It shouldn't be "believe all women" it should be "consider and/or investigate all claims". Maybe then, men could also feel safe claiming when the abuse happens to them, too. A crime which is greatly underreported.

The fact that Dr. Peterson is a controversial figure baffles me.

Signing a consent note sounds an awful lot like marriage

NEVER apologize for a mistake that ain't yours. NEVER accept group punishment.

It looks like getting back out on tour has brought that quick, firey, and punctuated side of Peterson. He was obviously in a period of healing and thoughtful reflection there for a while, which was necessary. It's great to see him hitting his stride again like this. It seems like being on the road would be exhausting, but he's making it work in his favor.

"Don't do anything physically with anyone that you wouldn't talk to them about." That right there should be a rule for life.

"believe all women" -> what is a woman? -> "a person who identify as woman" -> then, who should i believe? -> "women..." conclusion, dont believe nobody.

"Hay baby, let's exchange consent notes."

I have wondered whether Dr. Peterson would ever really become as consequential in the world as he was before the terrible addiction/health issues consumed him. I think today with this answer, I have my own answer. Whether you like or not, there is without doubt a true fire in his guts and a clarity and confidence in his wide ranging response I’ve not seen this decade. Truly, welcome back!

How anyone can disagree with this is beyond me. Common sense is no longer common, if it ever was.

At this point, being banned from Twitter is a badge of courage and heroism.

Jordan Peterson is a role model to us all. His advice and knowledge are precious to those with the ears to listen. I know he’s been beaten down by morons and institutions with an agenda, but I hope that he knows or comes to understand just how enormous of a positive influence he is on so many people’s lives.

This is honestly one of the most brilliant talks I’ve heard. No one discusses this, no one brings this up to even ponder; thank you so much.

Enlightening reaction from Jordan where he really opens the real conversation about sexuality and consent. A thread that should be picked up in our victim-addicted culture… lets get this straight

Being subjected to "sins of the Father" is bad enough but now it's "sins of the ancestor" which of course is even more ridiculous. I'm not apologizing for something of which I had no part.

The best signed mutual consent for a long term relationship is probably a marriage certificate

The real solution is not making up for people's weaknesses, but strenghtening people up. Teach them to reason, understand their emotions, and set limits

I love the way Dr. Peterson articulates his word!!

This man has changed so many lives. It brings real peace to see him killing it like this, like he hasn’t skipped a beat after everything that’s happened. What a beast. ❤️🔥

This is another subject about which one political side is trying to have a dialogue, and the other side only wants a monologue.

"Believe all women" became "All women tell the truth". No wonder the 'movement' died.

Politic rhetoric has caused a lot of the problems. It twists good values into bad and evil thoughts and behaviors.

Pfff, what a legend. He hits the nail right on the freaking head every single time. He is a prime example of someone actually doing his homework and knowing what he is talking about. He has been one of my examples for the past years. Thank 'God' for this fellah!

This was very enlightening. I am taking that “talk about it” recommendation into my future dating situations.

The worst CURSE in this world is to be both intelligent and an EMPATH you see the problems and simply cannot without hurting feelings convince someone to solve them Which in turn causes you pain

The thing he said about alcohol and drugs is pretty accurate. Imagine how greatly these problems would be reduced if alcohol and drugs was not a factor. Its not secret that drugs ands alcohol, impair your judgment.

Reminds me of the episode of South Park where PC Principal goes around his frat collecting consent forms from all the men.

As a little boy growing up I felt concerned about this. It may not have been the intention, but it felt like the world was always trying to make me feel ashamed of myself because I was born white, male, cis gendered, etc.

Wish I had had such a person in my life growing up.

I think it should be something like this "investigate all claims without bias, and let the investigation lead to the truth, whatever it may be".

6:34] Every once in a while it is informative to go back, rewind, and rewatch the audience reaction.

This used to be common sense 20 years ago lol

You go with the flow. Nonverbal communication is 99% of it and more important

A consent form? So, like a marriage contract? :p

Thank you dave rubin and jordan petersen for doing these lectures and Q&As! I am so thankful to have this information freely given to me on the internet!

WOW this is right on. This is talking about the number 1 issue facing us today. With contraception now a reality, what are the new rules? You can't just throw away the old rules and expect people to understand the new rules when they are none yet.

"we need to start judging people individually and not collectively" but then that is immediately followed by "but they..." no one sees the irony in that?

I recently heard a female say she couldn’t believe she’d let her Ex Boyfriend do some of the things to her she let him do. She said she the idea that someone felt like he was entitled to her body was upsetting. She said it was S(exual)A(ssault). So, a committed relationship has nothing to do with the persistent state of victimhood we’ve falling into. It’s just becoming a game to some people and every single interaction comes with the risk of being your reputation’s demise. How do we solve that?

For every action there is an opposite reaction or there is a CONSEQUENCE!!!

What an incredible segment. Extremely well thought out.

Thanks as always John and Jordon.

DR Wrong. A boss can sexually intimidate without any of the crimes you mentioned. M

Ctd: Reintroducing 'respect' and self! (True-self) acceptance would be the way to reach the utopic civilization you think! is optimum and in human's best interest. As you regularly say Jordan 'Good luck with that one' Bless you for using your energy to keep trying 🙏

After a long life I've yet to listen to anyone who combines knowledge, intelligence (the ability to reason), articulacy and clarity better than Professor Peterson..

His point on alcohol is dead-on. One reason why i never had any of these problems.

When he speaks, it's complete silence. All eyes on him. Paying such keen attention.

Amber Heard is not uncommon

Happy to see those kids are listening.

I agree with all of this. But I'm also so discouraged because how on earth can this really be changed?

"Get rid of alchohol..." 100% ABSOLUTELY agree! Would solve A LOT of issues.

The movie Cherry 2000 starts with a scene where a man and a woman meet in a bar, and work out a contract with an attorney on that night's expectations.

I think it was the Carol Burnett Show, did a comedy skit in the seventies about two lawyers negotiating a first date, in legalese, on behalf of their two clients. They worked out all the issues that young people are struggling with today.

All of my friends are leftists or liberals and they all were against Amber. Every claim of abuse should be considered in all seriousness but that doesn't mean it's wise to accept each one automatically.

About 5:00 - Add drugs as well. The combination of alcohol and (more potent than ever) drug consumption HAS to be affecting judgment in a great deal of cases.

"You did it to yourself" 🤣

When I was 7 technically I consented because I didn’t know what I was doing, he was my teacher so my school just changed my class and never fired him. My mom felt like they should’ve had him arrested but I said to her that I didn’t even know what was going on so I don’t feel bothered and so we left it alone. Even though I was 7 years old and he was 30 something years old it still was consensual

The Left have to (re)learn the hard way.

Lol, when he explained that this is coming from the left and not from the Christian right, I lost it. Oh how the turn tables.

Well put. It was quite clear, forty years ago, that the excesses of the 60s and 70s had led us down a dark path. Hopefully the old wisdom is gradually returning to Western culture (minus the superstitious guesswork of the past).

I'm new to this. Where does Peterson get that this issue is exclusive to the radical left? This is the first I've heard. Can someone point me towards some examples, some literature maybe, or is it just his view?

FIGHT BACK! For heaven's sake, young men need to fight back and not allow these freaks to label us.

Bill burr the comedian on late night suggested believe 87% of women because all is just too much. And that’s hard argue. And ultimately there should be an investigation

We now live in the age of innocent until being accused

If and when it's true, and everyone has Inalienable Right's, as they personaly understand, comeprend and perceive them to mean thus practice. Then NO ONE has the Inalienable Right to oppose based on their understanding, comprendsion or perception of their own personal Inalienable Right's.

These people live in a bubble of controversy and project that onto the wider society. In reality the vast majority of people live ordinary lives without the thoughts they say are commonplace.

Purposeful projected ignorance deserves to be mocked

Jordan is back in classic form, show him a bit of modern junk reasoning that many people are falling for and in two minutes he has disassembled it for all to see and shown it for the farce it is. What a mind.

I know I'm completely missing the point here, but are they at a wedding? Haha imagine asking Jordan Peterson to give a toast at your wedding and getting this. 😂

This message in the video needs to be shared way more

When Dave started talking about people 'Not being guilty' the guy next to the girl who asked the question looked extremely guilty 😂

“Mobbing people who seemed to have made an error.” He has a wonderful way with words because he actually considers those words carefully. Mobbing is what people do, unfortunately. And they seem to mob about things that relieve them from accountability or consequence. That is, it’s a form of collective self-referential narcissism. But on one thing Jordan Peterson falls into a contemporary word trap. He says something we hear too often. “We need a serious conversation about…” That, my friends, is an empty, even utopian sentiment with no real meaning. Mobbing is not about serious conversations. Humans have very few serious conversations. And how might we define them in any case? Impossible. This current moment is all about people who cannot be serious asserting unsupportable things to self-aggrandize and pander, an entirely emotional, self-referential (and hence, ungeneralizable) stance entirely allergic to “serious” conversations. “Serious” conversations are, therefore, extremely rare. In the age of social media, they signals submerged in the noise of the mob. As much as I admire Jordan Peterson’s genuine care for humanity and serious scholarship and rhetorical accuracy, he falls into the trap of an entirely fluffy concept that merely points to the impossibility of doing the very thing he asserts. There are no “serious conversations” except between very small groups of rare people who share philosophical alignment on core issues. And they can’t influence anything but their immediate surroundings. There never has been, and cannot be, a “serious conversation” about real things that, by implication, arrive at insight and turn into policy or actual human normative transformation. Jordan, as brilliant and genuine as he is, is not having a serious conversation with the radical left. He’s mocking them and they attack him in return. We are all, it seems, ants on a log floating down a river. We may think we’re influencing its path, but that would be easily debunked by any entity with a higher level of understanding. Take care of your area of the log and hang on.

I feel like JBP’s work will become more influential in the next 5-10 years as PhD grads who like his work move into the workforce.

He definitely makes me feel like I am dumb which is a good thing

Well said Jordan.👏👏👏👏

What about misenterpreting nonverbal signs? Oh, she was asking for it, she was moving and dancing like that.

Not only do we have birth control, in case of a slip-up we also have abor... Huh? What's that? Oh, never mind.

Great discussion!

That boy at the beginning was touching his collar nervousssssss

Why does commom sence is extremely expensive these days Especially for those whom have Been university educated it so sad perhaps pathetic.

Brilliant, as always.

There's a magical moment when you raise the courage and take the risk to kiss someone you like. You could be turned away, and it would be embarrassing, but the risk is part of it. Many may wonder if you have the guts to take a risk. The moment is lost when you ask, unless you are a Hollywood actor.

Everyone IS born with original sin. That's why we need a savior.

I do not want ads like this which are sick

I loved the discussion, just wished Jon Anderson would take the time to sing us a song or two.

This man is a blessing.

It’s really simple. Sexually activity involves two ppl, both ppl get turned on. That means both want it. If your not sure that the other person wants it or they are too young to understand it, don’t do anything. Not hard.

Actually, why do places of "higher learning" allow its students to become intoxicated and inebriated whenever they want? How do you learn when you are in a stupor or have a hangover? Isn't that completely antithetical to its stated mission? In an ideal world, if you enter university you are required to abstain from such substances. If you can't handle that lifestyle, then don't enroll.

Excelent and the tie that Dr Jordan is wearing is just fine =D

1:14 "Not midgets. Now you're gonna get us in trouble." I would have liked Dave to join in, and throw down the gauntlet, by saying "Little people's lives matter".

The rule is: buyer beware!

Jordan should have continued on his tangent on alcohol. It’s a bigger problem than guns. I wonder how often alcohol is involved in shootings, car accidents, abuse, etc.

Mr Peterson must be celebrated and not penalised. it's baffling that that's even discussed let alone implemented in modern day society.

7:26 « with whomever »

ALL THE SINS FEEL GOOD IN THE SHORT TERM BUT THEY DONT GIVE LONG TERM HAPPINESS

JP you are so brilliant in your field. Stay out of the Shapiro band, stay inclusive, reject divisiveness.

Dave Rubin. I won't take advice from a person who engages in human trafficking to support his personal fixations.

B.S. we've been having this conversation for hundred of years. we never learn anything.

Best Lecture EVER Peterson gave....And as far for the mutual consent .....IT is NEVER GOING TO WORK....Best advice is to keep out the alcohol....then You Will be able to make a BETTER / WISE. DECISION....I AM sure this would make a mayor impact on abuse of any kind....

Isn't this the reason for engagement and wedding rings? Not as a mark of ownership, but as a mark of commitment and long-term consent?

Definitely LISTEN to all women: after that it comes down to objectively gathering the usual facts and evidence, and enough of both to climb beyond the threshold of a presumption of innocence and the shadow of doubt. -an accusation should NEVER be allowed to produce a conviction without due process.