Secrecy or privacy - How much should you be sharing about your past?

Secrecy or privacy - How much should you be sharing about your past? | Men, Explain (Ft. John Lim)

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Honesty is the foundation to every strong and healthy relationship, right? But how important is it to be honest about things that are no longer in the present?
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0:00 Introduction
2:24 Sharing about history and ex-partners
3:30 Secrecy vs privacy
4:45 Sonia avoiding conflict with her boyfriend
8:33 How important is love language in a relationship?
10:06 How do you tell your partner about your needs?
13:38 What to share and not to share with your partners?
15:54 Sonia dated an ex who was related to her current boyfriend
18:15 Let's talk about sex
22:15 Is it important to discuss STD testing with your partner?
25:45 John wants to get a vasectomy
26:48 Conclusion
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КОМЕНТАРІ: 45

@noitulive 2 роки тому

By far, one of the best guys interviewed. Thoroughly enjoyed the candid perspectives from John. This is real quality.

@itsclarityco 2 роки тому

😊 Glad you enjoyed it!!

@Jay-ru2cw 2 роки тому

Wow! Please have another episode with John on his take to not wanting a child. Would love to hear that because I personally do not want to have a child too. But it is still quite a taboo because it seems like a normal thing to create a family when you get married. Btw, great conversation! Love the openness between both Sonia and John to keep the conversation flowing smoothly and safely!

@fauzanganz716 2 роки тому

@bongjunting6864 2 роки тому

Kids are noisy, expensive and annoying. You cant even count on them taking care of you when youre old in this century. Take your money, travel the world, and enjoy your life

@johnedward7498 2 роки тому

Thanks for having me! ps. nabei my sock half rolled down need to stop it 😩

@Skyrockerification 2 роки тому

awesome stuff man

@itsclarityco 2 роки тому

Thanks for being such an awesome guest and sharing such great insights! ps. TBH, no one noticed until you mentioned! Now we're going back to look at them sock...

@edamame5540 Рік тому

John is such a matured guy - which is very rare

@JessChew 2 роки тому

Can’t believe this is the first time I’m listening to this podcast from Clarity but THIS IS AWESOME. I immediately sent it to my girlfriends. Super relatable. Thanks for being honest, Jon. And Sonia, best host 😍❤️

@xyo6310 2 роки тому

Best episode!

@neekng1759 2 роки тому

John is so cool!!

@adeFriedBrainCells 2 роки тому

Love this ep…

@ZERO_0594 2 роки тому

I like this series v informative and useful.

@kimpoh911 2 роки тому

Very insightful! Thank you

@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому

Food for thought~

@mkz3616 2 роки тому

John’s perspective 💯

@Kai-pq6nm 2 роки тому

sonia look great again

@DemocritusLam Рік тому

this needs to be longer

@Adamaqz 2 роки тому

OVERTHINKSG FAM IS HEREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

@SparkzMxzXZ 2 роки тому

19:40 preach it KING

@bboxremyproductions9140 2 роки тому

Hey Sonia, are you able to make a video about like guys who date their partner who is older than them. Hope you would consider this topic.

@mrpotato7734 2 роки тому

I loved Sonia's impression of how guys talk to their bros hahahaha

@itsclarityco 2 роки тому

Should we cut that out and put it on repeat? 😂😂😂

@mrpotato7734 2 роки тому

@@itsclarityco yes! 🤣

@missdk Рік тому

Hello:)) could you kindly make suggestions on where to get therapy or how to go about getting one too? Thank you!!

@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому

【Honesty is the foundation to every strong and healthy relationship, right? But how important is it to be honest about things that are no longer in the present? 】 Thank you so much @ itsclarityco for this incredible description! *Ps. ... ...* *_To be honest with you~_* I really respect the individual who came out with it!!! Really helps set the narrative of an informative and knowledgeable conversation!

@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому

100% grateful for this positive video~

@itsclarityco 2 роки тому

Thank you!!

@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому

@@itsclarityco That's really sweet and polite of you~

@austen98 2 роки тому

With regards to your statement, I agree with it wholeheartedly. As you say, it's in the past so it shouldn't matter. However, to some, and its mostly women, IT IS very important because you or her can't possibly be together if that happened or one did that etc. I would understand if one was a murderer or a lifetime criminal, however, this isn't so most of the time.

@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 роки тому

I agree that the person who quote the description = *_Super Awesome!!!_* Oh! Oh! Oh~ *Thank you to @itsclarityco too* 🙏 @@austen98

@yzeuthium 2 роки тому

God is fair. I love Jon ❤️

@DragonBonder 2 роки тому

John has really good perspectives and gives good advice. Loved this episode But I don't get why cannot share income? Unless you super rich la

@SparkzMxzXZ 2 роки тому

19:52 so iconic

@SparkzMxzXZ 2 роки тому

20:28 yesss

@kimjoshua3519 2 роки тому

Be sure to catch overthinksg podcast stream over on twitch tomorrow guys!!! hehe sorry to pluggg =p

@50left42 Рік тому

5:32 🙃

@SparkzMxzXZ 2 роки тому

great ep but kind of surprising that sonia immediately assumed john meant he didn’t want kids “yet”, vs just not at all. kind of a strange thing to jump to conclusions to unless you’re from the boomer generation hahah

@waterdispensersdiy2511 2 роки тому

What to share and not to share with your partners? What your Share? Want to Share?

@tgimul 8 місяців тому

I think if you have change sex before, you should share it.

@davechan7406 2 роки тому

Shldnt our partner be more than happy to hear that i had so much fun outside?

@amuthaoly1590 2 роки тому

John feels that it is taboo for questions about one's past relationships and family issues to be spoken about on a first date, and is ready to go for vasectomy in five years, but is ironically not fine with abstaining from sex before marriage. Doesn't make sense to me. Why not practice absteinence or even better, not be in a relationship to begin with.

@eunagiii 9 місяців тому

huh? u can enjoy sex yet not want it to result in a baby.