Psycho Manager DESTROYS MY HOUSE for going on Vacation instead of WORKING on Xmas - Reddit Podcast

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0:00 Crazy Entitled Manager destroys my property because I wouldn’t come into work on my Christmas Vacation! (u/Longjumping_Chair639)
4:28 Am I the Jerk Am I the jerk for getting a fellow university student fired and expelled for breaking the law? (u/black_bitty)
11:42 My boyfriend is convinced that I’m actually cheating him when I fall asleep to take a nap, and he simply won’t let up. (u/Sleepingpanda3975)
15:25 My boyfriends mom is planning a dinner date for him with another girl, and I am at a loss of what to do. (u/happyhoneybeez)
18:55 My girlfriend wants to talk to my toxic ex-girlfriend, and I really am hesitant to allow this, and I don’t know what to do. (u/an0therthr0waway22)
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@eurafrican85
@eurafrican85 Рік тому
First story: if the restaurant was so busy, where did the manager find time to destroy OP's House? Answer: it was never about the restaurant being busy, it was a power trip gone wrong
@scailliet
@scailliet Рік тому
Manager tried a last-minute power flex. OP called his bluff. Manager lashed out, and actually believed that OP wouldn't call the cops on him. Then manager broke down like a lil bitch when all his power got taken away.
@eecneihappy
@eecneihappy Рік тому
Yep all I could think of was, Why isn't the manager working with all these customers vs. constantly texting and calling the worker getting ready for flight?
@draconuuse9731
@draconuuse9731 11 місяців тому
I used to work at place with a similar uptick in late June and early December. Everyone hired is told that no long form vacations will be approved during those times of year. A day or two for a weekend trip. Sure. But if you want to go out of country or otherwise be off for a long while. Well. Then wait till off season when every body else in town does it. Sounds like this place should have a similar policy.
@stormerbuzz352
@stormerbuzz352 10 місяців тому
I think the manager was a psychopath
@krankarvolund7771
@krankarvolund7771 10 місяців тому
It's a restaurant, you have a huge pause from 15 to 18 ^^
@chrisfromsouthaus2735
@chrisfromsouthaus2735 Рік тому
The manager in the first story sounds like a sociopath. Good chance that he didn't regret his actions once he was in court. He was just putting on an act to manipulate the judge.
@ChickinSammich
@ChickinSammich Рік тому
Story 1: Your manager's failure to properly staff isn't on you; that's on him. Story 2: Look, if you break the rules ONCE then maybe, but multiple infractions is just you wrecking your own future. Story 3: As soon as he said "If I was a woman, I would cheat" I would dump him immediately. Story 4: Boyfriend needs to shut his mom down. Story 5: Sounds like a disaster waiting to happen, but I'd warn her and let her make her own choice.
@Luigi2262_
@Luigi2262_ Рік тому
@Jack Russelle Lewis The Covid death toll as of a few minutes before I made this comment is at 6,620,348. The cases are at 641,666,268. Sure, it didn't kill most of the people that had it, but 6.6 million is way too many deaths to say it is "not deadly!"
@yeetusfeetus7877
@yeetusfeetus7877 Рік тому
@Jack Russelle Lewis An extremely infectious virus with a death rate of roughly 1.2% would be a cause of anxiety for many, and for good reason since we weren't all that sure as to how dangerous the virus really was. And, also, Long Covid sucks and isn't all that rare, so a "Low" death rate doesn't mean that everybody else who contracted it properly recovered. I can see why the OP was annoyed with the kids. By exposing themselves and others to the virus, they were putting people at risk of contracting it. If enough people or the wrong people caught the virus, it likely would have spread like wildfire, so a lot of people would have ended up sick, some would have ended up with Long Covid, and a few may have even died. Being anxious about people acting stupid during COVID times isn't silly, especially when the people acting stupid could then infect hundreds or even thousands of others if they caught COVID.
@Alyssa-im8ex
@Alyssa-im8ex Рік тому
@Jack Russelle Lewis it was deadly for a lot of people? Healthy and safety isn’t a joke.
@chrislanglois8275
@chrislanglois8275 10 місяців тому
as the saying goes "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." dont fall ppls tricks a 2nd and especially 3rd time, most ppl deserve 2nd chances but its beyond extremely rare for some ppl to actually deserve and even improve on the 7th or 10th chance. :(
@shirofarris2706
@shirofarris2706 5 місяців тому
Man what a covid nazi.
@nightsilent1318
@nightsilent1318 Рік тому
First story: I would not have felt bad for that manager at all. The OP got the go ahead to go on vacation, and it was the Manager's fault for destroying the OP's house. So, OP is not the jerk at all.
@KasaJiso
@KasaJiso Рік тому
Ngl the manager in theese story’s are more or less the cool guy who deals with the Karen but in this story he’s the psycho Karen.
@sayxxdx
@sayxxdx Рік тому
That third story happened to me except my ex swung a cast iron frying pan at me cause she had a dream I would leave her, said it was a premonition and I'd leave her for another girl. She was right, just not the way she expected.
@Olimar92
@Olimar92 11 місяців тому
I've heard these stories of Girls being upset that their boys do something in their dreams. In your case it was a self-fulfilling prophecy.
@notdeadever
@notdeadever 11 місяців тому
Yeah he definitely cheating on her
@potassiumcat177
@potassiumcat177 10 місяців тому
Pew Pew Sorry your kinda asking for it
@venomslair137
@venomslair137 Рік тому
First story: OP is NTA. I mean, he asked for the vacations beforehand and it was GRANTED. The manager had NO EXCUSES to vandalize OP's house. Good thing his sorry ass is rotting in jail.
@tylergee1405
@tylergee1405 Рік тому
The manager's poor planning is not your problem. You got it approved then when he didn't get his way he freaks. I'm surprised he only got 6 months for the vandalism and threatening harassment.
@scailliet
@scailliet Рік тому
Crocodile tears can go a long way.
@Sketchcook81
@Sketchcook81 9 місяців тому
Story 3, if the dude is THAT messed up and insecure, he has no business being in a relationship. Dump him and find someone that doesn't have that amount of baggage. He needs therapy.
@boisegameshowguy
@boisegameshowguy Рік тому
If that was my manager, I absolutely would press charges and have my insurance go after the company. And until I could find a new job - just to get through to the company and the manager how bad they screwed up - I would demand my job back immediately. If they didn’t rehire me I would absolutely press contempt of court charges.
@MaxwellVrooman
@MaxwellVrooman 11 місяців тому
So the last story the moment he said, his girlfriend had autism, I knew exactly why the meeting would not work out. I have an autistic friend, and she sometimes does not get jokes or sarcasm. She is extremely kind, and can be very blunt.
@chrislanglois8275
@chrislanglois8275 10 місяців тому
ya same. autistic ppl arent all able to tell sarcasm or other emotions that r being expressed not to mention understanding them even they can tell. their like every else tho bcuz some can and some cant. every1s capable in their own things their good at in their own way. :)
@cliffordmaynard6559
@cliffordmaynard6559 Рік тому
On the story about the boyfriend's mother trying to set him up with another woman while he's dating and living with you, sounds like he needs to put his foot down to his mother and tell her to shut up and quit doing that crap. If she can't take it being around you or her son being around you then she don't need to be around either one of you he needs to put his foot down 100% and stop it.
@djknit
@djknit Рік тому
My thoughts exactly. I was waiting to hear the boyfriend's response to his mother in regarding the dinner date arrangement, but they didn't say. The mother is one thing as she can theoretically just be ignored, but if the boyfriend accepted the date then that sounds like a huge red flag.
@Zivillyn
@Zivillyn Рік тому
First story: NTJ. The situation the manager was in was 100% their own fault for not hiring enough people to handle someone going on vacation. It's the manager's job to make sure that there are people to work. Plus, they had already agreed to the vacation time. They got what they deserved.
@TheJcjonesacp
@TheJcjonesacp Рік тому
Story 1: defiantly not a jerk, that man was a psycho, he approved you and in the day of the flight wanted you to come back, fuck off you were not a jerk. Story 2: Hell no they were warned and brought that in themselves Story 3: get out of that relationship it is going to get more controlling if you give him an inch, he seems the type Story 4: I’d talk with your boyfriend about it. Story 5: explain things to your girlfriend, explain the problems with your ex and her personality
@chrislanglois8275
@chrislanglois8275 10 місяців тому
yes to all, story 3 id say "so u blow up on me and dont allow any forgiveness, proof or for me to DO ANYTHING to prove myself but now that things have cooled down u want to not only bring it up again but also manage my time that and not only that u want me to b by ur side working out instead in place taking my naps as proof. at the very least u couldve invited b4 this or some months from now under the disguised notion that u love me and want me to work out cuz im unhappy with how i am. but no right now ur directly proposing we do this so that u can control me and so that u can keep eye on me at during the only moments of peace i have. instead of my naps or ur working out were going to therapy to get u help. unless u think uve said nothing wrong now and during that entire argument. were going to find some1 right now." at least so long as i actually wanted to stay for another minute in that relationship, most ppl deserve a 2nd chance and he mightve b4 his ex and now hes changed to much and to allow himself to change or was nvr a good person and has always been like this since an early point in his teens or childhood. but its in the past and if he cant move he can stay in the past with his mistakes while this person and any1 else with a similar situation can move forward and on without him. especially since they dont have kids to make it even more difficult and heartwrenching.
@amberkat8147
@amberkat8147 Рік тому
Story 1: It is the restaurant manager/owner's duty to ensure staffing to the best of their ability by hiring sufficient staff and to keep reservations to a manageable level. If two extra buildings are not enough space they are clearly overbooking out of sheer greed. None of this was on OP. OP was well within their right to take their approved vacation and see their family. The manager should have been more careful about staffing, scheduling, and accepting reservations, and had no right to freak out and vandalize OP's property like that.
@goodguyguy5022
@goodguyguy5022 Рік тому
The first one is……… crazy
@shoto_simp4788
@shoto_simp4788 Рік тому
Second story: definitely NTA if people can’t take the hint when the get in trouble the first time, that they shouldn’t do it again
@joosyjulie
@joosyjulie 10 місяців тому
People died, my daughters father-in-law died from Covid because a 20 year old came into their shop without a mask.
@lostlogic6911
@lostlogic6911 Рік тому
Story 1: if you can't handle it, get out the kitchen. Its the managers fault he bit off more than he could chew, OP already told him months ahead in advance about the trip, he should've found someone to cover.
@juliopeinado2660
@juliopeinado2660 Рік тому
Story 1; Aside from Workplace Abuse, That manager is horribly abusive. Being stress doesn't excuse his actions. He should have thought about it before doing it. It is ridiculous how he can become like this. Kudos to OP for defying the strict toxic abusive jerk who goes around and break company policy.
@cliffordmaynard6559
@cliffordmaynard6559 Рік тому
On the story about the boyfriend that had his ex-wife cheat on him and abuse him, he's just going nuts best thing you can do I'm sorry to say is drop him like a ton of bricks. Cause it sounds like if y'all get married he will control you and all kinds of stuff the best thing you can do is just leave his butt.
@cliffordmaynard6559
@cliffordmaynard6559 Рік тому
On the first story, you are not absolutely not the butthole in this story, your boss is and he should have got more time. He gave you permission for your vacation and that should have been it. If you didn't want you to take that vacation he shouldn't have approved it. Don't regret what you did cause he went way past whatever nonsense he thought would be okay.
@The_Life_Stealer
@The_Life_Stealer 11 місяців тому
Not absolutely not the butthole?
@wamrainc176
@wamrainc176 Рік тому
Story 1: I do not sanction nor approve what the manager did, not at all. However, past history of 15+ years in retail, I cannot stress enough how insanely stressful retail/restaurant businesses are during holidays. Like, unless you have worked in that environment during those times you can absolutely have NO clue of how bad it get. But as I said, that manager took it to a whole new level
@admirable_minimum2163
@admirable_minimum2163 Рік тому
story 1: "stress" is not an excuse. like that's such a common excuse given when AHs act out, like no. also if you can't manage/handle stress maybe avoid working in the hospitality and/or retail sector, especially in such a high position.
@UCvow2TUIH0d2Ax2vik9ILzg
@UCvow2TUIH0d2Ax2vik9ILzg Рік тому
Amber Heards?
@demonspawn5174
@demonspawn5174 10 місяців тому
A couple years ago I was working a really physically demanding job, and it wasn't uncommon for me to pass out cold for a few hours after getting home. My bf had wanted to call and talk with me about plans we'd made for the weekend, but when he did I was out cold. When I woke up later and saw his missed call and a few messages, I called him back and apologised. His response? "It's okay, I just wanted to make sure you're alright. How are you feeling?"
@chrislanglois8275
@chrislanglois8275 10 місяців тому
as it should b, im so happy for u that u have some1 like that.
@Trojianmaru
@Trojianmaru Рік тому
Story 2: OP is worried they were a bad friend, because they didn't turn a blind eye and give special treatment, but the other guy is the bad friend for trying to make them turn a blind eye and give them special treatment. If you know your friend is in a position of power, don't try and use them to do stuff that you know will force them to choose between you or their job. That is an asshole move, especially if they already begged you not to put them in that position. My dad used to be a security guard at a local superstore, and got me a job there as a cleaner. So I was great friends with a fair few of them, and would have a joke and a laugh, but I would of never considered putting them in the position of having to turn a blind eye to anything. The day I was fired (petty bs with managers who didn't like me, and who then made security spend weeks watching me for an excuse to fire me, but could still only use a video of me, a cleaner, taking something off camera to throw away, "Suspicion of theft by consumption" 😂 clearly a death penalty even if I had devoured it while off camera) the security I was friends with felt super guilty about not warning me, and having to escort me out of the store, but I didn't blame them for a second, n we're still good friends to this day. Now if I'd been pissy, and expected them to choose me, over the job that puts food on their family's table and a roof over their heads, THEN I would of been an asshole.
@SenseiRaisen
@SenseiRaisen 10 місяців тому
Well they knew the situation, still valorate you as a friend instead of ditching you out too after you got fired. He did his job as well. BUT i won't said the same about the manager, since if i was all of your co-workers i would literally put him in the crosshair of everything and report every single "misconduct and errors" from the manager and try to get him caught in something illegal, since he is also subject to the same rules.
@brianrogers7360
@brianrogers7360 Рік тому
Sorry boss, you approved it, and I'm gone. Oh, and be ready for a lawsuit.
@HankScorpio64
@HankScorpio64 11 місяців тому
Story 1: That manager found a quick way to win a jail sentence. Also don't recant on peoples vacations at the last minute. You'll regret it in the long run. Story 2: It's not the OP's problem if they cannot follow simple rules for a temporary time. Story 3: Major Red Flag. This guy needs help and badly. He has no right to take his trust issues out on the OP because he was cheated on. This person needs to realize in you are gonna be making people actually wanna cheat on you more and cause more strife in relationships because of your issues. Story 4: Honestly I've known families like that. They tend to care about only 2 things. Money and status. Nothing else. Really prevalent in certain asian families. I know in Korean and Japanese culture its quite present. Chinese too. Indian and Pakistani too but like more low key and more concerned about who married who.
@coletaillefer-bateman87
@coletaillefer-bateman87 10 місяців тому
If the manager in the first story was stressed there are other ways to deal with it, but that is no reason to vandalizing someone's property. If you know you're going to need more people on a busy day, then hire more people.
@Owler45
@Owler45 11 місяців тому
3:44 How could you be? He lied about allowing you and didn’t tell you until the day you left and did this as revenge. 13:39 Break up with him, he would cheat now too probably if he can say that so break up before he does.
@sirbiff10
@sirbiff10 Рік тому
Story 1: no teh boss is the jerk. You got the time off. THEY should have found someone else or hired temp workers for this known busy time of the year.
@troodon1096
@troodon1096 11 місяців тому
First one shouldn't even be a question: poor planning on a manager's part is not an emergency on your part. That's even before he vandalized the OP's house.
@avihockney2741
@avihockney2741 Рік тому
cheating story: sonetimes people are afraid of their own shadow, it might be he's cheating because he's accusing you or he was cheated on previous relationship and took it too hard
@SenseiRaisen
@SenseiRaisen 10 місяців тому
Story 3: get the f out of that relationship. Story 4: talk to your BF, told him that he has to put his foot down instead of let mommy dearest has control on his life. Because if she does this, what else she will do if she hook him up with someone. Story 5: There is a lot of things going on here. But i would said he is a jerk for send that messenge because WTF! SHE IS YOUR EX. Also she is own individual so she can take decisions on her own, but your attitude is either: "worry" she might get into trouble with someone like your ex, or ... you're hiding something else you don't want her to know. But yeah, i would let her take that conversation too.
@derpionderpson1424
@derpionderpson1424 5 місяців тому
1st story: While I can sympathize with the manager also having a hard time, it is ultimately their responsibility to make sure there are enough people available to handle the increased workload in a seasonal high demand situation. Even if it wasn’t a predictable situation, like Christmas season, the correct cause of action could never possible by to travel to your employees home and vandalize it… Even if given the best faith possible, OP acted entirely within reason and the manager was the one being unreasonable.
@alpha-sama
@alpha-sama Рік тому
Story 1: That manager is insane. He himself has the responsibility to make sure there are enough employees present during the holiday season, he should've thought of that before agreeing on vacation days. Story 2: Not the jerk. Those covid rules are there for a reason and if you don't obey them, it's only normal that you get punished, simple as that. Besides, this was a brat who broke the rules multiple times, what an idiot. Story 3: I understand why the boyfriend would experience anxiety because of his previous relationship, but he is totally being a jerk. Story 4: OP, you're working hard and you should be proud of yourself! The boyfriend's mother is being super snobby, and I hope your boyfriend will back you up on this. Story 5: This is a recipe for disaster. It'd probably be for the best if OP and his current girlfriend don't contact his ex.
@Slacker28
@Slacker28 Рік тому
Story 2: wow he doesn't want to suffer mentally due to an illegal lockdown so it his own friend rats him out to the Gestapo like that I can't believe so many people support that kind of oppression.
@LycanWitch
@LycanWitch 10 місяців тому
first story, manager clearly had free time to go trash someone's property. secondly, the business/boss is at complete fault, if they are struggling with so many customers during the holiday, they clearly have a staffing shortage issue, so it's the boss' fault for trying to squeeze as much profit out of each individual employee by having a shortage of staff; so the obvious solution is this restaurant needs to hire more staff, at the very least temp/seasonal employees if they don't need the extra staff year round. So the boss only has themself to blame, or if they aren't the owner of the restaurant, then their anger and hatred needs to be focused on the owners or whoever doesn't allow the staffing of additional workers to help with the busy season.
@Slimmark2
@Slimmark2 5 місяців тому
As someone who almost died from covid, that college story pisses me off...
@Sevegoth
@Sevegoth Рік тому
No man you aren’t a jerk man its ok man good job
@cadevermillion7680
@cadevermillion7680 11 місяців тому
OB. Personally, I think you should break up with him because if he can’t trust you, you should not have a relationship because trust is foundation of a relationship
@kanelovec4315
@kanelovec4315 Рік тому
S1. Op has no right to feel guilty for this asshole. The manager could have done something other this to combat the stress. Managers could have hired part times, put a limit on customer per day (because it was more this year than others), and more. Manger had no right to scream at op with threats then to their house and destroyed it when he gave the go head. An employee should have got his ass years ago for his constant cancel of vacation days 24 hours or less before said vacation days.
@wmst5065
@wmst5065 Рік тому
First story sounds like B.S.. OP was blocking his manager on multiple lines of communication _while_ he was driving?! C'mon.
@dontedavis2070
@dontedavis2070 Рік тому
Love the work keep it up
@liz-zy
@liz-zy Рік тому
I love your videos you make such good expressions
@princessmarlena1359
@princessmarlena1359 Рік тому
“Stress” isn’t an excuse for that behavior, and his poor planning for staffing on his part, doesn’t justify taking OP’s vacation time away.
@Doc61725
@Doc61725 Рік тому
Manager : come into work or i will fire you Me : how about you fire me and i find another job Manager : i will destroy your house Me : okay i will track you down till the end of my days *evil laughs* Manager : ahhhhhhhhh Me : 😎
@story-teller.0140
@story-teller.0140 Рік тому
You’re the best voice for Karen so sassy I love it
@buddyburrows
@buddyburrows Місяць тому
10:39 that theory sure aged well now didn't it 😂
@stephanreiken9912
@stephanreiken9912 Рік тому
I mean, story 2 is how authoritarians think they are doing the right thing.
@TAFAFO
@TAFAFO Рік тому
I hunted for this comment. Glad I found it 👏 👏
@joerogers3867
@joerogers3867 8 місяців тому
The RA is such a scumbag. I don't understand why there are so few people who feel like this in the comments. Even if he wanted to uphold the rules, he didn't have to go to the lengths he did to get them in trouble.
@ImaFoxBoii
@ImaFoxBoii Рік тому
This is about story 5, at the end this was the first time I heard Am I The Jerk? say that OP was the jerk. Now, this is not a lot if you think about it but still it’s amazing for me.
@kai_the_goat1003
@kai_the_goat1003 6 місяців тому
No! He approved your time off MONTHS in advance, DEMANDED you to come in last minute as you were getting on your flight, and DESTROYED your yard! He had it coming.
@juliel5945
@juliel5945 5 місяців тому
1st story-businesses should always have enough staff to cover holidays and to be able to let one person have vacation time during a holiday.
@therednight5342
@therednight5342 6 місяців тому
Ntj, he should of been more prepared and hired more people leading up to the Christmas holidays and christmas itself,he knew it was going to be busy, but didnt give a damn and tried pinning it on you. Besides he vandalised your property and destroyed your house, if anything he is the jerk for not being better prepared
@bluenadeau
@bluenadeau Місяць тому
Story one: not the jerk Story 2: not the jerk
@superficialdolanfan1482
@superficialdolanfan1482 11 місяців тому
You can pretty much just some of the first two stories with one quote: “ well well well if it isn’t, the consequences of my own actions”
@GhostBear3067
@GhostBear3067 10 місяців тому
Story 1... Police: "Would you like to press charges?" OP: "WHY THE FUCK DO YOU THINK I CALLED YOU?!!!"
@jasoncarpp7742
@jasoncarpp7742 3 місяці тому
*Story 1:* OMG! Talk about deranged! Who in their right mind would destroy someone's home just because someone didn't come to work?
@ElRodriPR
@ElRodriPR 10 місяців тому
12:47 like me, i have it literally the same way, it doesnt sound, just... Vibrates 😂
@Manhandle730
@Manhandle730 6 місяців тому
10:50 great job Your Majesty Sire King Narcy McDorkingshire !!!
@Tzaddi15
@Tzaddi15 4 місяці тому
Why didn't they just tell the manager that they were already out of town?
@jingtinggao-dd2zd
@jingtinggao-dd2zd 4 місяці тому
Second story I can relate I literally warn friends about the problem
@fs_nr
@fs_nr Рік тому
Story 2: those people are extremely childish in my opinion you most definitely did the right thing
@badassgararge2974
@badassgararge2974 Рік тому
Well i dont agree He is a jerk and Covid rules are a joke. Has had this opinion since day one
@dracko158
@dracko158 Рік тому
"I've heard all that before from my Ex who cheated on me, why should I believe you?" Jesus, talk about paranoid. Just because your previous girlfriend cheated on you, doesn't mean you current one will do the same. If he is going to be that distrustful, he shouldn't have a girlfriend.
@RafaelitoKiller
@RafaelitoKiller Рік тому
Story 2 a snitch and a really good one at that
@KingCthulhuXV
@KingCthulhuXV 4 місяці тому
For the covid story- Not even about others health the entire university would've been shutdown if he didn't report them which means their work during that time would've disappeared and scholarships as well not the jerk.
@Kris_is_cool
@Kris_is_cool Рік тому
Great vid
@BangladeshTheBest
@BangladeshTheBest Рік тому
Congrats you’re first
@petrjelinek7808
@petrjelinek7808 Рік тому
true
@silverbook4603
@silverbook4603 Рік тому
Saying "I'm blunt" is not an excuse. I am blunt that doesn't mean Im being mean to anyone. If you can't handle a blunt person then leave them alone. They shouldn't have to change how they are because you have an issue with it. Blunt is a characteristic not an excuse.
@brandonnewby178
@brandonnewby178 Місяць тому
That last one was definitely cheating. By his own words, _After_ the first date went well, I ended it with my ex. That's the definition of cheating.
@divya_212
@divya_212 7 місяців тому
If restraunt was so busy why was vacation approved or no temporary staff was hired??
@Nigama_2003
@Nigama_2003 6 місяців тому
No, OP you're not a Jerk. Your Manager is. Like seriously, when you asked your manager to give you Christmas vacation he agreed. As you were about to go to the airport he calls you and demands you to come to work and when you refused, he vandalised and destroyed your property.
@captainsinclair7954
@captainsinclair7954 5 місяців тому
15:14 leave him, he’s not ready for another relationship yet
@shenron101
@shenron101 11 місяців тому
I wouldn't ve kind at the manager of the first story I would be like " sorry and you'll pay for all the damages to my home and I quit
@gavinfranklin1230
@gavinfranklin1230 5 місяців тому
First story: kinda reiterating the comment before mine, the op is not the jerk here. Also if the restaurant was “busier than it was ever before” then it’s not op’s fault. It’s the managers fault for one not hiring enough people on for the busier times of year and for two he approved that time off request months in advance. The manager overreacted, and legally and morally shouldn’t have vandalized op’s house.
@briannazimmerle1979
@briannazimmerle1979 6 місяців тому
FUCK NO! They should not feel guilty this is 100% on boss man, he was just using that crap as an excuse.
@Isredel
@Isredel 10 місяців тому
Story 1: NTA. Lean Staffing is a managerial error not an employee error.
@shoop8654
@shoop8654 Рік тому
In the second story, I couldn't read that word lol 🤣🤣🤣
@FFeDDexe
@FFeDDexe Рік тому
The third story sounded like it is in Singapore
@Kat-pr9nv
@Kat-pr9nv Рік тому
In the first story even if they didn't understand how serious the situation was at first it was explained to them along with multiple warnings, it's not like he just came after them after one time
@dustigin
@dustigin 6 місяців тому
The guy should have told him he was already on the plane.
@Meownu_Reeves
@Meownu_Reeves 11 місяців тому
First story. The manager gave you the time off, Lowes did something similar to me, they put me on for full time over the 2 weeks I put in for vacation and I was later written up and fired because I had missed 2 weeks of preapproved vacation time
@bignatetimmy2237
@bignatetimmy2237 5 місяців тому
I was gonna say no, you're not in the room
@Dominik189
@Dominik189 6 місяців тому
First story is a simple nah, if they were that understaffed, why aren't they hiring people.
@nybotheveg
@nybotheveg 5 місяців тому
The first one is pretty simple, the vacation should have never been approved in the first place. Sounds like the business does over half their business in one month, and it's like that every year. He should have known that they were going to be busy.
@adamaronszalai7444
@adamaronszalai7444 6 місяців тому
My man the manager is going to prison (manager dropp the soap in prison to get free candy)😂
@melaniemasri7112
@melaniemasri7112 5 місяців тому
Use this as a story My mom and dad broke up I had to live with my Grandma and Grandpa. Because at the time we needed to work to get money so about 2 years later. My mum and my aunty had a fight. Because my aunty wanted to celebrate her birthday on the day but my mom needed the time to work so my mom said no we can celebrate it a few days after. But then my aunty started yelling at us then she grabbed my mom and they fighted . Then me my mom and my sister got kicked out of the house. That day we moved into our new house where things where normal. For a few years then my mom got a new bf. A few years later My sis got angry at me and we went to our grandparents house she started crying before I was about to tell my grandparents what happened. My aunty said to my mum what happened to her but she actually said your a bad mother then my mom came and tried to pick us up my grandpa didn't let my mom we got up but my grandpa said sit back down he was still verry strong so I sat down he said go outside and come back when when your calmed down she called the police and andjria she came back and said can I have them back he grabbed her by the arm and said get out of my house they came andjria said come we left andjria slammed the door we are not allowed to se them till we are 18 it's been 2 years I told my mom to make my dad stop showering me he said no and blocked my mom only I can talk to him and my sis he said I heard you want me to stop showering me he said I'm makeing a big fight between my mom and him he said how can I trust you because if you show me then I'll stop I said how can you trust me if you don't let me do it myself then I never heard from him again
@bradmyers99
@bradmyers99 5 місяців тому
13:04 if he didn't have notifications turned in then his head set wouldn't have told him shit either
@judysuber4262
@judysuber4262 6 місяців тому
How old was the manager? Under 21...who does that? I really would enjoy my vacation. And sue for harassment and stress on top of vandalism.😮
@megadeth-1a885
@megadeth-1a885 5 місяців тому
LMFAO no chance he got 6 months for vandalism
@NeoArashi
@NeoArashi Рік тому
1st story: absolutely not a jerk. You asked permission to go away that week. If you had gone without warning, you would have been the jerk, but you were granted permission.
@goldenoptic
@goldenoptic 9 місяців тому
Story one Manager should have just filled in.
@Heidao623
@Heidao623 11 місяців тому
Has a history of screwing people over by revoking vacation at the day it was schedules, does indeed revoke on the day of leave, threatens your livelihood if you disobey, trashes home because you ignored the threat. No sympathy should ever be given, that is the brain of a psychopath that couldn't do anything to you, so they took it out on your home. You should be happy they even got prison time, as karmic retribution for others the manager screwed over.
@angry_rooster1887
@angry_rooster1887 10 місяців тому
Is that brittle with straight up coffee beans!?!
@Nkw022
@Nkw022 Рік тому
For the first story at least you get to keep your job, your not going to get a management position at anywhere after getting 6 months of prison for over reacted.
@dragohogo2323
@dragohogo2323 Рік тому
So in all honesty maybe your boyfriend should see a psychologist if he was psychologically abused in his previous marriage That sounds like a 1A whistle for a psychologist and to be absolutely sure you usually notice when you get tired Then just write me I'm tired I'm going to sleep now until then But he really should see a psychologist
@-The_Architect-
@-The_Architect- 10 місяців тому
why is that even a question in the first one? why on earth would you feel bad about that knowing he likes to wait last minute to cancel peoples vacations, he plans that so he can do stuff to their property and threaten their job.
@decrypt83
@decrypt83 Рік тому
1st story, I would hire this person BECAUSE of what he did.
@John-jq2hf
@John-jq2hf Рік тому
Story three has happened to me so many times I take adhd meds so I fall asleep in the afternoon around the same time every day and my ex did not care and broke up with me in front of her mom
@AndyJade-df6dj
@AndyJade-df6dj 4 місяці тому
Oh boo hoo the manager had a stressful day during the holiday, everyone has a stressful day during this time of the year there is absolutely no excuse what the guy did to op’s house. OP you should not feel guilty at all, your ex manager destroyed your house on purpose and he has to accept the consequences of his actions. If he doesn’t want to do the time then he shouldn’t have done the crime.
@Kindog1223
@Kindog1223 5 місяців тому
Story one: not the jerk, if he was so busy during that time of year why did he not give you time?
@coltondodger
@coltondodger 11 місяців тому
Story 3. A guy can have ptsd from a bad relationship.... I suspect that having a very close repeat of that event, followed by a partner saying the *SAME THINGS* to him, likely made things worse. Now his bullishness did not make him right, and he did appologize- but some understanding is in order for that Then, when he said that he wanted to work out with you as reassurance that he was not cheating, your jump to him wanting to be controlling.... Grow up. You can be an adult. You can sit down and talk out boundaries, and if you are worried about control, you can set clear lines that are not to be crossed. lines that can both parties agree to. If you can't manage your relationship, break it off, for both your sakes.
@Kyle_MJ
@Kyle_MJ Рік тому
Cheating story: I can understand why he’s this way, and now can’t trust anyone, but you said it yourself that he’s not ready for a relationship. He needs to figure himself out and then maybe go back into the dating game whenever he’s ready.
@SkyEcho751
@SkyEcho751 Рік тому
Story 1: NTA and that also might not be legal. I expect that he also doesn't reimburse the vacation time either, which would definitely be illegal, at least in the US. Like if he went "You can't schedule this specific time period off because we KNOW that we will be busy" that would be one thing, but approving vacation and than just forcing the people to return to work. Story 2: Wow, NTA. Like if it was a single infraction for each then maybe. But these people were actively putting others at risk. And somehow "OP ChAnGeD". Story 3: And NTA. Seems like the BF needs therapy... Or he is lying about his ex-wife. Story 4: Yikes, the BF might just be oblivious, or he is liking the attention, but OP needs to sit down and talk it out with him. Also, NTA. Story 5: I feel like it's ESH. But there are too many missing pieces of information to actually make a judgement.
@Slacker28
@Slacker28 Рік тому
Story 2: wow he doesn't want to suffer mentally due to an illegal lockdown so it his own friend rats him out to the Gestapo like that I can't believe so many people support that kind of oppression.
@SkyEcho751
@SkyEcho751 Рік тому
@@Slacker28 More like he either reported his friends, or his head would be on the chopping block. And it sounds like it wasn't a couple of isolated situations, but rather people just completely ignoring the situation. I fully believed the Laws and restrictions to be Draconian, but this was a prisoner's dilemma, they were willing to cause problems for OP, so why should OP try to cooperate with them? It's a bit like drunk driving, you can try to convince your friend to not do it, but at some point you'll (arguably) be willfully negligent if you don't report it. And you could be argued as having responsibility for not stopping your friend. Covid was _incredibly_ bad, ya the response was poorly thought out, but OP was in the thick of it and wasn't in a position to make a stand. Would YOU be willing to risk your current job and good future job prospects to defend friends who are actively trying to cause problems?
@Slacker28
@Slacker28 Рік тому
@@SkyEcho751 Ben Franklin's Famous 'Liberty, Safety' Quote Lost Its Context In 21st Century He once said: "Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety."
@SkyEcho751
@SkyEcho751 Рік тому
@@Slacker28 That comes from the "Pennsylvania Assembly: Reply to the Governor. Printed in Votes and Proceedings of the House of Representatives" letter of 1755-1756 If you read the full paragraph, this is in regards to a governor rejecting taxation proposals, while said governor said that "If Hiis Hands had been properly strengthened, have put the Province into such a Posture of Defence, as might have prevented the present Mischiefs". This was in regards to giving arms to the frontier families to defend against "the insiduous Attacks of small Parties of skulking Murderers"(Native Americans). The governor actively was accepting what was essentially bribe from certain rich families to not tax said families. So Benjamin Franklin was using that statement to point out the governor was exchanging a fairly set amount of taxation for a quick down payment. This meant the liberty(money from taxation) to fund the frontier for the temporary safety that the 'donation' gave. So it arguably much more accurate to see the quote as being pro-government action for the protection of its citizens... And again, this is a classic Game theory situation. It's the "Prisoners Dilemma", OP and (all friend who was on isolation due to covid exposure) were in this game. OP's Choices were (Cooperation)" _Risk my own future and current ability to finish collage, and not even necessarily protect my friends_ " and (Betrayal)" _Let my friends deal with the fallout for their choices_ " His friend's choices were (Cooperation)" _Deal with the isolation for covid_ " and (Betrayal)" _Go out and Party with friends_ " OP's friends were repeatedly choosing to betray OP, risking themselves and OP. So OP could either risk going down with them, or let them deal with the fallout instead. So in conclusion, I see the friends as trading their future liberties(the ability to finish collage and make good money) for their short term social safety(not getting called a stick in the mud or lame and getting kicked out of the social group). Of course I'm willing to bet you won't read any of it and just say another 'quippy' response like it makes you right.
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