, then children and husband and now for my last surviving 94yo parent. I try to fit my interests n needs around my schedule of serving others. But I feel most others do same thing? Makes our world operate…You have to make or set aside time to fulfill your interests or things feel hollow then. We either go thru the motions on autopilot or we engage our emotions and interest. Have goals…before out of bed in the a.m., I ask myself what is my intention today? And we need to dig our perseverance & discipline out of our fortitude daily. Remembering our relatives before faced their challenges they couldn’t shirk puts it in perspective.

@@kirbykidsmithThe funny thing about being older, maybe yes in birth age. But in, in your brain you can feel 40, when it hits you, just how many things you still want to learn, achieve & travel to. Or even books to read…🎉 Or a 20 yo can wake & feel 100 because media has made the world look bleak, if one sees it that way…your attitude is what makes you or breaks you. ❤

@@jelizabethpetrie6656 It's a challenge to do that every day. Some days are good, some make you want to run.

School only sets us up to become sheeple. I'm 66 and it was worse when we were younger 😉

I am a few steps behind you, still writing my first book, which was my childhood passion (reading, writing, learning about people and psychology). I also envision this future challenge when my book is ready. But as he says in the video, this is a less interesting / boring part that we endure so that we can achieve our goal. Maybe you could partner with someone who likes to deal with this part, like an editor / agent / publisher?

Try and find a partner who handles the business side of things, a publisher

IMO, creative types often need a manager of some kind - delegate if you can, your ability to create (more than management) definitely sounds like you are on the right path. Remember what Chris Willx says about being able to do something - it means that there will naturally be other things that you cannot/will not do. You have to choose, and for a creative, that answer is more often than not - some kind of management. Musicians are famous for NEEDING a manager, authors need publishers, painters need promoters, etc, etc...

I get it. But it might be useful to consider just how unlikely it is that a line individual could be well suited to such a wide range of skills and interests. As others have suggested, it might be best to hand those functions over to others. Delegate, delegate, delegate. But if you can’t afford these services, don’t let it stop you. Get your first book out, no matter what. You’ll be in a better position after your first effort and ready to do better for your next one.

@heytherebarry, your post caught my attention so I looked through your work and I love what you've created with Cara and The Giant. I'd love to know a little more about your goals with your books? Also, Koda is kryptonite! My wife and I rescue animals often and your little guy is awesome!

Great Clip!

Great point. It's a balance of self-discovery and personal evolution.

Really???? That itself says, you are not blank....it's black

This "born blank" approach leads to many problems, derived from us not being able to accept who we are, trying to become who we are not. And it's not me saying it, it's the legend himself, Carl Gustav Jung, who introduced the notion, that there's a lot that comes from our genes, from the generations of ancestors, passing on information to their children. It is stored in our subconscious and peaks out in ways of emotions, unnoticed behaviours and dreams. We can control our destiny inside of the borders, set by who we are upon birth. Who we are is to be discovered, individually.

Not blank, very much pre-destined through genetics, however, consider that perhaps it is more that we are a product of our environments, but everyone starts with their own shape to some extent.

@@RocketLauncherwithInfiniteAmmo see, we have a consciousness, which I would describe as a smartphone screen to look through, point and swipe on, to control part of our thoughts and body. Everything else, that is the body itself, feelings and emotions and, more often than we think, actions - are what we are born with and become conscious of. We can use our freedom of choice and willpower to activate some of our genes, we can also influence what genes are passed on further through repeated actions (i.e. going to the gym is equal to higher chances of passing on "muscle development" genes). So I wouldn't agree 100%, that everything is pre-destined 100%.

@@Apollo440 so, would it be more along the lines of we have the ability to change or rather stretch the capabilities of our dna by eating and exercising differently is that what you mean?

Sounds like your degree didn't nurture your strength which perhaps is emotional intelligence? Still, having graduated it shows you can be dedicated and disciplined. Now to be honest...what makes you happy?

Attaching sense/purpose to life is not equal to chasing a feeling. Self dilusion about that wrapper you mention is not true, but explaining your actions to yourself, as being part of a bigger plan, thus worthwhile - that is what is truely valuable. Watch Huberman's podcast with David Goggins. There they touch upon this issue more, than this podcast does, I believe.

Like coner MacGregor

"Mastery" by Robert Greene. Google it

He wrote a book titled mastery

This is absolutely fluent...so advanced I'd say.

Try everything, even the things you don't think you will like doing. Then start to pay attention to the things you are drawn to and that you are good at, because the more you explore the more you will learn about yourself. Never give up on the things that make you smile.

Stop going on social media passively, it destroys any drive. Start working out, and taking care of yourself. That’s the bottom of the pyramid of purpose. Just follow the little thread of curiosity in your body. That tiny little voice that says “I wonder if..” or “I wonder what that would be like” And start exploring. You won’t know what your purpose is, truly, unless you’re looking backwards. But if you’re listening to your GUT and your HEART, over your mind, you will be in flow. Your body knows. Learn to listen to it. :)

You are unique and needed in this world. Seek Jesus. Cry out to him. Hear hears you. He died for every mistake you have made. He wants you to live free.

Forget finding your life’s purpose. What are you most curious about? What are your strengths? Focus on what intrigues you and start playing around with it. Just try things. Stop thinking there’s right and wrong things for you. Just try things you’re interested in. If it sticks, it sticks. If it doesn’t, now ya know. Good luck kid! Just keep moving your feet and you’ll do great. Move those feet!

Give your life to the Lord get in the Bible and learn the word and continue to pray 🙏🏾🙏🏾 you are here for a reasons and still young

People are attempting to blackball him and cancel him lol maybe that’s why

Never too late my friend

@@wuwei_basketball hah, some people say it is

@@z0uLess so?

@@wuwei_basketball you're right

@@z0uLess if nobody else does, I believe in you bro. I have seen some incredible stories out there if people making it in ways that have never been done. Why not you??!

Dear, This journey is only our own. People just come and go to give us a valuable lesson. As a Human, Spiritual beings we need to do our duty, because some day we Divorce our own Body . Just accept it and use this lesson or experience to become the greatest version of yourself. Everything is happening for some great reason.

@@Dubai_Learnings I'm almost dead, Greatest version of me was when I was trying in my marriage She can rot

Agreed. I recently came back to the church and it’s helped me find the right path forward.

@@lukeydukey20 The same with me. God bless.

Exactly!

Allah is The Guide

Find the the best guidance book,Quran

I've honestly found the opposite to be true for me. I always used to wear socks to bed, even during the cold winter nights, and would wake up 5-6 times a night. Having changed to wearing no socks, I rarely wake up more than 3 times a night

Agreed. I've observed that I sleep better without socks. I can kick off layers of covers and regulate my temperature. When I cool down enough during my sleepy time, I can tuck my feet back under the covers. My POV is that of a woman experiencing the vasomotor symptoms of menopause though 😂

I absolutely cannot sleep with socks on, either.

I believe that your foot is part of body which regulates your body temperature while you sleep so even in cold winter when I put on me two blanket one of my leg always about go out for some time and breathe fresh air and regulates my temperature 😅

@@muradbayr9900this is honestly what made me change how i slept. I wasn't getting any help from the numerous doctors I visited, so I decided to see a acupuncturist, and he said something very similar.

I'm not crying, you're crying. Boo hooo ooo... Oooo.

@@Apollo440No, you're definitely crying.

@@alwaysgreatusa223 Yep, that was the joke.

@@Apollo440 You're just laughing through your tears. Lol

Give one to it then

Kierkegaard said the same thing of his own life

If there's no God that is. That's a big IF

Life uh, finds a way.

Life has only one purpose. To live everything else is up to you.

Irrelevant. Although in entirely different class, einstein was often very scandalous, so are many bright philosophers.

@@9005mieYep. MLK cheated on his wife. Does this discount his contributions to society? Of course not.

@lenadiveeva586 Have you ever lied or cheated on a girlfriend/boyfriend?

"Can a man, who eats Capn' Crunch be a good scientist?", "If a person can't tie his shoes, can he ride a bike?" This and other questions, just like yours, have no answer, because they don't adhere to logic. If you'd say "how can you expect us to sign a business contract with you or have a personal/romantic relationship with you, if it was confirmed and documented by X people, that you have lied to them?". Now those two issues are interconnected, but personal relations and public relations / scientifical work? No.

Do you usually believe anything to see in the media? Be a little skeptical