Many are saying I'm an idiot for saying that females cannot rape. FYI, I am referring to the LEGAL definition of rape in my country, Singapore. The legal definition of rape according to the penal code is penile penetration of a vagina without a woman's consent (or if female is below 14). Male on male penetration is not called rape, female on male penetration is not called rape. Sodomizing somebody isn't rape either. Just quoting what the law books say. It isn't MY definition so no point getting all pissy at me. And no, I am not wrong. Ok? ok.

wow. her ending. I guess she already expected this video to be demonetized so she went all out uncensored.

"I don't need feminism because when I say no to feminism, feminists don't understand that no means no" You just gave me my motto

That sign-off, tho. LOL

I'm very sad that all the 500+ comments are deleted... Some of them were really good, and I wrote long replies to many questions. :( Anyway, I just want to repeat the same point again: This video is targeting MODERN THIRD WAVE FEMINISM - in case that much is not obvious enough. Feminism is still very much needed in shitty third world countries where a lot of women are still being oppressed. I know that. So if you wish to debate anything in this video, kindly only address modern feminism and modern feminist movements. And ps: "You are ignorant, go and read more about feminism you idiot" is not a valid argument.

I would pay Xiaxue to be my lawyer

I remember the day I swore off 3rd wave feminism. It was when I made a statement that my ambition was to be a great, loving housewife, because I would like to devote all my time to raising my kids and family. I had always loved kids (heck, my favourite youtube videos to watch are videos of adorable kids). And then a throng of feminazis descended upon me, calling me ignorant, uneducated, victim of internalised oppression (?!), and also what I think is a stock phrase used by American SJWs, "go pick up a book". I was like, excuse me? I'm not uneducated, in fact, I'm about to graduate law school. I am not oppressed, at every stage of my life, I have never been deprived of any opportunity merely because of my gender. I'm not ignorant, and have read up about feminism (I suspect I've read more books than the people who told me to "pick up a book"). Honestly, there are so many definitions of feminism floating around, I'm not even sure feminists can agree on one definition. but I know what feminism ISN'T. It isn't shaming a woman just because her choices/goals differ from yours. Since when did feminism mean that the choices women make had to fit some sort of feminist-endorsed mould? Are some feminists suggesting that a housewife is inferior to a corporate-powered career woman? Cuz that's pretty hypocritical. You're oppressing and discriminating ME, A WOMAN, just like the oppressors you cry out against. This, and several other incidents of hypocritical, intolerant, illogical 3rd wave feminism has made me shun this movement. I know not all 3rd wave feminists are like that. Nevertheless, I don't feel comfortable identifying as a member of a community that has such a large proportion of distasteful members.

In Singapore, it is undeniable that females are accorded more rights and protection whereas males are burdened with more liabilities. Let me list some of these examples. Bear in mind that all of these are not merely ambiguous social protocols but legislated and institutionalised policies. S375 of the Penal Code The offence of rape is gender-specific. A woman cannot be charged with rape, regardless of how heinous a sexual misconduct she commits. Amendment to S376 of the Penal Code Prior to Jan 2020 (before the recent criminal law reform), a woman who 'rapes' a man (forces a man to penetrate her with his penis) cannot even be charged under S376 (sexual assault involving penetration). Hence, she can only be charged under S354 (outrage of modesty), which carries the maximum sentence of only 2 years imprisonment. In contrast, a man who commits exactly the same offence is deemed a case of rape, which carries the maximum sentence of 20 years imprisonment, a difference of a factor of 10. Repeal of S509 and enactment of S377BA of the Penal Code Prior to Jan 2020, males are not protected under the insult of modesty (non-physical sexual harassment) law. In fact, prior to the establishment of Protection from Harassment Act in 2014, there is seemingly no legal recourse for males if they are subjected to non-physical harassment. Currently, women are still more protected than men from modesty related offences. Laws such as S27(1)(d) of the Miscellaneous Offences (Public Order and Nuisance) Act and S4 of the Defamation Act are gender-specific and only protect women. S377 of the Penal Code No provision pertaining to the deviant act of sexual exploitation of a corpse by a woman exist. Under the current legal framework, S377 (sexual penetration of a corpse) applies explicitly for males only. A woman who employs the penis of a deceased man to sexually penetrate herself on her own accord is seemingly not liable for any legal repercussion. S377A of the Penal Code Male homosexual acts of any nature (even private acts) are condemnable under the law (outrages of decency) whereas female homosexual acts are not subjected to this abjective limitation. S366, S372, S373, S373A of the Penal Code, Part XI of the Women's Charter etc Most laws protecting victims of prostitution are gender-specific and are only accorded to females. S61 of the Education (Schools) Regulations With regards to medical examination in school, consent from girls over the age of 10 is mandated under the law if they are to be examined by a male person. Consent from boys over the age of 10 (or of any age for the matter) is not mandated under the law, regardless of circumstances. S83 of the Criminal Procedure Code With regards to body searching, a male officer can only conduct searches upon a female person if he has strong reasons to believe that she is a terrorist and that she is about to carry out an act of terrorism. Conversely, no such limitation is imposed upon female officers and they are empowered to conduct searches upon persons of any sex, regardless of circumstances. S69 of the Women's Charter A woman is eligible to file for spousal maintenance against her husband regardless of circumstances. However, a man is only eligible to file for spousal maintenance against his wife if he is permanently incapacitated before or during the marriage and by virtue of his incapacity, he is rendered permanently unable to maintain himself. A woman is also eligible for file for nominal maintenance in cases where her earning capacity is similar or higher than her counterpart. A man is not accorded this right. Gender-specific financial schemes Schemes such as Working Mother's Child Relief, Basic Childcare Subsidy, Foreign Maid Levy Relief and Grandparent Caregiver Relief are only applicable for mothers. Even single fathers are not eligible for any of these perks. Unequal parental leave Mothers are entitled to 16 weeks of paid maternal leave whereas fathers are only entitled to 2 weeks of paid paternal leave. It must be said that a recent change in policy has allowed fathers to 'siphon' up to 4 weeks of paid parental leave from their counterparts, subjective to their partners' concurrence. However, only married fathers are entitled to paid paternal leave and shared parental leave. Mothers are entitled to paid maternity leave, regardless of marital status. Moreover, fathers, even single fathers are not entitled to paid adoption leave. An adoptive mother is entitled to 12 weeks of paid adoption leave. A married adoptive father is entitled to 4 weeks of shared parental leave, subjective to his partner's concurrence. A single adoptive father is not eligible for any parental leave aside from paid childcare leave. S4(3) of the Adoption of Children Act A single man is not eligible to adopt a female child unless in 'exceptional circumstances'. Conversely, a single woman is free to adopt a child of any sex. Termination of Pregnancy Act A father has absolutely zero prenatal parental rights but is subjected to the full spectrum of parental liabilities. A mother can, with her unilateral decision and without the consent or even knowledge of her counterpart, goes for an abortion and deprive her counterpart of his child, regardless of the father’s wishes or means. A mother can also, on her own decision and without the consent or knowledge of her counterpart, delivers a child, in which her counterpart is expected to fulfill his legal and moral obligations to be responsible for the welfare of the child, regardless of the father’s wishes or means. This is true even in cases whereby the child is a product of sexual assault perpetrated by the mother. The fundamental principle here is 'my body my choice'. Principles such as 'our child our choice', 'my money my choice' and 'its life its right to live' are of little significance. S53(e) of the Penal Code and S325 - S332 of the Criminal Procedure Code; S88 of the Education (Schools) Regulations Only males are subjected to institutionalised corporal punishment (judicial, military and school caning) in Singapore. Females are not to be caned under any circumstances. The principle of equal liberty and liability is of little significance when it comes to gender. National Service Only males are required to serve their mandatory obligation to the state. This is despite the fact that the stature governing the policies of national service (Enlistment Act) is gender-neutral and seemingly applies to all persons, regardless of sex. Persons who completed their mandatory service and persons who are exempted from service are accorded the same statutory rights and privileges.

Xiaxue is the only one out of the //influencers// that has the balls to talk about unpopular opinions and dares to put it up on the net. The rest of us would rather be sheeple (aka me tbh). For this, i admire her guts. Edit: only one IN SINGAPORE

Xiaxue needs to be have a debate with Emma Watson.

expectation: feminism = equality reality: feminism = equality if it has advantages

Finally a famous youtuber that's is not feminist and is not afraid to say it and share their opinion. This is why I've always loved you Xiaxue. You the best!!

Since this video was deleted, then I definitely have to comment again that Xiaxue I am in love with this look you got going on! It's so stunning! Tutorial please?! 😍

I'm an ex feminist. and I love this lol

The whole don't walk a dark alley because you'll get raped, definately applies to everyone. Like to kids don't cross the road without looking both ways. Or a perfect example my brother walked down the wrong street at night and got mugged. Danger doesn't care, it is universal, and we should be pretecting ourselves.

It's amazing hearing this from a female. Straight forward and relevant. ❤️

Please do more politically incorrect videos. you are seriously the only beauty vlogger that actually as the balls to do this, You are an inspiration for young girls to think for themselves and not develop an oppression complex ❤❤❤

Regarding the period blood video. If the women wants a natural process to be accepted etc then it should be acceptable for guys to film workout videos when they still have their morning wood and spread their legs while they're stretching to show people. It's a natural process after all.

I love they're how they keep saying men should not be disgusted by a natural bodily function while I'm pretty sure being disgusted is a natural bodily response to that thanks to our survival instincts. This is the first video of yours I've ever seen but you're already my fav youtuber

Not a feminist either, with the exception of the first wave and a couple benefits from the second wave...I would say men and women have traits that are complementary to one another making them unique that are designed to create a strong and healthy team...however...for whatever reason, as a society, we have decided to throw those attributes away and become self serving....yikes.

straight like that. wow I was impressed that she uses facts and not emotion to convey her thoughts,plus its slick true.

Man i love your old blogs like this and vids like this!. Please please go back to this stuff!

I hate how people use feminism to justify the things that they do and say, so much so that it has lost its purpose. love how you also managed to say everything I wanted to say so clearly :)

These are the reasons I’m not a feminist too.

*claps* you've just said what I've been wanting to say to those easily offended extreme "feminists" If a feminist belittles other women that has different beliefs than her/himself, how is he/she any better?

i wonder if feminists actually watch til the end of the video or immediately dislike and report after xiaxue says she is not a feminist.

That’s actually heartbreaking that in Singapore rape is explicitly defined as being only perpetrated by men towards women.

They want three things The authority of a man The privilege of a woman The accountability of a child

Wooooowwww! Someone is really trying to silence you. Keep being you girl, don't ever hesitate to speak your truth. This was a great video and I agree so much. I'm glad more and more people are finally opening their eyes.

Xiaxue i subscribed to you even though I'm a male and probably have no interest in the fashion or beauty stuff because you made extremely well reasoned arguments that impressed me. Hope you do more thoughtful social commentary in the future.

Men and women are (or should be) equal under the law. That guaraties equality of opportunities. But other than that, we are very different and that is how it should be.

Feminist just complain about everything and only wanna have “talks” about things that affect society but will go home to their nice house and pretend like nothing happens and then go complain more and do the same hypocritical thing

She is probably one of the only female youtubers that are truly funny not cringey! keep it up (go Singapore!)

Honestly, I feel like those people who get out of their way just to try and oppose xiaxue without valid facts to back them up are as entertaining as they are annoying.

I don't totally agree with your point of view on feminism, but you made really good points UNTIL you said women who don't shave or put on makeup are lazy and ugly. Come on...

Finally someone talks sense on internet - thanks xiaxue!!!

for all of you who said that her own experiences don't talk for other women read the Tittle the "i" is highlighted so you may understand, she talks for herself.

We need more videos talking about this

This is among the greatest videos I have ever watched. Thank you!

First time I cam across your channel and I think I am in love. Love not only how accurate your are, but the comedic value you bring is amazing.

I'm not a feminist because I care for both genders problems and I know that rape/abuse/murder/boby shaming/personality traits shaming are things that both can suffer and both genders can aply to someone.

"Hello, my name is Emily and I am a feminist. I encourage you to take a moment to form an opinion of me based solely off the first sentence. Did ‘angry lesbian’ come to mind? Do you assume that I hate all men and stay-at-home moms? I hope the answer is no, that you did not make those judgments because I told you I was a feminist. Yet, if one (or all) of those thoughts crossed your mind, then I can’t blame you. For whatever reason our society has created such a negative association with feminism that it is actually an insult to be called one. " sad reality

I just found your channel last year and I have to say you have been wonderful with your content.

you are so smart Xiaxue!!! honestly so articulate i love you!!

your video and your way of destroying "twitter feminism" wave is awesome . you got a new subscriber :)

Feminists: "Why wouldn't you want men and women to be treated equally?" Me: "Because they aren't the same."

Loved the video! You're so much fun to watch! Thanks for not being crazy.

I think im a feminist because of seeing the domestic violence rates in my home country of Poland - and similarly the murder rates of other eastern euro countries. The lack of charges placed on these offenses and the slap on the wrist, russian actually decriminalized domestic violence offenses, turning them into fines in 2017. 25 now, I grew up in america for 75% of my life anyway so I feel far more comfortable here - not needing to feel as terrified for my life at work/out lol it all varies by countries in regards to womens rights/true need of feminism honestly.

love your style and gotta agree with most of what you said. I'm in for equal rights, not for extreme feminism. also people have to take into account our differences biologically. "equal rights" is not the same as "equal duties". you can't force women to do things that are harder for us, like physical work etc.

I felt the need to comment again :) I think there were butthurt feminists who reported this vid :/ I totally agree with most of the points you made XX, I don't care if people call me ignorant.I know 1st and 2nd wave feminism were definitely needed (and I thank these feminists for their hardwork), but I think the current 3rd wave feminism is too much (well, based on my life in Europe) - I get aggressive reactions from most of my feminists friends/acquaintances and they try to convince me that I am feminist, and I must be a feminist just because of my gender. I also got called for sexist because I told them I don't feel like a feminist since I don't protest actively, I don't even have any opinion that support this view, simply because I don't identify as one. Raised only in a family of females, I have never felt oppressed and only the feminists tries to tell me I am supposed to feel like I am the lower sex of this society, when in fact like you said there is a lot of advantages and things favoured on our side because of our sex. If feminists want everything to be absolutely equal, which I don't believe it's gonna happen since both sex has different advantages, then they might as well fight for equal right for males who are sentenced for a longer period than women for the exact same crime, or to abolish the law that women can escape death penalty if they manage to impregnate themselves, which obviously men cannot do. I can support some cases that feminists are fighting for, but not everything and I do not want to be called for a feminist.

Xiaxue bless your soul I am so happy someone else (who is in the media especially) thinks in my unpopular way, I wish I could be around you.

okay in the job aspect of feminism, i completely agree with you. i am a feminist but i don't fight for everything that a third wave feminist fights for. i'm a feminist not because women don't have equal rights and whatnot, but more about the social stigmas that are present in our society. Gender roles: society has assigned roles to genders and people are pressured to be a certain way and act a certain way. i am a feminist because i want men to be comfortable if they are more feminine and i want females to feel comfortable if they are more masculine and they shouldn't be ridiculed for that. it is a fact that society has deemed being feminine as a weakness (hear me out): being feminine defines you to be more emotional and hormonal, which is seen as a weakness. and more women are more feminine compared to men, so naturally there's sadly already a sort of social disadvantage as the "natural" thinking of female = feminine = weak. i am personally androgynous ( i display both masculine and feminine qualities ) ( i am a boy btw ) and i am ridiculed for being that way. my personality is a grey area between the binaries of masculinity and femininity, and i'm seen as weak. it is very saddening to see how society is taught that being emotional = being weak [ emotional meaning that you have strong feelings towards a lot of things, not sad ] [ and also addressing that the social norm at the moment is feminine = emotional OR feminine = submissive and easy to be taken advantage of, because being feminine equates to weakness. ] because the boys in my school are taught to "take it like a man" and "not to be a girl about it" which is really sickening because there is an obvious implication of female = weak. that is why i am a feminist. i am a feminist to break the norms, the binaries, the social standards and stigmas. but other than that, i actually really agree with you. i really do. i just wanted to add another dimension of feminism which is not talked much about; which is why i am a feminist. let me know what you think!!

Hm, was wondering why the video got deleted! I thought it wasn't Xiaxue to delete a video because of hate comments, glad the video is back up!

There's no protecting the video button? So they won't take it down

I love your sense of humor and your strength of character people who make up their own mind are the best I'm gonna go binge watch your other videos

Oh my gosh, I loved this video too much. You're amazing ❤️

I really appreciated your video. Can't say I agree 100%, but that's just how life is! And, hey, your arguments are valid! Most of the "why I'm not a feminist videos" are really stupid, so I got really happy that this one wasn't. Thanks, you acctually changed my mind a bit. I still think women im my country need feminism though, things are not as good around here, even if it's starting to get better! love SZ

Old and yet current. This was so accurate it should be taught is schools.

Hands down one of the best anti-feminism vid I've ever seen. And I've seen hundreds. Love your accent by the way.

Hey - Just discovered you as we moved to Singapore and gotta say we are fans. I totally think like you and so many people are just so bloody sensitive nowadays they simply can't stand opinions that are different than theirs. Keep being real!

very well said and also love the aesthetic of the video

The way you say "eat shit" in your accent is beautiful

glad I came across your page, this is a great video!

This is the cutest anti-feminism video I've ever seen 💟

THANK YOU!!!! Omg I totally agree with you!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Was waiting for this repost. Thanks XX

Love your view Xaixue, you are so honest and show your facts.

dude, where have you been? who are you? you're awesome!

Hey Xiaxue I love ur outfit of pink everything looks so good!😍

1. Money 2. Flashy car 3. Big house 4. Nice clothes 5. Large member

Hey, I'd never heard of you today, but I saw this video and I have to say that I loved it. You just earned a subscriber!

OMG!! I’m OBSESSED with you!! This was SUPER funny and SO educational!! I love it!

doing sociology a2 and I normally watch her vids... but I learnt so much thank youuuuuu

Very well spoken, Xiaxue! Talking about the important things 👍 This is my first vid of yours I've seen and just had to subscribe.

Thank you for enlightening me xiaxue, this is the final push for me in believing I'm not a feminist 😂❤️

I've never even heard of you, but this video alone made me subscribe to you. That, and I love your look and accent. ^_^

I've found the unicorn, I thought I would never see one, now all I need is too meet one in real life.

When your organization got what it wanted and needs to come up with excuses to exist, like a sitcom that just goes on and on.

Dude. Just joined your channel and subscriber family and I love it so much

Omg this is the first time I ever saw you and you are hilarious and awesome. Love you and don't ever change. Keep up the great work.

I love you and this video. Bravo. 😍😭

This made me like you more 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞 I'm so happy you re uploaded !!! 👍🏼👍🏼

Young women who reject radical feminism and don't act like entitled jerks will never have a shortage of interested men. Women who buy into radical feminism will hopefully enjoy life alone with their cat. Who would want a man around anyway?

Thank you so much for being brave enough to do this video! I completely agree with you. 💋

I love it! :) thanks for this vid. informative and witty. thanks for speaking up!

this girl is just awesome and extremely honest in the soul

another perspective to see in Feminism and you've just made me to download this video 👍🏻

And also, I love you cause you’re so open and never afraid to speak up. NEVER. We need an entire planet full of Xiaxues.

Amen sister, preach. As a woman you can't say you aren't a feminist without someone attacking you or your beliefs..

Just found your channel. Love it. Keep up the good work. Subscribed.

1st time viewer and I'm subscribing. This video was incredible!

Duidelik! Keep changing the narrative, I'm gonna keep watching...... and listening ❤ your channel will never get terminal cancer 😆. Thanku for doing you and sharing with us 😍

Brilliant, Xiaxue! I wish I could like this video a thousand times! Even the UN's so-called gender equality campaign is called #HeForShe. If they were truly for equality, they should have added #SheForHe to that. Men and women should be supporting each other, instead of being pitted against each other like modern feminists do. Therefore, Xiaxue: 1, Emma Watson: 0

Love your video and your style, it's amazing that you've pointed out the toxic nature of third-wave feminism and radical feminism. Although I appreciate the comedic nature of your content, some of the points you've made are slightly incendiary and not as apparent that they are only targeting extremist feminism.

I'm glad to see more Women speaking out about this. Thank you, this REALLY needed to be said and I appreciate it. You're awesome!

You. Are. Amazing. Straight up the BEST! I love the way you have addressed this issue! Relevant and important. Roasted to a crisp.

I type it again, why be a feminist when you can be like Xiaxue instead! Full of awesome. ♥

Empty talking is a sign of lack of knowledge.

Xiaxue, you really make me laugh each time I read or watch you. Do you know yours is the only channel I subscribed to?

Amazing and educating vid. Thanks for posting this else I would have thought that I am alone.