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Tim Ferriss

Tim Ferriss

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This is episode #7 my TV show, The Tim Ferriss Experiment! The show is like MythBusters meets Jason Bourne. In every episode, I partner with the world’s best and most unorthodox teachers (e.g., Laird Hamilton, Marcelo Garcia, Stewart Copeland), who train me for a final gauntlet. Shocking breakthroughs, injuries, epiphanies, and disasters are all part of the journey. Along the way, I show you how to replicate results in an attempt to prove that “you don’t need to be superhuman to get superhuman results… you just need a better toolkit.”
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Tim Ferriss is one of Fast Company’s “Most Innovative Business People” and an early-stage tech investor/advisor in Uber, Facebook, Twitter, Shopify, Duolingo, Alibaba, and 50+ other companies. He is also the author of five #1 New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestsellers: The 4-Hour Workweek, The 4-Hour Body, The 4-Hour Chef, Tools of Titans and Tribe of Mentors. The Observer and other media have named him “the Oprah of audio” due to the influence of his podcast, The Tim Ferriss Show, which has exceeded 900 million downloads and been selected for “Best of Apple Podcasts” three years running.
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@timferriss
@timferriss 10 днів тому
Want more of “The Tim Ferriss Experiment”? Here are all 13 episodes: I Learned To Play The Drums In 5 Days With No Experience: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/fnKbi3uuoqKQ1GQ.html I Helped A Stranger Start Her Dream Business In 1 Week: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/pop7mpWZaZh9mY0.html I Hired A Pickup Artist To Help Me Find A Girlfriend: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/a6qBlW2ZaKuilXU.html Can I Beat A BJJ World Champion With 5 Days Of Training?: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/h2WThp-nf5mctIU.html I Learned Filipino In 4 Days: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/iZuFoXewhpWix3k.html Can I Beat A Pro Poker Player With 4 Days Of Training?: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/ko-miaGhiIGSzn0.html I Trained Like A Pro Golfer For 5 Days: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/oY-fe5yEe4qSo4k.html I Helped A 28-Year-Old Face Her Fear Of Open Water: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/aGWjdZx5eZ99kqs.html I Learned How To Surf In 5 Days: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/aY-Uk3x6i45hyJ8.html I Learned Rally Racing In 5 Days: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/kHaepouIqqSnmGw.html I Learned To Shoot Guns Like John Wick In 5 Days: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/iGaqh5hqh2xlzqs.html Learning Parkour From A Hollywood Stuntman (5-Day Challenge): ukposts.info/have/v-deo/qYOEoJB6e4elwmg.html I Hired A US Navy Seal Drill Sergeant To Kidnap Me: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/hGmFrqqajZ2Zxas.html
@tongobong1
@tongobong1 9 днів тому
Eh Neil Straus and similar methods are terrible. You should try natural approach the way our ancestors did it before they had languages.
@basedpatriotLT
@basedpatriotLT 5 днів тому
Based!
@stoicvibesonly
@stoicvibesonly 2 місяці тому
For those of you confused. This is from 2013.
@bhaveshpatel9626
@bhaveshpatel9626 25 днів тому
Good to know! But, the message and lessons are probably even more relevant today
@joythought
@joythought 25 днів тому
That is helpful, thanks. I thought so but was....confused. Thought his longevity drugs were working very well.
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow 24 дні тому
Things have changed...
@msn-hn9eb
@msn-hn9eb 23 дні тому
@@creasunset what a surprise
@mondavou9408
@mondavou9408 23 дні тому
I'm not confused, ROFL, I lived that life in SF before it became a toilet. I can see the difference.
@olgakasianova6581
@olgakasianova6581 2 місяці тому
I like the lady who works at the restaurant. She seems genuine and chill.
@jennlovedbychrist6477
@jennlovedbychrist6477 2 місяці тому
Me too
@AlanPina-nn5sz
@AlanPina-nn5sz 2 місяці тому
Agreed. Cute, genuine, soft nice vibe…
@DChris3
@DChris3 2 місяці тому
Yes, I definitely would have gone for her too. Dating as a 30 year old guy is tough, but she seemed easy to talk to and didn't take herself too seriously. I liked that she came to the party in a chill outfit and not lathered in makeup. Definitely my kind of gal. It was probably a long time ago but I hope she's doing well :)
@lw3308
@lw3308 2 місяці тому
100%! Me too!!
@MyroslavaD
@MyroslavaD 2 місяці тому
Me too 😊
@AndyGaskin
@AndyGaskin 2 місяці тому
The video style brings me back to the 2010's! Fun episode.
@Sanger2007
@Sanger2007 2 місяці тому
I think this is a repost from an old show of his. the MacBook is old one
@JoNhWaLl
@JoNhWaLl 2 місяці тому
It's literally 10 years old lol
@stoicvibesonly
@stoicvibesonly 2 місяці тому
It's from 2013 that's why lol. He's just uploaded to his YT
@RenansStudentsandGarbage-xl6yq
@RenansStudentsandGarbage-xl6yq 2 місяці тому
I wish he'd upload the chess one
@puneethsuraana
@puneethsuraana Місяць тому
@@RenansStudentsandGarbage-xl6yq He did!
@neilbush9873
@neilbush9873 19 днів тому
When iwas in my 20s i gave a freind a lift to a party in my car he spoke these words to me "im gonna get myself a woman tonight what about you?" It seemed abit nieve to think that way as i hardly knew anyone there . When we sat down at the party he filled a jug of beer and we sat down at an emty table an surveyed the people, as you do. After a few drinks i got up and started chating to some blokes my age and left him to his drinking . A group of girls were chatting togeather and i was agonising trying to overcome my shyness ,it occured to me rather than trying to "get one" perhaps i could see if i could just talk to every woman at the party for fun and see what happened. This attitude was a huge breakthrough for me, i was married within the year. I still do that at parties,im still with my first wife 40 years later. Not every attempt at conversation is succesfull but freindship is somthing to practice. Who wants to be got anyway ?
@chinngis83
@chinngis83 18 днів тому
That sounds too healthy, almost like good advice. I'll ignore it.
@isambo400
@isambo400 18 днів тому
40 years ago you weren’t in competition with smartphone apps…
@neilbush9873
@neilbush9873 18 днів тому
If you see relationships as a competition you make yourself less attractive .my observations are that a man taking care of his freinds is more attractive than a jealous self serving man . What do you think?
@user-vx1up7ty7z
@user-vx1up7ty7z 17 днів тому
@@neilbush9873 It's good advice, like saving up for a down payment on a house, but it's still a lot harder today than it was even a decade ago (just like buying a house).
@snoglydox
@snoglydox 16 днів тому
. *You didn't say what happened with your friend.*
@ierit3796
@ierit3796 10 днів тому
I expected a cool pick-up line. "Ladies, who would like to ride the Ferriss wheel?"
@goldencatpat
@goldencatpat День тому
😂😂
@leilam1725
@leilam1725 2 місяці тому
I enjoyed the video, but as a European woman, it does not make any sense to me to invite your 3 crushes at the same event. In France, women would walk away because it would be considered as really disrespectul. This is not a job interview; you want to see if you vibe with the person, and how can you really be yourself, relax and flirt a little if all your competitors are in the same room? This is really capitalism applied to dating, where emotions and people become commodities. Also, I think that if you're obsessed with a certain type of rib cage, the matchmaker has to explain to you that it shouldn"t be a criteria to identify your soulmate. A friend was asking me why dating was hard in the US. (I live on the East Coast). I told her that most American men were paralysed in front of women and did not know how to approach them. She couldn't believe it! Finally, since the audience of this channel seems to focus on science rather emotions or intuition, I recommend the book "How not to die alone", by Logan Ury. thanks for readying!
@Daviddaze
@Daviddaze 2 місяці тому
It's the creativity that Tim delivers the efficiency. He brought science for the logical types. Men tend to try to fix everything , in relationships also , instead of confident social interaction. I've seen women bring her men friends together so who will fight for her. This bar scene too crowded, not enuff one-to-one. That's a good book rec.
@PlubusDomis
@PlubusDomis 21 день тому
You'd probably be surprised that a lot of American and hispanic women respond well to this type of situation. It was almost funny to watch the two women become more fixated on each other than Tim 😂 like their own little rock-paper-scissors match for Tim😅
@johnnyxmusic
@johnnyxmusic 20 днів тому
Coffee date? I’m on your coast.😉
@CozyBear_29
@CozyBear_29 19 днів тому
Back when "The Game" was popular. Even Neil Strauss disavowed the lifestyle promoted in the book and expressed regret over the impact his work had.
@benascg-ll7sq
@benascg-ll7sq 19 днів тому
Bonjour Leila. Crazy how men got paralyzed by #metoo and #balancetonporc. Charm and frankness open arms and heart. Fully agree on focusing on science rather than emotions. Next episode might be something like how to beat AI on the dating field. Surprized you'd recommend Logan Ury's book. She sounds like her strategy execution was developed at harvard business school. Aucune humanité. So no space for butterflies, again. Looks we, european , have a competitive advantage😀. Une bonne soirée à vous. B.
@renecarrillo3758
@renecarrillo3758 2 місяці тому
Great episode! It's refreshing that Tim has the same fear of approaching women as us mere mortals lol
@abdul-kabiralegbe5660
@abdul-kabiralegbe5660 17 днів тому
You mean Jason Statham?😂😂
@andrjsjan4231
@andrjsjan4231 7 днів тому
What does refreshing mean in this context, and also sorry for my bad english grammar by the way?
@abdul-kabiralegbe5660
@abdul-kabiralegbe5660 7 днів тому
@@andrjsjan4231 Reassuring.
@theironson1043
@theironson1043 8 днів тому
Women have dating on tutorial mode; Men have dating on apocalypse mode.
@triplea657aaa
@triplea657aaa 2 дні тому
No. Men have it worse, but Women have plenty of problems as well. Women are flooded with awful shit men to the point where it's hard to find the good ones, so they only try for the best ones who won't settle for them. Dating is shit for everyone these days.
@ScrotusMaximus666
@ScrotusMaximus666 День тому
Unless you’re Chad or Tyrone
@rpgbx
@rpgbx 2 місяці тому
I'm so thrilled to see that you're doing the UKposts game - I know you had hesitations that you mentioned on the Noah Kagan episode, but this is just so valuable. Thank you for sharing your gift.
@enkibumbu
@enkibumbu 27 днів тому
He's worth a billion dollars and is in spectacular shape. No pickup lines needed.
@stacyliddell5038
@stacyliddell5038 26 днів тому
A billion? Nowhere near that number.
@enkibumbu
@enkibumbu 26 днів тому
@@stacyliddell5038 $110 million net worth should enhance his pickup game.
@EatYourVegs
@EatYourVegs 26 днів тому
You'd be surprised. Everyone has to have game
@BassboatRadio
@BassboatRadio 25 днів тому
Flaunting wealth is a great way to attract the wrong type of woman
@MrTresto
@MrTresto 25 днів тому
I mean having a good net worth helps (maybe just with confidence if anything) but it's mostly that he seems kind and warm and well put together. That's much more essential. I suggest you try that too.
@franciscosuarez4725
@franciscosuarez4725 28 днів тому
this is giving big mythbuster energy i’m about it
@Mentalhealthhacks
@Mentalhealthhacks 2 місяці тому
This was fun. I hope to see more videos like this. Thanks for the sharing your experience!
@ConnorJaksik
@ConnorJaksik 2 місяці тому
Great work with the TV show! I’ve watched 3-4 episodes and all have been fantastic!
@andyhinds542
@andyhinds542 18 днів тому
I remember years ago (1997), I met a woman who contacted me after I wrote her though a single column in a UK biker magazine. We chatted for over 6 hours on the phone and I had no idea what she looked like. When I met her, she was okay, but her personality was amazing and we hit it off straight away. It was very intense but when you have that chemistry with someone, looks really don't matter that much. When she broke up with me I felt destroyed.
@silvialosada5959
@silvialosada5959 2 місяці тому
I loved this episode so much, especially the part where you're talking to people in person. Rooting for you to find love! :D
@TheHappinessPlannerTV
@TheHappinessPlannerTV 2 місяці тому
Love these fun episodes, Tim! Keep them coming. 😊😊
@RiverValleyInnovations
@RiverValleyInnovations 2 місяці тому
"I don't expect to find my soulmate." That's a rough start. Nervous TIm Ferriss is so endearing...
@RIB0S0ME
@RIB0S0ME 2 місяці тому
Love the approaches! Thanks for sharing.
@BO-dc4xg
@BO-dc4xg 23 дні тому
What a cool episode! Thank you for making it and sharing your experience! Just found your videos, look forward to more! Thank you
@rise.with.regine
@rise.with.regine 2 місяці тому
Loved this, so interesting seeing you try out these different approaches!
@keirdoubas
@keirdoubas 27 днів тому
This episode made me LOL a few times, which is rare for a tv show. Good concept Tim!
@jb3757
@jb3757 24 дні тому
Loved the vibe of the whole video, so light-hearted and realistic.
@doruk_kurt
@doruk_kurt 2 місяці тому
This is amazing!!! It is so inspiring yet so fun and playful. Those naked photos with the cat are the best!❣️
@jasocaz
@jasocaz 2 місяці тому
I love Tim but when he hit the matchmaker with the rib cage filter I lost it.
@Shineonfriends
@Shineonfriends 28 днів тому
“I want a very thin woman” would create a negative result to the video
@shahabmohseni258
@shahabmohseni258 26 днів тому
Personal preference brother, I understand it and respect it.
@joeroganpodfantasy42
@joeroganpodfantasy42 25 днів тому
@@Shineonfriends yeah that went thru my head , brilliant from him
@williamclayton9566
@williamclayton9566 25 днів тому
@@Shineonfriends Bullsh*t. Men are allowed to have standards.
@E4Sierra
@E4Sierra 2 місяці тому
I'd be curious to know the success rate of the 'matchmaker' .. whether a service like that actually works for people _long-term_ .
@timferriss
@timferriss 2 місяці тому
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@robertdobai
@robertdobai 2 місяці тому
I am smelling a new book, Sensei! :)
@vitallife7134
@vitallife7134 2 місяці тому
I would be interested in knowing you as a date...:)
@Christian_Prepper
@Christian_Prepper 26 днів тому
*FERRIS MASTERY: Although, I have learned a lot from Tim over the years I fear the focus of this particular experiment falls short, because yes, knowing how to **_attract_** a mate is important, but "picking up" (dating) a person good for you is truly a mine field without the ability to quickly screen out "deal breakers" and decipher potential compatibility within an initial short conversation. I have mastered how to read body language, micro expressions, verbal cues, and use calibrated questions designed to covertly expose their true self within one 5-10min casual conversation while establishing rapport and drawing them. So trust me when I say, I had to master this for work and now strangers I interact with have no clue what I'm doing and may not understand why I didn't call them back after all.* *Great video! I love the tech intro. Strong first step toward all I shared above. I'm excited about Tim's series.* *Liberty = Peace & I pray we always enjoy both!*
@Rays_Bad_Decisions
@Rays_Bad_Decisions 24 дні тому
I like the video but consider where you start. Looking for a woman in San Francisco is relationship suicide even if you win you lose
@laylasmart
@laylasmart 21 день тому
The problem isn't to find a girl. The problem is to find a loyal one which is not a femina-zi. In the western world mindset, a women being a femina-zi is the standard.
@strive4impact
@strive4impact 26 днів тому
Just heard your most recent interview with Noah Kagan yesterday. Looks like you may be expanding the YT presence after all! I'm here for it and appreciate you working through the negative repercussions to continue to share your journey and wisdom in this format as well.
@dspitze
@dspitze 2 місяці тому
I actually first learned about you when I read Neil’s first book about dating when you helped him pack on ten pounds of muscle in 6 weeks. You guys inspire me to be better! Looking for somewhere I can learn bachata while I stay here in the Dominican Republic
@Ramdapanda
@Ramdapanda 4 дні тому
Strauss should hardly be an inspiration, at least not when he was writing the books. Not sure about Ferris, never seen him before
@ChikaKinayha
@ChikaKinayha 2 місяці тому
If someone as famous and well-connected as Tim finds it hard to find a match, what hope is there for us mortals...
@tinacarvalhoBodyandHealth
@tinacarvalhoBodyandHealth 2 місяці тому
I agree
@PieraB
@PieraB 2 місяці тому
Take this as entertainment. I don't believe all of this is authentic. It's content to have clicks and make bucks $$$$$
@adrianazollo2688
@adrianazollo2688 Місяць тому
lol
@1amb1
@1amb1 28 днів тому
sincere, optimistic reframe: it means we're all mortals, we're all in the same boat, same ocean, and maybe... the hope is also the same
@Rsiatat
@Rsiatat 27 днів тому
Don't belittle yourself while putting others on a high horse. It will make for a sorrow life
@raphaelschaad4309
@raphaelschaad4309 2 місяці тому
My deep respect, Tim, for overcoming your vulnerability ❤
@benascg-ll7sq
@benascg-ll7sq 19 днів тому
With all due respect, please don't take hesitation for vulnerability
@BenBartolovic
@BenBartolovic 2 місяці тому
It is absolutely hilarious to see someone like Tim who is so successfull in many areas of life is struggling so much with a basic task like dating. Was fun to watch and reminded me of my first experiences.
@ThisArchitect1
@ThisArchitect1 23 дні тому
I'm realizing I'm on the same boat as him and I'm going to have to get this down to a science with practice. It was definitely fun to watch him learn.
@benascg-ll7sq
@benascg-ll7sq 19 днів тому
Tim is so focused on performance that he does not seem to be willing to leave some space to the adventurous side of dating
@christinecooper4256
@christinecooper4256 2 місяці тому
Love seeing you approach challenges that put you truly outside of your comfort zone-- inspiring! 🙌🏻
@fussinHassan
@fussinHassan 2 місяці тому
downloaded everyone's profile? wtf
@AmadeuShinChan
@AmadeuShinChan 24 дні тому
Screams: recipe for disaster. I currently try to do counter-corruption and it’s so rampant online and it’s of course happening on dating platforms. Basically there’s a profile with one woman, same person, 9 profiles so far and each profile is photo verified. And yet the dating page pretends to be stupid. But i mean, who didn’t hear the shot during the previous 4 years, maybe never will, regarding corruption and a need for fundamental change, yet noone’s willing to pay up… such as investing 10 bucks a year to make a difference towards a merit-based economy. Better hodl that one bitcoin and wait for doomsday when it will be worth 1 million, but we’ll also live in zombie world, when this “target is reached”, if we aren’t already. Sorry if it’s hard to follow what i try to say, english is only my second language.
@ThePk8mile
@ThePk8mile 24 дні тому
It's public bro
@theshizzen3988
@theshizzen3988 2 місяці тому
Good old Tim Ferris human Guinea Pig stuff! Loved it👍
@socaljohnnyc
@socaljohnnyc 2 місяці тому
Tim - I’m a huge listener of your podcast and also your books! I find it impossible to believe that you have a hard time doing cold approach. That vulnerability must have been just for TV (?)!!
@socaljohnnyc
@socaljohnnyc 2 місяці тому
Oh and Tim - how does one attempt to be lucky enough to be in that room of singles w/ you?
@Ryan.G.Spalding
@Ryan.G.Spalding 2 місяці тому
This was fantastic! The production value. Everything. Well done sir!
@worththefight1096
@worththefight1096 2 місяці тому
Loved this, Tim! Thank you for sharing and for your vulnerability. This was awesome to see you in this light. You are a great guy doing incredible work for our human family, and you are so worthy and deserving of your wildest dreams. Keep at it! You'll find her soon
@modernbrainbox
@modernbrainbox Місяць тому
I love that you put yourself out there and took one for the team for the sake of a whole generation of us who are trying to play the field. Loved this episode! ❤
@mikemcnut3204
@mikemcnut3204 24 дні тому
Women don’t play the field. What’re you talking about?
@holism
@holism 15 днів тому
There’s a new generation that has a different experience of dating and Tim Ferris took on the role of the fool and was vulnerable putting himself in a position to learn and take in advice from other men ( experts ) on the subject , in front of us, so we can learn how to navigate the field of dating, that’s what they are talking about. Women could play the field and definitely do in todays modern world, although it’s probably not in their best interest.
@LilayM
@LilayM 2 місяці тому
Very fun to see ^^ Hella brave of you to ask people in person - respect.
@bradtrades
@bradtrades 2 місяці тому
I hope you do a follow-up video to let us know how your journey is going. Good luck!
@russdoesstuff
@russdoesstuff 2 місяці тому
For those wondering 21:21 (C) 2014 .... Does take take me back to a day when the Reality-TV was fun.
@ShannonMaryMac
@ShannonMaryMac 2 місяці тому
The shirtless cat pics are THE BEST 😂
@lyndseygolden7546
@lyndseygolden7546 2 місяці тому
🐈
@brobejr
@brobejr 27 днів тому
really, wow. another thing I don't get.
@claudiomarangone614
@claudiomarangone614 25 днів тому
I thought it was cheesy and trying too hard
@mondavou9408
@mondavou9408 23 дні тому
🤢
@NotFound-iu8wx
@NotFound-iu8wx 22 дні тому
That was creepy. I would never
@maluenigma
@maluenigma 2 місяці тому
Tim, please drop the link here or in the UKposts video description for the extended footage/ full episode. Not seeing it at the link you mentioned at the end. Thanks!
@dasharafalovich7132
@dasharafalovich7132 2 місяці тому
Loved the episode! Thank you 💫
@davidamodeo_
@davidamodeo_ 12 днів тому
This gives me old TV show vibes and I like it
@tomofasia
@tomofasia 23 дні тому
Wow, this was me like 15 years ago or something when I started doing what Mystery, Style and a bunch of other guys came up with. Those memories! 😅
@plaidballoon
@plaidballoon 2 дні тому
Dude, just watching you do the cold approaches was giving me major anxiety lol
@iansullivan1967
@iansullivan1967 6 днів тому
“If I can do it, so can you” *hires Mr. Robot to download every profile in LA*
@nadiachareuf6318
@nadiachareuf6318 2 місяці тому
This gave me butterflies! It is so hard to just walk up to someone like that. Loved this so much
@scottcates
@scottcates 2 місяці тому
Inner game is a huge benefit.
@jackfrostcm108
@jackfrostcm108 2 місяці тому
❤ spot on! Game is all about inner game
@thedrj2009
@thedrj2009 26 днів тому
That’s it. Nailed it.
@bhaveshpatel9626
@bhaveshpatel9626 25 днів тому
Inner game is true alpha , true success
@LewisWirth
@LewisWirth 3 дні тому
The color grade and tv show editing gives the whole video kind of a early 2000s look and feel. Very entertaining video btw
@smilinginthedark
@smilinginthedark 2 місяці тому
Love the old episodes Tim
@realjoedee
@realjoedee 26 днів тому
Status is the #1 aphrodisiac, fame being the pinnacle of status. Status is also situationally relevant so you can cultivate it within your daily lives.
@MrTigermark53
@MrTigermark53 5 днів тому
This is such a guy myth and flawed premise. We are energetic beings not material ones. Women find confidence, and if having status makes you feel confident and sexy then great. It will work for some people but mostly those who feel something lacking in themselves I reckon 😢
@suzpeden
@suzpeden 2 місяці тому
Ooh this was so fun. I hope you went on a date with at least one of them, they seem awesome.
@jewelbency5072
@jewelbency5072 2 місяці тому
Well, whoever his gf was, they broke up few months ago
@maxduewel54
@maxduewel54 25 днів тому
finally something good again on youtube ! really cool and well-made episode
@87mcmahan87
@87mcmahan87 2 місяці тому
This is great to see. I feel like I am not alone in putting successful folks like tim up on a pedestal, like they are some sort of gifted extra terrestrial that I cant even compare myself to but realize that's just another one of my excuses. We are all just humans!!!
@Jean-Pierre-Parent
@Jean-Pierre-Parent 2 місяці тому
I am totally blown away that Tim is anxious about approaching women, with his money, status, skills. I thought I would be doing better with all that stuff but I'm doing already doing quite well, I guess approaching women effectively is a skill independent of anything else. For those interested, Todd V has a lot to teach on the subject.
@thedrj2009
@thedrj2009 26 днів тому
Love greasy V
@raffles5398
@raffles5398 25 днів тому
Plot twist: non of the three women go out with him but instead become best friends
@Sasquatch10
@Sasquatch10 25 днів тому
I feel like all four people wouldn't mind that.
@RedClipsYT
@RedClipsYT 24 дні тому
No such thing as a woman having male friends
@PolishBehemoth
@PolishBehemoth 24 дні тому
except that doesnt happen so... stupid comment
@JohnnyDLaw
@JohnnyDLaw 23 дні тому
if they wanted they woulda just dated
@edmund_hogan
@edmund_hogan 11 днів тому
The style of the video feels like a show you'd see on TV; very refreshing
@gangakarapenan3365
@gangakarapenan3365 2 місяці тому
At the end of the day … no matter what… we are ALWAYS guided by the Heart ❤! Great fun episode! I wish I was at that party ! 😅
@elizabethecheverri7969
@elizabethecheverri7969 2 місяці тому
Good to know guys get nervous. Dating has become a huge challenge.
@eliteboxfitness
@eliteboxfitness 2 місяці тому
The pics with the cat cracked me right up Lmao brilliant
@wambui_ngatia
@wambui_ngatia 2 місяці тому
Right! 😂
@peteonealdating
@peteonealdating Місяць тому
Congrats Tim on getting out of your comfort zone! Your a beast for doing this👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@justkickingit272
@justkickingit272 6 днів тому
Step 1: Be a tall, muscular, rich, blonde anglo guy who has CEO vibes
@maya_unplugged
@maya_unplugged 26 днів тому
Really? The moment I realised you are inviting all girls to your party, I was out. Being invited feels special. Finding tons of “competition” feels like being an object in “the bachelor”.
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow 24 дні тому
Yes, he'd be ignoring someone. For me, I'd be turned off and feel like I wasted my time.
@robertlutz3723
@robertlutz3723 18 днів тому
The Bachelor is a very successful show lol…
@danielskiba6705
@danielskiba6705 2 дні тому
Such humour 😂 The Amy from the farmers marketing at the party killed me 😂
@mrburns7007
@mrburns7007 21 день тому
your intro lines. Making the impossible, possible by bonding rules. My way of thinking ... I'm Subscribed now
@justinhinchliffe2355
@justinhinchliffe2355 2 місяці тому
This was a great episode, especially as you had real skin in the game. You did great!
@JGW2110
@JGW2110 2 місяці тому
Wow Neil hasn’t aged in two decades
@gunars1114
@gunars1114 2 місяці тому
This one was so funny...probably due to the fears I would have in the same situation and that I did not had to push myself into somethinglike that!
@rogerbarker2015
@rogerbarker2015 24 дні тому
Wow, Tim! That was really helpful! Champion caliber Latin Dancer is nervous approaching women? I guess anything can happen to anyone at any time! Loved it. BTW, Brock Purdy does this suggestive dance in the end zone after a touchdown. Have you seen it?
@Tomsonx232
@Tomsonx232 2 місяці тому
The day game part was terrible imo, opening up with a random question/fake scenario puts the conversation in a weird rhythm, hard to transition the conversation to about them, best thing to do is to approach them and ask them a question about THEM, and then talk about each other and build a connection. "Hey I like your {accessory you noticed and liked} how did you decide to get that?" Also don't just stuff down approach anxiety, dive deeper into that anxiety and ask yourself why am I feeling this? There was a guy on youtube handing out tiny gold bars on the street and people kept turning him down because he seemed like he was handing out pamphlets, but none of that rejection bothered him because he knew deep down inside he was offering something of high value... rejection was THEIR loss not his! When you frame all of your approaches in this mindset of "I am of high value" then approach anxiety melts away because you properly re-framed you fear of rejection
@justkickingit272
@justkickingit272 6 днів тому
Sorry Tim, Tomson and his 5 subscribers know way more about women than Neil Strauss and yourself
@teeb1044
@teeb1044 2 місяці тому
This series was recorded years ago. From the comments I see some people don't know that.
@SolowSports
@SolowSports 2 місяці тому
This is great. Did it ever air on tv?
@SEMarketing5
@SEMarketing5 2 місяці тому
Awesome episode bro! 😎
@mequable
@mequable 2 місяці тому
BTW I had read here and there some tips and followed this strategy: 1. have at least one black and white photo; 2. for men - look at the camera and smile with no teeth, for women - look away from the camera and smile with teeth, 3. have at least one full body photo (duh), 4. have a photo wearing red (red dress for example). But guess what, I'm a woman and everyone swipes on me. It doesn't get really easier to assess potential real life dates, and I think these tricks are mainly for men. Men actually don't put any effort in their profiles, I notice. If I see someone with zero stuff written, I swipe away. Potentially not being able to write.
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow 24 дні тому
It goes the other way too, if you write more than a sentence or two, you lose most women. Maybe the best approach is just be yourself.
@mequable
@mequable 2 дні тому
@@MakeYouFeelBetterNow really? I am not sure but I'm judging from my own opinion only, can't find enough women to ask. If I see more than one sentence, I think someone has put in the time to write something. Perhaps more important is what it says, one or more sentences.
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow 2 дні тому
@@mequable Perhaps. There's such a thing as putting too many pictures as well, for both sexes. It's like people are finding a reason not to like you. I'm guilty of it too when I see a really bad pic.
@STSpringerChannel
@STSpringerChannel 2 місяці тому
Very fun! We need an epilogue please (I'm rooting for restaurant lady from the Ferry bldg.)
@paulidevoss7249
@paulidevoss7249 15 днів тому
I’ve never like the idea of a pickup artist - it seems like a kind of slimy way to view meeting people, but I like the the way you use the ice breaking tips to overcome nerves and get yourself out there. We could all do with a little help!
@usablellc6735
@usablellc6735 11 днів тому
I am freaking out just watching this. Glad I have a partner and that I'm way older than the searching for a mate stage of life.
@C_Mor_Rocks
@C_Mor_Rocks 2 місяці тому
I wish there was more practical and applicable tips for the online dating. I definitely don’t have the resources or know-how to build algorithms to filter dating apps, but more power to you all that have that kind of time and $ lol
@benascg-ll7sq
@benascg-ll7sq 2 місяці тому
Based on my experience (in Europe) cultivate a funnel approach. Connect with as many contacts as possible. Have a lab approach. See what works, what does not and refine. Some leads will lead to nothing, some others might lead to a drink and/or a night and why not, maybe to THE ONE. Don't have expectations too early in the process. It will be time to adapt your expectations while navigating the discovery process. And nobidy said it is prohibited to lead multiple discovery processes in parallel, the caveat being it can become resources (time, energy, money) consuming quite fast
@GRUMO
@GRUMO 2 місяці тому
@@benascg-ll7sq Agree. The funnel approach is how I found my wife. It's the same approach in sales and it works on anything where you want to promote/sell a product (in this case, YOU are the product)
@benascg-ll7sq
@benascg-ll7sq 2 місяці тому
@@GRUMO strictly between you and me, same here...I had to learn soooo much bout expectations management. As soon as I at last got it, I cud focus on the present moment, projection free. Worked like magic. Best wishes of happiness. Ben
@rafghad4399
@rafghad4399 2 місяці тому
Neil Strauss and the Game book got me started on my debaucherous journey through my twenties. Love him, and the people that created that science. Im married now with a kid on the way. This was the best content you've put out.
@fotiniPMT6171
@fotiniPMT6171 2 місяці тому
You rock! Great work! And... i wish you to find your mate! Soon!
@endlich.ich.academy
@endlich.ich.academy Місяць тому
what the..! I want to see the outcome! Give me a happy ending... I enjoyed watching this a lot, the down to earth Tim Ferris and the very interesting approaches. I want to become a pick up artist now! 😀
@hombrealagua
@hombrealagua 2 місяці тому
OK, Dear Tim, I'm halfway the video and this is painful to watch. I think dating is one of those things that you can't really deconstruct, strategize or over-intellectualize. I'm thinking at this point about for example those UKpostsrs that just go out there and talk to a girl and ask for the phone just because they like her. That's what worked for me, just being brutally honest, girls or women like when someone has confidence and determination, it makes them feel good as well as of course telling them what they like to listen, but this has to be honest, not a strategy! This is how I met most of my girlfriends and this is how I met my wife, I actually met her at a classroom and I asked her in front of everyone what was her favorite movie Director and favorite music group, just like that, freaky I know, but eventually she married me. Just go out, forget about apps, that is not going to end well, the normal process of dating and meeting someone has to be natural unless you want to date a robot, then go to Tinder, the best example in movies is a little bit corny but it's the scene in Meet Joe Black of how they meet. It's like that. Cheers!
@Tomsonx232
@Tomsonx232 2 місяці тому
every single human to human interaction can be deconstructed and better understood... you would think comedians are just people who get up on a stage and they just "be funny" but they craft their routine down to a science, they look back at tape and see what works and what doesn't... that being said yeah I think the in-person pickup part of the video missed a lot of important points (such as addressing the approach anxiety)
@sanne5412
@sanne5412 2 місяці тому
Did not expect a meet Joe Black reference ❤
@kylenummela1623
@kylenummela1623 2 місяці тому
Michael Scott - Casino Night 😂
@reflect001
@reflect001 2 місяці тому
🤣🤣🤣
@dadnumber1140
@dadnumber1140 23 дні тому
I can’t imagine you having a hard time getting a date. You have been doing podcasts and your life experiences is more than 10 average people. Your books are awesome. And the game is the one book that changed my life for the better. NLP not the AI type. Sammy’s interview on darknet diaries was awesome. You’re a lucky man Tim to have made such a great life. It might be that your alway into something and no time for a relationship
@mattlovelace6610
@mattlovelace6610 2 місяці тому
Love this series. Keep it up Tim ❤
@teeb1044
@teeb1044 2 місяці тому
It's an old series.
@NigelNoriega
@NigelNoriega 2 місяці тому
I'm a big Tim Ferris fan, but a lot of his first steps seem "cringey" enough to not be repeatable. For example, the first step to dating being to consult a hacker who was previously banned by the feds.. Geez, that's romantic. All in the name of data collection 😆
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow
@MakeYouFeelBetterNow 24 дні тому
At the hacker part, I just rolled my eyes too, and I am someone who could probably implement that strategy. It's kind of worthless strategy though, timing is everything.
@Rithmy
@Rithmy 2 місяці тому
"whats measured, gets managed" - does not apply to things that are completly or partially out of your locus of control. Dating is partially out of your control. So measuring provides insight but not much management. Stil usefull tho.
@russellrobert6084
@russellrobert6084 23 дні тому
Guys, I'm in my 60ies and the best approach is to be direct. My favorite line is What are you going to make with that... be it food, crafts, hobbies... works every time.
@whynot8082
@whynot8082 15 днів тому
Cripes I think I was more nervous than he was just watching
@lukasa6374
@lukasa6374 20 днів тому
Shirtless photos with cats seem odd no? lol
@donnawoodford8145
@donnawoodford8145 9 днів тому
Cringe.🧐
@darthvader1656
@darthvader1656 2 місяці тому
Is this a new show? It feels like it’s at least 10 years old, but it’s good though
@wagmi614
@wagmi614 2 місяці тому
it is very very old before the youtube geneation
@LukePiala
@LukePiala 2 місяці тому
Around 2013-14
@rahulgemnani
@rahulgemnani 2 місяці тому
​@wagmi614 how can i see its other episodes?
@darthvader1656
@darthvader1656 2 місяці тому
@@rahulgemnani ukposts.info/slow/PLuu6fDad2eJwnly_hEdir9biYcpG_MKMd&si=uDEpF8dnqQIoSRRO
@wagmi614
@wagmi614 2 місяці тому
@@rahulgemnani the latest videos with similar thumbnails on his channel are from the same show
@urielisraelarandagonzales3617
@urielisraelarandagonzales3617 2 місяці тому
Going on so many first dates would give me nightmare fuel, mad respect.
@wealthgenerationstrategies
@wealthgenerationstrategies 23 дні тому
Intellectual compatibility is actually a great way to go. I became attracted to my wife of over 30 years not by looks but by personality. It helped that she was pretty, for sure, but I didn't become attracted to her until we really started to talk and get to know each other.
@LostYogi
@LostYogi Місяць тому
It must be hard finding a date when you are a rich good-looking successful writer celebrity 😅I can imagine that it could be hard finding true love though
@s1n4m1n
@s1n4m1n 25 днів тому
Yeah you can tell from the way he pulled together his 20 men and women friends for a cocktail party at the end that he had a difficult time finding a date. He seems like a great guy, there is no reason to pull the “if I could just get a date” shtick.
@vidbot4037
@vidbot4037 25 днів тому
If this guy is single, we're cooked...
@richardpellis
@richardpellis 22 дні тому
Heck, I get anxious just watching you trying to do the IRL approach.
@JohnHansknecht
@JohnHansknecht 19 днів тому
I was waiting for the cat fight at the cocktail party.
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