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Former FBI agent and body language expert Joe Navarro sits down with WIRED to talk about the non-verbal language of appearance. The ornate nature of how we attend to our bodies has grand significance throughout humankind. The way we present ourselves, across cultures, continues to be of massive importance. But, just how important is appearance to things like success, money and power?
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@plr2473
@plr2473 Рік тому
As a high school teacher it amazes me how attractive students get treated better. Even the teachers give them more attention. Unfortunately, some of them have terrible attitudes they think they can get away with. Often they do
@meladversity
@meladversity Рік тому
and on the other hand you have teachers who treat you worse for it, because they want to teach you a life lesson or whatever. expericences both as a teen and wish someone would've left their personal insecurities out of my school life (positive or negative)
@eddiebear34
@eddiebear34 Рік тому
@@meladversity so you are calling yourself good looking, is that right? And teachers bullied you for it? Sounds like lies to me tbh
@lucky-mud
@lucky-mud Рік тому
Seems totally plausible to me. I don’t see the need to bring this person down or call them a liar
@SchgurmTewehr
@SchgurmTewehr Рік тому
The Manipulation previously only used by psychopaths and other anti-Social personality types has now become widespread and acceptable behavior, yes.
@juanarocha8629
@juanarocha8629 Рік тому
Halo effect
@puipuipui3304
@puipuipui3304 Рік тому
My new fav quote- “Please stop worrying about what you look like as a result of how you were born. Let’s take what we have, and let’s see what we can do.”
@dabieyo
@dabieyo Рік тому
When you thought you weren't much to look at because of societal beauty standards but then discovered that even babies could potentially ugly shame you :')
@taehanazono4943
@taehanazono4943 Рік тому
He did explain that how you present yourself changes how people see you, so if there's something you would like to change, try it. Your attractiveness also depends on confidence. People find you more attractive if you are confident.
@sarahsanchez6821
@sarahsanchez6821 Рік тому
🤣🤣🤣
@GMAMEC
@GMAMEC Рік тому
Sometimes it just takes a little more time to get inside, but once you’re in, it’s all about character and how you make people feel.
@jrv_chaos4329
@jrv_chaos4329 Рік тому
@@taehanazono4943 I know several people first hand who stand head and solders above others based on only confidence and there ability to communicate
@JJs_playground
@JJs_playground Рік тому
Lmfao 🤣🤣
@zackcarl7861
@zackcarl7861 Рік тому
Let's summarise:- 1)look good naturally if not , dress well and do makeup to change what you can leave what you can't (or shadow it) 2) be wired to stand out , be different if you can 3) be consistent build a image around yourself that says he is always powerful
@adedtz8257
@adedtz8257 Рік тому
Thank you for this
@kerebaka
@kerebaka Рік тому
and keep vulnerabilities and struggles private.
@MartyD
@MartyD Рік тому
It helps to be tall and attractive.
@nugboy420
@nugboy420 Рік тому
And not fat
@cg7926
@cg7926 Рік тому
N rich n famous n
@tontolinification
@tontolinification Рік тому
And rich 🤑
@axeavier
@axeavier Рік тому
And white, and fully able, and male
@sandg507
@sandg507 Рік тому
And not crippling anxiety
@corycourtney8923
@corycourtney8923 Рік тому
I will watch every Joe Narvarro video as soon as it hits my radar. Wired needs to give him a full staff role if he's interested. He needs a weekly show packed with tips. The information he provides is priceless.
@stellviahohenheim
@stellviahohenheim Рік тому
He seems to say really obvious stuff though not really mind blowing
@corycourtney8923
@corycourtney8923 Рік тому
​@@stellviahohenheim Maybe true, but I also think it's how it's presented. Sometimes the method is the message. This is packaged to get the attention of people who might not see it as obvious.
@stayquko8948
@stayquko8948 Рік тому
trustttt.. ive enjoyed his episodes sm
@minhphuongnguyen7172
@minhphuongnguyen7172 Рік тому
Yessssssss
@DarkAngelEU
@DarkAngelEU Рік тому
@@stellviahohenheim It's obvious, but his explanation WHY is very fascinating and sounds scientifically accurate.
@GMAMEC
@GMAMEC Рік тому
I have noticed people behave differently when they are dressed professionally. If you’re in a position to observe several meetings, observe people dressed casually (usually a Casual Friday) vs. a regular business day. The same individuals usually behave differently.
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 Рік тому
Nothing new. This is why private schools have always demanded that students dress up.
@blackpilledchad1927
@blackpilledchad1927 Рік тому
LOL. You discovered fire, my friend 🤣🤣🤣
@Yt-qi9ot
@Yt-qi9ot Рік тому
Casual Friday, the OG morale booster
@wanyekest6969
@wanyekest6969 Рік тому
Dingus
@portsac
@portsac Рік тому
I noticed that too I wonder y they change I noticed it alot in my pass relationship my ex would dress up and changed 🤔
@kaylenvee8150
@kaylenvee8150 Рік тому
It's kind of fascinating that even across all these cultures, all these different types of people in the past that haven't met or interacted with anyone outside their group, somehow all deviated to the same, super specific aspect, like having something big and tall on your head as a symbol of power. It's pretty amazing if you think about it.
@olohialli9289
@olohialli9289 Рік тому
Yes; and for me though, it just goes to prove one thing. At our very core, we are all the same
@Yt-qi9ot
@Yt-qi9ot Рік тому
If we all looked at each other's butts when we talked, we might adorn our asses with crowns instead 😂
@someonejustsomeone1469
@someonejustsomeone1469 Рік тому
Likely based on mimicking animals. Lions with big manes, peacocks with large feathers, etc. have always stood out as powerful. Humans simply copied that.
@Fujtajblus
@Fujtajblus 8 місяців тому
Human nature
@Arcessitor
@Arcessitor 6 місяців тому
That's because our similarities and differences are biological, not 'cultural.' Culture is just an expression of genes.
@sheltongolden4394
@sheltongolden4394 Рік тому
I'd like to see a video on how extraversion/introversion affects success.
@AnaBotticelli
@AnaBotticelli Рік тому
Yes, please
@DreamCatcher-wg1bk
@DreamCatcher-wg1bk Рік тому
Bill Gates & Elon Musk are both example of successful introverts.
@samc5794
@samc5794 Рік тому
@@DreamCatcher-wg1bk but also only two individuals and freakish ones at that.
@piriyaj1347
@piriyaj1347 Рік тому
I don’t think introverts overall like to be in the spotlight anyway 😂 so even if there were a lot of money to be made, it would not be considered ’success’ for them by any means
@ziplock8316
@ziplock8316 Рік тому
@@DreamCatcher-wg1bk Marrying some hobo singer and giving the child the most fuckall name imaginable is not introvertion. It shows mental imbalance.
@MT.2012
@MT.2012 Рік тому
One more thing that was overlooked is the way a person speaks. The tone and speed of your speech will greatly affect how people perceive you.
@DarkAngelEU
@DarkAngelEU Рік тому
Don't forget accents. In any culture, accents have significance and will add to the perception of the speaker.
@annalvarez3247
@annalvarez3247 Рік тому
I always look forward to Mr.Navarros videos 👍 I hope to see him more often in wired
@costaches
@costaches Рік тому
I adore Joe's videos! He explains modestly, with proof, and logical explanations, if something doesn't know or is not sure about - he admits it. A great expert!
@MoMo2E
@MoMo2E Рік тому
Very informative Thanks a lot for sharing
@AnKore1984
@AnKore1984 Рік тому
What an interesting informative video! Thank you, Mr. Navarro for all the informatotion you provide!
@ATGG
@ATGG Рік тому
Yay!!! Joe Navarro!! Thank you, again, for this video!
@katyinvierte
@katyinvierte Рік тому
Thank you for sharing such interesting topics, I really admire this man. 👏
@eterterashvili4134
@eterterashvili4134 Рік тому
I love this man. Can @WIRED post more videos of him? They are really educating. Joe Navarro could be an amazing lecturer.
@danceswithdirt7197
@danceswithdirt7197 Рік тому
They only seem to post videos starring him when he is promoting a book so maybe that's the only time he agrees to do videos. I wonder if Wired pays him.
@younesmohssen8158
@younesmohssen8158 Рік тому
He has a book that goes deep into non verbals. He’s ex CIA I think
@oxide9679
@oxide9679 Рік тому
@@younesmohssen8158 Retired FBI
@oxide9679
@oxide9679 Рік тому
@@danceswithdirt7197 He tours and lectures live on Non-Verbal Communication and has given at least one TEDx talk that can be found on UKposts
@danceswithdirt7197
@danceswithdirt7197 Рік тому
@@oxide9679 I think that's what he does now since he's not FBI. It seems a lot of WIRED guests use videos like this as publicity. It's interesting how this sort of thing (videos on UKposts) used to be this sort of niche and now it's more part of the mainstream press campaign for their products.
@mariarosariaascione3898
@mariarosariaascione3898 Рік тому
i love this guy, his videos are the best of the channel
@JoDo777
@JoDo777 Рік тому
Don't forget many, MANY narcissists/sociopaths are dressed beautifully/handsomely. Never judge a book by it's cover. Judge by character!
@onkelpappkov2666
@onkelpappkov2666 Рік тому
Unless you can't read that character because they're a psychopath, in which case judge by their actions! But if the actions are based on a mental health issue...
@mqk_
@mqk_ Рік тому
Well said
@045632
@045632 Рік тому
because we know the game
@blackpilledchad1927
@blackpilledchad1927 Рік тому
You mean they are BEAUTIFUL or HANDSOME lol
@markmessi9020
@markmessi9020 Рік тому
@@onkelpappkov2666 Unless then don't do. Don't do anything don't do it!!! No there's consequences to doing anything!!!
@ladariussanders4278
@ladariussanders4278 Рік тому
It helps to be attractive in general but being tall and attractive makes it even better but being attractive is enough to get you where you wanna go
@staycutene8085
@staycutene8085 Рік тому
Thank you for sharing. I will consider your suggesting into my life.
@TikiOperator
@TikiOperator Рік тому
"If the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy!" A more perfect combination of words cannot be spoken, hail
@gus473
@gus473 Рік тому
♥️💚👍🏼😎🇨🇦
@jamesstephenpeyton3305
@jamesstephenpeyton3305 Рік тому
Credit goes to Red Green
@farhanaditya2647
@farhanaditya2647 Рік тому
But what exactly is "handy"?
@MobileComputing
@MobileComputing Рік тому
but a handsome person can also be handy...
@edmyeg
@edmyeg Рік тому
@@MobileComputing yes but a ugly person can't be handsome so they gotta be handy
@blaiseronstadt6306
@blaiseronstadt6306 Рік тому
Good Morning 🌄 Mr. Navarro, , you have Reafirmed, and Honed, Many of my communication, and Interaction skills. Thank You, It's Basically what my Mother has been Telling me 50 plus Years
@manillascissor
@manillascissor Рік тому
Love Joe Navarro so much. Probably cause he's wearing a suit
@DPiii127
@DPiii127 Рік тому
When I joined the Marine Corps infantry, I weighed 112 lbs at 5’11”. I got picked on and beat up a lot my first year. I jumped on the juice train & blew up to 190 lbs with 4.5% body fat in less than 8 months. The way I was treated was night and day. I didn’t change anything other than my physical appearance.
@INDIANXxhgpp9907
@INDIANXxhgpp9907 Рік тому
2:12 5:50malcom gladwell 7:00 4. Perception manage 8:44 trust is our ability to relax
@HumayunKabir_1971
@HumayunKabir_1971 Рік тому
" Please stop worrying about what you look like as a result of how you were born. Let's take what we have and let's see what we can do with it."
@Henry_The_Second
@Henry_The_Second 4 місяці тому
🙏 This comment has my respect
@osmondnoakes6675
@osmondnoakes6675 Рік тому
Yes, I agree it promotes one in a more positive light but maybe not when its gets too warm in these warmer temperatures !!
@gorzkawodka
@gorzkawodka Рік тому
In real life it's just like he said, when you dress up, people treat you better, and I don't mean expensive designer clothes, but just looking neat and put together. Anyway it's surprising that in USA majority of ppl don't think much about their appearance and wear just whatever while in Europe ppl put a lot of effort to look good.
@laliday
@laliday Рік тому
I just spent a month in your father's country, and I can't say that people were dressed better there. People are just as sloppy as in the US if not more. The fabrics they wore were thin and cheap, the fake eyelashes made them look immature, the neck tattoos made them look unprofessional, lots of moms wore really short shorts, men wore sloppy and thin tshirts or pants that were too tight. I don't care about it that much, but feelings of superiority are just that, they are feelings not facts.
@gorzkawodka
@gorzkawodka Рік тому
@@laliday I wonder which country you visited, cause your description hardly matches my father's country, where only about 1% of society has any tattoo and where fake lashes are worn by hookers and teenage girls experimenting with fashion trends.
@grovert4life
@grovert4life 2 місяці тому
In which country were you though?
@susantownsend8397
@susantownsend8397 Рік тому
When I taught 7th and 8th grade we sometimes had dress up days. It was amazing how much overall behavior improved on those days.
@WhatTheHe11isTHAT
@WhatTheHe11isTHAT Рік тому
I’m 6’4” and fairly good looking and people bully me because of it. I’ve actually been walked over most of my life. Trying to learn how to get stronger.
@jeremye1448
@jeremye1448 Рік тому
Learn mma
@Daniel-fj8eu
@Daniel-fj8eu Рік тому
Because you are "competition". People try to bring down the competition. Be strong but warm.
@potofgreeed
@potofgreeed 6 місяців тому
You are probably a "gentle giant." A lot of people don't know how to handle those types. Wishing you luck!
@shaatiusmani6211
@shaatiusmani6211 Рік тому
Woahhh how come i didnt know that your video came out. Please upload more videos of Joe Navarro
@smacky1966
@smacky1966 Рік тому
Three points-I am 5' 11" tall. 1. Many years ago a new IMax Movie Theater Opened in my hometown and my boss gave me her VIP Tickets for the Grand Opening Party. All of the city's business and community leaders were invited. I noticed right away that the vast majority of the men were taller than me and I'd say the average height of the men was 6'1"-6'2". 2. I can off the top of my head think of four college buddies who are 6'4" or taller. They were average students and all four of them are very successful. 3. The income inequality between very attractive people and average looking people is higher than the income inequality between whites and minority groups.
@LucasTOrz
@LucasTOrz Рік тому
I like his speech calm soothing yet informative. Thanks mr fbi.
@perfectpitch2506
@perfectpitch2506 Рік тому
Joe Navarro is back!!
@cadeevans4623
@cadeevans4623 Рік тому
Very informative interesting thanks for sharing this
@lmperfection
@lmperfection 8 місяців тому
Please do another video about what our grooming/clothing/makeup communicates to other people!
@andybp872
@andybp872 Рік тому
Please stop worrying about what you look like as a result of how you were born. Lets take what we have and lets see what we can do with it.. Golden quote IMO.
@planu9031
@planu9031 Рік тому
But its just to show how hard you be if you are unattractive and disabled the journey is so much harder
@macaroni586
@macaroni586 Рік тому
@@planu9031 it also tells you that you could improve on it to. I mean why do you think girls where heels
@alexc8512
@alexc8512 Рік тому
Well social media algorithms is a testament to how much beauty and attractiveness matters to humans.
@Iam_mahesh
@Iam_mahesh Рік тому
interesting, thanks for the info
@orestessantander1275
@orestessantander1275 Рік тому
Very interesting ,also a antropholigical vision of "cultural codes" on each contexts. Congrats , good job.
@atomwaffen7943
@atomwaffen7943 Рік тому
Being short as a man is playing life in hard mode.
@KeepingOnTheWatch
@KeepingOnTheWatch Рік тому
Agreed! Also, being short AND unattractive is playing life in ‘exasperating’ mode.
@romanaguilar7277
@romanaguilar7277 Рік тому
@@KeepingOnTheWatch in what way
@Kozli1985
@Kozli1985 Рік тому
Tell that to Putin, Stalin, Hitler, Toto Rina, Napoleon or Mike Tyson.
@prestigebro4390
@prestigebro4390 Рік тому
And the short guys that make it are as tough as men can get
@herohonda4183
@herohonda4183 Рік тому
@@Kozli1985 Mike Tyson is 5’ 10” he is not short at all. The napoleon one is a big myth and it has been debunked already. While the hitler and Stalin are valid examples, they weren’t super short for their their time. All studies show that a person’s height has a very positive correlation between their income
@1HeatWalk
@1HeatWalk Рік тому
Scientifically, shorter people live longer than their taller/bigger counter parts. Big bodies put more stress on the heart like dogs.
@michaelohair3715
@michaelohair3715 Рік тому
Nobody on the internet has anything better to say than this man does. He's as good as you will see here.
@SniperNator305
@SniperNator305 Рік тому
Wrong (I'm wearing a suit)
@kingcarlos4348
@kingcarlos4348 Рік тому
Is he really saying anything new? Pretty basic observations
@dlo556
@dlo556 Рік тому
Incredibly debatable
@defaultworkouts
@defaultworkouts Рік тому
mia khalifa is pretty good...
@avayu2289
@avayu2289 Рік тому
Interesting. As a life long fitness enthusiast, my conclusion is that health is beauty and vice versa….
@margo3367
@margo3367 11 місяців тому
Confidence and a positive attitude can be very attractive too. A beautiful smile can light up even the face of a “plain” person.
@shoubiaokuang747
@shoubiaokuang747 Рік тому
Superb analysis
@3432stars
@3432stars Рік тому
Keep bringing Joe back!!!
@101jir
@101jir 7 місяців тому
In highschool I didn't have the best hygiene, even relative to most of my peers. I was always pretty nerdy, but I would always try to stand up for myself when picked on (not always effectively). I always tried to give every new kid the best chance, and tried to be respectful (though my understanding of what that meant was not always accurate). I wasn't shy about my enjoyment of most academics, and I was good at some I didn't enjoy (such as math) and enjoyed some that I wasn't good at (art, woodshop). Despite my poor presentation, my senior yearbook I was one of three students my peers considered "most likely to be president." Fast forward in life, most people wouldn't consider me very successful. Academic skills that seemed nice on the surface I was not able to capitalize on due to a lack of other skills. Life is odd that way.
@Mrs.TJTaylor
@Mrs.TJTaylor 3 місяці тому
What an interesting comment! Hope your hygiene has improved.
@bekbek8848
@bekbek8848 Рік тому
Clicked immediately, Joe Navarro
@atisjojo1
@atisjojo1 Рік тому
I am short and thus unattractive. But i am happy and thats what matters most.
@kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168
@kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168 Місяць тому
Depends on the person who is interview you, her/ his mood at the time, physical needs at the moment, perception also plays a huge role. If a person is hungry will be negative, if had a lunch will be more positive. If the interviewer has biases will also make a difference.
@suechapel1443
@suechapel1443 Рік тому
Fascinating info. As an older woman, though, comfort is more important than beauty! lol
@lanaj1107
@lanaj1107 Рік тому
You can do both!
@gordatados
@gordatados Рік тому
As a younger person, I agree comfort is better. 😄
@natalyaakselaleksander4502
@natalyaakselaleksander4502 Рік тому
The two are not necessarily mutually exclusive…
@jessiecoastaliving
@jessiecoastaliving Рік тому
@@lanaj1107 yea that’s called natural beauty. Nothing more needed
@daquieshakeaundra2854
@daquieshakeaundra2854 Рік тому
Ofc now comfort matter more to you since you can t use beauty anymore ain t no one like wrinkles,dry 🍑.
@HereIAm247
@HereIAm247 Рік тому
Regarding the clothes, I think it is not just about being 'well dressed', but about being appropriately dressed for the occasion. :) Grooming is definitely important always. But if you wore full black tie on a regular workday, people would probably give you strange looks. What a suit does for men, and a Galla dress for women, is it enhance their masculine or feminine physique. But it also create an appearance of good posture, even if you don't have it in reality. Good posture also signals self worth and confidence, and projecting 'I am a person of high value' to other people. This is actually the main reason why people find suits attractive; it is not just that it shows money/power/success (someone with great skills/mental energy, who have a lot to contribute with, and would be a good connection to have). It is that it enhances all the biologically most attractive things about men. (and the dress does the same for women). When you notice, being 'well dressed' today means to have selected garments of good quality, a look that is aesthetically pleasing and enhances your best features, as well as being well groomed and display good posture/confidence. Good grooming is what makes or breaks the look - not the clothing alone. Additionally, while past societies had a lot of focus on money and power, modern society place more and more value on character instead. Therefore, it becomes a form of power statement to wear baggy clothes and 'not caring' about appearance. The key here is to be well groomed and have good posture, even if you are very casually dressed. People who wear 'power clothes' are more often well groomed and displays confidence, than people who don't. But the 'power' of the suit is more how it makes the man feel about himself, not so much how formal it is. :)
@adolfhitler2155
@adolfhitler2155 Рік тому
You're really smart
@cinthyasalas2360
@cinthyasalas2360 Рік тому
We can all agree that Joe is the “Man”
@brittanyhinch512
@brittanyhinch512 6 місяців тому
Thanks Joe!
@maryrichardson6029
@maryrichardson6029 Рік тому
Interesting. Thank you. Peace 💕🇺🇲
@xRooze
@xRooze Рік тому
This guy is more of a history teacher than anything
@ratherb_skating7145
@ratherb_skating7145 Рік тому
Seriously, all hr did was give example after example after example of people who dressed a certain way rather than actually getting to the point
@xRooze
@xRooze Рік тому
@@ratherb_skating7145 He also didnt talk about body language like posture, eye contact etc.
@ernestofurchtgott5421
@ernestofurchtgott5421 Рік тому
It’s a great lesson on branding
@imicca
@imicca Рік тому
Amazing guy
@yournonfavoriteperson9964
@yournonfavoriteperson9964 Рік тому
Richard Feynman's dad to his son: "Now, look at those humans. Here’s one human standing here, and all these others are bowing in front of him. Now, what’s the difference? This one is the pope. This difference is the hat he’s wearing.
@irwinshung809
@irwinshung809 Рік тому
I was just thinking about that. I believe Feynman's point was that he considered status signals as nonsense. I wish more people saw things this way, to be honest!
@sayuri3917
@sayuri3917 3 місяці тому
"Let's take whats we have and let's see qe can do with it". If we all have this mindset, in any aspect, our lives will be better. No doubt.
@tofuguru941
@tofuguru941 Рік тому
As a species, we have a long way to go. Giving value in something so ridiculous speaks volumes about what else we like to hide behind makeup and facades.
@sfrealestatedealmaker6001
@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 Рік тому
It’s hard wired in our subconscious. Can’t change it.
@ronnieadrian9843
@ronnieadrian9843 Рік тому
Excellent 😊👍
@boomernality1904
@boomernality1904 Рік тому
People here forgetting. It's not that you won't or can't be successful if you're short and or not good looking. It's just that it's a disadvantage to be that, which we all know is true. Stop looking for the exception to the rule.
@pwdf58789
@pwdf58789 Рік тому
Yes
@LittleMissRaeRae69
@LittleMissRaeRae69 Рік тому
I still wonder to this day, why did everyone in high school like me although I dressed really strange? I wore way too much makeup, really big hair, neon colored non matching clothes and plastic beaded bracelets up to my elbows. I was really confident and popular, but other people who dressed like me were bullied (until I told everyone I thought they were cool, then everyone stopped picking on them)
@morganmuldoon
@morganmuldoon Рік тому
@MaryRae I can't give you a direct answer, but I had a similar high school experience and I went to 3 high schools and acted differently at all of them. At one, I would act like you did and mind my own business. I was weird, I would paint my nails crazy, wear too much make up, dress gothic one day and 80s neon the next. I was also nice to everyone and everyone wanted me to sit with them at lunch and I basically ran that school for no reason. At the 2nd school I tried to fit in, dressed casual and preppy and tried to make friends. I had way less attention that way and most "cliques" didn't care for me. At the 3rd school I made a conscious effort to dress casual AND keep to myself. Everyone AGAIN wanted to be my friend, know my story, and figure me out. It seemed like it was more a personality thing for me than what I wore so maybe it was actually the same for you! And then there is the variable that is other people. Highschoolers aren't very predictable 😆
@faithtvonline
@faithtvonline Рік тому
I think you used the key word: confidence. They wore the same things but were not confident.
@sandroribeiro7644
@sandroribeiro7644 Рік тому
You answered your own question when you said you were confident.
@lexilamonica7
@lexilamonica7 Рік тому
Really good!
@wh0tube
@wh0tube Рік тому
I’d like to see a video on how money affects wealth! 😁
@puppy1981
@puppy1981 Рік тому
My last girlfriend told me our relationship would have been x10 better if I’d have had another 4 inches… My height was not a problem though.
@prakharranjan6388
@prakharranjan6388 Рік тому
Underrated comment!
@cedriceric9730
@cedriceric9730 Рік тому
4 inches where? there ! oh ok
@SuperCaptain4
@SuperCaptain4 Рік тому
@@cedriceric9730 she had a toe fetish I've heard
@sikes346
@sikes346 Рік тому
pretty sure she wasnt talking about your height
@puppy1981
@puppy1981 Рік тому
@@sikes346 well duhhhh
@derisory
@derisory Рік тому
You could do a whole episode on Zelensky, Putin, Sergiy Kyslytsya, and Lavrov. Frankly I think Sergiy is incredibly underappreciated for how well he has maintained an image that allows him to bluntly cut through bs and rally support.
@onetonsoupp
@onetonsoupp Рік тому
Putin and lavrov are not humans.
@Aftershock416
@Aftershock416 Рік тому
Don't really think we need to give war criminals more publicity.
@yungjoemighty879
@yungjoemighty879 Рік тому
So you love fascists
@bekbek8848
@bekbek8848 Рік тому
Westernized brainwashed people don't like them
@26maria_ray
@26maria_ray Рік тому
True
@esteban1487
@esteban1487 Рік тому
Of COURSE it does.
@Chereese0808
@Chereese0808 Рік тому
Very rare to see suits here in Hawaii. Years ago 30ish, men had to wear ties to enter most nightclubs. Now barefoot and bikinis seem OK. No matter what, people will flaunt their looks.
@davidr4523
@davidr4523 Рік тому
As someone who is a little over 6'6'' yes I have seen taller people do well in sports, with women and have been offered more leadership roles. However I have seen shorter men try harder and have more grit in not giving up. But as the Stoics of Stoicism say, you should only think about what is in your control. So for the many times I wished I was shorter when I banged my head in doorway, was on an uncomfortable plane flight, could not find clothes that fit me or have people not want to speak with me because of the large height differential, I refused to even think a thought I had no control over.
@shakey3306
@shakey3306 Рік тому
There’s limb lengthening surgery as well as shortening surgery, i’m gonna be 6’3” and still wear 3” shoes to be 6’6”, but it’s true you should focus on what you can change
@v1nnnny
@v1nnnny Рік тому
King is back
@86nanaki
@86nanaki Рік тому
Richard Feynman's dad to his son: "Now, look at those humans. Here’s one human standing here, and all these others are bowing in front of him. Now, what’s the difference? This one is the pope. This difference is the hat he’s wearing.”
@okhera1
@okhera1 Рік тому
Very Nice Bro! Get Good People!
@martinlopez4719
@martinlopez4719 Рік тому
I love this
@-AxisA-
@-AxisA- Рік тому
So more drip is always good!
@rajavarma1015
@rajavarma1015 6 місяців тому
“ Let’s take what we have and let’s see what we can do with it “
@annib1362
@annib1362 Рік тому
Most times, outer beauty means confidence or a sense of false bravado. But when someone is not attractive to society's standards, but has an overload of self-confidence in themselves irrespective of others opinion, they will stand out of the crowd enough to make an attractive person with a false confidence loose that "confidence".
@MrSneaksful
@MrSneaksful 2 місяці тому
It also helps to be born into one of the most wealthiest families in South Africa. That helps.
@hawho6870
@hawho6870 Рік тому
trust is our ability to relax, because we know they will ot let us down.
@raycallie637
@raycallie637 Рік тому
We are all so superficial.
@julesverneinoz
@julesverneinoz Рік тому
This is interesting but unfortunately really only covers a certain type of 'success'. Certain type of appearances (which fits within someone's stereotype of 'that type of person' should look) is the 'easier' and fastest method to gain trust and favourability. So, actually, this is an essay on how appearance affects trust and favorability than it is about success as 'success' is subjective.
@DreamCatcher-wg1bk
@DreamCatcher-wg1bk Рік тому
I would like to know how money/wealth affects the perception.
@asokt4931
@asokt4931 Рік тому
I do not know about the height dividend because that can partially be answered by parent income and thus diet. But, I mean - overall, we can also say the way one dress is also linked to one socio-economic class and we also have pretty good understand of upward mobility in different countries. In fact, the way you dress is a indeed a class mechanics that gives message to others who is in and who is not in a group. That being said, I do think that better looking folks, and those with above average height probably do better than those who are not...
@khusseinkhomeini
@khusseinkhomeini Рік тому
True that. Better access to nutrition and recreation leads to children growing taller and being more fit. Financial stability can allow for nicer clothes and the purchase of other status symbols. But in the end, it is your character, your beliefs, values, intelligence, and charisma which will help you excel in life.
@ryanortiz2648
@ryanortiz2648 Рік тому
Tall people hater
@bluekeahi3240
@bluekeahi3240 Рік тому
Japan and Korea is an example how better nutrition improve height. Compare their pre world war height and the current modern height.
@dawodtaha1652
@dawodtaha1652 Рік тому
Can you do a Rubik’s cube video about how to solve 3x3 speed cubing method
@rachelcrawley1188
@rachelcrawley1188 Рік тому
Such an interesting point about quinceaneras and debutante balls! It seems like prom, homecoming dance, etc. fill that purpose in the US
@priyalgupta3588
@priyalgupta3588 Рік тому
How and where to learn it?
@viditpant7641
@viditpant7641 Рік тому
Basically what we have in hand is to learn how to be properly dressed and how to carry ourselves publicly.
@AlifAura_
@AlifAura_ Рік тому
what is success?
@jozsefbiro1849
@jozsefbiro1849 Рік тому
Does as long as height affects personality how you approach people and treat
@soccerparadise374
@soccerparadise374 Рік тому
One should be positive and hold finger for which needs microscop to see and act ahead
@judyl.7811
@judyl.7811 Рік тому
顏值決定一切? 0:55 we prefer people that are well-groomed and well-dressed. 1:05 very padded shoulders 墊肩 3:53 beauty dividend 美貌紅利 5:49 height dividend 身高紅利 6:05 攝影機跟被照的人 6:21 presidential election is 9 feet apart. 7:37 the hair is straight down is perceived strength. 9:37 they're eligible for courtship 求愛 10:49 they're in essence saying 基本上是說
@NobertDeNiro
@NobertDeNiro Рік тому
This is buzzfeed tier insight
@xerx_is_bored
@xerx_is_bored Рік тому
Is that sarcasm😭
@kutekittykatproductions
@kutekittykatproductions Рік тому
Where do the independent factor in? “Leaders” or “followers” aren’t all there are. I wonder about the perception of strength or status in people who aren’t consciously trying to impress, nor are actively looking to others for cues or leadership.
@mrk19901
@mrk19901 Рік тому
Yep. I also belong to the independent group. I don't idolize anyone and follow the beat of my own drum and don't want to "lead" anyone.
@CreechJones-fj5ij
@CreechJones-fj5ij 7 місяців тому
It does help to be tall and attractively dressed, male or female.
@justanotherguygeorge3430
@justanotherguygeorge3430 3 місяці тому
There is something called mindset and strategy they are above any beauty and appearance. (Im 1,95cm )
@googleuser3620
@googleuser3620 Рік тому
Misleading the height association to senior executives, as they earn a good salary only. What about successful entrepreneurs? Most seem to be shorter than average and earning way more than senior executives..
@cedriceric9730
@cedriceric9730 Рік тому
that is quite true 😂
@cedriceric9730
@cedriceric9730 Рік тому
indeed in a rigid corporation combining height with performance can get one far i imagine. a shorter person has to be significantly better to match height in such an environment but thats where it ends
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