The TRUTH About Prince Harry's Childhood TRAUMA & What Is Misunderstood | Dr. Gabor Maté

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@donutnz
@donutnz 11 місяців тому
Thank you for bringing a voice of compassion to the topic. If the whole debacle around Harry & Meghan has revealed anything, it's how much our society lacks understanding, empathy and compassion.
@jokoye8413
@jokoye8413 11 місяців тому
Society does not empathy
@lspag7415
@lspag7415 11 місяців тому
Unfortunately, he is still and always will be in the public eye. Sadly for him, he chose a wife who craves it while he looks to be traumatised by it. I hope he finds peace 🙏
@valkimura1053
@valkimura1053 11 місяців тому
That's half-true, I think. We've learned that today's society does not patronize those who are willing to damage their own families on a global stage. They generally won't patronize those caught lying or caught grossly exaggerating, either. Society in this way can set healthy boundaries and teach lessons. I think the problem that Harry had was trying to make the public his "therapist". He saw his mother try it, and it was successful for her in terms of great public support. But this is the age of social media. If Diana did the same today, people would confront her about traumatizing her children by airing her husband's sins to the world. They would ask how she could expose them to gossip, expose them to taunting in school, and to risk fracturing an emotional bond with their father. They would question why she was putting her emotional needs first, at the expense of her children's. Voices would bring tough love, as well as support, hate, craziness from the human family. Harry is receiving the overwhelming realities of the world that she did not. And hopefully, he'll come to accept responsibility for inviting it all in.
@RebekkaEngels
@RebekkaEngels 11 місяців тому
exactly!! I feel deep empathy for Harry's trauma.... He seems to be the only healthy person in a very dysfunctional ( Charles!!!! ) family
@mariatony40
@mariatony40 11 місяців тому
Thank you Gabor, to t😮ell what you think about Harry, how traumatised he was, and his mother and father both were. I really am surprised by the venom of so many people who judge him mercilessly. And the way the British press hunts him and his wife down is beyond believe. There is no compassion there, it seems, only hatred.
@kouritasvonkafthor468
@kouritasvonkafthor468 11 місяців тому
In Samos, the island where I was born, we say that "in order for a child to grow up properly, needs the participation of the whole village".
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
they have a whole village to themselves
@iloveFreedom.
@iloveFreedom. 9 місяців тому
❤🎉connection and love for Every Child yeahhhhhhhhhh, I want the whole planet to know and experience this kind of love...the parties would be Amazing!!!😊🌻🧡🎊
@iloveFreedom.
@iloveFreedom. 9 місяців тому
​@@martinadewsnap2337we all do....earth
@sushmaahuja508
@sushmaahuja508 2 місяці тому
At last heard someone try and understand the human side of the situation Wish there are more people like this
@gudfinnasvavarsdottir5962
@gudfinnasvavarsdottir5962 11 місяців тому
Thanks 🙏 If there is one man destroying the monarchy it is Piers Morgan. .... unbelievable how hatful he is and arrogant
@EYE_GOTCHA
@EYE_GOTCHA 11 місяців тому
“Hatful” 🎩 🧢 👒 😂
@sw7205
@sw7205 3 місяці тому
The hateful and arrogant is none other than Meghan Markle
@user-ym3xf6xp4c
@user-ym3xf6xp4c 24 дні тому
No. He presents unsavory truths. That is okay.
@kittybluett8887
@kittybluett8887 22 дні тому
@@user-ym3xf6xp4chis version
@cynthiajoeverett5798
@cynthiajoeverett5798 22 дні тому
@@user-ym3xf6xp4c No, he's hateful. It's shocking to listen to him.
@rosebud20
@rosebud20 7 місяців тому
This Is the first channel & man that talks Real Truth! Unless you have lost your mom young then you'll Never Know what he went through!!❤
@anastasia10017
@anastasia10017 6 місяців тому
like harry is the ONLY kid to have lost his mom too early ?? There are millions of kids who have lost their mom to car accidents, plane accidents, cancer, drug overdose, murder etc etc...
@salzwell25
@salzwell25 6 місяців тому
​@anastasia10017, nobody said he's the only one who lost a parent at a young age.
@Snack-well
@Snack-well Місяць тому
My granddaughter lost her daddy at age 3. She’s a bright, caring, compassionate, empathetic soul who would NEVER treat her mom the was Harry has his Dad, Grandparents, brother, sister-in-law. Harry has a choice in how he behaves. She’s 17 now, we couldn’t be more proud of her morals and character.
@kittybluett8887
@kittybluett8887 22 дні тому
@@anastasia10017for Harry it all played out in the public and it seems they were told to just get over it. Did you not watch the video, especially first part.
@gudfinnasvavarsdottir5962
@gudfinnasvavarsdottir5962 10 днів тому
@@Snack-well Harry is loving
@lesliefrost2222
@lesliefrost2222 10 місяців тому
How refreshing to hear a public voice grounded in true compassion.
@dapawap
@dapawap 11 місяців тому
The sad thing is most people in this world are dysfunctional look at how we treat animals, totally lacking in compassion!
@kimberleymarkova3641
@kimberleymarkova3641 11 місяців тому
You nailed it ❤
@suzyvegalicious5646
@suzyvegalicious5646 2 місяці тому
Yes correct, I agree totally.
@user-ym3xf6xp4c
@user-ym3xf6xp4c 24 дні тому
I run a animal sanctuary. We aren't all buying into the insanity. Have hope. But I have had social services called on me by detractors. I dare to shout.. emporer is naked😅
@gudfinnasvavarsdottir5962
@gudfinnasvavarsdottir5962 10 днів тому
We are one life, all so precious 💕
@marymaelo2162
@marymaelo2162 11 місяців тому
From reading some comments, it just shows how much we as a society are traumatized and don’t even realize it . We are unable to have compassion for other people and yet we make our own mistakes . to be human is to grow and be better tomorrow than today and hold space for others as they try to heal
@Koort1008
@Koort1008 11 місяців тому
If you want real healing, you need to get real and face the truth of what is.
@BloomingRose60
@BloomingRose60 11 місяців тому
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@themrs0827
@themrs0827 11 місяців тому
Amen
@Koort1008
@Koort1008 11 місяців тому
Let me hold the space for you to be brainwashed by the WEF and billionaire families in the USA, like the Priztkers, promoting and funding the trans agenda. Let me hold the space for you to be brainwashed by the WEF and their normalizing and legalizing PEDO relationships. Let me hold the space for your mental illness and call it compassion.
@resonatingspirit
@resonatingspirit 11 місяців тому
❤ 100 percent agree ❤ severely lacking in compassion and an unwillingness to realise their own pain has been triggered.
@gracie8458
@gracie8458 11 місяців тому
At last a positive conversation about Harry. Most of my friends talk about him with venom but I do my best to stand his corner just as these two very reputable men have.
@lynnees9828
@lynnees9828 9 місяців тому
I agree 100%. The hate is over the top. I blame that British Tabloid addiction. I like the couple, very much, and feel they are getting hammered by that tabloid fodder. The Royals did nothing to stop or help them.
@hightide4782
@hightide4782 7 місяців тому
@@ailith7955What did he say that was “vicious?” Bot Sentinel is a platform for detecting and tracking trollbots and untrustworthy social media accounts. They detected a smear campaign against Harry and Meghan that had all the hallmarks of being professionally created and maintained. It did one other thing as well - promote William and Kate. Let me take a wild guess who funded that campaign … It seems Harry and Meghan have committed the unpardonable sin of being more charismatic, attractive, and accomplished than William and Kate, so they’re considered a threat and targeted.
@user-tt3jb2do8m
@user-tt3jb2do8m 7 місяців тому
Most of your friends talk about him with venom, maybe they are reacting to the venom and lies, he has spoken about his family continuously. It's a pity he doesn't stand in their corner. People are allowed an opinion, just as you are, without it having to be venomous, just because it opposes yours.
@Mush2389
@Mush2389 6 місяців тому
@@user-tt3jb2do8mHow do you know he’s telling lies? He lived it and sold his story by putting it in a book. I’m no fan of Meghan but I always liked Harry and tried to keep an open mind. What if what he says is indeed true? I believe him.
@user-tt3jb2do8m
@user-tt3jb2do8m 6 місяців тому
@@Mush2389 You can believe him, you have every right, there's plenty that do. Equally others can not, and there's plenty that don't. I think the reason they get such backlash, because they contradict themselves, whether it's things they stand for, or their life encounters. People don't believe them, because the thing about being in the public life, especially with Harry from birth. Things he says can be refuted, by his own words, from one year to the next, one decade to the next, from one interview to the next, etc. They can easily be fact checked, and people do, to make a point. It's called proven lies. He's got the position he has, from merely being born into the family he slags off, and she's got her position, from being married to him, because of that family she slags off too. Live your best life, without your Titles, that connect you to the family you slag off. It's there only currency.
@leprechaunalley7207
@leprechaunalley7207 6 місяців тому
I love that you mention the gingers, because my mom, my sister and my younger brother are all gingers and deeply sensitive and they do have to do extra measures to manage their pain while at the same time they manage their pain very well. I am a ginger adjunct, and I am profoundly sensitive myself. People always tell me how nice I am and it surprises me because I think I’m just me and I’m not doing anything special.
@debrasmith4675
@debrasmith4675 10 місяців тому
Thank you! ‘A gale of venom.’ Is absolutely right. It should be considered the fingerprint of the UK.
@sarahkennedy1481
@sarahkennedy1481 11 місяців тому
I can understand the trauma of his mother's death but he also had a lot of money and support. I lost my mother at 13 saw her screaming with a tumour, my father had mh and could not cope. We had little money. I was told just get on with life and I had to. If you have to get on or sink you get on. He should now move on not just wine about everything in life.
@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 11 місяців тому
He is not whining.....he's trying to get ahead by starting foundations, marrying, having children, starting " Invictus games" All in the dam public eye. All the West does is judge, judge and judge when we don't want to understand.
@lisayasmine1283
@lisayasmine1283 11 місяців тому
That's so rich coming from a woman who has never been vilified by the all country by pess and tabloids. Whine about everything? It's his life why does it bother you? You moved on cause u were loved. Your dad never told ur mom that u were a spare after being born. Ur dad never left ur mom on that day just to spend time with his mistress. No one has a F right to tell others how and when to move on frm their trauma. H has been the scapegoat of his family n tabloids n the likes of u have always been quite. Please just move on from him n let him be . Keep ur nose off his business, he never forced you to read or listen to anything about him.
@thelivingrisi7233
@thelivingrisi7233 11 місяців тому
Money is controlled by his father, and eventually prince william. You have to suck up to them and be docile maintain good flow of allowance. If you're going to be a working royal, you cant take up other work. Your income has to come from the institution exclusively. It's a form of courtier control. It's how that family works, like a gilded cage exactly.
@sarahkennedy1481
@sarahkennedy1481 11 місяців тому
@@thelivingrisi7233 bit like normal employment
@pamelamckenzie2685
@pamelamckenzie2685 11 місяців тому
Money is nothing his mum is the number one some are strong and can move on some can not millions of pounds means nothing that not bring his mum back, i lost all my family i live on my own it was not easy but i had to change my life and find a new way not every one can do that. We need to stop blaming and understand some can cope some can not.
@jgreen8298
@jgreen8298 10 місяців тому
We all have trama, but not all of us have media and photographers following us around ,invading every area of our lives.
@rosehill9537
@rosehill9537 10 місяців тому
💯
@privateprivate4384
@privateprivate4384 10 місяців тому
Yes! I agree this invasion of privacy makes it almost impossible for a person like Harry to find the peace he needed. He was trapped in grief and trauma at the tragic loss of his mother. It is only now that he has found the love of a good woman that he feels he can let all that trauma out. Because now he feels safe.
@user-mi7zx2ki5o
@user-mi7zx2ki5o 10 місяців тому
Oh how sad blah blah fish cakes.
@kittybluett8887
@kittybluett8887 22 дні тому
Exactly
@fionanov1948
@fionanov1948 13 днів тому
The brit media and the brit national pastime of bullying and hate should be distressing to anyone with a brain. Speaking up about mental health takes strength and courage and those who whinge about talking about trauma is small minded. H. has made a sane important decision to live a better life and cares that his kids are treated better than he was.
@nancyadams4358
@nancyadams4358 11 місяців тому
From a family that abused and betrayed who I Am I have stood up to mine and told the world also. No more pretending. I admire and Trust what Harry needs; shame to those who criticize and I only see they want to bury the lies and trauma they never acknowledged in their own family’s. Where ever you are Harry, I understand and I will always care🪷
@ednalawrence3797
@ednalawrence3797 11 місяців тому
Harry and Meghan is expected to live with the disrespect thrown at them by family and media. Especially Meghan she should be grateful to be associated with this wealthy abusive family and how dare this black woman complain about their behavior towards her. When we all witnessed their disgusting attitude at the Commonwealth Service and the late Queens funeral Kate Camilla and Sophie were just plain and simple downright rude towards Meghan.
@monamorgan2588
@monamorgan2588 11 місяців тому
the problem is learning. He did not need to put down his family and criticize. he has children so he won't repeat the things that he did not like. He doesn't need to air the family secret or impose his idea not over his family but the public too. The other problem is the wife she is not normal so did not give him any support. WE never see his real kids in public and see how he treat them.
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
@@monamorgan2588 Protecting his children! He loves his kids.
@reneewarren273
@reneewarren273 11 місяців тому
A lot of people have trauma but it’s how we deal with it that matters. We can either learn from it and become stronger or we can forever play the victim… Edit: I respect that people have differing opinions, but if you disagree then you can choose to scroll on and comment elsewhere. I don’t think it’s necessary to get personal. After all, you don’t know me or my background. Just to clarify my original comment… I don’t talk about myself often, but I’m about the same age as Harry and I suffer from PTSD from my childhood (both my parents are narcs, histrionic too). My trauma was the result of events like the suicide of my biological father and constant physical and psychological abuse until I left home at the age of 18, so it’s safe to say that I understand triggers, trauma and the fight or flight response. I’ve been in and out of different therapies over the course of my life and I’ve also seen how my siblings live with their own trauma and the different paths we’ve all taken. So my comment was based on my personal experiences, it’s also my opinion, so as I said earlier, you can choose just to scroll on without responding.
@conniebalmer1448
@conniebalmer1448 11 місяців тому
By talking about your trauma helps one to get a gripe of the situation AND NOT PLAY VICTIM.
@Anna_Key
@Anna_Key 11 місяців тому
​@@conniebalmer1448 or become a complete pain in the arse to know.
@jaynefromwayne6223
@jaynefromwayne6223 11 місяців тому
@@Anna_Key You know Prince Harry?
@karadevereux1049
@karadevereux1049 11 місяців тому
You have missed the perspective, the Prince was a only a child when he experienced the greatest trauma. Your comment is very blunt.
@heatherjones5506
@heatherjones5506 11 місяців тому
​@@Anna_KeyYou don't know him. So you are clearly talking about someone else
@Dee33636
@Dee33636 10 місяців тому
My mother’s à Brit & was brought up to be cold & dismissive of any type of family abuse or trauma. I can relate to Harry. Look what speaking up did to his sense of belonging to his messed up family of origin. My speaking up has gotten me the same result - pushed out into the cold.
@missblue4699
@missblue4699 10 місяців тому
Me too ❤️‍🩹❤️
@user-mi7zx2ki5o
@user-mi7zx2ki5o 10 місяців тому
Grow a pair.
@lindamaguire4422
@lindamaguire4422 9 місяців тому
So, if you think all Brits are like that you're sadly mistaken. Think Harry is the messed up one, not the rest of his family. Who goes about admitting he's addicted to drink and drugs and expect anyone to take him seriously, Harry!
@user-mi7zx2ki5o
@user-mi7zx2ki5o 9 місяців тому
@@lindamaguire4422 Well said. Harry is a national embarrassmrnt. The way he and his wife treated the Queen and Prince Phillip is beyond contemptable.
@barbraluce5706
@barbraluce5706 7 місяців тому
He chose to leave the Royal Family. He chose to participate in the Oprah interview and to write a bitter book.
@rhu8842
@rhu8842 11 місяців тому
I got vilified when I didn't want to brush things under the carpet and decided to confront the pink elephant in the room. I understand Harry. I didn't want to live like a robot and be inauthentic to myself. Now Harry has a family, children he loves unconditionally, a loving wife, and mother in law that's providing love like a mother.
@bettinazwerdling9158
@bettinazwerdling9158 11 місяців тому
I certainly hope Harry has all those things.
@cc1k435
@cc1k435 11 місяців тому
He seems like he's the one in that family who's going to win at life, in the end.
@emc5500
@emc5500 11 місяців тому
Loving wife? She loves herself no one else. Oh and money and fame!
@rebeccabrawn1592
@rebeccabrawn1592 11 місяців тому
@@cc1k435 👍👍
@booksbucks7591
@booksbucks7591 11 місяців тому
I don’t think you know what you’re talking about you sound ridiculous! She had money and fame and was loved long before she met Harry! What do you want to do is verify her and you don’t know her get a life and stop being so poisonous
@ruthwilkinson2827
@ruthwilkinson2827 11 місяців тому
I'm grateful to you, Gabor and Rangan, for bringing this compassionate voice to the Harry 'situation'. I feel very sad about the family breakdown and hope that the brothers can one day see beyond their current differences, but it is difficult to see how that can happen when media (social and otherwise) persist in adding fuel to the flames of discord. All families have problems, but few are under so much external pressure. I wish Harry and Meghan, William and Kate, Charles and Camilla the best. I honestly believe that they are all caring people who genuinely want the best for each other, but they are stuck. More voices like yours are needed to take a more objective and genuinely concerned stance. I am sick of the vitriol.
@kristine6996
@kristine6996 11 місяців тому
The vitriol is dangerous.
@izzyakin9759
@izzyakin9759 11 місяців тому
Just a question do you still feel the same after the staged NYC chase by blackgrid who was called by them or his wife maybe. Or maybe the picture of her smiling at the back of the cab while Harry looked like a triggered mess. Or the tragic death of his mother been associated with that mockery of a snail paced car chase🤦🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️ At some point eyes need to open to the real truth. either our eyes or his eyes if it's such that the wife is the puppet master calling the shots.
@Du-Masses
@Du-Masses 11 місяців тому
@@izzyakin9759you are repeating Rupert Murdoch media talking points and not anything based on reality so your annoyance is built on fiction.
@izzyakin9759
@izzyakin9759 11 місяців тому
@Trash Panda 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣 It's okay oo. But FYi there has been footage from blackgrid the Meghan hired paps showing who has been driving recklessly blocking traffic. But its okay 👍🏾 I do note that none of that means anything to you. I am not rude. I respect your position 👌🏿.
@NobodyOrdinary
@NobodyOrdinary 11 місяців тому
@@Du-Massesit’s funny to me how any criticism of Harry or Meghan elicits this “blame the Murdoch business/man” yet Harry is employed with Murdoch’s wife at the Aspen institute, where they are BOTH working to make sure that WE, the regular citizens cannot have our speech - Unless it is All Positive for the elites, of which Harry definitely is one and will always be.
@joalicelevin8443
@joalicelevin8443 11 місяців тому
This is what I see in Harry. A human being. I love that. 👑♥I also miss Princess Dianna who was a Humanitarian. That, they have in common. Reflected in his demeanor. I would love to meet him.
@pb4614
@pb4614 11 місяців тому
If Gabor Maté would find himself, he would show us his most beautiful smile and make everyone smile!
@sokhna-sl4fp
@sokhna-sl4fp 11 місяців тому
He found himself, but wears the mask of this struggles.
@pb4614
@pb4614 11 місяців тому
I really have a different view on that.
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
he is sharing the pain of people suffering from trauma how is that fun?
@pb4614
@pb4614 8 місяців тому
@@martinadewsnap2337 it’s sad because they need to receive joy.
@suzyvegalicious5646
@suzyvegalicious5646 2 місяці тому
He is perfect as he is.
@josiedudley8451
@josiedudley8451 10 місяців тому
Harry had every right to leave the Royal Family and become financially independent. I admired him for that. But then they did the Oprah interview and made their issues with his family public. Very cruel and deceitful thing to do to his family.
@Rebel_AF
@Rebel_AF 6 місяців тому
Maybe worry less about other's decisions and focus more on your own mental health journey. That's more productive, yeah
@elenazegarra6461
@elenazegarra6461 11 місяців тому
How much our children need a hug. Depriving them of this brings several consequences. Both in the case of Harry, William and their father Charles, living in the Royal Family, which has been dysfunctional, is why Harry and his wife decide to distance themselves from the toxic family and have a more normal life for their children. Excellent opportunity to have a quieter life.
@mayrav1155
@mayrav1155 11 місяців тому
Well they are Philanthropist & Humanitarian they need to expose themselves to the public, but people think that a quiet life is to be Hermits.
@cynthiamartini8982
@cynthiamartini8982 11 місяців тому
Everyone in life has issues. The point of the British Royal Family is to give their people strength. To “never complain, and never explain”. To “keep calm and carry on” As Harry did not live up to this mantra, as his brother has, and certainly as the Queen has, he doesn’t belong in the royal family.
@jcpaintings
@jcpaintings 11 місяців тому
Prince Harry is the real victim of all these circumstances, he deserves respect from the public....and the media !!
@luciahermias9717
@luciahermias9717 10 місяців тому
P.morgan hate Harry with passion ,i don't understand why?
@theDandelionWay44
@theDandelionWay44 11 місяців тому
People want “The Prince” to play the part. When he doesn’t…they turf him.
@Bronte866
@Bronte866 10 місяців тому
Very simplistic and profoundly naive.
@carolineduff-riddell8109
@carolineduff-riddell8109 18 днів тому
True though
@fionanov1948
@fionanov1948 13 днів тому
H. threw off the royal handcuffs and refused to be someone who is trotted out on choreographed photo ops to keep the monarchy relevant. Kudos to him.
@happytoday333
@happytoday333 4 дні тому
Not just a prince. Would you go to a priest that was a sinner, or tune into a newsreader that didn't read the news, watch a footballer that played tennis instead of football? It's fine if a person wants to change their position in life. Harry, however, wanted to be treated and rewarded with the gilded gloves with which a prince is treated but doesn't want the role. Not just him but all around the world, you don't get both. The money or the bag? The chicken or the egg? When he chose to step away, that's fine. But to chose to step away and then get ratty because you haven't got a house being kept for you here, staff paid for here, clothes there, security everywhere, and the cherry on top "my father has cut us off financially ", 5 million a year to tide you over! Again, no one pays the newsreader who doesn't read the news. Harry had audacious expectations while simultaneously saying, "I never asked to be a prince, but reward me as if I am one forever more."
@happytoday333
@happytoday333 4 дні тому
​@fionanov1948 I don't see that, he might have 'thrown off the handcuffs as you put it" but then he got all nasty and petty because he expected princely rewards despite not doing duty princely duty. Would you quit your job and have an expectation of reward, ongoing?
@merichamarais9539
@merichamarais9539 8 місяців тому
What a breathe of freshair. The people here in UK seem so cold. Treat the royals like their property. Harry had guts to break away. Thank you. I always felt this about Harry. I feel for William.
@MissCane9
@MissCane9 11 місяців тому
A public therapy session? How does that work for one who's traumatized because of a lack of privacy?
@wendyannh
@wendyannh 9 місяців тому
The difference is in his having choice in the matter.
@EvgeniiaDolinenko
@EvgeniiaDolinenko 8 місяців тому
I guess he has the right to decide.
@hightide4782
@hightide4782 7 місяців тому
He’s gone public to help others. If that’s too hard for you to understand, so be it.
@apebass2215
@apebass2215 3 місяці тому
​@@hightide4782 how has he specifically helped others?
@blackenergy4489
@blackenergy4489 11 місяців тому
Harry, we have your back and always will. Do what you do, and do so confidently. You have earned our respect 🙏
@mayc8674
@mayc8674 11 місяців тому
Using the front exit after an event calling the attention of photographers then putting out on media that they almost died like his mother did many years ago is shameful way of dealing with his problems.
@Anna_Key
@Anna_Key 11 місяців тому
@blackenergy Seeing you support and appreciate what they do, hopefully you'll get to experience a love, or a child, like Harry and Meghan in your own life 💛 🤎 🙏🏾
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
@@mayc8674 your comment is based on journalism trash - she was there ot get an award for her work. Others there got awards for their work and not one journalists shared anything about the celebration of the women there - they chose to find trash: horrible journalists.
@sheerwoodsquirrel
@sheerwoodsquirrel 6 місяців тому
Thank you so much for shining a light on the toxicity of our attitudes towards mental health and the way the media can fuel societies judgemental attitudes to it. As a retired mental health worker my career took me from the "mad or bad" views of institutional psychiatry to community psychiatry and counselling to the more enlightened theories of psychodynamic psychotherapy. Your wonderfully compassionate take on this topic has not only affirmed many of my own thoughts and beliefs my own intergenerational family traumas have contaminated my own parenting practice but also has given validity to many of my own arguments against the distorted social media reports about Prince Harry and the Royal family. Thank you for shining light into this dark place.
@Patrick.Edgar.Regini
@Patrick.Edgar.Regini 10 місяців тому
"A multitude may be needed to perpetuate a great falsehood, but only one is required to unveil its truth" P. Regini in speaking of Mr Alejandro Betts Goss. THANK YOU Mr Gabor Maté and Dr Rangan Chatterjee for helping to dispel the bullying brutally unjust treatment of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle perpetuated by certain media sectors of of the UK, US and Australia.
@ft7096
@ft7096 11 місяців тому
The media has been too mean and wick to Harry and Magan. I pray this should stop. They left the Royal family because the media would not back off Megan. She also had issues with mental health.
@buddy6743
@buddy6743 11 місяців тому
The criticism, negative press about Megain is due to her own bad behavior and hypocrisy. She's a narcissist.
@janetcorbin2642
@janetcorbin2642 10 місяців тому
Seen a picture or part of a video of them in backseat of car after visiting or being part of something royal. They both looked EXTREMELY tormented and stressed! RASCISM does not just happen due to colour ... . Am sure most know. Except it is what Meghan is feeling and finds intolerable to live with, however she tells lies, witch is most ridiculous. 😢
@proverbs3150
@proverbs3150 11 місяців тому
I noticed that Rangan mentioned “friction” in his family. He did not go into detail because he is mature and has wisdom. They worked it out as a family and are closer now. Once betrayal and mistrust takes place within a family, it is often never recovered.
@Lucysmom26
@Lucysmom26 11 місяців тому
Thank you for saying this. I have been sympathetic to Harry since he left the royal family and I eagerly bought Spare the same week it was released. It almost feels like I read a different book to the one Dr. Mate read. Nothing about the man in Spare says "mentally healthy, an example of someone doing the hard work to overcome struggles and trauma." His worst and pettiest attacks are saved for his brother, who went through exactly the same trauma Harry did and who is not responsible (neither is Harry) for the dysfunctional family he comes from. When he had the chance to show grace in the book, he did not. When he had the chance to take responsibility for some of his mistakes, he shied away. Honestly the book made me dislike him. Working through trauma is one thing. Blaming everyone around you (for money, no less) is another. I'm genuinely shocked that Gabor Mate, whose work I feel is very important, seems to have bought it so thoroughly. If others had treated Harry the way he treats them in Spare, everyone would see how terrible it is. But because he's Prince Harry it's OK? I don't get it.
@ALT-vz3jn
@ALT-vz3jn 11 місяців тому
I agree with you. Harry is extremely self-entitled and shows arrested development; he’s making a public spectacle of airing his dirty laundry. It’s sad that his father didn’t give him enough attention to get him some mental health help when he needed it as a teen, but Harry is almost a middle-aged man, there’s no excuse at this point for him to behave so immaturely at this point.
@helenh6930
@helenh6930 10 місяців тому
I am really shocked the way Prince Harry betrayal by his family so Sad appreciate him he stood by his wife. I pray for Them
@hilaryturnover2775
@hilaryturnover2775 10 місяців тому
If he wanted privacy so much why is Harry let his therapist talk online. Isn't that supposed to be sacred, between Therapist and patient
@Caterina...3
@Caterina...3 10 місяців тому
He didn't mention it because the interview wasn't about him....DUH
@nanettecormier8513
@nanettecormier8513 10 місяців тому
We heard that interview so differently. I understood that Dr Mate is not a psychiatrist. It was truly sad.
@chetnaprakash5102
@chetnaprakash5102 11 місяців тому
Whether or not publicising his pain is helping Harry heal is something that only time will tell. The one thing we can say about members of the Royal Family - with all its quirks - is that they have lived very long lives, and generally over a period of time found themselves. If stress and lack of love kills, it is certainly not killing any of them. It is to be seen whether Harry achieves the same outcome or he crashes and burns. My life experience tells me that trying to resolve trauma in public only exacerbates it and turns it into entertainment. Whether Dr Mate helped Harry or turned him into a spectacle is something that we will only know in 10 years time.
@HagarLevy
@HagarLevy 11 місяців тому
Spot on
@eh3477
@eh3477 11 місяців тому
Very well said. There's a difference between, "I have X trauma, and I'm working it out, and here's how you too can find mental health resources". Vs publicizing every detail of trauma, public blaming, and perpetual victimhood, etc. The second doesn't result in much personal growth.
@rosagala201
@rosagala201 10 місяців тому
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@sharonsekhon9475
@sharonsekhon9475 10 місяців тому
I believe he has stated being honest with the public is part of his healing.
@persephone1062
@persephone1062 10 місяців тому
@@eh3477 With all due respect, I totally disagree w/your analysis that Harry is public blaming and claiming victimhood. Rather what I do see is a toxic press that insists on painting Harry in a negative light for whatever purposes they believe justifies such unprofessional behavior!
@sallysmith4492
@sallysmith4492 6 місяців тому
Thank you for showing compassion to Harry and daring to discuss the terrible ostracizing of his deep wounds at the hands of the Royal Family from the British tabloids and now right wing media outlets in America. This public narrative about Harry's story was desperately needed to counterattack those vicious hounds who supposedly are providing a journalist's viewpoint. God help us all!!!
@firefly5574
@firefly5574 10 місяців тому
This is such a useful, insightful and compassionate interview. Thank you. I’m appalled by intensity of the bullying and taunting flowing so forcefully towards Harry. I can’t understand the level of hatred. So sad. So unforgiving.
@maxsheerin8219
@maxsheerin8219 10 місяців тому
Totally agree. The people who are venting about him, hate themselves too.
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 10 місяців тому
Maybe because he’s a racist hypocrite and picks and chooses and contradicts what he says
@janetcorbin2642
@janetcorbin2642 10 місяців тому
Is why mental health is so important, to learn how to move on and forgive. Am so glad Harry gives his children hugs, SO THAT THEY WILL FEEL HUMAN .......!! Read some of Harry's Spare book. Such beautiful English, well-spoken and sensitive is music to my ears. ❤
@persephone1062
@persephone1062 10 місяців тому
@@janetcorbin2642 👍💯
@privateprivate4384
@privateprivate4384 10 місяців тому
@johannagrace7768
@johannagrace7768 10 місяців тому
I don’t follow stories about Harry, but I do read and listen to Gabor Mate. I can certainly relate to the difficulties that a family member can experience when they stop participating in the dysfunction. It is very difficult to remain connected to people who are stuck in denial and refuse to recognise the ‘love’ they are offering is actually very damaging. If you care for a person, you make an effort to understand them. When you understand that your treatment of them is harmful, you make a commitment to change. When you prioritise your love for a person, it is easy to change. But when you have other, higher priorities, you will sacrifice the person who is highlighting the problem. You will sacrifice them and you will claim that they are the problem. Harry is a scapegoat. The scapegoat is not the problem. The problem is the problem.
@persephone1062
@persephone1062 10 місяців тому
Cogent commentary!!!
@LaniAnne402
@LaniAnne402 10 місяців тому
His brother was awful to Harry. Trying to talk about how the situation could work, William got so angry that he punched Harry so hard that Harry fell, broke the dogs feeding bowl and cut his head! If that’s what happens when you try to TALK with your family and members respond with physical attacks, how can anyone think this family is doing well? Harry and Meghan made the right choice!
@helveticaification
@helveticaification 9 місяців тому
@@LaniAnne402 You have read one version of events. Other versions will be available.
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 8 місяців тому
@@LaniAnne402 yeah, i remember, the story in Spare, but i dont know if its true...u think?
@hightide4782
@hightide4782 7 місяців тому
Well said. 👍
@stepintoyourpower
@stepintoyourpower 11 місяців тому
I really admire Harry for speaking publicly about his trauma. I think he is a true renegade, a truth teller and an inspiration. It takes a lot of courage to do that and I sense that he genuinely wants to help people by sharing his story. He's definitely helped me. I was silent about my trauma for way too long. When high profile speak out about what they have been through they inspire others to do the same and help us know that we are not the only one. I really admire famous people who use their fame to help others. I recommend the series he did with Oprah called The Me You Can't See for anyone who hasn't seen it. I felt really validated when I watched it. Whatever traumatic experiences you have had to endure in your life, you are not alone, there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of and you deserve to be heard, seen and supported❤
@GS-ff5dd
@GS-ff5dd 11 місяців тому
People need to see the human being that dealt trauma that is still affecting him now, people seem to think just because he was born in a royal family, he should not feel the effects of that trauma.
@ALT-vz3jn
@ALT-vz3jn 11 місяців тому
Literally no one is thinking that. You’re just pulling that out of your butt
@pdias8469
@pdias8469 11 місяців тому
From the time Harry was born I watched him grow and the trauma he went through. I read the Spare and I love this riveting book. Everyone must read this book. Royal family is very disappointing and dysfunctional. He is a hero in this lifetime. Thanks for this podcast. Dr. Gabor Mate you said it all as is. Dr. Gabor I witnessed everything. Dr. Gabor Mate I know your podcast will reach far and wide and people be better listening to your lesson. Dr. Chatterjee of all the people on earth the royals are the most dysfunctional race. They have no soul.
@littleangel18
@littleangel18 11 місяців тому
Yeah I feel for his brother William who ALSO lost his mother and has been backstabbed by his jealous envious younger brother and the toxic narcissist Markle.
@NobodyOrdinary
@NobodyOrdinary 11 місяців тому
How is what you @pdias8469 said Not Hateful? Harry’s book is ADMITTEDLY full of lies about his friends and family, and he has violated their privacy even as he is screaming to Be given his own. You’re willing to judge his family with hate in your heart whilst also proclaiming that Everyone must be as virtuous as 👼you 👺
@lorraineprahm5461
@lorraineprahm5461 11 місяців тому
Wow how can you know these things? You're an expert on souls ?Most dreadful comment ever.Fear for your own soul and seek treatment.
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
@@littleangel18 you are certainly no angel to speak evil about Meghan is not toxic, narcissistic....,
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
@@NobodyOrdinary you did not read the book.
@jaycatalyst1313
@jaycatalyst1313 4 місяці тому
We’re so lucky to have Dr. Mate. Thank you for your love and compassion 🙏💜
@Anna_Key
@Anna_Key 11 місяців тому
Just because the Royal Family don't hug in public, does not mean they don't hug at home. What insanity is this to judge a family by their tabloid articles and lack of Instagram "perfection".
@measylvester9083
@measylvester9083 11 місяців тому
Crimea river its the same thing you do to Harry and Meghan hate them bace on the tabloid nonsens
@heatherjones5506
@heatherjones5506 11 місяців тому
They don't. It is frowned upon.
@Anna_Key
@Anna_Key 11 місяців тому
@@heatherjones5506 at home they do, just not in public
@heatherjones5506
@heatherjones5506 11 місяців тому
@Anna_Key Actually, no, they do not. In the 50 plus years I have known them and spent time in with them I have yet to witnessed that kind of affection from the Queen, Philip or Charlie.
@Anna_Key
@Anna_Key 11 місяців тому
@@heatherjones5506 you don't know what happens at home. You only see their public persona.
@olivecharles4177
@olivecharles4177 10 місяців тому
William went through losing his mother too and knowing he was one day to be king, was not allowed to be himself. He had/has to carry that burden. Prince Harry was more allowed to be himself than William. The Royal family are dysfunctional but so is most families. Harry is a man now not a 12 year old boy.
@TessAgaidSmith
@TessAgaidSmith 11 місяців тому
There are many people who has gone through life's difficulties & trauma but Harry is extra ordinary that becomes destructive not only to himself but destroying & hurting his other members of his own family.
@rosehill9537
@rosehill9537 11 місяців тому
"taken aim" at his family. That is a direct quote of the media narrative. That narratove is to shift the conversation. He spoke of them cause that's his lived his experience. Of course they are mentioned. He spoke on his trauma his healing. Please try to see the media narrative. it's toxic to the real conservation going on.
@peaceandlove544
@peaceandlove544 11 місяців тому
I have all the compassion for Prince Harry. He has a broken heart since childhood and still he wanted to find love, family. I may not agree with some things but I am not in his shoes, and I thank I am lucky to have anonimity.
@bernadette573
@bernadette573 11 місяців тому
That book was ghostwritten, so I have no idea why Mate continues to diagnose the ghostwriter through his words. I thought 'diagnosing' anyone through a fictionalized narrative was a no no.
@jenniferthomas7393
@jenniferthomas7393 11 місяців тому
If you listen to the interview again Gabor refers to his one on one personal discussion with Harry repeatedly. He’s not analysing via a ghost written book…
@bernadette573
@bernadette573 11 місяців тому
@@jenniferthomas7393 That's what he said he did in his first "interview"--that he made his diagnosis from reading the book. He repeats it here. Not listening to him again.
@HansenFT
@HansenFT 11 місяців тому
Do you know what ghostwriting means? It's similar to how written interviews are made. The interviewee doesn't write their own responses. But it's still their thoughts if it's a legitimate interview.
@bernadette573
@bernadette573 11 місяців тому
@@HansenFT J R Moehringer has given interviews on this very subject, so yes, I have a clue what "ghostwriting" means and how he broke the rules in Spare. Apparently, you don't know.
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
@@bernadette573 you are deaf and blind and want to continue to think what you think. Your mind is made up - it is sickening to read your comments.
@lilliestephens6195
@lilliestephens6195 11 місяців тому
All human beings are cable of making mistakes, no one is perfect.🤔
@jacquiebain9148
@jacquiebain9148 11 місяців тому
What great sadness to hear about this generational deprivation within Harry’s Royal family. What Great Joy to know that Harry is trying to ensure his children do not suffer deprivation like he did. Harry has the perfect mate in Meghan to ensure their children are cuddled and loved to break that multi-generational deprivation.
@kimberleymarkova3641
@kimberleymarkova3641 11 місяців тому
5:40 true. The view is complicated further by the continuous hate, deeply vicious hatred, projected at Meghan. In fact he is is continuous fight or flight and impossible for him to heal as long as he is the target of tabloïd and troll venom. Wish him strength and love and peace.
@MPZambrano1977
@MPZambrano1977 11 місяців тому
They are only in the tabloids because they seek publicity, through interviews aired to millions, through Netflix, through books....etc. ALL instigated by them.... They would be ignored otherwise.
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
@@MPZambrano1977 'They are only in the tabloids because they seek publicity...' It is not clever to write this and give a reason for journalists to write trash. It is so wrong. Not to figure out that the media is responsible for the trash they write and how they cause trauma instead of love, compassion and a better world 'truth is peace = trash is not truth an dnot peace. Where is the celebration of good for peace.
@hussainanoordeen5754
@hussainanoordeen5754 10 місяців тому
Meghan was adored. She did not know that?
@hussainanoordeen5754
@hussainanoordeen5754 10 місяців тому
Dr. Gabor you did not touch on Harry not meeting his father in law. An old man, very ill. What do you call that attitude??? Why does he not look for Mr. Markle? He has enough resources and influence to do so...
@helenh6930
@helenh6930 10 місяців тому
Thank you bringing a voice for Prince Harry.
@Mercuryrising56627
@Mercuryrising56627 10 місяців тому
I always thought a psychiatrist has to keep his patient's data secret. I certainly wouldn't continue with a psychiatrist spilling my problems all over the media.
@kessa892
@kessa892 9 місяців тому
This segment is referring to a conversation that Harry and Gabor had publicly. Gabor isn't revealing anything that Harry hadn't already revealed on camera himself so nothing said here is secret. Besides, if Harry genuinely had an issue with it, I doubt this video would be up, so we can assume that it's fine.
@Bibian1973
@Bibian1973 7 місяців тому
Gisela you are taking issue with what Gabor is saying about Harry? Haha you are delusional!
@theworldofjuniperthecat1307
@theworldofjuniperthecat1307 6 місяців тому
Yes.
@pinkifloyd7867
@pinkifloyd7867 2 місяці тому
People making assumptions tend to be all wrong and make an Axyz#@ of themselves all the time 😅😂🤣...
@Dolphin369
@Dolphin369 6 місяців тому
I can’t imagine what it must’ve been like to grow up in an institution like the RF. I would say a rarefied environment like that lacked expressions of love and warmth. The focus is more on public duty and service. If the RF and the people around them identified with their roles very seriously, it would be a very surreal experience to deal with so much formality, protocol, masks and personas. I’d say “gilded cage” is apt. But also utterly surreal like puppets in a theatre On top of that the relationship with the public is disturbing from my point of view, where they are treated as Icons- venerated and separate to, but also a sense of ownership by, the general public. People projecting their own selves, ideals, devotion and love or hate on to them all the time. I’m saying it’s disturbing to be having that kind of experience and relationship with the world I’m obviously speaking from my perspective as an outsider. Imagine being born into that, it’s all normalised. But you’d know something wasn’t right, something is missing. How can any of us judge Harry really, we have no idea. It was/is a different reality he was born into A lot of anger and venom is directed at him for speaking out against his family. I haven’t followed this much or read his book…but I’ve read a fair few comments here and elsewhere about Harry hurting his “loving family”. This is quite complex as there seems to be a lot of projection and idealisation going because they are the/ “our” ROYAL family. “How dare he!?” Not saying they weren’t loving in the best way they could, you could actually say that about every family. But of course they nonetheless can cause a huge amount of damage and pass on generational trauma. I understand I’m going to be lacking nuance about the queen saying they can’t be half in/ half out. However that is also a common pattern in dysfunctional families. You will be scapegoated and cut off if you don’t tow the family line. If Harry’s behaviour is a little worrying at times as I’ve heard people say, I wouldn’t be surprised. I’d say he’s having a colossal culture shock having so much freedom, and adjusting to “normal” life as a civilian. He’s also had a monumental loss with being effectively cut off from his family and the RF institution. He could be having an identity crisis, as anyone would who has gone though so much change. Especially difficult in a public facing role where there is so much judgment directed at him. I’d say give him some time and he’ll find himself. He’ll gather up his true inner strength and power, beyond anything he had when in the RF. I believe he’s got a VERY big role, yet to be played out. He is an instigator of change. And that is always going to be messy, chaotic and met with resistance, especially so when going against the force of the monarchy. But I do believe ultimately change is inevitable, and also needed. And Harry is still playing a big part in the monarchy, whether he is recognised as a member of it or not. He is really spotlighting the monarchy for our attention. Whether the monarchy will ultimately survive is the question, but it will definitely need to evolve and adapt.
@mikedonovan4768
@mikedonovan4768 10 місяців тому
The negative comments/diatribes in the video are quite revealing. Harry is just as human as the rest of us. Thank you Dr Chatterjee for interviewing Dr Mate. 👍
@ananyab3459
@ananyab3459 11 місяців тому
Really appreciate this support for Harry. Reading Spare made me really understand him and his struggles, and it is horrible that society is going after him and his wife in this way. I hope this vitriol will pass.
@Anna_Key
@Anna_Key 11 місяців тому
Yes, hopefully society will leave him alone and he'll stop getting into the media. And seeing you support him, hopefully you'll get to experience a love, or a child, like Harry and Meghan in your life 💛🤎 Good luck.
@pwood6532
@pwood6532 11 місяців тому
You do know that spare is full of disproven lies.harry is not very bright and has done way too many drugs and has alcohol problems.
@MPZambrano1977
@MPZambrano1977 11 місяців тому
I personally hope, that the vitriol of Harry and Meghan against his birth family will pass.
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 10 місяців тому
Spare was propaganda - he conveniently left out bits about his racial slurs towards Pakistani soliders … he only told you what he wanted you to hear
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 10 місяців тому
It’s interesting how he’s only concerned with reconnecting with the RF but niether of them have made any effort to reconnect with the dying father that single handed my raised Meghan - they’re all entitled full of shit people like the whole monarchy
@katetucker1452
@katetucker1452 11 місяців тому
I look forward to Harry moving on from his ":hurt people hurt others" phase. I would love for him to have a redemption arc.
@ALT-vz3jn
@ALT-vz3jn 11 місяців тому
That won’t happen until he gets rid of his narcissistic harpy.
@katetucker1452
@katetucker1452 11 місяців тому
@@ALT-vz3jn I suspect you're onto something.
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
@@ALT-vz3jn that is such a venomous comment. How can you feel good writing such unwarranted comments: what do you get, Horrible!
@gerriedoll154
@gerriedoll154 11 місяців тому
I am so sorry for Harry !! Really he is only human and stand alone !! Wishing he could come and live here in Namibia !! He will be happy here and will found love and peace of mind !!!
@user-nw3tq2ek8w
@user-nw3tq2ek8w 11 місяців тому
He will certainly be accommodated in Africa
@faehse47
@faehse47 11 місяців тому
I totally agree you can see the trauma when he is around the press or his family in england.i wish him a happy loving life for him and his family in america. A really strong person fighting for his future
@iamlpinthe312
@iamlpinthe312 11 місяців тому
Let’s be clear about a few things… Harry alone wasn’t traumatized by the death of his mother. Unlike his brother, Harry didn’t have the pressure on him of being a future king and having to comport yourself accordingly. He was given so much slack from the public for his transgressions, from the Nazi uniform outfit to the drug use , crazy Vegas, etc. He could have left the Royal family without writing such personal ( and subjective) things in a ‘tell all ‘ and without dragging the family through the trenches. If he actually lived out the privacy that he claims he so desperately wants then there’s room for empathy. He has done quite the opposite. Regardless of the reasons,he is not a child. He has the access to the best therapy money can buy. There are no excuses for his behavior. I have lived through the wreckage of a narcissist and it’s never enough for them.
@kessa892
@kessa892 11 місяців тому
This is a really invalidating and insensitive response. Are you saying that Harry isn't entitled to his trauma because his brother was, at the time, a notch above him in the line to the throne? All royals (including those that aren't second to the throne) have immense pressures on them to conform to their social roles lest they be hammered by the media for not living up to expectations. Every member of this family has been given slack for one thing or another - it's the reality of their privilege. One thing i'll say is that Harry has lived his entire life in the spotlight. For decades, the tabloid media have gotten away with distorting and mischaracterizing the truth about Harry and his family. So, I understand why he has decided that he wants to finally take control of the narrative of his own life in a public way. Contrary to what everyone says, he hasn't dragged his family through the trenches. He's never denigrated or belittled anyone in his family - the media does that. It seems that people just like to think that because he is spotlighting a side of his family that is less than perfect. Even more, Harry is doing the unthinkable in British society: talking publicly about his mental health issues. As a side note, empathy is not conditional. If you're naturally empathetic, your empathy is given freely without judgment, no matter the situation. You don't have to agree with someone or support their behaviour to empathise with them.
@Laura-lc2io
@Laura-lc2io 11 місяців тому
@@kessa892 Difference is Harry and his wife are using his mother death as a weapon against his brother (who is only 2 years older). While William stayed strong, moved on and is using his experience to give strength to other young people. And stop with that bs about empathy. EMPATHY IS CONDITIONAL. And it should be. That's what we have brains for - to judge. Without it we wouldn't be able to learn anything. People who don't use it are easy to be fooled or abused. You wouldn't feel empathy towards Dahmer or Watts. Would you?
@kessa892
@kessa892 11 місяців тому
@@Laura-lc2io And people like you are EXACTLY what I'm talking about - you're just pulling stories out of your ass at this point! Harry's using his mother's death to get at Will... in what universe does this even make sense?! Your evidence being that you dislike what he's done so he MUST have nefarious intentions? Harry has been incredibly open and vulnerable about his experience with losing his mother and its highly insensitive to even suggest an ulterior motive when you have zero evidence to back up your claim. Empathy is NOT conditional. I won't even press this point even further because only empaths will understand that expressing compassion is a natural response to hearing about somebody's struggles. If you don't feel that way, then I'm sorry - you sound like you haven't been modeled unconditional compassion from those around you. I understand Dahmer had a horrible upbringing which contributed significantly to his sociopathy - I feel compassion for this and I'm sorry to anyone that has had to face abuse or dysfunction in their childhood. Doesn't mean I agree with his actions (didn't you read what I said above?). Idk who Watts is.
@lindaeasley5606
@lindaeasley5606 11 місяців тому
@@kessa892 Only narcissists need their feelings validated Harry's mental health focus is a grift. He is the last one to speak on the subject. All he's done is profit by trashing his family .Poor Harry shits on everyone because he lost his mother 🤮 Many people suffer some kind of trauma. It's an inevitable part of life. At some point we must move on take on grown up responsibility for our grown up behavior. My sibling commited suicide when I was 15. My aunt and uncle died in a car accident and left behind 8 kids. JFK Jr was 3 and his sister 6 when their father got his head blown off in front of the world. Life moves on ,we all learn to get past tragedies. Harry is not special
@kessa892
@kessa892 11 місяців тому
@@lindaeasley5606 I'm afraid you're terribly, terribly mistaken. Validation is a fundamental part of maintaining a healthy emotional state. Everyone needs it. All validation refers to is the process of being understood and accepted by your family and peers. Giving validation is showing that you care about someone. If your spouse is upset about something, do you shut them out and tell them to get over themselves? Or do you sit with them, listen to their feelings and concerns, accept them for what they are and help them to feel better? The latter is validation. Narcissists need a constant supply of validation, it's true, because they often don't receive any as children. They're willing to use and hurt people to get it. This is not to say that all children who don't receive validation turn out to be narcissists. Based on what I've seen, Harry now seems very emotionally grounded - narcissists rarely are. He's definitely come a long way. Btw, vulnerating yourself by sharing your personal story (as Harry has done) is not a symptom of narcissism! If so, then that means that anyone who has ever written an autobiography is a narcissist, which is obviously absurd. I'm truly sorry to hear about your sibling, aunt and uncle - that must have been incredibly difficult for your family to go through. It's true that life goes on and among the best ways to do so is to grieve openly with loved ones. Grief is an important part of heartbreak recovery and its important to get it right from the start so it doesn't transform into 'complicated grief' - when painful emotions don't lessen with time. It's apparent that Harry was dealing with complicated grief for a long time. By going to therapy and doing the work, Harry is taking responsibility of his feelings. He's even gone a step further by sharing with the world that it's ok to not be ok when you don't receive the right support during times of grief. Harry is certainly not the last one to speak on the subject. There is a major stigma around mental illness and many are unwilling to even acknowledge it. It was revealed in the interview that Harry and William, together, wanted to campaign in raising awareness around mental health struggles - surely the first in the family to do so. Unfortunately the Queen disapproved and they were told to focus on something else. It's heartening to see that Harry has continued to speak on something that is clearly important to him now that he has the freedom to do so.
@beepresentthismomentisagif7930
@beepresentthismomentisagif7930 11 місяців тому
Ty ty ty I appreciate this truth this is very sad I applaud his courage ❤️😌🫂
@carola.campbell86
@carola.campbell86 10 місяців тому
I lost my mom also at a young age. But my grandmother and Aunt pulled me through with love. Sometimes it was difficult but most of the time I made my life with the help of god. The death date I’m. Very sad but my life my family help me and I know I will see her again. I wonder if Harry knows Jesus as his Savior the comforter. He is not comforted nor has he had a loving life. I’m sorry for him.
@auntyshakira747
@auntyshakira747 11 місяців тому
So sad to hear people sending Dr Gabor venomous messages just because he has a Compassionate heart! So shocking!😮
@yvettep1093
@yvettep1093 11 місяців тому
These people see what you and Gabor Mate don’t see. That’s the difference. We all can see the exaggerations, the lies, and the manipulation. I think Gabor Mate refuses to address it. It doesn’t matter if you were traumatized or whatever in life. We all have choices, ok? You can either deal with things in a dignified manner, or make sure you vilify the people who love and care about you to make you look like a victim. Harry will reap what he sows.
@MPZambrano1977
@MPZambrano1977 11 місяців тому
What is the content of those venom messages sent to Mr Gabor?...sounded to me like some of his followers stated that they had decided to unfollow him because they did not agree with his opinion or actions. That is not venom.
@helenamaria710
@helenamaria710 11 місяців тому
Gabor will NEVER show any other side other than overflowing compassion as that is his persona. I lived in Vancouver near the east side and just before leaving the city I had to clean up some junkie's S__T in front of my door with rags and buckets and bleach. It was NOT from a dog. I recall stepping over those sleeping in doorways, dried blood on their legs from the needles. Needle cleanups in the early morning. Gabor lived apart from them in a nice area of Vancouver. I left the city. It is easy to feel compassion watching UKposts. And somehow easier to feel it for some rich prince - who insists his kiddies carry royal titles! - and doesn't smell from not bathing and has good skin as he doesn't eat from the garbage and sleep on the street!
@ALT-vz3jn
@ALT-vz3jn 11 місяців тому
@@helenamaria710Gabor is using this to draw attention to himself. Also notice he doesn’t talk about Meghan’s blatant narcissism. Harry is not a narcissist. And tbh I don’t believe they have children, there are just too many inconsistencies. I think Harry is stuck in a trap he can’t get out of.
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
@@yvettep1093 so why are you not making the choice of love and compassion. Why are you throwing the first stone in response to a very compassionate interview, Why vilify Harry?
@noreenjenny7039
@noreenjenny7039 11 місяців тому
Resonated very well! Much thanks for bringing it up.
@dominiquemall9014
@dominiquemall9014 10 місяців тому
I agrée i feel and command Prince Harry fir his courage and the best rewards of all will be his children that in the future will thank him for his courage This is not easy to speak up against the monarchy
@julienelson1392
@julienelson1392 10 місяців тому
Thank you for this video. I’ve heard Gabor Mate’ talk about generational trauma before and it is so true. I see it in my own family. Queen Elizabeth became queen at a young age after her father died. Did she even get to mourn her own father’s death or was she even taught that that is possible. It’s no wonder Charles turned out the way he did. Continue your journey into mental freedom Prince Harry.
@lostundgefunden8023
@lostundgefunden8023 10 місяців тому
and let's hope for Harry he gets clean and sober.
@carolcasey5441
@carolcasey5441 10 місяців тому
@@lostundgefunden8023 🙏
@corneliasantiago9372
@corneliasantiago9372 11 місяців тому
Sad really he’s just trying to be himself but even his brother doesn’t underdtand him even his father too, Harry is Harry no matter what no filters he says what on his mind but the haters and newscaster is unbelievable, bless you and be brave God is watching you!
@MPZambrano1977
@MPZambrano1977 11 місяців тому
He is being himself by throwing a lot of spite against his brother, father and more....and please, do not blame the press, because we have reached our own conclusions from what we have heard coming out of their mouths, during interviews, netflix, and books which Harry and his wife instigated to promote their victimhood...
@elainegoad9777
@elainegoad9777 10 місяців тому
It seems like "Harry" is more important than the rest of us peasants who grew up more emotionally deprived and with hardships much greater than "Prince Harry". Harry has the economic means to have many material posessions and and pay for all the mental health an medical care he will ever need. He's in a position to meet all kinds of people, make friends. and earn millions. I'm a person whose mother abandoned me and my sister as a child, been widowed and divorced and live in low income housing and can't afford the medical and things I need and no one is asking if they can help me so Harry has so many advantages than the majority of us peasants. Harry's not the the only child who lost a parent to violence and didn't receive the emotional support he/she needed. My god there are thousands upon thousands around the world suffering much greater than Harry.
@pmc8119
@pmc8119 10 місяців тому
Does that make his mental health, his experiences any less important? You have completely missed the point! It's attitudes such as yours that are what is wrong with this World.
@ziyan953
@ziyan953 10 місяців тому
His experience is not less important but in his telling us how we "should" live he communicates that it is more important
@soniab78
@soniab78 10 місяців тому
I'm sorry for your trauma. I'm sorry for everyone's trauma. But thankfully, our personal traumas have not been played out in the public eye and compounded by media moguls, whose intrusions into our private lives have compounded and amplified our trauma purely to make money off of us. Then when we dared to say 'enough!' those same media moguls have not gone on to vilify us out of spite. Imagine your story splashed across multiple papers and news headlines, but they are effectively blaming you for all the things that have traumatized you. Then imagine that happening every single day constantly from the day your traumas began. That is what is happening still to Harry. Having a privileged life has effectively amplified his trauma, not protected him from.
@DonDeeSkee
@DonDeeSkee 10 місяців тому
Harry is a public figure compared to the rest of us. Isn't his advocacy of talking about mental health a good way of starting the conversations in our respective families and workplace? Certainly no one would talk about our own issues except to those that know us. Let us appreciate his compassion and openness instead of bashing him.
@persephone1062
@persephone1062 10 місяців тому
@@pmc8119 Truth!!!
@storeycris
@storeycris 10 місяців тому
Thats all fine, and understandable. There was no need to make such a scandal and drama about it. If you want to live a happier, emotionally gratifying life, just do it quietly, without making such a fuss...if you allow the whole world to pry into your private, most intimate life, then they will destroy you. People love to gossip and pick on the odd one out, like in a chicken coop.
@Caterina...3
@Caterina...3 10 місяців тому
THE WORLD PRIE'S INTO THEIR LIVES!! I don't blame them for wanting to tell their story! Megan went from being a beloved duchess to the most hated woman in the world, literally, in a week's time! Gd forbid, they can't have anyone upstage Catherine so Megan had to go!!! Suddenly she was princess pushy, a narcissist, dragging Harry along, can't have babies of her own. Her mother was a jailbird. If it was bad, it was Megan! They were prolly looking for ways to blame her for the gloomy weather!
@northernbarbarianxyz
@northernbarbarianxyz 10 місяців тому
@katyayani9092 she was never loved. Stop assuming and talk for others. You don't talk for me and my opinion.
@pennyfurr3216
@pennyfurr3216 10 місяців тому
It does show how evil humans really are. They love to jump on people who have suffered.
@kripaharris237
@kripaharris237 10 місяців тому
Meghan took advantage of Harry and encouraged him to commercialize his childhood challenges
@annakeiller2820
@annakeiller2820 11 місяців тому
He is not disliked for talking about mental health. That is a total dishonest spin.
@jenniferwolf545
@jenniferwolf545 11 місяців тому
Thank You so much Dr Rangan for this interview. Dr Gabor Mate' is one of the most advanced humans on the planet . His compassion perception and understanding is so uplifting and helps me to hold onto Hope . I so agree with his perspective on Harry and am grateful to be able to listen to this conversation. Blessings to You both and of course to Harry 🙏💗🌸
@Angelabout1
@Angelabout1 10 місяців тому
I too lost my mother & sister at Harry's age, in a car accident as well! Yes it took years for the healing to begin! You can't go on live TV and expect all the truth to come out when looking for views and money! Secondly I could not start healing until I dealt with my addictions! You can't be stoned out of your mind expecting wholeness! That's the therapy I was taught! Also to be presently in a dysfunctional family let alone what he went through with his RF certainly does not help! People comment how Harry was never touched, give me a break there is a lot of evidence to the contrary !Part of Harry's healing (so he says) was the constant flashes of photographers, yet he has never had it worse with his wife in Cali, Hollywood no less! The day you stop blaming everyone for your life decisions, is when the true healing begins! It's called insight! You can't be yourself until you're truly yourself, off drugs!
@kessa892
@kessa892 9 місяців тому
Maybe during your next session, you could discuss with your therapist how to have a little more empathy and be less a little less judgmental. True healing also starts when you stop trying to find the faults in other people's lives and stop invalidating people's trauma. Also, he said that he takes these drugs in appropriate doses and within a safe environment. It helps to reconnect with himself, who the hell am I to suggest he's lying? Idk why people are acting like he's shooting up with dirty needles in a back alley. Also, I'm sorry to hear about your mother and sister. I would think with the years of healing you've undergone you would know that everybody has different ways of healing. The ayahuasca is only one facet of what seems to be a much larger system of healing for Harry.
@agapitacordova3850
@agapitacordova3850 6 місяців тому
Absolutely. There’s no other way
@TheKim369
@TheKim369 10 місяців тому
I have compassion for how isolating and controlled his life must have been. But this interview drove home a point for me. He's 38 years old, Dr. Mate called him a young man, for every one else on earth, that's an adult. And they've mostly used any extra chances they've had by then. Most people would find themselves deported, without a chest full of medals for military service. I don't wish any harm to come to him, like I said, I bet his childhood was really hard. But when we discover that a criminal or even just a poor person, came from a hard, deprived background, people are so intolerant and judgemental and call it excuse making. I wish some of this compassion for Harry, could transfer to the millions of other people who have come from a hard place and don't end up fabulously wealthy and famous. And I disagree that he is vilified for talking about emotional pain. I think the public has shown a greater than usual tolerance or even interest in his emotional pain, compared to the emotional pain of others. A typical truck driver or nurse wouldn't get nearly as much attention paid to their emotional pain, and would find friends and family and acquaintances withdrawing and even speaking poorly of them behind their backs.
@pmc8119
@pmc8119 10 місяців тому
Gabor is in his 70's so a 38 year old is a young man. Another who has completely missed the point!
@TheKim369
@TheKim369 10 місяців тому
@@pmc8119 That's ok, given time I bet you will.
@Bronte866
@Bronte866 10 місяців тому
A shame people choose to look the other way when spite & dishonesty & certainly cruelty are on public display. I’m sure Harry gave Dr. Matè the truth of his actions knowing he would be publicly discussing him. Corrupt persons are very honest about their corruption, of course.
@soniab78
@soniab78 10 місяців тому
A typical truck driver or nurse wouldn't have their personal trauma amplified by media moguls who splash it across headlines in order to line their own pockets either. Nor publicly vilify them when they decided they had had enough. Effectively turning the nation against them by flooding the world with constant negative stories. Harry is not the villain here. Meghan is not the villain, either. The media moguls & who have paid millions for invasive photographs and hacks into private telephone messages are the villains.
@marinamarini3254
@marinamarini3254 10 місяців тому
@@TheKim369great comment and great reply❤
@nisigate
@nisigate 11 місяців тому
Thanks for interviewing this Doctor I became a new sub I think Prince Harry undermines his own intelligence because all his life he’s been told he’s thick. I beg to differ
@Icemanr85
@Icemanr85 11 місяців тому
Great content. I feel sorry for Prince Harry. Hope he is strong enough to keep going. He had no need to go to his dads coronation. But walked into the event with all eyes on him like a boxer going into the ring. He is a cery brave and strong human being
@Carolina-fn1fg
@Carolina-fn1fg 11 місяців тому
Brave?? He is a coward and a weak man. Get the fog out of your eyes
@littleangel18
@littleangel18 11 місяців тому
Lol 😂 no he’s not. He a coward who backstabbed him own brother who ALSO lost his mother and cruelly discarded his entire British family cos he fell under the spell of a toxic liberal American narcissist who was not fit to be in the BRF.
@NobodyOrdinary
@NobodyOrdinary 11 місяців тому
How brAvE of him to show his face to the family and friends he LIES about! How bRAvE he is to face those to whom he is a traitor - in every sense of the word.
@Icemanr85
@Icemanr85 11 місяців тому
@@NobodyOrdinary royal family aside the only person you need to worry about is your own family. He also fought for his country and is a veteran. Show some god dam respect
@NobodyOrdinary
@NobodyOrdinary 11 місяців тому
@@Icemanr85 show HIM respect? For being in the military? For “serving his country? - a country in which I do not live so save your advice. He’s almost a traitor!! If nothing else, because he wrote exact room layouts in his book that could get his family, The Heads of State, murdered. Because , unlike her and Meghan, the other family members actually have been in real danger. His father has had several assassination attempts. His aunt barely escaped with her life after a kidnapping attempt killed a couple of her bodyguards. Harry and Meghan had a Vespa trailing them from a block behind. 😱
@GlowGetter711
@GlowGetter711 11 місяців тому
He is still a well loved figure in the world . watching from South America . I can’t understand the vitriol and hatred against him . Thank you for this episode.
@booksbucks7591
@booksbucks7591 11 місяців тому
That’s because the majority would rather vilify harry who fell in love got married and respected his wife and family, Robin have an affair! I’m supportive of Camilla who is having an affair with his father throughout his father’s marriage what does that tell you?
@priscillawrites6685
@priscillawrites6685 4 дні тому
It is vital to be nonjudgmental when talking about another’s life and behavior.
@timagination1295
@timagination1295 2 місяці тому
I wonder how our ancestors lived through unimaginable conditions 100 to 300 yrs ago! People who have lived through Childhood trauma will benefit from therapy but they also need some gratitude to the great aspects of their lives! 1st world problems!
@katiehill619
@katiehill619 10 місяців тому
I think Harry has been badly served by his therapists - who seem to have spent their time validating his victim identity --- instead of helping him through the process of healing
@rosehill9537
@rosehill9537 10 місяців тому
I think you need to listen to the video again. U missed where Gabor addresses this idea of Harry as a victim.
@katiehill619
@katiehill619 10 місяців тому
@rosehill9537 not even with a gun to my head. Dr. Mate presented at our hospital a few times over the years....he's got some great attributes, but he's not a psychiatrist - he's an addictions guy. So I don't consider him a therapist, don't feel he was actually doing therapy, nor was I referring to him. Just noting what several professionals have pointed out about talk therapy methods and how badly they have served Harry. It's pretty obvious
@rosehill9537
@rosehill9537 10 місяців тому
@katiehill619 so u are commenting on a video u won't watch? What other experts? Have they spoken to Harry as making any claims about his therapy experience without consultation isn't clinically sound opinion as they have zero idea how he actually is. Unlike Gabor who has spoken to Harry personally. They would be just cashing in on the anti Harry narrative. We have already seen and had other so called experts exposed as liars for hire when it comes to the Sussexes.
@fionanov1948
@fionanov1948 13 днів тому
If, dear, you listen to the intervew, H. does not consider himself a “victim”. The best “therapy” was to seek help, drop the royal handcuffs, leave a dysfunctional family, speak up, make his own business and family decisions, marry, have his own family and want a better more loving life for his children in a beautiful part of California. Good choice on all fronts.
@katiehill619
@katiehill619 13 днів тому
@@fionanov1948 If only he would do that - I'd be all for it. Instead he regularly puts his entitlement, arrogance and lies on display, pretends to be a philanthropist while the 'causes' he supports abuse indigenous people and he does nothing.
@nancyhagan7553
@nancyhagan7553 11 місяців тому
thank you Doctors some people have become so toxic with no empathy or compassion and continually bash him and his family for every little thing they have not shown him and his family any respect at all and i find that these same people would not survive what they dish out to him and his wife they forget he and his wife are also human even if he is a prince all he wants is to live his life with his family and be happy and people do not want them to have that they work pay their bills and do not owe any of these toxic people anything all of us whether black white etc have a responsibility to change the world and bring love and kindness to it we cannot go on as it is with killings of innocent people insults etc
@smallfootprint2961
@smallfootprint2961 10 місяців тому
Harry is my hero. He's had the courage to pull away from that Soap Opera of a 'Royal' family and strike out on his own. The love and support Harry and Meg have for each other, and their family is admirable. You go Harry.
@persephone1062
@persephone1062 10 місяців тому
👍💯....💜✌
@lostundgefunden8023
@lostundgefunden8023 10 місяців тому
And let's hope he gets clean and sober as Harry is NOT just a "recreational" marijuana user, he's an addict whose dysfunctional family enabled him his whole life and now he chose a wife with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder as that feels normal to him.
@countessAugusta
@countessAugusta 10 місяців тому
Yes. The further the better😂
@lostundgefunden8023
@lostundgefunden8023 10 місяців тому
@@countessAugusta Seriously, raised by the dysfunctional family and now married a wife with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder, poor guy is trapped on both ends.
@christinegabriel4684
@christinegabriel4684 10 місяців тому
Some hero. Cares about no one else but himself
@patriciaching6392
@patriciaching6392 10 місяців тому
We have no idea how gifted we are to be ordinary. May Harry find his extraordinary humanity in being ordinary.
@pmc8119
@pmc8119 10 місяців тому
Any person that leaves a toxic family dynamic and can talk about it, is a hero in my book. It amazes me how hateful people have been towards him. People comment that he is a "Prince" and really has nothing to complain about! He's a human being, just like the rest of us and HIS pain is played out in the media.
@persephone1062
@persephone1062 10 місяців тому
Your compassionate, well stated response warms my heart and gives me hope!!! 🙏
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 10 місяців тому
@pmc8119. I absolutely agree 💯. I went no contact from my family of origin over 20 years ago. I’ve been supportive of Harry from day one. I understood him always bc I’ve done what he’s done and experienced nothing but venom and literally hatred from my own family and so called friends. It took a lot to do what I did but I had to for my own survival and peace. It is such a joke that in our country we have a MENTAL HEALTH AWARENESS DAY. We are such a small minority who really try to recover from severe abuse and neglect. The only support we get are in cyber places like this. It is disgusting.
@hardy2175
@hardy2175 10 місяців тому
Harry had no compassion for his own dying grandparents nor for the aged Thomas Markle.And qhe wants to teach the world.
@anojadharmapala306
@anojadharmapala306 11 місяців тому
This sad drama we look at it from a another country as whole British nation having a blind eye on emotional mental health issues and childhood trauma. There's no compassion or empathy from Royal family members, public or media to Harry and his family. Harry is a good example of person who went through childhood truma and still suffering mental health issues but try to empower others by his book and interview but it failed. When it comes to Crown no compassion for weak emotions and feelings. You need to be tough and brave. The duty to country come first. They forget Royal family humans with feelings. They need to have strict Occupational Health & Safety policies for Royal family on mental health issues as Public Servants. They are working royals should allowed to have stress leave. May be they have already.
@thoughtsfromathenasreality
@thoughtsfromathenasreality 10 місяців тому
Harry, stay strong and lift your head up high. Let out the pain no matter what they tell you! It helps other people who had trauma as kids. The so call ROYALE family only care about how they appear to other people. Its all about pride!
@karinbernhardt8747
@karinbernhardt8747 9 місяців тому
I guess the RF is worried. But i do hope Harry will make a good decision, and find his way back. Wherever he belongs. 🍀👍
@margaretakange4263
@margaretakange4263 10 місяців тому
Finally, a voice of reason. The truth will set you free. And for those who vilify Harry, they need therapy.And they should know that the royals are human beings just like them and should not make them out to be what they’re not.
@ana-OM
@ana-OM 10 місяців тому
I am so furtune to listen to Gabor Maté on humanity, on childhood, on mental health...and here on Harry and how people's expectations are. To me, it's astonishing how grown-ups depende on glamour and power of king's, queen's, and princesses to represent theire own dignity and country, and point finger with disgust when theire soapbubble collapses. It seems like a hole country is collapsing when a royal member goes his own way. Strange, strange.
@emjay3344
@emjay3344 10 місяців тому
"Because he is speaking about something you are not supposed to speak about" this not only made sense to me in the context of Harry but also the reaction of my grown children when I left their father.
@shannonsnowwhite2301
@shannonsnowwhite2301 11 місяців тому
A question I ask adults as well as teenagers is if you could describe in 4 words what it was like growing up as a child in your environment with your caregivers/parents what words would you use to describe your experience? Very eye opening the words that come up. Part of my long drawn out healing (continued) process in understanding my own life with what the environment looked like for me growing up with my parents was not a very loving environment as a child. The world will ask you to ‘be strong’ and after years or carrying on In strength, weakness must take place and tied strings must be cut in the process. I realized the triggers in my life that were repeatedly perpetuating the inflammation taking shape in my body that would become chronic. I eventually became sick and realize that if I don’t continue to remove distractions that effect me negatively out of my life in order to preserve myself for as long as my energy and time left on earth will permit me, my life expectancy will shorten further for the heartache I’ve endured in suffering for in the deck of cards I was dealt. As humans, let us not walk around earth in auto-pilot mode. What we see in others is what we see in our self. Reflections. That is if you consider yourself to be human. Any kind will do.
@malinichandra6953
@malinichandra6953 11 місяців тому
true
@marialaing7130
@marialaing7130 10 місяців тому
Thank you. 🙏🏼💝❤️‍🩹💝❤️‍🩹
@gointothedogs4634
@gointothedogs4634 10 місяців тому
Beautiful comment. I wish you much success and understanding in your healing process. I'm 72 and had things triggered several years ago about my mother, that I thought were long ago put to rest. I was recently in a women's circle where one of the gals who is my age was sharing the same things coming up for her that she thought she'd dealt with. The psyche allows understanding to come as we're ready for it. 😍
@privateprivate4384
@privateprivate4384 10 місяців тому
desperate terrified lonely sad
@shannonsnowwhite2301
@shannonsnowwhite2301 10 місяців тому
@@privateprivate4384 Thank you for sharing your words to describe how you felt. May I ask what your words look like today to describe how feel today?
@susan6437
@susan6437 11 місяців тому
I feel he is deeply spiritual and seeking with fervor to know the meaning of life. ♥️🌹
@helenamaria710
@helenamaria710 11 місяців тому
🙄
@captainbarbosa6567
@captainbarbosa6567 11 місяців тому
Lol who exactly 👀
@persephone1062
@persephone1062 10 місяців тому
I agree 1000% and I am so grateful you shared this comment, although I fear that too few will be sufficiently open in heart, mind or spirit to see or appreciate it.
@hussainanoordeen5754
@hussainanoordeen5754 10 місяців тому
First rule of spirituality is NOT HURTING others. That is the most important part. Harry has done nothing but that ever since he married. How did this individual realise all this ONLY Fter marriage? I would like to ask dr. Gabor..
@persephone1062
@persephone1062 10 місяців тому
@@hussainanoordeen5754 Not true... Both Harry AND Will talked together publicly about this issue long before Harry married...
@lindadupuis1531
@lindadupuis1531 11 місяців тому
I was also raised without physical touch. I don’t feel deprived at all. But I married a man who was extremely absent in the physical touch and words of affirmation areas. That I did resent. I put as much physical touch into my children until they didn’t want it. I have one child who didn’t want to be hugged and today she doesn’t like physical touch even when her husband puts his arm around her. I think some people just don’t need it as much or even like it. I am not one to hug much except my grandchildren. I love them up to bits but they never liked it much either. It’s so dependent on your personal love language and need.
@martinadewsnap2337
@martinadewsnap2337 10 місяців тому
'I was also raised without physical touch.' I don’t feel deprived at all???? But I married a man who was extremely absent in the physical touch and words of affirmation areas.' If you had been shown love, you might not have wanted to be married with someone not showing love as it is so important for you and your children. You have obviously suffered some form of trauma from it.
@gointothedogs4634
@gointothedogs4634 10 місяців тому
I'm not a psychiatrist but have worked with autistic and high functioning Aspergers individuals. Sometimes this is a symptom. I came across an interesting video recently called "Adults with autism." Almost deleted it but watched and learned that it described many of the behaviors I experienced with a difficult house guest recently who also doesn't like touch and other things.
@lindadupuis1531
@lindadupuis1531 8 місяців тому
@@martinadewsnap2337 you’re so right. I wouldn’t have thought it was okay to live without it even though I craved it. I later went on to be with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder who love bombed me and I didn’t see the flags. I was so starved for affection, that didn’t end well as you can imagine. I’ve been alone for 13 yrs now.
@soniab78
@soniab78 10 місяців тому
I've gotten so used to ignoring anything on social media about Harry and Meghan, due to not wanting to give them the clicks for the algorithms. It's a refreshing change to hear Harry treated with compassion. Thankyou!
@persephone1062
@persephone1062 10 місяців тому
👍💯🙏
@julieprince5538
@julieprince5538 11 місяців тому
I feel so bad for Harry and the hate being spewed at him!
@3pleSss
@3pleSss 11 місяців тому
His haters are just petty and jealous of him.
@soulpowerful
@soulpowerful 11 місяців тому
He dishes out a lot of hate as well so he has to expect a response.
@gugah6895
@gugah6895 11 місяців тому
@@soulpowerful ....Are you speaking from a point of propaganda or what you know to be the actual truth?
@NobodyOrdinary
@NobodyOrdinary 11 місяців тому
Harry has openly shown support for the Sussex Squad, a vitriolic and Hateful group if there ever was one.
@ceejaymmpee
@ceejaymmpee 6 місяців тому
@@soulpowerfulwhat hate has he dished out
@amberrichards8078
@amberrichards8078 11 місяців тому
So refreshing to hear someone that is understanding and kind, and balanced in their analysis of Prince Harry’s situation. I have made sure I have watched interviews and the Netflix series and halfway through the book Spare, so I can make my own mind up about his situation. I have been constantly shocked how venomous people are: unkind and indeed toxic. I am always defending them when my family are speaking about them. So many people seem to have gotten on the treadmill of bullying. I may not agree with all that H&M have done but like you said we all make mistakes. Thanks for sharing
@MPZambrano1977
@MPZambrano1977 11 місяців тому
To my mind, it was Harry and Meghan who started the venom and bullying against the royal family, and it has been done in a very public manner. What you sow is what you reap. Their statements of victimhood, they made in the O.W interview, which they instigated, their Netflix mock of royal protocol, the attacks against his brother and Camilla, amongst others, in his book "Spare"..... and the list goes on..... All that publicity and revelations, were THEIR doing!.....and then they blame the press, because it disputes their narrative. In the meantime, they use the press all the time to stay in the public eye, because they know that no news about them, is worse than bad news, just like toddlers throw tantrums to get attention. I do thank M&H for teaching the world, that when you throw spite at others, it will come back at you, with at least twice the force, to hit you like a boomerang.
@jomoon9391
@jomoon9391 11 місяців тому
The establishment murdered his mother, he must be so confused and angry. I am disgusted how people are treating him and Megan. He has had the courage to break the illusion of the "firn" the royal family are a corrupt mafia with a bunch of pedophiles, Andrew, his uncle Mount Batton and the amount of sex offenders who where knighted. As a UK citizen i am absolutely done with the monarchy, our queen is dead, the adulterous queen we have now is nothing more than a fanily wrecker a jezabell spirit, definitely not the actions of a Godly women, we are Christian country with a whore as a queen, if this family lived in our towns we would shun them.
@cynthiamartini8982
@cynthiamartini8982 11 місяців тому
Queen Elizabeth quite rightly, shook his hand in public and you have no clue how she was in private.
@lilaccilla
@lilaccilla 10 місяців тому
Thank You ! this is the truth as I see it also
@lastakocjancic8677
@lastakocjancic8677 11 місяців тому
Thank you so much for this beautiful video. 🇭🇷
@natureisallpowerful
@natureisallpowerful 11 місяців тому
Someone said once it may of been gabor, that regardless of circumstances, wealth etc is irrelevant as your trauma is your trauma.
@chelseyfrancismccarthy4214
@chelseyfrancismccarthy4214 11 місяців тому
The Royal history is one of demonic ritualistic atrocities which would shock the majority of people's on earth if it was known, who are we to judge the attitude of Prince Harry, knowing only what the living.m.d.m. feed us ?? Surely the past 3 years should open the eyes the reality of basic facts of this ?!@#
@chelseyfrancismccarthy4214
@chelseyfrancismccarthy4214 11 місяців тому
Re. Lieing controlled m.s.m.
@upendasana7857
@upendasana7857 11 місяців тому
Yes trauma is trauma but there is no doubt and enough stats to show that lack of financial stabiltiy,access to decent healthcare,housing etc and the stresses of poverty are another compounded factor in any trauma. Yes Harry experienced traums as Gabor described and also the particualr traums of being in the limelight and under scrutiny which is in itself a trauma of a kind but he aslo has access to wealth and help that is totally beyond most people. Harry's circumstances are so rare and unique that for most of us it is almost unrelatable other than relating to a parent dying or unhappy marriage or dysfucntional family and lies etc.But Harrys's circumstances are so far from most peoples lives and the soliders he worked with and is supposed to be reoresenting have barely had access to housing and MH treatment.the maount of soliders who die by suicide is higher than those killed in battle. Maybe Harry needs to talk more about those he was supposed to be representing in his charity work and less about himself or if only to show how he is able to relate.It hs become a media cricus now and totally about him.
@natureisallpowerful
@natureisallpowerful 11 місяців тому
@@upendasana7857 I don't mind harry, I just believe that she is narcissistic, self centred and egotistical. Shes dangerous and hes bought into it unfortunately. He's a fool .But he will learn,only through pain and something going wrong etc. But I agree it's not a bad position to be in socially, financially etc.
@earthdakini
@earthdakini 11 місяців тому
I couldn’t agree more Drs Mate & Chatterjee. The senseless vilification of Prince Harry is a sad indictment of the depth of sheer ignorance & blind prejudice in the media & sadly most of the people of Britain & I find it not unlike witnessing predatory crocodiles on a feeding frenzy , sickening ! 💕🙏💕
@ALT-vz3jn
@ALT-vz3jn 11 місяців тому
The vilification of Harry started when he lied about the RF. Before he pulled that most people had compassion for him. It’s his own fault.
@user-nr2pe9dx5z
@user-nr2pe9dx5z 10 місяців тому
Thank you for talking about Prince Harry's issues. I feel so sad, he and his little family persistently facing negative comments from Media
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