How to Resolve Conflict in Relationships: A Conversation with Esther Perel

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Conflict is not reserved for politics or public policy - it also happens within relationships. Couples have arguments over what’s happening behind closed doors, their beliefs, and how to navigate the future together. However, it’s through resolving conflict that both people in the relationship feel heard and seen. Psychotherapist, relationship expert, and New York Times-bestselling author Esther Perel has spent her career offering insight and guidance to individuals and couples. She says conflict, when navigated skillfully, can lead to growth, resilience, and a stronger bond. In this conversation with host and moderator-in-chief John Donvan, Perel discusses her new “Turning Conflict into Connection” online course, shares her experience working with different relationship types, strategies anyone can use for transforming disagreement into a constructive dialogue, and the importance of validating both sides’ perspectives in any situation.
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@OpentoDebate 2 місяці тому

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@dk1828 Місяць тому

I absolutely love Esther. Whereas everyone else seems to regurgitate information that’s already been spoken about so many times, she consistently provides new and relevant information, yet also staying true to her original message. And she’s so articulate!

@genderl Місяць тому

Yes I agree ☺️

@MrgoldenRose Місяць тому

Well said ❤

@robertholland8283 2 місяці тому

#AndIQuote A relationship is not two people, it's the space between two people.

@lexiaotiqin 2 місяці тому

Amazing life, the child of two holocaust survivors, somehow seems like a cosmic manifestation that Esther teaches the world about love and connection. Huge gratitude for your work, both of you! xx

@alinapisica8677 2 місяці тому

Finally some really good questions! And the way the host ask the questions, with such curiosity.. first time when I’m on this channel but will def come back. Thank you! 🙏

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@whiskych1030 Місяць тому

Esther Perel's material is so good

@chilloften Місяць тому

So enjoy taking in what Ester discusses. I love it to, psychology.

@robertholland8283 2 місяці тому

#AndIQuote You don't ask people what they fighting about. You ask them what they fighting for?

@robertholland8283 2 місяці тому

Very enjoyable conversation and it's top 5 from Open to Debate!

@OpentoDebate Місяць тому

Great to hear, thank you for listening!

@armanshaghi 2 місяці тому

Thank you for sharing this interesting conversation, themes we've all encountered, great to reflect on them and gain new perspectives/approaches ❤️🙏

@OpentoDebate 2 місяці тому

Thank you for watching

@alimabeh 23 дні тому

Brilhante Esther!

@robertholland8283 2 місяці тому

Constructive conflict refers to the type of conflict that has the purpose of embracing different ideas and worldviews. Teams frequently have strong disagreements when working on a project or something relevant to the company.

@michelleveloni1329 2 місяці тому

Awesome video. This is very good!

@evelynramos445 Місяць тому

Try thinking of

@tarutran6391 15 днів тому

where can we find the clip with nincompoop that was shown

@kristine6996 Місяць тому

What about being ghosted? And not wanting to resolve the tension that results from that?

@robertholland8283 2 місяці тому

re·pair fix or mend (a thing suffering from damage or a fault)

@robertholland8283 2 місяці тому

#AndIQuote Conflict avoidance.

@wudubora Місяць тому

If you are two people who are okay with the other having sex with others, then they are in a partnership, they are in a friendship.

@arianaalvarez6579 25 днів тому

It's like me I cant believe I'm with a guy that wants to date other women. How does that affect me ? how it affects me if I'm mad or sad because I know he texts other women and my kids feel and see my hurt which worries them. That's not nice.

@lori6156 10 днів тому

Let go and don’t settle for that behavior. The relationship will only continue to fall apart.

@marilynoverton8142 Місяць тому

Great content, but oh, my gosh, so many commercials. Very distracting and disjointed to the conversation.

@robertholland8283 2 місяці тому

Non-monogamy means having more than one partner, or having one partner but having sex with other people as well.

@fatoufrancescambow5876 19 днів тому

Sorry, I just read the title. But…isn’t conflict the absence of relationship? The fact that we suppose/want one at the time of conflict, isn’t that the reason for the escalating violence? Conflict is the symptom of an absent relationship at that very time and should be acted as such at that very time : there is no reason to stay in conflict

@wudubora Місяць тому

Sorry, maybe I am a Neanderthal, but you will never convince me that philandering will in ANY WAY improve a relationship. This comes from someone who was cheated on and tried to work through it with my wife, who promised would never do it again, yet she just kept on f*****g other men. At one point, I gave up. I stayed in the house until the kids turned 18 and the next day, filed for divorce. It did not help my relationship one iota and you will never convince me it would ever help. Also, my kids, one of which is my step-child, still call me dad and refuse to talk to my ex because they saw what she was doing. If you are okay with your committed partner(apparently saying "married" is too old fashioned) going out a f*****g other people, then you, by definition, are not in a committed relationship. After seeing this "therapist's" TED Talk extolling the benefits of non-monogamy, I can't take anything this person says seriously.

@chilloften Місяць тому

I cannot imagine this type of relationship either. But you take what you need and leave the rest when listening. And that’s ok.

@kartini5341 Місяць тому

Thanks for bringing this up