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Anne Swanson used to fear phone interactions due to Intrusive Thought Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. She would fear she had said something atrocious, even though she hadn't. However, through exposure response therapy, Anne has learned to manage her anxiety and embrace leaving voicemail messages.
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Anne Swanson’s mission in life is to connect good people with each other. Professionally, she does this by working as a college recruiter at a technology company. She also serves as their Lafayette corporate social responsibility chair. In 2015, she won a prestigious “Bridge Builder” award for helping engage her company’s members in civic causes. Anne is a member of the705, where she is a participant of their I-49 Task Force as well as their mentor program. She is a graduate of Leadership Lafayette Class XXII. For the past year, she has served as the Leadership Institute of Acadiana’s communication’s chair. In 2001, she earned her public relations degree from the University of Louisiana at Lafayette. In her personal time, she loves trying to figure out the meaning of life with her husband Rick, spending quality time with her family and friends, and playing with her two dogs - Summer and Flash.
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КОМЕНТАРІ: 156
@alyaa1308
@alyaa1308 7 років тому
for everyone searching for an ocd related videos so they wont feel alone, this video is so satisfying
@mariadrinkstea2297
@mariadrinkstea2297 3 роки тому
that's meee
@amyowst9261
@amyowst9261 7 років тому
"These thoughts do not make you a bad person." As a fellow morally-obsessed OCDer, this meant a lot. Thank you. ❤️
@negasonicteenagewarhead5269
@negasonicteenagewarhead5269 7 років тому
not all OCDs are funny and can be spoken publicly some are horrifying
@bella1975
@bella1975 6 років тому
Meebo Meebo True. Your absolutely right. She may be laughing out of anxiety. She isn't minimizing that though.
@ta_nya5240
@ta_nya5240 6 років тому
First off, NO ocd is funny. All forms are connected to suffering, however, trying to laugh and enjoy life as best you can despite that is a sign of great strengty. Furthermore, I can't think of any form of ocd that you couldn't talk about these days. You might not be able to have some fun talks about you fantasizing about maming your entire family in their sleep, but you can still make people undersrand the mechanisms behind the thoughts.
@classymonkee08
@classymonkee08 5 років тому
You can talk about it but it come at a huge price, esp if speaking with ppl who don’t understand. Even if they do understand they still make you feel ashamed for having such taboo thoughts
@katrinetroelsen
@katrinetroelsen 4 роки тому
if u give in to the OCD saying some things will make u a social outcast, it will keep its grip on you. everything OCD should be spoken publicly so the stigma can go away. No matter what u think, its just thoughts. u dont want to do those things so dont let the OCD manipulate u into thinking your thoughts are special
@cherrymilk5590
@cherrymilk5590 4 роки тому
Correction: NO OCDs are funny
@angelita5785
@angelita5785 6 років тому
I found my passion. That's to help people who are battling mental illness. They're the bravest people I know.
@andrzejsamorzewski146
@andrzejsamorzewski146 4 роки тому
I really need help.
@gisellezapata3137
@gisellezapata3137 4 роки тому
@@andrzejsamorzewski146 i am also here for help whenever you need to be listened, and adviced, i also have OCD it sucks but there is hope, if you want answer back so i can give you my facebook❤
@jacksonmartinez8673
@jacksonmartinez8673 4 роки тому
@@gisellezapata3137 Gisele how are you doing. I just broke up with my girl after 6 months she has ocd I just feel like talking to someone with the illness will you be able to?
@zoep.2891
@zoep.2891 5 місяців тому
Unfortunately, not many people are supportive of people who suffer from mental health issues, it's quite the opposite.
@SuperJosh3434
@SuperJosh3434 7 місяців тому
I have health OCD, and it is the worst thing in the world. I would truly not wish it upon my worst enemy.
@SiobhanMorrissey88
@SiobhanMorrissey88 Місяць тому
Me too. Hope you are managing ok
@bigsad7524
@bigsad7524 Рік тому
This woman has turned her pain into one of the best senses of humour I have ever seen. She jokes about her pain without ever being self-deprecating. I really admire how badass this lady is
@ayesarunn
@ayesarunn 4 роки тому
As a person with OCD, I wanna encourage you guys to stay strong! We can get over this!
@lindawilcox7043
@lindawilcox7043 7 років тому
I do not suffer OCD but I do have friends and loved ones who have some light degree of OCD. Your video opened a lot my mind on understanding this mental illness. Please, keep up the good work, You are amazing!!
@100hundert
@100hundert 7 років тому
Very insightful and also very funny! Thanks for sharing your story. The realisation that running from our own thoughts and experiences only makes them come back stronger has been baffling me for quite some time as well, the "acceptance and commitment therapy" has helped me a lot.
@nataliemorris910
@nataliemorris910 7 років тому
I think she is incredible at public speaking!👏👏👏
@Youreout
@Youreout 4 роки тому
I think she's annoying and average at best at public speaking.
@swilliams8176
@swilliams8176 6 років тому
This was very brave. Thank you for sharing your story.
@fishn1127
@fishn1127 5 років тому
This is exactly the truth about the awful ocd. I have been suffering with this for over 30 years. GOD Bless you. Your speech really helped me.
@ta_nya5240
@ta_nya5240 6 років тому
Wonderful talk, very informative and encouraging. I suffer from ocd in many forms. I've been doing the erp for about a year now and my condition has gotten considerably better, really. In November I had a big re-lapse, but I've recovered from that pretty well too. The only thing that's still bothering me is touching any kind of handles. I still can't do it. It's my final project to get over that with the next couple of sessions. Wish me luck.
@mjturner6291
@mjturner6291 7 років тому
Also, exposure therapy is great, but putting a germaphobe's hand in the loo is not really what exposure therapy is. You start by doing gentle, baby steps. Wash hands one less time an hour, wash the dishes a few less times ect. I just wanted to make sure no one watched this with OCD or a friend with OCD and try and throw yourself into a situation that's too much for you as it will do more harm than good. Flooding and exposure are different :) Amazing talk though and such a wonderful personality on stage.
@angelita5785
@angelita5785 6 років тому
Let's Talk Living yes, you're right. But the idea is to let them stay in their anxiety until it reaches its zenith and has nowhere left to go but down.
@episodetv2359
@episodetv2359 3 роки тому
I agree with this so much! I'm scared of germs and think if somebody is in too close in contact with me, I freak out. If somebody just grabbed me and just squeezed and hugged me I probably wouldn't feel bored- I would feel tortured.
@eddycaballero5438
@eddycaballero5438 Рік тому
Ive watched probably every OCD related video on UKposts and this has been the most delightful one
@kgpz100
@kgpz100 Рік тому
OCD is a wild ride. I only means two months ago that I've got it and so much about my life clicked into place. I'm trying to face my anxieties but it's not always easy. Thank you for this talk
@PeruLover
@PeruLover 4 роки тому
Anne if you ever read this, You are a legend. Thanks for talking openly like this.
@kaywalls8790
@kaywalls8790 5 років тому
After researching OCD, because my son was diagnosed with the condition, I too found out I suffer also. Thanks for the info! Feels good not to be alone.
@tsurek
@tsurek 3 роки тому
This is one of the best OCD talks Ive seen.
@jerry3350
@jerry3350 6 років тому
She did so amazing! Best speaker ive seen funny, clever!!-lex
@grmmhp
@grmmhp 7 років тому
that was really awesome, and I loved the end lol
@amethysttopaz4160
@amethysttopaz4160 7 років тому
Great job!! OCD sucks! Time thief is a perfect way to describe it. I cringed at the pic with the woman with her hand in the toilet. Don't see how I could ever do that. Good luck to anyone suffering from this and great job Miss Swanson. Very engaging talk.
@lijah7150
@lijah7150 2 місяці тому
I really don't think she has the ocd subtype of germ related ocd. It sounds like she has another and felt kind of invalidating, showing people it was so easy to that since that does not seem to be her subtype
@memodalai1117
@memodalai1117 3 роки тому
Beautiful presentation. Thank you for sharing.
@akpa4251
@akpa4251 6 років тому
Thanks for speaking and generating more public awareness of OCD
@xxluaxx6
@xxluaxx6 2 роки тому
I love how she talks about the origins is her OCD. My OCD is around dying from cancer. I watched 4 loved ones die. 2 of my love ones were young and didn’t take care of their health. So my OCD was born out of pain and fear from those experiences.
@PositivelyMe
@PositivelyMe Рік тому
There is beauty and strength in struggles if they can be used to empower and grow into a stronger person!
@yasminbeatricebahaoui4697
@yasminbeatricebahaoui4697 6 років тому
thank you❤ this helped me alot
@Hello15956
@Hello15956 7 років тому
This was incredible!
@affrainrehman6212
@affrainrehman6212 Рік тому
I am suffering ocd. I don't have the urge to live anymore. I feel I am a bad person even though I am the nice or sweet person you will ever meet. But it's so hard to believe that part of me
@lorenzobrignone6358
@lorenzobrignone6358 Місяць тому
Hey, I Hope you're feeling better now
@may-lisbethsolheimhansen8200
@may-lisbethsolheimhansen8200 Місяць тому
Ocd is thinking the oposite of whom you are.
@complexanxietyspecialist
@complexanxietyspecialist 4 роки тому
Thank you for your great work
@psicologiajoseh
@psicologiajoseh 3 роки тому
Beautiful and very brave presentation.
@roypetitfils
@roypetitfils 7 років тому
OUTSTANDING!
@anneswanson4789
@anneswanson4789 7 років тому
Thank you SO much Roy! Your talk was brilliant!!! I know it will help so many people.
@sheyanderson9498
@sheyanderson9498 5 років тому
Thanks for sharing! My name is Shey and I too have OCD.
@anthonystitt3052
@anthonystitt3052 Рік тому
This woman is amazing, smart and funny - and most of all, she is brave.
@yuhcve3308
@yuhcve3308 2 роки тому
ocd sucks and it is very consuming. i wonder how does it feel to live without ocd. I'm just tired of it. I think I lost so many years to this illness. I just don't know anymore. God please help me.
@serene3175
@serene3175 6 місяців тому
I feel the exact same, I’m so jealous of people who don’t go through this
@tombo54
@tombo54 2 роки тому
I first developed OCD when I was a 16-year-old boy, during a severe strep throat infection and month-long quarantine with Mono. I remember going back to school a completely different person. I was terrified, could barely function. It affected my schoolwork, relationships with my classmates, SAT scores...everything. In my early 30's I began drinking heavily. I didn't realize it at the time, but I was using alcohol to treat my anxiety and the OCD. At 49 I entered rehab and--33 days later--emerged sober. I'm 67 now and I've been sober going on 18 years. During the past 50 years, my OCD has morphed from predominantly 'compulsive' to almost 'pure-O'. Fluvoxamine has helped with the compulsions. The obsessions and ruminations are tougher to treat though. Personally I didn't find therapy to be helpful, but I DO believe that a multifaceted approach is best. Use everything you can get your hands on to treat it or this beast will rob you of your life. Peace.
@HisRoyalJaznness
@HisRoyalJaznness 7 років тому
loved the ending
@brendacarpenter9864
@brendacarpenter9864 Рік тому
I used to have that book. I lent all of my OCD books to my therapist and never got them back. It's called Stop Obsessing. Get it!
@coreyanderson1457
@coreyanderson1457 5 років тому
Intrusive thoughts are scary particularly when the thought is unwanted about God. It's like exposure therapy or just letting the thought pass is harder because a person in that situation doesn't want to disobey God, or offend Him. Praying is hard. I just hope that He understands.
@haleyiheartreborndolls945
@haleyiheartreborndolls945 3 роки тому
God knows our hearts
@laura-janeluff8990
@laura-janeluff8990 2 роки тому
Hi, you're not alone. I'm a Christian and have the most awful intrusive thoughts and images. I believe that God understands our struggles, but, at the same time I still feel disgusted and guilty for having these intrusive thoughts. Praying can be difficult, especially when prayers go unanswered for a long time. Like I said, you're not alone.
@zoep.2891
@zoep.2891 5 місяців тому
@coreyanderson1457: That's what OCD does, it finds what matters most to you and uses it against you. I'm atheist, I have no problem with blasphemy, so OCD has no hold on me in that regard. Maybe it helps you to see it like this: OCD chose blasphemy as my theme and that means, that I love god very much, if that wasn't true, OCD would have chosen another theme.
@muzahidulislam4315
@muzahidulislam4315 3 роки тому
I am with ocd for last 14 years....and now I realize I'm not alone.
@flowerlove2985
@flowerlove2985 5 років тому
I'm so happy I got to be part of helping you, and kudos to you for helping others Anne. You're brave, very fun and entertaining.
@aleahsb99
@aleahsb99 7 років тому
She is so adorable! I loved this!
@anthonyrizzo475
@anthonyrizzo475 3 роки тому
Anne, thanks for sharing your story,,,,,,i have this same issue..
@raven3861
@raven3861 3 роки тому
yoo as a person with ocd when she called her friend and left that message i felt so happy for her not gonna lie
@CC-uz3ri
@CC-uz3ri 6 років тому
She's so funny :P I appreciated this one.
@nerigovender8119
@nerigovender8119 3 роки тому
U very very helpful keep up the good work God bless u
@Musicalfictionlver
@Musicalfictionlver 6 років тому
Yeah then if your really suffering you turn the exposure activity into a compulsion too, time limits provisos.something bad will happen is I don't complete it xxx Even the treatment is hard to get right .....
@carrielopez1728
@carrielopez1728 7 років тому
but what about when your biggest fear already happened, like losing a parent and you have obsessive thoughts about the loss? I've been dealing with death phobia since 1st grade. I am now 39. lost my dad unexpectedly in October and am losing my grip. I am panic stricken about next losing my mom. I am fixated on losses I might endure. So much so, I'm not living.
@potatomuffin4420
@potatomuffin4420 6 років тому
I go through the same thing. It's called Real Event OCD. It's treatable.
@BumbleBee-bp7du
@BumbleBee-bp7du 6 років тому
I have been there too. I've battled these thoughts and fears since I was in 2nd grade. I felt that if I did not do something a certain amount of times, that someone in my family would die. I also lost my dad unexpectedly (through causes that we not natural), and it has been my faith in Jesus that has saved me! Before I was saved, I was scared to ever move out of the house with my mom, and REALLY scared to EVER move away. Because of my faith, not only was I able to move out, I was able to accept a position away from my city, and I lived away for over 5 years! I NEVER thought that this was possible, considering that I lived with this fear for almost 20 years! God has given me more peace than I could ever have imagined back then. I am SO thankful!
@MrWishable
@MrWishable 5 років тому
@carrie how are you now?
@dan198660120
@dan198660120 4 роки тому
@@BumbleBee-bp7du I experienced this too. I felt if I didn't stay up till a certain time my mother would die.
@kerryyoung8777
@kerryyoung8777 3 роки тому
Its terrible im sorry
@dhx2499
@dhx2499 Рік тому
You give me hope
@amandahernandez4333
@amandahernandez4333 4 роки тому
I once confessed to something I didn’t do. It was really scary and embarrassing.
@yakamoz1294
@yakamoz1294 4 роки тому
this is very interesting. Is it ok for you to share it with us? like what was the situation like or the nature of what you confessed for something you didnt do.
@imdum5169
@imdum5169 Рік тому
She did so well 😀
@revrent8916
@revrent8916 5 років тому
Although it can be greatly helpful saying out loud your OCD thoughts, it's not so simple and can only be applied in public too a degree, some people have peodophile OCD thoughts but they are not peodophiles. Expressing thoughts like this out loud will be difficult and not so humorous at all, OCD is a serious thing and some things are too distressing and embarrassing to publicly talk about
@ggstylz
@ggstylz 4 роки тому
Legend!
@ztsfilms
@ztsfilms 4 роки тому
My ocd has gotten so bad lately ive made several doctors apointments and even went to the ER because i almost constantly have the fear that im dying and that im not going to make it through the night all because my anxiety makes my chest feel like its caving in and my hearts starts racing and palpitating which only furthers the anxiety this is so tough to live with especially this last week
@abhishekkumar-wm2rk
@abhishekkumar-wm2rk 9 місяців тому
*Katie d'Ath* videos is very very helpfull ,it literally changed my life ....completely get rid of OCD . BELIEVE ME. Even after watching it's one video ,you will feel so much comfort which you would have never felt.
@elizabethbennet4791
@elizabethbennet4791 6 років тому
Oh god :18 and I already empathize with this lady's OCD...answering machines are my downfall.
@rishabhtripathi6828
@rishabhtripathi6828 3 роки тому
Thanks for this talk 😀😀 But some thoughts can't be expressed. Even being unknown to everybody, i am unable to write those thought😢😢
@learningtolive284
@learningtolive284 3 роки тому
Hey how're you doing now? What's the theme of your OCD
@concernedhuman4559
@concernedhuman4559 2 роки тому
Hi Rishabh: There is a wonderful short book that you might like to read. It shows you how to embrace the negative energy in you (like the intrusive thoughts) and transform it into positive energy. It was written by Thich Nhat Hanh and is called 'Anger'. I have had OCD for many years and it helped me tremendously. It might be a great place to start. Good luck!
@jeffreylouism
@jeffreylouism 3 роки тому
My whole life I thought I was crazy, even though I've never done anything crazy!
@VenusChadha
@VenusChadha 3 роки тому
I am also suffering OCD since last around 20 years may be when i was a kid. I am so much in guilty most of the times specially at night. After watching this video i got some courage. Felt I am not alone. I got hope may be i live life like a normal person.
@concernedhuman4559
@concernedhuman4559 2 роки тому
Hi Venus: There is a wonderful short book that you might like to read. It shows you how to embrace the negative energy in you (like the intrusive thoughts) and transform it into positive energy. It was written by Thich Nhat Hanh and is called 'Anger'. I have had OCD for many years and it helped me tremendously. It might be a great place to start. Good luck!
@carringtonblakely
@carringtonblakely 6 років тому
I have ocd it this makes my heart stop😭
@lionaticenterprises5703
@lionaticenterprises5703 3 роки тому
Its killing me everyday . It kills happiness
@Bushify13
@Bushify13 4 роки тому
Not directed at this video, just a general comment: Really bugs me when people go 'im so OCD' 'thats so OCD' and use it in a joke way to describe stuff that is nothing like actual OCD. OCD has completely torn apart and destroyed large portions of my life, its not a joke or fun and the way the word is incorrectly used in a joke way the whole time makes people with it like me feel like no one understands what actual OCD is like
@mentalhelp8474
@mentalhelp8474 2 роки тому
Ive been doing some of my own videos on this and you are right. :)
@jabyc3646
@jabyc3646 7 років тому
my OCD is so bad so that I kick out my roommate because she always put her backpack on my bed. I don't know why but it just drive me crazy until I get a cold sweat
@zoep.2891
@zoep.2891 5 місяців тому
One doesn't need to say something mean to get shunned by family and friends, it's enough to suffer from OCD for most of one's life and therefore to not have the energy and headspace to perform like others expect/demand.
@yesmine5869
@yesmine5869 2 роки тому
Amazing
@slimwolf7434
@slimwolf7434 4 роки тому
you have ocd and you are soldier and your mission is to bring back your true self your true soul
@jairozetino5412
@jairozetino5412 3 роки тому
Now maybe people starts to understand that ocd is not about cleaning and arranging things.
@kidzenith8636
@kidzenith8636 4 роки тому
Damn, this helped
@Jake-te8et
@Jake-te8et Рік тому
I can't stand the thought of insects in my home. I'll sit for about a minute tugging on my locked door handle when I leave, only to run back up and check my door again once I get into my car. I have to clean, do laundry, eat at restaurants in the same manner that I'm comfortable with or I start to have a panic/anxiety attack with my vision closing in on me.
@mjturner6291
@mjturner6291 7 років тому
What she said 'wait, do i have OCD?' what the captions say 'wait, do i have a CD?' -.-
@davidj2348
@davidj2348 5 років тому
I hate having ocd
@deepakjha9257
@deepakjha9257 2 роки тому
Hello lovely people out there, see there is nothing to prove, mucho ánimo a todos 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
@frost1183
@frost1183 4 роки тому
I’ve said some pretty horrific stuff in therapy lol
@realityofhuman4649
@realityofhuman4649 5 років тому
I have results from my training for a year know and I have to wriht an article in science but because of my OCD I still didn't start yet every time I decided to start I find myself afraid to not doing it right so it's not funny at all it so stressful
@sorayairvani3753
@sorayairvani3753 Рік тому
if ur looking for a video to cradle you and tell you you're not alone this is it xxx
@IBRAHIM_990_SUBSCRIBE
@IBRAHIM_990_SUBSCRIBE 2 роки тому
Memory boosting tablets help in OCD.
@Vajrabrother
@Vajrabrother 6 років тому
Was is a memory disorder and low self esteem or self negative view (judgement) ? ....and how did it ever "creep" into Psyche ? (Soul) !!
@annanavenicka9688
@annanavenicka9688 3 роки тому
For me it is piling of stress and anxiety through my school years, and that can ''disorder'' brain making it go into overdrive, which leads to chemical imbalances and your brain suddenly can't filter what thought is in actual need of panic and attention. Prolonged time in loneliness and lack of serotonin can also cause it. However, in my opinion, low-self esteem mostly comes after the intrusive thoughts, because you start to convince yourself that since you have these thoughts, you are a worthless person and BAM the insecurities kick in and cycle gets stronger.
@adrienb.9458
@adrienb.9458 7 років тому
I Have O.C.D. since my Age of 3. My Friends think that I'm Crazy.
@tealeq4010
@tealeq4010 5 років тому
You're not crazy, you can't help it and you're suffering. I hope you're able to get help for it
@farky42
@farky42 5 років тому
Well you're not. I actually feel I have gone crazy myslef with my own OCD. There's no way I could not feel how I do and act out the compulsions.. However I hate it and it is life-ruining completely. I wish people knew more about it and didn't joke about this awful horrible condition we have.
@dariusstan8993
@dariusstan8993 3 роки тому
Find new friends
@echopulse2974
@echopulse2974 3 роки тому
Fast heartbeat! :)
@hakobo5795
@hakobo5795 4 роки тому
I have HarmOCD
@lu8201
@lu8201 4 роки тому
Me too.
@doublem6027
@doublem6027 3 місяці тому
How are you doing now ?
@prakatpgopisetty3318
@prakatpgopisetty3318 7 місяців тому
I have female OCD
@zoep.2891
@zoep.2891 5 місяців тому
The TV show Monk makes fun of OCD and there is too much light-heartedness and fun in this TEDTalk, too, at least for me. OCD is debilitating and ERP does not work for everyone.
@AdarshYadav-ud7nz
@AdarshYadav-ud7nz Рік тому
The thought that comes are real or false???? Please answer
@MEMES-gy8sl
@MEMES-gy8sl Рік тому
we only create our thoughts bro in ocd we create thoughts which we fear from
@sasazheng2825
@sasazheng2825 5 років тому
I never knew I had OCD until I search it up why is my head telling me to do things, it’s just not normal, I freaked out when I found out I am OCD.
@dianaray1470
@dianaray1470 3 місяці тому
Why am I the only one that thought that this was awkward 😬
@user-fu4zf7di5i
@user-fu4zf7di5i 3 роки тому
Ihave ocd hopefully God most honorable most glorified besides whom there is no power wishes will help me overcome it easily.
@Gagandeep-ce6pw
@Gagandeep-ce6pw 4 роки тому
I also have ocd could anyone connect me
@lu8201
@lu8201 4 роки тому
Trigger warning in beginning. Our throughts aren't funny. We gotta accept them
@rickcharmingtv
@rickcharmingtv 6 років тому
One of those cameramen is obsessed with moving the camera.
@Hirunichamo_10
@Hirunichamo_10 4 роки тому
What if your ocd is picking out all your hair until nothing is left.
@Hirunichamo_10
@Hirunichamo_10 4 роки тому
Although she's absolutely lovely and very inspiring.
@abbyfairbrother6057
@abbyfairbrother6057 4 роки тому
This is an actual diagnosable condition.
@lu8201
@lu8201 4 роки тому
Yes it can be linked to ocd. The skin picking can be a compulsion. It's called (dermatillomania)
@IBRAHIM_990_SUBSCRIBE
@IBRAHIM_990_SUBSCRIBE Рік тому
I invite all of you to accept Islam as your religion. Its true religion and its message is for all mankind.
@Lunaluvskitties
@Lunaluvskitties Рік тому
This is the only cure ❤
@prakatpgopisetty3318
@prakatpgopisetty3318 7 місяців тому
Not autism or DID
@iooosef6006
@iooosef6006 2 роки тому
pepepains
@samsmom400
@samsmom400 Рік тому
I am horrified at hearing what she thinks is "funny". First you have a thought. If you don't control or switch your thought process, you speak what you're thinking. Once it's spoken, you are only one step away from acting on it. Lori Daybell, the "mother" who is linked to the deaths of her 2 children, sister, brother, and husbands, had a brother who did stand up comedy and this woman, sounds just like him. He is now dead, but he did kill Lori's EX for her. It's believed that Lori killed him to silence him. I would NEVER, EVER, let someone like this woman near me, my family, or my pet. EVER.
@serene3175
@serene3175 6 місяців тому
With all due respect, the whole problem is that the person who suffers from ocd cannot stop the thought. they want to, and they try to, but the more they try to get rid of it, the harder it sticks.
@samsmom400
@samsmom400 6 місяців тому
@@serene3175 I understand that. But if she can't stop the thought, she will very likely follow through with the action. If those are the thoughts that she's having and unable to control, she's even more likely to follow through and do an action she says she can't control.
@serene3175
@serene3175 6 місяців тому
@@samsmom400 The thoughts don’t stem from desire, they stem from anxiety. Notice how the thought is “what if i did this” rather than “i want to do this”. Since she has trauma from saying something inappropriate, she is afraid that she will say something inappropriate again. In a person without ocd, they will move on from the thought, but when a person does have ocd, the thought sticks because of their fear and previous trauma. The brain is trying to protect this person from doing something that they don’t want to do. Almost all people with intrusive thoughts don’t act on them or even agree with them, because the thoughts are something that threatens their character and their ideals.
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