Take care of yourself sweetie, where ever you are. You are Devine and deserve every bit of real happiness and love this world has to offer you just need to remind yourself of this everyday. ❤ sending you so much strength

you are strong, you are free ♥ all the best to you

I’m so glad to hear you made it out. I wish I all the best, and much happiness to come :)❤

I'm so proud of you!! I can't imagine how hard that was. Keep moving onwards and upwards. I wish good things your way and empowerment every day💜

YOU'RE FREE!!!!! Thats what matters. Clothes, jewelry, furniture all of that can be replaced. You escaped and I am SO proud of you.

Still doesnt understand how the channel isnt more popular when its this good and the song is used everywhere

this music video was actually artistically taken from the creator Marcy Dawns short film the ribbon, that she made in 2019, and she had gotten no credit for it

@@JeanetteDufrisne Is it available anywhere? I couldn’t find anything about it. Or do you know if the creators of this video had direct access to it?

@@JeanetteDufrisneim confused because the lyrics are synced perfectly?

i know right

More like the ribbon is her freedom, that men thought they could latch on to for their own dirty needs and use her! That ribbon is really pretty on her hands on the end! She had to unfortunately cut away, hide away, or pain a part of herself...just to get rid of those dirty people.. But now she's free, with her beautiful ribbon as a sign of bravery and beauty of the feminine returning! 🍉🕜💯

I love her in the video though she’s always leading him by her ribbon. The ribbon was always hers. She was reclaiming it.

I am sorry this happened to you. This was very beautifully written

In the end they always prove how weak they are....

I'm glad you survived this. Please, remember to be kind to yourself. It never heals completely, having an abusive parent. But we can take care and keep watch so that we never become the slightest thing like them.

You’re not alone in the journey 💕

Ugh this comment 😭

“Poetry is the way we help give name to the nameless so it can be thought.” -Audrey Lorde

this and Labour - my gosh

​@@MsAuditiesfr. If loving someone is labour, m WALK TF AWAY

Probably 😂😅

You know, mankind's closest relatives are the common chimpanzee & the pygmy chimpanzee, aka the bonobo. Common chimps are violent, patriarchal & heterosexual; in contrast, bonobo females are bisexual in practice, but they're really lesbians who only have transactional sex w/ males if another female isn't around. They only bond w/ females, & bc they only bond w/ females, bonobo culture is a matriarchy in which males have little power. Status among females is determined by a female bonobo's appeal to the alpha females. Bonobos have zero tolerance for male aggression, & if a male hits or tries to rape a female, all that she has to do is vocalize her distress, & the other females will come flying, gang up on the male, beat the hell out of him & drive him out of the troupe. They don't mess around, either; the females aren't killers, but they have been known to rip digits & even penises off of offending males. Bc they dominate the males so much as a result of their sexual attraction to each other, there is virtually no violence in bonobo culture, except w/ regard to taking care of business w/ aggressive males. No rape, murder or infanticide. In contrast, life for a female chimp is pure hell; the males physically abuse them, kill their infants to get them to go into heat & then rape them. Humans & common chimps do not properly express a gene that lowers male aggression; most bonobo males do. And in the only IQ competition between the species, the bonobos won, in part bc the male chimps couldn't stop fighting w/ each other long enough to accomplish the task at hand, & in part bc bonobos are super smart in add'n to being much more docile. Female bonobos spend the majority of their sex lives w/ other females, so their birth rate is much lower than that of common chimps; however, the rate of survival to adulthood is approx the same bc bonobo males don't kill offspring. How many children will not grow up bc of male violence in the Middle East & elsewhere? In many ways, the bonobos are culturally more civilized than humanity, & it seems that a Sapphic matriarchy is the key to world peace. Bonobos & common chimps share a common ancestral group that was cut in two by the Congo River, & the separate populations went their own way evolutionarily. Acc to scientists, a mutation occurred that resulted in a shift in bonobo female genitalia & they discovered that they were orgasmic w/ each other, but not w/ males, hence the reason for the tight female bonds that allow them to physically dominate males even though the average bonobo male is larger than the average bonobo female. (Common chimps are just apparently non-orgasmic, poor girls). The point to all of the foregoing is that I don't think that straight women are capable of throwing off the hetero yoke that men have on them. They're just not wired to bond sufficiently w/ other women to form a truly powerful sisterhood. I look at straight women as highly evolved female chimps & lesbians as highly evolved bonobos. Humans have the genes of a number of archaic homo species in their genomes, & I imagine that gay women reflect the genetic contribution of an extinct species that was organized along the female-dominated bonobo model as opposed to the common chimp patriarchal model. Thus, it seems to me that women are doomed to bitch about what assholes men are w/o being able to do much about it as long as they are so attracted to men that they will throw themselves under the bus to have them in their lives & drag other women w/ them.

Your comment made me tear up. Thank you for fighting so gdamn hard for the following generations. Thank you for being you.

Omg you are so strong !!

Yeah my favourite too but she has to share jointly with Ren and Chinchilla , so much good stuff out there

The video idea was actually taken from another creator, her name is Marcie Dawn and she hasn’t gotten any credit for it

For me it was yesterday! Definitely obsessed. She’s so young to write with so much insight and clarity. It’s amazing.

Subjective, but every one has their experience

For what it's worth, my family and I escaped my dad 7 years ago and have never been happier. He only didn't beat us because my mom cracked him over the back with a baseball bat the one time he tried. Hang in there, you'll find your way out. Make friends, you'll need them to help you get out when the time comes.

Right there with you momma :(