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The fact that a 10 year old is throwing a tantrum over not getting an actual car that they can't even drive says a lot on how much the parents spoiled her

What the parents don't realize is that they may have ruined this poor guys childhood, but he gets to choose their nursing home.

This story made my blood boil. Those parents can NEVER pay back the "Debt" they accrued by stealing the rest of his childhood birthdays.

AN UPDATE! The sister is so screwed in the head, that she got herself kicked out of boarding school. Picked fights, went on hunger strikes, self harmed. Now she's been committed to a psyche ward indefinitely. Diagnosed with narcissism and PTSD Mom is no better, smuggling junk food while the sister was in boarding school, attacked dad when sister was sent to the psych ward. She got committed too!

Man, Imagine the feeling of going to your spoiled sister's boarding school then just starts grinning at her till she screamed.

This is still one of my favorite quotes ever. "Every child needs a parent, Not all parents need a child." These stories prove it 100%

These parents should’ve been charged with child neglect. WHO’S WITH ME?!

if i was the grandparents im gonna chant ”BRING HER TO THE ORPHANAGE!” as loud as i can, she CLEARLY needs a lesson for respect.

The fact the father exploded on the son for ruining her "moment" is disgusting. It was his graduation and his birthday and it's still her moment.... i would slap both of them across the face and tell them i no longer have parents and they are dead to me. Then they can have their wonderful live with their golden child.

I'll never understand why some parents just have this blatant favortism towards one of their kids and treat the others like slaves

My daughter has a niece and nephew like this. One is the 'golden child' and one is basically invisible, and she keeps trying to tell their parents that they are massively screwing up BOTH of these babies. One is going to grow up thinking they are worthless, and one is going to grow up with an overinflated ego. She's already a little hellion. The only time she minds is when my daughter has her because she KNOWS that you come to Auntie's house, the rules are different. Over here, you MIND or ELSE. My daughter is a lot like me. My way or My way. NO highway option. So, for the short time they they are with her, they get treated equally, the little boy actually gets attention, GOOD attention, and SHE has to mind, and then they go home, and it goes right back to he's either invisible or in trouble, and she's an angelic princess who can do no wrong. They are both still under 5 right now. You just wait. In 10 years, one or both of them will be in jail, or dead. The 'ignored' child will get tired of it, and kids like that tend to act out because attention, ANY attention, is something, and they'll take it. Unfortunately, it will blow back on him, until it becomes too much for him, and I worry about what's going to happen if he gets overloaded and decides it's not worth it anymore. :( - Her...I fully expect that she will be in jail before she's 18, and more than once. Her behavior will continue to escalate because her parents will bail her out and say "Oh, she didn't do anything wrong." and continue to dismiss her discretions until she gets into a mess that they CAN'T bail her out of, and she does something that can't be undone, and either hurts someone or kills someone because they have something she wants or didn't do what she wanted and no one put a stop to the crap. All because their PARENTS won't grow up and BE parents.

Father's brother: what is wrong with you? Father: nothing, I just... Father's brother: just what, huh? You have completely neglected your own son for 8 years and for what? Father: it was a bit of a mistake ok! Father's brother: MISTAKE! Giving your son's birthday to your daughter was just a mistake? Father: I ...well ...umm Father's brother: as a dad, you're supposed to love all your kids, not just one. You should know this. That is not how dad and mom raised us. Why would you do this to your son? Father: I'm sorry ok Father's brother: too late. I'm embarrassed that I ever looked up to you.

The grandparents did a better job than his actual parents. Glad they stepped up once they knew what was going on.

The sad part is it’s not even the sisters fault. Her parents raised her to think she’s entitled to not only have it be about her all the time but also she thinks she can get away with anything. They have fucked this child up irreparably and she will live the rest of her life as a Karen

When he said his parents had the “don’t hate us” smile I would looked at them and said quietly “oh don’t worry I still do” along with having my hand down to my side flipping them off to not make it obvious.

I remember this one story (the first I heard in this beautiful channel) about a mother trying to basically steal the son’s house for her spoiled daughter. In the end, the mother got separated from the daughter, and the daughter eventually became a a good person. I sincerely hope the daughter turn her life around.

I am so glad that the extended family actually acknowledged the fact they were oblivious and wrong for so many years because thats a hard skill that shows your kindness

my heart began to beat so fast when i heard all about these sons of a pickled bastard called parents this child had to deal with. the amount of pure s a t i s f a c t i o n i felt when the relatives chewed out his parents is immeasurable.

I was holding tears at the first story, I actually feel more than horrible for this guys 18 years of hard work, just for his own parents to get rid of all of the possible stuff he could’ve ever had. I would literally donate 10k if I could to that guy.

Aw man. That Boy Had A Sad And Miserable Life. Why Is The Younger Sister A Spoiled Princess? Let's Blame The Parents It's All Their Fault! ALL THEIR FAULT!!!! 😡

The parents and the sister shouldn't have been invited to the make-up party. The fact that the constant neglect that the poor guy had to endure for 8 YEARS while the sister was treated like the golden child is just heartbreaking.

Listening to this made me realize how awesome my parents really are.

My parents are actually very strict, and stories like these show me why and why it’s a good thing. I am very proud of my parents for raising me the proper way and not treating me like the spoiled child. I also have a baby brother.

The fac that the family switched up so fast, and even somehow got them to say the good things, is crazy

Favoritism is annoying. How can you care more about one child and leave the others? Atleast treat both awful or both as an angel.

I literally had a silent tantrum over how bad the parents where treating him

Love your children equally. I think this story went from misery to breakout. The son was suffering from vulnerability and he somehow found the courage to speak out.

This kind of made me tear up just because of how unjust it was, I can almost feel the negligence through the screen

I would pay big money to see a movie based off of this, and give every single cent to this poor boy for having his life stolen away. He deserves every royalty.

ok but props to the grandparents for giving a pretty sincere apology, letting op sit in their minivan to calm them down, and the grandfather going so far as to repair a whole damn car for his birthday.

What really sucks about the situation is that at 18 You probably only have memories that go back only to about seven years old so for him it felt like he was being shunned his whole life.

No. Birthday child always blows the candles out first, then they get re-lit for other kids.

This type of stuff is literally unforgivable. In my opinion, favouritism is one of the worst kinds of child neglect and mental abuse. The first story is the perfect example of that. Those parents are pure 100% evil. Giving their son’s entire birthday to his sister for a disgusting 8 years and literally telling him to just accept it and watch as his life was turned into his sister’s parade. This guy deserves every drop of success and happiness he can have in his life. And those parents got what they should have gotten years ago. They just pushed their own son into depression for a good portion of his life and put their lives into their mission of spoiling their daughter. If this isn’t bad parenting, I don’t know what is. What were they even thinking? The sister isn’t in the right either. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I understand that she was raised like that, but that doesn’t mean that she’s any less in the wrong than she is. The family could have at least tried to explain why they decided to have a party for the OP, because he was forced to go through 8 years of having no birthdays at all, while she got 2 a year. Even worse, she literally goes as far as destroying her brother’s new car because she couldn’t have one when she’s 10 YEARS OLD! Again, the parents should’ve told her she’s too young to have her own car, but nope. And if she can’t mentally comprehend it, then why send her to a boarding school instead of getting her some type of mental help? At least she got punished with that boarding school until she’s 18, but I honestly don’t know if she’ll learn from this (by the looks of the way she’s acting now, there’s a very high chance that she’s too far gone and it won’t work). But I *DO* know that if she doesn’t, when she’s an adult, she’s going to turn into a *MEGA KAREN!* And that makes the parents *EVEN MORE* evil. Because if that does happen, then it’s *ALL THEIR FREAKING FAULT!!!* The extended family, while not completely innocent for not doing this years ago and just watching, at least they’re nowhere near as bad as the parents or the sister, as they did help him when he needed it, so they did at least did the right thing and earned my respect in the end. Now, as for the OP being the jerk, I would have to put a big, fat, chungus, strong, powerful, solid, *NO!* His parents and his sister are the jerks. I hope they get worse karma in the future. But the OP deserves *ALL* those lost birthdays back, and I hope he never has to deal with his family again. He did the right thing. I hope he has a perfect adult life as a reward for going through all that pain and suffering!

On their son's 18th birthday, they put 10 candles on a cake and had the 10 year old sister blow out the candles. Wow. At no point did they think "There should be 18 candles on this cake and we should have out 18 year old son blow out the candles."

I honestly know what that kid was going through for his birthdays

I had similar issues with my brother. I’m second born and the only girl in the family. My brother is autistic and by god it made my life hard after we were put into foster care. I was forced to go to so many movies I had no interest in, I never wanted to go out because if we went out for lunch or dinner my brother would scoff down his food as fast as possible and then demand to leave, regardless of whether I had finished eating or not, as well as me feeling so embarrassed at being seen with him because he would yell and scream if he didn’t get his way. He would steal my things, destroyed my dvds and my room more than once and I was still expected to allow him to come in whenever he wanted to watch tv. And any time he wanted to watch tv I had to turn off what I’d been watching. He didn’t take over my birthday but he always managed to upset me until I got to the point where I had no interest in having a birthday. It wasn’t until my 21st when my partner insisted I let her throw a party that I enjoyed it again. He was never told off but I was always at fault for everything. Once I was upset on HIS birthday and I got yelled and screamed at for ‘ruining’ his birthday because I couldn’t bring myself to smile after the awful day I had had. Nothing was ever about me. So I fully relate to this. Unfortunately I didn’t do anything about it and still haven’t to this day. I wish I had. Maybe things would have been different. Edit: There is honestly so much more but it would be too much for a UKposts comment. We have a good relationship now though but the wounds have never healed.

I literally can't believe how he managed to not physically hurt either his parents or his bratty sister. So props for that anger management, I couldn't have done it

As a little sister, he is not the jerk, she gets to blow out the candles on HIS BIRTHDAY that's terrible parenting, she gets to pick where they go, what they do, AND BARGES INTO HIS ROOM?!? That's next level favoritism

I am so sorry your parents did it to you. I am also sorry because your story made me feel better about my parents. For me, the "she doesn't understand it's your BD, so if we don't give her a gift too, she'd cry" only lasted a few years.

For the 1st story my parents did the exact same thing for my brother by giving him a present on our birthdays and i have 7 siblings and he expects to be able to blow the candles or get a present but they rarely do that now ever sense my grandpa got after them for it but they still spoil him by giving him what he wants

The family should have gone to some sort of counseling after the birth of the sister because from what was described here, there was absolutely some sort of PTSD that caused them to hyperfocus on her instead of their son. If they had done that, they may have avoided this entire situation but alas they didn't and as a result they let their son suffer emotionally and mentally for eight years until it was far too late to reasonably expect any sort of meaningful relationship in his adult life. Now they may have a son that will eventually go completely no contact whatsoever and a daughter that is so spoiled that it may already be too late to completely correct her behavior. Sad, but as the OP said: They brought it upon themselves.

I've got big sympathy for the person from that first story. I had a similar situation, but with a step-father who didn't much care for me in favor of his own two kids. I never even got birth-day parties and the few times something was done to celebrate my own life it usually devolved into something for his own two kids or just himself. The sad ending of my own story is that first, I was kicked out of the house at 17 because 'you've graduated high-school, it's time for you to move out'. Somewhat ironically I managed to do well for myself only to have my mother and siblings move in with me after said step-father died from a heard attack caused by years of hard drug and alcohol abuse. I ended up raising his two young kids since out mother was too much of a train wreck to look after then after that. This was in the early '00s. They've adults now and doing fine. They always tell me that I did more for them than either of our parents ever did.

This story makes me go crazy!!! I would have never put up with that for the first year! I can’t imagine what that was like!

Man when im sad or bored i just watch ur videos. And they are the best❤❤

So when the parents said, "Your a boy, and boys don't have to worry about it". I lost it, WHAT ABOUT THE DAD?! WHAT ABOUT THOSE BOYS IN AFRICA STARVING?! Thank you for your time.

I had a story very similar to this. My youngest cousin was the spoiled princess in the family that everyone had issues with because her parents just gave her whatever she wanted to keep her quiet. The middle cousin, let's call him Bill, always got in trouble because of her. Anytime she screamed, his mother would badger him about why she's screaming rather than being a parent and disciplining her. One day, I come over to hang out with Bill and play on the PS3. The youngest sees this and told me to give her the controller and I told her it's not hers and she didn't ask. She pouted and walked away, then I hear a loud screech downstairs and her crying. My aunt comes upstairs and asked me, "Did you hit her?" to which I said no. She goes downstairs and gives her a solid smack on her hand for lying. Bill looks at me and says, "She never believes me when I say it". Which was true. On a handful of occasions, Bill would be accused of something by his sister and immediately he would be punished by his mother even when he didn't do anything wrong. My aunt was the type of person to just believe whatever and ask questions later. She didn't take much part in parenting because she was busy smoking or taking naps. Being a parent was a part time job for her, while Bil and his older sister were the ones who managed the youngest 90% of the time and if she acted up they all get in trouble. One day, B just blows up because the youngest was getting a brand new iPhone randomly while he was stuck with a flip phone with only 120 minutes a month. He yells at them that he's always responsible for her even though she's 9 and when he was 9 he got whipped with a wire hanger for accidentally spilling shampoo on the bathroom floor and that he's had the exact same clothes since middle school and he gets bullied for it that other kids in class give him random clothes as a donation. He broke down and that's when I saw the evil parts of that family. I told him he could always stay with me and my mom, but he decided he'll hold out for a year cause when he's 18 he's leaving. I had money I was saving for a car but I knew I'd make his day if I had gotten him an actual gift. I decided on two gifts, a new iPhone and $250 to help him get new clothes ( I didn't know how much he needed but I just wanted to give enough to afford a new wardrobe at least). Some parents really aren't fit to be parents. What's that sayin? Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.

“My sister was upset cause i ruined her moment” ….. i think we all know its not his sister’s moment 💀

My house is full of only me, my older sister, and my mom. And even though my sister is older then me, my mom always plays favorites towards her.

Im just gonna say, those grandparents in the first story are amazing. They realized their mistake and fixed it

Ugh, Story 1 is my life. Both of us were tough pregnancies, but my sister was the precious one. She was perfect in every way according to my parents. I was “encouraged” to spoil my sister or I was threatened with getting kicked out of my own house. Well, finally on my birthday I’d had enough and I exploded - and cue eviction. My sister makes fun of me and other autistic people for kicks. I’d had enough of the abuse. I’d had enough of the bullying that brat did to me since her toddler years - pulling my hair, biting me, beating me up, calling me names every day, rolling her eyes at me breathing, and lying about me behind my back. The worst part is, none of my family believes me because of how outlandish this child is. Now she’s of driving age and I’m avoiding her like the plague. I’d rather never see any of them again after they kicked me out on my birthday.

This story was SPICY!!! Keep posting! I love Am I the Jerk!

This is what I think should happen now: The sister should end up in Juvenile jail with some state-renowned therapist instead of boarding school when the parents are just making her feel worse about them by basically disowning her until 18. The whole family should have to compensate all of the money and recources they spent on the sister down to the last penny. I'm fairly sure that will get OP a brand new car, maybe even a recent model judging by the way the parents babied the sister. If there is more than enough money for a decent car, then they should have to use the extra money to buy at least 4 phones for the 8 years he probably used the same one, and if there's still money left, the presents should have to buy OP as many gifts as the can with the remaining money, and if he doesn't like them, he should cut all contact. Because like, it's been 18 damn years since he was born, they should know what he likes by now, and if they don't, they are worse parents then they already are. And that's saying something considering their attitudes. They probably know the names of all of the toys their daughter has ever had or wanted in the history of her life. They should be able to know their son's interests too. The presents and sister also all deserve to be disected alive, ground to a pulp, and put be together wrong every time in an infinite loop.

Geez, that first story was crazy! I am a middle child in a family of 7 people and I thank God none of us were shown favoritism like this. Hope the guy has a good life away from his parents and sister.

16:20 His spoiled sister should be sent to jail for vandalizing his car because I think it’s ILLEGAL 😤

I want to see a part two where the sister is a grown adult

Grandparents in stories like these are awesome

Sending that 10-year-old to boarding school was going easy on her. They should have sent her to freaking military school

Obviously, this wasn’t enough to make up for his ENTIRE LIFE being ruined, but the other family yelling at the parents, and the parents grounding and sending the hell spawn sister to boarding school felt so good to hear

So the parents completely mess up both of their children’s lives (in very different ways) then send the youngest off to boarding school so they don’t have to deal with her

In the part where she broke the van because the birthday wasn't about her, all I had in my head was "why don't they just put that brat up for adoption"

Those parents just raised the ultimate Karen. People become who they are in their formative years (age 0 to 8). It is too late for the sister to change who she is now, and because of that, she's grown up thinking that the world will give her anything and everything she wants on a silver platter (which is what her parents did for her), only for the world to cut her back down as the world is under no obligation to cater to her every whim. The sister (unlike her brother) has no sense of self-sufficiency and likely would not be able to do anything for herself, hence she will be completely reliant on people to take care of her.

I like how the first story where he is explaining how his parents and sister are terrible makes you wanna say: I hate humanity, but then the rest where he explains how they all stood up and DESTROYED the parents makes you wanna say: I love humanity

I really love your storys and I specifically love this story

Man, god bless this kid. Hope he feels better

The parents in the first story are so toxic, i have never seen a level of favouritism this high in my life.

My wife's nephew went through something similar with his mother and stepfather. He was raised the first years by my late MIL, and when she passed he went to live with his mother and stepdad. To say he was miserable is an understatement, his stepdad took clear favoritism for his own kids, which you can argue is somewhat understandable since he never really agreed to take him in, but the kid's mother never stood up for him either. The stepdad's own kids would be as loud and playful as they wanted, but when my wife's nephew even so much as laughed too loudly or enjoyed himself the stepdad would immediately scold him and punish him, taking away any and all toys from him and just forcing him to sit quietly for hours upon hours until bed time, sometimes outright denying him dinner and breakfast the next day. Many times the stepdad would even lock him out of the house because he got annoyed with him, often in rainy weather. Disclaimer that my wife's nephew was by now 8 years old, his stepdad would berate and mentally abuse him by calling him retarded. Because of this the kid's school grades tanked hard, and this only emboldened the stepdad telling him: "See? It's because you are retarded". Meanwhile his mother, my SIL, would stand by and do nothing. One day, the next day after the kid's 9th birthday, my wife and I got a call from the police at 3a.m. They told us the kid had been removed from the home and the boy had asked for us specifically to be called. We immediately got dressed and went over, and they explained to us that the kid had been locked outside once again, this time during a pretty bad thunder storm, from 2 p.m. up until 9 p.m., which is when one of the neighbors saw him just sitting outside getting soaked and took him in, fed him and called the police, which is when they took him. They explained to us that the kid would not be returned to his mother, and if no other relative would take him then he would be put in the foster system. My wife and I didn't even think it twice. We signed all the paperwork and when they took us to see him the boy was asleep. I gently woke him up and as soon as he saw me he drowzeely jumped into my arms. The case worker was almost in tears when she saw this. He was dry but his clothes still felt damp. We finished up and I carried him in my arms back to the car with my wife in tow. His mother, my SIL, suddenly appeared, and she looked distraught. She wanted to approach me with the boy still in my arms and I, with fury raging in my eyes, looked at her and told her bluntly: "Shut.the.f**k.up. Don't say a f**cking word". She did as was told, sobbing, and a couple of police officers simply held her back while I put the boy on the back seat and drove back home. He has been with us ever since, and I am proud to say that this boy is my son, a kind hearted, if somewhat insecure, 15 year old boy now. He is an honor student with top grades in his class, graduated middle schools with honors and aspires to be a biologist, and also has passions for culinary arts. I honestly couldn't help myself while writing this to you all, to put the phone down for a sec and give him a big strong hug. I love him so much, he is my boy, my son, and that will always remain true to me. Just to clarify for anyone that read this far and may have questions: -This did NOT happen in the U.S. -My son called us specifically because sometimes he would visit us, my wife and I, and it was the only place he wasn't treated like garbage. - My wife and I were aware of some of the bad things that had been going on, but we didn't know the true extent of it. We often had stern talks with my SIL about the boy's situation, to the point I sometimes outright yelled at her for her neglectful attitudes. These where always met with assurances that things would change, but I always had my doubts. I wasn't wrong. - Because of my son's frequent visits, we had arranged the spare room to be his while he stayed with us. When it all went down, he already had a place he would call his own, so he had almost no trouble adjusting. Any more questions feel free to ask. *EDIT because I accidentally hit send before finishing typing this up.

I actually had to hold back tears hearing this and I was so sad when he talked about the part of the outside of the offbrand Chuck E. Cheese and the son was finally making his voice heard

That first one reminds me of my childhood, my older Brother was spoiled to the core. If he complained I did anything wrong I got punished. There were times I didn’t get any food for days because he would consistently make up lies. He hated me, so he did his best to make my life hell. I was nothing more than a mistake to that side of my family.

Those parents literally set the girl up for failure …… they spoiled the girl so much it’s literally all she knows, and then sent her to a boarding school where she ain’t gonna learn a lesson but she is gonna learn how to get away with stuff and when she grows up she still won’t understand how she isn’t always the centre of attention and become on of those crazy entitled Karen’s.

The first story is a perfect example of the phrase “Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.”.

6:17 chuck himself must have been shocked too

Those parents are the worst and should be put in prison for child abuse😡😡

With the amount of stories i've ever read and heard. This is by FAR made me the most angriest, happiness, and absolute being crazy on how such a family exist and ALSO learning this is a common thing for a family??? Looking at it now, i am THANKFUL that both my parents and grandparents was always strict and rewarding.

That first story is so infuriatingly unjust, my blood practically turned to liquid rage. If I had my birthday given to my brothers, good reason or no, I could guarantee you my life expectancy would be equivalent to that of a fish out of water. Anyone who forces that onto someone has no conscience or soul and deserves to burn in the deepest depths of hell or whatever equivalent of that may or may not exist.

about the gifts on other kids birthdays : usually my family USED to do that (before my family fell apart), and if it was your birthday you get 2-5 gifts and everyone else got 0-1.

One thing for the first story ,, no one can escape justice "

This same scenario happened to my cousin. When his sister was born, his parents just...forgot him. The younger sister was their entire life, and he was barely an afterthought. When he turned 18, he moved halfway across the country and didn't so much as talk to them for nearly 15 years. But he got his revenge in a way, since he is now wealthy and highly successful, and little sister turned into a drug addict and had 4 kids by 4 different fathers.

I almost cried at this story how can someone be this spoiled and entitled

This actually got me mad tight. Wow. That was just... unbelieveably sad and heartbreaking. I was so mad at the parents and his sister. Wow. Again, that was messed up. It just makes you think how lucky you are to have a good parent. And if you don't, its always good to reach out. There are help lines out there. I hope we all have a good life, and i hope you never have to experience that.

There is a difference between loving your child and outright spoiling them

I hope OP gets therapy and the family keeps icing out the parents. This made me so sad and angry and as the 'other child' of my family, this hit me way too close to home. I hope the sister shapes up and learns her lesson and I hope the parents learn theirs too. Tho I have no doubt that none of them will change for the better.

The “birthday girl” should’ve been sent to jail. She vandalized a car by breaking the windows and that would let people into his car to rob it of all the birthday boy’s possessions. And taking away a sibling’s birthday for 8 years!?!? That’s just absolutely ridiculous.

Bro my eyes are already turning red cuz this is literally how im treated at home

This vidoe made me actaully happy bc the amount of revenge and justtice feels so good

OP'S rest of the family are the true MVPs, I heard of parents showing favouritism before, but not THIS extreme. And goddamn, OP'S sister was out of control, literally just turned into a rabid monster.

They did irreparable damage to 2 of their kids and it will probably stay with them their entire lives. I wouldnt blame the sister as much since that was literally how she was raised. She was not taught any better. I can imagine the exact feeling the OP had at the party. I have more than 1 major event ruined by my parents. Last year i graduated college with a 5 year degree. Had a job lined up making 70k out state. This was last day all of my friends would be together for a while. I asked my mom not to leave early. As she did with my HS graduation. My mom, uncle, grandma, and step dad were there, my dad passed away in 2019. I knew if she left, then everyone would. As the ceremony ends i see a text to call her and i already knew, she had left and was waiting at the resturant. So not only did i have no one to enjoy the moment and get pictures with, i had to rush out and couldnt track down my friends. Or they would all be waiting an hour for me to get their. At the restuarant i ended up quietly blowing up on her. It was the one thing i asked of her and after we just sat in silence. She ended up running to the bathroom in tear while my grandmother apologized. She didnt know i asked her to stay and I never asked her as well since i knew they would ride together. I also didnt expect to have to beg my parents to wait until my College graduation was over before leaving. I didnt speak to my Mom the entire meal and it was just awkward. There was a small graduation party the next weekend that the only reason i showed up as was i invited several friends and didnt want to explain why it was canceled. I just accepted the fact the most important moment of my life so far was over. It was ruined and that chapter was closed. There are no do overs and no going back. I left that campus with not a single picture capturing the moment. Im just glad i had a house party to go to that night so i was able to get shit faced with free booze to forget about it.

I keep listening to this channel I forgot when I actually started watching but all I have to say is that this channel is addictive

Am I the jerk is a gift to the world

Story 1: Parents spoiled one child and neglected the other. One would think that with two chances to parent that they could've gotten it mostly right at least once, but that would require some basic competence that they clearly lacked.

This hits so close to home. I was born on the exact same day as my father. Every year we had his favorite flavor of cake. Chocolate with coconut frosting. I hate coconut because the fruit flesh feels like hair in my mouth and it was the last thing I wanted to eat on my birthday but every year it was the same. I also preferred strawberry or lemon to chocolate but my dad always told everyone chocolate was my favorite because I had eaten some I was not supposed to when I was 1 year old. No one ever listened to me that I actually disliked it. He never wanted any birthday presents because he considered gifts cheap and pointless, but he would not let me open any presents at the table because of this. pretty soon everyone in my family just stopped getting me any presents because they never saw me open them anyway. There were several other things like us both having to share the birthday song, him cutting the cake and getting the first slice. On my 14th birthday I finally blew up at him about it and he promised he would celebrate his birthday separately he made some excuse that he was actually born late and picked the day he was originally due as his new birthday. This meant we now had 2 birthdays in one month and my father's came first. By the time it got to mine everyone was already sick of cake and celebrations. Furthermore, while he made the earlier birthday all about him, he still imposed all the same rules onto my birthday because "after all it was still his too." I got my stupid strawberry lemon cake (I actually baked it myself) but he still got the first piece and everyone sang to him before me. Rather than solving the problem it just got worse. All of you can say that OP and myself are crybaby's for carrying a grudge into adulthood, but let me ask how mature we are supposed to act when the people that raised us are immature and neglectful.

The end of the story on the full video is awesome

The worst thing I have in common with this is how on my birthday my brother got a drone when the best thing I got was a nerf gun. I think he’s the favorite. This year he got a gaming chair for his birthday.

These parents are BEYOND horrible. The fact that op’s sister thinks it’s not okay for op to have something of his own is RIDICULOUS. And it’s all because her parents treated her like a queen for 8 years.

The parents got what they deserved Now they have resentment from both kids now despite them trying to correct their actions OP is still resenting them for the rest of his life because of how miserable he was and I would be miserable too if I was in that position

I hope OP has a fantastic adulthood and finally gets to enjoy life ❤

I KNOW THIS IS SERIOUS BUT I CANT WITH THE QUANDALE DINGLE VOICE 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

Story 1: These are among the worst parents I have ever heard of. I feel absolutely horrible for OP and if it was possible, I would give him a big hug and tell him every would be alright. It wouldn't make up for anything, but it would hopefully be something he'd need to hear. And the sister went beyond being spoiled; she was a total psychopath with absolutely no future I can see that's salvageable.

I am surprised little monster didn't demand some of the money for the job he was working. After all, everything in the universe had to belong to her

Stories like this make me glad to have been adopted.