My husband (a round man with a ponytail) was once SCREAMED AT by an old lady who saw him heading toward the MENS bathroom, and thought he was a WOMAN trying to get in the men's room. My husband may be round, but he's also VERY OBVIOUSLY male (hard features and a lot of scruff). After a minute or two, she wound down, he said, "I AM a man. I'm going to the bathroom." And she stormed away saying, "well, you're wearing a PINK shirt!" This woman had looked past every detail of my husband and decided to gatekeep a bathroom over someone wearing a pink tee shirt (a MANLY MAN tee shirt! From the MENS department!😆). This is how crazy people are getting. ....since I am also round, and usually wear men's athletic shorts and tee shirts, I am just WAITING for the day some asshole to misgender me in a bathroom. I will make them regret it.... by destroying their soul with my snark.

The dude acting disgusted by the lesbians then asking about what acts they perform during sex and then asking about sc/t is so disgusting and disturbing. He’s clearly a fetishizer and also if he has the nerve to ask that to random people I can’t imagine who he treats people he does know.

I had to drop out of being a bridesmaid in a friends wedding a few years ago due to mental illness. I thought she was going to be upset but she was so supportive and I'm happy to say she's one of my closest friends

Homophobes/transphobes being obsessed with everyone's genitals is soooo weird and creepy. Like, I'm a straight guy, but still don't talk to me, please.

I'm asexual. When guys find out they're like "do you masturbate? You should give sex another try. You haven't tried with me before." If i say I'm in a relationship they say "well they don't need to know."

The amount of times as an afab enby individual I have been harrassed and mistreated because I present masc in the womans restroom is uncanny. I mean dude, all I'm doing is my business and leaving so leave me the f alone. I just- the amount of hate that's come towards my community is just *bleh*

In response to the guy approaching the queer couple: As someone in a queer relationship I will say that this happens way way WAY too often. As soon as a man finds out we’re together, they want all the details and more often than not, want to join. It’s incredibly uncomfortable and the fact that wlw relationships are so fetishized to the point that so many men think this behavior is okay is absolutely disgusting.

you’re spot on, sam. men find both me and my gf hot - usually both, sometimes one or the other - and then when we say we’re not interested + a couple, they try harder -_- people at our regular pub will also hit on one of us when the other isn’t around cuz they don’t respect our relationship as being serious, cuz we both appear as women they deem attractive… women are a sexual commodity first and foremost no matter their identity.

I visited Iceland years ago and my mind was blown by the coed public restroom. Just one huge bathroom with maybe 40 stalls. There were signs on the stalls designating men's or women's stalls. Shockingly (/s), people were just calmly using the toilet and then washing their hands. No shenanigans at all!

abt the bathroom thing, if you agree with the woman, can you please explain where i’m supposed to pee? as a trans man, i’ve been kicked out of both bathrooms back to back. am i just not supposed to pee or take a family bathroom?

people are literally so rude

Ive talked with my dad about potential situations like the scenario with the bathroom. Unfortunately, he says he would react the same as that woman. My best friend is trans so i would never condone acting like this, but my dad is pretty intimidating so whenever i try to condemn his actions it gets pretty overwhelming.

The giant wedding this is a status symbol. My husband and I just celebrated out 20th anniversary. We were engaged for 9 days. I got a venue for the ceremony and dinner, got some flowers and it cost less than a thousand dollars. Best idea I ever had. Lastly, my all-time favorite book is Unbroken, by Laura Hillenbrand and Louis Zamperini. Give it a read, tell me what you thought.

One time at work while I (female) was using the bathroom, a man walked in while on the phone with who I presume to be his girlfriend (or boyfriend? IDK). He was talking about candy or something as he did his business. Not sure if he realized someone else was in the room. When he flushed (still on the phone) and exited the stall, he must have noticed the tampon dispenser, because it was a that moment that he realized he was in the women's restroom, which he mentioned to the person he was talking to. He was laughing about it. None of this upset me. Not when I was assuming that maybe he was trans (deeper voice but in the women's room) and not when I realized through his phone conversation that he just walked into the wrong bathroom. Everyone's just doing their business, I don't understand the panic.

What is wrong with these ppl 😭

My husband and I got married on a beach and paid a total of $134.00 it was magic because we just wanted to be married. It has been 20 years and I am still so I'm love with him!

I was a supposed to be groomsman in my best friends wedding he postponed 2 years because of the pandemic. On the day of I ended up being sick and couldn't leave my hotel room. I had to text him DAY OF and let him know I couldn't go and EVERYONE understood because things happen. I cannot imagine someone telling me they have cancer and being that much of a piece of shit.

Omgosh😱‼️‼️‼️I’ve used the men’s bathroom more than a few times bc the women’s bathroom was busy. I’m heterosexual but if I gotta go? I gotta go🤣🤣🤣WHO cares???

In my 40s I never heard of trans as a kid but I as a girl was called a Tomboy & met my grade school best friend in the the bathroom when she came out of the stall, I was washing my hands & she yelled “why are you in the girls bathroom? You’re a boy!” I had short hair & at 9 nothing on top & had pulled my pants up over my sweatshirt so the zipper bulged out like I had a package in my pants. 🤣 😂 once I fixed my shirt we were friends from then on. I will never understand why anyone would have any problem with anyone if nothing they do physically or personally affects them. Live & let live people. I have seen some trans & drags & they look better as a girl then I do. 😆 all the power to them all!

I'm a ciswoman and have been misgendered so much, but also have been sexually harass as well. I'm like what more do you want from me.

I did something similar to the bridesmaid in the story except it was a baby shower and I didn't want to ruin my friends day by having a M.S seizure (I am terminal). It just about broke my heart to do but I thought it was for the best. Well when my friend found out about it, she dropped everything and came running bringing all the left overs around and we had our own little party because that's what friends do for each other especially in Australia (mateship first). 😊

My husband and did exactly what Sam said. We went to a beautiful park that we always enjoyed going to, and invited a couple who were our best friends as our witnesses. We had a Justice of the Peace do the wedding. It was so wonderful.

That dollar general worker haaaaad to have been a minor too, the baby in the store on top of it all. My lord. People need to learn how to act, especially when you've got a child with

“I’m like a rock. I just sit on the floor.”

Right? Sexual assault is already a whole crime. Do they really think that someone is going to be stopped from doing it by the gender on the door of the bathroom?

For the first one at a hotel on a school field trip, I saw a dad PHYSICALLY abusing his son and being really sexist towards his daughter. And me being a teenage girl didn’t have the guts to say anything(it was in the hotel pool and was just me, my friend, and him) he also moved to the hot tub leaving his kids alone and started talking to me about church right away because that’s how you start conversations with random teenagers you see at a pool. I didn’t have the guts to say anything. HOW DID THEY HAVE THE GUTS TO GET MAD AT THE DAD OVER THAT!!!?

The Karen harassing the real estate agent had a very creepy Pennywise smile. 😂 Also I know what sweater I'm shopping for at Target.

On weddings, I had a super small wedding at a park, just our parents, siblings, and 3 friends with their spouses and kids, we had Little Caesars pizza, and we all went fishing after.....very small, inexpensive and memorable. Married for 8 years, wouldn't change a thing about my small wedding....

99/100 after saying "No thank you, I'm a lesbian." Him: How do you know? Have you ever been with a guy?

A lot of these really fall into the "When someone shows you who they are, believe them" And re: the dropped for having cancer treatments: It's a shock to go to therapy and suddenly drop [bride's weight], but she'll get used to it.

For the third story with the lesbians. I feel like you did not talk enough about the fact that he asked “do you find poop sexy”

The whole thing with the movie theater kinda gets me. Like yea, little children shouldn’t be exposed to that sorta thing unexpectedly, but I’m sure that any parent bringing their kids to a movie like that with the intention of raising awareness (which is what the guy said he brought his kids for) then they probably sat them down beforehand, had a conversation with them about it to prepare them, and made sure they were ok with it. And, in my honest opinion as someone who has a history with that subject matter, I think it’s a very good thing to raise awareness about it young. Not only does awareness help with prevention, but if those kids ever meet someone who has been a victim, then they at least have some idea of how to talk to them without triggering any PTSD they might have and making sure they’re comfortable (i.e. topics to avoid, maintaining a respectful distance, avoiding physical contact unless given permission, etc.). It’s an important conversation to have and maybe the parents figured that seeing a movie that addresses those topics could be a good way to introduce them to the concept. Either way, as long as the parents are ok with it and are willing to actually guide them through the topic, then it’s overall a good thing to expose kids to it in a healthy and safe way.

I love those guitar earrings,the hairstyle,and the head wrap or headband.

Dude in the third video looks like the poster child for r/justneckbeardthings

People stopping that guy from going after the transphobe man who threw something at them? Nope! He needs to be taught their hate is unacceptable. And yes sometimes that needs to be a physical lesson to make sure they NEVER use those hateful hands throw things again.

Funny thing about the first video. A producer of the film was arrested for CP charges. So yeah...

it feels illegal to be this early to one of Sam’s vid

Got married in 1995 Spent £1500 in uk Made my wedding dress Cake was a pressie Still married - that day was one of my favourite memories and not because of how much money I spent!

What was the woman in the Dollar General mad as hell about? I didn't get that from the video. I'm sure it was a moronic thing since those are the people that tend to scream the loudest. And the wedding one made no sense. If she's already getting wiped out by chemo, she's going to be bald by the wedding, and I guarantee that bridezilla was going to be mad as hell about that "ruining the aesthetic" and other nonsense. So was she just angry that her friend got cancer? I mean it is her bride year and all so no one else is allowed to get married or evidently have anything bad happen to them. /s And thank you for pointing out the very basic thing about predators and how the idiocy is being used to attack trans people. Predators have been able to bust into bathrooms since bathrooms have existed. Hate to break the news to anyone that clueless but they have. And also lesbians and gays have existed the entire time. As much as these vile people keep trying to equate LGBTQ+ people and predators, the sane people know they're far from the same thing. People go to the bathroom to go to the bathroom. Leave them be.

As a bi person...trust me theirs creeps no matter what lol...including other women....😒 at this point I have seen it all and sadly nothing surprises me. Also as a realtor...uh that realtors nuts. A tenant must have notive in advance to show a property 🤨 it kinda all depends but still there's a bunch of crazy ppl. Idk where exactly they are, if they are in a common area its fine but if they are in a tenants still rented apartment...eh no.

Just so yall know, the sound of freedom was pg-13. It wasn't even that bad

That cancer story made me cry. Youre mad because they got a deadly illnesses. Is wild .sending prayers,love and healing for that person

Honestly some people need to chill out

minutes ago i was checking your channel to see if there was a new video and i was sad to see none, but then i got the notification and i clicked SOOOO FAST

The fact the transphobe said that she's a man like huh she. Or he? Witnessed this inside a bathroom at a retail store lady harassing another lady because she had short hair. Like WTF?!?!? Mind you own business

When I was in my 20’s I worked a local movie theater. We had men just walk into the ladies bathroom and leave the door open while they peed. I had to go in and tell him he was in the ladies and to zip it up and go to the men’s. The guys would turn around and flash me their “little wiener’ and ask if like what I see. I said I don’t have a microscope to see it. They got mad and left. And I have been at movie theaters as a customer and guys would still walk into the ladies and leave the doors open and little girls and teenagers would be in there. They actually screamed and ran out. Mind you this was before they allowed transgender people to use their bathroom of choice. These men were dressed as men and held the belief that a bathroom was a bathroom no matter what the door said

😂 I need to move out of LA because when you showed the luxury apt one bedroom being shy of 3k… I got excited and thought WOW WHAT A STEAL 😭

I just started using the men's bathroom (ftm) and I'm not ready for the day someone "calls me out" but hopefully I'll get lucky and won't have to deal with it :')

People often fight each other for the brand of toilet paper they use.

Seriously Weddings have gotten so crazy, back when I got married we had been together 11 years already and didn't really see the point nor wanted to get married but the families kept pushing it so we decided we more wanted the party/reception aspect of it we did everything right in the hall we set up the Dj and put a white lattice wall infront of him for the ceremony, there was a archway the wedding party walked up through the center of the room (a isle of roses) we had tables set up on either side, my in-laws made wine with our pics on the bottles and each table had a bottle of red and white and people sat at the tables drinking wine while we said I do, we still had formal attire like my dress was the most expensive I can admit that and most of our decorations were bought after holidays like Christmas, Valentine's etc some family pitched in with the midnight buffet because it was a evening wedding no dinner to worry about and anyone in my wedding party that couldn't afford their outfit (we weren't that hillbilly we did have the girls in matching dresses and the men in suits) but if they couldn't afford their outfits we footed the bill and nobody knew like one bridesmaid didn't know I was paying for another bridesmaid etc but we had a great wedding and grand total was $5000 the next day we had our bags packed and by the door waiting.. we did the gift opening and hit the road with my Sister, her husband and 3 kids went camping for a week and we were so excited to go we forgot the food and had to drive back home the next day to get it all but it was so worth it... I think people forget why they are getting married anymore

i love how you express your opinion without putting someone down ❤

Interesting facts about bathrooms: There are some that are open 24/7 Some have doors that close and lock from the inside some have stall doors that close completely leaving no gaps above or below some are sound proof there is only one exit out of a bathroom and None of them have cameras A bathroom is NOT a safe space. It can be the most dangerous place ever because of these reasons. People that act like the womens bathroom is a "womens safe space" is brain dead. many assaults have occured in bathrooms before the lgbtq movements for basic human rights. You could get murdered, beaten, raped, etc in a bathroom and no one will find out until it's too late and the perpetrator is gone.

I work in a call center where people can't even SEE me and one night a man on the phone was hitting on me and at the time I was dating my ex-girlfriend so I said straight up I had a girlfriend. His response was "Oh...that's kinda hot." and kept asking information on it. It was honestly disgusting and I wanted to go fight him.

Men in plaid are apparently becoming an epidemic

I worked at a theater once. This couple brought their three or four year old son with them to Red Dragon. Yes, violent movie. However, if people know anything about toddlers and movie theaters they often fall asleep rather quickly. Some people came out of the theater asking if there was anything we could do about these parents bringing their child to this movie. Um . . . no. They payed for the child's ticket, they are accompanying him into the rated R movie. We can't remove them from the theater because you don't like that they have a kid. These people came out of the theater after the movie ended and waited for these parents to start yelling at them about HOW DARE YOU BRING A BABY TO SUCH A VIOLENT MOVIE. Starting to argue in the very small lobby. The toddler, by that time, was sound asleep on his dad's shoulder. OMG lady, it's not your child, don't worry about what other parents let their kids watch. I had a friend in high school who's parent's let him watch horror movies when he was seven. It'snot your business. And shockingly, some people can't afford baby sitters and go out very seldomly. So why deny them a movie night because they have a child with them?

1:13 if you are winding what was just said she said “Are you defending my kids by hitting their father in front of them”

I am the same antisocial butterfly 🦋 I totally get you.😂

Yeah, the whole house vs. apartment thing is why we bought a house. It's only 900 sq ft, same as the 1 bedroom luxe flat, but we pay less in monthly mortgage than we did at the ghetto apartments we _used_ to live in. Also, we got married in a park! It was beautiful, and we're quite happy. Spent about 1k on the wedding + honetlymoon total, thanks to friends gifting us the photography service and me making most stuff from dollar store ingredients 🤷‍♀️

Oh Jesus these people… do want to mention: love the earrings! 🤩

Some book suggests: The Big Bad Wolf by James Patterson, and my all time favorite Percy Jackson

Is the Bathroom Discourse amongst transphobes an American thing, or do transphobes in other countries have similar complaints about public bathrooms. Like is it at least partially due to our bathroom construction? (The stalls not being floor-to ceiling and lack of true privacy?)

$3k a month is crazzzzzzy. House mortgages where I live are like $1500-$2000 😅

I don't understand why people get so bent out of shape over who is using a bathroom and what they MIGHT be doing in there. There are only about 3 things someone goes into a bathroom to do besides actually reliving themselves and privacy is why the bathroom was chosen.

About the sound of freedom do not go to see it pls do not they do not communicate with any survivors, spread misinformation about trafficking, and also severely ppl on the movie are horrible ppl who committed sa, also I believe their religious propaganda and negativity about lgbt but I’m unsure

The bride one makes me sad, I literally went to my cousin’s wedding yesterday, it was gorgeous but I was gonna be part of the bridal party but then my cousin took me out because I stopped talking then went on to say that it’s a financial thing to have being a bridesmaid, went to the wedding to see her step sister as the maid of honor! My cousin freaking hates her guts and disrespects my aunt, I was kind of a stick in the mud about it

You had a bug? So jealous Sam. I’ve wanted a VW bug for as long as I can remember. That and a proper VW camper

On the Sound of Freedom one...both are in the wrong. Sound of Freedom has been deemed as a very VERY damaging movie by specialists on human tr*fficking, specially when it comes to children. It was also produced by two very problematic people, one of whom is being or has been tried for the very crime they're supposedly denouncing.... BUT, putting your hands on someone isn't okay, at all.

Me and my friend have pretended to be lesbain before to get someone to stop checking us out

All i want to have at my wedding is a nice gothic suit and dark make-up for me, and my boyfriend with WHATEVER he wants to look like. I do not care how it looks, as long as we both wear something we feel good in and we and our families are there

Can't wait for the news article about that restaurant going under.

snerixx: “AUOUWWWWW”

Walking up to someone and saying anything about their gender or sexuality is super weird, creepy & inappropriate. My only concern with the woman in the video with the man at the bar that had a purse is that everyone, including the people working at the bar, were very obviously aware she had too much to drink. I don't know her and it's possible she would have been equally inappropriate sober, but for the bar staff to act like that is a bit concerning to me. They should have obviously cut her off before she got to that point. She was very visibly intoxicated which most likely means they over-served her. I've worked at bars and the amount of bartenders that over-serve people but don't want to take any accountability for it is concerning. I've seen people pass out, injur themselves to the point that an ambulance has to be called and the bartenders still act like it's all on the client.... You literally have to take a test to be able to serve alcohol which includes signs that someone should be cut off and suggestions in how to cut said person off.

For the lunatic who said there was a man in the ladies' bathroom, my question is: what could you possibly have seen unless you were eyeballs up on a gap in a stall?

The plaid squad was probably in Canada, lol

Ive had rental cars or loaner cars that inhad no clue where the gas tank was lol. Luckily the young man at the gas station said. Oh geez my mom did same thing and showed me on the car where the button was and that the gas was under the license plate lol. I was so mortified but if that woman was so out of it she was pumping gas into tge tire they should have grabbed her keys. Hell she might have early onset dementia she should not be driving. But vw bug painted like a ladybeetle! Too darn cute

Ah the gas station. Fun and terror combine.

Dude my wedding was $5000 and that included our honeymoon expenses and one of my bridesmaids dress didn’t fit so she returned it so I bought one and worked with her to make it look good 👍🏻

Can we just have uni-sex toilets(bathrooms) already? Urinals are really stinky and disgusting.

sounds of freedom isn't even really about ST children. It's essentially a film a film saying "well we want to think other people are doing it so the people we like can't be doing it"

he looked like woody harrelson to me, the guy at the end. for my whole life, i’ve wanted the green bug. i still don’t know how to drive.

just remember, folks. all of these people are out in the real world. with families, maybe a friend or two. probably driving!

That apartment price is cheap AF for Los Angeles. I pay 3,400 for a two bedroom 2 bathroom.

I have that exact same hoodie I got it a week ago that’s the funniest coincidence!

Don’t read They Both Die At the End and The first ti die at the end. They’re really sad and will make you cry. Love your videos btw

That lady putting the gas in the tire did seem drunk, in which case they need to stop laughing about it and either convince her she's done driving for the day, or call the cops.n

Bro I want a like a dark red old looking bug

Please don't take this the wrong way. This is just something to bring to your attention about your remark on the three guys wearing plaid shirts and jeans. It might be the current fashion for men, the same way women wear their hair draped over one or both shoulders.

Please try Project Hail Mary if you didn't read it before. It is so amazing and captivating!

I never spend a bunch of money on my weddings all 4 where under $200. Its not about the decorations or the guests its about you and your other half making a lifetime commitment to each other and you don't need anyone to give you that ok

19:30 why does she look like Abby Miller from dance moms though? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Did you totally summed up discrimination against different sexualities perfectly, gold star for being a wonderful Ally

Love your earrings with your sweater you look so cute love it

How did you decide on the name snerixx?

46 seconds ago is crazy

What kind of books do you like?

I love those earrings.

your hair is giving ginger snaps. you should be her on halloween!

Is it just me, or is there no sound?

Earllyyyyy / here before famoussss ❤❤❤❤

I'm not fond of men in the ladies room but not for any transphobic fears. I grew up with 3 brothers, been widowed then married, and have been in men's bathroom when the ladies was too full and I gotta go! In my school days visiting the boys bathroom was a constant dare. The bottom line is men do terrible things to their bathrooms that make them just icky. I don't want that gravitating to the ladies room.