His face and intonation at that moment, also the little laugh and the whole scene in general filled me with sadness. But a good kind of sadness, like when you watch a well directed movie.

When I heard him say that, I felt it so hard.

I didn't want to understand as much as I did.

Oof. Yeah I felt that.

fucking felt that but hey used it on weed, now im high

I would say that’s good nostalgia. It makes you appreciate how far you’ve come 😳

And how bad they could still be

Yeah.. I remember sitting with my then girlfriend on the swings after bombing my fifth job interview because I was just a super awkward kid. Now I'm 25, single and have a steady job and I look back on that time with bittersweet feelings. Shit sucked but we made do with what we had

ie almost all of my nostalgia

It's even better when you realise that, as bad as things were, they're even worse now.

word

OOF this hit something deep and forgotten

Sounds like my japanese animes

And they probably never liked u in the first place. U just lived nearby.

Woahhh Good job I forgot that was a feeling

Accurate

Woah

are

All trucks are cars but not all cars are trucks

🤯 Reading that made me feel like Neo saying "I know Kung Fu."

I was the 1k like 👍 here

I was the 2k like 👍 here

@@wrarraven nope this is a lie let the record be aware.

Thats way too real. Its one of those movies where you watch it and feel absolutely empty and somehow its like 100% on rotten tomatoes

Gummo

Superbad

I haven't watched it yet, but he does have a film on this channel called Pretend That You Love Me and judging by the comments section it's pretty close to what you're looking for

@@colelogelin omg that’s so accurate, because I know this is just a comedy sketch but this is kinda soul crushing, definitely accurate that it leaves you feeling empty but it was still a good experience

exactly what i was thinking

3:16 the composition is just lovely

I was thinking the same!

Literally all of his videos are like that

Ikr, it's finally not crap, unlike other impractical youtubers. I actually feel like I'm watching a movie; a high quality, high rated Seth Rogen movie when I'm here lol. 🥂

She was probably about to break up with him.

@@MrAndor982 Haha probably

@@MrAndor982 and he probably knew that, I bet. That’s why he ran away. Running away from your problems. Would have been more effective if he had wheelies tho.

@@romanejerome168 Wheelies on playground mulch, good luck getting those sharp babies out of your wheels.

She's pregnant?

Literally doe

Well you see, um, first you . . . uh . . . yeah so that's about it.

That’s his secret, Cap. He’s always self conscious and awkward.

he uses camera device i think

Because they are actually that weird

I'm an incredibly awkward person myself and often times I feel like other people tend to just sorta pick up on it, making the whole conversation awkward.

@@machination2166 I feel you, but you should learn to enjoy the awk, embrace it

@@TickleMeSenpai I'm really awkward. How do you embrace it?

@@cocolover13579 it’s hard to describe, but it’s starts with not taking things so seriously. I mean, if you’re interacting with your boss, or authority figures, or just in a situation where you can inwardly tell you should be being serious, do that. HOWEVER, for the rest of this life, just try and relax. Use gestures and speech to your advantage (rubbing the back of your neck, snapping to emphasize a point, boisterous laughter). Idk I’m not sure this is good advice, but my main point would be to relax, understand when the stakes are low, don’t be afraid to admit your awkwardness, and remember that there’s really no such thing as “failure” in social interaction.

Good direction

Needs to collaborate with PsychicPebbles, together they can break all our psyches.

Best comment. This is so true.

That's quite the gift. You give good giving. Relatively.

I'll give you this: you're right.

My question is only this: What is it that makes those archetypes so stupid? Why are they so stupid?

very well said :)

It reminds me of this friend I had named Hank. Growing up we were best buds, but he grew up faster than me and at some point he was just hanging out with me because his parents made him. At some point we switched positions in life and I wound up making it, whereas he caught a felony charge in his mid-20s. He moved back to his childhood home in our old neighborhood, now run down and void of any familiar faces. His sister had moved on and gotten a good career, his dad died, and his mom was the only one left. This is what his life has become, minus anyone from the past. It's super sad and this video depicted it very well.

@@jamesc.e.s.4551 thats me.....

@@olgagaming5544 what happened? I wanna hear this story.

@@jamesc.e.s.4551 well, i was always nerdy and stuff and hated my highschool, also living in the middle of the woods etc... and i went to university but I failed and I came back home on the beggining of this year.. rn i help my parents at the farm or smth but im not sure what to do lol, i thought its gonna to be epic but leaving my home to a b ig city was instant depression idk why

dude were u there the day daniel blew off a fart bag in the class it was so nasty

@@Joel-Haver CLASSIC Daniel bro (Insert frat bro laugh soundtrack)

Sup.

Haha, no.

Daniel gang gang

READ THAT AS HE SAID IT AND SCARED MYSELF

@@tynesiastevens6520 you jumped! That’s so funny, I wish someone was recording because that would be a viral video

Hey time how fast it takes me to get to the next video

That is poetic. That is exactly how it feels.

I was wondering if i'm the only one feeling that way.

And everyone else fucking left. You tty calling and keeping in touch, but it's super awkward because there's no common ground anymore. The days drag on and go by fast at the same time.

@@laurocoman oh my , it's true !

That's me right now, I just wanna leave this cursed town

Maybe you need to stop being annoying

@@missk779 Don't talk to them that way. Only i can talk to them that way. know your place

I don't think it's supposed to be anything, it's art in the eyes of the beholder. Yes it can be satire, or it can mean whatever the watcher feels.

@@PippyPopsSelfHarmMonica oooh got me quaking in my boots.

@@missk779 Dont sass me Miss K

You mean Oblivion?

you probably meant oblivion, morrowind npc's were pretty basic

Morrowind npcs just stand around and be racist at you. Sometimes lock you into dialogue boxes.

@@not_sterling them walking. kinda looks like they are in a constant state of needing to shit while also never being able to actually relieve themselves. scary stuff.

Fly in the sky, cliff racer fly so hiiiiiiighhh...or something

Do girls... see an underrated comment on a video, and not upvote it? Do girls do that?

@@frankbeans6084 😯

They do.

never heard of it but 🤷‍♂️

Yes they do it. Every monday.

But you experienced it... on the INSIDE..

I got a lot of nostalgia from the park in the evening and at night in the mist

Liminal

you put my exact feelings into words, wow!

Sometimes I just want to take a picture or a video of a thing I see every single day and that thing has no special meaning to me at all. Like I almost dislike the thing because of how detached I am from it. Because sometimes I feel like it's something that even if I dont like it or dont care about it, I dont want to forget it. And that's what this video reminds me of. It's not like it's an experience that the next generation wont experience in their way. But it's so rooted in a specific time period, that it feels disingenuous to not keep a record of it. Like the 6 notes I kept from middleschool folded into an origami square.

That's pretty hot, Garrit. Can I call you Garrit?

So how about it Garrit, can he/she?

Come on Garrit, he/she needs an answer.

Hey Garrit, are you still there? Come on don't be like that...

Dammit Garrit, is everything a game to you? When are you going to grow the hell up?

I still do that😂

Being a highschool senior is such a painful thing.

This is so real it hurts

Stop Bob...STOP IT

exactly how I’m feeling at the moment

Oh God this was me!! still kinda is a bit but dang. I rant alot and am scared of silence , over explain myself, and am constantly afraid of what someone might actually be thinking...I'm just uh...working on it

You can have spaghetti

Friends are harder to find then spaghetti, but once you have one the other comes naturally

@@Joel-Haver are you going to make a time lapse video with them eventually?

SpaghettiMan is a movie I'd recommend to all of you. Thx for the laughs Joel, love the content.

@@Joel-Haver You mean that spaghetti attracts friends?

damn

can you not call me out like that?

Nice narration dude

God. This was exactly how I felt with my highschool ex. Don't know why. I can't explain it. I miss her, I miss the memories I had with her, but at the same I don't. Ending my relationship with her was both the best and the worst thing I did during my teen years

Gift0r any advice? Im actually lost with no idea how to move on (24 years btw)

Lmao

Not enough symmetry and flat wide angle shots.

Written and directed by Harmony Korine

No it was directed by Joel Haver. Why do people keep saying his stuff was made by other people? Very odd.

@@kayfrenly5460 i hope this is bait

Absolutely. It's so hard to pay attention to Joel in this one.

I like your profile pic

in that it describes an "obscure" set of human awkwardness obscure in quotes because im sure a ton of people are like this or have encountered it, however its a smaller niche so... yeah

Except it doesn’t, at all.

@@jnnx fr

@@jnnx an opinion on the internet!? Better disagree with them or what personally do I even have?

Midwest humor is the inspiration for Napoleon dynamite, like Idaho small cities and towns. There’s a very particular experience that you grow up with there, it hard to explain completely what its like-videos like this are nice because sometimes they clarify your perspective really easily.

Women are very ambitious but most of them are also lazy and entitled. So when they see their partner is not progresing (even tho they aren´t progressing neither) they look for something better (economic or status way) to not feel stuck. Funny thing they end up stuck with men they dislike, just for the status or economic progres

@@enmemoriamedia4957 Alls fair in love and war. It's essential to have your heart broken once or twice. Probably good for you. Taught me alot about communication, introspective thinking and how to conduct myself in relationships now.

@@enmemoriamedia4957 lol that's incredibly sexist and also untrue

@@lizzie31 bro got hurt

@@Must_Do_Better i agree, i got my hearth broke after a 6 year relationship. And what i learned is that. Women after a couple of years start to feel stuck if you progres too little. So they blame feeling stuck on you not progressing. Even tho they don´t do anything to progress themselves. Because they know that as long as they are young they can progress by getting a sucessful guy just with a few months on social media or dating apps

yep, and both made me nostalgic about things I've never experienced

Man that movie is built different. This is like normal stuff. That movie was both confusing and...sad

@@gabrielcross1062 It was! I swear I couldn’t stop re-watching, though, because if the feelings it gave me

@@ambientsentient not gonna lie my friends and I had to look it up because that ending scene really has us bent. After we looked up some answers from the writers about common questions we understood it and love it

@@gabrielcross1062 Nothing to be ashamed of! Curiously makes the film that much more intriguing😁

That line was hilarious. It took me way too long to find a comment mentioning it.

@@charleee666 and replace them with who?

@@charlesmiv3842 bees

@@jamesklark6562 k

@@charlesmiv3842 the best part is that you can make money off their honey

@@jamesklark6562 k

That's a blessing and a curse all rolled into one.

Nowadays a kid needs more than 30 moves.

@@n2bfw884 yes, at least 50-69 moves. And that’s just to scrape by

The guy in that story was also rejected for being an open minded genius who understood the universe

IKR!!

The one next to my house is like that most days. However I only go there like once a month and for 5-10 minutes xD for the swings It feels awkward being age inadequate for it.

Underrated comment.

This gives me bad nostalgia how is it so true

Now that's a reference

Unfortunately I can't like this twice, so here, have a comment

tfw waiting for godot 4.0

The problems all started when her dad didn't buy him the Nascar gloves

@@spencechan what happened next??

My guess is that they're a couple from a small town that peaked in high school. They've been out of high school for years and they still cant move past "the good ol' days"

backstory is they never grew up and they're in silent drowning panic about it.

The answer seems to be weirdly depressing

There's always one kid

i visited a park/playground i used to go to as a kid recently, they had removed all the steel climbing structures and so on that anyone could possibly fall off and hurt themselves. Kids these days are wrapped up in cotton wool trying to prevent them from getting hurt, it just means they are unprepared for adulthood as they haven't learnt about limits and consequences.

@@asmosisyup2557 Adolescence keeps stretching more and more into adulthood

I think he was gonna say "slow" but

I think he first said slow and quickly changed it to slu--YES!

I thought he was gonna say “You’re slow” or “You’re sluggish”.

midwest

Bittersweet

i think it's a parody of mumblecore movies, which claim to be post-ironic. So Joel is post-post-ironic lol.

“Saudade - A deep emotional state of nostalgic or profound melancholic longing for an absent something or someone that one cares for and/or loves”

@@gerunkwon2598 Obscure dictionary to the rescue! 😁

I wish you well on your journey of brain recovery

@@luckysours8397 hello and merry Christmas. Is this supposed to be a joke? Sorry, I didn’t get it :).

I guess it was the phase of thinking "do I settle for this pretty good thing I have or reject it in the hope that this can't be as good as it gets?"

surprise

@@juliapigworthy That summary made me understand the video better

Do girls do that? Drippage...?

But you haven't been annoying, apparently.

And you guys made it work out? Inspiring

@@stobie9063 well, for now.

He survived boys

I felt that.

It feels like pumpkin spice cherdleys

@@wearenumberonebutimaperson darn i wish i thought of that

@@TKR117 thanks babe

Scrolled till I found a comment to point it out!

same feeling, i cried a little, no idea why

And I don't like her

Damn bro me too wtf

You’re onto something. I don’t think it’s anything to do with looking like a celebrity or something, I think she just seems incredibly familiar for no particular reason.

Aubrey Plaza

And this was probably one of the last ones.

Like going up shit creek in a poo canoe 35

Not the cheap $35 either, man...

@@saintnash1 It's absolutely fantastic.

Depending on the economic state of the area/country this can extend well into 20's.

Amazing take, still feel that sometimes, being a 24 year old

Well.... Adults still play videogames even after finishing university, finding a job and making babies

I was thinking this was like 15/16. What 19/20 year old is this immature

@@BakedBeans0 American Millennials.

It's ok. Now you know where you are at and see more clearly where you have been. It's hurts, a lot; it's ugly to see us in such a vulnerable and flawed light, but is important. It's important because only the we can build a better view of who we are and start to accept the fact they we are flawed, since we are human, and recognize it and start to work towards a healthy solution, since we are children of God, or have honest potential to become better humans; whichever you chose to believe. It's hard, but it's worth it; and being moved by a reflection of yourself in a different life, a different light, is just the first step towards recognition and change. And I believe we can change to be good, and then great. So yeah, have a nice day and life fellow human.

@@francescafrancesca3554 thank you for such beautiful words, man "The only way to see the light is going through the darkness"

@@mmax0122 Thank you for your time. You are right. When a weakness becomes a learning opportunity and then a strength, I think we are all a step closer to something great.

Lesson 2: Keep like, I dunno, 20 dollars in your pocket so you have another if you spend one on a bracelet or something

The lesson is too narrow! The actual lesson should be: don't ever put your value into a person's hand. A person, not necessarily a male.

Same lol

Why is it cute?

@@StefanyDjuba they were playing

@@rymle John hmu please if you have a tumblr write down its name here

@@magicmysticman Uhh why

u r killing it lately my man