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For many men, Don Draper is the epitome of confidence. What most people don’t realize is that confidence actually comes in two flavors. There is the external confidence that you project, which can make closing deals, making friends or seducing happen more naturally. There is also the internal confidence you feel which is how comfortable you are in any given situation.
In this video, we’re going to analyze what Don can teach us about both levels of confidence, and how mastering each level can take you from being nervous to completely confident in any situation.
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0:41 - Lesson #1: His relaxed body language.
2:58 - Lesson #2: Don is non-reactive.
5:18 - Lesson #3: He doesn’t try to convince other people.
6:57 - Lesson #4: The belief that he will be okay, no matter what.
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@SeanLunny
@SeanLunny 4 роки тому
Believing that no matter what happens you’re going to be fine anyway is always a great mindset to have
@mohammedbedewy9102
@mohammedbedewy9102 4 роки тому
Exactly!! You made my day sir !!
@isaiahsalmeron4083
@isaiahsalmeron4083 4 роки тому
Sean Lunny that’s could be true but could also be really bad
@lorenzejay3296
@lorenzejay3296 4 роки тому
I tell myself this everyday and I genuinely believe everything will workout
@clubstep8244
@clubstep8244 4 роки тому
To help yourself feel fine even in heated situations: "zoom out" a bit and imagine all the life that happens around you and realize how little you mean in all that, there is nothing that's going to hurt you
@alcatraz2627
@alcatraz2627 4 роки тому
Alan watts explained that quite well, " you must understand we come out of this World, not into it. Therefore we are part of the natural World like the animals, the trees and the waves of the ocean and the clouds. Now have have you ever seen a cloud that was too big or too small? Have you ever seen a cloud move in the wrong direction? The same goes for humans, in zen practice you are thought to regard yourself as a cloud moveing along in the skies..."
@altonology1134
@altonology1134 3 роки тому
Practice keeping your word everyday you’ll really gain confidence. Every time you say you’re gonna do something and don’t do it, your self-esteem diminishes no matter how meaningless the task may seem. Take your word very serious.
@GaZonk100
@GaZonk100 3 роки тому
love it
@yoshibald8958
@yoshibald8958 3 роки тому
thx
@climbbmilc93
@climbbmilc93 3 роки тому
I go by this! Especially just for doing life admin: - Telling yourself you’ll make your bed in the morning before showering. And doing it! - telling yourself you’ll have breakfast before 10:00. And doing it!
@altonology1134
@altonology1134 3 роки тому
@@climbbmilc93 Exactly! Little routine tasks like that are extremely important for keeping your confidence in check. There was one point in my life where I followed through with literally everything that I said I would do religiously and after a while, it felt like I owned the world. “Idk” and “maybe” were no longer in my vocabulary. You start to subconsciously trust in yourself more and more by KNOWING you’ll accomplish whatever you say you’re going to do (AKA confidence).
@anwarshariq3411
@anwarshariq3411 3 роки тому
Preach 100
@danfordchodokufa838
@danfordchodokufa838 Рік тому
"Believing that no matter what happens you’re going to be ok" is an incredibly liberating idea. I love this
@gabriellepundsack3308
@gabriellepundsack3308 3 місяці тому
I always tell myself, "No one is going to kill you if (I fail/can't pay a bill/etc.).
@keremdemircan4203
@keremdemircan4203 26 днів тому
it is basically stoicism bro
@harshsunitapancholi15
@harshsunitapancholi15 2 роки тому
1. Sit relaxed and a little lean back that makes people come out to you. 2. Be non-reactive, and react less at times when handling pressure. 3. Speak slowly and use pauses correctly. 4. You will be okay no matter what.
@user-hq4zb6yp5b
@user-hq4zb6yp5b Місяць тому
She broke up with me. I told her I was grateful for the good times we shared. No begging, no pleading, go and be well. Moved on. Did us both a BIG favor. 😂
@josephrutchik5777
@josephrutchik5777 2 роки тому
"You'll stop worrying that someone will reject you because you'll never reject yourself." That is brilliant! Well done!!!
@Christian-tf6ol
@Christian-tf6ol 2 роки тому
Indeed I agree💯. They said that "Don't be the first person to say no to yourself"
@g.a.d6988
@g.a.d6988 2 роки тому
"Who do you believe in? I believe in me.. I love me"- SGP
@kevinflanagan4711
@kevinflanagan4711 2 роки тому
Love this
@Sergiuss555
@Sergiuss555 Рік тому
your IQ must be negative
@Faye-el1bz
@Faye-el1bz 3 місяці тому
Who cares about rejection Its way more important to become youre best authentic self
@randomappalachian4635
@randomappalachian4635 4 роки тому
Expectations: Don Draper Reality: Michael Scott
@captainswan3079
@captainswan3079 3 роки тому
😂😂
@portman3950
@portman3950 3 роки тому
a
@redduckto
@redduckto 3 роки тому
fkn underrated..
@MicahBuzanANIMATION
@MicahBuzanANIMATION 3 роки тому
100% accurate
@cribbie6327
@cribbie6327 3 роки тому
Michael Scarn! Threat level midnight
@briandtnguyen
@briandtnguyen Рік тому
As a practicing attorney, I often remind myself to pause while speaking with a judge or a jury. It creates suspense. But more importantly, it actually allows me to hear my own thoughts and feel my feelings. Pausing also gives the other person time to process everything I just said. I would add that confidence is a two-way street. I find that if I practice active listening when I speak with people and really make space for them, they open up and we then mutually instill confidence in one another. Confidence doesn’t always have to be a competition.
@mosesrichard394
@mosesrichard394 3 місяці тому
i m in Law school.. i will start practicing your way
@user-xo1ez7zf1t
@user-xo1ez7zf1t Місяць тому
Amazing advice
@SkippyBrown
@SkippyBrown 2 роки тому
I feel like a big part of Don's character is that even HE has his own issues with self-confidence, but he never let's people see that. When he does, that's when we start to see the layers peel back and Don's true self starts to show. It's really all about how you project yourself to the world and those around you.
@berkguler5339
@berkguler5339 2 роки тому
blessed words
@stephcooper1111
@stephcooper1111 2 роки тому
BEST comment yet- nailed it!
@dominickdean2873
@dominickdean2873 2 роки тому
Not necessarily the point. The point is to have true enough confidence in yourself to be able to be vulnerable in front of others, and not in a poor me way.
@1023kdawg
@1023kdawg Рік тому
And then you realize that real confidence and real freedom is not having to "project" yourself to anyone .
@kayleighc1681
@kayleighc1681 Рік тому
An even bigger part of Don's character is that he's a manipulative gaslighting narcissist, definitely not someone to look up to at all
@CelineCatalina98
@CelineCatalina98 4 роки тому
"do you want fries with that?" *20 second pause* "yes"
@aptonymic3014
@aptonymic3014 4 роки тому
(i had to think fast)
@qambi1
@qambi1 4 роки тому
hehehe
@cheerfulcrumb4540
@cheerfulcrumb4540 3 роки тому
that would be a fckn alpha move i reckon
@SageVaughn
@SageVaughn 3 роки тому
LMAO
@LetsTacoBoutWine
@LetsTacoBoutWine 3 роки тому
LMAO
@pinkyster9384
@pinkyster9384 4 роки тому
How to nail your interview: 1. Avoid eye contact at all costs 2. Rest your feet on the interviewers desk to assert dominance 3. Wait for 20 seconds staring at them before answering to a question 4. Walk out of the room calmly after refusing to take the job
@maxx4944
@maxx4944 4 роки тому
dont forgot to cry
@fsb4561
@fsb4561 4 роки тому
I laughed so hard 😂😂😂 im dying here man
@DocPegLegRed
@DocPegLegRed 4 роки тому
Hahahaha
@MrRiveting
@MrRiveting 4 роки тому
5. Light up a cigarette indoors and smoke.
@redmondandkrista9475
@redmondandkrista9475 4 роки тому
@@MrRiveting hahahahahaha
@AA-qb7ni
@AA-qb7ni 2 роки тому
I get anxiety going to college every single day. I'm not happy with how i feel on the inside and out. But this helped and I'm working on myself now. My goal is to leave the house feeling confident and good about myself.
@sil_spatafora3886
@sil_spatafora3886 2 роки тому
how’s it going?
@oscoe
@oscoe Рік тому
Hang in there…..be kind to yourself for each small thing you achieve where you overcome anxiety. Hope things are getting better.
@bobbye4731
@bobbye4731 2 місяці тому
Start working out. It’ll do wonders
@Dr.HouseMD
@Dr.HouseMD Рік тому
You gotta watch the show. Don is terrified or nervous in 1/4 of these situations. Not to mention his character is literally about an insecure person who imitates a persona to fit in.
@user-hq4zb6yp5b
@user-hq4zb6yp5b Місяць тому
Don is akin to a Deep Cover Espionage Agent with a totally crafted false persona.
@thefutureisnow7300
@thefutureisnow7300 Місяць тому
Don is good at disguising his fears
@ldb6382
@ldb6382 3 роки тому
Confidence is literally a mindset that you can force.
@Poop-sr9sn
@Poop-sr9sn 3 роки тому
Explain
@jonnycpardoe
@jonnycpardoe 3 роки тому
Agree on it being mindset 100%
@arkarmiller70
@arkarmiller70 3 роки тому
Dude you are so right. I was a shy guy but today my crush offered me a snack and I used to decline the offer and today I said to her" Yeah sure why not" in front of everyone.
@jogolord8122
@jogolord8122 3 роки тому
1 million subscribers with no videos That’s a good start. Keep the mindset you’ll do good.
@ellorco991
@ellorco991 3 роки тому
You can cultivate a mindset though, being good at things or doing things until You’re good at them is a way to cultivate confidence, the fact is you have to have experiences, good and bad and learn from them, true confidence IMO is having certainty in everything you do
@arioux
@arioux 3 роки тому
“Would you like your receipt?” *20 second pause “no.-I-I mean yes”
@motivatoraligator6
@motivatoraligator6 3 роки тому
😂😂
@undefeated3257
@undefeated3257 2 роки тому
Omfg 🤣😂🤣
@moto-physique9270
@moto-physique9270 2 роки тому
😂😂😂
@gusd8659
@gusd8659 2 роки тому
LOL
@dendaungnualkhae5144
@dendaungnualkhae5144 2 роки тому
😂
@clairebaujard4519
@clairebaujard4519 2 роки тому
That last point about true, unshakeable confidence in yourself is absolutely golden. That's what it all boils down to. Brilliantly put, thank you!
@qualityquotes229
@qualityquotes229 2 роки тому
“It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.” ― Lou Holtz
@user-hq4zb6yp5b
@user-hq4zb6yp5b Місяць тому
❤😊
@db-7531
@db-7531 3 роки тому
True confidence can only be achieved via lightning McQueen crocs
@richardjohnson7379
@richardjohnson7379 3 роки тому
Notice: no other clothing can be worn or it won’t work
@dorian_tihi5869
@dorian_tihi5869 3 роки тому
Hey Beatiful people, I Just Started my own Channel Inspired by David and I just wanted to let you know. It might be Interesting for you and i would appreciate it if you would show some support. See you there ;)
@mrmark8603
@mrmark8603 3 роки тому
A, er...friend was looking for some. Where would I, er he, get those?
@jay0071
@jay0071 3 роки тому
Crispyyy
@isaacwebb20
@isaacwebb20 3 роки тому
Epic gamer moment
@addisonjones3795
@addisonjones3795 3 роки тому
I have always struggled with social anxiety and self esteem. I used these on my family at a party with my aunts and cousins. For the first time I felt confident. I was talking and making everyone laugh with my stories and comments. As soon as I got home I started crying with relief. I hope that I can keep applying this tricks in the future. Thank you will never be enough, But thank you.
@jonathanregan5682
@jonathanregan5682 3 роки тому
Wish you the best man.
@theMadZakuPilot
@theMadZakuPilot 3 роки тому
Good luck man
@ollie2244
@ollie2244 3 роки тому
I feel you, it's really tough.
@dannymontaino700
@dannymontaino700 3 роки тому
That's so awesome. I don't know you but I'm proud of you. Sending you lots of love
@keshavdawra12
@keshavdawra12 3 роки тому
Good job!
@davidharler9149
@davidharler9149 2 роки тому
also gotta say, the 4th tip really hits home. Specifically, love the line "...and you may begin to even look forward to the situations that stressed you out"
@tree2414
@tree2414 Місяць тому
1, Be relaxed 2. Selective eye contact 3. Don't fidget or react 4. Stay silent under pressure and let yourself take time to respond - time feels faster when you're stressed 5. Share your interest but walk away if it is not reciprocated 6. Believe that no matter what you do (socially), you will be okay (internal confidence)
@maxxmaximum3467
@maxxmaximum3467 3 роки тому
* Be relaxed - Spread out (standing, sitting being spread) - Move freely around - People have to work for attention - Selective eye contact ( give attention when making a point ; if the other person is doing it, then stare) * Be Non-reactive - Stay silent under pressure ( give pauses to think) - Don’t fidget under pressure * Dont try to convince people - Frame yourself as a equal partner ( in a negotiation; You are screening them as much as they are screening you) - Be willing to walk away ( not emotionally; if its clear that it signifies your confidence; Looks we’re not a match, wish you all the best) * Believe that you’ll be okay - Even if you do something that will prove a loss, be confident and know that you wont ever lose your own trust.
@kandle2507
@kandle2507 3 роки тому
Thanks man
@GM-dg6mj
@GM-dg6mj 3 роки тому
Thanks man
@dfghxdfghsdsxdhdftx803
@dfghxdfghsdsxdhdftx803 3 роки тому
Thank you.
@CyberMew
@CyberMew 3 роки тому
Saved me ten minutes thanks!!
@Ruzal
@Ruzal 3 роки тому
Thanks
@prodmarquese
@prodmarquese 3 роки тому
getting detached from reality made me the most confident person ive ever known lol, the key is not caring guys, your fears controlling you, if you overcome them then your anxiety is gone.. everyone is too invested in their own life, they dont care if your hair's not that good
@Anthony-dw3jb
@Anthony-dw3jb 3 роки тому
I can vouch for this. In my younger days I used to not give 2 shits what somebody would think about me if I said this or did that, I just didn't care and every conversation/interaction I had with anyone just felt good and satisfying. These days I'm clouded by social anxiety and it's hard to enjoy being out and around people because I constantly think about how the other person is going to view me but coming across this video is reconnecting me with my past philosophy of not giving 2 shits and I have to say it feels good and thats how I know not caring really works lol. Care about what matters to you, not to them, that is the key.
@prodmarquese
@prodmarquese 3 роки тому
@@Anthony-dw3jb Exactly, once you have control over your fears, you'll have no limits
@dante93nero
@dante93nero 3 роки тому
@@prodmarquese Yes and no. Because even if you have no fears there is a difference in appearing confident and being arrogant. Whilist I do understand your point what someone like Don does is project confidence while not needing to be confident himself if that makes sense. There are subtle moviments you can do that swing a conversation in your favor and for someone with Don's knowledge he knows what clients want and needs.
@sarthaknagar6349
@sarthaknagar6349 3 роки тому
How do you detach from reality? Imagine you are to give a presentation in front of 100 people and you are nervous and anxious as hell, your heart is beating fast, at that situation how would you do that?
@dante93nero
@dante93nero 3 роки тому
@@sarthaknagar6349 the second you greet the audience. Right than and there you focus on what your are presenting and not on the audience itself
@zig8925
@zig8925 Рік тому
It's about balancing when to be open and when not to be. You don't want to be telling the wrong people your weak points, but you also don't want to be a bottle that looks perfect but shatters after some time, because of the pressure it's holding. Recently I've not been balancing it properly. I've been too focused on saying the perfect thing. I've not been patient, I've been wanting instant confidence. This is cause I want to feel the same confidence I did in the past.
@IsraelGarciaRivera
@IsraelGarciaRivera 2 роки тому
You made me remember one of my favorite episodes of Mad Men... That hug Don gives to the other man, it is just emotional 100%. Deep.
@ZacharyLaid
@ZacharyLaid 4 роки тому
Confidence is built by doing something over and over until you prove to yourself that you’re actually good at it.
@MrMacBig273
@MrMacBig273 4 роки тому
it's the skill you trained is - lying to yourself - does it would make you confident at anything ? cause you're sure you can do it ?
@ASLUHLUHCE
@ASLUHLUHCE 4 роки тому
Do you know the definition of confidence?
@MrMacBig273
@MrMacBig273 4 роки тому
@@ASLUHLUHCE Do you know how the human mind works ?
@amaracea
@amaracea 4 роки тому
Zachary is 100% right. Don’t be putting words in his comment that aren’t there.
@ASLUHLUHCE
@ASLUHLUHCE 4 роки тому
​@@MrMacBig273 You also don't know what confidence means. You get s feeling of confidence/self-assurance by appreciating your own abilities or qualities, and not necessarily being a master of any particular skill. For instance, one could be confident at public speaking, but not necessarily be good at it.
@GamerDwarfTR
@GamerDwarfTR 3 роки тому
Watched this with my dog Now he’s giving speeches about confidence.
@SebAnders
@SebAnders 3 роки тому
You could say he's now... Top Dog.
@brodemfamalam7178
@brodemfamalam7178 3 роки тому
Guess you could call him a dawg now
@3zooz17
@3zooz17 2 роки тому
@@brodemfamalam7178 guess you can call him snoop dog😂😂😂😂
@anasubia5856
@anasubia5856 2 роки тому
😬
@BlackDiamond2718
@BlackDiamond2718 2 роки тому
Second in command to snowball
@TorsteinTheFallen
@TorsteinTheFallen 2 роки тому
Amazing content. I had to watch it few times and think about situations i was in. This is spot on and very helpful.
@galactusholmes
@galactusholmes 2 роки тому
This video... I’ve seen quite a few of yours. This one really hit home for me and confidence felt and projected has not been an issue for me for decades. Well done
@wearedying
@wearedying 2 роки тому
This is the first video on this channel I've seen. I just hope I don't forget to implement the tips!
@mglynn4450
@mglynn4450 4 роки тому
I once saw Cesar Milan live and he said "Calm is power" and that was the strongest piece of advice I've ever heard.
@amaracea
@amaracea 4 роки тому
A friend told me that once when we were kids. We aren’t friends anymore because first I forgot about that, and then he forgot about that, and now we’re probably never going to talk to each other again. I forgive him now, it’s been a while, but knowing him I doubt he’s forgiven me. I don’t know if he’s capable of forgiveness. Or any real feelings, for that matter.
@Julian-bq9qv
@Julian-bq9qv 4 роки тому
@@amaracea so very sad. Words spoken in haste or in anger can never be taken back. If both parties are willing and committed, then a friendship can recover and endure; but anything less is like trying to build half a bridge.
@jamietodd2560
@jamietodd2560 4 роки тому
Calm means the other person cannot affect you. They might try because if they can make you react then it shows that _they_ have the power to make you react. But if you remain cool and collected no matter what happens, then you retain all of that power, and actually steal some of theirs, because now you've both seen their failure.
@Julian-bq9qv
@Julian-bq9qv 4 роки тому
@@jamietodd2560 well said!!!
@ryanw8510
@ryanw8510 4 роки тому
Be like Don Draper if you want to pick up beautiful women...be like Cesar Milan if you want to pick up dogs!
@philiphaycock3845
@philiphaycock3845 4 роки тому
All I got from this is that the narrator has a crush on this actor.
@RageAZA
@RageAZA 4 роки тому
hey we all have our man crushes. a one sided bromance..
@_BhagavadGita
@_BhagavadGita 4 роки тому
Or perhaps you're just projecting your feelings onto the narrator?
@32alltheway
@32alltheway 4 роки тому
Pretty much. nothing like basing your own confidence on a drunken, philandering, identity stealing, morally bankrupt pretty boy. moral of the story, be pretty!
@zoulzopan
@zoulzopan 4 роки тому
You don't?
@hannahmadden3573
@hannahmadden3573 4 роки тому
What a Hamm.
@cscs88
@cscs88 5 днів тому
I love that his pick up line w that nurse is "my name is Don". Jon Hamm absolutely crushed this role.
@sexyrexy6358
@sexyrexy6358 Рік тому
Wow! So focused, engaging and productive. Just before I get out of bed, I visualize and feel in every part of my body, the life I want. I hold those feelings for at least 20 seconds and everything I do is driven by that vision. This is the best cotent I have seen on YT so far. Great job.
@Je.rone_
@Je.rone_ 4 роки тому
4:30 *Slowing things down and thinking before reacting Is something I find extremely effective*
@amaracea
@amaracea 4 роки тому
Yeah. It’s really difficult when you’re trained growing up and your whole life that you’re dirt and everyone else is better than you - meaning, hey, respond promptly to people and don’t waste their time. It’s more valuable than yours. When you realize you’re making them wait, you feel like your face is on fire and your hands get all greasy and your chest starts trying to kill you and you can tell they’re hearing how unbelievably loud and shallow your breathing suddenly is and that sweat on your forehead is “this close” to getting in your eye and you forget what you were trying to figure out to say
@Angeck
@Angeck 4 роки тому
@@amaracea Do this 3 times. First 2 times it feels terrible and difficult, and at the 3rd time it starts getting more comfortable. Also some people would be surprised at how first and second impressions don't matter and people forget how you've been in the past. The point being, go and make some mistakes, It's good for you.
@capo328
@capo328 4 роки тому
@@amaracea I know that feeling
@rickjohnson1719
@rickjohnson1719 4 роки тому
I find it annoying because i dont think when i speak so i flow. I think by talking so its aweful waiting for other people to answer.
@Je.rone_
@Je.rone_ 4 роки тому
@@rickjohnson1719 Depending on the complexity of the situation/conversation I think one can choose to just flow, a stream of consciousness so to speak, in lieu of well-thoughtout speech.
@michalpiskorski9731
@michalpiskorski9731 4 роки тому
Two rules which I have applied a long time ago and have improved my life completely. - Pause and think about what you're about to say, and then say it, always. - Sometimes it is better to not say anything.
@aljack1979
@aljack1979 3 роки тому
What I learnt from my military career, 'only fools rush in'
@Wayne--O
@Wayne--O 3 роки тому
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@mikeymorrison272
@mikeymorrison272 3 роки тому
Definitely agree
@praesidium4278
@praesidium4278 2 роки тому
I need to do this but to,do such great things,I need to destroy my schizophrenic version of myself and then I can be free and in touch with reality
@KSJpeep
@KSJpeep 2 роки тому
Thank you so much I really needed this, I was just rejected and was so scared to go to school because I knew that people would confront me about it but again thank you so much!
@Gilroben
@Gilroben 2 роки тому
Your videos are awesome! I'm loving them so much I'm watching some that doesn't seem so much applicable to me. Still I get some gems on them. The advice to internalise the belief that everything is gonna be ok hit me hard. I have a fear of being alone and I'm solving this with therapy, but your explanation made total sense to me. Really thinking and believing that would solve almost all the social awkwardness I usually have.
@poozizzle
@poozizzle 4 роки тому
Audrey Hepburn was asked how she seemed so poised all the time, she said she slows down. I started talking that to heart in stressful situations, and it's worked. I feel myself getting panicky in a social situation and then just walk slower, talk slower, allows your thoughts to slow down and become less reactive.
@ErikaK
@ErikaK 4 роки тому
Yes ! Love that! It gives you the time to think and analyse the situation. Also taking deep breaths can help to manage our emotions ♡
@gabyperez1123
@gabyperez1123 4 роки тому
Wow, I should try that.
@ErikaK
@ErikaK 4 роки тому
@@gabyperez1123 :) yes, before reacting to a certain situation, before responding, taking a deep breath can help you channel your emotions and think the things through. Taking deep breaths can help you release anxiety, stress and even anger.
@tripslikstar
@tripslikstar 4 роки тому
I worked in security. I always told my guards that when it gets crazy, slow down. Simply your list, take a deep breathe and control what you can. Seem to work as me and my team were very successful.
@ErikaK
@ErikaK 4 роки тому
@@tripslikstarthat's great! it really really helps Have a wonderful week !
@OMGSHEENA
@OMGSHEENA 3 роки тому
Realizing that no matter what happens, I'll be okay, is exactly how I survived my childhood. I used to stress so much then after so many dramatic plot twists, I realized if I survived all that, I will survive whatever else comes my way and that's when I stopped stressing as much. I hadn't really connected it with confidence before but I can see the connection now. Interesting. 🤔
@bbx7739
@bbx7739 2 роки тому
Same here. I am the only one who is not afraid to speak up, regardless of their position. After you collect your guts to stand up to your parents, you have no fear standing up to anyone :)
@pastelteaaniiii
@pastelteaaniiii 2 роки тому
Truth.
@bernhardsonn7758
@bernhardsonn7758 2 роки тому
Uf
@fredricmontana5420
@fredricmontana5420 2 роки тому
In the end, most people wont survive. 🙂
@lyrebird9749
@lyrebird9749 11 місяців тому
So sorry to hear what happened to you. But have faith in yourself, you are strong and capable. You have survived. You will survive. Peace.
@MinyCalapa
@MinyCalapa Рік тому
Phenomenal insight here! Thank you so much for sharing. Cheers, Britt
@Joy_ads
@Joy_ads Рік тому
Do you know what movie that Don guy is in
@xw6475
@xw6475 Рік тому
This is just amazing!! Your channel is my favourite on UKposts. thank you so much Charlie!! Please keep them coming
@Andy-lj9pr
@Andy-lj9pr 3 роки тому
1)Relaxed Body language 2)Selective eye contact 3)Non-Reactiveness/Silence/Patient response 4)Framing the situation 5)No matter what... you will be okay.
@DrJonTam
@DrJonTam 3 роки тому
0:16 Two types of confidence: External and Internal 0:43 1: Relaxed body language 3:03 2: Be non-reactive 5:24 3: Don’t try to convince people 7:04 4: Believe that you will always be ok
@itsjayjaehere864
@itsjayjaehere864 2 роки тому
Thankss
@bobbybarnes6888
@bobbybarnes6888 Рік тому
Appreciate it
@urielgladney1746
@urielgladney1746 Рік тому
Huh h B b 😅😊b 0:53 b
@iloveas999too4
@iloveas999too4 Рік тому
1.Have a relax body language and more freely in every environment. Have selective eye contact and make eye contact when your doing a main point. Do not over react and stay non reactive. Remain in silence to think or when confused. SLOW DOWN 2.Make yourself seem as equals with others. Do not get angry and stay calm 3.believe that you will be okay in every situation no matter what
@bambooflute2589
@bambooflute2589 Рік тому
07:01 is everything. Very powerful stuff. I’ll meditate on this for as long as it takes, and get rejected and fail over and over for as many times as it takes to internalize that. Thank you so much.
@lordvoldemort1985
@lordvoldemort1985 3 роки тому
Stop worrying about always needing to say the right thing because you think the other person or the group might reject you, because you know that you will never reject yourself --- this really hit man, ty for this video
@synaesthesia4183
@synaesthesia4183 3 роки тому
Same here!
@MotiveVideoBook
@MotiveVideoBook 4 роки тому
"you will be okay no matter what" yes this is powerful
@ryshlovanoodo7591
@ryshlovanoodo7591 4 роки тому
Not to me lol.
@vutrung6874
@vutrung6874 4 роки тому
@@ryshlovanoodo7591 :))
@sentvero2025
@sentvero2025 4 роки тому
Looks > Confidence
@ryshlovanoodo7591
@ryshlovanoodo7591 4 роки тому
I should have died in my thirty's.
@LifestyleofBeauty
@LifestyleofBeauty 2 роки тому
Learning how to control emotion under pressure is a priceless life skill not only for confidence!! 💖💖
@genghisgalahad8465
@genghisgalahad8465 4 місяці тому
I'd always thought of Charisma on Command as often the Don Draper University! A good thing for focus and attention and intention!
@mihaiioantabacaru7758
@mihaiioantabacaru7758 3 роки тому
"My name is Don" what a great pickup line, I'll definitely use it!
@dogguyful
@dogguyful 2 роки тому
My name is Bond, James Bond
@petezah4597
@petezah4597 2 роки тому
@@dogguyful my name is Don, Don Don
@dogguyful
@dogguyful 2 роки тому
@@petezah4597 Hahaha 😂
@tinockovietea2470
@tinockovietea2470 2 роки тому
Don Dada on the down low
@MundoGamesDo
@MundoGamesDo 2 роки тому
@@petezah4597 Tava aqui no baile escutando aquele som
@iampaulwadsworth
@iampaulwadsworth 4 роки тому
Building self-confidence will change your life. Have an amazing day.
@stevenorfolk7008
@stevenorfolk7008 4 роки тому
100% truth
@wgaule
@wgaule 4 роки тому
You can't change your life, it only happens once.
@TheAbrahamHD
@TheAbrahamHD 4 роки тому
No, YOU have an amazing day.
@wgaule
@wgaule 4 роки тому
@@TheAbrahamHD Shut up dummy!
@Elias___
@Elias___ 4 роки тому
No
@francisotia4370
@francisotia4370 2 роки тому
Exactly what I needed to hear at the moment. Thanks!!
@GustavoSilva-ny8jc
@GustavoSilva-ny8jc 2 роки тому
The ending is AMAZING, throughout the whole video i was like "yeah, okay but that's just a persona, just an act - and when i was younger and starting self development i thought that THIS was what meant to be confident but it's far from true self belief and conviction, the place where true confidence comes from. So, cool tips but it's not what i need righ-" then lesson 4 started. And you nailed it. It's so fundamental to stress this, to know where confidence, self-belief, comes from. Great, great video.
@camj256
@camj256 4 роки тому
If only real people were scripted to react perfectly to everything I say.
@VoidVerses
@VoidVerses 4 роки тому
Stfu punk
@CoolDrifty
@CoolDrifty 4 роки тому
@@VoidVerses nah he's right. you can do everything right in a conversation and the other person will still be awkward and antisocial.
@VoidVerses
@VoidVerses 4 роки тому
@@CoolDrifty you didn't get the joke... oh well 🤣
@CoolDrifty
@CoolDrifty 4 роки тому
Jesus Eduardo well I’ve heard better jokes
@VoidVerses
@VoidVerses 4 роки тому
@@CoolDrifty no, you heard easier jokes..
@VinnySmiles01
@VinnySmiles01 4 роки тому
Let’s be real here, most of Don’s confidence comes from the fact that he drinks so much. Drunk people are just more confident no matter what.
@seconds-js7pf
@seconds-js7pf 4 роки тому
Because they arent constantly worrying about consequences and living in the moment
@robertbelyea5767
@robertbelyea5767 4 роки тому
Yep. No matter what there's always a drink to cure what ails ya.
@Yjkishke
@Yjkishke 4 роки тому
If only it were that easy
@bighands69
@bighands69 4 роки тому
Don is not confident because he drinks. That is just pure nonsense. He is confident because he does not actually care about most of the things that shape other people. He does not care about money in the way other people does, he does not care what others think and above all he is willing to just try. Everybody knows a Don Draper. That does not mean he is a good person morality is something different.
@lf2208
@lf2208 4 роки тому
Don Draper's confidence comes from the fact that he is a character in a TV show, and he is only written into scenes where he is, and can be, confident.
@davidohmart1336
@davidohmart1336 Рік тому
New to this channel Really like what I have seen an heard Have been going through this stuff for 28yrs of sobriety The pause is one of the best things to master Also from Jorden Peterson that you have talked about you want to be thought of as dangerous And the stance is part of it Comand the pace Thanks like your channel
@DIYerGirl
@DIYerGirl 9 місяців тому
I've seen many videos so far, and this is my favorite. Thank you!
@alexd0103
@alexd0103 4 роки тому
How to be confident Step 1: steal someone else’s personality and life
@reyjoson7895
@reyjoson7895 4 роки тому
Alex Step1: migrate Step 2: steal someone else’s personality and life
@matttheamerican3766
@matttheamerican3766 4 роки тому
Not funny. Dudes actually do this crap
@CaliburovX4
@CaliburovX4 4 роки тому
Rey Joson Step three: Profit.
@bobbye7353
@bobbye7353 4 роки тому
He isn't talking about his personality at all. This is all about behavior. How mature successful men behave.
@tcnotrvlr
@tcnotrvlr 4 роки тому
stealing someone else's personality and life? Wack! You'll end up like Edward Norton's character at the end of The Italian Job movie from 2003- A no originality, unconfident, LOSER that can't decide who they Actually are.
@tanishmishra9152
@tanishmishra9152 4 роки тому
The only reason he drapes his hand over the adjacent chair so often is because his name is Don Draper and I cannot be convinced otherwise
@stevekemp7091
@stevekemp7091 3 роки тому
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 best comment ever on any video in the world
@TheDoomer666
@TheDoomer666 3 роки тому
ah man, English joke, I don't get it
@stevekemp7091
@stevekemp7091 3 роки тому
@@TheDoomer666 you speak very good England sir
@Pastadeadguy
@Pastadeadguy 3 роки тому
nooo dons drapes his hand because hes confident broo he feels comfortable with himself and his environment brooo you gotta hear me out bro it’s nota cuz his last names draper brooooooo
@mochalatte8878
@mochalatte8878 3 роки тому
@@Pastadeadguy it’s a joke-
@intrakitproductions
@intrakitproductions Рік тому
True confidence it's just being yourself in any situation and speaking your mind when needed
@badassv7875
@badassv7875 9 місяців тому
It was a rough day, watching this video made me fell better. Thank you.
@fbmw98
@fbmw98 4 роки тому
This channel went from how to act charismatically to how to fix your life principles and improve your life drastically in less then 3 years
@thedogofchucknorris
@thedogofchucknorris 4 роки тому
Ferrel Brendan than*
@AutumnOnFire
@AutumnOnFire 4 роки тому
Is that not one in the same?
@fbmw98
@fbmw98 4 роки тому
@@thedogofchucknorris corrected, thanks mate
@fbmw98
@fbmw98 4 роки тому
@@AutumnOnFire Having a principle will result in consistency and makes people automatically charismatic.
@paatrick90
@paatrick90 4 роки тому
@@fbmw98 The biggest thing that happened this week was when someone said "thanks" to a grammar correction in a UKposts, instead of getting triggered. The tiniest thing ever, but I felt inspired by this. Good mindset.
@EL1T3xFaTe
@EL1T3xFaTe 4 роки тому
DO a tommy shelby from Peaky blinders confidence/dominating a situation breakdown! most intimidating without trying character in any show (sorry tywin)
@ArtdeStoicisme
@ArtdeStoicisme 4 роки тому
BY ORDER OF THE FOOKIN PEAKY BLINDERS
@tylerdurden8640
@tylerdurden8640 4 роки тому
FOOK YES
@redweather6315
@redweather6315 4 роки тому
YES. I get intimidated through the screen even tho hes a good guy.
@CarDrifter007
@CarDrifter007 4 роки тому
"I am Thomas Fookin Shelby."
@nelmarcus234
@nelmarcus234 4 роки тому
Bump
@nerdalert6578
@nerdalert6578 2 роки тому
We need this curriculum in today's schools & make it mandatory for all students unfortunately this is something schools never teach us & as a 25 Yr old I can vouch for all adults when I say your degrees, grades & education doesn't matter if you're not able to express yourself. Until you're confident in you own skin you can never be successful.Period..!
@bespoke_heirlooms
@bespoke_heirlooms 10 місяців тому
Wow!!!! I didn’t know that I needed to hear this until today
@SCRKT007
@SCRKT007 3 роки тому
So basically accepting oneself is the very key factor on being confident, kinda mind blowing that it also goes around by the famous saying "once you start believing in yourself, anything is possible".
@jns08d
@jns08d 2 роки тому
This is SO TRUE, 5 years ago I was a super insecure college student, got some therapy and now I'm more in love with myself than ever.
@Khriss98
@Khriss98 4 роки тому
you gotta hit rock bottom first before truly being confident
@ASJacob
@ASJacob 4 роки тому
Been there, I wish that on everyone who wants to become their greatest self! The darker the weather, the better the man!
@shakaabs7102
@shakaabs7102 4 роки тому
Sh.sudaysi.quraan.baqara.
@cecee3480
@cecee3480 4 роки тому
Hitting rock bottom doesn't make you confident it makes you ruthless.
@kkibela
@kkibela 4 роки тому
That whole.. Im going to be fine is what really does it.. And the no ducks given that comes out of rock bottom is what makes people relentlessly unegotistically authentic in every interaction..and relaxed biddy language.. That's confidence.. And it's unique to everyone.. Best to find your own rather than copy anyone partly.. Just comes off as creepy and untrustworthy.
@owennbeats
@owennbeats 4 роки тому
how do I hit rock bottom
@valerie8619
@valerie8619 Рік тому
I almost got teary I needed this.
@MimiBigCat
@MimiBigCat Рік тому
How true and to the point ! Thanks for sharing. God bless !
@mistermister2291
@mistermister2291 4 роки тому
Confidence isn't about getting other peoplr to agree with you or accept you, it's about living your life without worry. I think that a lot of the reasons people watch this channel come from wanting social acceptance. Ironically, that means that for many of us (myself included), the biggest obstical to overcome in being charismatic, is what drove us to try to be in the first place.
@billthebax5578
@billthebax5578 4 роки тому
Vael Ryker well put. When my son was about 4th grade I was listening to him and his buddy's sitting around talking. (My son was born with bi-lateral club feet) one of the boys told him, so and so is faster than you. His answer, big deal everyone is faster than me. Too cool, that ended right there. That kid tried to step on him, but found nothing to step on.
@jondury9450
@jondury9450 3 роки тому
How To Be Confident In Any Situation. 1: Look like Don Draper 2: Look like Don Draper 3: Look like Don Draper
@hwdareu5848
@hwdareu5848 3 роки тому
Don't forget to have money, I mean alot of money 😁
@karolbednarczyk3107
@karolbednarczyk3107 3 роки тому
You create your own reality by choosing what you believe in. 99% of your reactions are coming from subconscious, reactions become habits, and habits become your reality.
@Dwight_
@Dwight_ 3 роки тому
Sorry but comments like yours are always the most pethatic. Is that only thing you got from this video?
@mnbvmnbv7934
@mnbvmnbv7934 3 роки тому
@@Dwight_ joke bro
@Dwight_
@Dwight_ 3 роки тому
@@mnbvmnbv7934 i think some of the guys who write stuff like that mean it.
@joekool5005
@joekool5005 4 місяці тому
Madmen is a great series worth watching on so many levels.
@xAlloyLol
@xAlloyLol 2 роки тому
Pretty sure you just fixed my confidence, Thanks alot.
@TakeBackYourMind997
@TakeBackYourMind997 3 роки тому
If you spend time getting to know yourself, and learn to love and accept that person then you strengthen the most important relationship of your life, the one you have with yourself. If that relationship is solid then you always have an inner safe haven no matter what is going on around you. That self love and understanding allows you to stay true to yourself in every situation, that is the deepest form of confidence.
@percyvalle921
@percyvalle921 3 роки тому
True
@JoseSantos-el8nj
@JoseSantos-el8nj 2 роки тому
Yes but also improving that old self version of you is necessary sometimes, not only accepting it, doing something about if you feel unhappy about certain aspects of yourself
@marcschox4769
@marcschox4769 2 роки тому
@@JoseSantos-el8nj exactly bro i gotta hit the gym im not gonna accept myself being skinny
@JoseSantos-el8nj
@JoseSantos-el8nj 2 роки тому
@@marcschox4769 That's what I've been doing bro, keep it up you're gonna make it
@broste2121
@broste2121 2 роки тому
"I pretended to be somebody I wanted to be until I became that person" Cary Grant
@KingNez89
@KingNez89 Рік тому
Dude this video is a masterpiece. Thank you for this
@adayevaluateaknur43
@adayevaluateaknur43 2 роки тому
I liked this lesson so much! It helps me to love myself more! Thank you so much! Do you have any discounts for your online university?
@jannazepp8939
@jannazepp8939 4 роки тому
I totally and finally fell in love with the Don Draper character when he embraced the other guy in genuine empathy and in a gesture of comfort. That was his defining moment as a human. Also, Jon Hamm. Wow. What an amazing actor.
@raydencreed1524
@raydencreed1524 3 роки тому
@Janna Zepp When the dude was describing his dream, I felt like I wanted to give him a hug. And then Don goes and actually does it, holy crap.
@jannazepp5161
@jannazepp5161 3 роки тому
Greg Walker yes. It is totally conditional. We don’t like whiny wimps who tell us who they think we are. We like men who don’t blame us for everything that is wrong. We like men who like women. We hate men who hate women. So yeah. You are right. It IS conditional. Those are the conditions. I have my own money. My husband has his own money. Get a job, a clue, snd stop being a weakling.
@ns3938
@ns3938 4 роки тому
Being brought up in a loving and supportive environment and being physically attractive are the most important contributors to confidence.
@njhd9923
@njhd9923 3 роки тому
What if I told u that even with those 2 things u could still not be confident 🤔
@dhiadridi4062
@dhiadridi4062 3 роки тому
Definitely wrong answer
@dorian_tihi5869
@dorian_tihi5869 3 роки тому
Hey Beatiful people, I Just Started my own Channel Inspired by David and I just wanted to let you know. It might be Interesting for you and i would appreciate it if you would show some support. See you there ;)
@bradleysales8403
@bradleysales8403 2 роки тому
Such a great video, thank you for creating this.
@alexalbertini7819
@alexalbertini7819 7 днів тому
thank's for your effort
@afonsolucas2219
@afonsolucas2219 4 роки тому
How to be like Don Draper: Step 1: When in doubt, remain absolutely silent Step 2: When asked about your past give vague and open ended answers Step 3: Have a great name Step 4: Look fantastic in a suit, look fantastic in casual wear, look fantastic in anything. Sound good. Smell good. Kiss good. Strutt around with supreme confidence. Take 6 hour lunches. Disappear for weeks at a time! Lie to everyone about everything and most importantly... Drink and smoke constantly. Basically... Be Don Draper
@bohdanrohachenko7650
@bohdanrohachenko7650 4 роки тому
And die from a liver failure due to constantly smoking and drinking.
@afonsolucas2219
@afonsolucas2219 4 роки тому
Guys, this is a sketch from SNL with Jon Hamm. It's perfect go watch it.
@evindrews
@evindrews 4 роки тому
step 5: crumble as a human being
@binal-flecki2387
@binal-flecki2387 4 роки тому
*Boss asks me something* *Stays absolutely silent*
@afonsolucas2219
@afonsolucas2219 4 роки тому
@@binal-flecki2387 Boss: ... You're promoted.
@rk5kuenzler351
@rk5kuenzler351 4 роки тому
How accurate this is is actually kind of crazy. I've followed most of these in the past and have deviated recently while going through some things and allowing myself to be off balance. I used to spend so much time on my own thinking and pondering what the ideal way to be happy and so on and so forth is. At the end of my day I'd reassess: What happened today, what was the goal here, why did it go the way it did, why did someone react the way they did, what could I have done different.... ANYWAY. Being honest and therefore speaking from a place where you feel grounded and stable and therefore confident while being open to being wrong and realizing you will be ok no matter what. the world is up to your interpretation. is all there is to it.
@TrupimOkiemTV
@TrupimOkiemTV 4 роки тому
wow that was good
@Metallicuz
@Metallicuz 4 роки тому
Thank you for taking the time to write this.
@reginasvlog2376
@reginasvlog2376 2 роки тому
thanks for the advice, definitely learned a lot~
@mathiaschristensen1194
@mathiaschristensen1194 2 роки тому
Video aside, Im so glad you exposed me to this shows existense, it is absolutely incredible. Jon Hamm absolutely NAILS this role in an almost surreal perfect fashion.
@freelcf
@freelcf 4 роки тому
Be true and authentic, and we'll always be ok.
@jonnycpardoe
@jonnycpardoe 3 роки тому
Thank you. A great and sensible comment.
@anavalenz9716
@anavalenz9716 3 роки тому
I agree with that. I always feel confident being myself and since I am an honest person people generally like me, if not at the beginning, because I am not good-looking, they will end up liking my personality.
@osse1n
@osse1n 4 роки тому
Internal confidence can also be called *SELF-ESTEEM* - Ultimately, it boils down to mastering your own psychology and understanding that you have unlimited powers
@Bennevisie
@Bennevisie 4 роки тому
Don Draper had self esteem? You sure?
@Infinite_exhilaration
@Infinite_exhilaration 4 роки тому
VariableVision Absolutely! confidence isn’t something someone always radiates, it fluctuates, not everyone always feel amazing every second of every day, Don Draper definitely has had confidence at some point in his life, and may be feeling that exact way right now, it’s something you cultivate that takes time, so your answer is a bit obvious, sometimes you feel confident, sometimes not, everyone has had confidence at one point in their life
@lukaseckart8583
@lukaseckart8583 4 роки тому
If ones self-esteem is based on the believe that one has unlimited powers, one will at some point fail and then be forced to question it. This is far from mastering ones psychology I guess... Knowing ones limits, being confident about the potentual one has and honest about all of it seems like self-esteem that is way more natural. Just my thougt on it tho..
@Bennevisie
@Bennevisie 4 роки тому
@@Infinite_exhilaration Don Draper definitely had confidence. But I would argue his self destructive behaviour (alcoholism, serial cheating on his wife, constant lying) is rather a sign of lack of self esteem. One should not confuse self esteem with confidence. One runs much deeper and the other is more superficial and ego-centric.
@Infinite_exhilaration
@Infinite_exhilaration 4 роки тому
VariableVision I’m a contradiction because I agree and disagree with you. You should never mix self esteem with confidence, however... people’s behavior, it changes over time, take Robert Downey Jr by example, his life was going essentially nowhere, and he made a decision to completely change the course of his life, and arguably kick started the MCU. Now... I’m not talking that big of a change, but he could of been known for binge drinking 4 months ago, and has that stigma, but 3 weeks ago, without us knowing, he made the decision to stop drinking, or drink less and less, so... it’s very difficult in my opinion to judge someone on their past behavior when change is just one decision away, and your argument may be people don’t change, and it’s a possibility like most people they are basing that statement from their own personal experience. Today he could of made a decision to change everything around. The truth is we don’t know. It’s the same as having a best friend always hung out in Highschool, you graduated, moved to a different state, visited him 3 years later, you can be a completely different person, so much so he doesn’t even recognize you
@AbeNXC
@AbeNXC Рік тому
I’ve lived my life so far by the adage “this too shall pass”… idk why it stuck with me so hard the first time I heard it but it’s literally how I operate my life on the daily now. This saying has gotten me through countless excruciating physical AND emotional pain over the years and I really believe it’s changed me for the better
@lewiskori9426
@lewiskori9426 6 днів тому
I agree with you. The day I learned about the hedonic treadmill was the day my life changed for the better. Deep down I always know that everything is temporary.
@misty_mouse987
@misty_mouse987 2 роки тому
you will never reject yourself... love this
@ziadmatwi8982
@ziadmatwi8982 4 роки тому
Instructions unclear, drank titanic volumes of whiskey and cheated on wife
@timaden3916
@timaden3916 4 роки тому
Call that Roger 😂😂😂😂
@DkGrassyKnoll
@DkGrassyKnoll 4 роки тому
The doctor treatment
@timaden3916
@timaden3916 4 роки тому
@@DkGrassyKnoll i loved that episode
@nicholasgendreau1297
@nicholasgendreau1297 4 роки тому
But did you do it with confidence
@TheDomain16
@TheDomain16 4 роки тому
You're almost there.
@EllaRingrose
@EllaRingrose 4 роки тому
With Confidence it is also to remind yourself that everyone is going through things, everyone is up in their own heads worrying about themselves. Once you realise this it is so easy to walk around with ease and assured in who you are. Everyone is human. With any scenario that scares you, ask yourself the simple question ‘What is the worst outcome that can happen from this situation’, usually it isn’t half as bad as we make it out to be! Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real. Challenge yourself everyday and you will step into a Confident Person. All the love and incredible video, Thank you x
@fibonaccisrazor
@fibonaccisrazor 3 роки тому
That was everything in a nutshell - spot on, I think.
@dorian_tihi5869
@dorian_tihi5869 3 роки тому
Hey Beatiful people, I Just Started my own Channel Inspired by David and I just wanted to let you know. It might be Interesting for you and i would appreciate it if you would show some support. See you there ;)
@goshahello1500
@goshahello1500 7 місяців тому
I watched this video a few years back and I forgot that after I applied the steps it completely changed how everyone around me viewed me seemingly overnight props to this channel
@marieliswolfram9087
@marieliswolfram9087 11 місяців тому
I love this contet, thank you so much! I agree it's a ig relief once you adopt the midset, that no matter what you will be ok. It allows you to speek your truth with self respect and respect for the other person.
@cameronbajt4
@cameronbajt4 4 роки тому
"Keeping emotional expression in check actually inspires resolves in others" - this is actual gold.
@shawarmageddonit
@shawarmageddonit 4 роки тому
Well, not "ACTUAL".
@Matt-cl4mp
@Matt-cl4mp 4 роки тому
I was manspreading on the bus to act more confident and I ended up getting slapped again.
@adrienne2838
@adrienne2838 4 роки тому
That’s so selfish, how dare you not leave space for the people next to you, you don’t own the bus man
@jauntyangle5667
@jauntyangle5667 4 роки тому
Zip up your flies next time.
@erravi
@erravi 4 роки тому
Manspreading? You mean having balls?
@bingbongabinga2954
@bingbongabinga2954 4 роки тому
Alphas don't offend a women's mating instincts. Beta's are percieved as falsely advertising when manspreading.
@audhauwidh
@audhauwidh 4 роки тому
Weren't manspreading enough
@debu206
@debu206 4 місяці тому
thanks for this video, it gave me answers
@ssjliano9971
@ssjliano9971 2 роки тому
It’s crazy how simple stuff like this is but the way we were programmed growing up made shot like this never go through my head
@wellingtonjackson851
@wellingtonjackson851 3 роки тому
Successful people don't become that way overnight.what most people see at a glance-wealth,a great career,purpose- is the result of hardwork and hustle over time.
@greglampard1821
@greglampard1821 3 роки тому
You're right sir
@greglampard1821
@greglampard1821 3 роки тому
Thanks for introducing me to expert mr smith greenwoods of financial education
@wellingtonchristopher9422
@wellingtonchristopher9422 3 роки тому
Most people don't invest due to ignorance
@wellingtonchristopher9422
@wellingtonchristopher9422 3 роки тому
People are scared of investing because of the high rate of scam in the business
@wellingtonchristopher9422
@wellingtonchristopher9422 3 роки тому
There are scammers but real brokers are out there for investors
@GawdTy
@GawdTy 4 роки тому
He looks like if micheal from the office was cool LOL
@spencergrubb5153
@spencergrubb5153 4 роки тому
I think the term you're looking for is Michael Scarn
@heavy-mente6370
@heavy-mente6370 3 роки тому
date michael?
@sillyboy2223
@sillyboy2223 3 роки тому
I gave you your 200th like. Your welcome!!!
@ahmz1k
@ahmz1k 3 роки тому
Rasta Michael
@cherchehacknostale
@cherchehacknostale 3 роки тому
SOOO TRUUUUE
@ChristyMurphyWriter
@ChristyMurphyWriter Рік тому
Wow! That was a truly great video. Well done and thank you!
@driven01
@driven01 Рік тому
Point # 4 is so very important.
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