Lol good for her!

That's an amazing way to shut them.

woah

That the ultimate way to do that XD

Hospital bills for giving birth?

oof

Wow my message got 221 likes, damn

bruh he/she sounds like a guy........

@@KhastudiosContent the only jerks are her family I feel bad can she get a redo button for her family

@Adamidk1227 wut?

These people you just need to ignore and block them.

Just straight projection from the sister

I think she got jealous of the op and she forced her own husband to have babies after long talk maybe and if i a person like that in my life i would do one thing block out of my life or my babies

Nice way of putting it. 👌

@@Iliketrains444 Nope, that only applies to the sister n law.

"Narcissism" only applies to the sister n' law. The brother is a straight up simp, while it's quite obvious that the rest of the family either disapproves of the o.p.'s "situation", or 100,000% more likely only gives a shit about the boy in their family that is married to the sister n' law so that they carry on the family name for another generation. Even if the o.p. kept the same last name that's not how it works in some more traditional families where it's the sons that carry on the "legacy". What a shitty legacy that is though... (Not the practice I mentioned, I mean the family in general is just shitty; very).

@@0001captainawesome ik. Sad.

This is how my older sister operates. I hate it. I have considered leaving everyone in my family, and I've done it for a year and a half but my abusive ex pushed me to be with my hurtful family (so he can fuel my family's behavior and gaslight me too). But, I see that my older sister influences everyone around her. I noticed this after she moved to another country and comes back every once in awhile. It's weird and I have seriously considered not allowing her near my future family when she is this way.

It’s like, what are you at this point, a child!?!

@raven I believe you mean singular, male kid

Actually, it sounds like the SIL was calling DIBS on multiple names so that whatever the OP named the girl, the SIL could pull this. She was looking for this drama

I actually believe in some ways DIBS can be called. I married into instant family. My husband is divorced with two boys. As much as I adore those boys, I wanted children of my own, and my husband is from a large family and wanted more. So we talked baby names before I was even pregnant. We had a girl's name picked first; the middle name I had picked before I even knew my husband. But...when I do get pregnant, I find out it was the very name he and his ex-wife had planned for a girl. His ex was a little hurt that this name was discussed. I told her I would change the first name, but asked if it was ok to keep the middle since I had it picked before I knew my husband, and it turned out to be special to both our sides. She had no problem with that.

@@paulatreat2496 thats a beautiful story. ;-;

"The Banishment of the Family Bitch" has to be one of the funniest things i've ever heard.

If it makes you feel better - both names are terrible.

Oh please tell me you played ‘Ding Dong the Witch is Dead’ at the party.

Banishment ,😂

why is it my oc's gf is the same name as your aunt.

You're right, however, I think those people will think they have all the right in the world to do whatever they want.

@@binhanh296 Thats the sad part, I just hope at some point the family realizes what they done. Talk about a Karen sister in law lol.

Karen sil should’ve miscarried

Sad part is when she gets older It might decide to reach out to her mother's side the family I won't be surprised if they start insulting her mother and then of course even saying and calling her by the nickname sister-in-law and try the force to try to assert dominance and the girl decides f*** it now I know why mom wanted no contact with these people and leave out before telling them her actual name and not the name they want a force upon her because they have control issues Like the cowards they are

@@justinwan3173honestly... yeah

It really is a powerless feeling.

It's moments like those that you need to do some self-reflection and ask yourself if everyone who called you a jerk is worth being around.

@@solidsnake5644 sometimes you have no choice, like when the people in question are your classmates and you are forced to be with them everyday

In the end tho I usually see those who take the side of the wrong doer come back after a long time and apologize or lose money do to said wrong doer🤷‍♂️

He's reading the reddit story's right? And he has no way of telling if they are real?

lol

Bruh😂

Not only that but this person is so crazy that she may want to change this boy into a girl since she feels like she can control everything..so yes the child is the one who will have to pay for it for sure

The mother actually left her husband and the baby and OP parents are trying to have op raise him

@@jada531 How do you know that?

@@liaoanais3925 I remember this story from am I the asshole on Reddit

yeah then they tried to force the nephew onto op Jesus their family sucks

Most of these stories are fake. There is a whole hidden industry on Reddit with writing fake stories

They do

@@TheBigExclusive I know

I know

At least with my family I was very lucky

Also "You're making me try to miscarry!" That's not how it works Karen it has to be a stroke of bad luck for it to happen like stillbirth! (When the baby dies after it was born)

12:50 The bear with 'gilly' on it was too far, though. She's tryna make that child *THINK* it's name is really 'Gilly'

But that’s not the right time frame? Also I’m pretty sure that’s a bot 😅

why is that a felony though, its not illegal to crash parties.

@@1mol831 No bu in this case it should thats why they called it a felony, just to help you understand

@@crypticaledits what weird laws you have

@@1mol831 the felonies are going on to the op’s account. and two miner ones that are at most misdemeanors but still felonies

@@1mol831 L + Ratio

That, or too much.

@@augustwinterman6952 agreed

@@augustwinterman6952 agreed or they are afraid of her xD

Or, none of these people exist and this story isn't factual whatsoever...

@@augustwinterman6952 true

That would be good

I was just thinking that

yup

Whats wrong with being a single mom its ok to be one she dont need no man

No they aren’t insulting the person in the story, they are saying that the family in the story were yelling at her for being a single mom, as it seems.

@@nisha_jhabboe_njx_189 the jails are full with people who has single moms, so yeah, they do.... society does

Thanks

bro, i’d just name my baby my original name anyway, fuck they gonna do about it?

I would keep the same name and cut ties with that idiot.

sometimes violence isn't just acceptable but deserved

ikr

You better believe that teeth and blood would fly in the air

@@mohammaddoesit true but that certainly does not sound like a great environment to raise a child

Yes, you are correct. The SIL had the baby and then left the husband and the baby. OP family isn’t helping the brother but thinks OP should take care of him since she’s on maternity leave. OP said that she would take in her nephew if she got full custody because she planning on moving to the other side of the country away from her family.

@@jada531 what story is this?

yup

I was think in the same way

Haha yup! Go full on Scortched Earth, leave nothing behind.

A person of reason appears out of the blue, thanks for being kind to humanity

@@MrSmile-ph4hr wait, are you talking about me? Because I'm just using common sense unlike the SIL and most of OP's family.

@@jamiegladwell8770 yes I am talking to you, common sense is really rare anymore and I congratulate anybody who uses it

@@MrSmile-ph4hr gotcha. And thanks

@@MrSmile-ph4hr ah more smort pepes

Just let them talk their mouths sore. The family you create yourself is more important than the one you are born into, these people are horrible and she should protect her daughter from their influence. Obviously, they didn't value her in the first place, why should she give a damn about their opinion?

@@sirgroq8258 Right you are.

honestly no sane person would ever side with this family. Theya re absuive, selfish and crueland that's ALL they'll be known for.

I agree that nicknaming a child or baby something cute out of endearment is nothing bad, but even if it's not done out of malice like OP's SIL, if the parents of the child ask you not to call them that it should be respected and it's in no way a crazy reaction for a parent to ask that you call their kids by their proper given and nick-names, at least until the child is old enough to decide if they like or dislike a nickname for themselves. That's my opinion at least

There's no amount of context taken out that would make it seem like OP is crazy to me. But that's because I've dealt with gaslighting, manipulation, and controlling narcissists my entire life. They are so smart that they'll work the field before you even are aware of it. So, no. OP isn't ever crazy, and if they call her that it's purely because they like to feel superior over someone they see as inferior and like that control they have of her not being able to defend herself.

How did they have a child by herself?

Fr, the family is sooo narcissistic

I think they all wanted a boy to “pass down the family name” they even said that in some families even cultures having a girl is kinda shamed apon as they want someone to pass down the family line which most girls take their husbands names. It’s completely shocking tbh

she should have firmly scolded her sister the first time but she didn't do that so the sil thought she could do whatever she wanted and her sil got to do it over and over again. it's kind of strange that her brother and sil didn't want to have children but then suddenly decide to have one just because the sister of the brother was having one. I hope this is not a true story but if it is it's such a sad story.

Why does she have a male voice

@@alcoholmarker he is a male He makes story like these and post in yt

@@alcoholmarker for the same reason is a 50y.o. male in a video and a 29y.o. female in another

@@alcoholmarker bruh that's not her. Its just the guy covering the story

Hi beluga

EXACTLY!!!! 👿

People who've been manipulated or brainwashed.

That is exactly what I was thinking! Along with that, the baby's name is after the mother's actual great grandmother. To the SIL, that name has no special meaning to her personally, whatsoever. It's psychotic to call "dibs" on names, especially since the SIL was having a boy. She was probably going through an entire baby name book and she was calling "dibs" on every single one, just out of spite.

Welcome to my world...

What's with all these headers of screaming angry women?talk about women hatin

Oh stitch her mout shut or make some duct tape. Just needless visuals.

She probably would have cried and said something on the lines of how OP is making her have a miscarriage and made the family more distant with OP. I would have def slapped her though it's less powerful but still effective.

Me too 100%

That and she did it by hacking into one of her personal accounts without permission (unless the brother knew and didn’t tell her she did this, which would also make him responsible) to gain data she likely knew she was keeping private. That is literally a crime.

Hell yeah! Square in the gut!

Exactly OP could have said that

You know, that actually makes sense.

wait...so she tried to steal your wife and the ds lite for saying you do not need them? XD "ah yes, you already have your baby. Your wife is no longer important for you"

She wanted our 2 nintendo 2ds hers & mine. We used to play Bust a Move & Mario Kart

@@blue4639 ah, ok that makes more sense

@@blue4639 Honestly , the moment someone do that its the moment who lose the right to anything and you can enforce "equality", by kicking her ass out to the street.

God now i‘m glad i dont have siblings

Exactly and they talking about you need to forgive them, so they can make it right. Now out of excitement my mom told my aunt I was pregnant before I was ready to tell people. But I can’t forgive because it is only one person. Told auntie don’t tell nobody and that was it. This is a whole Nother story. SIL really let everybody praise her and congratulate her and said absolutely nothing. Op had every right to get mad and leave. and it was like the next day that sil finally told everybody she wasn’t pregnant. Who the fuck does that?

Yeah, and she abandoned the kid and hubby cause she wasn't the center of attention anymore and didn't want kids. Think the family ended up in a cult...

Looks like my business in dealing arms will come in handy..

You underestimate my power!

my anger issue sure come in handy for this , I call DIBS on the Sister In law

@@raritycrystal2672 fine, guess I’ll take the mom

These stories run me so hot and it’s not good for my anxiety. 😡🤬

but why did they try to abort your soon-to-be child?

@@jessetaube because I was 17 and the southern Baptist church they attended at the time offered to pay for it. So my mom told me we were going to the doctor for a “checkup” and next thing I know I’m sitting in an abortion clinic with the procedure already paid for.. thankfully, when you go to a clinic like that they don’t just sit you in a room and go ahead with any procedure. They had to bring me into a back room to speak to a counselor alone. My mom was pissed that she wasn’t allowed to come back with me but they told her it’s not her body going through anything, it was mine, so they needed to speak to me to make sure this is my choice. Which of course it wasn’t. And they knew that. I explained that I didn’t want to go through with this but my mom wouldn’t let me leave without “proof”. The woman asked if I was safe to drive home with her. And I told her yes because my parents had already kicked me out and I was living on my own. So all I needed to do was pretend for the car ride home. She brought a nurse in to explain the situation and that’s when we made a plan. They told my mom they were giving me the pills and you take one at the clinic and one the next day. They sent me home with a circular Tylenol in this envelope thing so they didn’t break any laws giving me a prescription bottle with medication that didn’t match the label. Then they refunded me half of the money that the church paid (they couldn’t refund all but I wasn’t expecting a penny so I wasn’t mad at all), and they sent me home with a packet that apparently all patients get when they take the pills. So we literally pretended to go through with the procedure just so my mom would take me back home and that’s when I completely cut her and my dad off. I didn’t speak to them again till that same baby was 2 1/2. The best part was that the nurses and counselor at the clinic got me in contact with a ton of resources to get everything I needed for my baby. One of the nurses actually gave me a ton of her baby stuff she no longer needed like a stroller, clothes, bottles, blankets, and she personally bought me two huge packs of diapers…when I tried to pay her for at least some of it she absolutely not. The most hypocritical part about this entire situation was that the church who paid for the procedure would preach against abortion almost weekly and at the very least monthly. They were one of the churches that stand outside clinics and “protest” by screaming at patients walking in and trying to get license plate numbers so they can “expose these demons” yet when it “affected their optics” (their words not mine) abortion is suddenly a solution 🙄 and believe it or not that doesn’t even come close to what this church specifically did to me as a child. They’re the reason I no longer go to church and choose to work on my relationship with God privately… The only reason I spoke to my parents years later was due to the fact that I became pregnant with my second child. I didn’t announced my pregnancy until we had 8 weeks left because the pregnancy was filled with scares. I almost miscarried at 4 months, labor started at 6 months, and my body started treating the pregnancy (according to the doctor) Kirk a virus and he was actually losing weight no matter much I ate, rested, or stayed hydrated. He came a little over a month early and the day before I had him I had an ultrasound where the tech and the doctor both explained that they needed to schedule me to be induced since baby wasn’t doing good…but the stress from inducing him when there’s already a lot of stress on him could kill him. So dad and I needed to prepare just in case. My parents ended up calling me that same day and I just broke down and explained what was going on. I swear to you that my dad said “well, it’s not like you need another child anyways. This is for the best.” No “I’m sorry”, no “how can we help”, not even a “we’ll pray for you”. They were literally relieved when I told them my son is at risk of dying. My children didn’t affect them in any way seeing as I cut off contact after what happened with my first son and to this day I still kick myself for answering my dads call that day. The fact that my son possibly dying brought them joy made me physically ill. I was supposed to be induced 48 hours from my last ultrasound but thankfully my son decided he was coming on his own. I woke up that night having major contractions and within two hours of me waking up my son was here. But the best news is he didn’t even need the NICU! He came out hungry as hell and spent the first 3 months of his life sleeping and eating lol. He is 8 years old now 💙 Now my parents live on the opposite side of the country and i no longer speak to my dad. I will say he did apologize for everything he said and did to me all throughout my life and he said he’ll never forgive himself for his actions (my dad is manic bipolar so he doesn’t remember a lot of things he said and did). I told him of course I forgive him but I don’t want contact like he wanted. I’ll say merry Christmas and check twice a year tops but I have to keep my distance. It sucks but I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to have a normal relationship with him…there’s too much trauma there. My mom never apologized for anything. She feels like since she wasn’t the one abusing me or belittling me she has nothing to be sorry over…she fails to acknowledge that as a mother she was supposed to protect me and actually be my parent. I don’t “hate” them but I’ll never be able to open up to them or form a bond children are supposed to have with their children. I will say that I genuinely believe my dad has changed though. A few years ago he asked me if I would be ok with him sharing our story publicly and I said yes. He goes to meetings similar to AA as well as advocating for better mental health treatment options.

@@hannahreed2451 Hooooly moly. What a terrible and scarring situation! I am so happy for you and your children, that you managed to get out of that shithole and not only land on your feet, but it sounds like you managed to thrive through all the obstacles!! And I am so so glad that those nurses at the clinic both helped you in your situation, made sure you were safe and even helped you get as good a start to motherhood as possible 💙 what lovely compassion 💙 I wish you and your family all the best💙

@@hannahreed2451 I wish all the best to you and your children. Thanks for sharing your story xxxx

That is possible because she said her nephew is from her sister and she also has a brother and considering the treatment she is getting I wouldent be surprised

Exactly in fact, they deserve a slow death to make them suffer

That is funny😂😂😂

And on a hill

Something similar happened with me when I was expecting my forst child except it was my ex partner, it was so bad that when me, and my husband found out I was pregnant I was excited, but at the same time freaking out cause my ex had ruined an experience that was supposed to be wonderful. He complained about my constant nesting, and my constant need for wanting everything clean. He got mad at me when I had cravings, and instead of saying hey honey we don't have the money right we'd get halfway to the store ask me if I was paying, then yell at me cause I told him I didn't have any money, and he would get mad asking me if I expected for him to pay for everything, sad thing os out of everything that I had for her he bought 1 onside, the rest was what I could get, and what I got for her babysitter then when we broke up had the audacity to say everything at the baby shower should be split in half because it was a gift for us. Then when I tried packing my stuff up he yelled at me the whole time then stole all of the baby stuff I had for her which at this point I was on maternity leave so my parents had to help me rebuy everything for her when I moved back in with them. My whole experience with my first child was ruined by my ex that I feared my husband for a bit while I was pregnant with my second child my husband's first. If he got loud, and not necessarily towards me cause he rarely raises his voice at me or our kids but in general I would cry and ask him to leave me be I had multiple panic attacks when he got loud cause of PTSD from my ex. My husband started trying not to yell, or get loud around me, or our kids he's a gamer so he mostly gets loud with his games. I never nested with my son, because I was scared my husband would get mad, and basically my whole pregnant with my second I was to scared to ask for anything. But my husband's traits are what brought me out he would kiss me, and my belly before he left for work, he would talk to our son while I was still pregnant. If I randomly grabbed his hand and placed it on my belly to feel our so kick his face would light up and he'd start telling me how much he loved me, and that he couldn't wait to meet our son. And all his traits were the complete opposite of my ex but it saddened me that because my first pregnancy was ruined, I was to scared to enjoy my second one.

@@hummingbird6430 I'm so sorry that happened to you what an ass. I'm glad you have someone who loves you by your side now

@@hummingbird6430 such a horrible thing you went through :( the crazy cravings, the baby's kicks, getting to buy baby clothes all make the experience even more memorable and I'm sorry he ruined that for not just one but both pregnancies. Very glad you're in a better place with someone who loves you. Sometimes you have to relearn that not all people are bad

Exactly!! That happens to me.

Not only wrong, it's a crime

Promotion?

@@lochkecraftforge5231 I assume they meant permission

@@Jet-ij9zc yeah, I was just being a dick

Literally me as well, one appeared in my recommendation page and I've been watching like 3-4 videos lol

Same 27 video watching

Bro I watching like 10+ vids lol

Would anyone like to recommend some vids I’ve watched some but not all, like these 5 videos are very good or something.