The Milky Way is only one galaxy.

Not your fault, their sick minds.

He could have also been secretly gay and you could have been his beard 🤷

Quick talking $h!+ about your ex. Grow up ffs. Have some class.

So he lied, you were mars not earth, learn your planetary order girl.

Is he a psychopath because he left you? If so, are you a narcissist who's tryin to create a twisted image of your ex because he left you? If not then what a twat he was..lol

@@andresandres1666 lol… sorry my mistake 😝

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Thank you for saying his name, I didn't even know it!

clear case of Love Bombing. Are you narcissistic ?

You are most welcome!

I agree

Creepy.

I still think they show red flags even when being sweet.

Yeah...and to be honest, once you've experienced it, you don't want anything but that

Sarcasm

Scary but true.

I was raised this way too. I was basically told to be "logical" about every goal, decision, discussion, and action. Yet, I have observed real mental illnesses and evil, as well as experienced anguish myself. Yet, it still hard to convince parents who value "scientific thinking" about the existence of mental illness and investigators to describe the workings of the human mind and brain. That is, they don't really believe in psychology and psychiatry, basically by how they constructed their social circles and professions. I had more curiosity about the unbelievable variety in this world.

Sounds like you grew around a bunch of narcs ,it tends to be an idea of theirs that everyone is like them but somehow inferior cause they don’t do the same decisions.

As a kid nobody never spoke about that too ,they were very perfect and lovely family

Mental illness is very real.

Tell your parents to look at a Schizophrenic person for at least 300 hours to see what they think about their """"science"""".

This video touches on that construct: ukposts.info/have/v-deo/h3-Kfatwa3lqpGw.html

@@DrGrande Thank you! Really enjoy your content here. It's nice to see someone actually taking the science seriously, rather than trying to go for a sensationalistic approach.

Its probably the ones who aren’t in prison

Just look at high level bankers , lawyers, record company execs , Hollywood producers , actors and politicians . I would bet most of them are successful psychopaths

@@commissaryarrick9670 Reaserch doesn’t back that up. Psychopaths can only typically end up in positions of power for long periods of time if they have say: a family member who put them their and keeps them their. Psychopath are just too impulsive and erratic to maintain anything for long periods of time It would make more sense that Machiavellians and Narcissistic individuals end up in positions of power and stay there.

My impression of the psychopaths I've observed and tried to understand informally as an academic in a non-psychology field is that intelligence, personal restraint/control, etc., are different factors (perhaps correlated). The dumber the psychopath, the more likely they were to think they could get away with bad behavior and thus do it. The smarter the psychopath, the more they could manipulate under the radar and people would only realize aftewards the damage they had done. // one thing we forget is to consider psychopathy as a continuum rather than a binary (psychopath or not). And, I'm thinking of the most extreme cases I've seen -- and, in a way, the least successful psychopaths (kind of dumb men, really) // My feeling is that we should identify these traits early on and train individuals explicitly in societal norms and laws, whether or not they feel bound to them, as they can often obey these if it's in their best interest. Our laws are based on what people *do*, rather than how they think. Secondly, I think we should train them to be more empathetic and at least to read other people's emotions and the results of their positive and bad behaviors. For nearly everyone, it's possible to grow one's empathy, if one's interest is sparked and there's sincere motivation & dedication. Lastly, I think we should more explicitly teach psychology -- not in a theoretical way, but in a very practical way -- to all children. Working with people, identifying traits, knowing oneself, and how oneself and others fit in this world, all would help children be successful in friendships, romantic relationships, and their professions. People who are good with people go further than solitary people who simply work hard .

I think that's what I'm dealing with like one of those guys that I didn't give my number to one time and so he decided to be a psychopath or something 🤔

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Quit talking sh!+ about your ex. Grow up ffs, have some class.

@@smackdashitoutchu7755 she’s here for help

Are you out of a relationship with them?

@@cyropower7808 I am. We're safe. He still lives close and still won't go away, but I'm getting help to make sure we'll be safe from him for a long time. Thanks. I hope you are safe, too.

Can you recommend some more of his videos to watch on this subject? I’m sure I could just search but I know there’s 1 or 2 that you’d want others to watch. I’m trying to learn about psychopathy, antisocial and sociopathy and of course narcissism. Are there different types and levels to all and where do they all tie in and what’s the core term? I know antisocial replaced the term psychopaths (at least that’s what I heard)?

I haven't watched this video yet but I'm pretty sure it boils down to the priesthood requiring sexual abstinence combined with the previous hard-indoctrination against homosexuality. Its a recipe that attracted gay men and lesbian women who took society's shame out on the kids. I doubt it will occur nearly as often now that the social stigma is lo longer, plus I highly doubt priests and nuns actually maintain that vow when they can sneak out( in regular clothes) to a stranger using Tinder or Grinder. The actual true exclusive-pedophiles will still be attracted to places where kids end up under their control, especially moral influence which gives them a chance at internal and projected justification - to call it love that God always endorses. Finally another point that just struck me is undying regard and unlimited respect for religion to the extent of devoting one's life to it requires maintaining a sense of wonder.. or emotional immaturity... that aligns itself with the mental traits of pure-pedophiles...but that's just throwing something out there don't hold me to it I might disagree with myself in five minutes.

You are most welcome!

But do psychopaths feel jealousy?

@@aurav1376 l cannot seem to find the article. Forgot where I read it. Maybe it's part of the mind games Or because they view people as possessions

That sounds plausible.

@@aurav1376 I think that is like the chicken and the egg argument. The psychopath wouldn't say I felt jealous so I acted out. They would say I acted that way because I was angry, or I didn't care about the consequences at the time. Remember that psychopaths wear a mask of sanity, they are acting normal, seeing all their behavior as normal.

Yes I guess. Idk Would leave me alone. I guess they figure I'm an easy target and they're predator cluster B's 🤷

Are you still together with him?

Do psychopaths hit?

Madsen who killed the Journalist in the Submarin, was also into the BDSM community ‼️

Your girls aren’t interested in a relationship with a man but you hope someone will change that? What does that mean?

Oh yes I'd love to hear this opinion too!!!

I mean I think some of these guys are probably gay so maybe there is a sexual component

@Diogenes TheDog ty for the input, and I agree multiple sessions with a professional would help differentiate the two for sure. I guess my question was really... Could a patient with Paranoid PD be mistaken for a psychopath by common folks without education on the topic. Like, would the average person think a Paranoid is a psycho? As far as mental health professionals and their diagnoses, I'm sure they would identify the differences rather easily. P.S. good luck with your journey in education!

null Gr8 question!

i do not think i will ever love people. The self awareness has led me to recognize my own abomination i can not depart from. Fibonacci. I am doomed by all means of physics and chemistry,

My ex had a meth addiction before he met me. I was told through my therapy, that meth changes the brain on top of pre existing mental issues. For example, my ex was insatiable in his appetite to get into one form of trouble or encounter .. he slept less than 3 hours a day and would be in and out all the time. The meth creates this increased craving for astronomical levels of dopamine and serotonin, unbelievable energy because their addiction trained them to never sleep .. even after they 'quit' using. They do the most disrespectful things right under your nose. I can't believe the small signs I missed early on about the secret sexual side.

Amongst other things…

I believe that if you continue watching anything that's quite violent in nature youre mind becomes desensitised to it. That's facts. They don't get the dopamine hit from regular porn, so they go onto harder stuff and end up acting out their fantasies

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At the end of the day, they also want to pass their traits as much as possible through all means

Psychopathy is not gender biased bro! Chill!

Psychopaths are far more likely to be extroverts.

@@smackdashitoutchu7755 yeah they’re very likable among people but deep inside they hate people or even interacting with them, they only use extroversion to get something from people

Depending on why type of psychopath the person is. I'm diagnosed as a charismatic psychopath. I often attract and hunt for extrovert empaths.

I would play the introvert card in this case for opposites attract and I'll use that to my advantage.

@@AnayaRapRock Lmao Your message had so much edge it cut my thumb as I touched my smartphone screen.

I'm not an expert, but my observation of the few truly unabashed psychopaths I know is that people knew the psychopath were superficially charming and women generally had a underlying bad feeling around them. Something about the way they communicated is that they were parroting words and behaviors intended to mislead their (female) victims into a position where sex would be used more for establishing dominance (power) than for mere pleasure. This person I'm thinking of did deal with everyone, including males, in their callous manner but sex with males wasn't the method to hurt men.

Interesting observations. Every psychopath is different, so your thoughts are definitely valid towards a maladaptive psychopath who is obsessed with power. But not all psychopaths are maladaptive. Not all psychopaths will be sexually oppressive to their partners. I’m not a psychopath but with my partner, I tend to play with what I can get away in bed but I never go so far as to hurt her because there’s always a safe action/word in case it becomes too much. There is a power dynamic in sex but a clear distinction between having violent sex with a maladaptive psychopath versus a non psycho is that you will actually enjoy the sex rather than be traumatized by it.

Mine is - keep going 😂

S&M is not S&M with the use of safe words..

How about a video on psychopathy and plagiarism? Let's give Norm MacDonald his due credit for this joke, Mr. Frank Stallone.

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50 shades of grey

It's a mental disorder. Those people are mentally f'ed up.

I want to know this too.

I'm a PhD in a completely different field than psychology, but I have developed an interest in psychology, due to the psychopaths and (well, honestly) strange males I've encountered over the years during my travels (platonic aquaintences or friendship as long as they could last with their huge troubles). And, when I've gained the trust of these men, they've admitted their actions, thoughts, and reasoning. And, I've watched numerous interviews of convicted men, etc., out of morbid fascination. So, that said, I'll tell you my impressions, as a non-expert. // I'm going to only talk about male offenders, because motivations of women usually seem quite distinct in motivation. The men seem divided into a couple groups: (1) some men don't have the ability to think in another person's shoes, specifically children, and don't understand how their actions hurt children, (2) most men, I believe, just let a thought or fantasy grow inside until some situation occurs where they transgress boundaries, such as being drunk or ending up in #3, because their desires have grown so large, (3) some men are able to rationalize their behaviors for specific cases -- the children they abuse -- as something exceptional from the norms of hurtful behaviors, (4) some men wish to harm others or have power over others (psychopaths). Of those convicted pedaphiles I've heard in interviews, it appears to me that the group of #4 is overemphasized compared to the normal population with greater than 50% being psychopathic. There is a significant number of #1, who could have been informed, educated, and trained on emotional ability, impulse control, and societies norms, such that they didn't lose their life to prison nor would have hurt so many people. Of the #4, they still could be educated about the legal consequences misbehavior and convinced it's just not in their best interest (since that's all they care about). But, I think the majority of these cases are in category #3, where it's some normal interaction -- family relations, friendly neighbors, helping out in social clubs -- just starts with a thought and grows unmanageable for that individual. In these cases, they need to be taught to recognize bad thoughts and discard them early before they're unmanageable. That is, keep fantasies as fantasies. All this is made harder with the demonization of pedaphiles. They cannot talk publicly, among friends, among family, nor even to counselors/psychologists. So, to get past just making stronger laws and social punishments to the destruction their lives and everyone around them, we will need to start by having sympathy for offenders (this doesn't mean condoning nor holding back punishment for any misbehavior) and giving them the tools to be successful in society before something bad happens -- rather than silencing them. And, to help them as well as all types of criminals reintegrate into society, rather than become worse in prisons before being released. Those are my current thoughts as a non-expert and I invite opinions and research that might refine or even change my opinion.

@@LeonCouchYou’re absolutely right. People need to learn that demonising will only promote the rate of sexual assault victims of children. It’s a controversial, emotional topic. Not an easy issue but one step is realizing these people as disordered and getting all the help they can get will reduce the amount of cases.

For a lot of people it's probably a domination/submission thing. And for the chockee there's things happening in the brain during oxygen deprivation that can lead to pleasure.

Being choked / oxygen deprivation intensifies the orgasm a lot, you don´t even need a kink for it to work ^^. On the other hand, yes it´s a very powerful symbol of power. You´re practically holding someones life in your hands

It intensifies orgasms.

Dark side Force users. :)

I don't know but I love being choked. I love being slapped and dominated in general. And I end up falling madly in love with my dom. Surprisingly I've never had a dom cheat but they are mean in other ways and sometimes flat out abusive. Ive never found a man that's into that that isn't a narcissist. I've learned to accept it because I can't live without good play time.

@@pain5835 moral fiber for a total psychopath, yes.

Is it abuse, if they like it? What danger are you talking about? Danger being a psychopath? For sure not only because of that.

You’re in danger if you actually harm them and they report you to the authorities.

Pain is pleasurable for some people and if they truly want you to do those things and there's communication about it (and a safe word or alert of some sort set for when they want it to stop), then you're just having sex! Just like having "vanilla" sex requires consent and the ability for both partners to stop it if they want to at any point.

Caren Blomgren pain being pleasurable is in itself a sign of a mental disorder even if it’s not listed as such