I spent a day with KIDNAPPING SURVIVORS
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День томуI spent a day with kidnapping survivors to learn about their horrifying experiences and how their lives have changed since escaping.
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❌KIDNAPPING RESOURCES
▸ If you think you may have seen, or know information about a missing child, please report it immediately at: report.cybertip.org
▸ Program for Preventing Abduction: idsmartz.org
▸ Services and Support to Resolve Missing Persons Cases: namus.gov
▸ Staying Safe on the Internet: aliciaproject.org/internet-saf...
🧨HUGE thank you to:
▸ JAN BROBERG - / janibroberg , / janbroberg
▸ ALICIA KOZAK - / itsaliciakozak , aliciakozak.com
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▸ SURVIVORS OF POLICE BRUTALITY - • I spent a day with SUR...
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▸ Creator, Director, Writer, etc. - Anthony Padilla
▸ Production Coordinator, Co-writer & Research - Elise Felber
▸ Executive Producer - Alessandra Catanese
▸ Director of Photography/Gaffer - Zach Zeidman
▸ Editor - Mike Criscimagna
▸ Assistant Editor - Patrick Horba
🎵Theme Music Composer - Matt Good AKA The King of Emo
🖼Portrait painted by: Rhianna Robles - / zerogattsu
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@AnthonyPadilla 3 роки тому
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@leahstarz2345 3 роки тому
HI ( I was first lol)
@emielbouckaert1520 3 роки тому
Ok sounds good
@jdwmyt 3 роки тому
Q: How does the ocean say hello? A: It waves.
@jakevanduine 3 роки тому
YAY
@mehcomix4361 3 роки тому
Ooh that’ll be so cool!
@darkswarn 3 роки тому
only 4 ?! How dare everyone who says that. I saw and interview about a woman being abducted for "only" 8 hours in these 8 hours he tried to drown her 4 times, raped her multiple times, choked her, beat her so all her rips were broken and she had inner bleeding plus multiple fractures..again in "only" 8 hours. Image having to go through this for 4!! days
@PopsJoe 3 роки тому
That would even feel longer. Imagine waiting 10 mins while bored, it feels longer than it should be. More so when you are in a dangerous situation without any guarantee of escape. Every hour would feel like an eternity, it would would be scarring mentally and emotionally. What really sucks after this is you'll never be the same after these kind of incidents.
@ladymercy5275 3 роки тому
They were trying to help the person move on, emotionally. Your outrage makes you feel exhilarated, and is predicated on a lack of empathy, ironically.
@starrynight1165 3 роки тому
@@ladymercy5275 what are you on? Invalidating someones trauma isnt going to help them get over it, itll just make them feel worse.
@pearl92391 3 роки тому
Yeah, 4 days isnt nothing.
@ImBlueDaBaDeeDaBaDaa 3 роки тому
Yeah, time means nothing if you're put in a stressful, painful situation. It doesn't matter if it's a few days, or even a few minutes, or even a few SECONDS. In that moment, every single second is horrible, and intensified. Every moment dragged out to seem like it lasts longer. The fear stays with you, changes you. People who told her that to her face clearly don't understand, and they don't care to either.
@mattayotte8681 3 роки тому
Saying “iT wAs oNlY fOuR daYs” is like saying they only cut off your feet and only ONE of your hands you have your other hand your fine
@bois-se8id 3 роки тому
When did he say that
@Lore.n 3 роки тому
SADBOYS production he never did, she’s saying that people who told her that
@strudel3200 3 роки тому
@@bois-se8id its just an example.
@satanssweetheart8197 3 роки тому
SADBOYS production it’s just an example
@rooracleaf561 3 роки тому
Would you rather spend four days in an unfamiliar place, or PERMANENTLY lose 3 pretty important body parts. It really isn’t the same. Yes, it would be better if they never went at all, but leaving with all your limbs after a 4 day stay with a stranger is much better than dying
@kittyratrawr Рік тому
Those jail times make me sick. 19 days. Kidnapping and violating a CHILD should be at the LEAST like 50 years. Absolutely unforgivable.
@marissa._ Рік тому
It should be death penalty!
@kittyratrawr Рік тому
@@marissa._ i'm fine with that!
@xarathos5168 Рік тому
Anyone who would sexually assault a child deserves a painful death
@manojayyappan2970 Рік тому
no it should be life in prison
@Pxndorassx Рік тому
Atleast 20 badgillion years😻😻😻😻
@briannalee1998 Рік тому
Once a creep kidnaps a child, they should NEVER be released from jail.
@Colecruzin Рік тому
Afuckinmen
@Chocolicious_Star Рік тому
and should be tortured very badly (:
@sighems Рік тому
LITERALLY… nobody would change after willingly kidnapping
@shloprop4751 Рік тому
At a minimum they should never be let out ever.
@Spinzgoat Рік тому
@@PydroAJ kidnapping doesnt mean rape, torture or any of those things you listed its just taking someone hostage
@jay-xl1vd 3 роки тому
4 days- that's 96 hours of just torture and abuse....people are so ignorant i swear
@jakeknight9885 3 роки тому
Fr. 8 seconds is incredibly long for bull riders. Imagine 96 hours of torture 😣
@alessandrahernandez7016 3 роки тому
Ong I wouldn’t even last an hour
@masonm4925 3 роки тому
jordan it's not 96 hours strait but yes it's annoying they say it like it's nothing
@jasdil7928 3 роки тому
Time
@fredericliebert4099 3 роки тому
Wait who The fuck said tuhat wasnt a Lontoon time
@camilachavez1791 3 роки тому
Once my therapist said to me. “Trauma might have been a few hours or even a few days, but for trauma survivors it is like a million years long. Your brain keeps repeating that event pretty much everyday and you keep reliving which makes it feel like that”
@yiting7456 3 роки тому
🤯
@careygrubb6649 3 роки тому
So true ❤️
@alaskankara 3 роки тому
Trauma could also be a few seconds for all that matter. A car accident, an explosion... I've been through a very bad earthquake that damaged my house quite a lot 4 years ago: it lasted less than a minute but I still have ptsd from it
@starzforever7905 3 роки тому
Camila Chávez That’s basically PTSD
@a_gurl596 3 роки тому
Basically: ADHD
@williamhunt704 Рік тому
Imagine going through major rape or sexual assault, and people say," It was for only 4 days. It wasnt THAT bad." It doesnt matter how long it is,it is of the trauma that the victim has
@YukiSilverFox72 Рік тому
Yeah, like when someone says they are wary of dogs because one bit them in the past. A bite/attack can range from moments to a few minutes. Or even a car crash. These events can happen so fast but leave years of trauma to resolve. People drown in 3 feet of water and in 10 feet and so on. Don't discount what has happened to a person.
@DAREDEVIL-dm4yh Рік тому
What kind of people are they??? Man 😔😔
@EggsToYourBacon Рік тому
@@YukiSilverFox72 Exactly. The most traumatic experience of my life only lasted about 10 minutes, but it took me almost 10 *years* to start recovering.
@asshatslovejohnnydeppjohnn8377 10 місяців тому
-come over and see ‘johnny depp harrrases women online absolute proof’
@armdick1801 10 місяців тому
No like being r3ped once is horrible in itself but over and over for 4 days where you can’t escape and then someone has the audacity to say it wasn’t that bad what the actual hell is wrong is people
@Some1_357 Рік тому
“4 days ain’t that bad” I can’t believe there’s people like that. I bet they would be crying and sobbing from just a couple minutes of what they went through.
@BobBob-vy9ds Рік тому
Yeah, a lot of the times when ever I think of someone going through a r@p3 then I forget and often times am in disbelief that it could really only last less than ten minutes sometimes, yet the person is still most likely scarred for life.
@Nekcrop 10 місяців тому
if I spent 20 minutes in a car being kidnapped I would literally shit myself
@FancyCat-jw2qz 9 місяців тому
@@NekcropIf I spent TWO SECONDS in a car being kiddnapped I’d pee and poop myself
@luna_elvenstar 3 місяці тому
FR the SECOND i am in that car i have passed out from terror😭😭😭
@m4R.s_222 3 роки тому
4 days is 96 hours 5760 minutes 345 600 seconds one second is enough to get one punch. let that sink in before saying it's not big.
@wockstarsavv 3 роки тому
thank you for this comment!
@Bella-fm4zx 3 роки тому
Hey is it okay if a put copy and paste? I am going make sure they know I copied and I found it from you I already have the comment made if you wanna see it but it is clear that I found it from you
@topaz6995 3 роки тому
345600 seconds. each one spent fearing for your life. who ever said or is saying "only 4 days?" needs to be more empathetic.
@reichr 3 роки тому
OML Thats actually true- maybe its actually 5 seconds but, yeah
@themadlad7051 3 роки тому
It can take less then a second to get punched accutally so its even worse, i hope these people who kidnapped them burn in hell
@najahw1566 3 роки тому
Pedophilia will never 👏🏾 be 👏🏾 a 👏🏾 sexuality 👏🏾.
@d5madeit 3 роки тому
its sad asf this world is literally legalizing it and making it normal
@alexisstormy 3 роки тому
Amen 🙏
@elisabethjones9576 3 роки тому
PERIOD
@JC-cn9yj 3 роки тому
Sometimes on rare scenarios people don’t act on being sexually attracted to kids but like so rare it should not be legal period
@PastelFire99 3 роки тому
Children cannot consent. That isn’t an opinion, it is a FACT.
@jdot3345 Рік тому
I know this video is old, but as a survivor of kidnap & rape by multiple people (including family members) I have to say I am incredibly proud of what the 2 women have done. My long, multi-year story isn’t public & never covered by the news, so I don’t know what it would be like to deal with the emotional trauma in a public way, but I do know how I dealt with it in a very private, hush-hush environment. My trauma wasn’t recognized, nor was there any justice served. I was shamed as a child if I mentioned anything about what I went through. In fact, in January of this year (2022) did I finally admit to someone what I went through. While I have openly talked about a few things, I’d hid the entire horror from my husband, kids & friends. I appreciate you supporting surviving champions who have been through living hell & came out with a an immeasurable about of strength, grace, empathy & resilience in order to help others understand how to do the same, no matter their story or own experience.
@icyhot9850 Рік тому
I'm so proud of you for continuing on with your life and for continuing to do so. It's terrible you went through that, and I'm so sorry it all happened. But I'm glad you can open up about it now and heal further. Thank you for living, internet stranger :)
@blorblin Рік тому
You are so strong and I hope you can live your life freely from now on.
@jdot3345 Рік тому
@@icyhot9850 Thank you friendly stranger! There are no words that can ever express how appreciative I am for the kindness, support! Thank you
@jdot3345 Рік тому
@@blorblin Thank You so much! After finally opening up about what happened, I definitely noticed a more positive shift within myself & my relationships which is amazing!
@Diana3229 Рік тому
Can’t imagine how incredibly difficult that must have been. I hope you are in a better environment and can continue to heal. Sending love your way ❣️
@SkrymNV Рік тому
When i was 15 i met a girl online. We started talking and she said something along the lines of "we should meet up in person". I was seriously debating it but decided against it in the end. I don't know if this was a dangerous person or if this really was the girl like she said. If my parents didn't teach me about internet safety i'm pretty sure i would have gone. Knowledge is power.
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Рік тому
in 2020 i talked to this boy on playstation messages, (his voice sounded maybe 16) and we never really talked much and when locations were mentioned, he said his actual state but i said a general location (north/south/east/west) and i never even specified in what country either but then my father found out and i lost all devices up until the middle of 2021 that time alone was filled with the most crippling depression i’ve ever felt, but it was for the best, i guess
@goofyahh_9215 Рік тому
My dad once told me even if the person IS who they say they are its not worth risking it because it could cost your life
@cooldog69 Рік тому
W parents
@porfiriato84 10 місяців тому
Dude I'm surprised I never got catfished or got in any danger after meeting so many girls thru dating apps. I don't do that anymore but yeah you just never know. So many creeps out there
@Annie-kj4kf 3 роки тому
“Just four days? That’s not that bad!” This is the problem I have with today’s society. No amount of trauma is bad enough. We downplay and compare every incident.
@agaz2272 3 роки тому
It is so retarded to measure drama with a certain amount of time. Jesus Christ. Agree 100%
@starfruit3575 3 роки тому
AG AZ don’t say the r slur!! It’s ableist
@Iiterally 3 роки тому
So freaking dismissive. “4 days??? That’s not bad.” If you were held captive in a dungeon, deprived of socialising and sunlight, and then r*p*d against your own will... 4 days will feel like 4 years.
@gachaeris9732 3 роки тому
star_fruit Retarded isn’t a bad word so many people saw there a words that people say that are worse
@adrienagreste1762 3 роки тому
I think 4 days is horrible even an hour could be horrible
@DB-wb1tz 3 роки тому
If someone told me “Just 4 days?” I would have responded with “Well, how many days have you spent in a strangers basement getting tortured and sexually assaulted?”
@PusheenPoprocksIsTired 3 роки тому
I know right??? Like, excuse me, have you gone through the situation? No, you haven't, so stop pretending like it's no big deal. People can be such idiots.
@MADEbySOUL 3 роки тому
Say “rape” for some reason “sexual assault” makes people not take it seriously.
@meyu1468 3 роки тому
Sirama This. I despise when people label something like forcing a peck on someone’s lips as sexual assault. Was it not good to do? Yes. But was it sexual assault? Absolutely fucking not. It gets downplayed so damn much that talking about rape even sounds like a joke. People literally use rape as a joke these days, like “don’t turn around or i’ll rape u”. I can’t take it, it’s so fucking insensitive.
@leamartin8392 3 роки тому
Right? 4 days must seem like a lifetime, when you don’t know if you are going to live or die. Being terrified for every single second of that time must really mess with your head.
@brittanyboudreau3514 3 роки тому
Seriously!? Could you imagine someone just torturing you for even an hour?
@oliviapasquarelli99 9 місяців тому
When I was 13, my best friends older brother, who was a decade older than me, attempted to convince me to sneak out and get in his car via AIM messenger. I almost did. At 13, I thought it was cool that someone older would want to ‘hang out’ with me. When I look back on it, it gives me goosebumps imagining what could’ve happened. I wish I had more knowledge about how to interact with people online. I can’t blame my parents because at that time, the internet was so new.
@certifiedgreg_rose 9 місяців тому
Thank god you didn't get in that car.
@obzidian3746 5 місяців тому
Or maybe he really wanted to hang out🤷♂️
@char6081 4 місяці тому
@@obzidian3746shut up
@the1Goatee 2 місяці тому
@@obzidian3746 💀
@EditorRosalind 2 місяці тому
@@obzidian3746 😶😶😦😶
@Kaylee.lastname Рік тому
As a SA survivor, Every minute that things went on, was a minute too long. It’s absurd that someone would say that four days being KIDNAPPED, TORTURED, and ASSAULTED isn’t “that bad”. And it was live streamed? The hell. The ignorance of some people
@missmadison9258 3 роки тому
I can’t believe someone actually told Alicia that “oh four days isn’t that bad/long.” Trauma doesn’t have a shelf life.
@TestChannelOfcourse 3 роки тому
Yes it does
@zenzonerzz4789 3 роки тому
@@TestChannelOfcourse no, it really doesn't...
@missmadison9258 3 роки тому
FamousBump Elaborate.
@zachbocchino5501 3 роки тому
People who think that a minute is fast they clearly have not done a plank. Some people are idiots.
@mono8476 3 роки тому
I mean, when u compare it to people who hv been kept it captivity for months or longer (like jaycee dugard), then yea. But in no way am i discrediting wat she went thru. Im just saying theres worse out there EDIT: btw im not referring to the trauma. Im referring to the sentence in commas
@CC-tc7fp 3 роки тому
It doesn’t matter if you were kidnapped for an hour, a day, or a year. Being KIDNAPPED is terrifying and horrible.
@amethystt_ 3 роки тому
exactly.
@landonkuenzi8330 3 роки тому
Yyyyeeeeeeeessssssss
@mattheo4709 3 роки тому
Exactly
@reynakondaveeti8346 3 роки тому
Exactly it’s a traumatic experience that I would imagine you won’t forget
@shutupidiot4006 3 роки тому
Yea and the kidnappers should be torture just like they did to them
@bakon1210 Рік тому
this is the most terrifying video i've watched compared to the nutty putty cave incident. i don't EVER wanna trust strangers. i feel so bad for Alicia too, she got rap*d and tortured, it was terrifying to listen. i learned from this video, i'm never letting go of anyone i know and love.
@Jappa3 Рік тому
Oh yeah I remember the nutty putty cave incident…
@bakon1210 Рік тому
holy crap 101 likes?
@darkthu_draws Рік тому
@@Jappa3 the hell is that
@Jappa3 Рік тому
@@darkthu_draws some dude got trapped in a cave upside down in this very narrow area, he was stuck for days until he eventually passed away. Dude was an experienced cave explorer whilst also being pretty flexible, which is the reason why very few people even managed to reach him
@darkthu_draws Рік тому
@@Jappa3 ye I just watched it I was curious, that thing is scary
@remirusaiki Рік тому
"I didn't know that I wasn't the only 'special one' that grandpa had." This shot chills down my spine...
@Dreamingforinfinity456 9 днів тому
Honestly But what exactly did he mean when he said “special one”
@RoyalRoses 3 роки тому
Who ever told that brave woman, "4 days?? Thats not that bad!" Is a rotten and sick person.
@mcnugsbitch7266 3 роки тому
I wouldn’t say that. I think they just don’t understand because they haven’t experienced anything like it
@Bilbosh4ggins 3 роки тому
They’re probably 12 ur olds that think they can say anything bc “it’s just a word”
@bhavikakosambia3307 3 роки тому
I'm a little scared tht they had to suffer much longer and thts why 4 days seems less?
@Bilbosh4ggins 3 роки тому
bhavika Kosambia r u saying that bc of longer experiences 4 days seem less?
@TheseUseless 3 роки тому
The majority of kidnapping victims will be dead, by then.
@nyah6987 3 роки тому
Why would someone ever say "only four days" like that's fucking disusing .
@cloudedcreator 3 роки тому
Right
@ktvvitch8323 3 роки тому
I agree, she was terrified for her life... she knew the day she was rescued that she was going to die.... don’t down play the trauma she went through by saying “only _ amount of days”... the time period doesn’t matter, it was traumatizing and shouldn’t have happened..... PERIOD
@yea9677 3 роки тому
It’s only four fays
@lily_Hef 3 роки тому
@@yea9677 are you kidding me?! Four days is a long time. For you to even comment that is disgusting
@bbycheetahgirl 3 роки тому
@@yea9677 you can't even spell right so you're clearly not educated
@codigutierrez5281 Рік тому
I haven't been kidnapped, but I have been a victim of brutal abuse, sex trafficking, torture, neglect, and a list of other things. And what I gotta say for those who wanna victim blame and for those who want to minimize or degrade all of us who went through those traumas and traumas of all sorts, walk in our shoes for the amount of years, months, hours, even minutes of the trauma we've faced. People need to be aware of these things and need to be taught how to avoid being in these situations. These girls are heroes in my eyes. They deserve every inch of respect. They are trying to make a difference for this world by talking about what they went through and teaching kids and adults how they can avoid these experiences. These women are brave. They don't just speak for themselves, and they don't just speak for other survivors of kidnapping, but they speak for all of us who went through some serious trauma and are our voices. For that, I thank them very much.
@goodnightkaden Рік тому
I’m honestly in constant fear of being kidnapped. I side-eye people suspiciously when my gut and intuition says to, I stay away from creeps, I watch true crime to defend myself, and then hearing voices who speak out about educate me. Hope these women are doing okay.
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Рік тому
my father has been teaching both me and my brother self defense at the gym i’m so grateful for him for that, i know not everyone has that
@elvenkind6072 14 днів тому
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Great dad. I've been thinking of figuring out some way to make my son join a self-defense thing of some sort, because he's a fragile, very kind and good nature and have Asperger, but with low self confidence I think.. I've been training HEMA (Historical European Martial Arts), and can probably knock out almost anyone if I just have a stick or similar, it get built into muscle memory, and tried to bring him once, but he thought it was scary with the swords, and perhaps too rough for him. Do you have any advice of what made you interested in it?
@honeybakedkae 3 роки тому
“4 days? that’s not that’s bad!” most abducted children are murdered within 24 hours of being taken so like... 4 days is actually REALLY bad
@eclipseisbmyt666 3 роки тому
It was like a slow murderer
@MN-ys2pe 3 роки тому
Even worse most places don't take missing reports until its been after 24 hours since the person has gone missing. I'm not sure about this though I've just heard it somewhere
@eclipseisbmyt666 3 роки тому
Hay Thi That is only a myth, however I believe that myth is starting to become a fact...
@BecBoops 3 роки тому
@@MN-ys2pe this is not true for missing kids
@MN-ys2pe 3 роки тому
@@eclipseisbmyt666 I hope it stays a myth and not become reality
@sarahmichelle1006 3 роки тому
CHILDREN CANNOT AND WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONSENT TO ANY ADULT SEXUAL ACTIVITY.
@Shadow-vd7es 3 роки тому
And that’s a fact
@anderson-skatervibe775 3 роки тому
@@Shadow-vd7es nice
@theunicorn1167 3 роки тому
Period.
@MrSlimeMan01 3 роки тому
Fax
@monbub 3 роки тому
Amen.
@stillakilla3598 Рік тому
One thing about when you are kidnapped, yeah it may have only been hours, but it may have felt like days, and if has been at least 48-72+ hours, then it seems like the days merge, and the only things you can really think about is death, hope, and the how helpless you are. Its a sad, painful, traumatic experience.
@vecina_101 Рік тому
Yup I agree and it’s true. When it happened to me all I could think about was if I would be killed and all I did was pray. Also yea even a couple hours can seem like years and years.
@blisserio Рік тому
The fact that it was all live streamed is traumatizing yet it was her life savor.
@katie3250 3 роки тому
why is no one talking about the fact that the kidnappers got like NO JAIL TIME
@K.Adler1120 3 роки тому
It pisses me off too much to even think about it....
@urdaddy8801 3 роки тому
It's becuase the cjs look out for their own. Why do you think rich people get like no jail time? They're also rich. Same with rapists.
@strawberrymilkshake9074 3 роки тому
@@davidela9022 all child molester and rapist, once undeniable proof is given, should have an immediate bullet to the head! Natural selection. Then they can't ever hurt anyone again. And people will be deterred from doing it. People will continue to do this if they know they'll be out of prison in no time.
@Kelslshea 3 роки тому
Strawberry Milkshake in my opinion, that’s the easy way out. I respect your opinion, but pedophiles get treated so poorly in prison (as they should) and I feel like it’s much better for them to have to go through the torture that they put on others.
@Kelslshea 3 роки тому
david Ela I respect your opinion as well my dude(:
@wonderverse9 3 роки тому
19 DAYS FOR KIDNAPPING A CHILD FOR 4 YEARS? WHAT THE HELL-
@samb2814 3 роки тому
ikr
@savageskittlez4896 3 роки тому
They should get 50 to life
@milknotes9918 3 роки тому
WHAT THE HELL
@akiramireina1244 3 роки тому
IKR TF
@Its-kien 3 роки тому
like i don't understand why people just wanna make people lives worst and just kidnapped them like ugh-
@yeeeeeet3498 Рік тому
As a kidnapping survivor myself. This video was so well done and well handled by Anthony and it felt so nice to watch this and feel less alone in such a scary world. Sometimes I watch back at this video again for the comfort. Thank you Anthony ❤️
@Siimplyhyuka 2 місяці тому
"it was just 4 days" 4 days and a lifetime of trauma.
@floweringtowers 3 роки тому
Who tf?? Bro I was raped and it wasn’t even an hour. How dare anyone say, “Four days? That’s not that bad.” WTF
@shirazens 3 роки тому
floweringtowers. That’s fucking horrible. I’m so sorry that happened to you.
@probsjosh631 3 роки тому
that's fucking awful, I hope youre alright homegirl
@lolaweeb4672 3 роки тому
I got so frustrated ...I was raped too❤
@jt-tq8lz 3 роки тому
I’m so sorry, torture is torture, no matter how long.
@anicoleww 3 роки тому
That’s completely awful for someone to even THINK, but to SAY it to THE PERSON ... omg.. 🤬 ..I was raped almost 7 years ago on my birthday (and he’s still out there). It was horrific and I know what she means about year after year expecting something that’s *supposed* to be a happy occasion, but instead it brings up pain and memories of the horror you lived thru, the fear, and the confusion of all those feelings.. its enough to swear off birthdays ~or ever even leaving the house~ *forever* . Hopefully that POS will *not* be released on her birthday and she won’t have to live thru that, on top of everything she’s already been thru! 🙏🏻 I feel like people that say things like “four days, not that bad..” CLEARLY have no sense of reality ... and I’m so sorry to you @floweringtowers. and all the other women (and men) out there that have been raped, kidnapped, or abused by someone. The fact that you are here and are able to read this means that you are NOT a VICTIM ANYMORE and you DESERVE EVERYTHING GOOD that the world has to offer you, and *so much more* !! I know it’s not easy .. Please stay strong and try not to ever feel alone! You are not alone! You are a survivor and you are SO STRONG!! 💗💗💗💗💗💗
@decaf-but-tired6488 3 роки тому
For reference to people who say “4 days isn’t that bad”: Sexual assault can happen in seconds, and that can be a life altering event. Imagine how much assault can happen in in 4 days, even one.
@LeneChibi 3 роки тому
My trauma happened in 10 minutes. I can't even imagine what it's like to endure even 4 days of torture. My heart is broken, I want to protect all of them :(
@decaf-but-tired6488 3 роки тому
LeneChibi I’m so sorry that happened to you!
@iamkitty1192 3 роки тому
Ray Of Fucking Sunshine oh my gosh that’s horrible
@DesertThorns 3 роки тому
Exactly, it only takes one moment to ruin a lifetime.
@someasiankid6323 3 роки тому
@@LeneChibi F
@echoeurope Рік тому
Giant respect to the victims that can tell about the experiences.
@ravengray3095 Рік тому
When I first started going online, my mom sat me down and drew a diagram with just two circles, one smaller and inside the larger. She said “the smaller circle is the people you can tell everything to, inside the bigger circle is things you tell some people but not others, and outside the circle is people you can’t share anything with.” Then she had me go through and put a dot for where family fell on that scale, friends, and online friends. When I was done she explained the dangers of meeting people online and made sure I was aware that I can’t tell people online anything that could lead them to me. I think that every parent needs to have this conversation with their kid
@luciddreams4091 3 роки тому
“iT wAs OnLy FoUr DaYs” yeah four straight days of torture. That’s nothing! Only 96 hours of T O R T U R E. why would anyone say that that’s so stupid
@annaairahala9462 3 роки тому
Imagine saying to a rape survivor "Oh it was only 15 minutes, it wasn't that bad" She was gone for 4 days, FOUR DAYS, that's not a short amount of time nor does it make it any lesser.
@Claudiris 3 роки тому
@@seanraftree5905 You're misunderstanding the comment. @LucidDreams said how the people who say "it was only four days" are horrible human beings, and that they don't agree with the statement.
@pooew 3 роки тому
He might of sexually abused her, and he definitely could of killed her. That four days probably felt like a month..
@MaxStoryTeller92 3 роки тому
Because of the fact that people LOVES to remind you that, somewhere else, there's people suffering more than you.
@voorhees7275 3 роки тому
As a CHILD
@notrlysuretbh 3 роки тому
That one girl, not only was she kidnapped, but tortured. I can imagine how much that destroyed her. Mentally and physically. Thank god for that man who recognized her. Who tf would respond with “ONLY 4 DAYS?!” someone was tortured and almost killed. And THAT is your response?!
@anonymousmoose193 3 роки тому
StrawberryCowCharlotte wait who said “only four days”
@Arasie_Saros 3 роки тому
@@anonymousmoose193 some random person said that to her. Idk how someone can be okay with saying that.
@mogbama 3 роки тому
they forget she was literally 13
@atarice8897 3 роки тому
EXACTLY
@haleybutler5796 3 роки тому
Who tf is that dubm like omfg it was probably the worst four days of her life like i cant imagine how hard that was i feel so bad omg
@fusi0nv1ds Рік тому
It is so traumatising to think there is at least, AT LEAST 70,000 CHILDREN are missing as we speak💔 They will be in my prayers
@lesleyella Рік тому
I remember being groomed by lots of men when I was 12 (2009) it really is scary. Luckily I didn't meet anyone as they didn't show up and I went with my friend to the cinema so I wasn't alone and another time my mum read the messages and called the police to protect me but they definitely sent extremely explicit messages and showed explicit things on camera as well as asking me to. I feel lucky for never being captured physically but it's still traumatising and I can't imagine the fear these women felt, I'm so happy to see them thriving now.
@abigailcanales5590 3 роки тому
Im sorry, LESS THAN A YEAR FOR REPETEDLY RAPING A CHILD?!?!?! I can't even fathom how that judgement could be just in any way.
@crystalwolcott4744 3 роки тому
It's so messed up. I can't even press charges against the man who repeatedly sexually assaulted me as a child because, get this, the statute of limitations is 7 years in my state. Seven years after he stopped he still had complete control over me financially and since I was still a child I wasn't even fully aware that what he had done was wrong.
@supergabee 3 роки тому
Crystal Wolcott I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I hope that you were able to get help to deal with that and that you are able to have an absolutely beautiful life from now own.
@keylimetea 3 роки тому
Rape charges aren’t taken seriously enough and neither are pedo charges... like they should get the death sentence
@tibetanmonk385 3 роки тому
Welcome to the American justice system
@youratowel97 3 роки тому
Crystal Wolcott I’m so sorry that happened to you.. I hope you’re in a better place. ♥️
@d3adyoutubeaccount 3 роки тому
To all the toxic people who say “only four days” it was four days of hell.
@julietphilips2329 3 роки тому
who is even saying four days
@julietphilips2329 3 роки тому
who is even saying four days
@d3adyoutubeaccount 3 роки тому
tiffany philips Watch the video first Moron
@aang3267 3 роки тому
The people saying those things deserve 4 days in hell
@elizabethbooknerd5429 3 роки тому
4 days too long
@marcc.2365 Рік тому
Hearing this is so disturbing. I hate the feeling, and I can’t see these things too often. Alicia and Jan are so strong.
@miyaibrahim5744 Рік тому
I'm so inspired by Alicia and Jan for being strong enough to come out and speak about that in this video. Alicia is honestly working so hard to prevent others from experiencing what she did, because she went through it and no one deserves to go through what these brave women went through. Lots of love to anyone who went through such a thing, you don't deserve it and if you haven't overcome it yet (which is a huge step) then I hope you do.
@maturelydisapointingmember2699 3 роки тому
4 days. 4 straight days. That is a LONG ass time. 4 days is 96 hours. 96 hours is 5760 minutes. 5760 minutes without love, a family, pain. And she was a *child* I'm sure every minute felt like an hour. Every second passing by, and it feels like you're never going to go home. And to ever blame these people for what they had to go through is disgusting. These woman are strong, and empowering, and brilliant. Never downplay a persons suffering, ever.
@zootednoodle2639 3 роки тому
this comment deserves more likes.
@s0lastsummer7 3 роки тому
Exactly, EXACTLY. She had no idea she was going to be saved. She thought she had more time before her own murder, but she thought that time was going to be spent being tormented and raped indefinitely. The strength and courage that young girl showed.... to fight strategically for more time, knowing that time would be the worst time of her life.... wow. Powerful.
@Ax00xL 3 роки тому
I remember watching an interview with a guy who was kidnapped for "only" 40 hours here on youtube and I remember seeing some salty comment about how that's not even 2 full days and the guy's a pussy, because I guess man aren't supposed to get hurt by this? Seriously, the length of it or their gender shouldn't invalidate anyone's trauma.
@dskshs 3 роки тому
also, she didn’t know how long she would be there and that just is worse
@katharine8006 3 роки тому
@@Ax00xL I agree. A lot of times, men have their emotions invalidated because of their gender. I feel like it's way too often that men who are sexual assault survivors or just assault survivors in general feel like they aren't allowed to be upset about it because "men are supposed to be strong" or even worse "emotions are for women!"
@carltonbanks2351 3 роки тому
"He's going to be released next year on my birthday" I can't imagine the anger and the pain she must feel toward the system. I have no words, this is disgusting.
@nopenopeson2370 3 роки тому
I literally tore up. The system is fucked man
@cecefernandes5657 3 роки тому
Even I'm so angry and upset over it so I can't even begin to imagine how she could be feeling towards it. It's deeper in than heartbreak and terror....💔
@ThatCuriousArtist 3 роки тому
The death penalty has a place.
@carltonbanks2351 3 роки тому
@@ThatCuriousArtist I'm normally against but I'm not even going to argue on that, some people just deserve hell.
@cloudyisaliveandhere 3 роки тому
God...and on your birthday? Not a good gift at all...
@isabellarobinson6082 Рік тому
Here's a tip: if your a teen and you want to meet an online friend irl, have an adult and/or a group of your friends go with you. If they don't have ill intent then you can introduce them to some people in your life, no harm no fowl, and if they do have ill intent their likely to not do anything if you're not alone.
@chrisgomez1840 Місяць тому
another tip:be careful wat info u give to strangers online they can use dat against u
@Stepdilf 8 місяців тому
I was 9 when a middle aged man approached me in a coach parking lot in KL asking me to help him with luggage. My gut told me to find my mom. It’s unbelievable how my life could’ve ended at the age of 9
@alisea..7250 3 роки тому
I hate that people actually say stuff like “It was only 4 days”. It doesn’t matter if it was a few minutes, a few hours, or a few days, it’s still a very scary and certainly traumatic experience. A lot can happen in a few minutes and she was there for 4 days! These ladies are so strong, I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to be abducted and feel that sense of hopelessness and not knowing what’s going to happen next.
@anshsrivastava3293 3 роки тому
Yeah. Death can happen in a few seconds
@sumacberry 3 роки тому
Who tf even says that- "only" 4 days- this one of the major reasons why people are afraid of opening up.
@minikawaiiworld3429 3 роки тому
So true...i feel when ppl are ignorant they need a taste or wakeup call. Though I don't wish that on anyone.
@thatgirl4652 3 роки тому
Ikr they annoy me so much. The worst part about judging someone is that you can never know what they went through. You always tend to imagine in the negative way.
@yopawpaw7408 3 роки тому
4 days..... do people not know how quick death is? It only takes a moment for people to decide to end your life even when its not your fault.
@-YourLocalHomosexual- Рік тому
Kidnapping is one of my biggest fears and it breaks my heart to see how much they suffered, I wasn’t “kidnapped“ but I was often trapped in a room with my abu$!ve boyfriend for many months every day. It makes me feel better that there are other people out there who have experienced it too. But I hate when people say “you have to forgive and forget“, So, I have to just ignore his touch every time I ever shower, or his glares whenever he sees me?! I hate these people. And “just four days?“ Just. Four. Days. Of. FVCKING. HELL!
@juliafalandocoisas Рік тому
You know, this is the second video I watch from this channel (the first one was about the morticians). At first I thought that it would be anoying because Antony seemed to me like someone who would try to make fun of the situation just to keep it "chill". I have been surprised with how sensible and gentle the conversations have been handled so far. Loving it!
@bh7742 3 роки тому
For the “only four days” people, remember, a thousand days of evasion is better than one day of captivity. Trust me.
@edelleaa 3 роки тому
to those people, i would like them to experience what she did just for 1 day since 4 isn't that bad, 1 must be easy for them...and see how not bad it'd going to be for the rest of their lives. obviously i don't really wish something like this to happen to anyone but comments like that are so incredibly ignorant i can't even believe it
@giornogiovanna4456 3 роки тому
@@edelleaa agreed
@Aiden-fb5rh 3 роки тому
Preach
@craftcorner3312 3 роки тому
Wats evasion )sorry about the speling)
@faithlynn821 3 роки тому
@@craftcorner3312 to evade something means to be free of it, to avoid it. in this context: evasion = freedom
@jacobjorgensen729 3 роки тому
The guy that got released early after raping, beating, kidnapping, and truly torturing someone, AND he was about to kill her, doesn’t deserve to breathe our air. Just my opinion.
@Julia33066 3 роки тому
I agree with your opinion
@messibessi11 3 роки тому
I agree... He needs to go to the kind of place Hitler would run...
@VuduHDD 3 роки тому
@@messibessi11 agreed our justice system is disgusting
@jaselliott3615 3 роки тому
I agree 100%
@sherlinaaurellia7838 3 роки тому
if someone doesnt even somewhat agree something is wrong with they way they view people
@miaalvandi Рік тому
It’s so incredible to watch these types of videos and see the kidnapping survivors point of view and see how they escaped and what happened to them!
@azulebabes9141 Рік тому
These two are so brave and inspirational...I cant even fathom how traumatic these experiences must have been
@ss-wg2ek 3 роки тому
Its disgusting how most people say, “getting robbed is worse than being raped”- Rape is worse because your traumatized by it, it sticks with you, Yes robbing someone is horrible but rape is worse, I know this has nothing to do with the video but I am just pointing out.
@unusedname2283 3 роки тому
Everything that happened is bad to someone in their own way. Doesn't matter what it is or how bad it is. We don't need to compare things that happened to you or that traumatized you. Yes a robbing is bad, and yes rape is bad. The ones that expierenced this know that what happened to them is worse in their own way and to their selfs. I rescued myself from being raped, yes it was absolutely traumatizing but it was traumatizing to ME. Something worse might've happened to someone but, i don't need to compare that. Because that thing i lived through is BAD to me and not to others.
@dcchaos6409 3 роки тому
Unless ur Bruce Wayne.
@Futures_End 3 роки тому
Who tf is "most people" here??????
@beeboo3910 3 роки тому
@@unusedname2283 rape is worse no doubt about it lol
@ivonastrukar4715 3 роки тому
If someone robbs you,they just take your property.If someone rapes you,they take your confidence and self-respect.
@reysay6974 3 роки тому
They actually made a Netflix documentary about Jan’s story called “Abducted in Plain Sight”. It explores her case much deeper and is honestly so sickening. I cannot imagine the trauma she must still live with...
@hollymaha4937 3 роки тому
I thought I recognised her story. wasn't there a whole thing about her kidnapper also romantically and sexually manipulating her parents so they allowed him to abuse her more.
@s0lastsummer7 3 роки тому
I'm sorry I gotta be that girl! I have it pulled up on my screen rn, and it's "Abducted in Plain Sight" although I guess perhaps it translates differently in other languages? Regardless, if you start searching Jan Broberg, it'll come up in the results so you can find it that way. 😊
@reysay6974 3 роки тому
s0lastsummer7 Oops sorry it is actually “Abducted in plain sight”. Thanks for the correction💖
@reysay6974 3 роки тому
TheBananaCat Absolutely agree! I’m sure she has forgiven her parents for everything and in the end it definitely is the perpetrator’s fault. But I cannot get over the fact that her parents were so passive in the whole situation, due to their own emotional dilemmas, that they failed to protect their own daughter from that sicko. They even allowed him to share a bed with her!
@musio3438 3 роки тому
Yeah I saw that
@Ajtheengineer Рік тому
The survivors are so brave to say something it makes me sad that this happened to them.
@VirgoArtsOfficial Рік тому
I was groomed online by child predators for four years. They brainwashed me into thinking that they loved me when I was just an object to them. And I felt like I had no way out. I finally got the courage to stop engaging in it, and I was lucky enough to not be in a position where I was forced to continue. Stay safe on the internet.
@queenkiara3355 3 роки тому
Just being raped is bad. So being held captive, tortured and raped for “only four days” would be terrifying and if you don’t think so than I’d love to see you live through it.
@clairejohanson515 3 роки тому
I agree. Imagine how long 4 days of school testing feels like. Or being grounded for four days. Add being kidnapped, raped, and tortured on top of that. It makes me sick to think that people actually say that to others. Even 5 minutes would be enough to be killed, she survived FOUR DAYS. Back off.
@alyssahill1275 3 роки тому
I understand it's sad that people wouldn't think it's "that bad," but I wouldn't wish that on anyone. So instead of saying "I'd love to see you live through it" maybe it'd be more appropriate to hope that person would think more about what they said and understand the circumstances. Not a good thing to say, but I doubt they understood the full story.
@user-rf2cg4cx5i 3 роки тому
@Nathan D. Larson how is your comment relevant?
@theonionsystem7779 3 роки тому
@Nathan D. Larson wtf are you going on about?
@DoctorSib 3 роки тому
@Nathan D. Larson Sorry, are you defending pedophilia?
@conconcrete 3 роки тому
Pedophilia is not a sexuality, its a disgusting crime
@AdamYeatesyuh 3 роки тому
wait who said it was?
@AdamYeatesyuh 3 роки тому
@@randomguy9108 that’s gross as shit wtf
@The-mcnuggit-man 3 роки тому
@@randomguy9108 their called maps cause they are leading themselves to hell
@dyamondwomack549 3 роки тому
random guy WTF
@musey2694 3 роки тому
@@randomguy9108 AYO TF
@certifiedgreg_rose Рік тому
I love Anthony Padilla's way of interviewing. His videos are always fun and interesting and never biased. Thanks for creating such wonderful content!
@Frost_Phantasm 9 місяців тому
Having these conversations with children is so so so important!
@humanthatexist8257 3 роки тому
Stupid people: ONly fOUr dAYs Could be just me but I’m pretty sure any amount of time spent being tortured in a basement is too much time spent being tortured in a basement.
@rocki7426 3 роки тому
bruhh imagine having to go to sleep 3 times in a row inside a torture basement, not even knowing if you'll wake up 😭
@soapmeister7713 3 роки тому
Amen
@jayden7736 3 роки тому
Exactly I couldn't even imagine an hour of torture. Torture is torture either way and people who think "4 days" isn't bad should learn that so much can happen so easily in such little time
@allisonhogarth2983 3 роки тому
XRYING 5 minutes of torture would break me forever. one minute.
@s0apy-_-bubbl3s 3 роки тому
10 minutes or 10 hours. it’s still torture
@deeznuts1033 3 роки тому
the fact the man is going to be released on the girl's BIRTHDAY is horrible. You'll never look at your birthday the same.
@tigerplays-roblox4405 3 роки тому
😡
@bluemood6125 3 роки тому
THE JUSTICE SYSTEM IS S*$& (I don’t usually swear but this is a serious topic)
@PassionPno 3 роки тому
He's back in jail.
@lilscenechick1995 3 роки тому
Filth like that should be purged from society. Call me an edgelord. They just re-offend. Nobody worth "rehabilitating" would ever do that to another human being.
@jinkieez 2 роки тому
@@lilscenechick1995 exactly. sadists like him don't deserve a life, they are only a danger to others
@cinderthedonut9107 Рік тому
If I was kidnapped, I don't think I could think straight or even bring myself together enough to try and get out of a kidnapping situation. These people are amazing ❤
@h1_activ8 Рік тому
Petition to keep them in jail
@Delilahsocool 11 місяців тому
✋🏼
@catisadisaster2269 3 роки тому
I've noticed that a lot of other interviewers and documentaries refer to kidnapping survivors as "victims" whereas Anthony refers to them as "Survivors" Mad respect for you, man
@willo4719 3 роки тому
Yeah I noticed that too
@joanna4655 3 роки тому
This. So much of this. All of this. Calling someone a victim is so awful. No. We survived this. We are survivors, damnit. 💙
@minicloud450 3 роки тому
They are Warriors amazing! ❤️
@dinopines9191 3 роки тому
Survivors are some of the bravest people I know. They are survivors. ♥️
@caylalynn5340 3 роки тому
Could you do a day with sex trafficking victims? I was sold into sex slavery when I was very little. I'm out now but there's so much misinformation and a lot of us are brushed off and ignored. Not getting the proper help we need after escaping.
@whoa8363 3 роки тому
Thank you for sharing. We empathize with you, and appreciate your voice. It would be lovely if you could clear up any misinformation to better educate us
@aqilahsdead 3 роки тому
whoa Letting you know that you’re probably one of the strongest human being ever. Its so fucked that you and other people have to go through that. I hope you have a blessed day x
@vicks99vl 3 роки тому
I hope you're better now and I'm so sorry you had to endure that, you didn't deserve that
@wiam510 3 роки тому
I wish u r doing okay now please take care of yourself
@ziadirayene9879 3 роки тому
Im sorry that happened to you, and i hope you're doing better now ♥
@amberchaba1148 Рік тому
This video made me almost cry 🥺 their so strong, for sharing their story and living a lovely life, despite what they have gone though. It reminds me that no matter what happens to you in life you can be strong and move through it.
@swansonly Рік тому
alicias story reminds me of the toy box killer, poor girls, they mustve been going through a lot after these experiences. Being kidnapped is my worst fear ever! My heart goes out to these strong brave survivors.
@leneeh.4383 3 роки тому
the fact these people are allowed out of prison makes me beyond angry and disgusted.
@julianpratt526 3 роки тому
Hi
@rocki7426 3 роки тому
what's even worse is that a lot of rapists don't even get a day behind prison bars
@thefuryofthedragon8715 3 роки тому
@@rocki7426 In Saudi Arabia, rapists are beheaded then their heads are thrown down to the crowd and they are hanged
@cricketjuice 3 роки тому
TheFuryOfTheDragon we should normalize that
@julianpratt526 3 роки тому
@@cricketjuice i love your pfp
@ErikaChristinaGdA 3 роки тому
Imagine saying: “that’s not that bad” to someone that has been raped, beaten and kidnapped for four days I-
@savannahssuffering 3 роки тому
Anonymous bruh are you making this a gender competition, keep that on tiktok my dude
@ihjtmq 3 роки тому
@Anonymous Well yeah obviously, but the VAST majority are men. Plus starting a sentence with "I felt really sorry for these women *but* " doesn't look too favorable for you
@Chrismosis 3 роки тому
@MB i have seen cases of women commiting equal or worse crimes, i am not saying that there aren't horrible men out there that commit terrible acts against women. but there are just as many women commiting terrible act to men and the truth is that the justice system is far less fair to men than it is to women, women often get lesser sentences for the same crimes, and the system has a nasty habit of siding with women no matter the circumstances, with questions like "what did he do to make her mad?" the male version of "what was she wearing?" once again i am not trying to make light of what happened to either of the women in this video or anyone else for that matter, just saying that horrible things happen to both sexes and are commited by both sexes.
@crazygal9957 3 роки тому
@@savannahssuffering we get that this happens to men too, but you're dismissing what happened to her making you apart of the problem
@mickey5712 3 роки тому
*_KIDNAPPED IS KIDNAPPED MK_* (sorry I'm just saying that kidnapped is just kidnapped it doesn't matter how many days or the gender or age oof this might look like I'm saying it's good to kidnap but it's just the opposite of that qnq)
@sschlimm2811 11 місяців тому
Thank you for not saying their names and focusing on solely the survivors
@christelarmstrong3843 Рік тому
Im so grateful that these girls are safe and got saved and god blessed them!!😊
@emelyblanco5637 3 роки тому
It’s awful how they are letting her abuser out on her birthday, it’s totally ridiculous
@vertigowastaken9534 3 роки тому
It’s ridiculous they let him out period.
@dcchaos6409 3 роки тому
Seriously like what a greeeat birthday gift /s
@zassassin4950 3 роки тому
LudoTheMeh exactly
@Dubstequtie 3 роки тому
@gamingwith me here is not the time for stupid memes.
@sorriari 3 роки тому
if i were making the decisions it would be therapy, mood stabilizers, fifty years of prison, and possibly a mental institution
@ItsMe-ch1yp 3 роки тому
I wish schools taught THIS. That rape is a horrible thing, that no man or women should have to ever be afraid to walk down a street. In Health we had ONE paper that mentioned rape and it wasn't even factual saying things like "women get raped because their clothes provoked the man". We need to stop teaching "boys will be boys" or "it's okay because it's a girl" rape or molestation is never acceptable. Schools and parents should build stronger generations that don't tolerate rape and know how to defend themselves.
@waterwolf982 3 роки тому
My school teaches us this, and human trafficking, substance abuse topics, and more important subjects
@a.l5320 3 роки тому
Water Wolf we need more schools like yours!
@waterwolf982 3 роки тому
Katherine Alberca I agree 100%
@teatalkfam5427 3 роки тому
The whole "women get raped because..." Is so wrong. Most of the time women that are raped aren't even wearing revealing or sexual clothing or anything of the sort.
@nadiar.4638 3 роки тому
@DudeImJasmine no its some sick perversion people have or some sick way to feel like they are in control. And the people who are supposed to protect everyone (police and justice systems) are not doing much to stop it. So ofcourse if you can get away with it, it must not be very bad behaviour and those people will just continue to do the same thing
@mayaflo7948 Рік тому
These woman are so strong I’m so glad they survived to teach us the importance of being safe on the internet they deserve so much
@lovenestnurture5934 Рік тому
I am so proud of these women for sharing their stories. What a traumatic experience they had to go through. Even an hour being kidnapped could feel like a day. It must be hard for sharing what happened, and I hope these men who had kidnapped you both stay in jail for life and starve. All kidnappers should just go crawl into a hole and stay there forever. Proud of you both for surviving such a horrible time and getting out. So sorry this happened to you both at such young ages, however it is in the past now and I hope kidnapping never happens ❤️ Focus on the future now, live your best life, and try not focus on those traumatic memories that may flash back. Support and love to you guys and again, so proud of you ❤️
@marieharris8095 3 роки тому
In my opinion even one day is terrible and awful..
@ivonnecaradenacho3726 3 роки тому
heck Hours and Minutes are awful
@derpoverload 3 роки тому
When she said she was tortured for four days I was shocked and horrified. Every second must feel like forever.
@kivella 3 роки тому
Even milliseconds and nanoseconds...
@bluemood6125 3 роки тому
derpoverload yea and people have the ordasedy(sos I’m bad at English) to say OnLy FoUr DaYs
@lukagikic9077 3 роки тому
In my opinion, even a few seconds is atrocious
@LynxXO 3 роки тому
Imagine being such a disgusting person to respond with “only four days?” to her telling her story about being r*ped and beaten. It doesn’t matter if she was kidnapped for four hours, days, months; it’s still a kidnapping. A lot of kidnap victims are killed within the next 24 hours after being kidnapped and people have the audacity to make it seem like four days isn’t a lot. She’s literally so fortunate to be alive today and people are really downplaying her traumas like it’s nothing.
@Bri-gq3lx 3 роки тому
@@user-pp8db2ll6k I think it was a comment
@lexyshannon9428 3 роки тому
Honestly though
@kameron.maxwell 3 роки тому
Such a Pervert Woody 14:50
@Bri-gq3lx 3 роки тому
Actually 14:53 she says a lot of people say it to her saying 4 days isn't that bad
@hannah6yearsago683 3 роки тому
exactly,ugh.
@robyn220 Рік тому
This is just so mind blowing to think about. I just cannot imagine. I am constantly trying to teach my kids to be alert and safe as possible but u never know it could be anyone. These women are amazing!!!!
@carnngi Рік тому
torture can make even an hour feel like an eternity, just imagine yourself being tortured for an hour, I cant imagine how she felt during those 4 days.
@littlebottleofink 3 роки тому
He’s going to be released on her birthday. That is horrible.
@a.l5320 3 роки тому
Yeah ikr
@drista6648 3 роки тому
these people don't deserve to be free they deserve nothing they deserve to be hated by everyone fear for their life i don't care if this is dark they deserve nothing. nothing
@arianan2601 3 роки тому
The fact that he’s gonna be released at all is horrible..
@brady9618 3 роки тому
The fact that people like this exist
@Shreksleftnutsack 3 роки тому
@@drista6648 for a second I thought you were talking about the kidnap survivors
@christyjm11 3 роки тому
So many people downplay and blame these women because they don't want to think that something like this could happen to them. We need to stop victim blaming and downplaying the impact of abuse.
@jemadamson2715 3 роки тому
I got that a lot in comments from when i was on a tv show talking about abuse from a guy. I to this day never knew how to respond to those comments until now. People at work found the episode and i heard comments like that from them as well. It was even harder in person lol but now i know what to say! Im extremely grateful for this video.
@coolworms7297 3 роки тому
exactly!
@elishaso 3 роки тому
Victim blaming and gaslighting is so toxic
@Theconfusedace 3 роки тому
People sometimes get on my nerves
@atarice8897 3 роки тому
@@Theconfusedace mhm
@yourfavoritgremlin Рік тому
The scariest thing to me, is when the girl said "he drove from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania to Virginia" and I've been to those places, its terrifying to think about
@Cat-xo8zz Рік тому
One thing I've always remembered is to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. For there to be change, you have to get used to being in situations or being a part of conversations that are hard to swallow.
@MsBeautyMarked18 3 роки тому
I was 17 when I was going to meet a boy supposedly my age. We were going to go to Boston Pizza. When I got in his van he was a much older man. I remember saying “you’re not the person in the pictures” and asking “what is happening, who are you, are you his dad” I was so naive. There was no door handle on the inside of the passenger door, it was missing and I couldn’t get out. I didn’t really understand what was happening. He drove onto a freeway, then a highway, and outside of the city. He parked the van and he handcuffed my ankles and wrists, they were fuzzy. It was hours of torture, bdsm style I guess. And rape, of course. Afterwards he cuddled me, I remember hating that part the most in a way. I convinced him if he brought me back to my car I would see him again, that I wanted to be his “slave” and do the “training” he was talking about. I was able to get home, I went home and showered scrubbing my skin until it bled. I was covered in bruises, to the point of my bum and thighs looking solidly blue/black. I said “Boston Pizza was great!” I never told a soul for about 5 years, and even now this is the first time I’ve ever expressed full details in anyway to anybody. I think watching this video is the first time I realized what really happened to me that day, and how lucky I am to have survived and gotten home that day. I do think I should maybe do some sort of therapy though because the nightmares and flashbacks are really hard. Especially since I lost my virginity to a sexual assault at 13...
@ronweasley7061 3 роки тому
I am so so sorry that happened to you.. that's a aweful thing that happened. I do suggest you do therapy to help you with this. If you need anything, there's a ton of people on your side willing to help :)
@Nonyy134 3 роки тому
Hey ,i am soo sorry you had to go through that. I hope you're better , i would suggest you speak to a therapist or someone you trust and if you need anyone to talk to i am available at all times.
@peachyweachy9775 3 роки тому
im sorry that happened, i hope youre in a better situation now, and keep your head up bby, youre not your rape experience. youre more than that. youre your amazing self, and never ever doubt that.
@exit_strategy 3 роки тому
I am so sorry that happened to you. That monster is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING & I hope he gets what he deserves multiply by a billion.
@silviahedge2005 3 роки тому
You should tell someone!@
@Emnms68 3 роки тому
“Only four days, that isn’t that bad” it is not okay to minimize or compare trauma. All trauma is horrible and all trauma survivors are immensely strong.
@hi-rz6oo 3 роки тому
Thank you so much for this comment -from someone whom experienced trauma
@leeeverett7388 3 роки тому
Yes but 4 days is better than multiple years or never getting found, she wasn’t even gone for half a week, every second feels like forever I get that, I also get that she went through extreme torture and 4 days seems like a lot, but again it’s better than getting tortured for years
@dani-uy7gl 3 роки тому
Lee Everett its not a competition how about we feel greatful she didnt go thru that even more😺
@julianajuju4917 3 роки тому
@@leeeverett7388 I don't intend on changing your mind, but in my opinion, it is still severe. This topic is so graphic that a person that hasn't been traumatized before in that degree wouldn't understand. Either 4 days or 4 years of a traumatic event so personal, violating, and dehumanizing, you would never forget it.
@lilyodonoghue163 3 роки тому
Lee Everett ni Mac m s
@eileencita Рік тому
It requieres a lot of courage to talk about things like these in such detail and stay put. I really respect and admire these two brave women for this and for finding the strength to survive and live. ❤️💙
@Lizabeth_Yacoub Рік тому
I'm so proud for them for being so brave for sharing their story being kidnaped is hard to share on the internet I can't imagine the stuff they have been through it must have been so hard for them they were so young when it happened.
@hestiaa3624 3 роки тому
"it was only 4 days"... I got sexually assaulted for just under 15 minutes and it permanently changed me as person and made my whole outlook on life different, not only that, my sexual assaulter got ZERO punishment for what he did to me. Imagine getting kidnapped for 4 days and your kidnapper/r*pist/assaulter barely getting any jail time. Even a few minutes can change someone entirely. Stop excusing the kidnappers behavior and realize that no matter how long something occurred, there will ALWAYS be some form of trauma. Edit: I wanna also acknowledge the immense fear women/men face after seeing their kidnapper/r*pist/assaulter. These women are so brave for being able to face them in court proudly. For me personally, he works at my local grocery store so I have to see him all the time. I always feel very unsafe and tense seeing him waltz around as a free man. It was to the point I refused even working at that grocery store because I didn't want to see him.
@chuuchuutrain5976 3 роки тому
I'm so sorry 😞
@iangehrlich-orr1869 3 роки тому
Was the woman in the story sexually assaulted or beaten. I didn't really understand? Also was the other woman taken into a cell by good law enforcement or people in on her kidnapping I am genuinely confused.
@ashleyh2578 3 роки тому
That's exactly what I was thinking! If you've been in a position like that 1 second feels like an hour, an hour feels like a day... it probably felt like forever. I could never understand what that must have felt like for her.
@marli8907 3 роки тому
Mr Helo yes the younger woman was sexually assaulted. Beaten r@aped (the word is bleeped in the video because UKposts will take it down) for four days. She was kept in a torture chamber and tortured physically, emotionally, and sexually. The other woman, the older one, knew her kidnapper. Neither of them were arrested. The law enforcement wasn’t “in on it” when the first describes being rescued she THOUGHT it was someone coming to kill her not to rescue her. The older woman her kidnapper was arrested, and she was allowed to go see him in jail was what she was describing. There’s a whole documentary on her. It’s very sad and very strange. She’s endured so much.
@smeebsmob3468 3 роки тому
Why was there zero punishment??? They've probably done it to more people then..
@darlinqdolls5248 3 роки тому
“oNlY fOuR dAyS, tHatS nOt bAd” imagine going through ur worst fear for 4 days and then just dying, like drowning. Imagine drowning for 4 days just suffering then dying after all that pain.
@mredder1518 3 роки тому
She wasn't drowning tho
@darlinqdolls5248 3 роки тому
IMAHACKER it was a example.
@RandomDogWithRizz1015 3 роки тому
Exactly
@jules5841 3 роки тому
in my opinion it's much worse because they survived. I can't imagine living with that sort of trauma. it almost makes it seem like dying would be the "easy" way out.
@miniaturemushroom4825 3 роки тому
Jason Green it’s a example
@grey6561 Рік тому
How was he only in jail for 19 days that f up
@irinaferguson8618 Рік тому
Thank you very much for sharing this video!!! I hope everyone will pay attention, especially those who have children.
@boojebee 3 роки тому
19 DAYS AND A YEAR? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? SHE GOT YEARS OF HER LIFE TAKEN AWAY. ONTOP OF HIM ABUSING OTHER YOUNG KIDS. Wtf.
@heretostartdrama2086 3 роки тому
Ikr? It made me so angry!
@acunt 3 роки тому
The justice system has always been mind boggling.
@anicoleww 3 роки тому
It is completely INFURIATING
@boojebee 3 роки тому
Tired Human that was for Alicia, i am talking about Jan.
@Livingdeadgrl1967 3 роки тому
It’s because he’s a white person. I hate that to make it about race but let’s be honest, that’s what it’s about.
@liziuhh 3 роки тому
4 minutes, 4 hours, 4 days, 4 years, any amount of time is too long of a time to be kidnapped. Time should NOT be a factor in measuring trauma. Much love to every kidnapping survivor, I hope you're all doing well
@imjustanasshlesometimes3488 3 роки тому
👏👏👏 I said something similar.
@elizabethwofford1685 3 роки тому
Even 4 minutes could seem like a lifetime in that situation!! Oh my goodness I could not imagine being taken from everything I know for any amount of time against my will.
@nyeknyek69 3 роки тому
even 4 seconds, i cant imagine the amount of pain they have to withstand for FOUR freaking days
@prbzgooomn8449 3 роки тому
So 4 sconds is bad?
@bcblur1 3 роки тому
PÆrbÆÆz goomÆn any amount of time is bad to be kidnapped,, it's not even a question
@annejia5382 Рік тому
when i first heard jan's story on stephanie's channel, i felt so terrified and sad and hurt imagining a child going through such thing specially her case was the 'complicated' kind because it's a family friend. i was crying so much at the first encounter of her story. it could have happened to anyone specially with the type of situation she was in. i always go back rewatching this to hear jan tell the story herself. she was so vulnerable at that moment and i would have been so scared as a kid if i was the one in her position. she was so brave for everything she did and no one deserved what she had gone through. jan, you are such an inspiration to young women and female kids. 💛
@Kifford Рік тому
I watched a documentary about Jan's case. That man spent years manipulating, blackmailing, and brainwashing the entire family, including Jan's parents, all to get to and have access to Jan. It was sick. She's so brave. The mental recalibration you would have to do to recover... I can't fathom the strength.
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