This hurt me

Now that's the sport xd

I was looking for this comment 😂

I just burst out laughing, thanks for this.

Any arguement that massages the ego will be accepted automatically

where can i get gour game?!😂

@@jimfrick6001 but wuz he listening tho? girl did all the research and wrote a whole paper and stuff, why should she listen to someone who's wrong?

@@jimfrick6001 kk fair

Would you be willing to share your thesis? Or sell your game? I would be really interested in reading this and playing the game.

@@jimfrick6001 I did listen! He was saying that because he felt bad for someone he was feeling empathy towards them, and I explained that from my research, what it sounded like he was experiencing was actually sympathy, not empathy, and he got all defensive. It's not that sympathy is necessarily a bad thing, it's just that it is distinctive from empathy, because sympathy is more self-focused, whereas empathy is other-focused. And yeah, he didn't really care about my perspective, so we are no longer together lol

Well said. Great metaphore (that also works for "meritocratic" capitalism, btw).

Said the beautiful woman with the rich white guy. Guess there is always a higher mountain.

But life really *is* the result of our own actions, regardless of where an individual starts.

@@americasevilgeniusYou should check up wikipedia's page of Pierre Bourdieu (for a start).

​@@americasevilgenius baby brain take, try again

It's an effect of society constantly telling men "that they can't imagine what being a woman is like". You can't constantly punish people for trying to empathize, all the while telling them "that they will never get it" and at the same time act surprised, if they then actually trust you and therefore accept "that they never will get it". That's just a badly cosntructed catch 22.

@@AntonGudenusNOBODY will completely understand the full breath of experience in someone with different life experiences. Do you think white people can fully understand what it means to be black? No. But can they TRY to learn what they CAN? Maybe read a book about it? Men are not special on this. Our society is set up that a large amount of the media and power is aimed DIRECTLY at this demographic-so if you don’t learn to understand the straight white male experience? You suffer structural consequences in work, your personal safety, etc. We’ve been told to anticipate the male perspective since we were children just to not get abducted. We were told we HAVE to or else there are grave consequences. But what are the consequences of not bothering to learn about women’s experiences, black people’s experiences, etc? You don’t get the date you want? We HAVE to, but you abdicate all responsibility to understand others because a minority expressed frustration with having to guide you themselves on top of everything else they deal with when a good amount of that knowledge has always been out there. Again, there are books. Nothing is stopping you. But we HAD to from childhood, and you’re complaining when someone expects you to do a small bit of the same work that is expected from them.

@@AntonGudenus They're not trying to empathize though...that's the ENTIRE point.

@@brennam954You missed my point entirely. I laid out, WHY they eventually STOP empathizing. If you punish people for trying to empathize or constantly gaslight their attempts at empathizing as "not empathizing", you eventually get people to actually stop even trying to empathize. Because no matter what you do, you will be accused of not trying to empathize. It's kind of like you'd eventually stop trying to do good work, if all your work is cosntantly being shit on. If your decision is between "do a lot of work and then be told that it's shit" and "accept that it's shit and don't do work", only a delusional person, or a person doing the work exclusively for themselves and therefore not being beholden to other peoples opinion, would still do the work.

@@AntonGudenus More excuses. Grow up.

right?

@@user-nm5xc3ms3i when I get "slim again" goals lol

She's even better LIVE!! Saw her last week!!! Amazing 👏

@@amygradybsw I have no doubt about that, but flights to the US are currently slightly above of what I can afford. Pension checks don't cover leisure time, I'm afraid.

Wonder why she always wears a ponytail. Is it easier to deal with?

@@JustinCoastersyes

That’s usually how hair growth + time works

@@lexiright5609 oh word? I 😐🙄😒

@JustinCoasters Maybe it's part of her stage look.

Empathy is one of the perks of not being hot. :)

@@ncwordman I still forget people's birthdays though...

@@RikSolstice Ha! Me too. I really want to remember: especially with parents and good friends. But I can't do it. My brain won't allow it. The only two I remember are my own, and some girl I knew 40 years ago...for some reason. :)

@@ncwordman stop that.

That's me with phone numbers. I think I finally memorized my husband's, yet I can probably still recite my highschool boyfriend's number@@ncwordman

Such an excellent book, and you're right, Blade Runner is great but doesn't catch everything. :)

The actual title is this: "Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep." Not "electronic sheeps."

even people who don't watch sports. we live in a strange society.

Do yall still be getting freaky

You know what's not a funny story? That one or any story a woman tells.

​@@vertyisprobablydeadaw it triggered you 😂

@@vertyisprobablydead INCEL ENERGY UP IN HERE

​@@vertyisprobablydead Keep up that attitude, sport. We'll have to scrape the ladies off of you, because you murdered them.

She does yell

@@hoemalone not as much as most of the guys.

Maybe u not hot ❤

Hope she sees this bro.

F******ng brilliant! 👍👍👍👋👋👋

Or an Easter Hershey kiss!

@@TheTiltShift7 Good catch! +1

@@samk4801 😁

Who tf would think in such shallow terms to begin with?

@@Gettothegoneway too many single women.

lollll

@@wildewaffle9790A lot of women have preferences for height like they do for any other characteristic, but it doesn’t matter as much as men think it does. Men are way more obsessed with height than women are 😂 I mean you’ll get a vid of a woman saying “I don’t mind if a guy is shorter than me” and the comments are just full of men calling her a liar 😂

This!!! 😂 I was like "tall, hot and handsome? That's what you want? And then you complain he lacks empathy?Typical." She should have chosen a guy with empathy over this Chad. There are more than enough men with empathy, just stop picking the Chads and Tyrones. 🤦‍♂️

I predict that Taylor has a great future ahead of her. I don't think we need to worry, this show is probably a stepping stone for her.

I was REALLY excited when I heard she was getting her own late, late show. Then I saw the format and thought it was a pretty douche-y thing to do to her. I AM still glad she has her own show. AND I think it would be killer if it were a traditional style late-show. Given how well she works crowds, I think she'd be a great host.

@@mdclavey59 maybe they'll transition it.... do a round of game show, then adjourn to a couch chat format after that with the guests or something... I agree the format does her no favours.

She addressed this and said she preferred the game show format. I’ve started to like it more now that I’ve given it a chance

I saw that, ​@@jessicam3707, and she's such a great person and performer I would've expected nothing less... true or not. I suspect her comment is more one of pragmatism and professional politics than not.

Well, that's precisely because you do not care that you cannot expect your relationship to last, be it your friends, your family and the one you claim to love. When you love someone, you care. You care about their feelings, you care about them being happy. If you do not, then you do not love them. If you are unable to love another enough to care, you can be by yourself, and that's fine too.

@@thedevilsadvocate788 Entirely off the point. The point is only that my birthday doesn't matter, so it wouldn't bother me if someone forgot it, and I probably wouldn't notice because I wasn't aware we'd reached my birthday. The day and people not remembering it is not relevant to my happiness. I feel no worse for it. No matter how much I love the person, and no matter how much they love me. It's that simple. If anything, them making a thing out of my birthday even though I don't care about it is what would be annoying.

@@thesong7877 Well, people tends to view their birthday as day they want to spend with their loved ones. If you do not care for your own birthday, that's perfectly fine too. I mean, I don't celebrate mine either, I find it a bother and a reminder that I'm getting older and my time on Earth keeps getting shorter. But if it is something my girlfriend cares about, I'll make a gesture, because she's important to me. The way you phrased it made it sound that if your significant other attempted to explained why your indifference to something they value important bothered them, you'd disregard it because "Well, ain't important to me, why would I care that it is to you?" But as you might have experienced; written statements are often taken at face value, it is hard to evaluate someone's state of mind or intent.

I've met some liberal men like that too. Not as many... But yeah. It's when narcissistic traits get out of hand. I just keep reminding myself if they don't care to understand me or how I feel, they don't care for me. If they hate it when I try to explain how I feel, they hate me. If they try to talk over me or dismiss how I feel, they want me to disappear from my body so they can replace it with a stepford SO.

No she's just describing assholes. It really isn't a gender exclusive issue.

She’s talking about her ex

@@simplenough did you two not just say the same thing?

@@jv-lk7bc I’m being specific

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Well, you're half right. I'll let you figure out which half... 😁

@@markuswunsch Nicely done. 😆👍

All I gotta do is think about black widow in that scene where she be leg locking dudes round their faces

@@lofipooper9080 Well if you're unsure why we make puppy eyes just bring us food while undressed and with a big smile on your faces... you'll never be wrong with that kind of response as it works no matter whether we are seeking empathy, are horny or hungry or just lonely and bored ;-)

😂😂. I don't think it affects dudes as much you'd like to imagine. That's how women operate. They come up with terms like "Fat shaming" and "cyberbullying". The extent of it affecting men is them commenting a lame and generic "women aren't funny" comment. That's it.

lol

was that intended to be relevant? if so, needs a little unpacking

LOL

They have strong propaganda

@@simplenough don't believe the hype.

LOL

Any comedian these days has to push the narrative, you know.

And then we are collectively telling men: "You are a man, you will never feel how it feels to be a woman, trying to do so is actually insulting to female plight" And if you never have hit your own finger with a hammer, you have no idea how and if it hurts. So you can't show sympathy either.

there are many paths to a similar destination. IDIC ftw :)

Yes, the behavior she describes is to be expected when the sole criteria for selecting male companions are "tall and hot."

​@@kevinmadore1794Many men select women based solely on attractiveness. Both sexes do this

​@user-zy4wv7yx1z and yet she only chose men as an example, instead of women.

@@sunny3907 So? I find women way more attractive than men (both the physical attraction and their brains). I find I'm much less compatible with males and I see a lot more issues in men than I do women

I am sorry for the rough card you were dealt.

You grew up in a very weird America there. One that very much is not agreeing with statistics, I might add.

@@AntonGudenusIt was the most misogynistic generation in the history of mankind. Boomers.

​@@gerryleb8575 If you think, that that was the most misogynistic generation in history, you are sorely mistaken. A few centuries ago it was much much worse. And in other societies it still is much much worse, than it was in the west for centuries. Additionally the America of the boomers is now slowly going the way of the dodo. Boomers are now reaching retirement age, and todays America is very different. Though even with boomers the statistics don't agree with you.

thats weird

in that case I just feel bad for her, probably had bad previous partners bc thats just wrong

@@Fen_Fox --- Well, she seemed to really enjoy herself, multiple times no less.

​​@@q7winq7 That's just the way some people are. Both guy and girls. Only they know to pleasure themselves correctly even with a partner. And it doesn't happen because of trauma. She is wrong about the woman part though, it's just her (and people like her).

Fair enough.

OK.

Ah, but if you had empathy, you'd still find it funny. So it's not the demographic you lack, bro.

You missed the problem my dear. Women are actually way more prone to pick for internal qualities, compared to men. And know what happens? We find that the way misogyny affects men, is that men notoriously lack on the social and emotional skill sets. Even if they are not pretty men, even if they are not white men, even if they are not men but still boys. Misogyny cuts men from their archaic feminine aspects. These aspects are shamed in men. Especially BY peer men, but not exclusively aka women, too, can be shaming men and boys for emotions. And basically things are so bad, there's terms like "generalised alexythymia in the male population". In which "alexithymia" is about struggling to sense, discern and/or process emotions. The whole blasted sexism dynamic and sexistic behaviours particularly (but not exclusively) in men, like ANY form of discrimination, is built on "lack of empathy/compassion" and ppl's inability to simply respect the needs of others, WITHOUT having to experience these things themselves. It's BECAUSE men are humans, too, that men are affected by sexism just as women are (like with all sides to any form of discrimination). Just that men get privileges, too, (which end up "poisonous", in a sense) where women have to carry the burden for it (which can sometimes come with some incredibly bitter "benefits", in a sense). So, when are ya sweets ready to notice, that your problems and our problems are two sides to the same coin and come in to help sort that out? (Maybe you already are, personally then awesome). I'm kind of surprised you assumed a lack of awareness, by the way. Actually the more frequent way of women specifically selecting for the pretty boys with lack of character, tends to be a trauma response and more of a Since chances to find a man with sufficient emotional intelligence to sort out the sexism patterns that affect us, is low (as that's how debilitating the effects of sexism are), I may as well at least have some eye candy for as long as it lasts". I personally do not select this way. On the contrary, you'll see me be fairly unhappy if I fall for a guy with character who's also pretty/attractive, cause I know what 3rd person produced headaches will come with that LOL. But I've encountered the mindset. It tend to be a trauma response that is basically about .... sweetening things up a bit as abuse is so likely, it's basically expected. 😮‍💨. In fact, women who select lie myself, often end up single or run into men who are a hot mess of trauma and are sweet but a kid on emotional level and will struggle against you on every step of the way of trying help them mature. Ever tried suggesting therapy to men, dear? 😟 Ofcourse there are exceptions. Most of the time (but not always), those men will ne in relationships LOL as that is OUR definition of "top tier partner".

i think that's common sense for most people

@@StarJester Not common enough, I'm afraid.

I'm a guy and I personally think she's very funny. I say that even as a guy who's generally pretty tough to please with stand up. I also happen to think that men and women are different, and thus flawed in our own unique ways. One of the beauties of life is each sex being there to compliment the other, and keep them in check. I just don't happen to find this particular moment from her special all that funny because it doesn't ring all together true. I consider myself far from TRIGGERED because it offended me However, while I'll insist that I wasn't offended by this particular bit poking fun at men, I'll also insist that I would make no apologize in saying that men getting offended at a portrayal of themselves isn't something which in principle is inherently wrong. Just because she didn't say something offensive here, does not mean that it's impossible for men to be reasonably offended.

Lol as if women won't cancel you on Twitter for making a joke about women

We just feel bad for how dumb so many people are who find this funny

@@zackwalker1721 but bro its hilarious that men get offended by this so settle down bruh it aint that big of a deal! stop caring so much

lol i agree

Wow you are just a walking symptom.

You are diagnosed with psychopathy?

Her ex likes basketball

Because the only options are gay and straight, right? Stop being dumb and use google

Bi men exist my dude.

She tried dating women.

It think that's more of a "humanity as a whole" thing rather than a gender thing. We, as humans, do not empathize well with people we have differences with. This is why it takes effort, and that's why interpersonal long-term relationships are hard. You could reverse that situation and it would work. You could even adapt it to any kind of relationship, and it still works. All you require to understand the story is to understand that one party is making efforts, and the other fails to see or acknowledge these efforts, and/or downright makes none. That's the concept, that's the subtext. I understand you might just be in bad faith because... well... you are... but that's what's amusing to me. And it allows me to mansplain it without feeling bad about it, because I think my condescending tone is appropriate. Have a neat day.

kind of the same as what she's suggesting. She never said it only works one way. just talked about her experience because thats what makes sense..

@@jv-lk7bcOh, I sense I'm going to have fun with you today. Go on :D

LOL

best comment on youtube.

that's stupid as shit, not all men do that and there's women that do 💀💀💀💀

(You're not the main character)